Grief has 5 stages.....denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance. I am 9 years into my loss almost (my husband had cancer too) and I can tell you that I have flipped through ALL the stages all the time. There is no rhyme or reason for it. Hugs to you Kyle!
@megdevries5616
5 ай бұрын
exactly one or all of the stages can hit you out of the blue no matter how long time has passed
@Kristen10-22
5 ай бұрын
I am so sorry for the tragic loss of your husband. Grief comes in all different stages for me… waves of different emotions within minutes at times. God bless
@maurahickey6457
5 ай бұрын
So sorry my fiancee passed away nearly 4 years in may 😢 and my niece through suicide. My partner he was only 33 and niece 16. Being on my own since by choice,for me it still feels like yesterday. I😢 miss him more and more and when l talk about him and think,why me why you or Kyle. It's very painful 😖😣 journey, unfortunately it will happen to us all til we meet our love 💕 one again 😢❤😊❤😊❤😊
@JC-tp5lz
5 ай бұрын
I have lost many people during my 78 years on earth. If there's one thing I've learned, is that the stages of grief don't necessarily come in a predetermined "order". Th stages are really random, and "hit and miss". No fixed order.
@Kristen10-22
5 ай бұрын
@@JC-tp5lz 💕
@juliekelderman4041
5 ай бұрын
I just found out 4/18/24 that I have colon cancer, seeing the surgeon tomorrow and having CT scan. I really don't know how to feel. I know my life is in God's hands and that He is in control of it all. Guess it is all the uncertainty and my mind spinning a million miles an hour that is getting to me. Loved watching you and Jenny, she taught me to have hope and grace.
@carolp.7471
5 ай бұрын
You are in my prayers!
@naomijones8564
5 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry for your diagnosis, I don't have any words or advice just to know I'm thinking of you and sending a hug xx
@bonnierabbit1413
5 ай бұрын
I'm praying for you in jesus holy mighty name I too have been going through something.Not even the doctors anywhere Wouldn't even tell me what's going on with me. All they keep saying you're fine. You're fine. And I know that it's all lies. I'm scared. Yet know jesus is with me Even if I do have nightmares. In pain while I'm asleep or Or awake. And I think about my family and my girlfriend. Who I want marry And I pray that in Jesus named that we do With raising children. I won't stop praying for you. I pray whatever this sickness is That the Lord Jesus will not allow it to take you. My friend never. Because family is a gift And I know that's what the Lord gave us A good and powerful blessing that the lord gave us hope and faith love you in jesus name amen
@Valerie-xn9kg
5 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry, I will pray for you 🙏
@onemuckypup9823
5 ай бұрын
Sending you lots of love and positivity! Love from Australia xxx
@kellywright3698
5 ай бұрын
Hi Kyle, I’m 58 yrs old and I grieve every single day. My father died when I was 10 yrs old my 3 sisters were 7, 5, and 3 . I still grieve for him every day . My mother died 3 years ago and my sister just passed in February my whole family is almost gone and we’re here on this earth all by ourselves , why ? What was the point of living for life to just be taken away ? I’ll just keep breathing and living u til I can be with them again 😢
@pattykochenower4222
5 ай бұрын
I’m in the same boat as you , hugs and prayers ❤️
@didisalyers4460
5 ай бұрын
I believe that you wouldn’t be human if you didn’t experience some anger. My heart goes out to you.
@cheylingarber5886
5 ай бұрын
I lost 2 children to cancer, anger is definitely part of the process. However I saw a comment that said bargaining is part of the process, I did not find bargaining in my process of grief. I did my bargaining before I lost them, I bargained with God to please don’t take them, I will give or do anything but please don’t take them, that is when I did my bargaining. Kyle you will be going through this for years. It gets more bearable as time goes, I won’t say it gets better, just bearable. You NEVER leave grief behind, but you do learn to live with it and you take it with you as your life goes on.❤❤ The only therapist I was willing to talk to was a grief therapist that had experienced the loss of a child. Though other therapist possibly could have helped me, they cannot comprehend the heartbreak of losing a child and in my case I lost 2 children. I did not want to talk to anyone if they had not experienced the loss of a child, if they want to talk to me and they had lost a child, then they had my attention. I still cry❤today April 22 2001 I lost my son, April 6 2021 I lost my daughter, yes I still cry❤❤
@LindaK301
5 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry, my son passed in 2006
@monanwright
5 ай бұрын
I was the same. You can't know the agony of losing a child unless you have been there. It was a big black hole for a few years. I still have a hard time every year when her birthday and Christmas come. She died on Dec 16, 2001, on her birthday. And I crash every year. Some years are worse than others, and the pain is not as sharp. I am so sorry for your loss. I can not imagine losing 2. My heart breaks for you. Kyle is so strong and doing an amazing job with his 2 beautiful children. My heart goes out to him. Much love.
@dianevioletta1408
5 ай бұрын
I can’t even imagine. I am so sorry for your losses. Every parents nightmare.
@Nunya-77
5 ай бұрын
That was the grief of them being sick and the possibility of them being taken I'm so sorry that they're gone
@libranpoet
5 ай бұрын
I am so incredibly sorry for that tremendous loss. Thank you for sharing your story and advice for Kyle and others going through this. Bless you.
@sheliajames4566
5 ай бұрын
Just remember God loaned Jenny to you for a while. She never was yours completely. She left you a gift,which is a part of you and her!! 2 beautiful children to make you strong and keep meekness to you!! I'm learning this Sam 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
@User79344
5 ай бұрын
I can’t imagine anger not being part of grief…it’s a stage.
@shillo3
5 ай бұрын
Hi Kyle I have been Following yours and Jenn channel for a year or so!! Thinking how can you cope with this. I’m in the same boat, my husband has now been diagnosed with brain cancer, it is a very so real place to be in. ❤
@DanicaSuklevski
5 ай бұрын
I am angry too I didn’t lose any body resent but I was diagnosed last April 2023 of rectal cancer stage 3 I said to my self why this happened to me some days I cry. And this January of 2024 I had my surgery and it went well. I thank my health care doctors.
@pattybennar1251
3 ай бұрын
It's ok to be angry!😢sad!frustrated.ur on a roller coaster.n that's ok.
@pattybennar1251
3 ай бұрын
Ur hurting DEEPLY.😢THATS GOOD u ask for help!
@judybw706
5 ай бұрын
I just want to chime in that some of us “lost” our other parent to an unwanted divorce. Unfortunately, most people have no empathy for that situation and don’t think any help is needed. However, it is almost exactly like the other parent died and you now must do everything on your own. The stages of grief apply to the death of a relationship, too.
@rebeccabender2753
5 ай бұрын
I'm going through the same thing. I feel like I'm dying everyday. The grief is so real. I literally have to take my day minute by minute. I just keep praying and praying for this pain to end.
@RF1972.
5 ай бұрын
When I lost my son, I didn't feel any sign of anger. It'll be 2 years this October, but just recently I thought to myself things like Why did you leave me? It hurt so much. I wanted to see you grow and flourish. I thought that for a couple of days, but then after that I prayed. I really did with my whole heart and ask God to comfort me. He says he will comfort those who mourn and he did..
@favorablemortal
5 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry ❤my condolences 🙏🏽
@southerngirl1408
5 ай бұрын
I’m so very sorry. Yes, God does help us if we ask. Sending prayers 🙏🙏
@RF1972.
5 ай бұрын
@@southerngirl1408 💖
@donnacain9692
5 ай бұрын
🙏💐
@RF1972.
5 ай бұрын
@@donnacain9692 💖
@krismills4393
5 ай бұрын
Rick Warren always says don' let your pain go to waste. Use it to help someone else. You are doing it now.
@deniporter3321
5 ай бұрын
YES! Anger is a normal stage in grief. Anger is the result of, hurt, fear and /or frustration.
@pinkpixie6917
5 ай бұрын
WOW this man just goes on & on posting his business 2 random strangers when he should be talking 2 professional’s, just waffles on 4 ages 2 fake friends not real people in his life is beyond strange unless GFM is still up & running then 💯 got my answer. We’ve all lost loved ones but don’t get payed 2 soften the blow like this smug man 😏 Kyle last seen loving life at Disneyland …. Again 🙄
@karenchiusano8370
5 ай бұрын
Grief is so hard I know your pain I’m going thru it my husband I lost him last august I still feel grief and I’m so angry I’m angry at the doctors and the hospital who let him die He should not of died his condition was fixable and he was savable but they just met him die I cry still not all the time but still I cry and I think of him so much everyday and I’m still angry I begged god I prayed and prayed and prayed to god not to take him but he still died So I’m angry I miss my husband so much I just want him back I just want to be with him again So sorry for your loss ❤
@lejla8085
4 ай бұрын
So sorry for your loss🙏
@lejla8085
4 ай бұрын
So sorry for your loss🙏
@lejla8085
4 ай бұрын
So sorry for your loss🙏
@lejla8085
4 ай бұрын
So sorry for your loss🙏
@justinedevoe7166
5 ай бұрын
Excellent ! “ Step Away “ AND Ask for help! 🙏🏼✝️🥰👍🏼♥️ Thank you!
@willtemsmom2538
5 ай бұрын
When Jenny passed I felt sadness for all of you . Switched quickly to anger .
@carolmacpherson9428
5 ай бұрын
I wish there were a few of you Lyle, you have the God given ability to explain the unexplainable. Your calm, loving nature alone is helpful, so I hope you keep doing this podcast as people like you are few and far between. Sorry about the name, I know it’s Kyle, not Lyle.
@vickieyoung7122
5 ай бұрын
My husband recently died...my stages have been sad, lonely, and scared....no anger and I dont understand the bargaining aspect...bargain how ?.. its not like a medical procedure will bring him back...after 37 years with a person, I imagine I will always be somewhat lonely and my life will never be the same....doesnt mean I wont have happy moments, but not as happy as they could have been.
@DefiantAngel87
2 ай бұрын
I can relate. Hugs
@candacepeludat5053
5 ай бұрын
You are being used by God Kyle, such a blessing that you are helping others when you yourself are grieving. Thank you for being transparent & know that we pray and love you.🎉❤
@gaylechamberlain8473
5 ай бұрын
On April 30 my husband will have been in heaven 6 months this post is my emtions exactly I have watched your posts since the beginning Jenny was so amazing and will always be with you Ellis and?Winnie in your precious memories you are a blessing in my life when I listen to you it gives me hope and reminds me I am not going off the deep end thank you for your input
@jeanetterosado7061
5 ай бұрын
Its ok to Grief being Angrying ..your Very Hurt just lost your beautiful wife ..its understable ...❤
@sandrarussell8551
5 ай бұрын
Yes...Anger is a step in the grief process. My child died 39 yrs ago. And am I angry still...yes...but as time goes on Kyle it gets manageable. It takes years....
@lovesmbx20
5 ай бұрын
Thank you Kyle… I really appreciate all your help & tips … it means a lot ❤
@justinedevoe7166
5 ай бұрын
My daughter’s husband committed suicide. 1996. Age 24. My daughter decided to turn her anger on me. Currently, I have not seen nor spoke with her for 15 years. It’s ok to get angry! Just don’t misdirect that anger. 🙏🏼✝️🕊️♥️
@pattykochenower4222
5 ай бұрын
So true, I’m so sorry that this happened. I hope she will come around soon, life is too short . I’d do anything to have my mother back for one more day …. Hugs and prayers ❤️🤗🙏
@justinedevoe7166
5 ай бұрын
@@pattykochenower4222 thank you… 🙏🏼♥️
@TracyGilmeister
5 ай бұрын
Kyle not only do you work through your stages of loss and grieving and the hard times, you are helping many in similar situations not feel so alone. They feel heard and understood. I think how you deal with hard times, and your communication skills, both are really making a positive difference in your children's lives to learn how to deal with loss, grieving, and just tough situations in life. Communication is so essential to everyone's well-being. Blessings to you, great job!
@tinaleakey2686
5 ай бұрын
It’s been a year and a half since I lost the love of my life to colon cancer. I can relate to everything you have said. Sending my thoughts and prayers to you and your kids as you continue on your journey to your new normal.
@kiwiang983
5 ай бұрын
Grief is so normal. About 4 months after my dad died suddenly and the shock wore off, I actually felt angry at him for dying
@terrinew9474
5 ай бұрын
I did the same when my mom passed away @kiwiang my sister and I both did. It was always just the three of us we were super close.
@Melissa-hu1qz
5 ай бұрын
This was the same for me. My father passed and I'll always be angry that my CPR didn't work. I didn't really know it besides watching TV...but I feel like I failed.
@ilb735
5 ай бұрын
@@Melissa-hu1qzyou tried, that's not a fail. Even someone with decades of daily experience at resuscitation cant save everyone. Sadly, it was his time. 💞💝💞
@ourcorrectopinions6824
5 ай бұрын
This is very normal. I can empathise. Rest in peace to your Pa.
@kiwiang983
5 ай бұрын
@@ourcorrectopinions6824 that’s very kind of you. Thank you
@SuperCaliforniaBarbi
5 ай бұрын
When my father was diagnosed I prayed. When he died I was so angry at God I didn't pray for a year. I just raised my hand and said talk to the palm. It's cancer I'm angry at now with it stealing a friend of 52 years. Im so angry at cancer I hate cancer and wish it back to hell.
@judyfoley5824
5 ай бұрын
I like the way you are explaining your anger. My husband has FTD a form of dementia. I’m grieving him, he’s slipping away every day. I’m slowly taking over every aspect of our lives including all the things he previously handled. Making future life decisions. We are going to move in anticipation of needing a smaller home as I can’t handle this one anymore. Scaling down is so emotional! All my memories. What can we afford?? Thankfully my faith that the Lord is with me and what is the most important in life has helped. I’m very kind to my husband as I know he can’t help what he’s going through. But every now and then I do get angry at something stupid. I need some help.
@XrazorstylistXOXO
5 ай бұрын
My husband crossed over last June from Young Alzheimer’s. This month the grief stopped overnight. ❤This is what I had to accept. He’s not coming back. He was suffering. He’s happy in heaven. - A Miracle happened!!! I had a visitation he was standing beside the bed when I woke up at 3am. I heard laughing and he was very happy and looked younger and said he was happy and to move on with my life. I said I loved him and he smiled then said move on its fine. Then he pointed up. He then disappeared. Got sent him back for a minute to get me over my grief. The grief disappeared. 😊❤
@soniaperichon5776
4 ай бұрын
This is beautiful
@DianeHardesty-rk3nm
5 ай бұрын
You articulate the stages of grief so well. I watch all your videos, Kyle, You are an amazing human being.
@normadelatorre8139
5 ай бұрын
You are an amazing speaker and should consider having a podcast 😊
@novoap100
5 ай бұрын
Never did I imagine being so comforted by your grieving process. When you first lost Jenny i was sure of 2 things: 1. Your beautiful babies being the perfect distraction to keep you going and keep you from slipping too far to the dark side, they are such a blessing. and 2. Sitting in my own grief for years now, I was really worried for you. Those babies losing their momma at such a tender age is so unfair and you, the love of your life and life partner. I thought for sure that'd be the last we'd hear from your family, or at least for awhile. Yet here you are sharing your grief journey, already helping so many others as you continue to find your way. You are a great example of strength. And keep going! It is inspiring to watch you progress. My question is did you develop any new anxieties/fears since Jenny's departure? Many blessings to you and the kids.
@melindaharrington7588
5 ай бұрын
Hi Kyle 🙂 👋 Thank you for this talk. I am feeling very frustrated, irritable, and angry. But not from losing someone close to me. But for grieving my previous life. I am loaded up with unbearable and intolerable, severe chronic / acute pain. It is under managed currently. I am pushing for a Hospital or Pain Management Unit admission. I am deteriorating, but don't have the physical and mental strength to keep pushing for help anymore. But I need, the help right now. If there are any, christians reading this. Can you please pray, that I get the help I so desperately need asap. Battling with suicidal thoughts, because I am pleading for help and no one is acting quick enough. Just because someone hasn't made a suicide attempt before, doesn't mean that they are never going to attempt it. If I had done something like that and survived, I would have gotten help for my pain quicker probably. Any prayer would be appreciated, and I would be so very grateful. I am doing this, all by myself. And I live by myself. Thank you again for this video. It has helped me tonight. Just mine is, a different kind of grief. ❤
@Holly_77
5 ай бұрын
Praying for you. 🙏❤️
@melindaharrington7588
5 ай бұрын
@Holly_77 Thank you, Holly 😘 👋 Receiving your message tonight, felt like God, wanted to use his people to remind me that he is still there. Even during the times, when I don't feel like he is. Very bad pain throughout today. I was very distressed, earlier. Maybe, I needed to hear from someone, as compassionate and kind as you likely are. Thank you for your Prayer. It is appreciated, and I am very grateful to receive it 🥰🥰🥰 From ~ Australia 🇦🇺
@Holly_77
5 ай бұрын
@@melindaharrington7588 You have a friend in me. I lost my mom, who was basically my only family, one year ago from cancer. I have been so lonely, and at times feel like I’m close to rock bottom. The future scares me. But, I try my best, and make the decision each day to trust in God, and have faith that everything will work out because He wants only good things for me. God bless you today and always. 🙏❤️
@bravoaddictAnn
5 ай бұрын
YES. It is very normal, and I'm so very sorry you lost Jenny. My heart goes out to you and your entire family.
@wejoin
5 ай бұрын
“…step out and take a minute” is such a great tool to get back to calm. It’s wonderful the kids are learning this too. You’re a great dad, Kyle !! I found it SO tough being a parent when I just wanted some alone time to grieve, to cry, to ‘process’ the loss.
@victoriah.2083
5 ай бұрын
Hey Kyle, I think it would be abnormal to NOT BE ANGRY. Especially if the circumstances surrounding a loss was tragic, unexpected, violent or untimely. Anger connected with grief usually involves an INJUSTICE. A feeling that it wasn't fair or reasonable. And not having answers to explain it or explain why. And many times men need the gateway of anger to access tears. Thank you Kyle for demonstrating or expressing your feelings to or with your kidletts so they can see it's OK to be sad, or lonely, or down or even ANGRY. The feelings come and go. Like a mountain stream, damming it up makes it mirky and muddy. But letting it flow keeps it sparkling, free, clear and singing. Yes. Reach out. It's hard, though. Because you might not know if that person REALLY wants to hear, or they're just being polite. I am blessed. I always had someone or a few friends to lean on. Though I hated to ask for help or company. And the Lord! I have always had that. I really don't know how people make it through the grief process without Faith. It's that hard.❤✝️🕊
@annegleason8442
5 ай бұрын
My best friend died on Easter Sunday!!! My best friend has been a great support for me!!!
@LeanneRaynor
5 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry for the loss of your best friend.
@purpleviolet2058
5 ай бұрын
Sorry for the loss of your best friend.
@kimh207
5 ай бұрын
Wishing you peace and strength during this difficult time.
@debrahalbert6578
5 ай бұрын
Kyle, starting a pod cast would be so great you could help so many people grieving . You are so inspiring to watch & listen to. I can't wait for that day to happen. It will help you even more. Much Love to you, Ellis & winnie❤❤❤
@debroahisaacs2452
5 ай бұрын
Anger is normal...my husband has been gone going on 3 years and I get angry. Still I get mad at him for leaving me. So many different angers. Yes it's normal.😢
@Madisons_Mom
5 ай бұрын
I lost my parents a month apart in 2015. unexpectedly and I have no siblings. I can definitely tell you I have been angry! My step dad died this past August and that ramped up my anger. I decided to start counseling. You inspired me to reach out to a counselor. Thank you!
@favorablemortal
5 ай бұрын
My condolences to you and I wish you all the best and lots of love from counseling. ❤
@kathypickens3309
5 ай бұрын
I am so sorry for your loss and my thoughts are with you. I lost my parents 6 months apart due to health issues almost 20 yrs ago. I fell into a deep depression for 2 years. You will go through many emotions. And you will never forget them .they will always be a part of you. It eventually gets better.🙏
@jenniferthompson6280
5 ай бұрын
so sorry
@jaktag
5 ай бұрын
I think anger is part of grief. I felt very angry when i lost my husband when our daughter was 2,i felt angry of the unfairness of my little girl loosing her Daddy,i used to get the urge to throw things for quite some time,it will pass in time,but oh so very normal.💕
@lynChip29
5 ай бұрын
I am nearly 2 years into my grief. You have helped me enormously & I have learned so much from you. One of my almost constant emotions is guilt. I felt survivors guilt in the beginning. How could I enjoy things when my Mother has gone. I've now moved away from that, but I feel guilt for not feeling guilty!!! I always dreaded the point when I could go through the day without thinking about her, but that has arrived... and I feel guilty!! Part of me didn't want to stop feeling sad because I didn't want to forget her as part of my everyday life... but here we are. I feel that I am moving away from the raw grief I felt until just recently and its being replaced with the odd grief ambush, but I'm able to laugh and smile at memories now instead of crying. I do distract wherever possible, it is the old fashioned way of dealing with grief. There were rarely any counsellors, you had to work through it, work being the optimum word. It does work. You've been amazing, Kyle. I'm so glad I found you guys. Jenny will always be remembered by so many. And even now she's still doing good through you. Thank you to both of you. X
@stacylein2448
5 ай бұрын
Anger is definitely part of the grieving process.I lost a pregnancy 15 years ago and I'm still angry about it.I wanted that baby so bad life is hard
@dianebohn8423
5 ай бұрын
You kyle, i had a break down in April, i lost my daughter on 16 of April 2009, i told myself i was not going to be sad, guess what that dis not work.i croed for the whole day i have not felt this way many times i did not want to do anything for that whole day i was angry and i knew i did not want to ve around anyone..i listen to her favorite music, a time when she made me laugh and cried at the same time, the next day I was better, my family is aware of this and so when they see me like this they give me space and let me regroup, losing a child is different than a spouse it's a different type of pain but it is all grief
@kelleyanne2368
5 ай бұрын
Yes, after I lost my husband I Would have anger out bursts at times .
@chrisbeaman8520
5 ай бұрын
I love how God is using you for his glory in your life
@Ybearl58
5 ай бұрын
Listening to you helps me understand my grief.
@susanbaker46
5 ай бұрын
Kyle, I've really been impressed with your transition from the initial loss to teaching this community about grief. I miss seeing Jenny. Your most recent posts have been very helpful to me. Thank you.
@kathywirtz6808
5 ай бұрын
I was angry at my husband for leaving me. ( one month today). Then of course I felt guilty because he was suffering at the end and I couldn't bare to see that. I've already had about every feeling possible in just this month. I pray this gets easier.
@wilmabriggs1771
5 ай бұрын
Just pray Kyle , it works!🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️
@JudyGyles
5 ай бұрын
I been so angry for about 5 years. Cancer has taken my father, Brother, and sister. And so many friends. Had colon cancer my self and been cancer free 4 years now but you.think I would be happy about it. But I'm won't let my self .
@irenebaron5360
5 ай бұрын
Great advice Kyle! 😊 I've been stressed lately and I need to remind myself to step away. Thank you!!! 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
@jenniferlopez3554
5 ай бұрын
Yes , Sir . It is normal to feel anger when someone you love is gone 😢. There are several stages and anger is one of those actually. I also felt anger when I lost my man in 2019 . Now I feel alone but relieved because his last days were very hard to him . He died from pneumonia . Now I know he rests in peace . Forever
@JC-tp5lz
5 ай бұрын
Speaking of anger in grief ... when my 44 year old nephew hung himself 17 years ago, I went into a fit of rage. I remember looking up at heaven and swearing at him for doing such a stupid and foolish thing. And like with many suicides, the anger is often followed by lots of "why's and what if's". There's also a lot of guilt involved, and anger at yourself ... like why didn't I see the signs! Sometimes I think that death by suicide is harder on the survivors than it is on the victims. 😔
@michellehollensteiner4643
5 ай бұрын
I get angry at dementia. My mom passed away 2 years ago from dementia. I miss her so much.
@rikkemeek1506
5 ай бұрын
I lost my mom to dementia in january. It's a horrible decease because you don't just loose them one time but multible times, before they actually pass away.
@michellehollensteiner4643
5 ай бұрын
@@rikkemeek1506 You are so right. I'm so sorry. I know how you feel
@sherrykelley3354
5 ай бұрын
Anger is definitely part of it. My sister-in-law committed suicide and 3 months later my brother died. He was so miserable after her death. Angry and feeling lost with out her. After his death I had no way to understand how cruel this all was. Sad lost and angry that people would be so upset over trivial things. It takes time, but you do learn to deal with it all. Never forget them, but remember good things and good times you had with that person. You have done well in how you are coping without Jenny. She will be there with you always.
@kimwalker3566
5 ай бұрын
To watch the healing and grieving journey in Kyle has been so amazing. As painful as it's been, it truly shows that there's hope. Thank you so much for sharing this. Kyle, Jenny and their beautiful kids are so loved and cared about by people they've never even met. ❤
@thepratherlife
5 ай бұрын
you're amazing, Kyle. You should be a grief counsellor. Perfectly said.
@kittygirl11111
5 ай бұрын
Hi Kyle. You and Jenny are the absolute definition of true love and a perfect relationship. Did you guys ever have any arguments/ how did you deal with them?
@gigiknowsbest7391
5 ай бұрын
I would love to hear from Jenny’s sister in a segment. My experience with losing my brother and nephew. It was devastating and I felt so alone in my grief. This was years back and I still feel like the focus was on my SIL and rightly so, but very little mental help for a sister/aunt. i’ve been to therapy and I don’t feel like a victim at all. I just think we need to reach out to all family and friends and just ask them, “how are you doing?” and follow up by being that person who will let you share how empty it feels dealing with grief because honestly as a sister I just felt my role was to help with childcare. Saying that it reminds me that no one checked in with me and i didn’t even notice that until years later. I would love to say I bet the siblings of Jenny need to know we care. Love you Kyle for your articulate gift of expressing yourself. This channel is very therapeutic.
@ashleyabrams9718
5 ай бұрын
Do more Dailey life type videos. I luv watching just the everyday stuff! Keep up the good work your doing great
@lalabyelulu4021
5 ай бұрын
My husband suffered a lot of loss before we met and had anger issues. He told me the only way he got through it was turning to Jesus Christ. That's when he felt true peace, walking with our Lord and Savior. John 14:27 Peace I leave with you , my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid..." and John 16:33!
@libranpoet
5 ай бұрын
Amen and God's glory.
@mickycooper355
5 ай бұрын
Amen
@jenniferthompson6280
5 ай бұрын
as long as it isn't maga so called christianity ..but the real word..
@Rita-yw2tn
5 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏🏻
@lydiamoore142
5 ай бұрын
That has been my experience. I couldn’t go through this without Jesus.
@christophervipond1950
5 ай бұрын
Grief Vs Advertising revenue? Which one matters most to you? You should do a video. I think I know the answer from the amount of content you are doing whilst "grieving"
@heatherscarlett4459
5 ай бұрын
Absolutely normal, one of the stages of grief. I am not angry at my son for passing, I’m mad at all the moms who still have their family intact. Totally irrational but that is grief isn’t it?!
@cheylingarber5886
5 ай бұрын
I absolutely agree with you, I lost 2 children and I often feel anger because my family will never be intact again. I watch my married friends going on family vacations and my heart breaks because I will never have that again. Sometimes we get invited along, but we never go simply because I don’t want to witness their happiness because I can never experience that again. Selfish? Maybe, I want to be happy for them, and I can fake a smile but inside it’s tearing me apart….I KNOW YOUR PAIN 😢
@shamimmukadam9859
5 ай бұрын
That was an amazing vlog Kyle. Full of honesty and the raw feelings a person goes through with grief. I have seen alot of my family members going through the grief process. There is alot of anger, also not accepting the fact that their loved one had to go so soon from their life. It all takes alot of time to overcome this grief. And we all going to go through it one day, sadly. God bless you Kyle for sharing your thoughts and experiences with us . You doing great so far. ❤
@suzantherrien3708
5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much you are wise beyond your age ❤❤❤ Godbless from Keswick Ontario Canada ❤
@A---ti3zz
5 ай бұрын
Two years in July and I just keep going back and forth between anger and immense sadness. Grief is very lonely because everyone seems to give you half a second to grieve and then they expect you to just move on.
@DefiantAngel87
2 ай бұрын
So true
@marymartin849
5 ай бұрын
That is absolutely a stage of grief! Absolutely normal!
@marycaruso3846
5 ай бұрын
You really just hate the world. When I lost my mom I was mad at the doctors who didn’t find her cancer until it was too late. I was mad at the happy people in the world who could smile and laugh, I was mad that I was losing my best friend and the best mom in the world. I was just mad, mad, mad! Why did God do this to me? 😪😪😪
@michellearroyo9136
5 ай бұрын
Same here ! Exactly what you said . My moms doctor missed all the signs . Worse thing is he did the same with my grandmother . How was he even a doctor , why did I just lose the two main women in my life . That way so soon . After being diagnosed they passed about 4 months after being told it’s too late , there’s nothing that can be done . June will make 8 years since my mom passed
@Darlene3178
5 ай бұрын
I lost my husband 4 years ago (also to cancer) and I continue to go through those stages of grief. I got married at the end of February of this year (my husband is also a widow) and I continue to go through grief stages. Thankfully my new husband gives me the space and support to grieve. I make it a point to not pitch a tent in any stage for long but to press on. My faith plays a huge roll in this!
@larie71
5 ай бұрын
Love you Kyle..Jenny was the best. You’ve got this, and we are all rooting for you!
@goshgloria
5 ай бұрын
Blessing to you and your family Kyle. I lost my youngest brother at 42 this year. Suddenly from a stoke that he never recovered from. He has very young kids, and I am so angry that this happened to him. He came home from work, sat down to dinner and blacked out and never came back from ICU. We were with him while he took his last breaths. I just don't understand why this happened. And anger does get the best of me most days that this happened to his kids that they will never have their father in this world with them. The youngest is 5.
@superchatcat658
5 ай бұрын
So sorry for your loss.
@bmackillop9937
5 ай бұрын
You’ve learned so much already in these few months Kyle.All the emotions are normal for someone in grief.Wish you peace and love
@louise8752
5 ай бұрын
It is 100% angry to be mad in grief. Furious even at cancer and at Jenny for leaving. All normal.
@joyceharvey410
5 ай бұрын
You are an encouragement. Loss my husband in 2022, my brother in 2023 and my Mom in 2024. And so many other family members in previous years. Grief is soooooo hard. God bless you and we will keep going!
@robinbroussard1155
5 ай бұрын
I'm a retired cna worked with hospice patients anger is very much the grieving process it takes awhile to get past but it does leave. Today is the 30th anniversary of my husband's death be strong we love you guys ❤😊
@joandehnert1115
5 ай бұрын
My mother passed in January of 2023. I feel like most of last year I spent in a giant fog, all the firsts without her, all the things that will never be the same again. My mother was diagnosed with dementia several months prior to her passing, I grieved and was really angry for that diagnosis. I still feel the lose of small things, the sound of her voice, the way she loved Christmas. It’s just not the same and never will be.
@Sam4G0d
5 ай бұрын
Sending love
@amyhenningsgard8618
5 ай бұрын
🌹🙏🏻
@OlafVantVeer-f3d
5 ай бұрын
I relate.... .
@rikkemeek1506
5 ай бұрын
I lost my mom to dementia aswell. It's a horrible desease because you don't just loose them one time, but multipal times.
@janicehartley8525
5 ай бұрын
I know when I lost my mum, it took me years to finally find peace. Grief is so hard I would cry at the drop of a hat. God bless you Kyle and your beautiful family. Love you guys ❤
@jedison3414
5 ай бұрын
Kyle, the progress you’ve made in your grief journey so far is really amazing. I think it’s because of all the things you’ve done to move yourself through this. Your advice and tips are so valuable- thanks!
@JudithEastman-jl3vg
5 ай бұрын
Thats why we rely on our Lord and try to give of ourselves , doing for orher people . All of us humans will suffer losses , give , give , give ! 😊
@berenadelacruz628
5 ай бұрын
Kyle, I became a widow amost 3 yrs. ago on May 2021 and believe me I am still in a state of uncertainty, I feel so alone and having to do daily life is just so sad to me. I try to keep busy all the time and hand it all to God and pray for strength and patience.
@tamiewert808
5 ай бұрын
Elizabeth Kubler Ross grief theory states that anger is the second stage of grief (denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance)
@katherynbrown6619
5 ай бұрын
Stages DO NOT come in any order! They come at random .
@marjorienesivar5894
5 ай бұрын
As a believer of Jesus Christ, I was happy to hear of your recent baptism, and I would like encourage you to find joy in him. Our Lord is the great Healer. It is true that anger will raise it nasty head but you can overcome it with prayer, reading of his word, and yes, the company of supporting friend. We can't forget, but time makes it easier.
@michellefrench6617
5 ай бұрын
Ross discovered these stages from studying the grief process of people who are dying. The stages were never meant for grieving a loved one. Even so, she states the stages are not a hard and fast rule. Real grief is messy. The important thing is to go through it whatever you feel.
@lee383C
5 ай бұрын
@@katherynbrown6619💯💯 I’m 2 years in massive grief after 2 deaths of parents I cared for & im still in Anger & depression & I doubt I’ll ever hit full acceptance but that’s me, and as you said they come differently for everyone.. no 2 people grieve the same..
@dystopianjustice247
5 ай бұрын
I call them the ebbs and flows. Grab those stale Peeps, and have the kids glue them to a board with waves/flows either blocking or freeing the ducks from swimming. Some days ebb, some flow...it's about using resources to ride through the waves of grief.
@dianabadillo2646
5 ай бұрын
Kyle, anger is part of the grief process. I miss seeing sweet Jenny in the videos. My prayers are with you daily Kyle & Ellis, Winnie. 🙏🙏🙏🙏
@Sam4G0d
5 ай бұрын
This was very helpful, thank you!
@stephanier7738
5 ай бұрын
How can I get the doctors to listen to me about anger and grief without them wanting to put you in a phyco ward? I'm in deep depression and grief and feel myself slipping in the wrong direction. On top of being very ill myself. I can't get out of house to go to group sessions or church. Any advice? (I don't have family support or friends like I used to)
@Goldenswan000
5 ай бұрын
l lost my grandson a year ago lm still grieving lm mad because he came to my home to spend the night he come late l was in my room he would always tell me good night love you ma he died in my bathroom late that night. my heart hurts it’s hard to explain it he left a daughter lm helping raise. God bless you ❤🙏
@superchatcat658
5 ай бұрын
Sorry for your loss.
@evaklein-do5ut
5 ай бұрын
Don't forget how bad the time was and how much stress you had that is now coming out. That's normal. Don't fight it. It will get better
@janetatkinson9023
5 ай бұрын
My Husband passed a year and one month on April 25 still trying to cope. Kyle hope you, Ellis and Winnie can draw strength from each other and I wish you all happiness.
@TracyGilmeister
5 ай бұрын
Sorry for your loss, prayers going out to you.
@janetatkinson9023
5 ай бұрын
@@TracyGilmeister Thank you for taking your time to pray for me.
@kimh207
5 ай бұрын
Tracy, sending you strength today and peace in all the days ahead ❣️
@lisabrear3989
5 ай бұрын
You are strong in your grief, and a true teacher, sharing your personal journey through grief and encouraging others along the way with your wisdom. I admire your frankness and courage. No doubt, it is a comfort to others who must walk this path.
@TammyManack
5 ай бұрын
Grief is a stage in the process of loss. The stages of loss varies in order & times. I'm so proud of you and your precious babies ❣️🙏🏻🧸🐞🌻
@KalpanaSarsthi
5 ай бұрын
Hi Kyle this is kalpana from Vancouver bc. I just finished watching your very valuable video you mention amazing educating many of us with your amazing possitive outlook of reality in life that I admire your true feelings what you are going through. As I mentioned in my last comment to you, my 13 years old grandson had Hodgkin lymphoma had six months of that horrible chemo and we all went through the same horrible time of our life, my older son and daughter in law have five beautiful children including the oldest one to go through. He is in remission now. It's horrible to see my son, daughter in law my other grandmother to see them and us all breaking down of fear of this monster cancer. My love and prayers always be with you and your family. With all our love. Be strong, take a day at a time. Time heals losses. You will get through this with your strength and time. Jennie new home is above and beyond and in everyone heats. She lives in you and your kids heart that's her new home foreevert. Every heart beat she is in your heart. You take care of yourself and those beautiful children. God bless you with all his love and blessings. 🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️
@evelyn6986
5 ай бұрын
I've been angry since I lost my 27-year-old son, I've learned it is okay to be angry, hurt, and lost, and they are all part of grief, in my opinion.
@TracyGilmeister
5 ай бұрын
Sorry for the loss of your son, prayers going out to you.
@carrieghosen4011
5 ай бұрын
How do you go so long without sleeping more than a few hours a day
@rikkemeek1506
5 ай бұрын
Grief carves a place in the heart and it sits there forever. When Focused it can be a powerful motivator. Sadness becomes resolve and pain becomes action.
@TheRealPeggySue
5 ай бұрын
Very well said in such a personal and compassionate way. It helped me to hear your advice so thank you for taking the time out of your day to make this video. ❤️🙏🏻
@davinamunday2043
5 ай бұрын
My dad suddenly passed away on Tuesday. He had spent four months in hospital after a stroke. I was so happy he was finally home. My brother called and told me. I stepped out my car and just screamed. I couldn’t believe my mum had a brain injury and then my dad. I have noticed self blame is something I have done for a long time.
@evapetersen-acosta8599
5 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry for your loss. May your Dad rest in peace. I also screamed at the universe when my little brother died. I've also lost my Dad, Mom and little sister to cancer.
@APickleandAPrayer-yd4eg
5 ай бұрын
Kyle, please be sure to check yr P.O. Box before your next camping trip. :) Jodi B.
@silvialogan9226
5 ай бұрын
Kyle, anger is a part of grieving. Since my father passed away suddenly and unexpectedly of heart failure on May 9th 2021, I have been constantly short-tempered with me having to deal with everything on my own. I become angry because my sister and brother-in-law will not let me have a credit card because I get scammed quite easily and the lady who is charge of my finances at the bank will not let me have a huge Savings amount. I become angry if things around the house do not work properly or if my computer acts up. All that anxiety which I have been suffering since my father's death has led me to great anger.
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