I've never felt such a safe space with a total stranger, nor has anyone shared more truth and light than this gentleman. This was an entire word.
@markusbanks7572
11 ай бұрын
Absolutely super big facts
@LakeishaMonique
11 ай бұрын
With gentleness. You do not have to attack me to get your point across. Men take lessons!
@LakeishaMonique
11 ай бұрын
@Mr.Technical74 Thank you for your insight! Have a blessed day!
@terrenceliburd8655
11 ай бұрын
This brother here. The smartest guy in the building
@cynthiadickerson5403
11 ай бұрын
As l have already said in another comment, he is going to be somebody's soft place to fall, if they handle their business.
@pooh4025
11 ай бұрын
Tripp always speaks the truth.
@thephantomterence9211
8 ай бұрын
That his name? Tripp? TY
@rejectionistmanifesto8836
8 ай бұрын
He didnt say the truth that Kevin Samuel's spoke. Women in the community push men out of the home on the most sickening reasons which should have been criminalized by society and was never tolerated by men in any society for the last 2 million years of modern humans. Till we give 100% custody to men and alimony PLUS child support payments from WOMEN to MEN in all cases this will not end. 50 years od destroying fathers is why men are no longer interested in forming families or having kids or getting married as they see 10s of millions of their children ruined by divorce initiated more than 80% by women.
@marshalucas7984
8 ай бұрын
Yes he does…and on point!
@Rua007
7 ай бұрын
Facst
@theronpaul41
11 ай бұрын
Fatherless house hold are super hot topics but, the truth is if either parent is emotionally unavailable and selfish it will do more harm than an absent parent. So often we want to over look that a lot of times most children/people are products of two people who never knew each other. Love wasn’t or isn’t the foundation. Convenience was or is the foundation and when it’s no longer convenient all ties are broken and children suffer.
@ericavasser3237
11 ай бұрын
Took the words right out of my mouth becuz the truth is having both parents isn't always healthy either
@3zzy.Gotta.Bagg_
11 ай бұрын
Story of my life
@decormiamour
11 ай бұрын
You can still be a good father without living under the same roof.
@theronpaul41
11 ай бұрын
@@decormiamour facts! Better for you to be a present father and showing your kid what it looks like to be in survival mode
@GoogleUser-wy2vv
11 ай бұрын
I was raised in a two-parent household... It was the worst experience of my life and I'm almost 60 years old.
@iman6141
11 ай бұрын
as a fatherless daughter myself, I ve noticed there is a spectrum a young girl can fall under in regards to how it will effect her. She either will be become promiscuous & seek men to fill that void; have non realistic expectations of men OR she will be the opposite & find it hard to trust men & will grow up w/ the “I don’t need a man mentality”. She will fear & run from men that want to commit to her because what her father taught her through his absence is that men leave so she doesn’t bother trying to fall in love. These women grow up to not even want children. It depends on the emotional maturity of the mother & how that mother teaches the child to cope w/ abandonment. Most single mothers don’t find a “step dad” & the girl is left to learn men through family members & her environment which is risky, inconsistent & very misguiding. The mothers who raise their children single, they’re only able to teach their daughters how to survive w/out a man or they teach their daughters how to date for survival purposes only & usually those methods is through the use of seducing men & manipulating them with sex. Nuclear family consisting of parents w/ high emotional IQs is very important for children to grow up in.
@kenyandrama
11 ай бұрын
tldr: family good!
@unicorn73212
11 ай бұрын
Sometimes the absence of a father is not the only thing that makes her become promiscuous parents that stay together and tolerate abusing each other for the sake of the children can also mess up their child's thinking too because there supposed to grow up around a loving family. There divorced now but there better off now of days then when they were when they were together I still talk to both of them I just can't live with them because that doesn't make any sense to park it at your parents place if they both messed up your thinking women not needing a man is not a mentality it's a reality that some men refuse to accept they never cared about women in the first place they just see a lot of us as prizes and accessory's to there way of living so it makes more sense to remain single if you can't have children anyways. They also tell women these things years later after it's already too late to do anything about it to stop what already happened to them.
@iman6141
11 ай бұрын
@@unicorn73212 1) respectfully your commentary is off topic w/ the video. It’s geared more toward dysfunctions w/in a nuclear family & relationship dynamics. The video is about the negative effects that growing up in “fatherless” homes have on people from a individual standpoint & their outcomes in relationships. There are always variations & deviations to justify behavior but this is what I observe & assess everyday in regard to this topic be it that I also work in mental health 2) as women I believe we need to stop professing how much we don’t need men. That mentality is also contributing to the fatherless epidemic. If woman want to think like this, cool, just stop making babies & creating broken homes leaving children at a disadvantage to be able to form strong relationships & robbing them of a good foundation that’ll help them understand & coexist w/ the people around them. Men need women & women need men. The instinctual differences we have creates a balance that makes life easier when we bring them together under healthy dynamics.
@Bcakes85
11 ай бұрын
My father left the home when I was 10 and I developed the attitude of not wanting marriage or children. God saved me from that mentality and blessed me with a husband of 17 yrs and 4 beautiful children. I’ve been married since I was 19 and it’s been tough but we’re making it and we are blessed for it
@iman6141
11 ай бұрын
@@Bcakes85 👏🏾👏🏾. That’s so Awesome ! I don’t want children still but I did the work & I’m hoping & praying marriage will come. 🙏🏾
@leslielewis40
11 ай бұрын
And by the same token, if you’ve witnessed a negative relationship with a father in the home who doesn’t interact well with your mother… Preach young man. #generationalcurses
@renepcj4017
2 ай бұрын
3:we act like a lot of the times the fathers are just choosing this all by themselves into the mothers are not creating environments where it's impossible for the father to stay
@oloriokoro992
11 ай бұрын
This also applies to emotionally unavailable/absent fathers… Tripp is GOAT! 🙌🏾
@renepcj4017
2 ай бұрын
3:we act like a lot of the times the fathers are just choosing this all by themselves into the mothers are not creating environments where it's impossible for the father to stay
@lynnblack4464
11 ай бұрын
You deserve a Queen, because you are definitely a King 💯💯
@broco6608
11 ай бұрын
Chile, please. You don't even know him. This is part of the problem.
@potencii30
11 ай бұрын
@@broco6608did he say something wrong
@kisha3688
11 ай бұрын
100% true
@VanDeb-tl2gh
11 ай бұрын
@@broco6608 I was thinking the SAME thang 💯 like JUMP OFF OF HIS "IMPRESSION" what you see! You don't know him only what he speaks on🧘🏽♀️
@c.anthonyjohnson259
11 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@danahedrick522
11 ай бұрын
He should have his own show/podcast.
@Natalia-hf3et
11 ай бұрын
Exactly. I can listen to him speak all day. I can appreciate the whole panel but, Tripp should have his own show.
@Lil08103
11 ай бұрын
I feel like the fatherless conversation re: adults and dating focuses more on women than men. ppl talk about women with "daddy issues" all the time.
@kenyandrama
11 ай бұрын
This comment explains your youtube algo and what you watch the most
@Lil08103
11 ай бұрын
@@kenyandrama interesting that your first thought was KZitem / social media and not real life. i was referring to the latter.
@jas1565
11 ай бұрын
Agreed. It's usually the first attack some men use when discussing women. Meanwhile those same men grew up in fatherless households and blame their mothers.
@sophiaf.
11 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏🏾 “All Of The Children”.
@renepcj4017
2 ай бұрын
3:we act like a lot of the times the fathers are just choosing this all by themselves and that most often mothers are not creating environments where it's impossible for the father to stay
@renepcj4017
2 ай бұрын
3:we act like a lot of the times the fathers are just choosing this all by themselves and that most often mothers are not creating environments where it's impossible for the father to stay
@qu33nofhear7s
11 ай бұрын
It's not just 'fatherless' households, it's 'absent father' households. Fathers can literally be in a home, but are mentally absent. They don't interact with their kids, stingy with their time and energy, teach their children nothing and may only be there to discipline. These types of men are just as useless as having no father in the home at all.
@jurnee21485
11 ай бұрын
Bm are the most active fathers! 🤷🏽♂️
@qu33nofhear7s
11 ай бұрын
@@jurnee21485 Bm who choose to behave like fathers might be, but a lot of black men aren't acting in the capacity of fatherhood. If they were, there wouldn't be so many broken people within our community.
@chauntellelong8570
11 ай бұрын
💯💯💯
@Eardialogue
11 ай бұрын
Pick better men to have children with
@prodigy513
11 ай бұрын
Fair point. To add to it, think about the damage that's being done to the children in single mother households who are mentally absent. Family units are important and we need more invested parents.
@fidelis2023
11 ай бұрын
Every time this young man speaks, it brings about admiration toward him. He is wise beyond his years. You young people need more of these types of conversations if you all are going to grow a community and healthier generations.
@icecold8974
11 ай бұрын
Exactly what happened with me. I didn’t know or understand what a real marriage or relationship looks like. I had a birthday and Christmas dad. He literally wasn’t sht, didn’t even work. I’m learning it all on my own. But I know I want to be nothing like him. So far I’m engaged and doing pretty good, but he definitely hit a important point.
@eugeneroberts1468
9 ай бұрын
Well, if you father was what you say he is, Why was he your father?
@icecold8974
9 ай бұрын
@@eugeneroberts1468 I guess the correct term would be sperm donor
@shaundramiller6448
11 ай бұрын
Yes it does, tremendously if we are honest women. I struggle with dating and I honestly am trying again after just taking a almost 7 year hiatus from dating because I am now not just dating to date, I have dating intentions of having a monogamous serious couple-ship leading to marriage that honors God.🙏 I know what it means to trust and I don't want to put trust into the wrong man, I have seen that happen to women around me and it's terrifying to me honestly speaking. 🙏
@UnlistedAccount
11 ай бұрын
Well if you are in your 20s and do not have kids and are in shape, that should be easy.
@shaundramiller6448
11 ай бұрын
@@UnlistedAccount , I find it interesting that a individual with an unlisted account would respond to anyone being authentic,yet too afraid of people knowing who they are ☺️. Also by your response, you made the assumption 🐴 of the struggle I spoke of, there's no shortage of men, Maybe a shortage of authentic Men of God, which is what I desire, I don't want just any man, I can do that easily (never had any issues,no matter the women to men ratio) honestly.
@shaundramiller6448
11 ай бұрын
@@UnlistedAccountThe question was, Does the father not being in the home affect women in dating too? I believe you missed that part,so you really don't make sense 😅 , it's not about the surface part of a woman, its about being affected by the absence of the father. Having a God fearing father in the home during the impressionable years matter for not just males but for females also. **** Let me break it down for you and show you what it looks like.With A Father and Without Father for a female. Female with a father, has been validated: her intelligence,her beauty,her personality etc with genuine love from her father,who is her first interaction with male. She gets certain teachings and protection from her father. She grows up to be very self assured and supported usually. She knows how to conduct herself,she knows the indicators of someone she doesn't need to invest time and effort in, she's selective. She knows that she can't just bring any guy home. Female without a father.She has no male protection, she's not validated so she'll cling to a guy's compliments instead of allowing him to prove himself,she doesn't know what to avoid when it comes to males,she doesn't trust males much at all, she doesn't allow the male to do much for her either because she never saw it in her home, so it's difficult for her to let a man lead because of how she was raised,she saw her mother run things and in charge..... this is why there's power struggles when she dates or become a couple with someone. ***this is why my response stated that it tremendously affects the woman and then I gave a transparent response,it is a struggle,now my Dad was involved after no longer being in the home here and there but there's a difference when a father is consistently in the home, training his kids to navigate life, encourage, and support them. Yes,it definitely matters. The being in the 20s,no kids,in shape is not even relevant to the discussion.
@maggpi717
11 ай бұрын
As a woman who had monster of a father.... I do not know what it is like to be loved by a man or have a relationship with a man....so it is a hard thing to navigate through life....basically I've been scared to venture out into the dating world because I am terrified of perpetuating that trauma into the future.
@Dr.Elaine1
11 ай бұрын
So sorry to hear that. Thankfully, there are other men that can teach you what he didn’t. I listen to Tony Gaskins who even wrote a book entitled, What Daddy Never Told His Little Girl.
@maggpi717
11 ай бұрын
I've been working really hard on myself, healing mentally , physically, emotionally and spiritually to become the woman I am meant to be...not the woman this world tried to turn me into.....self improvement is a long and lonely road but when I get to my goals it will be worth it..... I'm hoping that if I work on myself,bput myself out there and follow GOD'S guidance I will find really genuine friends and even a romantic relationship!
@emeraldkaysgarden
11 ай бұрын
as I love my dad ,growing up i had it rough with him as his daughter. he definitely needs to heal because he didn't have his father as a child because he died when he was young and definitely exhibited abandonment issue onto his children. It made me run away from relationships with men. I got therapy and did self work. I forgive my dad but he still needs to heal his own wounds.
@maggpi717
11 ай бұрын
I have aloud traumas of the past to take decades from me as I stand frozen In fear, low self worth and loneliness. My father is not someone I could ever see/speak too he is very dangerous, but I have forgiven him because it sets me free.....January 2022 at age 38 I looked myself in the mirror and said "are you going to let another decade pass by or are you going to do something about it" something clicked and I have been working tirelessly to improve myself. I came into my 40's like a tornado ,I've lost 116lb so far, have a better job, going to therapy and church and becoming a resilient/unstoppable woman! ☺️
@brittaniwhite1053
11 ай бұрын
@@maggpi717You go girl, you are the prize ❤
@kukuakukua
11 ай бұрын
Having a father at home who is abusive to your mother can affect the children too and oh, every child is affected differently. We could be siblings who grew up in the same household and witnessed our father abuse our mother but each of us could be affected differently
@Sinmiwilliams
9 ай бұрын
Absolutely
@Thepeoplereact
7 ай бұрын
Absolutely true!
@staceypalmer476
11 ай бұрын
Ace got a little nervous... Love you Black Kings for being transparent! Yes it takes a village to raise a family in our culture!
@Natalia-hf3et
11 ай бұрын
Is that the person who always makes faces, noises and moves across the stage when Tripp is speaking?
@eleminoupi5670
10 ай бұрын
@@Natalia-hf3ethe's the Derrick Jax type version
@fatrinafields54
7 ай бұрын
Fingers snaps on point!!!!! Speak the truth🙏🏽🙏🏽
@renepcj4017
2 ай бұрын
3:we act like a lot of the times the fathers are just choosing this all by themselves and that most often mothers are not creating environments where it's impossible for the father to stay
@bosagontse
11 ай бұрын
This man is so well spoken.
@renepcj4017
2 ай бұрын
3:we act like a lot of the times the fathers are just choosing this all by themselves and that most often mothers are not creating environments where it's impossible for the father to stay
@steverobinson5677
11 ай бұрын
Preach Pastor Tripp.....🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿🙏🏾🙏🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
@garrettirving8495
9 ай бұрын
Professor Trip is just Simply On Point ! Speaks A Lot of Truth with Humility and Authority . Keep Doing what you do My Guy.
@Thepeoplereact
7 ай бұрын
I agree! Fathers are needed as much as mothers! Mothers are present but not really present. Same household and kids have different experiences with their parents. It’s important to communicate and be aware of what you are displaying no matter what. Kids see, hear, and feel everything.
@MusicalNotes1986
9 ай бұрын
Tripp seems like the only one on the panel who ALWAYS speaks undeniable FACTS. My man dont miss.
@dearah8474
11 ай бұрын
I just love love to hear this man speak ❤️ 🙌🏾
@snazysuk230
8 ай бұрын
I really admire Tripps calmness, his wisdom, his intellect and straightforwardness. The truth might hurt, but I praise a mature man who expresses himself so eloquently. ❤
@RisingPhoenix5
7 ай бұрын
Inspiration and hope at its finest these conversations are truly therapeutic. Thank y’all for bringing them to light the world needs this.
@downbad2874
11 ай бұрын
Men aren’t scapegoats people have always blamed the mom but they also acknowledge their father didn’t give them those things neither but the mother gave them some thing rather then nothing
@josephhofmann2585
11 ай бұрын
Most of the time the mom ends the relationship, therefore kicking the father out of the house and the dynamic of every day being there. Aka father, mother and children till children become adults and move out while the 2 parents stay together no matter what. The mother is overwhelmingly to blame for destroying this dynamic. This is a fact. Make some excuses why don't you. Say he was abusive and he just wasn't making the woman happy. Marriage is about commitment to the very end. Something most women can't stand. Women want new experiences, and better sex. Different sex, nice lifestyle, but they show by their actions they are not willing to sacrifice their Time to get the money the honest way. Shame, insult, guilt and need to be right are a woman's tactics to not being honest and avoiding accountability. To be blunt. Black women in the 60's destroyed their lineage. I am half white and half Spanish. So call me a racist instead of addressing any actual topics. You women amaze me. Just like violent emotional men.
@ballershanelle
11 ай бұрын
Mom told u the basics but once these boys get out of the house, they bring the street and other men's influence into thier lives, as men. Just because we are young adults, doesn't mean we don't have common sense. We know right from wrong. Game playing and lying, fun and freedom comes with responsibility and constraints. Have fun but also act right. Many just backslide, easily..
@UnlistedAccount
11 ай бұрын
No it IS the women that leave 80%. We have statistics on that. I fully understand the men that will not allow women to abuse them with divorces and family courts. Let these women rot guys, walk away. And this simp is just telling other losers to pick up the broken glass so women can continue to be awful.
@tisbutascratch2045
11 ай бұрын
Yes, except that whenever anything goes wrong with that child's upbringing, standard of living, pursuits in life, etc., that child and society at large will only ever blame their mother, not their dad, since she was actually there. So while men are often called deadbeats for not being in their child's lives, that's all the criticism they ever get because there isn't anything else to criticize since they were never a part of the child's life in the first place. So as a mom, you're damned either way.
@eugeneroberts1468
9 ай бұрын
Okay, if your father did not give you the things that you are referring to,....Why is he your father ?
@shuntayshuntay04
11 ай бұрын
So true . But another piece and conversation we should have more often is having both parents in the home and they are toxic people from their own pain. I’m a product of that and at my big age I walked away from my mother and father who raised me all of my life . It’s almost like not having parents at all. There’s alot of us out here . Healing and dealing ❤❤
@joyfullychosen1771
11 ай бұрын
I told a man that grew up in foster care that I was upset with the lack of my fathers presence and the lack of teaching I thought I had received from my mother. He said why did someone else have to teach you right from wrong? Didn't you just know? He said he didn't have parents and he always knew right from wrong. I got quiet.
@jericothompson8636
11 ай бұрын
BINGO. A lot of people are making excuses for the fucked up choices they are making. True enough, wise parents give you a headstart in life, but you don’t NEED them to guarantee success. Plenty of people have both parents and plenty of resources at their disposal and STILL fuck up.
@S91761
11 ай бұрын
It's not about knowing right from wrong. It's about the importance and guidance we need from our parents. That is what form us to be who we are today. The most of us, at least. I grew up with both my parents, and they were great. I'm successful, but I wish they would have pushed me harder. That's the thing I learned that I would do different with my future children. Our childhood will determine how we act in our adult hood, for the majority of cases.
@FUEGOSTARR
11 ай бұрын
He’s bitter af
@jzs3348
2 ай бұрын
He is so profoundly insightful because as women we don’t know what it is to trust a man with our life, we don’t know how to defer to the man , we often feel resentment not respect for men, and we don’t know what it feels like to be wrapped with the safety that a real man provides to his family. My brother did not learn some of these lessons and it appears in his relationships. I really hope someone hears this advice that needs to step up to break the patterns of the fatherless dysfunction in our communities.
@realashandaatlarge
8 ай бұрын
I like to see the growth of this platform. Having more important conversations for our Community.
@brianpettus1288
7 ай бұрын
You are a gift from God. You are speaking a truth that has been swept under the rug. It effects the entire house hold. Hopefully these women out here who are guilty of this offense will understand what they are doing to their children
@arlenesmith1708
9 ай бұрын
This young man speaks the truth and it is so good for our young men and women. Stop the yelling...Do the work. I felt his heart for our boys getting better role models.
@keirakirby5201
11 ай бұрын
Yes, so please stop blaming all single mothers...step in for your Daughters too!
@rodneytimpson1608
11 ай бұрын
Why because...your life was screwed up.
@byronmartin1840
11 ай бұрын
Yes but his focus was the boys not the girls since the boys will become men one day and they're supposed to be the leaders. It's why he brought up the patriarchy.
@c.anthonyjohnson259
11 ай бұрын
Why is it we don't hold mother more responsibility for running the relationship with the father in the first place
@geowilson242
11 ай бұрын
ALL? Really? 🤦🏽♂️Is that what you heard?🤔🤦🏽♂️
@soundsaboutright---
11 ай бұрын
@@c.anthonyjohnson259because being single doesn't mean you get to not raise your kids
@EmpresFynesse021
11 ай бұрын
Surreal Truth. Affects All of Us Mother and Children 💚💚💚
@FEMnomenall
9 ай бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I just talked to my ex husband about this. These topics are so important to the growth and reflection kids take into adulthood.
@dmm1648
11 ай бұрын
I love listening to Tripp, he knows just what to say and sometimes the truth hurts but he'll we need the truth. Not sugar coated sh*t saying it's chocolate when it's lies. I want to see him in person someday it would be great. ❤❤
@cannabistalk4164
10 ай бұрын
The end got me because black men are in their kids lives the most statistically... Easily can be looked up as its cdc study. The black father stereotype is not a myth
@nicoledixon7912
2 ай бұрын
I just love you'll!!!...Young, Black and EXTREMELY WISE beyond your years...
@pracs3377
9 ай бұрын
What’s going on in block culture should be the push to start doing things differently. Men we need you to step up and step in.🙏🏾
@tripleb54321
9 ай бұрын
This show is very relevant. These young men and women are not afraid of speaking on the real subjects of life that truly effect our lives in an mental, emotional and physical way.
@cxm1211
11 ай бұрын
I grew up without a father, so I will say yes it causes issues.
@CookWithStephh
10 ай бұрын
I grew up with a father and I got issues too. So I’m confused on this topic
@cynthiadickerson5403
11 ай бұрын
Who would not want to yield to the authority of this young man. Young ladies don't be foolish. He is going to be someone's soft place to fall, if you handle your business. This is the kind of man you should want to have as a husband. He is a conscious man, and l love to hear him talk. He is young, gifted, and black!❤
@mistytaylor1838
9 ай бұрын
As a woman, I learned more from my father than from anyone else in my life. He taught me exactly what I was supposed to not only expect from a man, but what I was supposed to be for him as well. I actually told a man once that I didnt need a father bc I had a great one. I needed my man!!
@user-kt8gr5ob6s
11 ай бұрын
Man I be in awe when he speaks and this ain’t no homo stuff bro just be spitting 🗣️ str8 FACTZ
@angiesgotitgood1
9 ай бұрын
Very Well Spoken and Totally true to Life!
@aaronbrooks4091
10 ай бұрын
This dude be hitting one good line after another....Tripp don't be tripping. He real!
@lynnblack4464
11 ай бұрын
Smart Man a whole King ❤❤❤
@angieangel8571
11 ай бұрын
Felt this message DEEP in my soul 😢
@seanyeah
11 ай бұрын
No disrespect what's worse a fatherless home or a mother that has different men in and out her house as step dad's
@Dmagic716
11 ай бұрын
Bro be on point !!! Everytime !!
@lataciajackson7100
11 ай бұрын
ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL GOD BLESS YOU! Every time you open your mouth❤💪💯
@tcampbell1676
11 ай бұрын
It causes issues when you grow up without a real dad in the home and also when you have one who is emotionally unavailable.
@RickiaRickaMB24
11 ай бұрын
Totally true for me Dad wasn't around and mom didn't even show us emotions so it's that much harder being a woman because I have a hard time expressing my feelings.
@ms.teitei338
9 ай бұрын
PREACH BROTHER.. THIS IS THE ABSOLUTE WORD!!!
@MonalizanVic
9 ай бұрын
Tripp out here lookin fine as hellll while dropping gems
@HHAYYAHKIA
11 ай бұрын
WHOA. BARS DAMITT 💯 FACTZ 🔥🔥 SAYLESS 😎
@ryanboyd100
11 ай бұрын
Strong, caring, loving Father's are needed.... Period
@yolandaemba919
11 ай бұрын
Just a few days ago I commented about growing up with both parents in a healthy and happy home. So, when I used to date I encountered guys with absent or emotionally unavailable fathers. It's not easy to relate to who they are and for them to relate to who I am, as products of our respective backgrounds. This is is a deep one.
@npayne7776
10 ай бұрын
ABSOLUTELY!!!!! Females need a father figure just as much as a male does. We need to see what leadership looks like, what love from a father looks like so that we know HOW to properly be loved by a man, and how a man can be tender to us. Most women who had a loving father end up marrying a man like their father...as long as they are not allowing the disfunction of society to influence wanting drama and toxicity.
@williammorgan4908
7 ай бұрын
As a man I like the way I felt he believed what he was saying instead of just saying it because it sounded Good… I’m a fatherless child with 5 children of my own and dozens of step children. I’ve always taken that roll seriously. I’ve always tried to be the person for others I wish I had for my self
@ambriamoore6885
11 ай бұрын
Great point - so grateful to have my daddy and to grow up in a household that he led, provided and also gave us emotional safety. 💕
@rrai-
11 ай бұрын
To hve kids with a man who cares bout you has always been a womans responsability. I dont know when that got twisted.
@eltonjohn4239
11 ай бұрын
No it has not been a woman's responsibility....it was always her father's/ patents responsibility to lead that decision...after it was put in the hands of the woman, that's when it became chaotic
@joannamonique707
11 ай бұрын
Which is why I tell women that the submission doctrine is nonsense and should be ignored. You cannot defend your honor as a woman without being disagreeable and disagreeing with requests to sleep with you from men who aren't good for you. You can't defend yourself by being submissive. That doesn't even make sense. If 10 dudes approach me today wanting sex and I submit to all of them I'm a whore. Lol dumbest shit I ever heard
@FUEGOSTARR
11 ай бұрын
To be the kind of man that cares for the woman he chooses to have a family with has always been the man’s responsibility. I dont know when that got twisted. Men are SOLELY and FIRSTLY responsible for parenthood.
@milt3716
11 ай бұрын
Tripp always hitting the nail on the head and breaking things down for it to forever be broken! Preach! He just makes so much sense and it’s always universal.
@michaelpope1710
11 ай бұрын
Tripp is always on point and they can’t handle it.
@louiscarthurjr1990
11 ай бұрын
When this dude speaks it’s straight fire 🔥
@andreamsmithlive24
10 ай бұрын
As a fatherless daughter the greatest lesson I learned was that I could not hold another man responsible to keep the promises of my father. I had to reconcile that in-spite of how much I loved my father and at the same time was so hurt by him, it was his responsibility to mend that pain and not another man.
@Cedsbestwife
11 ай бұрын
He’s so right; you can always tell a Daddy’s Girl, because we usually look for a version of our dads when dating. And if we bring somebody around who ain’t cutting grass or whatever and Dad has to come do it, Dad gets mad 🤷🏽♀️
@ibrahimabdus-salaam3426
11 ай бұрын
Tripp is golden every word he speaks be the truth
@n.mitchell3313
10 ай бұрын
This man is a vibe all on his on.💯🔥
@jasmineG-c2f
9 ай бұрын
Facts. Absolutely. A woman can raise a boy, but only a man can raise a man. Doesn't have to be the father! It would be best but not needed. Watching a grandfather that is a good man, the youth leaders stepping up and honestly having a step father or other role model truly can make a difference.
@abdullahnooraldeen7894
9 ай бұрын
I love this dude always spitting 🔥🔥🔥🔥
@rosemarybarr8875
11 ай бұрын
Great perspective....you make me proud and I could be your Mother
@JGspeakss
11 ай бұрын
Been saying that for years and as a man I'm glad women like Tripp so they can hear his words but ladies know he isn't telling y'all nothing new but he's making it palpable
@TheUnpopOpp
11 ай бұрын
Forget the sex talk, the dating talk and the divide. This is healing conversation🫶🏾
@td9243
11 ай бұрын
I’m happy I wasn’t from a fatherless home. My father taught me everything and he was just a wonderful, strong, firm, disciplined man. May his soul rest but everyday I strive to be a better him to my children. He put his marriage first, kept my mom relaxed, at peace, secured, and loved so she could be the best mother she could while he was there with her protecting supporting and providing. Black fathers are very important I miss and love you daddy!!
@shawnsbookbabees922
9 ай бұрын
Love how that was put see I’m a believer in balance of ownership. It’s so easy to point fingers “he isn’t this, he isn’t that” true and perhaps however, we also are this and that!! It isn’t about blame let’s just agree there’s and A&B side and examine both with emotional and social maturity 🙏🏽
@nekialovelight4788
11 ай бұрын
Protect Tripp at all cost 💯💯💯❤️
@Serenity_escapes
11 ай бұрын
So true, I had to learn to let a man take charge. I grew up thinking my mom was such a great influence which she definitely was but I failed to realize she only did what she did because she had no choice.
@OriginalGoddess111
11 ай бұрын
Yes it most definitely affects women too, not only men. We as women need our Fathers because we watch how they treat our Mothers and whether it’s in a negative or positive way, it reflects in our relationships as adults. If you see your Father cheat, beat and disrespect your Mother then most likely you will accept some form of disrespect from men unless you are just one of the few thats strong enough to know your worth. If you see your Mother belittle and disrespect your Father then more than lightly you will try to treat men your in relationships with the same without realizing this is not normal. Therefore it needs to be a 2 parent healthy and loving relationship or otherwise it’s worst than being raised by only one or the other. It takes a village to raise a child and most of us had our Grandparents, our Aunts and Uncles who was there when our parents fell short but now a days kids don’t have neither so it’s going to only get worse. The outcome is a bunch of unstable mentally ill beings stuck in their emotions. Peace Love and Light 💜💜💜
@Christian80806
11 ай бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 exactly why I prefer men who had fathers in the home, a mentor or a spiritual leader.
@markusbanks7572
11 ай бұрын
I swear on everything I know & hold dear to me.. Trip is that dude!! When he talks, I listen & we all should.. He tells the absolute truth.. Much Respect To Trip for this 🫡💯!
@dr.100purrscent5
11 ай бұрын
I've been saying this for quite sometime now, we have NOT seen a demonstration of Collective Healthy Male Leadership in the Black Community for the past 70yrs. It does not mean Good & Healthy Black Men do not exist; but it does mean the increase of degeneracy has been on the prowl at a higher frequency for our considered "modern" society during this time frame. However, on the other side of that same coin, WE as a Collective Unit of People, have never had as much access to education and resources as we do now... Well, at least since prior to 1619. It doesn't mean all things are flowing fluidly and fairly, because it certainly is not. We just have a greater opportunity to do better by other people and ourselves. You do not need a Strong Black Man to stand over your shoulder to make a choice to be a decent person...that is a very Basic Choice of being a Human Being. Unfortunately, we have seen a LOT of Black Males an active choice to play a villainous roles to leave a path of victimization for Women & Children to be burdened with, just for their own entertainment.
@bro_zen_wan
11 ай бұрын
Yall ever notice how quiet the room is when a BM drop knowledge and BW have no way to deflect 😂😂😂😂😂 gotta love to see it
@ncchs81
10 ай бұрын
Thats because he didnt ATTACK while dropping his knowledge
@mrs.t3733
11 ай бұрын
Also acknowledge that a father can be present and absent especially one raised by a single mom and dont know what a father in the house looks like.
@lovebug6388
11 ай бұрын
And those physically present emotionally absent fathers are worse than the absentee father. Ask me how I know...
@GoogleUser-wy2vv
11 ай бұрын
Some of us daughters have had fathers in our lives that have been so abusive we have to leave into fatherless home just to protect themselves
@bernadetteboswell4414
11 ай бұрын
Yesssss. It affects everyone under the roof.
@quincysofly1181
10 ай бұрын
Those few words, carry’s one hell of a message! Knowledge is power!!!
@lornagreen8961
11 ай бұрын
I love this point Tripp. We women often assume the position that we KNOW how it's done. And, we know how YOU should do it, simply because that the traditional order of things. Let's start on the path of: we are both coming to parenting needing to learn NEW HABITS. 💜💪🏽💜
@HisSacredLove
10 ай бұрын
My father was not "always in my household" but he was still my father and inadvertently taught me what I should take and not take from a man. It was my mother who played both roles and taught me everything I needed to know about men along with my heavenly father GOD so this whole "man in the household " thing only affects those who were bothered by it. I knew a lot of girls/boys who grew up with fathers in the home and let me tell you I have more healthy relationships than they ever had so not always true.
@joannebynum2483
11 ай бұрын
POWERFUL MESSAGE ❤ 💯
@trujdvs
8 ай бұрын
Much respect to this gentleman men.
@RealCoachRonn
7 ай бұрын
Tripp is "The Chef" from her on out. Cooking the real every time
@nkosimakhathini1718
11 ай бұрын
We need to step in bro bro.There’s a good man out there to step in for every abandoned black man!
@ric9699
7 ай бұрын
Thank you trip for all the pebbles you throw into the pond. All of it ripples through the water. People have to want to better themselves. Keep it up because I truly believe that it’s helping our world more than people know.
@purposedpeoplepraying
11 ай бұрын
My daughter and I were discussing the male and female relationship and what a woman is to do after she brought up the subject of marriage. She was 6 at the time. She asked me, “When are you going to show me?” Listen!!!!
@MsRaquelReigns-lp5wm
11 ай бұрын
Some fathers don’t deserve to raise their children, and these kids deserve better if their fathers are of that low character. it’s not always great to have certain men in their life if they’re not men of integrity
@AWesker99
11 ай бұрын
When are you going to learn that you can't disparage the man without disparaging yourselves. After all, who was dumb enough to get pregnant by such a man in the first place?
@kellyjordan9849
11 ай бұрын
Deep you said it..
@MsNiknak30
9 ай бұрын
It definitely affects women..."daddy issues" are real...Our fathers should be our "first loves", our 1st example of love, respect from the opposite sex, etc
@Anointed77
11 ай бұрын
Yes. Having a father present in the home also has an effect when the father only has the capacity to be a monitary provider, yet nothing else that's needed.
@lindaf6274
9 ай бұрын
PREACH!!… Many women don’t seem to (or want to) get that.🤦🏾♀️
@prodjs-gmoney5791
11 ай бұрын
Psychologists say that it affects males when they're young or in their youth. And it affects females later in their womanhood
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