Respect. That’s a woman who understands what being a responsible adult is.
@anastasiamoreno274
8 ай бұрын
An adult in general grown ups now days act like children
@uhfyshalfro913
7 ай бұрын
It's sad that we even feel like we should be commending these grown ass adults to do the BARE minimum
@-MacCloud-
7 ай бұрын
@@uhfyshalfro913 Maybe. But we should do it anyway. Not offer them an actual commendation, of course, but throwing a little positivity towards a behaviour or trait reinforces it within society. It also costs us nothing.
@tylerbutler8359
7 ай бұрын
@@anastasiamoreno274those are not grown ups, those are not adults, those are immature adolescents
@kintsukuroi6300
7 ай бұрын
@@tylerbutler8359 Is not about immaturity is about brokenness, never healing past emotional wounds, is co-dependent behavior that many times is generational because it was learned at home and in other relationships. The issue is the LACK of interest for personal growth, reflexion about your life and past lessons. People spent a lot of $$$ on hairdos, wigs, nails, clothing, phones, watches, cars wanting the best and most expensive but they DO NOT INVEST in therapy, self-help books, activities/courses that promote emotional healing, growth.
@devinediva229
6 ай бұрын
The issue is not only boundaries but also respect for her current relationship.
@weemsmusicgroup7546
6 ай бұрын
Boundaries means respect for your current relationship. 💯 “Synonymous” When you respect who you’re with, you’ll create boundaries…☝🏾
@corneliuselbourne1044
6 ай бұрын
Exactly, she allowing her feeling to overcome her better judgement.
@taheemwilliams6709
6 ай бұрын
@devinediva229 not only she doesn't have no boundaries, she doesn't no respect for current relationship, she have to learn how to draw the line.
@MelissaShaw-mw2rj
5 ай бұрын
She's doing it behind his back. If he has known the entire relationship that she looks out for him then I don't see an issue. Now if it's financial because he is just lazy or something then there is an issue.
@Mac_Raymond
5 ай бұрын
🎯
@madz2013
Ай бұрын
God she's gorgeous AND she's smart, not even fair 😭
@goddesscaryn
Ай бұрын
You are Gorgeous too! And im sure you are just as smart! I try to be real like this lady is and I feel like people cant handle the truth!
@shanshan6948
28 күн бұрын
@@goddesscaryn Listen… she was paying someone a compliment… by doing that she wasn’t putting herself down or valuing herself any less… it’s okay to pay a woman a compliment sista… 😅
@dabooba260
21 күн бұрын
@@shanshan6948YOU GET A COMPLIMENT! YOU GET A COMPLIMENT! EVERYBODY GETS A FKING COMPLIMENTTTTTTTTTTTT
@Callion-z9c
21 күн бұрын
This is not smart advice, this is single advice.
@madz2013
21 күн бұрын
@@goddesscaryn thank you love 🩵🩵🩵🩵
@michaelmclean7747
29 күн бұрын
That also means he has still access to more than just friendship.
@KuruptdMuzik
19 күн бұрын
🎯
@lamontwilliams575
10 күн бұрын
CHEEKS BEST BELIEVE
@TheCrimebaby
8 ай бұрын
That confident speaking voice is everything ✨️
@rorbot_SMF
8 ай бұрын
Feminine and fine with a rational mind 😮💨✨
@OG_2pence
8 ай бұрын
Hmmmm there will be men out their that would instantly class her as masculine, Purley because they know they wouldn't be able to eff with her. But would try if they think they could .
@marystrawberry2101
8 ай бұрын
Daaaang love her
@MukoroJr
8 ай бұрын
She sound like man
@mrs82897
8 ай бұрын
Or delusional toxicity
@tmsfrequency7848
9 ай бұрын
"babygirl, you an enabler" She was bouta read ole girl
@vanitystyleco9086
9 ай бұрын
That’s what I said…
@MsTheresa7412
9 ай бұрын
Right!! We need the rest of that sentence!! 😢😢
@chinwenduchinwe586
9 ай бұрын
@tms... And...she needs to be read. Why she wasting the boyfriend's time for two years, when he could have been gone to find the woman he's really suppose to be with.
@tinyking11
9 ай бұрын
Read her for filth 🔥❤️😮💨
@tanyalicious7447
9 ай бұрын
He's possibly an enabler too or she has him believing she will stop looking out. Or never mentioned until recently that she does or how often she does
@johnnygoode-1919
Ай бұрын
This women needs to be heard! She speaks truth
@rickt8325
Ай бұрын
She was spot on, that is what kills most relationships today, setting boundaries and not breaking them is super important, boundaries can be the deciding factor if two people will stay together or not,
@theleoperspective7884
28 күн бұрын
So true, those boundaries happen due to respect...And the lack of respect leads to lack of boundaries...That means the person isn't ready for that relationship...
@hooverity
20 күн бұрын
Guys can't have boundaries though cuz that's insecurity somehow 😂
@eliotheeternal
4 ай бұрын
“YOU DONT HAVE NO BOUNDARIES “🤣🤣💯
@Joey-lg6qn
3 ай бұрын
or edges
@seygra20
3 ай бұрын
@@Joey-lg6qn lol
@jasimenmetcalf1870
3 ай бұрын
@@Joey-lg6qn😂😂😂😂 was looking for this comment
@telitubbiees
3 ай бұрын
@@jasimenmetcalf1870SAME
@dallaslibra8514
3 ай бұрын
😂😂
@likenootha
9 ай бұрын
I love this response what a well rounded well spoken woman.
@chinwenduchinwe586
9 ай бұрын
Yes, yes💯
@Obiamajoyisrmd
9 ай бұрын
She sounds like a man. And she has masculine energy. I’ll pass
@latishamarcus5363
9 ай бұрын
She is one of the better responders in this group! She has much wisdom.
@kw1384
9 ай бұрын
If only all people could see it this way!!! Men and Women, I know a few people that would argue me down about this correct statement she said!!.
@brianevans9671
9 ай бұрын
She's smart but she's way too masculine..she's giving advice that men would give
@damnright1766
Ай бұрын
The woman that responded is amazing. Her skin is on point.
@jahazshine4587
17 күн бұрын
She’s gorgeous! And I’m always looking at her skin, color and tone!
@LowManWins80
Ай бұрын
No boundaries and no edges
@Aminah6623
27 күн бұрын
Stop it !! LOLOLOL
@KitanaShade
24 күн бұрын
DAMN señorito
@jazziblac8638
23 күн бұрын
😂😂😂
@JusticeCenter2733
22 күн бұрын
😂😂😂
@domesticV1190XxOo
21 күн бұрын
I was waiting for this comment
@christovelasquez9595
8 ай бұрын
Sis gave me chills with that response. She legit sounded like our Pops telling us exactly how we messed up.
@MukoroJr
8 ай бұрын
Sound like ya Pops smh
@ixadmiral5980
8 ай бұрын
I find myself in that craziness. My wife's ex-husband calls her at any time of the day with zero respect for me all in the name of co-perenting
@YahuahsRefiner
8 ай бұрын
@@ixadmiral5980She allows it, because you haven't set clear boundaries FOR her. Make the discussion. She will either accept or you gotta go find somebody that will respect you. There are zero reasons as to why a woman in her right mind with a sound heart would ever leave open doors in a new relationship she's committed to. As a man, that is Your job AND your authority to do so, because it is the design of God for a man to guide, lead, protect over their woman spiritually, mentally, emotionally, intellectually, and physically. Now just be practical about it. It doesn't have to mean anything if she comes across something you say and she begins to wrestle with it. Allow her to, even if it comes to a point where it begins to hurt you and she begins to choke up, I promise you that is the best way for her to close those doors inside of her, and it's not personal to you, be understanding, and patient in that. Give her practical solutions, one at a time as you walk with her thru this, as to how to create the boundary and flesh it out so she sees exactly what its gonna look like and she knows what to expect. You will help her spiritually fine tune her discernment skills, we are all developing as we go thru every motion in life. Be thorough, punctual, and by the end of it, you should leave no room for any confusion. By doing this, you will allow her to come to you when she is wrestling within herself, in a genuine and honest way, and you will develop the type of communication skills you need to endure. God bless you and your marriage.
@gummy5862
8 ай бұрын
@@ixadmiral5980Why’d you marry her?
@dylanlong4052
8 ай бұрын
@@ixadmiral5980run homie
@hanniawilliams6291
8 ай бұрын
HER VOICE IS SO POWERFUL OMG
@tfGypsyKing
8 ай бұрын
You misspelled masculine 😂
@karllevs5694
8 ай бұрын
@@tfGypsyKingyou just get intimidated when women are strong bc what else is your role in life if not “the man” not true substance
@deshaunmeans81
8 ай бұрын
@@karllevs5694nah she does have a masculine voice but it’s cool. Some women have more testosterone which causes it and she does appear to be one of those women but there’s nothing wrong with it, it’s just how it is. She’s got a masculine voice 🤷🏽♂️
@MrDiMES123
8 ай бұрын
That’s born male 100%
@MrDiMES123
8 ай бұрын
@@karllevs5694she is a man
@Jetlay-c8i
Ай бұрын
She left no crumb's and i love her voice who is she beautiful black queen ❤
@biglou8586
Ай бұрын
God Bless that woman! She is respectful! ❤
@tiffaniwoodson6002
3 ай бұрын
I can't believe she got up there and said this with confidence....
@Mark-pz3lq
2 ай бұрын
That's what I thought. She is confident about stupidity.
@Masimbiti
2 ай бұрын
Seems she didn't expect those facts
@elo6973
2 ай бұрын
Modern day women act like that ALL THE TIME
@MrMakemusicmike
2 ай бұрын
Because many women think like her..."hold my man down" 😂
@russelljohnson437
2 ай бұрын
@@Mark-pz3lqshe’s for the streets 😂😂😂
@Skyscraper2015
7 ай бұрын
A person with boundaries is far more wrothy of respect than a person who is frivolous
@temitopeogunjobi6437
7 ай бұрын
This!!!!!😊
@shawna1278
7 ай бұрын
Everyone is worthy of respect. If they don't have boundaries, it means they don't have respect for themselves.
@futurekdthomas1384
7 ай бұрын
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
@lyricgirl2012
7 ай бұрын
You might as well adopt the ex 😂 sis why looking out for him
@Toasterstruddle8mm
7 ай бұрын
I mean I think this is inherently very obvious but regardless I’m really glad you said it anyway because there are clearly some people who think differently
@notaslaveoffear5114
4 күн бұрын
THIS right here, is what a beautiful black woman looks like. She is beautiful physically, mentally, and emotionally. She is well spoken. Dressed decent and carries herself with the class.
@LEMATTOFFICIAL
Ай бұрын
THIS! Boundaries are so important
@simonemorgan5139
9 ай бұрын
I love how she just SHUT. THAT. DOWN. And it was perfectly said, You have no boundaries!
@CRAZyLittleMeMe
9 ай бұрын
It wasn’t perfectly said because she used a generalization from the jump so if you paid attention to how powerful her words are suppose to be you’d hear how she attacked that woman’s lifestyle based off one statement by claiming she has no boundaries which is like saying someone has no morals and there’s a negative connotation to it. Words matter and she should’ve paid attention to that and how she spoke to someone she just met.
@simonemorgan5139
9 ай бұрын
@@CRAZyLittleMeMe morals and boundaries are definitely. If you are in a relationship and you think you have any reason to entertain an ex YOU HAVE NO BOUNDARIES! People like that shouldn’t be in committed relationships
@jennyrebecca7243
8 ай бұрын
Sounds about right y’all always swear to God that you know better than everybody else even your own. You can’t even let somebody finish their thought or ask their question before you “sHuT tHaT dOwn” huh? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 bunch of GOODY ssa pick mes.
@KodexKat
8 ай бұрын
@@simonemorgan5139she didn’t say she entertained the ex tho..
@simonemorgan5139
8 ай бұрын
@@KodexKat what does… look out for him means then?
@tgsjm
7 ай бұрын
Say it again sis for the people in the back! Boundaries are a MUST
@sadiecasey4802
6 ай бұрын
My baby daddy didn’t have boundaries when it came to talking about my son he would only ask how he is and I would say he fine never asked what he learned or what is something new he doing no it was always who you talking too who dating who you fucking like dude no
@nicoleburke9743
8 сағат бұрын
Spot on. If it ain't about our child, then it don't need to be said.
@taminajones5615
9 ай бұрын
People called me an ahole for setting boundaries when I got divorced. Glad to know I was right.
@shanellem6310
8 ай бұрын
Yup. That was the first thing I did. I made it clear. I've been married twice and had kids from both marriages. So, both ex-husbands didn't like it. But, they have to respect it. My home is my sanctuary, and it needs to remain peaceful. Period.
@georgiabennett-bryan2857
8 ай бұрын
agree with you 💯 I'm divorced but I keep my distance I don't hate him or anything but there's boundaries
@the420jamaican6
8 ай бұрын
Smart & aware
@georgiabennett-bryan2857
8 ай бұрын
I wouldn't because you're no longer together and if you're in a new relationship you should you have to protect your new partner ✨️ I am divorced and although I chose to be single I respect my ex-husband's space the children are our priority besides I migrated
@guru_basketball_kiero
8 ай бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾that realization that whatever thought that was confusing us was the correct move
@cezannekoopman8224
9 ай бұрын
The way people use co parenting as an excuse to always 24/7 be in contact with the other parent. The moment a guy tells me my ex and I still hang out but not together I'm out
@Lemons19902010
9 ай бұрын
I'd never suggest to any woman to be in a relationship with a man who has kids. It's never worth it. I tried it for 2 years and just recently left my relationship because my ex wasn't willing to put me as a priority above his ex. He was afraid to bring me to his daughter's events because he was afraid of how his ex would respond. After a while, resentment grew. So I removed myself from that situation. We have a child together too, and I still love him (as a friend), and even I know it would be irresponsible of me to try a new relationship if I still have an emotional connection with my ex.
@Nobody4L
9 ай бұрын
@@Lemons19902010Sounds like he was afraid of his ex getting jealous and didn’t want her to make his life a living hell like most baby mamas do, so he kept you at arm’s length with their child until he was sure that you guy’s relationship could actually go the distance.
@FrighteningFettuccine
9 ай бұрын
@@Lemons19902010so thats how it was and you had a kid with him? You didn't leave you can never leave now
@Lemons19902010
9 ай бұрын
@@Nobody4L that's actually what he told me, so you're right. We weren't married, so he didn't think he "had a leg to stand on" (his words) to talk to his ex about bringing me to his daughter's things with his ex also being there. Also, he was afraid that she would cause a scene, and he didn't want to deal with that. They have no court order, so he's afraid that his ex could withhold information about their child and prevent him from attending future events. I was told to "wait" until he felt comfortable talking to his ex about me going to their daughter's events, and months and months went by, and nothing happened. We were together for 2 years. Lived together the whole time. His daughter would visit, spend the night, and we would do family things together (we also have a child together). So we acted like a real family most of the time, but when it came to his daughter's school/extracurricular events, our son and I were left at home so he could go by himself. He specifically told me that in these instances, "fuck your feelings", he just wanted to be a good father. The ex and I knew about each other and had formally met once over 10 years ago when my ex and his ex (daughter's mom) were initially friends. I just got tired of waiting and being put on the back burner because my ex was too much of a coward to have a difficult conversation with his ex.
@Lemons19902010
9 ай бұрын
@@FrighteningFettuccine we were together in 2009-2014 and had a child and then broke up. Then he had his daughter with his ex in 2015 and they broke up. I decided to give him a second chance in 2021 but realized that the relationship wasn't working out and broke up with him 3 weeks ago. So our kid is 13 years old.
@aubreybribiesca4267
13 күн бұрын
Her automatic response of “since I know since I was 18” hunny no boundaries
@jewelsbyk
8 ай бұрын
Who’s this lady . She speaks so confidently and eloquently. I wanna follow her everywhere
@janetsutton8663
8 ай бұрын
Kittie Rose
@SereneQueen11
8 ай бұрын
Eloquent? She’s aggressive. She cut the girl off and low-key insulted her
@-nymph.
8 ай бұрын
@@SereneQueen11it’s called harsh truth
@malukslu
8 ай бұрын
@@janetsutton8663Kita Rose is the one in the blue top. The one that has braids.
@amaniiexxchnge
8 ай бұрын
@@SereneQueen11um no lmfao the lady stopped talking after she asked the question. She then proceeded to ask why after hearing the speakers initial response. Stop projecting because u can’t differentiate between a stern powerful voice and aggression
@MsTempestj
7 ай бұрын
Sister, real talk. She was straight up honest and didn't hold back. She spoke the truth.
@grxcedn
7 ай бұрын
need a real friend like her
@joshsinglefooter
7 ай бұрын
Thats why you dont talk to single mothers.
@sydneythefox21
Ай бұрын
miss girl in the hat went offff!!!!! perfectly said!!
@jessicamyronenko192
7 күн бұрын
Amen to this girl teaching the next girl, how to deal with brothers. They are not all here forever, but your babies are your babies forever. You tell them I will only talk about my babies. My babies are the only thing I care about they are the forefront of my mind, if you want to get to me, you have to get to my babies. Let’s talk about my babies.
@P01s0n_1Vee
2 ай бұрын
I love this woman’s response. If you are so close to the ex husband then go be with him, but if it didn’t work, it didn’t work. She is 100% correct. You need to have boundaries
@Deimonos85
Ай бұрын
A woman checking another woman. That’s a miracle
@lyssgoddess
Ай бұрын
@@Deimonos85 if ur friends with a women as another woman, u don’t tell ur friends how to live ur life or give them advice unless they ask… lol Look I’m one of those brutally honest women (duel military/married to another veteran) I have been in many many situations where if u drop any kind of response they don’t like they will make it about you and hurt you on purpose. We had a neighbor that had told me she believed in corporal punishment (hitting ur child with a belt her words were had to match the situation) Corporal punishment with a belt is illegal in all 50 states and is child abuse. lol Because that is my view, she told me of course I don’t agree with corporal punishment she said it was because I am a military sexual trauma survivor As if that traumatic event couldn’t allow me to have an actual thought process 😂 As a woman I do not correct other women when they’re wrong because women get nasty… Unless u are gonna harm me or ur child I won’t even address it And anytime I have had been friendship ending. One friends child (I was the like 2nd person out of 5-6 neighbors) to tell her, her son had boundary issues. (Forcing other children to hug her son when they don’t want to, this creates issues with consent) because the other child went home to my friends mom and said he was uncomfortable that her son wouldn’t stop putting his hands on him etc I only addressed this when he began using that behavior towards my service dog on duty… The first thing she said was are u calling me a bad mom… I literally said no ur a great mom but ur son has issues with boundaries… lol later gets pregnant by dude out of wedlock after just sleeping with the other dude upstairs who’s on drugs… Trust me some females don’t want help
@sweet_cha0s
Ай бұрын
People sometimes stop Ioving eachother. It doesn't mean they can't be friends and help eachother, especially if they have kids together. That's a healthy br3ak up.
@P01s0n_1Vee
Ай бұрын
@@lyssgoddess 😂 nah I tell my friends when they are cutting up.
@Shania-od5pn
Ай бұрын
They have kids and grew up together. Black people crave dysfunction
@MaxCadillacPriest
20 күн бұрын
She broke that down perfectly
@shaunrubrico2156
21 күн бұрын
This woman KNOWS!!! She's A++.
@enicolehoward3544
9 ай бұрын
Sis responded strong as hell.... 😂 But she damn ain't lying..
@marsmith1907
8 ай бұрын
Strong my ass! You're just weak and scared of the truth!
@ixadmiral5980
8 ай бұрын
find myself in that craziness. My wife's ex-husband calls her at any time of the day with zero respect for me all in the name of co-perenting
@itsdavincidavinci
8 ай бұрын
@@ixadmiral5980 bro that's gonna wreck your marriage. She better stop that. I dumped my ex gf who share a baby with cos this. His ex bf could call anytime and even got pissed when she was with me. Naah I aint doing that, dumped her.
@ZeeB...
7 ай бұрын
@ixadmiral5980 You should tell your wife you feel uncomfortable when he calls after hours...If the child isn't in any danger or anything her ex shouldn't be calling at all hours of the day. If it's something related to their kid then it should be during respectable hours. You should tell him to respect your house and your marriage.
@bw5020
6 ай бұрын
@@ixadmiral5980 She got to check that, expeditiously...
@Justine0215
8 ай бұрын
I really like that she said that you can love someone but there’s a line that can still be drawn
@ixadmiral5980
8 ай бұрын
I find myself in that craziness. My wife's ex-husband calls her at any time of the day with zero respect for me all in the name of co-perenting
@hao9508
8 ай бұрын
Facts
@samanthavowles2545
Ай бұрын
@@ixadmiral5980really sorry about that 😔 you need to have a honest chat with your wife and explain to her how it's making you feel and that he doesn't need to be ringing her willy nilly, if they have a good Co parenting plan in place then they don't really need to speak on the phone much, most updates/ requests etc can be done via text or even in person at the drop off/ pick up point when whichever one of you takes your child to the other parents or the other parent comes and picks them up, that way these conversations can be done infront of you. If the child is old enough to themselves go to the other parent then there really isn't any reason they should be speaking so much so in that instance you need to tell your wife that she needs to start withdrawing a bit because it's making you uncomfortable that there's still so much contact between her and her ex when there doesn't need to be. Whatever the circumstances you need to speak to your wife and if there really isn't a reason for all of the conversations then you need to tell her that she needs to cut it down and if she's reluctant then I would question if she's having second thoughts of being with her ex. Whatever happens I really hope you get things sorted one way or the other, you deserve to be the main focus of your spouse's life same as they deserve off you obvs, I really hope you find that one way or the other and have a happy life x
@kurlzinkorea
Ай бұрын
She is absolutely stunning
@momster72sp
21 күн бұрын
Respect for her current relationship requires self respect and demands defining what is #1 in life and defending that with clear and immutable boundaries!
@favooured1
7 ай бұрын
She wanted someone to help her to justify her flirting with her ex, despite being in a relationship, just because he's her childhood sweetheart.
@hazelb071
7 ай бұрын
I don't think she would appreciate him texting and entertaining his exes
@jussniaa6416
6 ай бұрын
Or maybe she just needed to hear what she just heard.
@marlowemorris752
6 ай бұрын
You right, but she bought foolishness to a grown folks conversation. And I’m sure that’s not the first time she heard that from look on her face.
@hellywise2542
6 ай бұрын
Who said flirting? She was married to and has children with this person. Its possible to come to a point where you just care for that person as a friend or family, not romantically or sexually. It's healthy for your kids and if her current partner is paying attention, he will see if it's more than that or not but as adults we need to be mature enough to accept that people have pasts. Each relationship is unique and nuisanced all these rules and opinions that outside people put on it should be irrelevant to you and your situation.
@maciecs3263
6 ай бұрын
Yea it’s not flirting. When you experience having a child and being with a man for sooo long, your biology automatically considers him as a FAMILY member. You’ll have a bond that cannot be broken. It’s a delicate boundary not to cross because if the ex wants to be a present parent and loves their child, u will communicate a lot. But the trick is to keep every conversation about the kid, just like what she said in this video.
@ebony0708able
8 ай бұрын
She is gorgeous and her skin is everything.
@adamfirstman3605
7 ай бұрын
Is it?
@kendellcarey7257
7 ай бұрын
😂 forgetting the conversation
@NariNichols
7 ай бұрын
? Her skin is everything?
@undertheglassmoon2239
7 ай бұрын
Nah.. her eyes , her voice, her lips, her face more beautiful then her skin
@TheDevilinThePaleMoonlight
7 ай бұрын
@undertheglassmoon2239 obviously those things are nice but ol girl's skin is incredible
@Nicole-kh4so
9 күн бұрын
This women is extremely intelligent and has a very mature perspective! Unlike so many nowadays. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@dogblues4829
9 ай бұрын
Do not go into a new relationship until you are totally over your ex.
@TheRialGlamLife
9 ай бұрын
Pin this comment!!!
@Hazelnut3988
9 ай бұрын
Exactly u can't be wasting someone else time if you still waiting on your ex you need to remain single until that attachment for ex is gone
@joeyjones1271
9 ай бұрын
So true that is why alot men isn't dating. And women too
@JM-sd5dt
9 ай бұрын
I would say until you are comfortable with not speaking to your ex for at least 6 months. Idk if a person will ever be totally over another person.
@tekoabailey3243
9 ай бұрын
this
@dewittbrown1348
9 ай бұрын
That's strength in her voice and words ❤
@pimphandstrong6620
8 ай бұрын
Ninja that's bass
@dewittbrown1348
8 ай бұрын
@@pimphandstrong6620 all of that makes her more 🔥.
@CarlaNicholson-jm8iq
8 ай бұрын
Black strength at its best. Teach her sis
@kennyhumble3699
8 ай бұрын
That's a Adams apple, I bet her balls was bouncing while she was preaching, watch out my brother, the world has changed 😮
@Cornell_Alvarez99
8 күн бұрын
Shit….. this lady took everything I’ve been saying years and put it into a min thread…. I said I was labeled “ misogynistic, sassy, insecure…. But this lady spoke for me and every man that’s like this 💯
@ivgot7kids18
Ай бұрын
Nothing wrong with having a great relationship with your ex. The kids are more important than a jealous lover. We all need more love and respect.
@christiniaking3985
27 күн бұрын
i wanted to hear the whole thing. miss lady was speaking her SHIT‼️💯
@goldiegreen3273
8 ай бұрын
She's absolutely correct, boundaries.
@keithjubilee2808
8 ай бұрын
I still have a relationship with my son mother no one gonna stop that we not having sex but it’s people together and they still sneak around and have sex but act like this. If Jesus not telling me I never listening to people because the relationship u in that person will do u dirty then u done ruin your friendship with someone because of that
@goldiegreen3273
8 ай бұрын
It's ok to have a relationship with the mother of your child as long as you know boundaries because stepping over them if she's in a relationship are if you're in one could cause problems for you in every relationship you guys have.
@lalaland9646
8 ай бұрын
She’s not though. The child comes first and to make sure the child is okay, you have to make sure the other parent is well and that you guys are in agreement and good standing. This boyfriend might not last but she will have to raise her daughter, that’s her responsibility. I think it should be okay to keep good and open communication with the literal father of her child. Of course none of us know the full story, which is why we tend to jump to conclusions.
@Estevan1996
8 ай бұрын
@@lalaland9646 perfect example of listening to respond but not listening to understand. She's right yall split up for a reason when yall were together you didn't seem concerned with making sure your co-parent was okay and making the relationship work so why is it important now? Like she said only reason you guys should be talking is for the well being of the child anything else shouldn't matter you're trying to move on with someone else and your child and your partner should be your main focus
@jpatt85
8 ай бұрын
Don't date baby mommas
@WOWHAU
9 ай бұрын
She spoke facts, have boundaries and stop wasting someone's son's time Ma'am. Damaging him for the next woman, let that man go, you are not over your ex.
@tamaragore437
9 ай бұрын
I didn't have to type because you said it all from me.
@princessk5002
9 ай бұрын
Not only somebody's son....somebody's husband....
@WOWHAU
9 ай бұрын
@@princessk5002 exactly
@tamarawalker714
9 ай бұрын
Factz!
@cortneyeverett6927
9 ай бұрын
KJV Ecclesiastes 7:26 And I find more bitter than death the woman, whose heart is snares and nets, and her hands as bands: whoso pleaseth Yahawah shall escape from her, but the sinner shall be taken by her. Ecclesiastes 7:27 “Behold, this have I found, saith the preacher, counting one by one, to find out the account:” Ecclesiastes 7:28 “Which yet my soul seeketh, but I find not: one man among a thousand have I found; but a woman among all those have I not found.” Ecclesiastes 7:29 “Lo, this only have I found, that God hath made man upright; but they have sought out many inventions.” Ecclesiasticus 42:14 “Better is the churlishness of a man than a courteous woman, a woman, I say, which bringeth shame and reproach.” Ecclesiasticus 25:24 “Of the woman came the beginning of sin, and through her we all die.” Ecclesiasticus 25:13 “Give me any plague, but the plague of the heart: and any wickedness, but the wickedness of a woman:” Ecclesiasticus 26:7 “An evil wife is a yoke shaken to and fro: he that hath hold of her is as though he held a scorpion.” Ecclesiasticus 26:8 “A drunken woman and a gadder abroad causeth great anger, and she will not cover her own shame.” Ecclesiasticus 26:9 “The whoredom of a woman may be known in her haughty looks and eyelids.” Ecclesiasticus 26:10 “If thy daughter be shameless, keep her in straitly, lest she abuse herself through overmuch liberty.” Ecclesiasticus 9:2 “Give not thy soul unto a woman to set her foot upon thy substance.” Ecclesiasticus 9:3 “Meet not with an harlot, lest thou fall into her snares.” Ecclesiasticus 9:6 “Give not thy soul unto harlots, that thou lose not thine inheritance.” Ecclesiasticus 9:8 “Turn away thine eye from a beautiful woman, and look not upon another's beauty; for many have been deceived by the beauty of a woman; for herewith love is kindled as a fire.” Ecclesiasticus 9:9 “Sit not at all with another man's wife, nor sit down with her in thine arms, and spend not thy money with her at the wine; lest thine heart incline unto her, and so through thy desire thou fall into destruction.” Proverbs 6:26 “For by means of a whorish woman a man is brought to a piece of bread: and the adulteress will hunt for the precious life.” 2 Esdras 16:49 “Like as a whore envieth a right honest and virtuous woman:” Proverbs 31:30 Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised. Proverbs 9:13 A foolish woman is clamorous: she is simple, and knoweth nothing. Ecclesiasticus 26:11 Watch over an impudent eye: and marvel not if she trespass against thee.” Ecclesiasticus 26:12 “She will open her mouth, as a thirsty traveller when he hath found a fountain, and drink of every water near her: by every hedge will she sit down, and open her quiver against every arrow.” Ecclesiasticus 26:25 “A shameless woman shall be counted as a dog; but she that is shamefaced will fear the Lord.” Ecclesiasticus 25:16 “I had rather dwell with a lion and a dragon, than to keep house with a wicked woman. Ecclesiasticus 25:19 “All wickedness is but little to the wickedness of a woman: let the portion of a sinner fall upon her. Ecclesiasticus 26:23 “A wicked woman is given as a portion to a wicked man: but a godly woman is given to him that feareth the Lord.” Proverbs 30:20 “Such is the way of an adulterous woman; she eateth, and wipeth her mouth, and saith, I have done no wickedness.” 1 Timothy 5:6 “But she that liveth in pleasure is dead while she liveth.” Lamentations 4:3 “Even the sea monsters draw out the breast, they give suck to their young ones: the daughter of my people is become cruel, like the ostriches in the wilderness.” Isaiah 3:24 “And it shall come to pass, that instead of sweet smell there shall be stink; and instead of a girdle a rent; and instead of we’ll set hair baldness; and instead of a stomacher a girding of sackcloth; and burning instead of beauty.” Micah 7:10 “Then she that is mine enemy shall see it, shame shall cover her which said unto me, Where is the LORD thy Yahawah? mine eyes shall behold her: now shall she be trodden down as the mire of the streets.” 1 Corinthians 11:3 “But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Yahawashi; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Yahawashi is Yahawah.” 1 Corinthians 11:8 “For the man is not of the woman; but the woman of the man.” 1 Corinthians 11:9 “Neither was th e man created for the woman; but the woman for the man.” 1 Timothy 2:13 For Adam was first formed, then Eve.” 1 Timothy 2:14 “And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression.” 1 Timothy 2:15 “Notwithstanding she shall be saved in childbearing, if they continue in faith and charity and holiness with sobriety.” Genesis 3:16 “Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.” Ecclesiasticus 36:24 “He that getteth a wife beginneth a possession, a help like unto himself, and a pillar of rest.” Ephesians 5:22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your husbands, as unto the Lord. Ephesians 5:23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Yahawashi is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. Ephesians 5:24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Yahawashi, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing. 1 Timothy 2:11 Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection. 1 Timothy 2:12 But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence. Job 39:17 “Because Yahawah hath deprived her of wisdom, neither hath he imparted to her understanding.” Isaiah 3:12 “As for my people, children are there oppressors, and women rule over them. O my people, they which lead thee cause thee to err, and destroy the way of thy paths.” Proverbs 31:3 Give not thy strength unto women, nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings.” 1 Esdras 4:26 “Yea, many there be that have run out of their wits for women, and become servants for their sakes.” Isaiah 4:1 “And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man, saying, We will eat our own bread, and wear our own apparel: only let us be called by thy name to take away our reproach.” Romans 15:4 For whatsoever things were written aforetime were written for our learning, that we through patience and comfort of the scriptures might have hope. Ecclesiastes 1:9 The thing that hath been, it is that which shall be; and that which is done is that which shall be done: and there is no new thing under the sun.
@johndoe-lm7ji
Ай бұрын
She’s amazing at calling out the bs! Like come on girl, you trying to make your man jealous, call it how it is.
@IsraelMipakatahar
3 күн бұрын
Thank you we need more woman ,this chick got the nerve asking that question 🤦🏾♂️
@VelvetJazz
9 ай бұрын
WOW. Seriously, all women need to hear about boundaries this way!
@@asesoule6928yeah i was gonna type same... all gender not Just d Female ✅
@daniaa.oliva-pena7338
8 ай бұрын
She's so smart , I wish I would have heard this 40 years ago.
@Patricia-dd6ss
3 ай бұрын
Yeah, but we weren't interested in listening to something like this 40 yrs ago! No doubt it's been said, but we were listening to feminism instead.
@shantelandrews2369
Ай бұрын
Amen once yall not together anymore. You have to set certain boundaries.
@aquillabennett8223
29 күн бұрын
You have to respect the new relationship and still have a great relationship with the ex but have a respectful boundary of privacy
@marianaya5824
Ай бұрын
...but it takes holding yourself accountable (maturity) to the truth of the situation.
@RyuSukuna
9 ай бұрын
She needs to be speaking to a lot of young women today. Real shit.
@ezgablest8830
9 ай бұрын
And what do you think she doing here?
@lusiamatavesi1177
9 ай бұрын
This is 100% correct! Boundaries are most important.
@marycollins7039
19 күн бұрын
True! No boundaries and she still in love with him!
@productioninquiry8937
Ай бұрын
No boundaries. No edges. Amen.
@hzlkelly
9 ай бұрын
Exactly. My ex wasn’t respecting my boundaries and we weren’t married but he acted like I belonged to him regardless and would constantly disrespect my now husband. I told him if it’s not about the kids I don’t want to hear it. But he still tried. So I blocked him. He talks to the kids through my mother. No contact at all. Period.
@lewis20002000
9 ай бұрын
I don't know you, but I THANK YOU, for the respect you've show to your husband and yourself. One of my homies behaviors the same way as ur ex simply to disruption his baby mama's lovelife.
@HighFrequencyGuru
9 ай бұрын
You’re so smart that’s good
@kw1384
9 ай бұрын
Good for you!!... My now Husband had a baby Mama that thought she could contact whenever and it was always not about the kids, and the sad thing was his Momma and Sister was contributing to well she should be first because she the Babies Mama ....Well I had to tell him to make a choice to change the relationship or I could no longer be with him. He backed off and she took the kids and left town.... 🤔 Hmmm
@therevolutionaryfairyy
9 ай бұрын
Sad
@vyizzyme
9 ай бұрын
@@kw1384you're part of the problem with broken homes.you encourage a mother child and father to be separated from each other. make life so hard feeling that one takes their child and leave the state..😮😮shame😢😢😢shame shame.i feel like vomiting I'm so sick of you earthlings yall so weak.thinkin what u said was somethin of strength.u just phucked another generation.how dare you.ugh
@nwachukwuohameje8570
9 ай бұрын
The responds to this question was on point. Strict and solid boundaries are needed.
@thekidd7
9 ай бұрын
response*
@dawngarate4789
Ай бұрын
I agree with her 100%. You gotta have boundaries. Holding together a cordial relationship with an ex for the sake of the child is ONLY about the child/children. Until you are fully over that ex do NOT get into another relationship because that's just wrong and disrespectful to them. Unnecessary pain inflicted on a person's heart especially if they fall for you. Smh.
@kerriedyer8656
Ай бұрын
I totally agree 💯 with the lady who spoke about boundaries as there must be boundaries in every relationship. If you love and respect your spouse/ husband you would never entertain anyone else period !!! It proves that there's still chemistry between you & your EX smh 🤔
@MrCarter7000
9 ай бұрын
Lord why did the video have to stop, she was COOKING 😭🔥🔥🔥
@syncmink
9 ай бұрын
Word I need the other half of this
@QueenMufasa552
9 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@capri_sunflower8496
Ай бұрын
The full video is on their app called Tonight's Conversations, you gotta pay for a subscription, idk hiw much tho
@jenniefriedman258
9 ай бұрын
The woman in the hat who answered the question is so extremely beautiful. Her face is sculpted and strong.
@themoisturehut
7 ай бұрын
Right and that smooth chocolate skin is just amazingly beautiful.
@zb4619
7 ай бұрын
Now nobody will ever know why this comment go so many likes
@ljeans531
7 ай бұрын
Why would she publicly hype up emotional cheating? Because she is also a woman? Really?
@zb4619
7 ай бұрын
@@ljeans531 cuz that’s wat women do… women bs eachother n hype eachother up to do retaard shit clearly you’ve never been w a woman
@zb4619
7 ай бұрын
@@ljeans531most women will be like “nah girl you go do whatchu wanna do don’t settle for less go out n fk ur ex husband if u want just be slick” that’s what women would say props to this one for giving it to her straight forward
@smileyladyT
7 ай бұрын
@@zb4619what woman would honestly say that? She’s asking for advice. They gave her the truth.
@ljeans531
7 ай бұрын
@@zb4619 You obv don't know a variety of women personally. Cause MOST women are not like that. Like how MOST men are not intentionally misogynist
@susansapp5860
25 күн бұрын
You gotta L❤VE this Woman ! Wise Words ❤
@---ne7xy
Ай бұрын
She is BEAUTIFUL
@lakaicreations7735
8 ай бұрын
Thank you Sis! Stop "looking out". Let his woman, mama, Auntie, sister look out for him.
@queenmichieboo7467
9 ай бұрын
She did not like this response you can tell by the look on her face. The two-year must’ve voiced this sentiment
@PrettyMoneyLife
9 ай бұрын
She wanted someone like kita to answer and validate her. Cause kitty is the only lady up there thats not a broken clock. Shes consistently very leveled unlike most women.
@MrMakinmoney07
9 ай бұрын
That's because she's delusional just like most of these women out here today
@ashleyshayia8087
9 ай бұрын
I think she was just shocked but was also helpful with the advices that was giving to her. 🤷🏾♀️✌🏾🤎
@misscoco9667
9 ай бұрын
The truth hurts, I think she wants a way to make it convenient for HER to keep seeing the EX. Which is wrong sounds like she still cares and not ready to move on!!!! The boyfriend knows this…..
@Saynothing869
9 ай бұрын
He couldn’t have if he don’t know. She started her question with how do you tell.
@robertfullerjr8124
4 күн бұрын
2 years sneaky commute with ex boyfriend 2 years of cheating ... 😡
@MonsterRockz
24 күн бұрын
I love when women are straight forward and don’t sugar coat shit and just tell the truth even if you don’t wanna hear it they know you NEED to hear it and think about it logically and respectfully
@1Michicanna
6 ай бұрын
Learnt this the hard way. If it doesn’t start with “our child”, don’t answer it. 🤦🏽♀️
@extremeresponsibility
4 ай бұрын
Feminism is a hateful ideology by women to hurt women. Ya'll messed each other up. One out of four women take antidepressants for a reason. Smh It's time to take freedom with responsibility.
@AskTheAdjutant
9 ай бұрын
This is so true. I was set up on a blind date with a young lady. Once she told me the her and her babies father still hang out and she cooks for him. I wanted to fight my friend who set us up together. 🤣🤣🤣. No way will I entertain a relationship with someone who still sees their ex. Go back with him.
@buffooneryterminator3423
9 ай бұрын
Good call!
@ladyteka2430
9 ай бұрын
You should still fight your friend every time you think about it! 😂 They probably want to go back to the ex but he doesn’t want to be all in with them. SMH
@TheFallonCarrington
8 ай бұрын
What!?!😮
@otiliamanuelajurj
2 ай бұрын
At least you knew it from the start. In my case, my husband hid it, and in the end, he almost killed me because of her.
@styl_propr
23 күн бұрын
She always gives awesome advice.... #SetBoundaries 🗣️‼️🎯
@DJJonnyBizzle
Ай бұрын
The confidence to ask that question in front of that many people!😮
@nikyagivens3729
9 ай бұрын
SO GLAD TO HEAR ANOTHER WOMAN HOLD HER ACCOUNTABLE. SHE'S RIGHT, HE SHOULD RUN.
@Yeahisaiddatshit
8 ай бұрын
NO BOUNDARIES! Perfectly said. Nobody said you gotta have drama with your ex but they’re an ex for a reason. Ain’t no looking out , ain’t no paying bills , none of that because if you’re doing that you may as well get back together . All that going on and who’s to say he still ain’t smashing . The focus is on the kids and the kids only. When you got divorced and decided to date again , your ex husband don’t even matter no more.
@dantrewalton-kr9zv
3 ай бұрын
Well if they friend then it doesn’t matter really, not everything is about the children..
@gregorymainor6526
Ай бұрын
Great factual response & powerful advice 👏 👌 👍
@karenmccoy3882
Ай бұрын
True because even if he doesn’t want you, has move on with another he will still use you if you allow it
@chucliffort544
3 ай бұрын
Respect to you for telling her the importance of boundaries
@Hekeepblessingme
8 ай бұрын
Wow she snapped. I want to be able to be as clear and concise as her. What an excellent public speaker!
@coryd4950
7 күн бұрын
She definitely needed to hear that.
@taelynnichols2607
Ай бұрын
Gorgeous woman and powerful speaking!!!!
@poppaexo
9 ай бұрын
Finally a woman that holds women accountable
@KoolTube91
9 ай бұрын
This comments needs millions of likes 💯
@ashasun6620
9 ай бұрын
I heard that same excuse from men.
@jaysonwilder259
9 ай бұрын
Cuz u aren’t looking women are the biggest condemners of other women y’all say that all that time “women can’t even get along” yea cuz women are critical of eachother y’all think it’s hair nail and weight cuz yall don’t give af about what women say y’all just say “that not my business” but will go around screaming inaccurate shitt like this cuz YOU never seen it but YOU also don’t see women!! Men do not hold men accountable their are some but it’s usually very far and few between will you see men condemning men for not having REAL ACTUAL MORALS men condemn. Men for being gay or for loving women too much it’s so weird the dynamic you either hated for not liking women for liking women too much and the niqqa that act like women ain’t shit but “aren’t gay” are the ones praised and being a deadbeat is cool being a women beater is cool and even men who are “more respectable” like that presumably respectable women on the panel still see women in a bit of a inferior way and that is still wrong how she had a well rounded stern smart unbiased answer there are far less men who would have a comparable answer without some animosity towards women
@drecool85
9 ай бұрын
Yes. It’s refreshing to see women held accountable with firm, solid language that they can’t dance around in circles on.
@riyahhezekiah3570
9 ай бұрын
So how holding men accountable so I'll
@noblebentley4922
Ай бұрын
She's really giving her the tough love speech that somebody close to her should have been given her before she wound up on KZitem in this clip I hope she actually hears her and doesn't just get offended
@victoriaoluajayi6878
Ай бұрын
Yes. ❤
@thomasspann8678
22 күн бұрын
Bottom line. If you are still friends with your ex. You are sex only to me.
@wonderfuljoanna21
24 күн бұрын
This woman is amazing
@veelee0505
Ай бұрын
I love this chick , she speaks truth and it’s true everyone needs boundaries, it’s crazy ! You say you want peace but you don’t put forth the effort in creating boundaries for that to happen so that doesn’t connect at all !
@AremuJejeofdavillage
9 ай бұрын
He should dump her. Easy enough
@gabrieldaniels6191
9 ай бұрын
Immediately
@MrMakinmoney07
9 ай бұрын
Facts but notice no woman in the comment is agreeing with the woman who told her
@davidsistrunk7795
9 ай бұрын
He obviously has limited options..😅
@KingComp67_-io3iz
9 ай бұрын
he a simp and have no self respect to even think to stay to compete with ex/baby daddy who been in her guts already. I guess lot of guys like to do sloppy seconds
@surekya
9 ай бұрын
@@MrMakinmoney07I swear y’all love to just chat…all the women I’m seeing are clowning her.
@shondadiggins21
9 ай бұрын
She's down graded the bf by labeling him as 2yr and putting ex above because she knew him longer.
@dpharrison7
9 ай бұрын
She sure did, 😒
@nichellekmalvous6688
9 ай бұрын
what im saying
@ogpupu
9 ай бұрын
That was the set up to get THEM on her side when she KNEW she was wrong anyway
@jazminearceneaux7452
9 ай бұрын
💯
@elizabethwambui9901
9 ай бұрын
Word!
@Langley_Ackerman19
Ай бұрын
Lady in green is right. Boundaries is important! It's unfair to the boyfriend she's still entertaining the ex.
@dim307
Ай бұрын
so true. love makes boundaries hard. she’s right but that doesn’t mean i’m saying it’s easy. it took me a long time to be firm on boundaries with exes - who i still love (not romantically) and have cordial bonds with. but like she says, i had to learn to put up a hard line. it’s better for your ex too. if you really love them, even if it’s hard for you to stick up for YOURSELF w SELF love, you need to do it
@esotericataylor2931
9 ай бұрын
Look out for the ex absolutely ridiculous you ain’t ready for a relationship with nobody new sis
@donnapug
9 ай бұрын
Now that is the truth!!
@TheRialGlamLife
9 ай бұрын
Yup and why I don’t date yet. I know I’m not ready yet. More people should wait…
@GrayFebruary
9 ай бұрын
"Look out for" translation: I'm still f*****g my ex-husband/baby daddy.
@Lemons19902010
9 ай бұрын
@TheRialGlamLife I just ended my relationship 3 weeks ago. We have a 13yo together. I personally wouldn't date until our son is 21 (has special needs and will need school supports until then), because for the next 7-8 years, his dad and I will need to be in constant contact about our son. I tried the stepmom thing and it wasn't for me, so I know a man would also be insecure about the constant communication that's required of me and my son's dad.
@kellyperez3610
8 ай бұрын
I set this exact boundary with my son's father. He would do flirtatious things and I didn't want there to be even a crack in the door for potential anything and it impacting my current relationship with my husband.
@angelicpastrana
7 ай бұрын
Been there. Sometimes people hold on to comfortable behaviors from when they were single. They need to be made aware that it’s not appropriate, especially if you’re trying to be in something real with someone else.
@SequelM
7 ай бұрын
Quick question , what exactly would be consider a “ flirtatious thing” I’m thinking he would bring you flowers and gifts ?
@dijonay971
7 ай бұрын
@@SequelM Could be anything from inappropriate comments to inappropriate touching…
@eddierosa9050
7 ай бұрын
You are a smart woman
@Anu9ki
2 күн бұрын
When you have really reached and arrived at maturity co-parenting is on a different level ; it’s so many people out there who just have no bad blood with their ex spouse and are more effective co parenting than they are parenting as a unit; it’s not taking advice from someone on a one spectrum basis viewpoint from their own experience Support him sister you never know what tomorrow may bring but in front of god he will know your heart
@2121luv1
Ай бұрын
This woman in the green T-shirt is one of the finest woman i have seen in my life, her voice is too deep but she is very beautiful
@mattiaskeinnn3317
6 ай бұрын
Thats a real woman telling a little girl how relationships work
@franchescavandyk8149
2 ай бұрын
This was the best and greatest response, she didn't hype her instead she respectfully humbled her and told it straight up like it is. I agree with her response completely.
@toddtollfree5659
Ай бұрын
She said still looking out for the Ex? What you doing with a boyfriend of 2 yrs..😮😢😂😂
@Jmfox96
Ай бұрын
Need more woman that hold woman accountable. If we did I’d still be with her, and she wouldn’t have become a “bar babe”
@jessicaspencer5540
29 күн бұрын
Amen! It's so refreshing to hear a strong woman encourage another woman! Yessss!
@ChefRedz-gx7lh
9 ай бұрын
She NEEDS HER OWN SHOW!!! she was the only one on that Philly Night Platform who was real, made sense and was dropping real information n help... 💯
@thekingherself
8 ай бұрын
What is her name and or socials?
@Patricia-dd6ss
3 ай бұрын
Probably because she detached herself from the typical Hive Mind of the Sisterhood!
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