How f*cking refreshing! A health care professional with his eyes wide open!!! Tell me how to spread the awakening?!?!?
@TherapistReactsOfficial
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Heather, it felt really good to put it up too. I guess we can spread by sharing what we know as wide as possible and bringing attention to it. That is my plan for now! Thanks for taking the time to comment.
@NordicBlackout67
Жыл бұрын
Heather I agree it's hard to find good healthcare people who actually see anger as a part of your health mental health ect. Other then just an emotion.
@EmmaByrne-si3vr
9 ай бұрын
Easy (not easy). You stand up for your rights and don't let them get away with it. You cite sourses, you annoy them and you only stop for self care and hospital. You form a group who can work together and you complain. You keep doing it. Then the system grinds you down and you give up. Simple, see? /lh Also see: Philosophy Tube's awesome video about how the NHS works in denying treatment.
@limpedimp
Ай бұрын
They should introduce alot of ren's music into education of mental illness, lately I've been using reaction videos to cope with my everyday struggles, but this video I emailed to myself to never loose, and to show every doctor/therapist in the future, because I can relate SO much to both this and "Hi Ren" , I'm 39 today, I've lived with mental illness since middleschool pretty much, to this day I dont have a diagnosis, people dont even want to see me or try to help. twice in my life I've been told by 2 different doctors/therapists "I dont think you're sick" as I back then had a bipolar diagnosis, as i were sitting there totally wrecked, even with a person with me as support, she didnt even say hi as we entered the room, she were staring at my journals for 30-40 seconds then turns to me and says "I Dont think you're sick" and removes the diagnosis entirely, where another that I had been seeing for some time, but couldn't really help me, when i was once again at the brink of ending it, i went to her because in my head atleast she knew the most about me, as I entered the room, she literally sighed, and said "What are you doing here? there's nothing I can do for you" , I havent been shot, but I normally use the analogy of I'd rather take a bullet in my stomach than hearing "I dont think you're sick" or people not believing me. last effort I tried contacting asking for help, they didnt get back to me for over 8 weeks, after I'd one more time called and asked why they didnt get back to me. To this day I have nowhere to turn to, no supportsystem, nothing, im just sitting at home fighting with my demons day in and day out. so really, thank you for this video, that someone within the system recognizes how f*cked up it can be, and I feel for the people that becomes "victims" of it. I'm from sweden so this is obviously not my native language so I apologize if there's things that might not make sense but, I hope you are okay with me showing this to whoever, if ever, I meet someone that is supposed to help me. Again, thank you!
@yakg7976
28 күн бұрын
@@limpedimpI'm American, and in an extremely similar situation, loss of health insurance freqhad kept me from many follow up appointments, its more physical symptoms zive tried to seek, though had mental health issues diagnosed as early as childhood, then had seizures, mystery hives, idiopathic everything diagnosed, including autoimmune disorder, just daunting how infrequently I have been heard by medical providers. My health insurance becomes active again in a few days, so I am going to try to seek some help for the first real time in about 6 years. I already have been losing myelin sheath in my spine that I know of, but I would bet it doesn't even matter to my primary care provider. I truly hope you are able to get proper help from a care provider soon, and see at least some relief from some or all symptoms.
@Danandrea919
Жыл бұрын
I was also misdiagnosed with Severe Depression, BiPolar, Fibromyalgia... But all the time it was Lyme. I BEGGED my doctors to test for Lyme. They flat out refused. I went through this for 25 years when my heart stopped beating. The Lyme had eaten it away. At that time I was taking 13 different prescription medications for pain, depression, bipolar, anxiety, etc... I finally got a diagnosis of Lyme and am off all the meds. Its MY opinion that I was much more profitable being treated for the symptoms than treated and cured of the cause. It was ALL IN MY HEAD!! Everytime I hear those words now, those LIES, I am disgusted with how I was mentally and emotionally raped and abused by the medical syat2em for profit!! It's pure EVIL!!
@TherapistReactsOfficial
Жыл бұрын
Sorry you went through this Danandrea
@kitsunelee007
Жыл бұрын
I have CPTSD, auto immune disease, bipolar, Autistism, childhood torture and sexual assault, rape, and 10+ specialist because I'm terminally ill. Ren is singing about my life since age 3!
@ladyethyme
Жыл бұрын
Experienced that myself-7 years of shit misdiagnoses. Lyme was the whole time
@Charyl.w.an.A
Жыл бұрын
Big Hug to everyone ❤
@TeresaGrimes-qp9ic
Жыл бұрын
Bless you. Cross our fingers, we went through H$LL, OUR FUTURE HUMAN BEINGS DO NOT GO THROUGH WHAT WE HAVE.💜
@deeda1779
Жыл бұрын
I wish all health care professionals had your thought process.
@SnailHatan
Жыл бұрын
A large portion do. They are just prohibited from acting upon it due to legal and “ethical” rules. As someone new to working in mental healthcare, the amount of therapists I’ve heard complain about the limits of what they are actually allowed to do is crazy. Every one I’ve met has had at least several patients who they weren’t allowed to help in the way that they needed. The most they can do is follow the guidelines and prescribe some meds. They aren’t allowed to give general advice on life decisions or non-scientific tools that could genuinely fix just about every problem their patients face. At least, that’s my experience so far in the US.
@lesdeplorables7440
Жыл бұрын
@@SnailHatan Meaning we might take action and aide in the rebuilding of our supposed heath system. Cuz from what my heart and eyes say; proper nutrition is a true medicine. It matches our body structures and if the effort in study grows it could be noted into a open source program that could be accessed for information or input by anyone and everyone. Thus transparency will reduce the possibility of being fooled again.
@normaleehi
Жыл бұрын
@@bronsonstone725 its a collective lack of integrity placed into our social dna. point the finger at individuals and the cycle of entropy just continues. society is an organism to be understood and nurtured and we're treating each other like antibodies, to be eradicated one by one. its a game nobody forced into playing can win
@GeriStorm
Жыл бұрын
He had Lyme disease nobody listened! Gave him medication for mental illness!
@lisadavenport2390
11 ай бұрын
Yes ty for this. As both a past healthcare worker and also a lyme patient. I was actually treated poorly as a woman. I had both happen. I wish I met health professionals like you
@TheSyncos
Жыл бұрын
A large message of this video is we as humans commodifying everything we can. I think Ren's last few bars are about how even though he can see all of this, he's a part of it. To even spread this message he needs to play the game. For what it's worth, Stuart, I think your question of "Honestly, what can I do to help?" is the first step, and I'm glad you're asking it.
@TherapistReactsOfficial
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Michael. I am very aware that I highlight lots of problems, yet i don't have any real solutions. But we are all in this together, so between all of us we can probably massively help each other.
@frostfang1
Жыл бұрын
Yes. Just telling them that you recognize the system isn't perfect, and you don't have all the answers, and that you are working with the resources you do have sets realistic expectations and makes it feel like it's a team effort, not them against you and vice versa.
@chriswoolcock8907
Жыл бұрын
It's all a money game
@dougblask6279
Жыл бұрын
@@TherapistReactsOfficial Identifying a problem, and getting others to see it, is step one
@SoULReapR01
Жыл бұрын
@Stuart J Randall the biggest problem with that is most people don't give a shit about other people pain as long as they can get 1 up empathy isn't very popular. I like to see a health care professional like you show that ...Ren has a huge heart and cares about people even with everything he suffered through that's why I think he is amazing and will 1 of the greatest
@rikuruohomaki3230
Жыл бұрын
The fact that you are actually thinking of these issues, with so much introspection and even humility, means you are the right type of person for your job. I don't claim to have personal knowledge or the expertise to say how good you actually are at your work, but that alone speaks volumes of how dedicated you are to actually helping people.
@kitsunelee007
Жыл бұрын
I sent this video to the psychologist who although helped me the most ended up wanted to use me to further his career and win awards but lost sight of me. .......after 17yrs leaving his care he apologized for his actions. I NEVER thought this man would listen to Ren's words let alone apologize. That single apology gave me more clourse, comfort, reminded him of his loss of empathy and use of me to further his own career then decades in therapy. After decades of misdiagnosis(more like incomplete) and have 20+ major surgeries in my brain, Gastric system, respiratory system, neurological system, cardiac system it was found out a cocktail of 5 heart and digestive meds to deal with the fallout. I never thought I would be able to exposed to sunlight and heat(I live in Florida), digest 95% of most foods, sleep with medication and a myraid of other things. I am still forced to take 5 other drugs that destroyed many of my body's systems because I've been on them so long and gone to the most eminent doctor's in the field said my body was desteoyed so young that I cannot live without them in body despite knowing these very drugs are killing me. My only wish is that no other person should ever go down the same path of hopeless and isolation. I'm sorry to break it to some ppl but most people who have actute, chronic pain/disease would do anything to never have to take another Oxy, Xanax, Ambien, or another heavy duty drug that is use recreational lying if it meant we could get our lives back. I'm terminally now because of the sheer amount of drugs and their side effects. I live every moment on borrowed time and I am grateful because if just 1 person doesn't have to suffer like I have it means everything I've gone thru isn't for nothing.
@izzyk1088
Жыл бұрын
Wow! I wish my doc would apologize to me! He is the reason! He deff used me and my insurance to better his career. Maybe I should send this to him. Maybe he will listen. Or delete it. But u gave me a thought. I dont see him no more but I walk past his office allt and I want to say something. I want him to kno wat he did to me. Sorry or not. I want him to know. Ive thought about leaving a letter. I dont have a direct number. I thought oh it won't get past his staff. He won't read it. But your comment may change that for me. Since your from Florida maybe u kno the area? Delray.. dr Rodriguez destroyed my life! To open a Juice bar! And every time I visit. Want him to see me. I think he won't even rem me. But next time I walk by i won't go with out saying my peace this time. Even if I have to make an appt! I'll put more money in his pocket just to tell him off! I wish you the best thank you
@wcoasttigger
Жыл бұрын
@@izzyk1088you can do a certified letter. Require him to sign for it. I would do a few drafts to sort out all you want to tell him.
@CaraMyBeloved
15 күн бұрын
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@Parula06
Жыл бұрын
THANK YOU!!!!! My late husband was a clinical therapist, and he often said that one of the most frustrating aspects of his practice was inheriting a client that had been tagged with and treated for a diagnosis that was flat-out wrong. An initial misdiagnosis is like an albatross around the sufferer's neck, following them around inescapably because all the other professionals in the food chain just read the patient's record and don't question their predecessor's work. Why does this happen? I recall asking my husband this very question. His view was that it was the medical factory model combined with the endemic hubris of the medical industry. A patient, who may not be terribly articulate in the best of times and is certainly suffering and stressed when seeing the diagnosing professional, has maybe 5 minutes with said professional. And that doctor is rushed, plowing through a stupid workload, and may not really know how to be in the moment and listen. Which leads to the second issue, which is the industry-wide issue of medical professionals not taking patient's views seriously. And this continues on and on, through multiple visits with multiple professionals.
@TherapistReactsOfficial
Жыл бұрын
Such good points Marty and I agree with all of them. There has to be some way through this, but its going to have to be a massive shift in paradigm. thanks for taking the time to comment.
@stephenlane5139
Жыл бұрын
You're the first person I've heard call anger a healthy emotion. It usually has such a negative view. It's not the anger, it's the behavior that follows that can be unhealthy. Thank you.
@halesie4285
Жыл бұрын
'Anger is and an energy' - John Lydon
@Alan_Duval
Жыл бұрын
I think it's more often meant that one's way of managing or channelling one's anger is unhealthy, rather than necessarily anger itself being unhealthy.
@Bai_Su_Zhen
Жыл бұрын
There is no unhealthy emotion.
@amyfox9659
Жыл бұрын
I was misdiagnosed with hallucinations after childhood sexual assault. I was put in hospital psych ward in early 1980's and taught to take pills and be obedience. My body was resistant to all Antidepressants I had been rotated through by the time I was diagnosed with two autoimmune diseases. Half of my brain is deteriorated. I had a correct diagnosis in 3 days of MRI after 15 years of flushing pills that made me more ill. I was told to go on early disability and go home. My brain is age of a 90 year old. I have 9 specialists and 18 prescriptions to give me some longevity and a degree of quality of life. A good day is ability to walk. Complete a sentence, and not mess a diaper. But knowing my colon is not working, I've asked for a psychiatrist to prescribe something for anxiety and depression. My body has built a resistance to all of the options available. 😢
@stephenlane5139
Жыл бұрын
@Daniela Ferreira only if those emotions lead to unhealthy actions.
@TherapistReactsOfficial
Жыл бұрын
Firstly, I'm worried these videos are going to be taken down because of all the copyright messages I keep getting - anyone got any advice for that? About the video - I know this video will be massively divisive. It is not my intent to offend, but to open up a conversation about these issues within the medical system. There was a lot to unpick in this video, and I couldn't touch upon everything I was seeing and hearing. I chose the parts that resonated the most with me, and the parts that I hope my viewers can help me out with which I couldn't quite get.
@jacks9624
Жыл бұрын
What you could do as a member of medical profession is push (on any and all available levels) for standardization of testing for physical causes, like you said - Lyme, and anything else that can create psychological symptoms. For any new patients before writing down a diagnose into their file, but also for ALL current patients, regardless of how log they have been suffering for. That would help massively. Thank you for the interest in this matter.
@nerigalvb8779
Жыл бұрын
I am not a creator or reactor, so I can't speak to how it is with other artists (strikes and claims seem to be a problem there sometimes), but as far as Ren is concerned: He made it very clear that he absolutely supports reactors and wants to make sure that they don't have any problems when reacting to his material. He said at one point (I am sure someone smarter than me can find it) that if you ever get a copyright claim when reacting to his songs, you should just dispute it and he will make sure that it goes away.
@wexfordgirl1
Жыл бұрын
I survived Legionnaires Disease 20 years ago. Misdiagnosed like Ren until I went private in UK, because I thought I was losing my mind. However, after that I had a name - Fibromyalgia and M.E. Nothing but MST and Gabapentin since. I just gave up. Was told no tests for it and crushingly, no cure. I recognise exactly what he is describing. I admit, to my utter, utter shame, being jealous of Ren getting stem cell treatment. It is available now but could never afford it. My life effectively ended 20 years ago.
@michellereed2070
Жыл бұрын
Stuart- I rarely comment on videos or anything on social media, but I feel it's extremely IMPORTANT to let you know a few things. 😊 ** However, I must apologize & explain a few things in advance. I'm NOT APOLOGIZING for any of the CONTENT of the ACTUAL MESSAGE. I want to state that clearly! I AM APOLOGIZING for what I'm sure will be a punctuation & grammar clusterf*cking mess though! 😆 I have several major medical issues. The most debilitating one (I.m.o. anyways) is an extremely Rare Neurological Disorder (the NON REVERSIBLE form of R.C.V.S. Which is then seriously complicated due to the Basilar Artery in my brain is collapsing in on itself & doing so in an area that is impossible to (safely & successfully) surgically reach & repair in order to widen & stabilize the Artery to increase blood flow to my brain & the rest of my body. Therefore, I have SEVERELY DIMINISHED Blood Flow in my brain, in addition to the many other progressive (ultimately fatal) consequences of the N.R.C.V.S. 🙃 My cognitive abilities (memory, spatial awareness, control of fine & large motor skills, etc. are drastically affected & progressively getting worse in a fairly rapid time frame. I've already lost about 90% of the basic info/understanding of "Grammar, Punctuation & Writing Rules 101" 😉 These are a few of the main consequences of my Neuro Disorder. 💜 I mainly shared that short snippet w/you about my Neurological Disorder to explain why this message will be rife with punctuation & grammatical errors up the Wazoo! 😂 Having said that now, Here goes: I GREATLY APPRECIATE YOUR AMAZING APPROACH TO HELPING PEOPLE! I wish there were MANY more kind, compassionate, thoughtful, honest AND properly educated people in the Mental Health/Medical Field that GENUINELY care & want to improve the quality of people's lives! MORE PEOPLE LIKE YOU, STUART!! 😊 There is both a HUGE NEED FOR & IMMENSE VALUE IN the way YOU (YES, YOU SPECIFICALLY) not only "react" to Ren's videos, but ALSO how you make it a PRIORITY to take the time to share with & teach us: #1- The MASSIVE IMPORTANCE of being aware of any/all internal & external signs of harmful/destructive actions, behaviors & patterns that we often display in our everyday lives that we were previously unaware of.💚 #2- You KINDLY & COMPASSIONATELY educate us on the "How's & Why's" of these core actions/reactions in a NON - CONDESCENDING & RELATABLE WAY. 😁 THEN, you proceed to explain to us the REASONS the aforementioned behaviors came to be an ingrained & automatic part of our daily lives in the first place.👍 #3- You CONCISELY & CONFIDENTLY TELL US that NONE OF THESE ACTIONS WE EXHIBIT MAKE US HORRIBLE, WRONG, HELPLESS, WORTHLESS OR ETERNALLY BROKEN PEOPLE! 🩵🩶🩷💜 🩵*A BILLION "THANK YOU STUART!" FOR YOUR INCREDIBLE KINDNESS & COMPASSION!*🩷 IT IS MASSIVELY IMPORTANT TO HEAR THESE WORDS! 🥰 ESPECIALLY, IN SUCH A SINCERE, KIND, CARING, INSPIRING & HOPE INDUCING WAY!!🥹 #4- You teach us what tools we can learn & implement in our lives to change our current unhealthy responses. Then, you patiently & simply explain how to utilize A.C.T. in our daily lives! 🥰 I STRONGLY BELIEVE that SOCIETY is FULL of human beings that are overwhelmed by the severe & constant physical, mental & emotional pain, trauma, isolation, desensitization, etc...that we as individuals have experienced/are experiencing, but also collectively as a Society, are constantly surrounded by & immersed in daily....as well as being more physically, mentally & emotionally disconnected from each other. I fear the definition of HUMANITY is being forgotten & what it truly means to BE HUMAN is slowly being redefined & NOT in a positive way either. 😢💔 Anyways, that is why I took the time to reach out to you. I FEEL & BELIEVE IT'S HIGHLY IMPORTANT TO LET YOU KNOW THAT WHAT YOU'RE DOING IS MAKING a BIG, POSITIVE DIFFERENCE!😊💚 I FEEL THAT IT WILL CONTINUE HAVING A POWERFUL & IMPORTANT IMPACT IN THIS WORLD, Stuart! PLEASE CONTINUE DOING WHAT YOU DO! 🥰 YOU HAVE MY DEEPEST & MOST SINCERE GRATITUDE & RESPECT, Stuart! 🙂🩵🙃🩷🙂💚🙃
@Veeliscious
Жыл бұрын
@@michellereed2070 given all that you suffer with, I imagine that must have taken considerable effort to put together- I just want to say how eloquent and powerful it was and I was so engrossed in the power of what you were saying that I actually didn't even notice if there were any grammatical or spelling errors
@TheRachamuffin
Жыл бұрын
As someone who has spent their entire adult life under mental health teams and doctors because of chronic illness, I just wanted to stop by and say that I wish I'd had the support of someone like you! You asked what you can do, my suggestion would be to educate your peers! If you see that mindset of "just give them another pill" "have you tried mindfulness?" with no follow up support, call them out. We can't tell the professionals how to care for us, and even if we did, most of them would ignore us and put it down to one of our 'symptoms'. We need people 'on the inside' so to speak, who can actively change people's minds about how to treat a person with chronic health/mental health problems, and who can remind them that even though we feel broken, we aren't a lost cause. We're still people. Thanks for the video, I'd love to see your take on the tale of Jenny and Screech, but I think the story begins with Violet's Tale 😊 hope you have a good day!
@TherapistReactsOfficial
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your experience. And you are right, every meeting I am in I draw attention to these issues and try and explore other ways of doing things. Usually it lands well, what gets in the way at that point are individual services policies, and pathways etc so that needs to be challenged too. I have just uploaded my Tales of Jenny etc so check that out.
@TrueNorthOutdoors.
8 ай бұрын
It ends with Violets tale, don't watch it first.
@jeffwilson3205
Жыл бұрын
I hope Ren watches this.
@TherapistReactsOfficial
Жыл бұрын
How cool would that be. I’ve seen people trying to tag @Ren before so not sure if that works!
@jeffwilson3205
Жыл бұрын
@@TherapistReactsOfficial he does watch a lot of reactions…he might stumble across this, or somebody might forward it to him. His dad watches and comments too. I said the same thing about Dr Nic’s Hi Ren reaction…I think he would be honored to know that his music was used in a college psychology course especially in light of what he said in the Justin Hawkins interview. When he was talking about having talking to fans after shows and how he can’t really help with people’s individual problems because he’s a mess himself…the help is all in the music.
@Fairadez2008
Жыл бұрын
I have been watching a lot of these reactions to Ren and I would not be surprised if his music ends up as a teaching tool. His ability to offer us a bridge cross that empathy barrier is nearly unparalleled.There is a deep tonal resonance that bypasses the ear and hits you hard in the psyche and it effects each listener in ways both similar and unique.
@flfl2
Жыл бұрын
Wow. I've never thought very deeply about this before - you've spurred me on! I'm 46 and have lost count of how many psychiatrists I have seen since my teens, a few weeks as an inpatient too... all pushing pills. Wasn't until I was 41, when a young doctor connected the dots.. All that time treating the symptoms, not the cause. That's a long trip, a lot of lost time, and a lot of damage along the way. The medical profession needs to drag its heads out of textbooks. Biology, diagnoses, and medication aren't the end of the story.
@TherapistReactsOfficial
Жыл бұрын
Completely agree FL. Might outlook on these things has changed so much between learning to work in healthcare, to then actually working and talking with PEOPLE - which has taught me so much more. Thanks for taking the time to comment.
@allybandy3047
Жыл бұрын
I hope your life is brighter and you find what happiness there is in this crazy world we live in. Through sharing we may find healing of the soul.
@Veeliscious
Жыл бұрын
I beleive one issue is that a lot of their education is both sponsored by and put together by the pharmaceutical industry who want them to prescribe the drugs they make..
@allybandy3047
Жыл бұрын
@@Veeliscious Precisely!
@flfl2
Жыл бұрын
@Vanessa Wood doesn't happen here in Australia due to universal health care (and is unlawful)
@renaybrown2767
Жыл бұрын
You are an amazing human, if only most others felt this way! It's easy to judge and react to something you can't see ( the brain) but to be deep enough as you to actually question is an amazing ability, the world needs more of you ❤
@TherapistReactsOfficial
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the kind words Renay.
@CallyWasHereOfficial
Жыл бұрын
8:16 A patient cured is a customer lost. that’s why
@cathryntruebloood3913
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this, just thank you. I have multiple chronic diseases, the bulk of them not easily diagnosed, nor seen, nor identifiable. I can recount the number of times I was dismissed, told it "is all in your head", you are doing it to yourself. I also cannot explain the angry victory I felt when my first MRI revealed over 75 active lesions on my brain when the first diagnosis of Multiple Sclerosis came in, nor the emotions when a year later the diagnosis of Auto Immune Thrombocytopenia, or two years after those the diagnosis of an infundibular mass on my brain near pituitary stalk and Hypothalamus, or the final diagnosis of the occluded and prolapsed SVC. I cannot tell you how much listening to Ren's music and watching reactions to it has helped. I can also tell you after watching your very insightful and caring and feeling response to his music along with other Dr.'s and professionals and other reactors, I actually reached back out and put myself back into counseling. You matter, you helped. Thank you.
@TherapistReactsOfficial
Жыл бұрын
Hi Belarisha, thanks so much for taking the time to comment and for sharing your experience with us. I am glad that my video has managed to help at least one person and it is great that you are reaching back out for some help. Take care.
@kristinekarlson113
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this honest introspection. I’ve been on a journey for the last 9 years trying to find the reason behind my symptoms, which affect multiple systems (GI, pulmonary, musculoskeletal, mental, emotional). I’ve had multiple doctors openly scoff at me for trying to get them to screen me for conditions I looked up online in desperation. As though I find it amusing to waste my time, energy and money on these appointments. I can only pursue answers for a few months at a time, because it’s really demoralizing. But such a common experience. I hope Ren’s art leads to a sea change in the medical and mental health industry.
@ozwaltreacts4709
Жыл бұрын
I did the same thing and it turned out to be chemical and food allergies causing all of it. I’m actually diagnosed with the same thing Ren is, Mast Cell Activation Syndrome. If you look at my old reaction videos I was actually trapped in that room. Never got to leave. The reason I wore one shirt is because I was so allergic reactive I couldn’t have any more clothes, bed, covers. Nothing. It was really bad and I thought I would die in there. I have to eat a limited diet like he does and stay away from fragrances like chemicals and I’m mostly ok now. Took forever to figure it out and I was told it was trauma too and tons of psych illnesses. The diagnostics have to get better.
@kristinekarlson113
Жыл бұрын
@@ozwaltreacts4709 good luck on your journey. I’m so glad you found practitioners would could finally at least give you a sense of validation. Solutions cannot take root unless you start from there.
@TherapistReactsOfficial
Жыл бұрын
It's so sad that it is such a common experience. Thanks for sharing Kristine and take care.
@HilPrime
Жыл бұрын
I feel like I could have written this myself. Definitely been laughed at too. With whatever I have, I just don't have the stamina to keep begging healthcare professionals to care. It's hard not to give up and just be resigned to this life for the rest of time. I used to be bitter about it, now I'm just exhausted.
@IratePuffin
Жыл бұрын
Idk your situation and what you’ve ruled out but, if you haven’t, definitely see an immunologist if you can. I have a friend who also suffered for years until she was diagnosed with an autoimmune illness. She’s still not 100% but she was at a point she couldn’t leave the house without help and could hardly walk to the mailbox.
@foreignthoughts5139
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this reaction video, and thank you for the reflection on how to not be like this. I went into the mental health care system when I was 6 years old, and it took until last year to find out 'what was wrong'. I bounced (or got bounced) from therapist to therapist, hospital to hospital, attempting to end my life a few times. I've wasted 27 years of my life trying to get the correct help, only to be told I have a plethora of personality disorders, depression, anxiety and 'a rich imagination'. That I'm 'looking for excuses to explain lack of motivation to get healthy', am overly dramatic in the 'stories' I tell and that my affect doesn't match with what I'm saying so the stories aren't believable. In my teens, I was overdosed on SSRI's because I displayed more and more suicidal ideation - I had been molested by a therapist right before that. Then, 2 years ago, I met a therapist who didn't open a folder. He met me without reading my file. He took the time to sit down, look me in the eye, and tell me he would listen to whatever I had to say - and believe me. He warned me he might challenge my beliefs or convictions, but never my experiences. A year later I finally worked up the courage to tell him I had experienced 7 years of CSA. And then, after his encouraging reactions, I told him more, and more, and more. I was diagnosed with cPTSD: dissociative type (weird, how affect doesn't match when someone's dissociating, right?). I'm going on about 40 EMDR sessions now and, for the first time I can remember, I'm not suicical. The system might be broken, but one individual can make a difference. Thank you for being angry. Thank you for being different. Thank you on behalf of all the lives you're going to change, and save, by not being part of the endless row of file-sharing people doing their nine-to-five and then buggering off home. I know it's asking a lot of therapists to always be human, because they, too, need to protect themselves from the horrible truths they deal with every day. But I'm asking it nonetheless. Keep your heart open, make a connection. Being truly seen can save a life. It saved mine. And, of course, Ren is a bloody brilliant artist, and I absolutely adore how he tackles difficult issues. I can't think of another way to express it but that I think he's got music in his veins, heart and soul.
@TherapistReactsOfficial
Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for sharing your experience, I think it can really help people to hear relatable experience and I’m super pleased you found a therapist that you can trust. I use EMDR quite often (In fact it was the first therapy I learned and used for years and I just don’t talk about it on my channel at the moment). I find it a really helpful tool for people and I’m pleased you have had some benefit too. Take care.
@34goldilocks
6 ай бұрын
Hi from the UK I just want to say that if all the medical staff thought like you we would live in a much better world! Just watched this and I just want to say I need a therapist like you, I'm full of so much pain and trauma and now have a phobia with any thing medical. I would love you to interview Ren that would be amazing.
@TherapistReactsOfficial
6 ай бұрын
Yeah that would be super cool to chat with Ren! Thanks for watching my video and taking the time to comment.
@staceyjayneplatt9527
6 ай бұрын
Agreed 👏👏👏🙏🙏🇬🇧🇬🇧
@staceyjayneplatt9527
6 ай бұрын
I Concur 👍
@salishseamermaid
Жыл бұрын
Really enjoyed and resonated with your reaction! Thank you. After watching a lot of Ren's videos, especially Money Game 1&2, I interpret the last line as an acknowledgement that we are all participants in this broken system, and therefore partially complicit in the very things that are doing us harm. We consume the very resources that we know are depleting the earth and ourselves because we're inescapably part of this massive, overwhelming, broken system. I see it as a cry of anguish at being in the impossible position of recognizing the harm but also needing the benefits. I'm a nurse in a very different field, caring for newborn babies in withdrawal from prenatal drug exposure...and yet, in some ways it's very much mental health adjacent. It is my observation that every addict is treating pain, be it physical or psychological (and often it's both together). In the interview with Justin Hawkins, Ren describes that desperation to find something--ANYTHING--that might help. It's heartbreaking, and entirely too common. Part of his incredible appeal as an artist is the way he gives voice to that kind of suffering (although he appeals in many, many other ways as well). You might like his song Crutch, which I believe is from before he had his diagnosis of Lyme disease. The depiction of feeling your mind giving way is amazing and heartbreaking.
@MattsLockPit
Жыл бұрын
It's refreshing to see a healthcare/medical professional not let their ego get in the way of, or cloud their retrospective thinking! 👏👏
@TherapistReactsOfficial
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Matt. We need to loosen up on our 'expert' opinions and have honest conversations with people.
@krisdavis3888
10 ай бұрын
Your a badass. Sincerely mean that so few people have the patience to take the time you do to help others like me thank yu
@stevenpeet5009
Жыл бұрын
I believe that Rens videos/message and yours will both inspire many health professionals to correctly diagnose sufferers. And consequently prevent further suffering, god bless you both.
@TherapistReactsOfficial
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for taking the time to comment with the kind words Steven.
@LilRedWitch
Ай бұрын
A lass who is going to uni to be a trauma therapist like you. I have ren’s experience and it is so refreshing now to have found not only a therapist but a psychiatrist and and entire team of specialist that genuinely care about me as a person not just another patient. We need more people like you in the healthcare system and considering what I have gone through personally is what has driven me to pursue being one of those therapists as well so I just want to thank you from me personally and just thank you in general. 💜
@rachelk8937
3 ай бұрын
I feel this so much. I lost a decade to severe mental and psychological symptoms that were misdiagnosed and, like Ren, once I finally got the proper diagnosis of Lyme and coinfections, my immune system was a mess and I am still dealing with MCAS (which is hell). I still struggle to find forgiveness (for my own healing), which is hard when I still come across so many doctors (including therapists) who can’t/won’t accept my diagnosis and help me cope with living with this. The good news is there ARE good doctors out there, but it’s a lot of work to find them. Hugs to everyone struggling.
@ricci8497
Жыл бұрын
Loved listening to you talking about this including seeing just how animated and think introspectively hard on yourself as well on how you've looked after others. There are quite a few within the psychiatric system as you are likely aware now that have reacted to to a few of Rens tracks. Many express the same disgusted at just how poorly the acted out health professional is in interacting with Ren in the video is. But many confess to having seen such things happen and cite the fact healthcare be it in NHS system and globally is under funded and staffed with many leaving. Job retention more staff more funding better training better protocols for reporting problems and issues all need to be in place. I had a relative who was a psychiatric nurse many years ago until one of the patients during one of their violent episodes actually broke my relatives neck making them rethink their career path. As for more tracks to react to when it comes to Ren I'd pick Diazepam, Depression and his duet with Chinchilla for Chalk Outlines.
@TherapistReactsOfficial
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your experience Ricci, and thanks for recommendations, I'll check them out.
@westbank5436
Жыл бұрын
I've came across Ren not even 2 weeks and now I'm the hospital and I keep telling these Doctors to put down your clip board and fucking listen to me!!!! Rens music is getting me thru this.
@pennytipp
Жыл бұрын
Yes, I used to teach kids like you’re describing - sent to us to help, usually by a judge here in the US, but it’s hard to help kids who’ve been abused their whole lives and have seen and lived through unspeakable things that even adults would have a hard time dealing with. I usually found that if you show them respect and compassion, they responded so much better.
@TherapistReactsOfficial
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely. That is the main group of people I currently work with. I think Ren has a song (Violets tale) that seems quite similiar to this but I haven't heard it yet. I might make a video about that as its a real area of interest to me.
@nerigalvb8779
Жыл бұрын
@@TherapistReactsOfficial Yes, Violets Tale is absolutely great - but please, make sure to watch the whole trilogy. It is called "Ren - The Tale of Jenny & Screech (Full)" and you really, really should watch all three songs in that order. Otherwise, you will miss out on an incredible experience. 100% worth a watch! But with your perspective on things, I believe that "Ren X Chinchilla - Chalk Outlines (live)" is the best choice for your next stop on the way down the Ren rabbit hole. Love your reactions and looking forward to both of these!
@pennytipp
Жыл бұрын
@@TherapistReactsOfficial yes, you have to do Jenny’s tale, screech’s tale and violet’s tale full, all three together in that order - but yes, it describes and paints the exact cycle of abuse in all of it’s gritty sad truths. A real eye opener for some who haven’t dealt with it. I applaud you for your work in trying to help these “forgotten” throw away kids. Not many can handle it.
@wallen308
Жыл бұрын
I've loved all your reactions so far precisely because you ARE human and not afraid to show it. Even when you called yourself out when you apologised for being sad and sharing your tears. I wish all therapists could be more like you, I wish more humans were more like you!
@niloofardordahan6915
Жыл бұрын
The psychologist I go to is the best in my town. There are more famous ones with fancier offices/degrees/accolades but this one was referred to as "the best" by my physician. He was not at all what I expected. He worked at a clinic at the time and I went through a test (some sort of picture association) before I even met him. I sat on the sofa, I asked: "ok, tell me what's wrong with me", he looked at me & said: "Nothing's wrong with you. you're just feeling sad". I started crying. I had been to therapists before and somehow he was different. That was the first and last time he looked at a file in front of me. He never gave me a diagnosis. We just talked. After a few sessions, he asked me: "are you comfortable with medication." I said, "whatever you say that makes me better". He said: "That's not an answer. Are YOU comfortable?" I had no answer. Still, he explained that he wants me on a tiny bit of medication to give me enough relief to be able to participate in therapy. He drafted a letter, asking me step by step if I thought the description of me was fair. He gave me a list of doctors, told me to not buy the medication before I saw him again. Next time he asked me what the doctor's reaction was, how much time he spent, and if I felt they were compassionate. I went through 5 different doctors before I even bought meds. I went through a few more during the years. It was truly a group effort. Different medication was needed through different periods. He arranged for this entire orchestra of different professionals to follow a plan to help me. Yes, it took longer. Way longer. 10 years but I was never foggy, I struggled but I could still learn, study, and work on every tiny loop in my mental space that was bringing pain. He has a wall full of books. In our sessions, he pulls one out, opens a page, and tells me to read and say if I feel that is similar to my experience. If I say no, he brings out another book. If I say yes, he brings another book and we work together until I feel like I am completely understood. More often than not I don't fit in a box. It's a combination. We start new sessions discussing if I want to change my answer from last time. He is like that with everyone. He charges less than the industry standard. He doesn't charge if people can't afford it. I am even friends with someone he literally helped financially to start university. I am beyond blessed. The compassion this man has is unmatched. Now the results. Even though it took me long, I now handle challenges and trauma very easily. Not much shakes me to my core. It took long because we built a new foundation and I am forever grateful. Edit: I'm back after 4 months watching this again. I want to add something. I had major depression and anxiety at 17. 12 years later I am living with dysthymia. I have good days and not-so-good days. I just want to tell anyone out there that it was worth it. If you're at the start it may seem like a long road but trust me it is so worth it. I have got the balancing act down. I know when to slow down, when to baby myself, when to speed up, and when to challenge myself. I know all the signs and solutions that work for me. Yes, my body chemistry keeps me at a constant base level of depression but I experience joy, love, determination and so much more. Go on your mental health journey, be relentless in finding a professional that works with you well. Take it one day at a time. Some periods are hard but just have faith in the process. Tell your therapist if you feel uncomfortable in any way and be aware that there are many schools of psychotherapy that work for different people. Find the one that works for you. Don't let people without comprehensive first-hand experience scare/dissuade you with their "advice". You deserve to take care of yourself at whatever pace or form that is needed. You should not feel at the mercy of your doctor. They should empower you and let you be involved with the process. Again, I guarantee you, time passes quicker than you might think and you will get out of the crappy feelings. Regarding meds, give it 3 weeks, if you don't feel better, it's off. Go back and try again until the doctor finds what works for you. Go to doctors who are willing to start small and get you there with trial and error. When things change, the meds should change as well. Don't tell yourself "That's just the meds". They should be helping, not hurting. You take them to feel, function, sleep and work better. If any of these get disrupted,, the meds are wrong. It's tedious but better than living a hazy zombie existence. Good luck and I wish you all the safety, happiness and comfort in the world ❤
@bob2shred894
Жыл бұрын
You had me worried that you were about to make me question you with you caveat at the beginning of this video. This video just made me more interested to what you have to say. Thanks and we appreciate your work
@ReinetteSwart
Жыл бұрын
Oh my word Stuart, I just found your channel and I just have to tell you that it's awesome. You are so spot on with a lot of stuff and you makes us think and have conversations about it all. Much love from South Africa 🇿🇦❤️🇿🇦
@TherapistReactsOfficial
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Reinette, nice to hear I am reaching people and making a difference.
@luckisalady1
Жыл бұрын
As a therapist, I keep myself real for others, being genuine, use active listening skills and really get into whatever my client is relating to me. While I cannot "be" my client, I can seek to understand what they are relating to me and to assist them in finding solutions that fit for them, not for myself. To be willing to actually help others in their journeys is to be willing to put aside our own paradigms and adjust ourselves to others' paradigms. I enjoyed your response. And I certainly enjoyed Ren's song. The frustration Ren went through along with the suffering he endured is permeated throughout the song, so much said in such a short track, and eventual realization in his journey that somehow he too was a part of something he didn't want to be involved with at all was where that journey took him, yes, it always comes down to what is within ourselves that needs a change, love how he moved into that introspective dynamic at the end.
@TherapistReactsOfficial
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your experience as a therapist. In my experience, as someone who supervisors other therapists, it feels as if the art of 'listening' is being lost and instead the therapist is hearing the words and working out what model is best to fit the person in to, instead of actually hearing their experience.
@jasonbuckley4118
17 күн бұрын
i appreciate This video, as it is an ultimate understanding of the video and Ren, The video and Spreading this message to find a way to help, question 'What can we do'!.
@NaomiKFCHutchin
Жыл бұрын
I have far too many things to say. Thank you. I have always struggled with my mental health, and in 2020 I fell down the stairs and developed Functional Neurological Disorder. I am so fed up with being told that the excruciating pain, lack of limb control, seizures etc are in my head. I was a careworker with a lot of clients suffering from serious mental health issues, physical issues, dimentia etc. I KNOW that my brain is converting stress into symptoms. I do not need to be reminded
@TherapistReactsOfficial
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing Naomi.
@MissHaotic
6 ай бұрын
Did you hit your head or hurt your neck when falling off the stairs? If yes, I’d recommend checking Craniocervical instability and Atlantoaxial instability.
@Item_I_ate_them_pac-man
9 ай бұрын
I loved your insight into this song. I think by you simply hearing and getting Ren’s message is enough. I’ve subscribed and I’m about to go check out more of your Ren reactions if you have them. Another artist, Stray Kids. They are huge but people often pre-judge because it’s kpop. You should be open minded. They are entirely self produced and incredible. They have a huge discography that covers many genres and styles.
@retsag9977
Жыл бұрын
I really love how the "Your mind is making you sick" and the breathing exercices are taken as a "Skill isue" like: "your just too dump to focuse otherwise" or "Have you considered not being sick ?"
@westbank5436
Жыл бұрын
Loved your reaction to man!!! I think this will make you better at your job!!🔥🔥
@TherapistReactsOfficial
Жыл бұрын
Thanks westbank!
@westbank5436
Жыл бұрын
@@TherapistReactsOfficial Keep up the good work!!!
@dbmyrrha
Жыл бұрын
How can you help? By continuing to ask that question. It is obvious that you are thoughtful and compassionate, putting the person first. Thank you for that, and for this insightful response to this song.
@TherapistReactsOfficial
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the comment dbmyrrha and thanks for the kind words.
@Shineyourlightxo
Жыл бұрын
His level of expression is phenomenal. My family finally was sent to a genetics specialist. My mom was diagnosed with mast cell/eds/pots. She was 54, I was 31, and my kids were little. They only caught it finally because I was near death and my baby was too. The experience we had before proper diagnosis was so relatable to this video. The flares are hard but having the proper specialist are rare and vital. I'm not good at expressing my thoughts. Thank you for making this video. Ren has been so healing.
@ellesee7079
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your reaction, and your compassion. If there was one thing I would wish for from health professionals, it would be for them to understand we are not all looking for pharmaceuticals or procedures, but a diagnosis and treatment path, whatever it may be. I would imagine the frustrating thing for health care professionals is that a lot of illnesses have the same range of symptoms, therefore diagnosis is not always easy. I am currently suffering with 3 apparently different issues, all of which have multiple symptoms, the majority of which overlap! All I want to know is the best way to proceed, and help myself heal, not just fix the symptoms. I think you probably do a great job for your patients.
@TherapistReactsOfficial
Жыл бұрын
Hi ElleSee - yes I completely get where you are coming from. it feels like each diagnosis has its own pathway and waiting lists, but then if there is a change to diagnosis then its back on another waiting list. it doesn't feel like a very connected system at all. thanks for taking the time to comment.
@mikethorn1021
Жыл бұрын
I LOVED this reaction. We need people like you in health care.
@amandacollins2854
Жыл бұрын
Chalk outlines is a great place to go after this ,another song about the affects of medication. You could possibly reach out to Ren himself for an interview .He has arranged them with other reactors . It would make a fascinating conversation. ❤
@TherapistReactsOfficial
Жыл бұрын
I would love if @renmakesmusic joined for a chat. Imagine that. It would mean so much to me to learn from his experience first hand.
@AutumnsFlameDances
Жыл бұрын
Well said, it would be a very interesting conversation.
@NewView638
11 ай бұрын
Outstanding commentary. I walked with my teenager through a similar situation as Ren’s and so many of your thoughts sync with our experience. EMDR and neurofeedback were the most impactful, but much harder to access in the medical system.
@LeeKennison
Жыл бұрын
One interesting note on the reoccurring pig and animal images in his videos can be found on his website. There is an image of a bulletin board, when you click on it, it has a patient report that describes his symptoms. I don't know if it is based on a real report or is a spoof, but one of the things it says is, "Often complains about visual and auditory hallucinations involving figures in animal masks, which seems to have an Orwellian origin due to his affinity for dystopian literature." When asked about the masks in live streams he says he wants his audience to interpret it for themselves.
@TherapistReactsOfficial
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Lee, it never even occurred to me to see if he has a website so I will check that out, great advice thanks!
@LeeKennison
Жыл бұрын
@@TherapistReactsOfficial Glad to do it. The link to it can be found on the "About" tab of his KZitem channel. Not sure how much of the symptoms listed are from an actual patient report, but they all ring true with things he has said about his condition before, including suffering from hallucinations. He is always very open about his condition and treatments in interviews and other comments. He even posted a video he took of himself when he was suffering the most around 2014, pleading for help. He released it just before "Hi Ren" premiered, saying in the comment he wanted to forget about that time, but did so to provide context. It is heartbreaking to watch.
@adelelondt781
10 ай бұрын
Thank you. It is refreshing to see a medical professional feel anger at the treatment most chronically ill patients receive. Ren’s videos are making waves, we need a tsunami. Differential diagnosis is critical if patients are ever going to receive the correct diagnosis for their illness. Because I had a diagnosis and history of depression, I was not taken seriously. I was dismissed, given antidepressants, sent for psychotherapy, put through CBT, which was marginally helpful, told about pacing and how it should be done. “My mind was the thing making me sick. My sickness beliefs were keeping me sick.” I knew the difference between depression and what I was physically going through. They were two very different things and two very different experiences. In explaining the physical crashes I experienced after doing something, anything, the excruciating pain, the bone crushing fatigue, vertigo, nausea, sound and light sensitivity, the inability to think clearly or find words. I was told I was experiencing the highs and lows of BiPolar. My depression diagnosis was the roadblock. It’s far easier to blame our minds and give us a pill, than actually listen, order the tests and find out what the hell is going on Physically. In my 7 year journey of being chronically ill, I have absolutely acquired medical PTSD. I can’t tell you the amount of times I have walked out of a “Specialist” consultation and sat in my car and cried. Because I was treated exactly as this video depicts. The condescending tone, the disbelief of my lived experiences. It is soul crushing. I recently had a total Thyroidectomy, as I had a multinodular goitre that had, very suddenly, become a massive problem. This has helped my energy levels. I am still left with diagnoses of Fibromyalgia and ME/cfs, Dysautonomia, POTS, possible EDS, Cervical Spinal Stenosis… And only two of those can really be tested for with certainty. It’s a massive problem, as you’re left with an illness that apparently has no cause, which in turn causes you to question your experience, your beliefs and your sanity. Am I sick? Or am I making this up? My amazing GP asked the question, “If you felt perfectly well tomorrow, what would you do?” My answer is still the same “ Clean my house, make it sparkle and shine. Do the gardening. Take a long drive. Get back in the gym and train until my muscles scream. Go for a hike in the Hinterland. Take the dog for a long walk on the beach. Just go for a walk. Go shopping. Spend hours window shopping. Take the kids somewhere exciting. Hop on plane and travel. Make long slow love to my husband. Get dressed up, have my hair done, shave my legs,😂” (At this point I was mostly bed bound and moving felt like I was running the last 10k’s of a marathon, up a mountain.) His response was I wasn’t depressed, I was sick. Depressed people generally don’t have a list and have difficulty answering the question. Doctor’s need to learn to listen. Genuinely listen. Just because your blood tests come back normal, doesn’t mean there is nothing wrong. And besides, who the hell would choose to spend 7 years of their life bed and house bound, in a dark room? Who would choose the ridicule and disbelief, the loss of friendships, the loss of living, the loss of career, relationships? Who would choose to feel this grief for a life lost? Ren’s story, my story, are not unusual. It is the plight of the #MillionsMissing. The story rings true for every one of us. Sadly.
@vivienneclarke2421
Жыл бұрын
It's not just about testing. I live in north eastern America,tested positive for Lyme 20 years ago. It was advanced but hadn't reached my spinal fluid yet. At one point,I was in so much pain I walked like a 90 yr old woman,had brain fog and fatigue so bad,couldn't get out of bed, and all the drs wanted to do is give me antidepressants. I said nope.....I've never been depressed in my life, lol.....I now just get on with life with Lyme,without doctors😔sometimes it's easy,,sometimes it's unbearable
@kazpwright
Жыл бұрын
I enjoyed your take on this. First time here. Thanks for taking time on Ren. I LOVE him!!!! Jenny and Screech is fab !!
@TherapistReactsOfficial
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the kind words Karen.
@susannamiscera2401
Жыл бұрын
I think the last lines are Ren acknowledging that, as much as he could point the finger and call other people hypocrites, he's a part of the system too (since it's virtually impossible to divest from in this day and age) and therefor is to some degree complicit. Loved you reaction! You have so much compassion and you give me hope for the future of mental health care.
@TherapistReactsOfficial
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Susanna. I think you are right, I think we are all to some degree caught up in a system. Thanks for sharing.
@viktor821
10 ай бұрын
This reaction was phenomenal, you added so much value from your experience
@jkinney0420
Жыл бұрын
Sir, you got yourself a new sub! I really enjoyed this breakdown and the Hi Ren also. You asked about what can be done, or what you can do to try and fix the "system". I think the first and most important step is exactly what you are doing. Realizing there is a system, and then that the system is broken? Or maybe it isn't broken? Is it set up and working exactly as planned? I think that question needs an answer also. IMO I believe it is working as intended. To keep the majority of us either numb to everything or making us believe that somehow we are to blame for what is wrong with us. And then outside the medical system everything we are fed causes more division compounding our sickness further. But I digress haha. I respect the fact that you are willing to ask yourself if you have been part of the problem, which I think we all are in some way. But being able to ask the question and honestly look at yourself/ourselves and have these conversations is a huge step towards fixing things. Respect and love always.
@TherapistReactsOfficial
Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for your comment Josh. Your question of whether the system is actually set up as planned (when we factor in the powers at play that actually maintain the system) is a really intriguing one, and one I will ponder.
@michaelmorgan2897
10 ай бұрын
You are fantastic. Sending love from The States.
@simonhornby5382
Жыл бұрын
So for fifteen years I worked in the NHS as a 'psychology practitioner', it was great to start off with - I provided counselling and support and was able to 'see' people/fellow humans in all sorts of situations, medical, sociological, psychological, and, I hope, to help them with their difficulties/issues. Having had psychological experiences of my own, I know what it is to be a 'human', and I really thought/believed that I was making a difference, a positive difference. But then things began to change, eventually 'we' were unable to see a person for any length of time, sometimes only once, and not only did the person loose faith/heart/belief, but so did the therapists... It ended up with different therapists seeing different people, yes, with clipboads and banalities. I was trained to listen, to give support, to help with the 'process' of living, and then we were just being asked to fill a role, to tick boxes (literally) and to refer-on. The indifference of the therapist is something I recognise, the anger of the 'person' I recognise, the lack of empathy/congruence I recognise. I'm not sure who is to blame but I couldn't do it anymore, just saying the words, ticking the boxes, knowing that I wasn't helping any more. And Ren, whose expression I admire greatly, has every reason to be 'angry' to be untrusting and to feel patronised and, actually, let down and abused! Agree with your comments, well done, and good luck.
@TherapistReactsOfficial
Жыл бұрын
Hi Simon, thanks for sharing your experience. I think people are coming round to this now, and certainly within my own circle of colleagues there is a real push toward something different. Its just hard being so few in such a large machine.
@shannonstradford6518
Жыл бұрын
I love the way Rens music makes us introspective ...I really appreciate your passion and compassion... Peace
@TherapistReactsOfficial
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Shannon
@vikkihumble2227
Жыл бұрын
doing the trauma group therapy via the NHS at the minute as ive got CPTSD and all 3 dissociative disorders, im on the verge of giving it up as it really does help me tear myself apart as im being told im basically doing all this to myself. Ive been medicated since i was 12 yrs old, i have to fight to not have tablets forced down my throat and its taken me 32 years to stand up for myself. Nice to see a therapist who gives a pooh x
@TherapistReactsOfficial
Жыл бұрын
That sounds really difficult Vikki. I don’t know much about the NHS group programs (as all NHS trusts operate differently), I do think some of the compassion has been lost somewhere though.
@1982deaks
Жыл бұрын
I much preferred your reaction to this than the Hi Ren video, you really got a lot more involved and passionate in this one
@TherapistReactsOfficial
Жыл бұрын
Thanks 1982deaks. Hi Ren was the first music video reaction I had ever done. I enjoyed sick boi as I watched it first to experience it, and then talked about it. Then I had sooooo many comments saying how it’s not a reaction because I had watched it so I thought from then on they all had to be fresh, but that obviously means I don’t know what I’m going to be talking about. I may do some more like sick boi, what do you think?
@lonesapphire
10 ай бұрын
I love what you say about how writing something down can make something "true". I have Myasthenia Gravis (and other junk unfortunately) which is neuromuscular. So many of us are told it's all in our heads and are diagnosed with conversion disorder or a functional disorder. A friend of mine even stopped breathing and had to be resuscitated and was told for years she "faked it". She's on hospice now from the damage it caused. She's only in her late 20s. I was fortunate and learned from others who came before me to run when conversion disorder or FND was brought out because once it's in your chart, no one will listen again. I suffered from early respiratory failure myself but I'm stable now. No thanks to the dozens of people who didn't listen. I can't even count the amount of times I started off appts hopeful only to give up 5 mins in when the doctor wouldn't even attempt to make eye contact with me before deciding I was crazy.
@protarget1
Жыл бұрын
Great reaction, an insight to the medical problems. Ren did a Twitch Reaction to Knox Hill's reaction to "Animal Flow" which of course is a reference to George Orwell's "Animal Farm" In the final scene where Ren's' outside. The animals are in a triangle shape Ren in front and the 2 pigs just behind him. Knox Hill referred to the 2 pigs as Napoleon & Snowball from Animal Farm. Ren said Knox was right but is more like, they represent, Generals, Authoritarians, people with the power over others, being Autonomous 🤔😊
@Mogel-
Ай бұрын
I really appreciate your perspective and reflections around all of this. I'm glad you as a healthcare professional can reflect around how you come across, how patients perceive the situation, and not just settle with the honest and true desire to help. I'm have my own mental health issues, and when you talk about "Am I part of this" and "How can I help?" [Turn the system around(?)], this is something I think about daily. I don't think it's healthy for me, and I'm in no position to do much about it, but sometimes I feel like I'm crazy when other people can just "ignore" it or at least put it in the back of their minds. I'm jealous, and I wish I could be more like them. Thank you for sharing all your thoughts
@j.6756
Жыл бұрын
REN ... as incredible as he is.. would be nothing... like he is... if not for his isolated upbringing, mother's voice training... sickness... and its exploratorty treatments... mostly failled, but a, scary, learning experience, non the less... and for him, one that Ren could channel into his artitistry of song... Success... if he has not achieved it... awaits him... because he is singing about what... HE KNOWS... his life... Our empathy into his pain, is sympathetic with our own PAIN, no matter how brief, or how excruciating, we recognize it... and WE make it our OWN... he sings our song... for us Yes , his breathing exercises helped make him great... as the result of his illness and treatments... he can rap and hold a breath for over 3 minutes... going on 4... because of the... " in... out... in... out... " which he repeats in numerous songs, his smeagle voice and conversations in Hi Ren... his Orwellian references in songs.. his fight for "Marley justice"... his joy to be alive... his work ethic.. to explore his vision and share it to the best of his abilities... these are Olympic qualities my friends... and hopefuly... he may inspire many folk who suffer in their own life... to never give up... rage against the darkness... and attempt a path that celebrates the travails of their existance... so that finally... they too may relax... and take a breath.... and live.... ❤❤❤
@skeepth7598
Жыл бұрын
speak normally mate
@nadiawilliams5865
3 ай бұрын
So refreshing to see therapists speaking out on this! Especially the meds!! Thank you REN as well for exposing the experience
@elenhin
Жыл бұрын
This was brilliant. Thank you.
@TherapistReactsOfficial
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Cheos
@ricksurratt9034
Жыл бұрын
My son is a psychiatrist and we have quite a few discussions about anything and everything but I appreciate your reaction. I’ve learned quite a bit and I thank you appreciate it
@strangeone3834
Жыл бұрын
My personal favorite analogy for why unempathetic doctors don't test for things and just give meds to cover it up is this: If you're getting paid for painting over water damage, why would you want to fix the leaky pipe even if you can? Then you'll be out of a job. This is admittedly a negative view but it's from my personal experiences from years of struggling the medical and mental health systems. I really appreciate your input and it is giving me hope for good doctors.
@paladonis
Жыл бұрын
I appreciate hearing some of this from a medical side honestly. I grew up with severe asthma, allergies and a heart condition myself. Was told at one point that I probably wouldn't live past 12 years of age...though I was "out of the room" for that one. I was on HIGH and PROLONGED doses of Prednisone for almost 20 years of my 41 year life. High doses being bursts that started at 120 MG and could only ween to 40mg before body had issues. Finally stopped taking cold turkey and that was a roller coaster. Grew up being a guinea pig for new meds, unbeknownst to me or my folks at the time. Was on the study for Claritin when it was trailing. As a young kid I was give Quiberon, which is a pill form of Epi and Hydroxyozine, an antihistimine at the same time. Once had an inhaler that actually had Rum or something in it to try and stabilize the jittery effects. I have all kinds of latent side effects from taking all that stuff and honestly, I take almost nothing now. Multivitamin and an as needed inhaler. Body chemistry changed from getting older but I LEARNED about my health issues and how to help them. I understand Ren's situation is VERY different than mine, but I understand where he is coming from with doctors just poking and prodding and sometimes making you feel like they are more interested in the money they could make off you instead of helping you. I look back at all the "Awards" my former doctor won and journals that were written, indirectly, about me and wonder why he never wanted to discuss things on a human manner to me. Sorry for the long post. Just wanted to share. Thanks for listening.
@Ole_Woodworm
Жыл бұрын
Disgusted with the broken system, psych nurse Anne Clark left her job and wrote 'Killing Time' (1984). Not much has changed since then. I appreciate your honesty.
@TherapistReactsOfficial
Жыл бұрын
I've not come across Anne Clark, I'll check out the book, sounds right up my street. thanks for sharing.
@Ole_Woodworm
Жыл бұрын
@@TherapistReactsOfficial It is a "Song", although she does not sing. ;)
@NickConner
Жыл бұрын
Sitting in a hospital, my symptoms real but not looking up to tests, this was a cathartic reaction :) You keep being a compassionate caregiver!
@ccfffvbbbbbffg1774
11 ай бұрын
God this is such a good reaction. Genuinely incredible input you gave here.
@izzyk1088
Жыл бұрын
Your amazing man. Ive been threw this my whole life. If only every doc was like you. They lost their hearts I think. But you have a big one!
@jkehler1258
Ай бұрын
Thank you. Your description of how SSRI's work is the dest I've heard, and most accurately match my personal experience, having tried every antidepressant and anti-anxiety medication they were willing or able to give me. Nobody ever explained how it could alter every aspect of my life. It was always talked about as how it could manage the worst days and a potential for relatively minor side effects. Meanwhile, the side effects for me ran from complete numbness and indifference, through loss of physical capacity, to increased panic and constant suicidal ideation. I've had different intake nurses treat me with indifference, disdain, and even anger, but also kindness. It felt as though I was lucky when it was kindness. I've also had multiple misdiagnosis ranging from ADHD, general and social anxiety, depression, and BPD. For my 50th birthday this year, I decided to ask my therapist for a psychiatric evaluation from a psychiatrist, but on the sole condition that they be empathetic and engaged; If they couldn't do that, I wasn't interested. Now, at the age of 50, I have a diagnosis of CPTSD. It's the first diagnosis that feels like it addresses everything I feel and have experienced. I'm now beginning to learn more about myself, where my struggles come from, and how to live with them more fluidly. I just wish it had happened decades ago. I really appreciated your take on Sick Boi and everything you added from your continued growth as a professional. I wish every patient could have meds explained to them in such an honest way and receive the compassion you described. Sincerely, Your newest follower
@AmmoBoks
Жыл бұрын
As sad as Ren's story and mind blowing bad his experience with regards to the healthcare industry is, it has led to extremely creative and genius masterpieces. Obviously I don't want anyone to experience anything bad at all, it's just that in some cases (like with Ren) those experiences are the catalyst for beautiful pieces of art that touches many people.
@glasweedgian
Жыл бұрын
Their will be millions of story's like this all over the world.. but maybe don't think they have the voice or talent to be heard due to their illness ? .. Why Ren should be shown to as many ppl as possible that it can be done and you can make a inpact for the greater good.
@TherapistReactsOfficial
Жыл бұрын
Yes I can't argue with that! I think Ren said something along the lines of he wouldn't be writing in this way if it wasn't for his experiences, and I guess we will never know what he would have produced, or the path he would have taken if he hadn't. It's still heartbreaking though to see people suffering. Thanks for commenting.
@rachellenoir2072
9 ай бұрын
Thank you. I have such c-ptsd FROM doctors. You gave me a glimmer of hope. I’m still fighting for my diagnosis.
@tangerine7398
Жыл бұрын
I loved your reaction! Thank you so much for sharing it with us. You gave me a lot to think about. ❤
@HelenaDaydreamer
Жыл бұрын
Compassion and love. That’s the answer.. having compassion towards ourselves, other human beings, animals and nature, only then we can truly start thriving ❤
@TherapistReactsOfficial
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@elizabethcox1553
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for speaking the truth about this subject. So refreshing.
@jamaykapranion1130
5 ай бұрын
I absolutely loved your passionate reaction to this song and the subject matter itself.
@dawnpatterson8708
Жыл бұрын
I think I may have figured out why Ren is such a draw. How he appeals to to such a wide rage of age brackets. No matter what he is speaking on. He writes through the eyes of human experience. Something we ALL have in common. He also uses wonderful music to make foks HEAR the message. Clever
@papagreentrees641
Жыл бұрын
In the Knox hill interview they discussed James Orwell and the influence on Animal Farm as a big influence for animal flow track.
@LHartman-gj7dl
Жыл бұрын
OMG, this is so interesting. Thanks very much.
@collinrosenmarkle62
Жыл бұрын
Its because of money dude. Curing diseases doesn't make money, treating them does.
@collinrosenmarkle62
Жыл бұрын
by the way, I watched the rest of this video and vibed hard, quick easy sub
@Lightmane
Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@TherapistReactsOfficial
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Collin, and I agree about curing diseases doesnt make money.
@copperhead2694
Жыл бұрын
I applaud you sir! I’m not sure exactly what it is in particular you should do , but just the mere fact you have had this eye opening experience through the thought provoking music of Ren.. shows you have been forever changed .. and that is where one person at a time making a change can bring forth a bigger change. Knowledge of the truth invokes change . We can no longer ignore the situation. Bless you for being open to self reflection, to learn, and to be human and have Empathy.
@jenneper
Жыл бұрын
I have lupus and Lyme and I'm working my way now through my psychology degree. Part of the reason I'm doing it is because of the way I've been treated in the healthcare system. I have very real conditions... But even if I had somatic, psychosomatic, or traumatic hypersensitivity to pain. The last thing I would want is to be in "fight or flight" waiting for how I would react to healthcare providers. Ren really is helping a lot of people right now. I hope your video helps both patient and provider..and for this future provider it gives me context and insight. Thanks so much for your vulnerability.
@blendrixrendrix8001
Жыл бұрын
You are already helping. Thank you very much.
@TherapistReactsOfficial
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Blendrix
@ndavey7777
Жыл бұрын
I appreciate your introspective approach in response to this reaction. It shows you care, and are less likely to be a medical robot pushing pills. Am I part of the problem... it's a healthy dose of reality that Ren is helping all of us to ask ourselves. Whether it's Pharma, mental health issues, money game issues we're all bleeding it somehow. Ren has a way of cutting through the noise and spitting facts we all need to hear. I've experienced the good and the bad in the medical/pharma world with a "Specialist" taking a total of 30 seconds in a room with me, reviewing my chart and then and pushing an prescription for anti-depression medication at me. Zero questions asked or words spoken. And having not accepted that, I've experienced the good with a different specialist spending the time and getting me off a different medication that eased the pain but left me in a constant fog (think Chalk Outlines/ and Diazapam songs) and then eventually figure out and solve the physical pain issue with IMS treatments. There was no actual depression or mental health issues only symptoms from having to deal with the effects of undiagnosed debilitating chronic pain. My take away is there are no easy answers, but awareness helps.
@rmclean101
Жыл бұрын
I had little knowledge or awareness of much this. Your interpretation was eye-opening for me, thank you. Ren's music and your analysis have made a large impact in my relatively small world, and I appreciate your work.
@paulajones9821
13 күн бұрын
Love the what your saying and how you'd genuinely like to understand and help buy I think personally the whole mental health profession is a mess you can't train or read from a text book etc,you have to of lived it to actually understand and I think that people that have been in that situation and give through the hell of it and come out on the other side should be the ones to help others regardless of whether they've trained years to do the job granted some training will be needed but I feel only then can someone truly be helped on another note I think it's lovely you are looking at rens videos and understanding and feeling genuinely touched by them,maybe you will be the one to make a change I hope so,ren has inspired me to start writing which I've always wanted to do he's absolutely amazing and his songs especially Hi ren have helped me immensely I'm not crazy,by the way I love your reactions thankyou 😊 your in a position to maybe make a change to the mental health so called system no matter how small and if not at least you know you tried,best wishes to you and your family,keep on with the reactions and analysis it's fascinating and refreshing that someone from the mental health system really wants to understand 😊
@stranger2Utube
Жыл бұрын
Wow, Stuart, what a great video! As you said in little comment conversation under Hi Ren, this on very different, but equally good if not even better. Sorry, will not add anything meanigful cause it's too late in the night and I have to go to sleep, just wanted to let you know how I appreciate this.
@TherapistReactsOfficial
Жыл бұрын
That is meaningful! It lets me know that my video was helpful to another human being and that means a lot to me and makes it worthwhile. Thanks for commenting.
@Phatxual
Жыл бұрын
The respect!💯❤️🔥 Brought a tear to my eye just knowing there is deeply compassionate healthcare professionals still out there. They seem tough to find nowadays. I'm not sure how some people even end up in the industry
@WaldoBC
Жыл бұрын
"I'm not sure how some people even end up in the industry" Money? I believe that helpful, compassionate, & empathetic healthcare workers find their way into the "industry" due to a family member or loved one who needs (or needed) care. It was either an incredibly good experience or a horrible one that directs some people to the profession. Those who are seemingly unempathetic, uncaring, & uncompassionate were, probably, only driven by money & greed.
@Phatxual
Жыл бұрын
@WaldoBC Although I appreciate and agree with your explanation, it was a rhetorical question lol hence the lack of a question mark. Much love, though🖤
@MerlinZuni
Жыл бұрын
This is awesome content. Your insights are so great. Keep going, you will make a difference
@TherapistReactsOfficial
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Merlin. It’s comments like that that remind me my videos can be helpful to people, so thanks for taking the time to let me know.
@RxDoc2010
Жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed the way you broke this down. I have been struggling with MDD, OCD, PTSD, and just general apathy for several years now. I’ve tried all of the drugs and the therapies, ECT, TMS, CBT and nothing seems to change anything. To be fair I’ve never gotten past 4 sessions with any therapist because I feel like I’ve run out of things to say, but where else do you turn. I am a pharmacist and I understand the drugs and I’ve researched the therapies. Music has been my escape for the last 4 or 5 years and because of that I have stumbled across some great artists. Ren is the latest in that line for me. Thank you for your reaction and explanations. Have you heard of Citizen Soldier? Take a listen I don’t think your viewers would be disappointed.
@hadesrealm3502
10 ай бұрын
This song hit me really hard. It took just over decade to get my dual AuDHD diagnosis. It took the same amount of time and 6 psychologists to find one who didn’t just tell me that I need to do some deep breathing and mindfulness and my anxiety would go away. My current psychologist(no.6) was the first person to actually walk me through the CBT and ACT techniques, who taught me about the SUDS scale and grounding and how to diffuse and cope with my mental health. It took years for me to get an accurate diagnosis and explanation for my chronic pain and proper treatment. What I needed was that, for someone to respect my boundaries and actually work deeper than the surface to help me.
@sianscott8091
Ай бұрын
You are SO right. Whenever I was hospitalised( sectioned) the staff's reactions were so different. I remember them all, for good or bad. One nurse helped me learn to read again. I have always loved reading and she saw that! I will never forget her patience and kindness. Others were cruel. Telling me I'd acted badly and should be ashamed of myself. This put me back several weeks, as they would go into detail, invading my already fragile mind. So thank you. Your compassion exudes from you. I remember the staff who cried for me, even though I didn't, at the time, know why. Also the staff who'd just put me into isolation because I was being 'disruptive, attention seeking and bad' I've forgotten why I started this comment 😂😂😂 Sorry. Pls keep doing what you're doing. A health professional asked me "what's the best, most helpful way for me to react to someone during psychosis?" My answer was simply "be kind..."
@TherapistReactsOfficial
Ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing. Your experience of a nurse helping you to read again is such a nice example of a person being caring and helping another person when they need it.
@sianscott8091
Ай бұрын
@@TherapistReactsOfficial thanks for your reply.
@officialnasfu7583
17 күн бұрын
Wow! REN's MasterPEACE creation followed by your MasterPIECE of analysis!!! Excellent!!!
@hanlou111
23 күн бұрын
I love your reaction and thoughts, it’s refreshing ❤ hope #renmakesmusic has seen this
@fordguyfordguy
Жыл бұрын
Well this was incredible. Love the song and Love your commentary. new subscriber.
@TherapistReactsOfficial
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Andrew, glad you liked it.
@mcloew258
6 ай бұрын
I appreciate your reaction. Me for myself was struggling with depression half my life. No offense to therapists, but none I met could help me. I had to die , literally, I was dead for a few minutes and ended up in 4 weeks in coma. That was my way to get rid of depression. This and the fact that I found people who had those problems too. Additional guys like ren, johnny cash , you name it. Music is the the best therapist. Professional help is very important and I am thankful that we have that option. I won’t tell anyone to do the way without professional help, but you need buddies who can really understand you. Most therapist never feel the other side, they know how to help but you have to go through hell to understand he’ll. Thank you for that reaction.
@specialk1627
Жыл бұрын
Brilliant…..you made my day hearing this! Love to Ren ❤❤❤❤❤
@j800r_aswell
Жыл бұрын
I love your immediate anger here. It's so reassuring and shows that you really understand that another human being is another human being just like you. You cannot hope to understand them if you don't first listen to them. And not with a clipboard taking notes. Notes won't help you, as impressions and ideas will change as you grow to further understand the person. The worst thing about the current state of the health care system is that people don't have the time to do this more often than not. This leads to them taking the wrong and potentially dangerous approach. I really appreciate your honesty in that moment. Putting the human before the therapist, so to speak.
@SandraP3796
Жыл бұрын
So very true what you are saying. You become what’s in your file. I’ve also been misdiagnosed for what I have and I’ve never trusted the medical industry again
@arsenicbohr6522
11 ай бұрын
On the "what can I do when patients point out the pile of problems with the way society is built and how it's killing us (through climate change for example)" subject.. I had a psy acknowledge the situation do exist, recognize it's not okay and thus makes rightfully angry. She told me it made her angry too and I felt understood and less lonely. Surely it would feel even better to find/have a way to use that anger to change things somehow, but at least, I have seen thanks to her that not all professionals are blind to or not caring about the problem. Hope it can help.
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