Waiiit, Dave's no longer doing better then he deserves?
@patricktuggles4815
6 жыл бұрын
Bart Van Riel first thing I thought lol
@deeboy1957
6 жыл бұрын
I’m the same 😂
@mikeartis
6 жыл бұрын
Lol! She messed up his rhythm!
@trippin9298
6 жыл бұрын
@LoveofVelvet Good is an automated response too lol
@bobmarker6812
5 жыл бұрын
I'm shocked!!
@IncredibleStan
6 жыл бұрын
Wait a minute...he makes 34K and she makes 9k a year? In Southern California? With kids? Are they living in a shopping cart? How is this even possible?
@maybememories925
6 жыл бұрын
Le Sauvage good questions 😂
@lakorai2
6 жыл бұрын
They are probably in government subsidized housing or they live with their parents. It was dumb to have kids making so little money in California
@adinahwithkaden
5 жыл бұрын
They probably get aid of some kind. Her $9K is probably pretty much cash under the table so they're showing $34K, and for a family of 4, they qualify for aid.
@Belle8kins
5 жыл бұрын
adinahwithkaden Nope Uber is considered self employment, they use form 1099 so they’re required to tell the workers. If they don’t and they find out later that they’ve been working, they have to repay the SNAP benefits. I used to work in San Diego for that department.
@adinahwithkaden
5 жыл бұрын
@@Belle8kins you can write your income off until it's very low. At 58 cents a mile (IRS mileage deduction) you can actually make it look like you're making very little from Uber. It's impossible to do that with W2 income.
@Julian-zc9vm
6 жыл бұрын
A $431 car LEASE. This probably equates to a $40k car. And they bring home $45k a year. That's inanity.
@aidancash1
6 жыл бұрын
She is practically working to make that car payment.
@Skweepa
6 жыл бұрын
It's pretty sad that you have to have a new-ish car to work for Uber or other similar companies. If you have to work for Uber, you probably shouldn't afford a fancy new car.
@hellothere3587
6 жыл бұрын
Skweepa Car has to be 2003+. Not new.
@Skweepa
6 жыл бұрын
Please see above: I said new-ish. You usually cannot find any 2003 or newer (that runs) for less than $5000.
@jcrowley1985
6 жыл бұрын
Ive also wondered why they have that stupid requirement too
@sarahmitchell7799
6 жыл бұрын
@jcrowley1985 Uber advertises (or at least did a few years ago) itself as a company that allows you to get to your destination in a nice car. If there were a bunch of junkers picking people up, it would likely harm the image Uber is trying to make for itself. I'm not saying I agree or disagree; it's just the kind of company Uber wants to be. I tried to apply once with my 2003 Beetle and was rejected because my car only has two doors. They have plenty of requirements that feel dumb but help to create the image they are going for.
@astephiesteph
6 жыл бұрын
There’s no perfect time. However, there is a wrong time...
@alyssam8977
5 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@thagodwecreate5179
5 жыл бұрын
My whole life is a "wrong time"
@ariwl1
6 жыл бұрын
For most of us, there probably is no "perfect" time to have children. However, there are certainly BAD times to have children. Learn to recognize which time you're in and proceed accordingly.
@TheDecoCottage
6 жыл бұрын
ariwl1 Exactly. There is no “perfect” time, but there are definitely bad times to bring a baby into the world.
@blondesided3498
6 жыл бұрын
Agreed. Never a perfect time but certainly better times. I waited 5 years after I got married to have a child. Not only was I not financially secure, I wasn’t emotionally mature. No regrets about waiting. We decided that one child was the right number for us- even with lots of pressure from family and friends to have more. But it was ultimately our responsibility and therefore, our decision.
@yusuf.alajnabi
5 жыл бұрын
@@blondesided3498 a wise choice you made
@yusuf.alajnabi
5 жыл бұрын
@@TheDecoCottage just don't have kids simple
@qwkartist
6 жыл бұрын
Husband is correct. You already have 2 kids and you're still in debt. You can wait to have another after you're debt free
@TylerCummings6
6 жыл бұрын
Jase Tyler Amen!
@TheToadChild
6 жыл бұрын
Jase Tyler Yes. I feel for her though, it's hard when your heart tells you you're not done yet.
@ineedhoez
4 жыл бұрын
Right?
@christopherisiah
4 жыл бұрын
I would have the kid then consolidate debt....dont live to pay off debt, live to enjoy life and the blessings that come with it and spend/save/pay off responsibly. Women have a window to have kids but Dave is right, having a baby is up to you your spouse and God. God willl bless and adjust accordingly if it's meant for you
@Gr3yCell
4 жыл бұрын
Christopher Summers she already has 2 kids. She should work on having no debt. If she really wants a new kid and that is her priority she should finish the debt quickly before the window is over. Otherwise she has the option to have 2 kids and no more kids.
@Juhani139
6 жыл бұрын
Cloth diapers are not going to fix the financial burden a new baby will create. Human beings are expensive.
@PInk77W1
3 жыл бұрын
Human beings aren’t expensive They are priceless
@tonyrocks951
3 жыл бұрын
@@PInk77W1 25 year old male here. They are expensive.
@mlu007
6 жыл бұрын
Her husband is right. Having a child when you're not financially ready will cost you more than any car payment. You can always sell a car or terminate the lease at a lost. With a child, you're 100% responsible until he/she becomes independent.
@ministryoftruth8588
6 ай бұрын
You can always put the child up for adoption.
@ominous450
6 жыл бұрын
Why are these poor people having a 3rd child? I make more than both of them combined. My tax dollars are going to people like them
@rakashaagain
6 жыл бұрын
You know you need young human to continue living right?
@iaJENKA
6 жыл бұрын
they must be smarter than you.
@happygirl7258
5 жыл бұрын
God loves you
@bris0rv105
4 жыл бұрын
1% of USA pay 50% of income tax So if you're not extremely rich, then not you pay them
@bris0rv105
4 жыл бұрын
@LoveofVelvet then still people would like to live in overpopulated cities, than underpopulated villages
@MetalMike56
6 жыл бұрын
Wow $43k household income in San Diego? Yikes...
@marieel3225
6 жыл бұрын
MetalMike56 That would be enough if they didn't have 2 kids
@dcjohnson2490
6 жыл бұрын
Exactly! And with 3 kids? That might as well call their situation poverty over there!
@theeasternfront6436
6 жыл бұрын
Where I come from we call that poor!
@brkdncrgrl
6 жыл бұрын
Yeah, but, she aready has clothes diapers...so 🙄😕
@epiphoney2
6 жыл бұрын
Seriously. That doesn't seem possible.
@jellybeans9283
5 жыл бұрын
When you are debt free with a good income and married is a good time to have kids
@jillianmcallister1012
6 жыл бұрын
People making 36 a year should not have 3 children
@lakorai2
6 жыл бұрын
Shouldnt even have 1 kid; especially in California
@aaronbirook4367
4 жыл бұрын
People will have as many as Christ commands.
@rushilshah8930
4 жыл бұрын
@@aaronbirook4367 and potentially go broke because they can't afford to feed so many children
@jessannchittum9360
4 жыл бұрын
That’s ignorant it’s how you manage your money. I’m a sahm and my husband makes way less than that sooooo.. with 2 babies no home payment, no car payment it’s doable just can’t be selfish. Separate wants from needs.
@mysticaltyger2009
3 жыл бұрын
@@jessannchittum9360 Yeah, but I bet you don't live in San Diego. 43K is a single person's income in San Diego. And as another commenter said here. He's single on that income in San Diego and living in a studio aparrtment. It's not a family income.
@evegreenification
5 жыл бұрын
You cannot argue with the baby fever.
@wiiiz3
6 жыл бұрын
when u are financial stable, mature & care less about buying the coolest things/clothes
@ir10031981
6 жыл бұрын
well put! you have to be willing to have no desire to accumulate what's cool, or the latest trend in i.e. clothing, technology, etc. in order to settle down and have a baby or two.
@contrerasmcr100
5 жыл бұрын
poor people who think that way do not realize that they are killing themselves literally, there will not be more of you. that is the end to your genetic lineage....
@serenitybeats1677
3 жыл бұрын
@@contrerasmcr100 there is something called extended family
@mustasheolll2020
3 жыл бұрын
It’s not always about being cool, it’s also about living life
@theunknown4570
5 жыл бұрын
When you are asking a complete stranger when you should have kids. What you need to do is ask. Why cant i manage my own life with the simplest questions.
@aaronbirook4367
4 жыл бұрын
Not a simple question at all.
@cruciferousvegetable
6 жыл бұрын
How much baby can we afford?
@michaelweyenberg6238
5 жыл бұрын
A goldfish would be about it.
@pawsnotclaws2772
5 жыл бұрын
cruciferousvegetable lol
@jellybeans9283
4 жыл бұрын
None, not with that income in california
@uk7769
6 жыл бұрын
Just the first year, the average family will spend $12,000 to $21,000!!!!!!!!!!!!!! on child-related expenses. The cost of raising a child today is $233,610 - excluding the cost of college - for a middle-income family, according to the U.S. Department of Agriculture. Most people cannot afford to have a child, yet they breed like rabbits. Insanity.
@Cyanopteryx
3 жыл бұрын
Yes, but keep in mind that the average American has no idea how to be financially responsible and that figure you cite includes a lot of unnecessary costs that parents shell out for. You can have a baby for relatively cheap if you only buy what you actually *need* to keep your child alive and healthy.
@DrAdnan
6 жыл бұрын
No, there’s never a perfect time
@epiphoney2
6 жыл бұрын
Yeah, but these people are about as far away from "a perfect time" as possible.
@ineedhoez
4 жыл бұрын
Yes there is a perfect time to have a child. When you're married. When you're debt-free. When you can afford to care for them. That is the perfect time to have a child. Let's stop playing stupid because people are irresponsible and do it the wrong way.
@danielb3863
6 жыл бұрын
People need to come to the realization that having kids is the biggest financial hurdle in one's life when it comes to everything in your life financially. I've seen people go from being ok financially before kids to being completely living in poverty in just a few years after the birth.
@Birkinbag09
6 жыл бұрын
Daniel B I have always thought this! Childcare is the price of average mortgage payment here in UK!!!
@danielb3863
6 жыл бұрын
Birkinbag09 No different in the US. I know people who spend the equivalent of a nice brand new car cash every year on private school.
@Birkinbag09
6 жыл бұрын
Daniel B Same here I know a family who have 3 boys in private school when I see them getting out of their car I always do a mental calculation of how much their school fees are!!! Think what amazing vacations you could take each year (can you tell I'm a childfree woman)
@FrauIndian
6 жыл бұрын
I am Asian Indian. A parent's job is to be a parent and a role model to their child FIRSTthen later be their friend. It is NOT necessary for an Asian to buy a toy or girft after punishing their kid. I am not a believer in using a belt on a child. My folks NEVER used one on me. And as for a child deveoping trauma after being punished-what are you doing to your child for punishment so he or she supposedly is going to develop trauma afterwards???!! Or did your parents beat you??
@jessie8081
5 жыл бұрын
@Josh S Neither will your kids. Look at the retirement homes full of people who had kids neglect them and not even call to see how theyre doing.
@BlueFlyer83
6 жыл бұрын
I can't help but notice how a lot of these people with financial issues have kids. If you thought student loan debt won't dissolve under filing bankruptcy, try having kids. Just something I've noticed from the outside looking in.
@joey9511
6 жыл бұрын
If only there financially stable people had kids then only there top 10% of Americans could ever have children. Which is sad seeing as we love in the richest country ever
@pawsnotclaws2772
5 жыл бұрын
Jason Doucette or being married, esp young
@Brooke7114
6 жыл бұрын
I agree with Dave.....baby decisions should be between you and your husband, but what if you have a hard pregnancy and can’t continue to work? What if your child has special needs and you’re having to go from dr. to dr. And can’t work? It happened to us and it was hard. We can plan all we want but things happen. I’m not telling you not to do it. If I could go back in time, I would be out of debt before I continued having kids so that process would’ve been easier on us. Good luck in whatever decision you make :)
@texan903
4 жыл бұрын
@Brian Waller that's terrible.
@Tabaitha_Elle
6 жыл бұрын
Having a baby is not free assuming you live in the U.S. Are people not thinking about the hospital bills. Plus they do have to eat after you have them. Adding on kids is not expense free even if it is a natural part of life.
@rosalynnweaver3295
6 жыл бұрын
It's Tabaitha when you live off the government it is free for them. For people like us that pay our taxes for people to live off the government we had a kid it would cost us 600 a month for insurance that we pay anyways and 10,000 in out of pocket maximum.
@rosalynnweaver3295
6 жыл бұрын
A Benavidez no, we get tax 30,000 a year out of our household income.
@outdoorsnevada4138
5 жыл бұрын
Have a midwife deliver the baby. Much cheaper
@HTXGal
6 жыл бұрын
Is there ever a right time to have a kid, I don’t know but there is definitely a wrong time and reason to have a kid.
@thearnotts121
5 жыл бұрын
I found Dave a few years ago and although I haven’t ALWAYS followed his advice when I should I have always remembered to NEVER add a car payment to my life. seeing people I know struggle to make their car payments reminds me that I should be happy with my 2009 car lol.
@DanielGarcia-zz9eg
6 жыл бұрын
it don't help out that you using your lease car for Uber cuz if you can't buy out that car at the end of the terms you going to be owing a lot of money for going over your miles. Here's my thing my opinion stop having babies enjoy your spouse enjoy what kids you have now no more kids
@blackworldtraveler3711
6 жыл бұрын
Will never understand people and cars.
@Ril014
6 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@ocmetals4675
4 жыл бұрын
Riiiight??? I bought in cash a $4600 car and I love it. I maintain it properly and have zero problems with it.
@mysticaltyger2009
6 жыл бұрын
If they want more kids, they should leave San Diego.
@whitneyw.7919
6 жыл бұрын
If they want more kids, they should make 2-3x as much money AND leave San Diego
@evegreenification
5 жыл бұрын
This is the angle I'd take.
@DGD4Landy
5 жыл бұрын
Seriously!! Theyre probably still living there I bet u anything.
@pawsnotclaws2772
5 жыл бұрын
mysticaltyger2009 lol ikr
@mysticaltyger2009
3 жыл бұрын
@@whitneyw.7919 Yes, that would be even better!
@debral9651
6 жыл бұрын
I just liked Dave a lot more after he said this.
@adinahwithkaden
5 жыл бұрын
Me too. I was expecting a different answer which would have rubbed me the wrong way. He was pretty compassionate about it.
@TheToadChild
6 жыл бұрын
I'm going to save the suspense: No. Babies never come at a good time.
@buckeyescratcher6130
6 жыл бұрын
How do you make it in SD on less that 45k a year
@0neofthem
4 жыл бұрын
What’s the point if you’re just going to be broke and struggling for decades? Why sentence to a kid to a hard life? There’s no nobility in poverty.
@tpamel
6 жыл бұрын
Generally: an adult + married + employed. Granted those three, there is no "perfect financial/career situation to have children."
@jamessmith7425
6 жыл бұрын
I will never understand why people want kids.
@maybememories925
6 жыл бұрын
James Smith wow what a constructive comment. 🙄
@bris0rv105
4 жыл бұрын
@DESI NICHOLLS or you just don't understand them Stop pretending that you know them You don't
@ltnorbiit3020
4 жыл бұрын
How were you born again ?
@pajamamama5965
6 жыл бұрын
Another important point is that 3 kids is different than 2. I learned that very quickly. Three changes the family dynamics. I was able to work part time before baby 3 came along, now my husband works more hours and harder than ever, and I'm a full time mom of three. Much more challenging financially.
@JDR501
4 жыл бұрын
It always amazes me the people that have kids but they cannot afford or adequately provide for them or themselves.
@KnockoutInvesting
6 жыл бұрын
Rachel's family is hellla poor.
@05jfred
5 жыл бұрын
I love when he said having a third child is going from one on one to zone defense 😂😂😂😂😂
@Birkinbag09
6 жыл бұрын
Get a dog!
@angelineforestal8256
4 жыл бұрын
They probably already have one
@righand
6 жыл бұрын
Dave Ramsey will tell you to get rid of a good car and lose money on it and then tell you it’s ok to have kids while in debt. Seems logical.
@ineedhoez
4 жыл бұрын
To be fair, he said he doesn't tell you not to. That is not that same as telling you that you should. That's like if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all.
@yusuf.alajnabi
5 жыл бұрын
Kids bring joy and happiness but they also bring headaches and problems. Babies don't cost much to cloth and feed in you are sensible but I do agree people should hold off having children until they are financially stable. But you never know what's around the corner.
@PRChupaCabra
6 жыл бұрын
FYI most lease agreements stipulate that you CANNOT use the car as an Uber.
@evegreenification
5 жыл бұрын
Don't be a square. LOL
@ineedhoez
4 жыл бұрын
By the way, you are going to run the miles up on the car so much using it for Uber. But actually Uber does have a car leasing program.
@theedesertmermaid
5 жыл бұрын
She's got the baby fever. Her husband is right--they can't afford another baby.
@tripleekitchen...6676
5 жыл бұрын
You have to think about medical, food etc.
@Katrinabobina
6 жыл бұрын
flease!!!!
@TheCarnivoreSoprano
6 жыл бұрын
for us, the best decision was no kids
@blackworldtraveler3711
6 жыл бұрын
SuperPhdiva Same here. I rent my nieces and nephews on occasion.
@Kimbopolo
6 жыл бұрын
Same here. 35 years and counting. Best decision we ever made!
@teenindustry
6 жыл бұрын
I hear ya. But Dave is a conservative Christian so he tends to endorse “family values”
@rakashaagain
6 жыл бұрын
Lol, I heard that before!
@Birkinbag09
6 жыл бұрын
SuperPhdiva Childfree woman by choice here! Loving my sleep and freedom
@et5895
5 жыл бұрын
431 A month. JUST BUY YOUR CAR. How hard is that to understand? Lol
@warwagon
6 жыл бұрын
Just be happy with 2 kids you already have. world has enough people, stick with 2
@mountiescorner
6 жыл бұрын
How much money does she have in savings.. if enough, do lease takeover, pay off credit card and use balance money to buy 2nd hand car. It would free up at least 500 bucks a month or more getting rid of those 2 debts, and could help you support your potential new little one? Just a thought.
@seapanda7887
6 жыл бұрын
Since she is in baby step 2, odds are she only has a $1000
@rosalynnweaver3295
6 жыл бұрын
I think Dave forgot to ask if the government pays all their expenses.
@joey9511
6 жыл бұрын
Rosalynn Weaver seeing as they make twice the poverty level I can assure you no they don't live off the government. You really need a reality check from all the comments I've seen of yours on this your not a very down to earth or rational person
@Belle8kins
5 жыл бұрын
Rosalynn Weaver The income limit for “CalFresh” or SNAP is $4292/month they make 43000 annually(guessing take home and if she really makes 9000 Ubering) so it’s about $3600/month, however, they use gross income and do give deductions so they might qualify for some food assistance, definitely not cash assistance or medi-cal. I used to work in that department.
@nicolcacola
6 жыл бұрын
So much respect for Dave leaving babies out of the equation.
@melindamercier6811
4 жыл бұрын
Common sense, exactly. Look at your circumstances and see what would be best for your family and especially your marriage. I fully believe children are a blessing at all times, whenever they arrive. But should you be faced with the choice, one should absolutely look at what's going on. We can't expand our family with the small home we have. We also can't save up for life's unexpected emergencies during labor/delivery/post natal periods, etc for now, so it's best to wait a reasonable amount of time for use to get a better foothold on finances. It's just the smart thing to do.
@WCGwkf
6 жыл бұрын
Pretty sure if you're married, own a home outright and no debt, there's no reason to say it's a bad time if you want them.
@carultch
6 жыл бұрын
Yeah, but most people will be physiologically incapable of having children by that point. Or at least the wife will, since her ability to have children is the most age-sensitive. That's why age gap relationships with an older man and a younger woman are a lot more common than the other way around.
@oneeyedman99
5 жыл бұрын
Charging less than $750 a month to watch her cousin's two kids? That's cheap anywhere, in SD it's a steal. Good deal for her cousin, but she needs to put her own family first.
@gearjammer5499
6 жыл бұрын
Here's when you have your third child when you can afford it I'm tired of seeing people with more kids and they can afford if you're struggling now with two kids 1/3 will not make it any better balls you will do is hurt the kid and the two you already have
@JB-kx9bx
3 жыл бұрын
My wife and I live in Texas making $200k combined and aren't having kids because of how expensive it would be for us. We'd have to get a full time nanny with the jobs we work as day care wouldn't be possible.
@fabiolito28
6 жыл бұрын
Yes when family courts change their laws.
@shanedriveinit
6 жыл бұрын
Um, 1 minute ummm into video and umm I can't already stand the way she's umm.. talking!
@waynejamel6703
2 жыл бұрын
She drives uber to pay for the car
@stevep5408
6 жыл бұрын
I am surprised that folks don't know the drill to have their financial info ready to share with Dave!
@boredbeingbored894
6 жыл бұрын
Yes when you are debt free in everything (house, car, student loans, etc)... plus have savings of $50k per child at least LOL
@ineedhoez
4 жыл бұрын
So that's a never?
@didthatreallyjust
4 жыл бұрын
That's never for most people
@heyshawty6946
Ай бұрын
There's no right time to have kids and You wouldn't be considering having kids if you're financially and mentally stable
@tompain2751
5 жыл бұрын
Uber!?She's not even getting paid!The car gets the money!
@justinmichaelknox
5 жыл бұрын
Going from 2 to 3 is a 50% increase (not 33%) but point stands
@lashandafriedrich1414
6 жыл бұрын
No, there isn't. And we aren't going to have any. Instead of spending $1500 a month in daycare, then afterschool care, saving for college, etc., we will pay our house off early (hopefully in 3 years before husband turns 40), dump all of our money in retirement accounts and travel. Then at age 50 we can start gearing up for retirement and living off rental income and working part time in Nevada somewhere!
@ineedhoez
4 жыл бұрын
People do that with kids as well.
@kylenetherwood8734
5 жыл бұрын
I don't have any baby advice so I'll just default to sell the car.
@shikha5246
4 жыл бұрын
This question interested me. I don’t even think that the age of thirty is the right time for me...and if I wait until 40, it’s a bit too late to have children. Part of me wants to have a kid but the other part of me wants to adopt and not go through the pregnancy part. Even though adoption is expensive and takes many years to occur, I think it would make a difference to adopt one child or more should he or she have siblings.
@ineedhoez
4 жыл бұрын
You can pay a surrogate from India about $8,000.
@l-train7876
5 жыл бұрын
How are they living in SD on $43K for a family of 4🙈
@BigNameJamesStuff
4 жыл бұрын
If you had a fully paid off house you could live in some parts of San Diego like Fallbrook but no way you can make it on 43k without that as a family. She needs a real job.
@danktankdragkings7117
6 жыл бұрын
We desperately want a baby but we have to use IVF so getting a baby is going to cost us $10,000ish. I don't know how to decide when to have a baby. Because it has to be a financial decisions as well as an emotional one.
@iaJENKA
6 жыл бұрын
with ivf the sooner the better.
@ineedhoez
4 жыл бұрын
Just pay a surrogate from India 8 Grand and they'll cook a baby for you.
@KTSpeedruns
6 жыл бұрын
When you have the money for it, and the space for it. But, having a baby isn't for everybody. The world population is huge, and you're under no obligation to add to it.
@marshhen
3 жыл бұрын
She is listing the cloth diapers as a reason why she should have a third baby right now? She will not be driving uber then, so that is the justification for the car gone. Why do people insist on keeping themselves in continual precariousness. Three kids at home she will have no time to earn income for the first three years of the baby's life. It is just chaos. Too much.
@barbaraleszczynski2214
4 жыл бұрын
Before bringing children into today's world.....be totally debt free, have a minimum of $ 10,000 in savings between both of you! If you don't.....be prepared to suffer....until you win the lottery! Sounds harsh...sorry...but life in today's world is tough. Be prepared or life's hardships will follow you before you know it. (from someone who has learned and still paying the hard way). Best wishes and blessings to you!
@Mosesusorer
2 жыл бұрын
There is never a right time. No one should have kids.
@heyshawty6946
Ай бұрын
Nah rich people can have mutiple kids
@Mosesusorer
Ай бұрын
@@heyshawty6946 Just because they “can” have them (as in give them a relatively better life) doesn’t mean they should. Bringing someone into the world without consent = reyping them into existence = worst cr1me imaginable. Bc no one can consent to being born, it should be assumed that consent to being born doesn’t exist => no action should be taken on behalf of the child. Just like how it’s not okay to r@pe an unconscious person just because they can’t consent to your act. Everyone has the rights to eternal peace & freedom from all harm, both of which can only result from remaining in the void. Therefore, every human being has the right to NOT be born so long as they cannot provide informed consent to being born. Otherwise, bringing a child into the world w/o consent = violation of their autonomy & cannot be ethically justified! Argument is still valid even if life was a utopia bc even a perfect life doesn’t appeal to the nonexistent as they, by definition, don’t exist and therefore, they have NO NEED for a perfect life. They simply don’t need even the best life imaginable & it’s immoral to impose it upon them because they never consented to experiencing said life.
@marshhen
6 жыл бұрын
It seems to me that the wrong time would be when both parents are not on board with it. Give your third child the gift of being planned and wanted. The stress young children get blasted at them by stressed out financially desperate parents is to me the biggest financial argument against her plan. Cloth diapers wont prevent that. -From a thirde child who was unplanned and resented by Dad for it.
@jaypence332
5 жыл бұрын
9 months after conceiving...
@Berserk1Manga
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah let's not mention the medical bills for both you and kid and shots... yeah that's not important we have previous baby clothes!
@stevenundisclosed6091
6 жыл бұрын
$43k income? That sucks.
@apeiceofmoldedclay
5 жыл бұрын
You actually lose money driving for uber when you factor in the fast aging of your car and the rapid depreciation. This lady doesnt even own her car. $430 a month for 3 years and she wont even own it in the end. She might as well just have bought one brand new. Even that would be a better option. At least you would own it in the end. She wants to help her husband so she making movements without thinking. She's actually making their finances worse.
@tripleekitchen...6676
5 жыл бұрын
We all need to use common sense.
@mola4everyourz
6 жыл бұрын
from 2 to 3 is 50% more :P
@quendelf
4 жыл бұрын
Only buy what you can afford. I really don’t get what’s hard about it.
@Jojobreez
5 жыл бұрын
It’s funny how callers are quick to say they neeeeed their car and Dave comes through with his idea of neeeeed
@lindseysurber5086
6 жыл бұрын
I think that’s the first time Dave Ramsey has said “Good!” instead of, “Better than I deserve, how can I help?” 😂
@madelizabeth2209
2 жыл бұрын
what noise is dave making at 0:50
@reneel2441
3 жыл бұрын
You cannot afford any more kids do not have them
@uk7769
6 жыл бұрын
Going from 2 to 3 is not '30% more'. Going from 2 to 3, is 1 more compared to having 2. Going from 2 to 3 is '50% more'.
@caminuyu
5 жыл бұрын
New baby=about $15,000, if you can't spare 15 grand postpone having a baby
@FoxifiedNutjob
4 жыл бұрын
from birth to 18 years old in America cost approx $225-250k and now they are hanging around until early 20s.... Only Doctors and rich people can afford multiple children...FACT!
@theultimatereductionist7592
Жыл бұрын
No.
@luispatino3180
6 жыл бұрын
Of course there is... Its baby step 7... Literally....
@e.rivera4251
4 жыл бұрын
..Dave i have a quest............SELL THAT CAR !!!
@victorvodka
6 жыл бұрын
it's called get a hermit crab instead people
@demri123
5 жыл бұрын
Hes good? Not better than he deserves
@sadieesther9721
6 жыл бұрын
Omg Dave didn’t say better than I deserve
@longlegs614
5 жыл бұрын
Another “Woman needs to get a REAL job” situation. I feel like I see a lot of women depending on their men for income and then calling it “ours” and using words like “we.” Why is it women don’t contribute anymore? I’m a woman btw...
@ineedhoez
4 жыл бұрын
Because when you get married your assets and liabilities become joint and several of them. It is we and ours.
@brittneylamar9864
4 жыл бұрын
I assume she is contributing by raising her kids and caring for them. Not everyone is comfortable with 10 hr daycare. All valuable contribution isn't financial.
@ig8737
3 жыл бұрын
People lack sense.
@andreafoxx7722
5 жыл бұрын
When right time have another baby
@mrsfresh2o_778
6 жыл бұрын
First? Never been this early!
@nostonethrown56
6 жыл бұрын
never
@kellenmcelrath678
5 жыл бұрын
Answer: No! The world is overpopulated stop being selfish.
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