Sincere thank you from a woman experiencing exactly the same! The anxiety connection really puts things into perspective.
@Hunter-tw8ws
2 ай бұрын
Me too I’m a woman and being hyper sexual but monogamous with my boyfriend is hard because his sex drive is much lower but idk how to fix it
@takumifujiwara4503
Жыл бұрын
Hey, thank you for this video, it was really helpful to understand what is going one with myself. But I have one thing to correct: you said that to get over off someone's high sex drive the good way is to find a girlfriend with also a high sex drive. However, it's like saying to a poor person "just get some money". One of the reasons why so many young guys have a problem today with their sex drive is because they are lonely and can't find ANY girlfriend, because of hypergamy and all of that stuff, so they don't know how to cope with their natural sex drive (even if it's not that high by default), and that's when the porn usually came in as a only way visible for them to get over this energy. If you could do some video about that kind of situation and how to deal with that, then that would be a huge help. Anyway, thanks again for this video and have a good day.
@stoneylonesome4062
Жыл бұрын
Yes, finding a girl with a comparable sex-drive, where there’s genuine mutual sexual attraction, is much harder than people in the more positive, self-help-ish side of the manosphere would like to admit. A lot of Gen-Z girls, by the time they’re in their mid-20’s, have already had their fun and got their fill, if you get what I mean, and aren’t interested in helping a man their age explore his sexuality and scratch his itch, assuming that he never got to scratch it at all before. I understand that people like Connor want to be positive and fill us with confidence, but the situation out there in the Gen Z straight dating world is really quite rough and bleak.
@GaryHighFruit
9 ай бұрын
@@stoneylonesome4062 Yeah, although this video was great, I noticed he's assuming everyone can get sex, or the viewers have a partner. There's a large % of men today that are on their own. I looked at when the video was made to see if it was last century, LOL. One reason for my high sex drive may be that I feel I've missed out (never having sex at 55) and so I get my fill is by watching women get their fill. It doesn't happen easy so I watch more = more sex drive.
@TGP109
3 ай бұрын
I'm really tired of hearing everything blamed on ''hypergamy''. Many women are over tired, working hard, or uninterested in being a girlfriend. It often has little to do with the men that are available. As for porn, using one's imagination usually works just fine, so no porn is needed.
@tarablue4472
3 ай бұрын
Hypergamy is a problem in today's dating world but even if you do get a gf, her sex drive likely will not match that of the average young man. Add to that the extremely poor sex education that does NOTHING at all to help men court and seduce women, NOTHING at all to help women enjoy sex more. So even if you get a gf you're likely not going to get the amount of sex you want which will just cause you to want it even more which will cause a rift between you and her. Demand better sex education that focuses on these issues.
@donaldaxel
22 күн бұрын
In response to the advice on "desexualizing your brain," I find it crucial to distinguish between our biological drives and the external environment, which, contrary to being inherently sexualized, is perceived through our personal "radars" shaped by these drives. Understanding this can demystify why certain things catch our attention and help us manage our reactions more effectively. The world itself isn't imbued with sexual energy; rather, our hormonal responses shape our perceptions. Planning for and recognizing these responses can make them more manageable. This perspective is not only about regulating one’s sexual drive but also about understanding and integrating it as a healthy part of life.
@donaldaxel
22 күн бұрын
While I found the video insightful, I believe there's a broader spectrum to consider when discussing high sex drive and its management. It's crucial to recognize that our reactions and attractions are not solely under voluntary control; hormones play a significant role. However, it's also possible to enrich our perception of others beyond initial physical attraction. Exploring the psychological aspects of pregnancy and the dynamics of family life can provide valuable context and help alleviate feelings of guilt or shame. These elements encourage us to see individuals in their entirety, much like the literary technique used by John Irving, where characters are presented with depth, showing that there's more to a person than meets the eye. This approach doesn't negate the biological impulses but suggests that our understanding and interactions can evolve to acknowledge the full humanity of others. This nuanced perspective might be especially helpful for those struggling to reconcile their physical impulses with a desire for deeper connections. I advice everyone who came to watch this video to study sexology, - not only videos here on KZitem, but everywhere you can get your hands on material of contemporary quality. This will help you see the sex drive as part of life, perhaps the most important part of life, and to feel that it need not be a guilt-ridden problem.
@smartypants1980
Ай бұрын
I dont have many guy friend, just 3 and they are mire experienced but talking to them about stuff makes like so much better on me as a dude who has been aline and angry for 44years
@happyslave6783
11 ай бұрын
The solution is quite simple really. Ready? First. The more you do it, the more you want it. Second. Letrozole 1 to 2 mg per day.. Third. Watch your eyes. Eyes on the ground 5 feet in front of you. No starring at anyone for more than one second. Following this advice will solve many more issues you might be having.
@felipegutierre7037
8 ай бұрын
lool I loved it,
@usmanamin7241
5 ай бұрын
And masterbation when required
@user-nt1oj5rt4f
4 ай бұрын
Shows the medication don't work if you have to look to the ground all day
@ChrisWestin
9 ай бұрын
Do my best to date someone with a similar sex drive? I can't even find someone who can carry on a conversation.
@shanprodigy9999
8 ай бұрын
Why?
@Juggz2busy587
5 ай бұрын
😂Same
@mariatorres9789
5 ай бұрын
Well, that's the real problem. Why are you trying to have conversations? 😅 That's a relationship. Just skip straight to asking a lady if she wants something casual. You'll find them, they're out there.
@ChrisWestin
5 ай бұрын
@@mariatorres9789 I would prefer a relationship.
@Space_bloom9
2 ай бұрын
Same
@EyeOfScrutiny
Жыл бұрын
Great video on an important, subject matter. I look forward to reading your book. Question: does the podcast correspond to your KZitem videos?
@ManTalks
Жыл бұрын
It does. You can listen to the interviews and mini episodes anywhere that podcasts stream (spotify, Apple Podcasts, etc)
@JakeTheWicked
11 ай бұрын
Amazing video bro. BUT after watching this, now I feel like my sex drive is ONLY the result of insecurities, bad mental health, or unresolved trauma. When is sex drive NOT the result of these?
@KingAbel510
10 ай бұрын
The only issue seemingly is finding/wanting a wife that ticks most boxes… being at age 31 going on 32 🤔😂
@Kimump
Ай бұрын
Thanks for this
@WiwekL
Ай бұрын
The only advice that implies accepting yourself is to find a partner with matching sex drive. Others are about suppressing your sex drive to avoid problems.
@GMANLOVE
Жыл бұрын
Connor "Beaton the meat" McGregor I jest, honestly enjoying your content. I would be interested to hear your view on tantric practice and also views on the whole nofap phenomenon. Many thanks
@stoneylonesome4062
Жыл бұрын
NoFap is perfectly fine, that being said, doing NoFap and Monk Mode as a young man who’s unable to find a sexual/romantic partner is kind of roughly analogous to declaring to fast whilst starving during a famine in Africa. If it’s to get over pr0n addiction, then I wholly understand, but, still.
@leandrogarciaphoto
4 ай бұрын
I have all of those problems you exposed :DDDD
@anibaldemacedo3151
2 ай бұрын
There is no problem with high sexdrive, the problem is woman low sex drive.
@benitadavis659
13 күн бұрын
Ive never met a man who has same high ses needs as myself. I have to beg for it drives me insane
@shadrachemmanuel1720
3 күн бұрын
@@benitadavis659you're kidding right? 😂. Females never beg for sex . If they did pr*stituti*n wouldn't exist.
@shadrachemmanuel1720
3 күн бұрын
Both are a problem.
@mariatorres9789
5 ай бұрын
Why is this only directed at men? 😅
@anibaldemacedo3151
2 ай бұрын
it's because almost all women have low sex drive, unfurtunelly.
@benitadavis659
13 күн бұрын
totally agree, ive never found a man with same level sex drive as myself, I always want more. All videos are about woman with no sex drive....
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