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@jrrm7869
Жыл бұрын
I often wonder why you defended Johnny Depp so hard and then turn around and do the exact same shit to Megan Markle and Harry without an ounce of evidence? You're a real piece of shit, harassing that woman because it kills you to see a black princess. Not one she's of proof, but you know better surely with all your years of personal knowledge. You are trash.
@tamara.64
2 жыл бұрын
They love playing victims in circumstances that they created themselves.
@BaggageClaim
2 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@ondkami
2 жыл бұрын
How well said....
@citrusbutter7718
2 жыл бұрын
I saw one 2 months or so ago playing out on KZitem between a man and a woman. The woman obviously is a narc and she and the man have been going back and forth at each other in KZitem drama for years. It goes the woman met a childhood friend again and he invited her back in town to hang out at his house, the enemy man of her found out because while at the other man's house she started videotaping the both of them to show off that she has a new man over the internet. Most of the videos the new man didn't know about or consent to, so the enemy man started making fun of her for it calling her thirsty for both a man and for attention, she then started acting extra, getting irate, and screaming, basically making a show for the drama of it all. Literally the next day she announced to her viewers that she's not with the new man anymore because things went south and that it was her haters faults. What really happened was the new guy started getting annoyed with her yelling and acting crazy in his house obsessively having a shouting match with a man over the internet aka her enemy, he asked her to settle down, he also said he found out that she posted his place all over using him as her content and he brought it up saying she cant do that because he's a private person, he said she started yelling at him threatening to call the cops because he was "making her feel unsafe" and when the cops came she lied about how he was threatening her, the cops asked her if she wanted to leave although he wasn't kicking her out just yet and she said yes. After she was provided a hotel room she took to her channel blaming her "haters" for breaking them up, saying they trolled away a good thing she had o.0 She decided to put that man's place and face over the internet, she claimed they were a couple even though he only invited her to his place and seen her for the first time since childhood, he never said they were a couple, she decided to argue with people obnoxiously obviously getting excited and hyped over the attention from it, and she decided to walk around his house like a crazy woman yelling for hrs in the early morning about how other people are jealous of her and her new man, and she called the cops herself just because the guy who's house she's in criticized her for it all lol. This woman even lost her 7 kids because of the way she is but she loves calling other people narcs, she calls everybody else things that she happens to be.
@sanjupun5928
2 жыл бұрын
Who told you they created themselves? It was created by William, Kate and their pals british rightwing press created it.
@squeegee4342
2 жыл бұрын
Hahah exactly!
@christosliakis519
2 жыл бұрын
Jealousy, I believe, plays a big part in Harry's behaviour. He is jealous of William, his grounded, centered FIRST IN LINE brother and he will continue to be jealous of him with a burning bitterness, egged on by Meghan, and ironically because of the contrast that he has created between them. Since the more Harry acts like a pretentious, self-important "fake it till you make it" wannabe leader, the more William's more refined, genuine manner will shine through. And the more Harry will have to overcompensate by inflating his fragile, monumental ego.
@BaggageClaim
2 жыл бұрын
Yes
@evabrick2526
2 жыл бұрын
Exaxtly
@fanni24
2 жыл бұрын
Harry claims to be his mother's son but I think the more he speaks and acts out, the more I see a resemblance of Diana's good personality traits in William and all of the bad ones in Harry.
@goodjujuu
2 жыл бұрын
I agree; noticed how they announced their exit a day or 2 after the photo shoot the queen with all the heirs to the throne in People Magazine?
@marinavasquez8813
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@FunctionalFoodie
2 жыл бұрын
He's very damaged, self obsessed, and has never been emotionally stable, probably with a trauma-based personality disorder. His relationship with his wife has absolutely brought out the worst in him, and triggered worsening mental health. I've seen the same in those with PTSD when they get into the wrong relationships. She knows what she's doing, and is definitely a narcissist - Harry is an enabler, as well as having all his trauma triggered. Kate is a healthy partner for William, Meghan is a destructive partner for Harry. The Palace covered up a lot of his behaviour growing up, but there's no one to advise him and cover up for him now.
@inproper3952
2 жыл бұрын
It’s just incredibly sad really, marble brings out the worst in Harry he seems so unhappy since he has married her. She is a cool customer I would despise a woman like her married to my brother.
@meilingflesa8140
2 жыл бұрын
He's made his bed so he can lie in it
@adeledorman6447
2 жыл бұрын
You got that right!
@1004katherine
2 жыл бұрын
@@meilingflesa8140 That's what divorces are for.......to get out of the bed and don't look back.
@meilingflesa8140
2 жыл бұрын
@@1004katherine l think Harry is more scared of loosing Methane than divorcing her
@Pemberley78
2 жыл бұрын
The statement he made on how the press is not going to be satisfied until ‘she’ dies, yikes!!! The look on his face when he said it - my god the man is to use his word, stark raving ‘bonkers’. I can’t bear to look at him. Good job and great video, thanks. 🇨🇦
@BaggageClaim
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!
@citrusbutter7718
2 жыл бұрын
It's like he's trying to recreate the mystique of his mother through Meaghan o.0.
@amberpowell5826
2 жыл бұрын
@@citrusbutter7718 I think Meghan heavily reinforces that narrative. She showed up to their first date wearing princess Diana’s perfume. Meghan also has reportedly mimicked to a high degree the feelings of being suicidal and the firm not helping that princess Diana had also asserted in the 90s. Meghan redesigned her entire blog from a health/ lifestyle topic to a humanitarian- like context. There are a great number of channels that explore Harry and Meghan’s dynamic. Check out the body language guy, sue me, and according to taz -
@Anna_Key
2 жыл бұрын
@@cherrygarcia1 no, unfortunately Harry does believe the paparazzi was going to hound Markle to death like he thinks happened to his Mum. Haz and MM will never understand the papps were NOT chasing her anywhere. They are deluded, and that is very sad. We should send thoughts and prayers to help them.
@anonymousaccount8941
2 жыл бұрын
@@amberpowell5826 Oh god yeah! That event they went to after she said that to him - his face! She was fine - worked better that she thought probably, but Harry shows everything he feels on his face and the anxiety was palpable - imagine using the death of someones mother against them.
@cewoods127
2 жыл бұрын
Meghan's facial expression when he says she "saved him" at around 8:30 tells you who the narcissist really is.
@lynette599
2 жыл бұрын
Yes, the self-satisfaction was SO evident...
@allykuit5384
2 жыл бұрын
She was disgustingly smug.
@POOSAYYY
2 жыл бұрын
💀💀😭😭I CAN'T
@Lee-fw9mr
2 жыл бұрын
I think she was also hiding her anger because Harry too so long to say yes. I BET she gives him notes and critiques after every single interview.
@cutelittleReis90
2 жыл бұрын
Funny enough is her little smile of satisfaction.
@GeneralKatarn
2 жыл бұрын
THIS. I wasn't in a relationship with Meghan Markle but I was to a narcissist like her. She made me distance myself from my family and friends. Made me a victim although I wasn't one. Showered me with love and praise and made me seem I was in need of saving. Everything you mentioned in this video describes my relationship of 3 years
@shannashutterfly6806
2 жыл бұрын
For General Katarn . Wow. I am so glad you got out and can see clearly now. A gf of mine left a narcissist and then went back to him. I was beyond frustrated with her. A very longstanding relationship and lots of back and forth How did you get out ?
@GeneralKatarn
2 жыл бұрын
@@shannashutterfly6806 I was increasingly getting miserable as time went on. At the same time we were in talks of going more serious and starting a family. But she hated my family and for a time like the video says I bought into the victim narrative and was made to be special by her that was saved from my "evil family". She said if we had kids my folks could not be involved or else she'd leave me, take them away from me and I'd never get to see them again. It was hard because I did love her but I was not going to throw my life away at 26 to spend the next 18 years paying alimony for a child I'd never see again. So I left
@shannashutterfly6806
2 жыл бұрын
@@GeneralKatarn that must have taken a lot of courage. Respect ✊
@Aurora-qn2dx
2 жыл бұрын
I was too with a narcissist man..but no praise..just control and making me feel worthless.Meghan Markle doesnt praise Harry She controls him by using his weaknesses as weapons against him without him noticing..she has made his blessings and good points look like trash in his eyes..shes brainwashed him in every way.
@monicanath4859
2 жыл бұрын
Good grief! So sorry to hear this. I pray for healing.
@PilotHardy
2 жыл бұрын
Wonderful video & analysis! I used to feel sorry for Harry, but recently I've realized he's always been a selfish, spoiled brat who had the palace to protect his image. Without that, we're seeing Harry for who he really is. His hypocritical & pontificating words & actions have been infuriating. Of course Meghan is bringing out the worst of him as well. At the end of the day, they deserve each other.
@АпоорваР
2 жыл бұрын
Hey Pilot nice to see you here 👋🏼!
@danceteachermom
2 жыл бұрын
Hi Pilot Hardy! I love your videos! 🤗♥️❗
@brendastarr7816
2 жыл бұрын
I couldn't agree with you more!
@veronicagomezcalvo4001
2 жыл бұрын
I couldn't agree more.
@maggiesays7827
2 жыл бұрын
He forgets he's a guest in our country. We aren't dumb enough to think he came in and was honest on his visa application because past drug and alcohol abuse disqualifies. He's just here hiding from his family after trashing them like an overgrown teenager throwing a fit.
@BaggageClaim
2 жыл бұрын
Seriously
@ericaknesek3266
2 жыл бұрын
And he can be a citizen in the United States or live here indefinitely but not with a title that’s why we had the revolutionary war
@lordfreerealestate8302
2 жыл бұрын
He was probably given a pass because he's rich and famous.
@fanni24
2 жыл бұрын
@@ericaknesek3266 Could the loss of his titles be the reason he's not rushing to get the US ciitzenship? Apart from tax strategies of course, hence his lease renewal on Frogmore so that he can still reside on paper in the UK half-time.
@misselizabethromfer8778
2 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👏👏👏
@anonymousaccount8941
2 жыл бұрын
As always I agree with you - it's why I don't share this "He will never be welcome back," attitude. I have had to deal with a narcissist invading my family, making someone I love into someone I don't recognise and even character assassinating me in an attempt to make me into a pariah. I see the similarities and honestly, seeing them together often raises my anxiety - I just hope he gets out.
@Tully_23_32
2 жыл бұрын
As an Aussie i absolutely hate when other countries think our constitution & laws are ridiculous & out spoken non Aussie's on the other side of the planet that have never been near Australia yet they think they can tell us & how ridiculous our laws are but i would never call another country's constitution or laws ridiculous, in public anyway lol but H doesn't know anything about America's constitution, he admitted that but still went ahead calling America 1st amendment bonkers. Haz mate 🤫🤫🤫🤫🤫🤫🤫🤫🤫
@maggiesays7827
2 жыл бұрын
As an American, I understand. Our government is far from perfect but a democracy is a work in process. As a guest, he should stay silent until he has his citizenship.
@Tully_23_32
2 жыл бұрын
@@maggiesays7827 Yep! Exactly! But for some unknown reason (M) he now thinks that coz he's been in the US for 5 mins that he has the right to comment. It's amazing he thinks the 1st Amendment is Bonkers yet he was able to say that comment thru shock! horror! 😲 The 1st Amendment! He need to keep hush & zip it! I'm not understanding what they both want? Do they want nobody in the world to be able to be free to speak their minds except for the both of them or do they want us to live in a middle eastern type countries where nobody, men, women & children aren't allowed to say a bad word about anything otherwise they're stoned to death, or hanged or shot etc etc etc... More or less go back into the middle ages. They totally believe that what we have to say isn't important but everything they say is gospel
@maggiesays7827
2 жыл бұрын
@@Tully_23_32 You have it right. They don't want anyone to have the right to hurt their feelings by telling the truth.
@anonymousaccount8941
2 жыл бұрын
@@Tully_23_32 I get you, its like when I hear Americans saying stuff about the UK because of all of Meghan's nonsense insinuations... I just get my best Oprah face on and go "What!?!" I think its mainly cuz its very clear that they don't understand anything about us or our country.... You have to know somewhere first... Some of my faves: We're all racist; we've never had black people here before; its constantly foggy. To be fair to Harry - Americans have done the same to us - What about Meghan McCain's "monarchies are stupid" speech? (to be fair though, that made her look like an idiot) - I'm not royalist but I was offended... probably because of the wider context of that comment.
@helolange1132
2 жыл бұрын
It makes him look very colonizer like 💀
@mrenaep
2 жыл бұрын
What I don't get is Harry's forever changing "reasons" of why the RF didn't like Meghan. At first, they loved her. Then they were jealous. Then they realized she couldn't be controlled by the "firm". Then the RF is racist? Like which one is it? And if they were racist, they wouldn't have liked her to begin with. They would've shunned her from the beginning. Same with the tabloids. But even he admitted that both the family and the public LOVED Meghan from the start.
@charmaccents6278
2 жыл бұрын
Yes, she had it made but ruined it all.
@sissys9456
2 жыл бұрын
And it all started to go bad when her bad behavior started coming out, which they don't want to admit to. I think she thought the royal family was going to "protect" her from bad press but when they kept to the never complain/never explain she was pissed. Everyone in the royal family has gotten bad press at one time or another, she wasn't the first and won't be the last And I also do not think that everyone that does not like her is a racist, bad behavior is bad behavior. I know they've won some of the many court cases but what have they lost, like having to apologize to a judge for "forgetting" that she provided information for that book?
@AvidReader101
2 жыл бұрын
The changing stories suggests the problem was with H&M. She was welcomed and supported by the RF and the British Public. When they didn’t get their way continually bucking protocol they threw their dummies in the dirt. It’s been “poor me” ever since
@minaryeon9259
Жыл бұрын
Meghan put ideas into his mind, it is obvious she is the story teller. Whatever she says he believes.
@U.S.A..
2 жыл бұрын
He's just a jerk.
@destinyhntr
2 жыл бұрын
We do need to factor in that selfishness is becoming more and more common nowadays. When culture tells people from a young age to worry about themselves and only do what makes them happy, a lot of people just start caring about themselves and no longer acknowledging the feeligs of others close to them (they might be able to say they care about this big group of faceless people that they don't know but they don't actually care inside).
@marinavasquez8813
2 жыл бұрын
@@maxi7752 agree
@carolamottfenstermacher3555
2 жыл бұрын
You are so concise and accurate, spot on. You've explained narcissist vs narcissist prey. My husband was just like this then once married BAM he did a Jekkyl and Hyde. He was nothing like that person why lead me to believe what I see is really him, NO it's not! Sound familiar? Yup Meghan did the same once wedding over then in public people noticed as did the media. Then when they reported she did exactly what she "meticulously manipulated". It set them up for her step one to get back to CA USA, use the Race Card. Sound familiar? Letter to her dad Jason Knauf's evidence of emails, texts proved Meghan said she "meticulously manipulated" that letter for public sympathy. Yes but it was also for her dad to go public contradicting her accusations falsehoods aka LIES speak with the media since she refused to take his calls or texts. Then when the media erroneously reported more lines, characters than permitted BUT they wrote the truth. She did NOT win on the media printing the letter as was her original intent to sue the paper. It was that very fine thin line, literally, printing too much. The Judge in his Legal word findings said so. Regardless she admitted to MANIPULATED that letter that normally would be a very personal one but clearly it was not. I loved my dad dearly , we were always very close and as an adult into my 60s and he 80 he passed away 5 yrs ago this Dec 2022. I miss him every day dearly just to hear his voice, listen to his humorous stories about the women in his Senior bldg, he was my confidant, a very wise man! I could never ever do such a horrendous heinous manipulative acts without any regrets, apologies for breaking the heart of the man who loved and adored her. The same man who on her Tig pre Harry she raved & thanked consistently for being the very best dad, her best dad, most supportive of her all all her life, raised her and provided a wonderful life for her. Wow amazing well shocking the extremely abrupt change. To set him up is beyond despicable so much that it's difficult to find the adjective to fully express the depth of her evil calculated scheming and still today. This is Meghan Markle
@JoyJoy-sc1ov
2 жыл бұрын
I believe my ex-husband is a covert narc. He changed after we got married. Bait and Switch! Narcs also project what they are doing onto others. Once I realized this, when my ex accused me of doing something, I knew what he was doing behind my back. Narcs think they are so clever, but they are not.
@carolamottfenstermacher3555
2 жыл бұрын
@@JoyJoy-sc1ov yes you are so right. My husband to be ex is a Grandiose Overt Malignant Narcissist. It's hell when you see them with their MASK off but it's shocking at first then whenever they say or do something and you see their reactions or listen to their exaggerated lies stories they come up with is mind boggling. You question yourself during the first of many different things once the mask is off like how did I not see the signs, why did I ignore them then you go back over the times you remember this and that then you remember you gave leeway given getting to know each other, each were married to their Late spouses for about 30+ years so it takes time, each set in your own ways so they'll be compromised and we all have our weaknesses and faults. So you realize they took advantage of your kindness, grace and willing to work thru it. When they weren't. When they had a moment of weakness their mask slid a bit they were swift to apologize appear sincere and promise to work on it. Or just having a bad day, work is stressful the boss or coworker is a ass, a jerk complains about them. When later you discover just more lies when in fact he has performance issues and lack of respect for coworkers. The list goes on. You beat yourself up quite awhile but finally then since your eyes are wide open you are wiser to the narc's manipulations, schemes, you have a built in radar when they're hiding things being sneaky etc, you find evidence. It's nauseating to observe their sickness when they will lie to your face, deflect, project lie on top of lie never blink. Even when you prove they lie they abruptly go into extreme defense mode then start yelling at you they won't let you get a word in then you get upset and raising your voice then they get this look of satisfaction but trying not to show it. They suck you into engaging their sick mind games but only because your trying to get thru to the person you trusted, had faith in, believed in and gave your heart. They did not with you. You are just a means to an end. You didn't notice before because you didn't have a full understanding of the level of evil sickness your dealing with until one day you do After awhile may be a long while but one day no more tears no engaging, not angry and.do not live. There's only indifference!! This they can't handle even if they've found someone else and most do while with you but you've bruised their self inflated ego. But your done. That's the first day of the rest of your life. So if there's red flags no matter how little, do not make any excuses to justify them because they show you so much good and apologize & sweet nothings. Proceed with great caution. Stay alert.
@JoyJoy-sc1ov
2 жыл бұрын
@@carolamottfenstermacher3555 I totally get you! Getting divorced was the best thing to happen!! Be well!
@JessieCori
2 жыл бұрын
There's no comparison between her and Diana. None. He seems utterly and hopelessly deluded. Very tragic.
@arianemontemuro7901
2 жыл бұрын
Prince William is very caring. Harry has become a narcissist thanks to Meghan Markle.
@renekirebornrenekireborn4777
2 жыл бұрын
His sense of entitlement mixed with her lack of humility make for a toxic mix. They don't seem to bring out the best in each other. So much destruction in their wake and they seem perfectly fine about it.
@rosethorne9076
2 жыл бұрын
Both thrive on chaos and drama. And plays into their victimhood. What a sad life they have - devoid of normal feelings, especially M.
@Rose24099
2 жыл бұрын
It took me years to know that my husband was a narcissist.Isolating me from my family, making me believe they were in the wrong. It's only now that I understand this behaviour and will take Harry years too. By that time, it's too late to get out of the relationship.
@sunshine90088
2 жыл бұрын
First ! 😁 I love your channel. And i was waiting for your update on Harry and Megan situation.
@BaggageClaim
2 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@StandAsYouAre
2 жыл бұрын
You can even see with the footage the bit where M sits down is grabbing at H to tell him to sit down, but you can see he was waiting for the women in the other seats to sit down first. He was trying to be a gentleman, and he was probably trained to do that in regards to general etiquette. If M took more cues from H on how to go about things, and not just crammed herself in (like Ivanka Trump did in the footage of world leaders having a conversation with each other) she probably would find there would be less people questioning her every move. Because she would have been following royal protocol. The nail that sticks out gets hammered, and M can’t help but stick herself out trying to catch peoples clothes or flesh…
@BaggageClaim
2 жыл бұрын
Yes exactly
@lucyw2901
2 жыл бұрын
An excellent video! Thank you. I pick up two things so strongly from it. One, H always looks so depressed/out of it/uncomfortable and two, M is always so physically controlling towards him. Always leading him.
@1004katherine
2 жыл бұрын
And her perpetually holding her death grip on his arms and hands. I don't know how anyone could take that??
@eveyrapp2078
2 жыл бұрын
This man got TONS of pity and sympathy because of his loss. ,As he grew up ,he saw that that emotion could be manipulated to his favor. Anything wrong he did,any shortcomings he had ,were EXCUSED because everyone felt sorry for him. His mother's death now became his GOLDEN TICKET to get what wanted with no questions asked.
@AB2B
2 жыл бұрын
This is such an excellent video. You explained all of this so well, and made it easy to understand his change. Thank you! Would you consider doing a video on how having a narcissistic parent affects children? Because there is definitely vocalized concerned for them.
@BaggageClaim
2 жыл бұрын
Yes will do!
@squeegee4342
2 жыл бұрын
@@BaggageClaim Will Lady C's book about her mother be in the research for that one? :D
@hazardfree23
2 жыл бұрын
im having goosebumps watching this video. this is what happened to me years ago. my relative said i no longer thought as who she knew me to be but i took the pattern of thinking of my former partner. I thank God for taking me out of it. The relationship brought the worst i had out of me.
@buckwheat_flower
2 жыл бұрын
I was beimg hated for coming off as selfish and rude. But by that time i realized that it is better i repulse my family and friends than ask for direct hostility between them and the narcissist and later demand my family to apologise to him and his family again and again. My family, extended members even- realized this is not the real me. I have always been chummy, nice, naive, funny too at times. But ever since i married him ie the relationship had a socially acknowledged label on it- things juat fell apart. One of my aunts on the other hand who has been a severe victim and is now nearly 60, is being berated because of how she acts according to the narcissistic husband’s desires, always causing family feuds and isolating her. All of our family and extended family members blane her for letting him act this way and not being able to hold ground. A lot like the people in this comment section actually. But i feel her to the bones. It’s not like she is 0% complicit, bit she definitely isn’t coming up with the ideas all by herself. She is one of those people who just dont have the capacity to hurt anyone. I keep explaining my family. But their indifference makes me wonder why exactly they separated me from my NPD husband and not my aunt as well? She had 3 kids with him then, and now she is old and needs lots of maintenance. Her children aren’t exactly narcissists but to then this is the only way to be. This is how people sray happy- by bullying others, hurting others, bulldozing other people's dreams and hopes and crushing them with their expectations.
@Vix2066
2 жыл бұрын
He's an absolute disgrace.
@xoxo_dd886
4 ай бұрын
I still love the way you pointed out hes actually not a narcissist, just being controlled by one
@Savoera
2 жыл бұрын
I really love your videos! Your analysis is so spot on! And you quoted Uncle Iroh from The Avatar! That series is full of gems, I love it! ❤️❤️👋🏽🇨🇦
@BaggageClaim
2 жыл бұрын
Yay glad you liked it!
@squeegee4342
2 жыл бұрын
Agree! Uncle Iroh was such a nice touch
@shannashutterfly6806
2 жыл бұрын
Great channel ! Thanks for your hard work !
@BaggageClaim
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@ispvencer954
2 жыл бұрын
But I saw a picture where Harry did a gun sign to a black man!!! How is he not canceled !!!??? HOLD THESE PEOPLE ACCOUNTABLE
@lauriebartling579
2 жыл бұрын
You’ve done such a great job answering this question. As always, your explanation is clear, concise and spot-on. On the surface the actions of narcissists and those close to them can appear to be such a confusing tangle. I appreciate your clarity. Keep up the great work! 🧐😊
@hidansektas
2 жыл бұрын
my cousin was a victim to a narcissist. distanced himself from a family because she said we are the bad ones. but to few years later he is divorced, jobless, lost his kids and house because she simply didnt want him anymore
@annbow4064
2 жыл бұрын
My brother did the same he came back to everyone he distanced himself from when she left him for the latest model, who in turn dumped her.
@NinaNiterose86
2 жыл бұрын
It feels like William uses his pain to connect with other people while Harry uses his pain to keep people at distance. I genuinely wonder how they ended up processing their grief so differently...
@monalisa5220
2 жыл бұрын
People need to be educated about these narcissists. They need to be stopped before they destroy people's lives and rob them of their happiness. Very well done as always.
@Sunshine-kn6or
2 жыл бұрын
I love William and Kate. They are pure class and wonderful people . We are imperfect, but wow do they strive to help others. When Meghan said Harry saved them... she’s putting on the blame on him that it was his decision to leave. Scapegoat. Shes evil
@pamglass6007
2 жыл бұрын
“Humility is the answer to a lot of our problems in life.” ❤️
@Elegant_Sausage
2 жыл бұрын
Oh I thought this was an old one and I was clicking on it to rewatch Lol. I'm early for once. Love your channel!
@BaggageClaim
2 жыл бұрын
Yay, welcome back!
@southbug27
2 жыл бұрын
The saddest thing is that Megan would’ve never been able to con Harry if Princess Diana were still alive; she could’ve felt Megan’s evil narcissism before she turned the corner.
@CurtisCT
2 жыл бұрын
06:35 - I think you nailed it on the question of whether Harry's a narcissist. He's not a narcissist, he's just in love with one. Princess Diana did NOT raise a narcissist, in fact, she went out of her way to make sure her boys were raised as well-rounded individuals, who were exposed to the every-day struggles normal people had to go through. She even had them scrubbing toilets in South America, something no royal has ever done in the history of the monarchy. Everything his mother tried to instill in him went out the window the day he met his wife.
@laguvids
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you vm for this video. Very well explained. Easy to understand. The tone in your voice is pleasing to listen to and because of that, eventually made me continue to watch / listen 😊
@mariaconsuelothomen
2 жыл бұрын
About the Australia tour -- wasn't that when Meghan threw hot tea at a member of the staff ( or a household employee) ánd insulted the Givernor's wife?
@davidpar2
2 жыл бұрын
Narcissism, victimhood complex, and histrionic personality disorder!
@ozmag8017
2 жыл бұрын
Hi. I'm a first timer. So pleased youtube did something right. Thank you. You have given me insight into understanding this part of the human condition.
@radhikam2401
2 жыл бұрын
Just hearing Harry speak now traumatizes me. 🤦🏽♀️😅😅😅
@hongjing3375
2 жыл бұрын
He is disgusting 🤮 🤢
@thesilversurfer7136
2 жыл бұрын
I loved how in the interview with Oprah they conflate the pregnancy with Archie changing the perception of Meghan after the Australian tour, not the fact she threw hot tea at a staffer!
@anoniemmoet8984
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you !! I always said Harry is worst than Meghan but people tend to blame only Meghan and see him as victim
@DAtmo-us1rl
2 жыл бұрын
OMG......you are so RIGHT about everything 👌👍👍👍👍👍
@annehornby592
2 жыл бұрын
Harry wants to come back to the UK not because of his family because its the Money RIGHT
@monp.4903
Жыл бұрын
My dad's cousin has a 28yr old daughter that is incredibly controlled. The mom is a huge narc from what I see and I am told, so seeing the daughter act the way she does, she has the mentality of a 13 yr old girl, is heartbreaking. The mom purposely kept the girl in a way sheltered, very childish, maybe she is a bit autistic, never went to college, doesnt work, doesnt do anything, when her mom calls it is "yes, mommy".... now she leaves their house and starts to have panic attacks to the point they call an ambulance and is taken to the hospital. The doctors never mind anything. It is really sad how devalued and controlled she is!
@edpistemic
2 жыл бұрын
What you said about the importance of realising we are not the centre of everything/everyone else was incredibly powerful. Keep up the good work.
@TheGreatPresenter
2 жыл бұрын
I've grown to despise H so much that I can't even listen to his voice now. Everything he says grates.
@cindybogart6062
2 жыл бұрын
I would definitely say he is trapped now! This will not end well!
@Spacey7
2 жыл бұрын
You forgot to mention the titles, the titles.that they are no longer entitled to but won't give up!! Maybe someone should free him from his narcissist keeper!!🤮
@beatriz9376
2 жыл бұрын
He is behaving like a narcissist because he is a narcissist.
@zsuzsuspetals
Жыл бұрын
The problem with these types of situations is there ARE toxic families. And many times a person just doesn't realize how toxic their own family until they are in a relationship. A relationship is often a mirror to your family because there are things you just didn't realize were hurting you and the other person points things out. Then the family is angry because they are losing their scapegoat so they will say "Oh he/she is taking our son/daughter away from us. They must be the narcissist". And the person is stuck in the middle of not knowing who the narcs are. Is it their family? Is it their significant other? Or is it both? In Harry's case it's obvious the narc is his wife, but from where he sits, he also knows how messy his family was growing up, and he had such beef with William being future king. I'm sure it wasn't hard at all for Meghan to convince him that not only was she a victim but he was too.
@MegaTinni
2 жыл бұрын
Top notch again. Thanks!
@karinmorley7092
2 жыл бұрын
Such a good video!! So true- Harry, and Megain, too, just talk about themselves. Gawd, I hope they don't go back to the BRF.
@joygimbel7760
Жыл бұрын
Yes, Harry acts like he alone has lost at a young age, and he alone has the keys to answer when often it’s about listening, talking. It’s exhausting. They’ve never heard of ego death.
@SolarShine
Жыл бұрын
EXCELLENT video! Things make much more sense now with Harry!
@Carmen-pf4gf
2 жыл бұрын
what a wonderful video! thank you so much for creating this ❤️❤️❤️ and all the hard work you put into this ❤️
@ld921
2 жыл бұрын
He needs to see this ! Everyone can see except him !
@kanishkarathore4638
2 жыл бұрын
An old saying 1 rotten Apple ruins all and that's what happened with hairy.
@ariellesoullighting4309
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your obvious effort to be fair and do research on this topic
@Good.London
2 жыл бұрын
She's gonna need a lot of money for her comfortableness now
@emma_nutella58
2 жыл бұрын
Pretty sure being married to a narcissist like Megan brought out the worst in him, he has some unresolved trauma from his past and he no longer has the palace protection to protect his image, honestly he just needs to leave Megan and make amends with his family
@HolyGround777
2 жыл бұрын
The avatar clip at 10:55 was truly spectacular
@3chawindy
2 жыл бұрын
She must have watched every documentary about PD. The jealousy of the success of PD’s first tour in Australia was mentioned in some of those docs. I didn’t see it’s huge success when H&M went apart from the rumours about throwing tea.
@seven471
2 жыл бұрын
I remember back in the eighties when we knew people in school that acted this we would just said they were stuck-up and selfish... now everyone's an armchair psychiatrist and can diagnose people as narcissistic. So tired of the buzzword
@KashifKhan-iw2ns
2 жыл бұрын
never trust anyone who brings their family matters in public. every family has some problems..
@KimmyWood
11 ай бұрын
Definitely unlikely that 2 narcissists end up together. She is...but he is not
@judithlee842
2 жыл бұрын
In the OW interview H says his wife was well received in the beginning but it changed after the Australian tour. It was reported that his wife's behaviour whist staying at Admiralty House was unacceptable. Apparently his wife ," threw hot tea at a member of staff" and was rude to the Governor and his wife. Maybe this is why the RF attitude towards her changed.
@Woodman-Spare-that-tree
2 жыл бұрын
It is often said that MM caught Harry by imitating his mother. eg by wearing her perfume and copying her clothes. Compare the photos at 4:00 and 5:29
@urbantree309
2 жыл бұрын
Excellent overview. Should be aired as a public service announcement every time the Narkles are featured or discussed. Narcissists operate like a cult. Harry has been sucked into Yacht Girl's cult and he clearly genuinely believes it's a healthy loving, natural relationship and she didn't stalk him like a heat seeking missile. It's why he's lost, possibly for ever. No amount of circumspection or sage advice from loved ones will penetrate his make believe bubble. He's in so deep now anyway, his own inherent arrogance, entitlement and complete lack of self-awareness prevents him from admitting to mistakes, and particularly one so monumental as getting entangled with her. Just never going to happen. He'll double down on the victimhood, grandiosity and messiah complex. The rest of the world chomps on the popcorn and watches him implode bit by bit. Couldn't have happened to a nicer guy!
@sophiejames3398
Жыл бұрын
this was so well said!
@Summerspeaks7
2 жыл бұрын
That was the most informative video I’ve ever seen on narcissism. Like wow
@heyarinslife
Жыл бұрын
Its not our place to judge someone we dont know personally.
@rosettapaul9367
2 жыл бұрын
This is an excellent piece. As I read it again after so long time ,it has proved so very accurate as to throwing light on Hazmeg characters , it has been very accurate in predicting their fall and failure.
@melo39987
2 жыл бұрын
Prince William reminds me so much of his mother.
@simone2316
2 жыл бұрын
Harry is so insufferable I can’t even stand listening to him. I love your videos though!
@awam951
2 жыл бұрын
Can Harry be saved and how? Unfortunately I feel that even if he is able to come out of this narcissistic bubble, Instead of taking responsibility and being accountable for all his actions he would still blame Meghan for clouding his vision. He comes across as being very dumb imo. As for William, bless him.. his mum must be so proud of him
@lyndatallis3492
Жыл бұрын
Diane was also a narcissus. She constantly upstaged Charles at events, and was embarrassing. I saw through her and never liked her. I could not understand how people worshipped her. I use to cringe at her behave. Look at the videos. She showed of tried to upstage Charles. But people think she was so wonderful. She would not have made a good Queen.
@tammykuchta715
2 жыл бұрын
Excellent video! I believe you hit the nail on the head. Thanks for sharing. 😃🤗🥰🇨🇦
@nathanstewart3329
Жыл бұрын
An eye opener
@erin9110
2 жыл бұрын
William builds bridges through his words. Well thought out video
@lesleyannbarker8429
2 жыл бұрын
Very well said!
@pamglass6007
2 жыл бұрын
“I was trapped, but didn’t know I was trapped” until Meghan told me so.
@ola_raji
2 жыл бұрын
I really enjoy your videos. I love what you're doing. Can't wait for the next one
@queenbabylonia4594
2 жыл бұрын
Their grandiose behaviour , they expect to be treated above people always quoting the titles, (obsessed about this is Megain), they wanted out, they didn’t want to work and expect everything to be given to them as they feel superior.
@KateBates22zabu
2 жыл бұрын
Such a meaty video, good work. Thank you
@fizzysky
2 жыл бұрын
Been waiting for you to upload!
@texasred143
2 жыл бұрын
I understand this seems to be a forbidden statement, but here goes: Was Princess Diana a narcissist? I see a lot of similarity. She always seemed to be victimized by the "Firm".
@CrazyCatMom11
2 жыл бұрын
Diana had borderline personality disorder. I recommend reading Diana In Search of Herself: Portrait of a Troubled Princess, by Sally Bedell Smith. It's explained very well in that book.
@Woodman-Spare-that-tree
2 жыл бұрын
There was certainly something wrong with her but dont forget she lost her own mother at a young age too.
@texasred143
2 жыл бұрын
@@CrazyCatMom11 Thank you! I will get the book, asap.
@tori9951
2 жыл бұрын
Great video! Another thing I notice often is how they always speak through their “Archewell Foundation” it’s feels so forced and manipulated- their are wonderful foundations out there that help people in need- but they care more about doing it through their brand rather than just helping.
@Persnicketychichi
2 жыл бұрын
"I don't understand the 1st Amendment- It's bonkers."
@1004katherine
2 жыл бұрын
I think he learned it from "her."
@lance134679
2 жыл бұрын
I guess at some point Harry's going to have a really bad time, which is a shame. I don't wish a narcissist on anyone.
@lily-fw1tj
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video it really helped with my understanding of narcissism. ❤
@ld2588
Жыл бұрын
After watching this I feel I understand NPD more - narcissists sort of make you a believer in the religion of themselves. It reminds me of a church courting members - they make you feel special, they say you need to be saved, but in the end it is only so that you worship them. They make you a believer and a follower but better not question them or criticize them. It's an unending mental chess game and their goal is always control and supply.
@inproper3952
2 жыл бұрын
You are excellent incredible insight! Wow!!!
@franki2524
2 жыл бұрын
Woooooah MM’s face when H says she saved him …
@kr50401
2 жыл бұрын
10:00 This! Jimmy Dore says this when talking about trauma and mental health. We ALL have trauma, your trauma is not special, it doesn’t give you more leeway than anyone else.
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