Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me,i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i dont know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her
@juanderuano8969
Жыл бұрын
@jay pritchett wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?
@juanderuano8969
Жыл бұрын
@jay pritchett Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.
@michaelmoran8780
Жыл бұрын
@@juanderuano8969 You don't need to resort to sorcery you can always pray to The Most High God in the Name of His Son Christ Jesus and ask His will be done for your relationship. Just a suggestion I do hope everything works out, hang in there.
@terryjross
Жыл бұрын
Lean into Stoic philosophy…it’ll help. Basic rule…focus on what you can control. Your interpretation of reality is always under your control. Job 1 Bro.
@farmnorthtv
Жыл бұрын
Stop telling yourself that you can’t leave without her, instead, tell your inner self that you can actually leave without her. It’s not easy, but it’s the first step
@FedUpCanuck
Жыл бұрын
My neighbor was definately a user. Gave amazing hugs great smile BUT........My neighbor would constantly knock on my door all hours always hugs and smile. The problem was she always conviently ran out of something or needed a repair. I was her go to for food or handy man. This lasted for 3 weeks untill I gave her a list of all things she " borrowed " and when she was going to return them. She has not spoken to me since
@GUITARTIME2024
Жыл бұрын
Why did you even answer.
@brankoradanovic9694
Жыл бұрын
Sad she using you for her own gain
@jreamscape
10 ай бұрын
That's extremely obvious
@renostubbs8504
Жыл бұрын
WOW!!! Incredible information in this video, I agree with every point. When a woman is in to you,you almost don't have to ask for anything,she is always thinking of ways to make the relationship better
@BobbyRio
Жыл бұрын
very true, she'll be investing a lot into it.
@Etereys
Жыл бұрын
100%
@kld5617
11 ай бұрын
That's exactly right my friends who are married say hey it doesn't have to be this hard I can relate to this video 100%
@emmanueleffanga5733
Жыл бұрын
Had an attractive friend who was giving me mixed signals, took action and went for the kiss after our third date but she turned the other way. Stopped contacting her but she texted me after sometime opting to buy me a drink even when I told her I'd get naughty with her. We had a great date but I didn't' go for a kiss. She avoided every chance at the date and kept on telling me subtly she had someone and that she told her boyfriend she went out with me. Had to cut off our friendship by telling her I wasn't okay with the development and that we should stop seeing each other while she focuses on her relationship. I can't wrap my head around how ladies will go on a romantic date with you, gives you the green all the time, checks up on you all the time and still try to friendzone you. This video is very helpful to assure me I took the right step. I know she really liked me but not on an intimate level.
@theuncanspan
Жыл бұрын
Friendzone averted.
@SMcGrath01
Жыл бұрын
She was using you for attention and you didn’t do the right things prior to the kiss to make her choose you unfortunately.
@su2sa1li4
Жыл бұрын
Don't say anything, simply stop giving atention.
@GUITARTIME2024
Жыл бұрын
You are an ORBITER. No kiss on 2nd date is your new sign.
@su2sa1li4
Жыл бұрын
She likes you but only as a friend. You really need to let her go. If she text you again you need to say you don't want to be only friends and go silence.
@apexbeastinfo2926
Жыл бұрын
You were not making any great content for the last few months and all of a sudden you focused on an important topic. A great comeback.
@brucetrappleton6984
Жыл бұрын
LOL!! The concept of great content 😂😂😂😂
@knighthawk4693
Жыл бұрын
Wow, great video! I am involved with a woman who I now realize is either validation or backup plan. I knew something was off when she wouldn’t kiss me after what seemed like a great first date. (just ended with a cheek kiss.) She hardly ever texts me, and hasn’t made any effort to change her work schedule so we can be together. She even accidentally sent me a text meant for another guy that is way more enthusiastic and giving than the ones she sends me. I am making the decision to walk away, and it’s very empowering. You are doing God’s work, thank you Bobby!
@nap871
Жыл бұрын
you could play her while she thinks she's playing you. When she asks you to marry her, that's when you ghost her. Because I know that she's ghosted you many times. Realistically Go cold on her. No Contact. And ghost her and keep ghosting her. But you have to stick to it. Tell her you are unavailable if your hand is forced. She'll get the hint. What she's demonstrating is a very low interest in you. Yours is much higher. She has demonstrated a higher interest in the other guy. Don't be a backup. Only focus on women who indicate a high interest in you. That's the ticket off the hamster wheel.
@woodliceworm4565
Жыл бұрын
@@nap871 Why waste the energy playing - use that energy to find a better relationship. There is no gain in playing games that have zero payoff other than the word getting around that your a dk.
@su2sa1li4
Жыл бұрын
Let her Go and work on yourself. Hit the gym and earn more money. The woman god want for you is now searching a Man too
@SLOBeachboy
Жыл бұрын
While it certainly sounds like this “relationship” should never have gone past a 2nd or 3rd date, not kissing you on the first date means nothing by itself and you are reading way too much into that. I have had serious relationships with women I slept with on the first date and with some I never even kissed on the first date. Not kissing you is only a bad sign when her body language and other factors say that she is not that into you. In any case, I have to admit that this Bobby Rio guy is pretty good, and all the points he brought up are very valid. There is one important point he did not really cover however. He did not cover the fact that, generally speaking, the types of men who end up being used by women are also the types who are going to refuse to see the red flags, no matter how obvious they are or how well they have been educated in how to look out for them. This is so true in fact, that if you were to point out various couples to me and ask me if the women were using the men in some way, I could tell fairly accurately in most cases simply by doing a psychological examination of the men and without looking at the women at all. This is because certain types of men will always end up attracting women who will use them, and in such cases they will usually always choose to ignore the rather obvious signs of this. They simply can’t help themselves. I have always been extremely good at reading people and situations and so I have never been used or scammed myself. But its not just about being able to read the signs but rather it is about being able to accept what you are seeing and not be in denial about it. Bobby did mention that he has noticed patterns in which the same guys tend to be used over and over again, but he was wrong when he attributed this simply to them becoming accustomed to it. It is actually because on a subconscious level they are actually seeking out these types of relationship and this behavior is driven by their own underlying issues. Also, while we are on the subject of people using people, lets not forget that men use women for sex to a MUCH, MUCH greater degree than women use men for money. Sex is always one of the primary motivators for a man to be with a woman. In fact, what the video said about security and a back up plan also applies to men. For example many men will actually enter into a relationship with a woman who they are not really that into simply for the sexual security. Men need sex on the daily basis the same way they need food and yet it can take years to find the right partner. And because of this some men will temporarily settle for a woman in order to not have to worry about having to constantly be on the hunt for sexual partners. Sometimes they are consciously aware of what they are doing and sometimes they are not. But either way they are just biding their time until someone better comes along.
@brankoradanovic9694
Жыл бұрын
Smart move man :Just walk off way it us much better on long run :
@kansastour
Жыл бұрын
Another way they may "ask" for money, is by saying "can you lend me $xx so I can pay my rent? Next Tuesday I get paid and will pay you back" Well, only once I am sad to say I fell for it, and when I asked her for my $$ she was like "oh yeah but you could always say hey it's alright you don't have to pay me back". Needless to say she never paid me back. I've had a few since then ask this, and I just ghost them. I even went out with a girl who I treated to dinner she also ordered a dish to go! Be careful out there gents....
@maxhouse2409
Жыл бұрын
Did you end up paying for the dish to go?
@kansastour
Жыл бұрын
@@maxhouse2409 Yes... My bad :(
@douglasmitchell5891
Жыл бұрын
Had to bring her real boyfriend dinner!
@dont.ripfuller6587
Жыл бұрын
Demand collateral. Or tell her if you're gonna be her ATM then it's tit for tat.
@user-ed3hc2vh2l
10 ай бұрын
Women are poor as church mice.
@justincurtis2933
Жыл бұрын
The key is to ask yourself are you getting what you want? Because she's getting what she wants, which isn't fair. You want dates, someone that treats you well, and eventually affection and intimacy. If it's not leading towards that you're being used. There is only one option. Disappear completely and walk away. Don't ignore her if you have to see her but be brief in conversation. What you have to offer is what she likes about you, but don't give it away for free. If she wants that best version of you, then you deserve that best version of her and nothing less.
@domjr9018
3 ай бұрын
Its true man even you give something to her but you take what you want intimacy,and she do best just for you for me its equal but dont spoiled her
@artmeditationvista1526
Жыл бұрын
Social Exchange Theory is the dominant model of human relations.We all "use" one another to get needs met. I think the key is fair exchange.
@Scorpio_1974
Жыл бұрын
It's called using each other as Activity Partner!
@lint8391
Жыл бұрын
Yep. Don't be a pushover. Also, precedents are important. Start off in the lover frame. Stay out of the provider frame. Be selective. Be willing to walk away. Set clear boundaries and keep to them.
@mrmiyagi5
Жыл бұрын
9/10 times you are being used.
@fredhaskins4475
Жыл бұрын
Facts
@roughroadrunner88
10 ай бұрын
I think its a bit higher 9.5 / 10
@amradzinovic4086
9 ай бұрын
Simp. 😂😂
@rickycat8241
Жыл бұрын
Excellent and very sincere video. I like very much the final part, where you explain that it's not a problem being "used" by a woman, as long as you're aware of it and you're ok with it.
@maxhouse2409
Жыл бұрын
The guy has to ask himself if he is getting anything out of that "use". If he's getting upset that she is not reciprocating, then he should not do that favor for her.
@blacina9036
Жыл бұрын
My dad lost his wife and the bank teller took advantage of his grief and won him over until she had a furnished house and then all of a sudden he was not the man she thought him to be...and dropped him like a hot potato. Once she got what she wanted there was always arguments and reasons to fight. It was sad to see dad at 85 being taken by a 35 year old, and wouldn't listen from friends or family who tried to warn him... They never physically connected....guess he was secretly hoping.
@su2sa1li4
Жыл бұрын
He had a good time while hoping to get her, now he is Solitaire.
@Dre_Gonzales
Жыл бұрын
Nice! The video is perfect. I had 10 exes and those exes never used me financially since I was young and didn't have much. Now that I'm older, I thought I'd try the sugar daddy route just to see what happens. I allowed the next two gfs to use me financially. I got what I wanted out of the relationships but when they started asking for way more than I can give comfortably, I dumped them. Make sure to know your limits, those types will try to take as much as they can.
@michaelhuggins10
Жыл бұрын
Wow, this was amazing information. Confirmed a situation I'm in 100%. I'm not ok with it. The pit in my aching stomach went away! What a barometer .
@thepeladeauprojectband8943
Жыл бұрын
Mine to! I had to hear this.
@dmitriimrcat
Жыл бұрын
Bobby, that is super useful video. Please make a next one about "how to deal with narcissistic women".
@thepeladeauprojectband8943
Жыл бұрын
Thats easy don't walk! RUN!
@mikestroud9969
Жыл бұрын
If you don't realize that she's using you, eventually you will. Then you have to confront her , if things don't change, you have to walk, no matter how much you care. I did over 2years ago. Loved this Woman, but she was so self centered and spoiled. After awhile when I left I realized it was best for myself. I moved on. And fine now. Take care Bros 😎👍👌💯. Spend my time more at gym and study guitar. 👍👌🎸🎸✔️✔️
@GUITARTIME2024
Жыл бұрын
Guitar and working out are a gift to men. Much cheaper than a relationship.
@Khalis55555
Жыл бұрын
Your comments matter a lot as they show reality.
@GrandPines323
Жыл бұрын
At some levels both you and her are using each other for some of these things, possibly all of these things in some situations. What's important is recognizing when you're misused by the other person or if you're misusing them.
@Introvertedalpha
Жыл бұрын
Awesome video, Bobby! You made a lot of great points and things to watch out for!
@BobbyRio
Жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@sanrg111
Жыл бұрын
Most awaited video from you Bobby. This really helps for majority of men. Expecting more and detailed videos on this Topic. Thank you for this.
@klopossa2
Жыл бұрын
Nice vid dude. Much of the growth I've encouraged in my relationships, has been because I was willing to walk away. Whiich is hard but necessary unfortunately. Just deleted a pic on my FB that didn't get it. Yet my current girl has responded well to my increased communication requirement. Like she has to other challenges. And she's still beautiful even when she's mad. Looking forward to a marriage w her soon. Unless she's ultimately using me but must proceed to find out if it's a long con. I'll risk it. My winter years will be more joyous and fulfilling with the social experiment running.
@bonecollector8599
Жыл бұрын
You just saved a lot men by creating this video! God bless you🙏🏼
@shawnswilley6002
Жыл бұрын
Bobby, I'm 60 and this morning at Jamba Juice I met a very attractive woman, not that it matters I'm caucasion and she is a black woman. I commented about her smile and took my phone out and asked her to put her phone number in my phone which she did, I texted her so she had my phone number. I got my order and walking out look at her and she was smiling and looked away so I approached her and said “intentionally have fun on purpose today” and then walked out. On the drive to work my phone goes off and the same woman is asking me can we grab lunch and talk some more. How much easier can this be?
@paulneuendorf1127
Жыл бұрын
Men make her drive and and pay half and have her help you around your house when needed. It’s 2023. A lot of women make very good money!
@BobbyRio
Жыл бұрын
eh, i still come from the belief that I'll offer to pay, however, if she never offers to pay, def a warning sign.
@glasgowlady
Жыл бұрын
It's 2023 but almost all women are still gold diggers. They won't pay for half the meal and will gladly rinse the men around them for every freebie they can get.
@greghale5480
Жыл бұрын
Most single woman I know (all ages) basically live paycheck to paycheck! Women in general just can’t manage money…
@andersnielsen6044
Жыл бұрын
@@BobbyRio In developed countries these kind of women barely exists in 2023.. If you offers to pay here - you are a very lucky man if you do not get your face smashed for trying to buy her while insinuating that she is a whore. ;)
@thelapander
Жыл бұрын
Never give a dime to a women you don't know
@devilsadvocacy
Жыл бұрын
Or haven’t met IRL
@swordsmith3785
Жыл бұрын
Or the ones you do either... Jus got a "hey babe" from some bitch I banged 8 years ago! Engaged in conversation, then the "Im in a tough spot" sentence came out. My response? Get lost! ;)
@thelapander
Жыл бұрын
@@swordsmith3785 pass on that one bro
@williamheinsinger7390
Жыл бұрын
Boom 💥
@Jfbr1965
Жыл бұрын
If she give you sex, you can give something.
@GlobeofBeauty
7 ай бұрын
Every guy needs to see this. Went through a situation like this unknowingly would have saved me so much time
@bobross1829
10 ай бұрын
I realized that I was often getting the #2 validation thing and everything he said was spot on. The what's up texts every couple months and then maybe a dinner a couple times then silence again. She was chasing other guys she liked more. I am a busy guy and it didn't even occur to me this was happening, that is how dumb we are. I started seeing a pattern she only texted when she needed a favor, me to do something, or when she was low and fished for compliments. It only came to a head when she was dodging me in going out with a lame excuse about her family problems and I saw pics on social media she was with some other guy. I called her out and haven't talked to her since. Realized I was her validation when she needed an ego boost or a favor.
@josephmunyao6639
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for making these videos. They really help a lot
@BobbyRio
Жыл бұрын
Glad you like them!
@amadorklan
Жыл бұрын
Great video, lots of information for Men to open their eyes. One key part I noticed with Bobby's presentation. He accepted the fact that many women don't like to cook; yet expect for their partner to know how to cook and complete other domestic chores, they are not willing to do.
@edwoo1005
Жыл бұрын
This is a really great video! Thank you!
@robertchandler2082
Жыл бұрын
After watching this I can see that a female friend of mine has been using me for ‘validation’ for years. I have also noticed that all of the boyfriends she has ‘ever’ had have been her boyfriend, not because she likes them, but because they boost her ego. The same thing applies to a lot of women, and men for that matter! Bobby makes you realise the harsh truth. Maybe ignorance is bliss, or perhaps listening to Bobby will enable you to see the ‘red flags’ and help you not to make a mistake.
@robertfootball1
Жыл бұрын
Hope you got rid of that female friend
@aaronaaronson7600
Жыл бұрын
Same here bro, been in the friendzone with a girl for years and this video just did it for me. I'm literally just in the validation/back up plan zone, and I don't know if I can be arsed for that anymore. As much as I genuinely enjoy hanging out with her I think it's time to put the nail in the coffin in this friendship, which I genuinely think might hurt her tbf but it's time to think of myself for once. Great video.
@edr3158
Жыл бұрын
I just broke it off with a woman that I realized was using me for money. If it wasn't for one thing, she was always looking for a reason to ask me for money. I will never be okay with this. Once I noticed a woman has established a pattern for asking me for money, I'm ready to cut her off. Because by that time I realized that she had no respect for me. So after I broke it off with her, I was browsing thru KZitem to find a video to cheer me up. That's when I found your video.
@robocop5543
10 ай бұрын
Wouldn't you ask for your money back. Or wasn't she returning on her own?
@goodtimeswithmello6718
Жыл бұрын
Facts!!!!!! Love what you’re doing keep it up.
@BobbyRio
Жыл бұрын
thanks, glad you enjoy!
@fivespeed3026
Жыл бұрын
Is she using you? The simple answer is HELL YEAH.
@GUITARTIME2024
Жыл бұрын
Thos is GOLD. Every man must see this.
@1Skeptik1
Жыл бұрын
Psych 101: Women "marry" for resources! Consider the children's tale of Cinderella and the screen hit Pretty Woman. The theme is the same. A marriage-minded man is shopping for a life partner and mate while a marriage-minded woman is shopping for a lifestyle. Men marry idealistically and women marry opportunistically. No one explained this to me in my naive youth but when my EX and "friend" processed me through the cash grab settlement system reality struck. Love? Chuckle. (I'm in my 70s, I saw things I never wanted to see and know more than I ever wanted to know. You are welcome.)
@licensedprofessional4742
Жыл бұрын
Best comment ever, thank you.
@scottlocke.
Жыл бұрын
Excellent video start to finish. Thank you so much.
@Buses2Bikes
Жыл бұрын
What I like about this video as opposed to the dozens of videos on this same topic but by women is that THIS one nails it. The stuff Bobby is explaining, I've lived. Several times. Seen it happening to several friends too. The explanations women give on the same topic are more "excuses" and/or diversions away from what/why women do these things. It's told from a woman's perspective and women tend to dance around and make excuses for other women. This vid here is straight forward and gives you the insight you need without any of the fluff or excuses women give for why other women do this crap.
@kld5617
11 ай бұрын
Yep 💯
@ObitoUchiha-id1nq
Жыл бұрын
This video just opened my eyes
@abebeaddis2631
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your guidance. It is very useful
@BobbyRio
Жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@asetrepb
Жыл бұрын
Good analysis. Thank you.
@BobbyRio
Жыл бұрын
Glad you liked it!
@axe0144
4 ай бұрын
Some circumstances or situations are more complex than what you mentioned
@Bluntobject
7 ай бұрын
Another good video Bobby. My most recent girlfriend was a very difficult situation. I feel like she was using me in some way in the end but I really just think she's crazy.
@sharma3226
Жыл бұрын
REQUEST - Devi could you please guide your last life lessons on relationship in this Valantine's day. - From India 🙏🏾
@patrickdelia2653
Жыл бұрын
It’s funny because most men will say if you want a woman you have to pay 😂and a real man pays. I just look at them and shake my head. Maybe because money is all they have to offer. They can speak for themselves.
@jefferybaxter1225
10 ай бұрын
Very informative video. The two prime ones would be using for money and using for favors.
@mdcmdc1
Жыл бұрын
The validation thing is ripe. Don't accept a snapchat rather than a number. Chances are they just want story views. Also I find if you can't get them on a date within a couple of weeks of talking then the chances of actually meeting them in person is considerably lower. Get a date planned quickly don't waste your time.
@jmacie
Жыл бұрын
MDC1 , what are story views?(from getting a snapchat instead of a number) Thanks
@CamiloRivas14
Жыл бұрын
Thanks master...lesson learned
@BobbyRio
Жыл бұрын
glad you found helpful~!
@fbrosseau
9 ай бұрын
Yes, I know that I have been used. Financially. I'm more careful now.
@ai-itis
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for all your great videos
@sf5912
Жыл бұрын
You just have the mindset it's friends with benefits...don't get emotionally involved. I am in that situation currently and I will keep looking for someone else unless her behaviour changes...she is hot and the sex is fantastic so why walk away...
@michaelqueen440
Жыл бұрын
Good stuff brother. 💯
@sergecouvrette9400
Жыл бұрын
Great vidéo. For me its the balance you talked about. I just realized that she gets all she wants and im not getting nothing... took me over 20 years to realize that. Fuck it hurts !!
@ER-bg9bo
10 ай бұрын
Thanks a lot, i will have a look at it... and test it.... Validation... Good question, am i ok... Thats always the question in the whole life, Greetings from Germany 👍😎
@mullatomapanda6312
Жыл бұрын
Thanks man…..l didn’t know that l was being used too many times
@mallardgui
10 ай бұрын
All of this is simple advice to follow when you're not in love.
@jaganarumugam3960
9 ай бұрын
Excellent 🎉
@dionne681
Жыл бұрын
Good stuff Bobby it was 10 yrs ago I realize women use dudes for sex. Blow your mind then have u calling, texting them for validation.
@BobbyRio
Жыл бұрын
lol very true. glad you enjoyed.
@gabrielfox5017
Жыл бұрын
She could have a boyfriend she never hints at, and she talks to you when you see her, cool sweet talk and maybe she's doing that for validation from you, and for a possible back-up plan, just in case it doesn't work with the boyfriend. But it's on her time only.
@FernandoSilva-ye9cj
Жыл бұрын
You are awesome 💯 thanks for your inputs. Makes me feel good and reenforces what I did when I walked away from the relationship 🙋
@s.beccari4678
Жыл бұрын
Definitely a public service announcement
@Auraauraaura321
Жыл бұрын
When i finally released i was being used for validation 😑😅😒
@jamiesbarroombs2094
Жыл бұрын
What if they going through a divorce but still living there?
@EdwardFagan07
Жыл бұрын
Awesome insight into the subject, you're objective, accurate and comprehensive. Please continue to keep up the good work.
@mdn4937
Жыл бұрын
Very good summary
@BobbyRio
Жыл бұрын
Glad you liked it
@damionanderson5824
Жыл бұрын
Right now am in this position
@TheSunboy25
Жыл бұрын
I am off and on with a 26yo woman, she abused me verbally till it got physical, she was arrested charge with felony and spent 5 months in jail. After she got released she call me to said she missed me and want to hang out. Am i been used?
@miguelrobb5719
Жыл бұрын
Yes you are being used idiot.
@darrenjray
9 ай бұрын
You’re a good man, Bobby.
@davidduff8865
Жыл бұрын
You are SPOT ON 100%.Especially the Financial situation. As long as she can have her way all is well but If not She is very deceptive
@merzhoykin
Жыл бұрын
the only way to tell if she is in to you is to do the things that an avarage attractive woman does on daily basis and that is..... nothing. So if you just live your life: work, eat, relax and sleep and a woman strikes a conversation with you...that means she is in to you. Oh wait, how often does that happen?
@Kyle-pj2vc
Жыл бұрын
Two and three are really relevant to me. I didn't want it to be true, but that's just my feelings clouding my judgement.
@mariusneumayer4419
Жыл бұрын
Great advice, as well experience. I have this happened to me too. My x wife with 2 kids (our kids). Guys don't give in this, even for a moment. Will confuse you and ruining your life. WALK AWAY
@oneilcushnie4109
Жыл бұрын
Great video I am going through this now 😔😔
@jasonmichaelrosslll
Жыл бұрын
You just described my entire last relationship that I was in oh my God to the T the whole thing she was using me for sex. It wasn’t money she had that taken care of. It was the sex so she found somebody that she could end up with or at least try to be with, but the whole thing about, not available on certain times and then not want to cook for me or clean for me or any of that but I can say it in the beginning it wasn’t that way so somewhere down the line she figured out that you know what I can do better than this, so I’m just gonna use him for sex until then. And I should’ve known this because she lives has lived always lived with her ex-husband in lieu of taking care of their child together, but not together, which was a weird dynamic, which I would never even be a part of if I was her, using him for a place to go with no bills until she finds her guy is the only reason she was still involved in that situation. But what she doesn’t know that I know now is she will never find that person because she is a bad person trying to find a good person and that will never work out.
@jasonmichaelrosslll
Жыл бұрын
Oh yeah and of course I needed to add this one last thing I talk to my ex’s ex that lives in Australia, and this guy was bent out of shape because she left him with no response. She ghosted him. That’s what she does ghosting everybody. Well, it turns out she just used him for the vacation to Australia, so she is literally jumping around to different men to use them for whatever they have to offer pretty fucked up shit
@aaronaaronson7600
Жыл бұрын
Relate to this quite a lot acrually, been in the friendzone with a female friend for years now but only recently has it ramped up to almost being with each other every day. I think ive suddenly realised im in either zone 2 or 3 or both (ie validation and back up), but im really torn over whether or not to cut this friendship completely; i genuinely think it would hurt her a lot of i did as she does seem to value me. Tough decision, even tougher as im supposed to move in with her at some point! What do i do!
@mickehog76
6 ай бұрын
If she is interested in you, she will make sure you don't feel unsure about her feelings.
@humbletrader5479
Жыл бұрын
Been living the life of a woman lately, I have several women competing for me and I haven’t paid for a single date for over a year.
@carloscunningham319
Жыл бұрын
What about if she's buying you anything you want, but it's like she really don't want sex all the time is she still using you
@johnyrynjah184
Жыл бұрын
Incredible video. Thankyou Bobby.
@diptabiswas3919
Жыл бұрын
Great advice
@sbphillips177
Жыл бұрын
Great video..excellent info
@BobbyRio
Жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@anandanjohnsimon3571
Жыл бұрын
A friend who's passed away from stage four breast cancer a very prayerful woman warned me about a woman on Facebook telling me she's not in love with you she's just using you for money turned out to be true. Also she told me no woman will fall in love with me for any woman who says she's in love with me is worse than a venomous snake stating I'm single for life. GOD ALMIGHTY rest her soul I'm already 46 still single and still happy.
@hiddensoldier352
11 күн бұрын
waw , thanks you teached me another great leslesson 😘
@SHINOBHS
Жыл бұрын
4:01 The most common is number 2. They do it all the time. Almost 100% played by some rich player which has multiple girls that doesn't give her attention so she seeks attention from a nice guy (you probably are if she is using you) to boost her ego. Spot on, probably best analysis I have seen online. I would like to add she could use you to heal from some guy that left her.
@paulmuia5980
Жыл бұрын
So well said and good advice to we men especially when we're being used by women.this is so interesting to but to me got a problem with hidden topics by the analysis written as the our knows what guy makes all the explanations.i can see only topics,1,2&3.please let me know other two topics4&5.
@johncheatham6616
Жыл бұрын
If she isnt using you , she wouldnt even be remotely interested . Get real!
@kenmeyer100
Жыл бұрын
oT I wondered what accent are you speaking... difficult to figure out for me as non-native speaker living on another continent
@KEBTAWAN_RECORDS
Жыл бұрын
I think you're right. Turns out after listening to all of this, I'm the one using them unconciously.. I feel so bad for myself now. lol... but there were a few girls who used me. Wasted my time. Being used for sex is better than used for Validation or financial.
@ssjsamusaran
Жыл бұрын
Yeah I wasted a year. Was probably around for validation only. I was love bombed for the first month with reciprocated affected. Had sex twice in that one month period. After the love bombing and no more affection being reciprocated back to me in anyway she finally stated in the 11th month that she has feelings still for her ex of 20 years. She had been in and out of relationships since 2014 and always ended back with him and it almost happened again. This time she can't get back with him since he's with someone and refuses to come back to her. After breaking it off with me about 3 weeks she still texts me as a friend like normal since thats all she saw me as after the first month. I still have feelings for her in that way, but she does not and we were friends since 2014, but never dated till March of 2022.
@webcrawler9782
Жыл бұрын
this is 100% true, I wish I knew this before
@9parasqn656
Жыл бұрын
Excellent. Thank you.
@kld5617
11 ай бұрын
Never wanted me to meet friends but if a girl was interested in me soon got cut off
@darringranderson7898
Жыл бұрын
You open my eyes hummm the truth hurts a lot and thats why i am single
@basicdose.9872
11 ай бұрын
Protect yourself. Don't give her your credit card.
@svst3767
Жыл бұрын
Doesn’t make sense to draw sth on the board but stand in front of it the entire clip ..)
@55maltesers
5 ай бұрын
If she's using you, she loses you. No compromise.
@musengwamwale9705
Жыл бұрын
Great Advice Ever
@BobbyRio
Жыл бұрын
glad you found helpful
@lv4077
8 ай бұрын
Men should always pay attention to the subtle little hints their wives leave that alert you to the fact you’re being used. These are not always easy to detect sometimes they’re very subtle. In my particular case, I began to notice that after sex my wife no longer excepted credit card payments and insisted on cash only,.So be alert these subtle hints can sneak up on you and they can be very difficult to detect.
@ianmciver7719
8 ай бұрын
love it 🤣😂🙈
@talisikid1618
Жыл бұрын
Sleeping together before the commitment is always asking for trouble.
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