It wasn't so much a secret, they're just not into seeking unwanted attention. It's been known for years. I like how they deal with they're relationship. The folks who needed to know, did. I'm happy for them.
@mistymojones9280
5 ай бұрын
That's how they been able to stay together and happy... Keeping it Secret!!
@NajSinghs
5 ай бұрын
💯
@deepdarkcocoa7956
5 ай бұрын
THAT'S the secret to a long lasting relationship. Lol😂
@lisasession6917
5 ай бұрын
❤
@deewoo2776
5 ай бұрын
That's the best kept secret 😀
@kecola
5 ай бұрын
I went from never even knowing they were dating to being SO happy for them still being together 😂 Thank you for this video Lailah!
@Yourstruly4.0
5 ай бұрын
Right 😂
@soriyazz
5 ай бұрын
Absolutely. Ironically I came across this last week. Thank you for reporting with lailah. He got himself a tall drink of water baby.😂😂
@deconteeko7446
5 ай бұрын
Same 😄!
@kiracarter5454
5 ай бұрын
Being spotted together at a Farmer's Market is the Greenest Flag ❤
@rudolphmcneill515
5 ай бұрын
I like that. ❤
@AMJ360
5 ай бұрын
Ikr 😂❤
@suebeefly08
5 ай бұрын
If you plant your rose bush on the curb, folks will pick all your roses, if you plant your rose bush in the backyard the folks you invite will admire your rose bush and not try too destroy it! They were smart, their rose bush is flourish in their backyard 🌹🥰💯
@Love-scripture
5 ай бұрын
🤐😉
@MrsMoore1
5 ай бұрын
I love this analogy!! Thank you for sharing!!
@BlackCreekAlabama
5 ай бұрын
Very wise words! ❤❤
@bobbiewright1500
5 ай бұрын
Look at Goldie hawn & Kirk Russell together for decades without being married ; same temptess & Darryl our Goldie & Kirk !
@simonsez1787
5 ай бұрын
No, they’re our Tempest and Darryl.
@keishajpmes1103
5 ай бұрын
They both look so good continued happiness to them
@cecily387
5 ай бұрын
It appears the following has helped with their longevity: 1. Compatibility 2. Privacy 3. Not being married 4. Not having children 5. Genuine like for each other.
@zzizahacallar
5 ай бұрын
Facts!
@Ms_Neffie
5 ай бұрын
Yes 🙌🏽
@myopinionnotyours.6053
5 ай бұрын
💯
@sonyab2u974
5 ай бұрын
Exactly!
@Nottha1
5 ай бұрын
Heavy on #4
@Cxn213
5 ай бұрын
That's the issue in this generation. Men & women want superficial love. She said they are compatible due to personality, but folks today see a woman who is darker than them & women see a man shorter than them & right away, they eliminate a potential mate due to petty reasons 😢
@RepentImmediately
5 ай бұрын
Being colorstruck definitely didn't start with this generation...the older generations tend to be the most colorstruck
@sonyab2u974
5 ай бұрын
@@RepentImmediatelyTrue
@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302
5 ай бұрын
Facts @@RepentImmediately
@kathyrodriguez820
5 ай бұрын
I believe in marriage but it's great their relationship has survived for so long.
@urabeastgirl
5 ай бұрын
In my Gina’s voice…I DON’T KNOWABOUT DIS!!!! 😂
@alexiskarin
5 ай бұрын
It’s not great to God🥴
@urabeastgirl
5 ай бұрын
@@alexiskarin Amen!!!! 🙏🏽 👏🏾
@blacknerdygirlsrock
5 ай бұрын
Marriage is a joke. Let people live how they see fit.
@blacknerdygirlsrock
5 ай бұрын
@@alexiskarinwhat’s not? Your belief in GOD only applies to you. You don’t know what other people believe in.
@mammajamma4397
5 ай бұрын
I DEFINITELY need more stories like this!
@sugaray7435
5 ай бұрын
Reminds me of the episode of A different world when Vanessa was visiting Hillman, her and her friend fell for Ron and Dewayne immediately lied about who they were bc Dewayne had fallen for Denise all to get caught by Clair! 😂 Edit: Wrote this before I even watched the video lol
@hereforit2347
5 ай бұрын
They had a reality show for a hot second. Tempestt is running that show. Believe me. Bledsoe is BOSS! 😂😂
@S.AnnMarie
5 ай бұрын
I remember ❤the show
@sassyk471
5 ай бұрын
True. He wasn't good with money. His dad left him his business and he lost it all.
@hereforit2347
5 ай бұрын
@@S.AnnMarie: And Tempestt is the leader in that relationship. Darryl plays the incompetent funny guy, always cracking jokes and never taking anything seriously. Tempestt is the bossy, serious, business-minded one who makes things happen. Whatever works. 😆
@sonyab2u974
5 ай бұрын
@@sassyk471well she’s smart to not marry him
@TheScentConnoisseur
5 ай бұрын
Exactly! It's HER who isn't interested in marrying...and it's fine because that seems to be what's best for them. Plus they don't have children. Which will often stress a relationship out.
@TheRealCcE
5 ай бұрын
I love how Darryl wears a suit when he goes on tv interviews. I like the professionalism.
@MAAT1111
5 ай бұрын
It's refreshing to hear of a joyful relationship. Many blessings to them. 💚💚💚
@naturallydope6971
5 ай бұрын
I love the fact that they kept their business out of the limelight especially the social media world
@aatley
5 ай бұрын
Probably why they were able to stay together for so long! Everything is not our business💁🏾♀️
@bnai215
5 ай бұрын
I love these 2 together! Yes...feels like my childhood friends.
@anthonygriffin1958
5 ай бұрын
I believe the same can be said about the relationships of Mr. Stedman Graham & Ms. Oprah Winfrey, who have been a couple since 1986. Mr. Kurt Russell & Ms. Goldie Hawn, who have been a couple (while having a baby in the process) since 1983. ❤❤
@soulsister1976
5 ай бұрын
I hope Cosby's shenanigans haven't hurt their coins too bad🤞
@4evermistyblu
5 ай бұрын
She has the best natural hair in the game!!! I get my hair inspiration from her. I think they are so cute together as well.
@robinrouse146
5 ай бұрын
I agree with you Lailah, they do make a cute couple. Obviously, they found the formula that keeps them together; much love to them and continued success! Thank you for sharing this story.
@TyneilMcNally
5 ай бұрын
I am happy for both of them if they found love and they have another loving relationship 30 years that is a blessing. You know that is a blessing and that’s all you can say. I wanna be something that I would do personally but I’m happy for them.
@MeSeXXXygIgI
5 ай бұрын
i was a casino dealer in 1995 in gary, indiana they came to my table with Tempest Mother and played black jack with me for 7 hours til i went home (talk about FUN) they were very lovey dovey and he would take the cherry off the top of her drink and feed it to her ... i respected their privacy and i really had FUN dealing to them they tipped me REALLY WELL and i found out her Mother knows My Father being they both were teachers in Chicago ... thank you for making me remember this .. i desire they KEEP enjoying each others company.
@TequilliaWhitley
5 ай бұрын
I assisted the different world cast on their trip to New York just recently. & I can confirm that Tempest was present during the DC leg of their tour. I had no idea, they dated. I was puzzled when I seen her with the cast. As, I knew she was an actress on the Cosby show. I had never seen the episode with her on a different world. But now it all makes sense after watching your video as to why she was there.
@jboogie6326
5 ай бұрын
I luv it!!! Especially since back then Vanessa was not seen as the catch compared to Denise! Light skin women when I was growing up (I’m brown skin) was the prime choice so it’s great!!! Very organic…💯
@SabaliBGDC
5 ай бұрын
Lailah do one on punky Brewster co-star and Waldo
@MzSparkle-j2s
5 ай бұрын
DO HE HAVE A JOB??? He lost over $40 Million…
@ForeverLuxeDesigns
5 ай бұрын
Why won't they legitimize their relationship? Trust me when it comes to generational wealth, POA, and emergency surgeries/procedures if you aren't family you cannot have a say or sign documents
@naphisa340
5 ай бұрын
Your background looks so beautiful...like Kandi Burrus's home.
@jacquelinesmith6255
5 ай бұрын
He got me messed up Tempest blink if your ok honey.....
@TheHeat205Network
5 ай бұрын
Y'all ain't tired of stalking and researching people business all day everyday yet? Wow
@teaksafiya
5 ай бұрын
I thought they were married all this time. I’m glad they are standing the test of time
@naturalcurlyhair8331
5 ай бұрын
No marriage, wasting time. Even working at a job you're getting benefits. No sugar coating or being mean.
@t.m.3769
5 ай бұрын
What benefits do you need? You can get a life insurance policy, Medical directive, will and establish and estate if you want financial security. All without involving the legal system in your relationship. Have a ceremony in front of your family, close friends and pastor. That's really all that's needed. Especially if you don't have children.
@ImaPYT61
4 ай бұрын
Not everyone wants or needs to be married and there's nothing wrong with that.
@Winnib7479
5 ай бұрын
Or , this could be a Janet Jackson situation, being married but not advertising it. 🤷♀️
@BlvckHouzWyf_Inc
5 ай бұрын
True marriage isnt just about a wedding and ring!!! Thats man made marriage 😒…GOD MADE MARRIAGE IS SPIRITUAL AND STRICKLY ABOUT COMMITMENT AND LOYALTY!! True love moves silently…its not loud or boastful!! Me and my husband are the same way…we are very private and are most happiest moments are cherished and kepy sacred ❤😁!! Sooo happy for them!! Some of the most HAPPIEST COUPLES and Longest marriages ARE NOT ON SOCIAL MEDIA LMAO!!😜
@lpgilber
5 ай бұрын
People outside of Hollywood aren't lasting as long. One of my cousins got married and about three years. Then about three years later, I heard he moved out.
@virginiamaldonado1963
5 ай бұрын
Like that old saying goes… If it ain’t broke, don’t fix
@mjbelle23
5 ай бұрын
I’m sorry man the 80&90s casket ready foundation for black women is hard to look back at lol
@chill3113
5 ай бұрын
😊OMGOODNESS, this my definitely my era as I was maturing, and growing during the 80’s! What a beautiful blessing for the younger generations to see-recognize you truly can grow 🌱🌱🌱🪴in Love ❤️ with that ONE! 🤗I am so happy for the two of them. I’m think they are perfect for each other. 🤭WHO knew, (30) thirty years? 🤩They have the GOOD Secret Sauce!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! They’re both have old school values and upbringing and they blend well together and I do love the fact that they’re low key, humble, and down to earth human beings. They’re enjoying each other and respecting one another and not so bothered with craziness of today’s society like all the glamour and glitz of the larger cities throughout the world 🌎. I wished them many more blessings be bestowed upon them! I only pray 🙏🏾 that they just go ahead and tie the knot 🪢 according to the word of God? Who knows they may have already done just that and it can possibly just be kept secret? I am happy for them and I pray many more years of togetherness for them. 🙏🏾
@amethystjess18
5 ай бұрын
At 6:28 Darryl looks like he is related to Raven Simone! Maybe that's just me? 😜😂😂
@shirleyjacobs1912
5 ай бұрын
George and wesie Jefferson reboot. The Jeffersons, or George and wesie.
@daniyellpayne9033
5 ай бұрын
I'm not playing house with someone for 30 years. The key statement for me is the genuine "like" not "love" for each other. However, if they like it, then I love it. :). They're too damn old for their youngster mindset.
@tamikalee4441
5 ай бұрын
Thank You🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 …… You the only one on here with comment sense 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@DB-vt1kk
5 ай бұрын
Nobody asked you to play house. It works for them. Y’all be so worried about getting ya lil ring and bragging to your girlfriends 😂
@daniyellpayne9033
5 ай бұрын
@@DB-vt1kk I said what I wouldn't DO! I guess YOU missed that part.
@tamikalee4441
5 ай бұрын
@@DB-vt1kk Playing house will get you in HELL 👹👹👹👹👹!!!!!!
@tamikalee4441
5 ай бұрын
@@DB-vt1kk You just not a smart person with common sense 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
@naturalcurlyhair8331
5 ай бұрын
These young girls are settling for any and everything. It's sad. You have the man's baby, not married. He does criminal activity, gets locked up in jail. They pay and support them. Then waiting on him while he's serving a lot of years.
@MsMoneyonMyMind
5 ай бұрын
ADW was such a huge part of my childhood and these 2 are like my big cousins in my mind, lol. Glad to see they’re still going strong ❤
@2intriguing1
5 ай бұрын
They are absolutely beautiful together ❤️ many more Years of continued happiness and love together!!
@properlybonafidetv7172
5 ай бұрын
Darryl’s black leather trench took me all the way back and I got so many feels! I miss the 90s!!!🎯🎯🎯
@angiebee2993
5 ай бұрын
They are doing what works for them and that is what is most important and I think they make a nice couple
@eclecticmindstyle1997
5 ай бұрын
They look good and healthy too
@SincerelySedae
5 ай бұрын
Happily unmarried 💀💀💀😂😂😭😭 Still pro-marriage, but good for them.
@pampam2831
5 ай бұрын
No mention of children. Any knows about that. 30 years is a lifetime, children should be grown.
@xo_fattie
5 ай бұрын
This is nothing new to me they been together for yearrrrssssss and never married 🙄
@zzizahacallar
5 ай бұрын
Thank you for updating us. It brings back memories. I ❤ both ADW and Cosby Show.
@flowersandoranges
5 ай бұрын
I dont think secretive is the word. Its private. AKA none of our business lol. i'm so happy to see that they've made it all these years.
@ruthharper2499
5 ай бұрын
This is a smart couple doing everything right and that’s why their relationship is solid. There not needy or constantly seeking attention like most celebrities, there just being themselves with no pressure attached. This is a great couple❤
@atlsongbyrd6084
5 ай бұрын
🤷🏻♀️ This wasn’t a secret and they have a show together that was a scary reality show.
@myopinionnotyours.6053
5 ай бұрын
I'm not in the belief that being married means you're automatically happy, unfortunately most marriages are in shambles. In my opinion and observations. I always tell my man I don't want a ring; I just want genuine happiness that's my prerogative.
@qlg8574
5 ай бұрын
Their relationship is not a secret. In fact, they have had a couple of reality shows together. They are low key and not in the spot light.
@serenelyfe5
5 ай бұрын
Tempestt had the best episodes on The Cosby Show; love her!
@perryrice4149
5 ай бұрын
I Too have been with my boyfriend for 28 years. And my friends always say. girl how you doing. Y'all have been together longer than married couples. We have fun together he is my best friend. Yes I can get married at any time. But I am wondering do they have any children together 🤔. 🙆🏽♀️
@Liiinda4
5 ай бұрын
It’s weird because if something happens to him God forbid, or vice versa, you won’t have any legal rights to make important decisions.
@ThatsEunice
5 ай бұрын
I love their relationship. They are funny together.
@lovegreen7414
5 ай бұрын
Their relationship is not a secret, they had a whole show today, on TV, showing them living together.
@DeborahSmith-zr9bi
5 ай бұрын
After 30 together why get married lol me I would have wanted to be man and wife
@laurenearly7625
5 ай бұрын
Y’all young 🤭 cause us old school people been knew 🤭🤭
@thereviewhourwithEpodcast
5 ай бұрын
I enjoyed this commentary. 😊
@Ms.Peach77
5 ай бұрын
Hi Lailah, your makeup looks amazing. Do you mind sharing the brand and color of your lipstick?
@me21464
5 ай бұрын
This is not secretive! They been together forever!!
@selenat264
5 ай бұрын
It's not a secret. It's just none of our business. 😮😮
@MsDisneylandlover
5 ай бұрын
Lol
@tinastardust7793
5 ай бұрын
I am so glad you did a story on them! The last picture that I saw of Tempestt Bledsoe, she and Darryl were at an event and she looked terrible, like she could barely stand up, she looked very sick. She doesn't have social media, so I was worried how she was doing. I'm so glad to see that she is looking and doing well! Thank you!!!
@missosbynum9787
5 ай бұрын
I'm happy for them.
@xxmoniquexx1966
5 ай бұрын
They've been together forever...
@number1lebronfan953
5 ай бұрын
Secretive......PRIVATE!
@TyneilMcNally
5 ай бұрын
I m Happy for them I love to see black love ❤️
@valriebrown3574
5 ай бұрын
Love them together ❤️👍
@nellyismotivated7839
5 ай бұрын
I love this so much! ❤🖤
@hiawathaclemons
Ай бұрын
Most celebrated shacked up couple in Black Hollywood.🤷🏽♂️don’t @ me for speaking the truth.
@kennethdrake7686
5 ай бұрын
Another one!!!! Great video as per usual! I love the Kandi living room background one of my faves from any franchise! It’s just like her eclectic pretty and sophisticated with a whimsical vibe!
@mintoriaadams4076
3 ай бұрын
I just saw this video today is 6/24 and yes they are the Goldie and Kurt. THEY'RE still 2gether I saw them and the cast of a DW doing a press tour of HBCU. They are promoting black enrollment for HBCU and I saw the also on Sherri Sheppard Show 😊
@imher2462
5 ай бұрын
In sin 30 yrs smh
@laurapatrick4405
5 ай бұрын
Im happy they are still going strong especially coming from the industry they were from.......Im interested to know if they have kids?
@EvesGonnaEve
5 ай бұрын
I love how they keep their relationship to themselves and just live their lives. And after being together all of these years and being just fine, no sense in getting married unless they both decide that's what's best for them. Good for them and hopefully they remain happy together. I bet keeping ppl out of their business and minding their own business has helped with their longevity, esp as a hollywood couple.
@ZariahsCreations
5 ай бұрын
I’m glad they are able to thrive in Hollyweird as a couple still. ❤️
@cindythefootwasher2900
5 ай бұрын
It's great for any couple to be able to keep their personal business private, especially when they're of celebrity status. However, only the enemy will make it appear like being involved with someone for 30 years, and living together as an unmarried couple is okay. Looking cute together, ain't it.
@2blessed2bstressed777
5 ай бұрын
_I Love It!! I Do!_ ❤
@birdiebanks
5 ай бұрын
I’m happy for them ❤😊
@ishaonpurpose
5 ай бұрын
There’s a difference between keeping people out of your business and being secretive.
@Blakpepa
5 ай бұрын
I wonder why they've never had any kids
@Sharewitme
5 ай бұрын
Their relationship is not a secret. I'm sure their friends and family know.
@tiagirl757
5 ай бұрын
I remembered that they were dating! Amazed that they are still together!!!! Wow!!! I loved her and liked her show.
@trinigul7339
5 ай бұрын
Yep..Ron & Vanessa❤❤❤
@AnitaNewport
2 ай бұрын
Is it really a secret if no one gives a damn? Honestly. He was they literally plays themselves on Real Husbands.
@AzariW8
5 ай бұрын
Not Vanessa & Ron
@kittythejackson
5 ай бұрын
I love this for them. Married or not, I love that they lasted so long and stayed happy.
@spicyhot2552
5 ай бұрын
I''m happy for them! L❤VE is a beautiful thing when it's with the right person ❤❤
@KariH8
5 ай бұрын
They are not so much of a secret as a couple. They did a mini reality show a few years ago and some of the episodes are on KZitem. I guess the media never showed much interest in them as a couple because they are not about drama.
@Latasha-qz1lz
5 ай бұрын
Good for them both for making it work.
@fiestyblktina1237
5 ай бұрын
I think it's great hope they get married I guess they also decided not to have children which is ok
@DisTewMuch
5 ай бұрын
I love them!!! 😍
@missladyanonymity
5 ай бұрын
Private. Not secretive.
@audreyroselove2190
5 ай бұрын
Great seeing a face with your voice..all the best with your channel.
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