Again, I can't say it enough… we really, really appreciate you guys. Your viewership is a daily blessing to us. Thank you so much.
@nicolepatterson5078
4 жыл бұрын
Your videos are a daily blessing!!
@santiagohjsa
4 жыл бұрын
I love these Q&A videos so much! It's so refreshing listening to you guys answer these questions so honestly and in a very understanding way! 🤗 I wouldn't oppose another few rounds of questions 😉 haha!
@gavinb5396
4 жыл бұрын
We love you guys.
@GALAXY_3241
4 жыл бұрын
Love your refreshing content!
@sarahb2344
4 жыл бұрын
Hey Jordan and Sara, can you guys address the sex topic a bit? Like, how do you know if you want to or should commit to a life long very intimacy heavy relationship if you are wanting to remain pure until marriage and don't know if you'll like it or if it's for you? How do you know if you should marry or remain single in the context?
@timothysmith306
4 жыл бұрын
Jordan: “I’m more of a kind of person who gets annoyed at stuff. That’s just my nature.” We know. We’ve seen Messy Mondays
@lorismith6394
4 жыл бұрын
lol! Exactly what I was thinking XD
@MissSegine
4 жыл бұрын
xD
@timothysmith306
3 жыл бұрын
I know
@andrewwunrow
4 жыл бұрын
In regards to the "one person" question: Ultimately, there is one person God has ordained for us to marry. So from His perspective, yes, there is one person. However, from our perspective, we don't know who that is. From our perspective, there is no one person who is "made for me". Any number of people we meet could be that person. I believe our job is not to find out who God has ordained for us to marry, but to follow God's leading in our lives with open eyes, consult the Bible for guidance, and ask others. The classic "don't find the one, be the one" does seem to apply here.
@MalachiMunn
4 жыл бұрын
I was having a really bad day... I’m not kidding you when I say this video changed my weekend. You guys just make me smile : )
@JordanTaylorVideos
4 жыл бұрын
Dude, we have to get back on chess.
@LovesMusicandLife
4 жыл бұрын
Literally everything is what you make of it. I feel sorry for people who trap themselves or end up trapped with someone they're not in a good relationship with. I feel like these questions are (of course) to each their own. It really should be awesome and open etc, but if not... something is wrong. And that's okay too (so long as everyone is healthy), just something to introspect and converse on how to improve for each other. As my husband likes to say... it's not 50/50. It's 100/100. And Jordan "Sleeping with your partner is great!" HAHAHahaha yes... yes it is.............😂🤣🤣!
@adamhawthorn4091
4 жыл бұрын
I think, for me at least, I see it that God has a plan for me, and if it is within that plan that I meet one specific person, I start dating them and we eventually get married, then that is exactly what is going to happen. I don't put too much pressure on myself to find the "perfect" person and marry them as soon as possible; if it's within God's plan then that will happen and I'm not going to rush or even change His plans for me by putting loads of pressure on myself to find that perfect girl. I think if you just relax and take things as they come then God will provide for you exactly what and who you need, exactly when you need them. We have a God that watches out for us and we can just know that He knows what He's doing. If there is a perfect person for you, then you'll find them.
@valerielinares2068
4 жыл бұрын
If you do believe in 'the one,' don't let it stress you out. Don't make it your idol. Surrender it to God. Get aligned with Him, trust Him and let Him direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6). If God does have a specific person for you, you don't need to worry about it. Surrender it to Him and trust Him with that. Because if He does have that person for you, He is more than capable of placing that person in your path and letting you know who that person is in His perfect way, in His perfect timing. Surrender to Him, trust His leading, and let Him direct your path. And, don't expect perfection because no one is perfect, except for Yeshua (Jesus). Just trust in God and He will take care of it. Seek first the Kingdom of God and HIs righteousness, and all these things will be added to you. (Matthew 6:33). BUT Seek first the Kingdom and His righteousness just for the sake of doing just that, not just to get something out of it.
@nicolepatterson5078
4 жыл бұрын
Part 3.....?? Please?
@sarahb2344
4 жыл бұрын
Hey Jordan and Sara, can you guys address the sex topic a bit? Like, how do you know if you want to or should commit to a life long very intimacy heavy relationship if you are wanting to remain pure until marriage and don't know if you'll like it or if it's for you? How do you know if you should marry or remain single in the context?
@ashliewalston3561
4 жыл бұрын
#jordantaylor
@ellacarter9863
4 жыл бұрын
wow fifth!
@karengrace6890
4 жыл бұрын
For the people that wrote these questions in, I want to say that you can someday have a wonderful marriage and you're not messed up for asking these fearful questions. Sometimes the way our parents interacted wasn't healthy. Some of us didn't have parents at all or dealt with trauma and abuse in the home. And that causes one to be fearful of marriage. Other Christians who have grown up in stable households may not understand our doubtful and "negative" mindset. But I want to say there is hope for us in Jesus. God hears our pain and listens to us, even if other people do not. No matter how fearful we may be, God loves us deeply and nothing we do can change that. We are to love God, first. Go to Him always in everything, when you want to cry or when you want to be happy or when you have doubts. He loves you, dearest.
@AyeDaniels
4 жыл бұрын
"You know what else is great about marriage?" Jordan no. "Sleeping with your partner..." JORDAN NO! "...In your Helix mattress." ...oh... Okay that's fine, carry on.
@isaiahmumaw
4 жыл бұрын
My thought process exactly. Although he would be correct either way lol
@brandonb2985
4 жыл бұрын
I hate those moments when words come out of my mouth, I realize it didn't sound right, but try to play it off anyway, totally what he did there.
@DefineMorena
4 жыл бұрын
Hm... I wonder why Sarah was giggling...
@JackieHall71
4 жыл бұрын
I have been married for 30 years. I started dating my husband when I was 15 and he was 17. Most people say that the most important thing in marriage is communication. That is true to a certain point. I think the most important thing to me is the willingness for both people to compromise. You can talk until you are blue in the face however, if you are not both willing to work on that issue then it will just cause fights. You have to decide, do I want to always be "right" or do I want to have a happy marriage and let the silly fights go.
@summerberkemeier2196
4 жыл бұрын
Well said! I've always been dissatisfied with the communication answer because no one tells you what that actually looks like. But your response was perfect!
@juliehops3164
3 жыл бұрын
I love this! Thank you for writing this comment! I'm not married or dating currently, but I'm definitely a personality type that wants to "talk it through" when conflict arises. I want to fully understand all the angles and how the other person feels (and also relate too many times how I feel lol). But if I'm understanding your comment correctly, that can be a strength overdone. It's more important to be willing to work together and compromise than fully understand all the details, or be "the one in the right". Fantastic advice 🙌!
@danieltallent1552
4 жыл бұрын
Marryges: the world's second greatest show???
@kara3804
4 жыл бұрын
lol underrated comment
@danielscully9356
3 жыл бұрын
HaHa! Yeeeess!
@batwoman1847
3 жыл бұрын
YES! Great idea
@joshuafritz9437
4 жыл бұрын
Jordan: it's great sleeping with your partner. Sara in a previous video: you body slammed me in your sleep. XD JK
@JordanTaylorVideos
4 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@snartzera
4 жыл бұрын
People often ask "is this person right for me?" When they should be asking if THEY are the right person for that person, and by "right person" I mean, are you willing to be the best person you can be? I would suggest watching Paul Washer's, John Piper's, Mark Gungor's and Jordan Peterson's seminars about dating and marriage to get a better perspective in marriage... btw, I'm loving this series haha
@ponderingfox
4 жыл бұрын
One question does not make the other invalid.
@snartzera
4 жыл бұрын
@@ponderingfox I agree, I would say that you should ask yoursel if the person is right for you. But I think that most importantly, you should ask if you are the right person for her/him. I also think that one question follows the other. Being the first one "if the person is right for you", followed by "if you are right for that person."
@ponderingfox
4 жыл бұрын
@@snartzera Here's a scenario that I've seen several times. One person is more of a benefit to the other than the reverse. So if you elevate your question to the most important, it can lead to being in an imbalanced relationship. Both questions are equal.
@snartzera
4 жыл бұрын
@@ponderingfox hmm true, you are right... I think what I really meant was that you have more control over your actions, therefore you have more responsability of being "the one". Nice conversation btw
@gretals9782
4 жыл бұрын
I love Jordan Peterson!
@summerberkemeier2196
4 жыл бұрын
Sara, your hair looked so cute in this video! And I totally agree with what you guys were saying. I got married at 18, and have been married for 11 years now. And marriage is a wonderful blessing! Nothing to be afraid of if you marry the right kind of person for you.
@annewhittemore3771
4 жыл бұрын
I used to be so scared of marriage and feel like I could never trust someone enough to commit to life with them and want to have children together. And then I met my husband and God just helped me to KNOW that I was safe with him. I have always felt comfortable with him and all the problems I imagined never happened.
@joshuafritz9437
4 жыл бұрын
Definely agree with the no pressure thing about the 1, because as a fellow christian, if you're actually following God, being a person after His heart, than there is no pressure, because the only thing on you is doing what God says and always examining yourself to make sure you are, the rest is up to God and His plan, so don't worry 🙂
@gogaelisabeth8086
4 жыл бұрын
Exactly! God never gives his precious stones to the swine. He always gives his true kids the best for them. do what God wants and you'll have the best partner prepared for you.
@MasterEth
4 жыл бұрын
I also agree that it's unhealthy to have "the one" mindset. I think it's healthier to take care of yourself mentally, physically, spiritually, first, and if someone naturally crosses your path, and you're both interested in each other, that's a way healthier way to go about it.
@edensylvester13
4 жыл бұрын
I definitely agree with your answer to the title question. God already knows the specific person we'll marry, but we're still *choosing* that person rather than being forced to be with them. There's not one person you're destined for, just one person that you'll end up marrying and God already knows who it will be
@lilyrosedaisyvioletsweetpe1207
4 жыл бұрын
A lot of people like short videos, but my own preferences are 20-30 minutes. Thank you.
@BernicePuleng
3 жыл бұрын
Jordan, it's so cool seeing you married. I started watching Blimey Cow years ago, then I stopped and moved on with life. Then, recently, a video popped up on my "recommends" and here you are, all grown up with a whole wife who seems so kind and grounded. Very Cool. I pray that your marriage continues to be Christ-centered and beautiful. Sending love to you both.
@nicolepatterson5078
4 жыл бұрын
I think the reason y'all haven't experienced a lot of the negativity people worry about with marriage, is that you guys are so good for each other. You both have the same views on how marriage should be handled, and you have a pre-existing arrangement that you'll always work through things. You guys just know what you expect from each other and it works really well
@Myllkka
4 жыл бұрын
I got married about 10 days ago, I am 22 and he is 25, I used to feel soooo nervous about the ENTIRE thing! So far it's being so cool, so tranquil, so freeing, it's not as scary as I thought and I actually don't feel old as I thought I would feel, like... "oh, a married WOMAN, wow, such and adult"... but no, I feel more socially mature but in a good way. I was being very negative about it but he kept being positive and now I'm being positive too. Marriage is, afterall, an arrangement (a gift) from God. English is my 2nd language~
@aurorap.7578
4 жыл бұрын
If any of you haven't read "The Meaning of Marriage" by Timothy Keller I highly highly recommend.
@nicolepatterson5078
4 жыл бұрын
Where's my two hours long video??? 😂😂 Seriously though I love these long, deep videos!!
@SilverTune
4 жыл бұрын
“Why didn’t we get that one” “Cause you’re allergic to wool” 😂 I know it’s not supposed to funny but it was, your sponsor segments are the only ones I watch
@MalachiMunn
4 жыл бұрын
pt. 2 > pt. 1 do I hear a pt. 3? 🤭
@Celestria
4 жыл бұрын
Hello there
@meaganwillis3289
4 жыл бұрын
I had a teacher once who said it’s not who you marry, it’s how you live together.
@gretals9782
3 жыл бұрын
Wise teacher
@hopeash1498
4 жыл бұрын
On the "the one" thing. I literally met my husband after I let go of wanting to date so badly and gave it to God. I remember going from being a teenager who thought it was weird or that something was wrong with me that I'd never actually had a bf before to saying "okay God, I'm done chasing this idea of finding a guy for me and I'm going to work on me and my relationship with you for now and just trust your timing." Met my husband that month, we were married in 11 months, and no it's never been sad or awkward. I've only every wanted to better our marriage and we are so comfortable with each other and our life! Plus at the end of the day, I not only love my husband, but I really like him too (but even when the few and far between days come we don't "like" each other our commitment and love never wavers).
@JonathanLov
4 жыл бұрын
Having a God-centered marriage is the simple key. Take it from them..
@diannaparis
4 жыл бұрын
Have they ever talked about God being a part of their marriage? I've never heard them talk about God in a serious, non-jokey way.
@JonathanLov
3 жыл бұрын
@@diannaparis That is a valid point. Knowing we only see a certain percentage of their relationship/life over youtube, I can’t say to what degree they are committing themselves in that [godly] way. It can be a very deep thing and something they choose to keep off the internet for some reason or another. But it is true they’ve been reserved on the subject to a serious level.
@Hiyori97_
4 жыл бұрын
I just adore Sarah, she's so wise and level-headed❤️️ So much good vibes from both of you, as usual, God bless
@tiellochridge
4 жыл бұрын
you guys are so good at not interrupting each other haha.
@beccag2758
4 жыл бұрын
I agree with The One mindset being INCREDIBLY unhealthy. That's how you end up like Ted Mosby in How I Met Your Mother, except it doesn't end with the sweetest, most loving spouse falling into your lap. Yes, have standards and yes, stick to them. But remember that things like "Must be a dog person," or "Must be into sports" are not standards, just preferences.
@FaithSapling
4 жыл бұрын
Yeah instead of trying to find the one for you, you should try to BE the one for someone else
@courtneylewis2415
4 жыл бұрын
My simple answer to: Is there only one person out there for you? No. If that's true, and ONE person in the world marries wrong, the rest of us are stuffed. Jordan and Sara spit some fire here too but I find this answer very easy to understand.
@maddykim9348
4 жыл бұрын
Ahaha I never thought about that 😂 but you’re right.
@courtneylewis2415
4 жыл бұрын
@@maddykim9348 I heard it once in church like 8 years ago and it's stuck around with me 😂😂😂 like there's 100% more philosophical and theological answers to it but it's simple and honestly not stupid
@maddykim9348
4 жыл бұрын
Courtney Thomson yes I feel that 😂 there’s always those simple little explanations that stick with us! But no, that’s a gray explanation!
@micahbush5397
4 жыл бұрын
Even if there is "the One," you can be sure that he or she will NOT make marriage an effortless, all-satisfying fairy tale; that is not reality, nor is it biblical. (Not that I believe in "the One," though I'm beginning to wonder if, in my case, there might be only one woman out there with whom I can share mutual interest, which has so far completely eluded me.)
@suzyharris605
4 жыл бұрын
I've heard people say "don't focus on finding the right person, focus on being the right person." I think it's important to realize God shapes us into someone who is ready to get married as much as He brings along the "right" one into our lives. Although it's important to have attraction and to have personalities that work well together, the only requirements for a healthy marriage are that both people are committed to following the Lord and willing to put each other above themselves. In that sense there isn't only one person that you could marry. There's lots of people who are like that. On the other hand I do believe that God has a plan for who you're going to marry, it's ultimately up to Him.
@crazykawaiihai
4 жыл бұрын
You two are my role models!!!
@SirTotallyAverage
4 жыл бұрын
4:48: To rephrase it a bit... I would say guys actually do care. Just probably not about the things you think. Individual things like makeup, hair-styles, etc... typically weigh far less compared to the whole package, if that makes sense.
@keepingupwiththeKabazzis
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for answering these questions! You two are the best!!!
@justinbirkelo6806
4 жыл бұрын
It seems to me that most of the things that normal marriages struggle with, you guys don't. God has truly blessed your marriage.
@gracejin3455
4 жыл бұрын
We need more of these types of videos. Love them. I’d totally listen to an hour long podcast or something.
@spidernymph8964
3 жыл бұрын
I want someone to isolate the footage of Jordan saying "it's meaningless--everything you say is meaningless."
@jamesedward8066
4 жыл бұрын
"Whoever cares the least has the most control"
@LynnaKatriel
4 жыл бұрын
I feel like the "best friends" question kind of has 2 completely different angles 1. Do you have to feel like your spouse is on the same level as a best friend? 2. Does your spouse have to completely fill the "best friend" role (in other words, you have no other friend you would consider as close as them). I feel like the first angle would be more of a "yes" and the second angle would be more of a "not really"
@christianfilmer1500
4 жыл бұрын
Few things to add: Constantly check yourself and ask "how can I be better?" Whether that in reacting to something your spouse does/does do or something in your life that effects both of you. You can ALWAYS strive to be better, especially when you know your faults. Uplift your spouse daily...never let a day go by that they haven't heard an encouraging words from you whatever it may be. Lastly (most importantly) do not badmouth your spouse to your friends/family. sure, you may have had a fight and they said/did something very hurtful or you may disagree about something think they're being dumb about it. But don't slight them when talking about them. It undermines other people's view of your spouse and will solidify an idea in others of who your spouse is when(to you) it's just a part of their imperfections and not something that defines them. Protect your spouse's image, defend them, build them up when talking about them to others.
@blossomhb
4 жыл бұрын
It's SO weird watching this after messyges. A different Jordan 😳🤣
@emilyl7870
4 жыл бұрын
This is really great advice. Thank you for sharing!!! Sara, love your outfit btw
@joshuafritz9437
4 жыл бұрын
Only at 7:30 but I just really wanted to mention that background, it is just so aesthetically pleasing with the fireplace and decor
@bethanyg1029
4 жыл бұрын
Here's why I don't like the idea of soulmates or "the one." It's based on mythology -- which, yes, many things are. But the idea is that Zeus was scared of the power of humans who had four legs, four arms and a head with two faces, and separated them, leading to them searching for their "other half." I think that's an overall unhealthy view. We are each whole people created by God. Someone else does not complete us, even if it may feel that way after you get married. Basically, whoever you've committed to by marriage is your soulmate. They are "the one." Always great to hear your thoughts!!! Thanks, Jordan and Sara for being willing to share these things!
@danielbush2637
4 жыл бұрын
These vids are really great advice for couples but they’re good for those of us who are still single too. Sometimes I need a reminder to be content with where God has me in life.
@LaurenVacula
3 жыл бұрын
i'm not married but in a committed relationship and it def requires some give a lot of the time. i've had to really break from selfish behaviors to be better in the relationship (and in life) and it has been challenging but so, so worth it and rewarding. it is really a beautiful thing to share your life with someone you care about
@jcassidyh
4 жыл бұрын
Hey, thanks for being encouraging and speaking truth 😊
@caseydubois3645
3 жыл бұрын
Fundamentalist Mormons seeing the title be like: Well yes, but actually no
@lorelaigilmore813
4 жыл бұрын
How do you feel about honesty? I realize 100% is not really possible, but what about lying to get out of an argument that could be handled with open, honest, communication? I love you guys btw.
@pannabodori3783
4 жыл бұрын
Great video as always, I love the kind of content you create and how honest and "raw" and so sweet you both are :) Can you please answer why are you against/why you don't think you should live together before marriage? I'm honestly curious, as I'm (and my partner) pro-living together, I believe it's important, cause that's the best way to truly really get to know your partner and to decide if you're even able to live together 24/7 (while we're still saving ourselves for marriage, we are living together, and honestly, it was a very good decision) Thanks in advance! :)
@sophiagrace139
4 жыл бұрын
I've been on a kick re-watching your videos, and wow I really appreciate how stable and peaceful your videos are. Your project videos make me excited to get to my own projects, and your personality/psychology/get-to-know-you videos are wonderful. I appreciate that you focus on creating the content YOU want and on keeping the community you have, not on getting more subscribers. Keep up the good work!
@Topplenaut
2 жыл бұрын
This comes up a lot, that you're not uploading as often as you want to... I'm wondering if maybe you just haven't found the genre that inspires you. When I find what I really want to make, I am constantly overwhelmed with ideas and motivation. Maybe you haven't found the video style or genre that really sparks your brain.
@crazyleaf257
3 жыл бұрын
YES!!!!! My fiance and I are incredibly perfect for each other! We waited a long time. I'm 27 and he's almost 25. We both wanted to be married much sooner but the timing was in God's hands. He is so perfect and so good! But he leaves things everywhere and he leaves food packages open and stuff like that LOL it's okay
@vanessao1533
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video. I wanted to tell anyone reading this something really important. One day we are all going to stand before God. We have all lied, stolen, used God’s name in vain (omg), and done many more things that are against His law ( the Ten Commandments). He will judge us, and because we have all broken His law, we ALL deserve hell. We can’t just ask for forgiveness. Imagine you just committed a crime. You’re standing in front of a judge. The judge says that you will go to jail unless the fine is paid. If you say “ I’m a good person. I did this in the past, I’m really sorry. I won’t do it again.” The judge, if he’s a good judge, won’t say “Ok I’ll let you go because you only did it once” or “you do more good than bad”. He would say “ You should be sorry! Your good works have nothing to do with this. You broke the law, now you need to pay the price.” But because God loves us, He manifested Himself as a human, Jesus Christ, about two thousand years ago, lived without sinning, and died a terrible death He didn’t deserve because of us. Three days later He rose from the dead and one day He is coming back. We all deserve the ultimate punishment (hell). But God loves us so much that He took the punishment on Himself. We broke Gods law, Jesus paid the fine. If you repent from your sins ( sincerely apologize for breaking His law and turn away from doing it anymore) and trust in Him and Him only, your punishment will be paid for, you will get eternal life in heaven, and you will no longer go to hell. I’m not telling you this to judge you. The thought of you going to hell terrifies me. I don’t want anyone to go without hearing this wonderful news. Thank you whoever took the time to read this. If you have a Bible, I suggest you read the book of John. You can also find many Bible apps on devices. I pray that you and everyone who reads this will think about this seriously. And I hope to see you in heaven. Check out livingwaters KZitem channel and livingwaters.com
@j.8678
4 жыл бұрын
Awesome video as always guys! I agree that people need to not get so hung up on finding the perfect person. I believe God has a plan for everyone, including who/if they will marry, but that doesn't mean the person will be perfect! Also, if you truly believe that God has "the one" for you, then you should be able to believe that He can bring you together. You don't have to put so much pressure on yourself to find them! God knows who and where they are and will bring you together in His own time.
@Diegokid
3 жыл бұрын
I was married for 18 years before my wife passed. In my mind she was "the one". From my perspective, nobody can fill the space that she still occupies.
@jamesedward8066
4 жыл бұрын
Marriage still scares me to death! Imma stay single
@aprilbentley8195
3 жыл бұрын
Re the "right" person...or THE person for a marriage partner....at some point you two made the decision that you did not want to live life without each other and quit looking for anyone else. I think that makes each of you THE one for the other.
@mamimalista7924
3 жыл бұрын
I don’t think there is someone specific that God has created for each one of us, or that our job is to search for that person. I think God knows who we are going to marry because he is sovereign but not in a controlling way. He gave us in his word what to look for in a spouse, but it is our decision to follow his ways or not. But before we can have high standards for our spouse we first should apply those standards to ourselves. The kind of spouse we want is the kind of spouse we should be working into becoming. High standards attract high standards. Godly people attract godly people. I think this couple is a good example of this truth.
@crazyleaf257
3 жыл бұрын
Two healthy people who are secure in themselves and in Christ can have the best marriage ever! If you're both striving to be unselfish and you're getting your fulfillment in Christ so that you can give to each other instead of take from each other.
@crazyleaf257
3 жыл бұрын
It's kind of sad because it sounds like a lot of your viewers are very sheltered homeschoolers who don't know much about life.
@crazyleaf257
3 жыл бұрын
Y'all r so wise!! Y'all must have a great community of people that raised you
@KirkyKirsten
4 жыл бұрын
I'm still single, but found question 6 and question 10 really applicable to living with housemates! Thanks for your great advice, you make marriage look like a really enjoyable time 😊
@brionyjane5882
3 жыл бұрын
How on earth do you ship back the mattress in its box after it has puffed up???
@DaMoteSupnet
4 жыл бұрын
Y'all are so cute and awesome! Thank you for answering the questions! This has weirdly aligned with where I am in life (preparing to become a husband). Good timing I guess! God bless y'all!
@autumnhobbit
4 жыл бұрын
By chance did this have anything to do with that Messyges guy who said his mom thought he was destined to marry some random girl?? XD
@samanthaernst970
2 жыл бұрын
When do you think is the right time to start that you love each other?
@Elise_Hunter
4 жыл бұрын
My experience and opinion about the idea of there being “the one” is that there is someone specific that God designed with you in mind and vice versa. But you shouldn’t focus on “is he/she the one??!!”, you should focus on following God’s will in everything. If you’re following His will, He will ultimately guide you to the person He wishes you to spend your life with. My fiancé and I intuitively knew within the first month of dating that we were called to marry each other, but we kept a process of discerning God’s will and continued dating for another 8 full months. I believe my fiancé is the man God intended for me to journey through this life with. Just follow the peace, since peace is of God.
@jamespatterson1762
4 жыл бұрын
I'm 16 Now and I sometimes wonder if I will ever meet anyone because Im so shy, but then I try and remember I'm in God's hands and I just trust that he will help me find the one.
@mynamesnotimportant6941
4 жыл бұрын
Ooh first?
@ellacarter9863
4 жыл бұрын
I love how all of these videos have 0-1 dislikes and that's it!
@JohnCarter-nw4tg
4 жыл бұрын
Yup
@ellacarter9863
4 жыл бұрын
@@JohnCarter-nw4tg lol sup brother.
@Hannah-tb3zw
4 жыл бұрын
Those dislikes are probably from same person trying and failing to hate on Jordan and Sarah.
@ellacarter9863
4 жыл бұрын
@@Hannah-tb3zw Haha!!
@thanks8589
3 жыл бұрын
Sara's whole outfit ensemble is on point!
@crazyleaf257
3 жыл бұрын
Great answers!!!!! 💚💚💚💚
@alishastart5644
4 жыл бұрын
I've been following your videos for a while now and I'm so glad I found it! I look forward to every video and they are so refreshing compared to other content out there, I really appreciate it!
@JA-2
4 жыл бұрын
Who else sometimes like being alone but only if someone else in nearby in the same house lol!
@westimalone
4 жыл бұрын
Sara looks absolutely stunning!
@heathermillard6841
4 жыл бұрын
I THINK IT'S HARD TO REALLY EXPLAIN MARRIAGE, BECAUSE MARRIAGES ARE AS DIFFERENT, AS THE VARIOUS PEOPLE WHO ARE IN THEM. WHAT WORKS FOR ONE COUPLE MIGHT NOT FOR ANOTHER. MY HUSBAND AND I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 18 YEARS AND IT HAS BEEN HARD. THERE HAVE BEEN LOTS OF YELLING AND ARGUMENTS OVER THE YEARS,AND WE BOTH HAVE HAD TO LEARN TO COMPROMISE. THAT AND MAKING GOD YOUR FIRST PRIORITY ARE THE ONLY THING THAT CAN MAKE A MARRIAGE LAST. WE ALMOST DIVORCED TWO YEARS AGO, BUT WE READ THE BOOK THE SPIRIT FILLED LIFE BY CHARLES STANLEY, AND PRAYED A LOT. THE LORD HEALED OUR MARRIAGE AND IT IS GREAT NOW. BUT MARRIAGE DOES REQUIRE WORK. YOU FALL IN LOVE, BECAUSE YOU ARE EXTRA THOUGHTFUL AND CARING TO EACH OTHER, YOU STAY IN LOVE, BY PUTTING AS MUCH EFFORT INTO IT AS YOU DID IN THE BEGINNING. MARRIAGE IS WORTH THE WORK, IT MIGHT BE EASY FOR SOME COUPLES, BUT FOR MOST IT IS HARD WORK BUT WORTH IT.
@rebeccafarrell740
4 жыл бұрын
Great points but I think having full caps on the entire paragraph makes it seem aggressive
@heathermillard6841
4 жыл бұрын
@@rebeccafarrell740 I do that cause the caps key on my computer doesn’t work well so it’s easier to just leave it on. It gets stuck and I just leave it on rather than fight with it everyone I need to capitalize something. Now I’m on my phone and I can do it regular way! Lol 😂
@dapperdan1017
4 жыл бұрын
I'd say because God says He knows the plans "I have for you" that yes there is that one person. However you will not know that unless God reveals it to you. So, you need to pray to God to lead you toward your spouse and help you discern if the current person you are dating is the right fit for you (not if they are the "one" but if they are compatible/attractive to you spiritually, mentally, and physically. If its yes and you feel God leading you both towards one another then that person is the one. Tldr dont focus on knowing if they are the one, focus on knowing if you get along well and lead each other towards Christ.
@majakolonja4266
3 жыл бұрын
Sara is a sweetheart 🌻
@crazyleaf257
3 жыл бұрын
🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡
@josiahbishop6705
3 жыл бұрын
You are such a cute couple.
@crazyleaf257
3 жыл бұрын
💛💛💛💛💛
@EmilyLouiseSpangler
4 жыл бұрын
yay part II
@dannydanny9875
4 жыл бұрын
Free Family Therapy :-D
@rebeccakat8239
4 жыл бұрын
first
@thanks8589
3 жыл бұрын
"When the glamour wears off, or merely works a bit thin, they think they have made a mistake, and that the real soul-mate is still to find. . . And of course they are as a rule quite right: they did make a mistake. Only a very wise man at the end of his life could make a sound judgment concerning whom, amongst the total chances, he ought most profitably to have married! Nearly all marriages, even happy ones, are mistakes: in the sense that almost certainly (in a more perfect world, or even with a little more care in this very imperfect one) both partners might have found more suitable mates. But the 'real soul-mate' is the one you are actually married to.” ― J.R.R. Tolkien
@charleemcneil3531
4 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh the background for this is gorgeous
@christinacatoe4023
4 жыл бұрын
The “Messy Monday’s” Jordan, the “Messyges” Jordan, the “BBT” Jordan, and the “Jordan’s KZitem Channel” Jordan, are all so different, and I love it. And now I’ve written the name, “Jordan” so much that it looks wrong. Oh well😂🤷🏼♀️
@Gordonius
4 жыл бұрын
A lot of the things I'm observing here is this: It's you, not your circumstances. Reading "The Rare Jewel of Christian Contentment." and it comes clear that it's the Christlikeness of the people married, not the personalities or quirks that make a whole marriage.
@maryrosehight4379
3 жыл бұрын
This is so helpful for future relationship and marriage tips and life right now! Thank you so much!! Your marriage is one of my models for my future marriage.
@brendanthomasmarrett9868
4 жыл бұрын
Oh, my goodness! You two!!! Match made in Heaven, guys... seriously. Thank you for continuing to inspire us with your transparency, hopefulness, and inner beauty.
@kaylan2083
4 жыл бұрын
The idea of a soulmate or "the one" is literally impossible. It doesn't exist because the concept of a soulmate or "the one" implies that EVERYONE in the history of humanity made the right choice and married their soulmate for it to be true that you and Sara are soulmates. But of course we know that's not true. Many people have divorced or not gotten married or had multiple wives in ancient time. There's no plausible way that everyone in humanity has married their soulmate. And if someone has a happy marriage and family but they didn't married their true "soulmate", then that means they skewed the time continuum and their future generations wouldn't have soulmates. Does that make sense? 🤣
@bellatoramatbellum
3 жыл бұрын
In response to marriage feeling like you are closing off options or now you are tied down. My take on it is: yes, you are losing options and loosing freedoms, but that’s life. I loose the option to stay home all day because I have a job I need to go to, I don’t have the choice to stay home, but because I have the job I now have money to buy food or games or take trips. Yes marriage closes certain doors, but it opens others! That’s what every choice is, saying yes to something means saying no to something else
@justangela1684
4 жыл бұрын
I love these videos! Question! Who said "I love you" first? How did it happen? And how long were you together? I want to tell my boyfriend that I love him (we've been dating for over a month now) but I'm scared it might be too soon. Advice? Thoughts?
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