I'm 59 and starting back on a path that I began when I was a teen. After going to college, enlisting into the Marines, marriage raising two wonderful kids, it's time to start again. Whatever happens I will be an artist.
@PhyllisMasters
3 жыл бұрын
I am right there with you! 53 and didn't create for 30 years.
@Renegade_2023
3 жыл бұрын
Sounds like where I’m at in life. Best of luck to you.
@Koontah
3 жыл бұрын
I'm 53 and done with stuffy corporate procedures. People like us need room to breathe!
@lunazamoraart
2 жыл бұрын
Me two. Started at 58. The show’s not over!
@MandyJArt
3 жыл бұрын
I resigned form my 9-5 yesterday. My boss tried to change my mind. My final straw was my oldest dog going blind in one eye. My time with him isn't unlimited, and I have been sitting in my miserable comfort zone for way too long. I don't want to regret spending any more time wasted not doing something that makes me happy. This story is pretty much what I'm doing. Quitting the grind & moving to van life so I have time to work on my art again, and read books, and just get out of my own head & away from this person I also don't recognise anymore.
@judymiller975
3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations.
@donnathomas202
3 жыл бұрын
Good for you! You're doing the right thing. And even if it doesn't work out, you can always try again!
@seapossumsforrest8162
3 жыл бұрын
I had a dog go blind on me that was 5 years old, with SARDS. I really crushed me to see a young dog never be able to see the ball I threw for him. So sad, but he learned to drop and chase the ball anyway. 2 years later, he is pushing me around the house with his favorite toy, he has not slowed down one bit. Go luck on new journey!
@nameissturdy1390
3 жыл бұрын
Dog’s teach us so much. And the 9-5 stops us from being able to think and do things for ourselves. I wish the two of you many new adventures!
@judymiller975
3 жыл бұрын
Hey man, look at all the support you are getting. Please do a Utube of your travels and travails. We all wish you and yours well. But please remember to include the funny bits and the difficulties. Love and hugs from Australia cheers.
@crookedcrafts5648
3 жыл бұрын
So, she might have given you one of the best pieces of advice I've ever heard. Just go do your art and see what happens
@KoongYe
3 жыл бұрын
I asked "Am I too old" whenever I wanted an excuse to quit my dream. As it turns out, a lot of people unknowingly enjoy the misery of them not being able to pursue their dreams and then feel sad about it.
@annak3325
3 жыл бұрын
its easier to blame
@judymiller975
3 жыл бұрын
Dont use age as an excuse. Don't devalue yourself like that. Dream,do,create.
@djjuarez5679
3 жыл бұрын
I’m asking myself the same question but honestly, there’s no value in this question when it comes to my dream so I resist entertaining it for long. Some times are harder than others so it’s good to watch videos like this! ROCK ON with your old self! You’re a BADASS! 💙💫🔥💜
@motherofpearl9430
3 жыл бұрын
You guys always seem to pop up when I'm doubting in my art or being discouraged by a well meaning family member and told to put your entire soul in your day job. Thank you, I will take this video as a sign.
@1Letter23Numbers.
3 жыл бұрын
Hello, I'm a well meaning stranger and I hope you keep doing the things that make your soul sing. I hope your prospects are as bright as the colors on your palette.
@judymiller975
3 жыл бұрын
Rafi I totally adore you and Klee. All the comments shared show how much we all appreciate your words but more important is how you automagically appear on our devises when we need to hear your voice at such crucial times in our lives. You can never know the depth of our appreciation for having you in our lives. Thank you.
@elisabethseeger5837
3 жыл бұрын
Great video. I finally retired from being clergy in charge of congregations. I have always pushed aside my painting feeling like everything else should come first. Now I’m 75 and ageism is real, but I’m painting better than ever and feel like if I don’t let people know how old I am my art will be ok. I sell fairly well on line and am delighted when someone wants to hang a piece or gift it. I’m sad I never thought I could make a living - the old lie. Thanks for what you do to debunk that.
@djjuarez5679
3 жыл бұрын
Great story , Elizabeth! That’s a great point! Nobody cares how old the creator is! I hope you keep painting! 🙏🏽💫🎨🖌🔥💙
@elisabethseeger5837
3 жыл бұрын
@@djjuarez5679 will paint until I am unable - hopefully some years yet😄
@la6136
3 жыл бұрын
Nobody will care how old you are they care about how good the art is that’s all that matters!
@nameissturdy1390
3 жыл бұрын
Your story makes me happy.
@linseybachko4470
3 жыл бұрын
I was just talking about this with my husband last night. I always wanted to be a creative and use that as a career, but I didn't start until just last year. In my case, however, I think it was honestly a blessing in disguise because now, at 34, I know myself, I like myself, and I'm confident in both my strengths and weaknesses. Now, when someone says they don't like something I made, I don't take it personally and I see it more as a reflection of them rather than a reflection of myself. My 20-something self couldn't have done that to the same degree and I honestly think I would have struggled so much more dealing with negative feedback back then. Sometimes what we want, we aren't ready for yet. That's why you can't hold onto that idea of "I'm too old to start now" and should think of it as "I was too young to start and succeed back then."
@ArtistWizardry
3 жыл бұрын
Excellent ramble. It's all true. The story isn't over as long as I'm breathing, and maybe even beyond that.
@EmilyMottesheard
3 жыл бұрын
I’ve had so many starts and restarts and re-re-starts that I’ve lost count, lol. But looking back I wouldn’t change it, because I wouldn’t be at the place I am now, where I’m happy with where my art is going. Not there yet by far, but I feel as if things are moving towards the right coordinates, and it’s slowly getting better and better. A few years back I adopted the motto of “As long as I’m making progress, I’m not going to let myself fret over how fast or slow it’s coming or whether I need to take a detour. As long as I am moving forward I will be happy.”
@DisasterMaggot
3 жыл бұрын
The moment you refuse to give up, is the moment the journey truly begins.
@tinybird2413
3 жыл бұрын
Not having a financial safety net or even a means to save up has definitely put a wet blanket on my plans and when I come home from work I have nothing left physically or mentally to dedicate to personal passions. Listening to your talks has been a huge help. I've learned to say no to shifts even if it means a small pay cut - so I can have some time back. And I am happy to report in the very least I am finally doing art and sharing it again.
@dkstudioart
3 жыл бұрын
I didn't really get into art until my early 40's. Luckily I was able to escape cubicleville last year, more than ten years later (not because my art is paying the bills). Now I spend a few mornings/week creating art but feel I'm wandering a bit aimlessly, still not sure this will lead to what I can truly call a "career".
@la6136
3 жыл бұрын
Because of the internet there are more opportunities than ever for artists to make money. You can do it!
@dkstudioart
3 жыл бұрын
@@la6136 that's true, I've tried doing the local thing and it was far from enjoyable, just not my scene and I've done far better online, but low cost of entry has made the internet a very crowded market place.
@eilmlilm2490
3 жыл бұрын
Rafi and Klee. I am an old dinosaur, doctors have told me my heart has too many miles on it and to stay calm and rest and blah blah blah. But when I listen to you and Klee, I become a freaking rocket, ready to go to the moon, Mars and Pluto. I will be making " donuts" on Pluto. I totally adore you young ones and keep on inspiring those of us who even late in life can accomplice something great in their last hours on the clock of life. Love you and God Bless.
@paintingtheskykingdom9005
3 жыл бұрын
that is so sweet to learn that it was klee that gave you the space to be an artist again
@greggunther
3 жыл бұрын
Dude. My life is so similar in many ways. Can totally relate. Never give up!
@ArtJeremiah
3 жыл бұрын
Man... I've had so many ups and downs in life. The majority of my mistakes, though, were living the way other people wanted. Not being my authentic self. I quit my day job a few months ago because I saw that I wasn't going to be able to keep up with all my orders. I weighed whether my "good" day job was more important than my creative pursuit. The day job was so much less important. I was literally doing my job in about 2 hours and spending the rest of the day twiddling my thumbs. So, I left my "Inventory Manager" job, took a bit of a pay cut, and just went for it. I'm pretty content with my work life now. Loved hearing your story. One thing I notice is that I waste considerably less of my time and money now. It's crazy how much money (lunches, gas, etc.) and outside-of-work time is dedicated to a day job.
@konstantina_art
3 жыл бұрын
We need more of these inspirational talks.
@blazewarriorwolf
3 жыл бұрын
As long as you get into your passion somehow someday, that’s all that ultimately matters!!
@user-zv4on3zp3t
3 жыл бұрын
💗💗💗
@anthonyashley7108
3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful soul! Keep doing your thing brother! This was my morning affirmation! Now to go create! 😃💪🏽
@becbartell2780
3 жыл бұрын
Rafi you didn't loose your corporate job, you just got put back on the correct path for your journey. Thats the way I see it. I lost my job last year as the virus madness was hitting and then every single job I applied for something would happen and stop me from accepting the position. I finally realised the universe was pushing me back off of those paths so that I can walk on the right one. My little Art business has been chugging along slowly for the last year but I'm getting there slowly and I'm happy.
@kiraquinnmusic
3 жыл бұрын
I can totally relate to this! For years I'd stopped doing creative things, and then I thought it was too late. Eventually I got back to art and music, and I've never been happier or felt more authentic! Great video, thanks for sharing!
@sunla
3 жыл бұрын
Exactly what I keep telling the people who feel like they're too old to do what they want in life! I felt the same way. I've always had that creative streak in me that I can't get rid of. I'm a daydreamer. I'm taking that leap of faith now, and a huge part of that inspiration came from you and Klee. When I learned your story, it made me feel reinvigorated and more dedicated than ever. Thank you for inspiring not only me, but countless other people who needed it to push them to find their path. 💖
@seapossumsforrest8162
3 жыл бұрын
After getting a technical degree, I started painting to learn about design and color for web design and fell in love with it. I have held many jobs and now in the mist of my new found profession... Covid 19 struck. I wouldn't say I have given up but I definitely left the road and am in the ditch trying to get out of the muck. You are right, it is never to late, but like most life changes, you can't plan for everything. Also, you have to keep a clear vision or you get stuck. You have to love your vision enough to give it 'a life' in your life. Your videos really help me push myself and get out of the muck. Thank you!
@themysteriousdomainmoviepalace
3 жыл бұрын
Corvid did that to me too. But I still keep at it. :)
@lisaowen6103
3 жыл бұрын
Like many of us the "19" have effected the venues we can exhibit at. We just got to keep doing our creative thing.
@macroman91
3 жыл бұрын
People may not love your authentic self, but they'll hate your fake self even more. I believe people should do what gives their suffering meaning and purpose.
@shelley2he844
3 жыл бұрын
I always had a creative urge as a child, but I had a very difficult and unstable childhood. I got totally derailed. In my early 20s I developed a pretty severe mental illness and now I'm 37. I'm starting over, I accidentally discovered art and realised that I had a joy for learning about it. And now I'm dedicating my life to it, because I love it. Having been so ill in the past, I've realised that life is too short to be that unhappy. I gave up on ideas about owning a house, getting married, having children, because I don't want any of those things. I only want to paint and draw, I've decided to dedicate the rest of my life to seeing how far I can improve. Now everything else that I used to worry about doesn't even come into my head any more. I am truly happy, content and well. And I don't own anything, and haven't achieved that much. But I've overcome darkness and come out the other side of it and that in itself is my greatest achievement. I've learned how to be happy with what I have. I could die right now and not regret any thing. I have purpose and passion and that's the secret to true happiness. 💯♥️
@madArt1981
3 жыл бұрын
A lady comes in with a photo portrait she wanted me to paint. After negotiations on price she showed up for an update. Then with a request. She wants me to make her look younger, change her dress for “ something younger” and change her hair. I said wow! Ok! Go to a professional photographer get him to do you a younger version of you and return with the picture. I’m getting ready to return her deposit. People who aren’t happy with how they look will never be happy no matter what
@holdmyhand9573
3 жыл бұрын
Wow! Bravo to you Adam!!!👏👏👏👏😃
@donnathomas202
3 жыл бұрын
SO True. I do caricature and I have people who do the same thing: "You made me too fat! You made me look old! You gave me a double chin!" In fact, I did none of those things. Nature did. Luckily though I work digitally so it's easier for me to change the drawings. (A sister got to get paid!)
@HarmonyGoddessArt
3 жыл бұрын
Great ramble! I started showing my artwork at Science Fiction & Fantasy Conventions back in the early 1990's. It was always very part-time hobby business for me. It wasn't until I was laid off of my day job as a web designer in 2003 that I took a chance to make the art my full time career. I kept at it and eventually had to get a part time job to pay the bills, until finally in 2008 I had to get a full time job. It broke my heart and shattered my confidence. I learned the hard way that working for someone else isn't for me, and it caused me to be very depressed to the point that I needed medication. I didn't paint for several years, until 2016 when I started working in watercolors and focusing on Goddess paintings. I have re-arranged my life to spend more time with family, and am now self employed as a tarot reader and reiki master teacher as well as being an artist. I also play the ukulele and sing in a band with my brother called The Leprechaun Pirates. Keep shining and rambling away Rafi! You and Klee are a great example for all of us folks who are creating their own career from scratch.
@robmccullougharts
Жыл бұрын
I have for 47 years been in some form of design, from performing, creative, and little of graphics through many avenues. During a part of all this I acquired many mentors that guided me through each phase. One mentor in my cosmetology career told me "if there is a will there is always a way." I have adopted that as my motto and have passed that along to those that I have had the privilege to mentored. Although I have sketched, doodled and drawn all my life I only started painting for a living in my late 60s and have acquired a couple of mentors along the way. I have always had the will to try something different, the think outside the box and I am having the time of my life so I wish upon you all.... if you have the will there is always a way.
@realitymill
3 жыл бұрын
I've had a long stop. 4 years ago my mom passed away unexpectedly and two months after that my job moved out of state and everyone was laid off. I kinda shut down. I'm still kind of shut down but I've recently setup new work space and am getting back into things starting tonight. I need to create again.
@jdeb7734
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video.
@cathypaul5349
3 жыл бұрын
Klee is beatific and quick-witted. Thank you for this. Much needed. Very Encouraging.
@holdmyhand9573
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for telling your story Rafi. This is so inspiring, and helpful when you do this. Im 60 now, and have had so many stops and starts... Other things, other people, my job, always seemed to come first ALL THE TIME. And I let that happen for the most part... But what happened to my dad three years ago... and what a family member picked up with after that for another 2 1/2 years almost broke me entirely.... I regret to say this... but at the ripe old age of 57 I had NO IDEA ... WHAT A NARCISSIST, OR A PSYCHOPATH WERE. I just thought they were people who liked themselves with abundance. Well, in the last 5-6 years of my life (and Im luck to still be here), I can tell you I now know what a Narcissist and a Psychopath are. I know the subject/topic is dark, but trust me,.... You dont want to be taken by surprise by these.... .... ....people. Im not kidding, I encourage everyone I can to learn everything you can about them. Many of them are so covert... most people dont know they have one in their lives until it's to late. Im 60 now, developing my own aches and pains.... and STILL dreaming of an art career. Huh! And the family covert narc. left me with so many shattered pieces... I dont even own a computer, the house needs major repairs...blah, blah, blah. ☝But! I bought paint and medium yesterday. As soon I can find my big blank book (it's here somewhere😉) I GOING TO START!!! 😔 Love you guys. Thanks again Rafi.❤🙂
@francesb7515
3 жыл бұрын
When situations take our time the cure is to invest time being expressive. I have so many rough works that are evidence of my valuable creative time and efforts but they will not go in a gallery which is ok. I hope you spend time with objects or ideas that are fulfilling to you.
@DonDon-ju4yv
3 жыл бұрын
I can’t express enough how encouraged I am to create. I’m starting to see some pieces finally come out well enough that they speak to me. Many thanks
@adelegalaxi7895
3 жыл бұрын
I have been reminding myself over and over that I am doing my art for myself, for my own well-being. If not me, then who will? Try and see what happens is the best advice given!
@simmialok
3 жыл бұрын
This was so motivational. You make me want to believe in my dreams and passion that seem crazy in other people's eyes. It is the stops in my life and passion for art that makes me want to come back stronger the next time. This is how I have grown as an artist. I really appreciate you for sharing your life here on youtube. It really feels like that talk you get from a close friend when you really need it. I personally don't have friends in the art and creative domain with whom I can talk stuff. But you and your videos make up for it all (And even better) THANK YOU RAFI! May you have an amazing week ahead
@lisaowen6103
3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I look for art programs on tv. All it is music, dance shows or only Bob Ross . I like youtube art content they have people that are doing things that I'm interested in. Testing products , teaching techniques, art history and talking about their processes. That's how I found Rafi and Klee. 🎨
@KateColors
3 жыл бұрын
I, too, don't have friends with whom I can speak "art". For a long time there I was craving an artists community just so I could have that experience. I happen to take a painting course at a local museum and I asked the others in the class who were themselves artists, if there was a coffee shop or hangout where they all go for this kind of comeraderie. They looked at me as though I was from another planet. A year or two later, the instructor became the curator at the museum and now, once a week, the museum is open at night for such a gathering, opening with an artist talking about his art life or special process. Your fee into the event is to bring an appetizer or beverage. With Covid now, it is structured differently, of course. I think it's beneficial to meet with other artists to enrich your art and for support, like this podcast. It's different than what you may hear from well-meaning friends and family. --KateColors
@simmialok
3 жыл бұрын
@@lisaowen6103 SAME. These people are so heartwarming and share such nice experiences from their life. Also, a recommendation, you should try listening to creative and art-related podcasts on spotify. There was this one about Casey neistat and I LOVED IT. Search him up on spotify podcast
@simmialok
3 жыл бұрын
@@KateColors I agree
@TheShellyOfficial
3 жыл бұрын
Awesome Rafi! Thanks for this video! My GOODNESS! I know about starting and stopping A LOT!!! And also that horrible failure feeling more times than I would like! For a long time I worry if it is too late as I'm getting older, and all my opportunities seem like to have gone away! I am still pushing all thanks to you! Thank you for telling me it's not too late! Thank you for telling me to just push through the suck! Thank you for inspiring me to move forward and that it IS possible! It's for sure not easy, but when you finally sit down and do the art nothing else matters and it becomes a happy place!☺💯 Thank you Rafi and Klee for being the AWESOME humans that you two are!💖💯☺
@epflrz1625
3 жыл бұрын
I have had so many starts and stops. I have explored many things and regret none of it. I am realizing that living my life in the narrow boxes that were created for me is in direct opposition to who I really am. It has been a long process to freedom, but now I am in my mid 50's and I am finally 'getting it'!
@beckybaker3549
3 жыл бұрын
I have whiplash from starts and stops hehe! It is good to listen to yourself and follow your dreams and not wait until something tragic shakes you enough to grab that courage to regret what you wish you’d done all along. When you follow your dreams you’re happier and therefore make the world a happier place ❤️ As always, Thank You for your inspiration!
@deeburks
3 жыл бұрын
This was great and so true. JUST KEEP GOING. Every day is a new day to start again - let things go and stop holding yesterday against yourself. One of the worst mind games we play with ourselves is feeling as if we should stick to a decision when it just doesn't fit anymore. You can make a new decision every second of every day and you owe no one an explanation or excuse, most of all yourself.
@tammyvanwinkle8870
3 жыл бұрын
You're not rambling, your insights to me for whatever its worth has helped me and have been enlightening, encouraging and thanks for sharing 🙏🏻🦋😎✌
@twitchykittystudio6082
3 жыл бұрын
I've started and stopped so many times I can't even count. sometimes out of exhaustion, sometimes frustration, sometimes family crises. But I always, always come back to my studio. I don't know hot to actually quit. I usually have a day job in addition to my studio so I can eat. This past year, because of the pandemic, I didn't have a day job. So I was able to focus on my studio while I looked for one. I'm so grateful for that time, because although I was an unfocused mess, I was able to build a small following for my work. Now I'm working again, which I"m grateful for, but it also brings the added challenges of finding time and energy to work on the studio. I'm determined, so I'll get there.
@kaystill8358
3 жыл бұрын
I took a sabbatical from my true career choice (artist). I had became a single parent of 2 kids & head of household. I did work as an art teacher (kids) for a nonprofit for about 8 years. And about 2 years had a non profit to continue teaching art to kids. Now, I am financially secure, I am pressing the "Play" button on my life.
@apothecareyarts4076
3 жыл бұрын
"Took the timid route" / "Instead of pushing through the suck"/.... Thank you Rafi.
@ranjanaluwihare1511
3 жыл бұрын
Great Rafi! So true & candid. It’s never too late to start your true passion. A boring 9-5 job gives you money, will never create true happiness, your just chasing your tale! Life’s too short! Go for it! Thankyou.
@angelaramseyrobinson4407
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I had a long stretch of being on top of things and accomplishing anything I set my mind to, but a decade of chronic illness and a lot of pain that really threw me off course. I’m feeling better and trying to figure out how to regroup now and process my life being interrupted and how to revisit my creative dreams. I have noticed times in the past that I didn’t see something through, but often the opportunity would come back around. Appreciate the encouragement. “Everything is ok in the end. If it’s not ok, it’s not the end.”
@fineartforsmallspaces4007
3 жыл бұрын
So needed to hear this. So totally relate. It took a lot to get pushed in the right direction. I could never make anyone happy in corporate anyway. Now that minimum wage is heading towards 15 an hour I don't feel bad about being a corporate failure. I would rather start over every day in art than rot behind a desk. The way I process information is so different from everyone else. I query myself daily, "maybe you aren't as clever as you thought you were" and "maybe you aren't as observant as you thought you were" and being a bit more humble about my life "failures" instead of angry helps a lot. Being constantly told by my partner to focus on only one art "thing" until I get it down seems impossible to me. Sometimes I feel I give up too soon, but other times the brick wall of figuring something out becomes too much. So I bounce around a bit from task to task. Then there is the fear the constant fear of tech stuff like a deep background hum. It used to paralyze me but now I just feel it and do anyway and deal with it until I can't. I can't even wear a watch without it croaking. So no wonder my gadgets are always acting up.🤔🤣
@Renegade_2023
3 жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed your talk and it struck a few chords in my own personal development. I have always had an interest in art but it was not encouraged in my family. I gave it up and never pursued it and it wasn’t until I became an adult that I began to take art courses as a hobby at local colleges. I did it for myself and it was my secret hobby. I started working in special education as a para educator and returned to college and became an elementary art teacher in a special ed setting. My passion was in finding ways to help my students make and enjoy making art . Last year, covid hit and I retired after 33 years, I’m 65. My landlord allowed me to use a room in the basement and I have set up a studio to finish my studies. I do it for me,and feel the same enjoyment I did as a kid! It’s never too late. Sorry this was long winded.
@Kyriehubbard
3 жыл бұрын
Oh the stories I could tell about stopping n starting my art journey. 20 years ago I sewed a jumper for my daughter, it came out perfect for MY FIRST ever piece from a pattern. I haven't made anything else since. But rn I'm setting up a sewing/art studio in my house! I won't quit this time!! Your video moved me deeply!! You inspired me to see I'm not a failure, I just put all my projects "on pause " until I could give it my full attention.
@suzannemacpherson8267
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you...yes ive experienced stops and starts my whole life..but at 53 im finally saying yes to me and committing to my art and creative therapy business 100%..no more distractions or excuses! Love what you say in this video..so inspirational...🙏🙏🙏
@goldfinder4498
Жыл бұрын
It is never too late to begin an art career. I went pro artist three years ago. In two days I will enter my 88th year of life. I have gallery representation an sell paintings
@Rafiwashere
Жыл бұрын
Goldfinder YOU ARE AWESOME!
@karenlucci2154
10 ай бұрын
That is so amazing!!!
@StockLisa
3 жыл бұрын
I’m so much like you, the timid route, painfully shy, insecure... but being an artist is who I am, it’s what makes me happy. I will never give up 🙏
@Artystrique
Жыл бұрын
I've had so many stops and starts over the last several years. I was on-track to become an accountant. Now I love puzzles, so accounting was okay but I've wanted to be a creative for as long as I've been alive. Music, drawing, painting, crafting - if it can be made, then I want to make it! When I was diagnosed with my illness, I thought my life was over. I couldn't work a stable job anymore. I have to work from home. Then I realized that I could pursue whatever I wanted. There's been a lot of freedom in that. I'm still doing the stop-start thing, though. I really identify with what you said about holding yourself back. I still don't know what I want to 'focus' on, so I hit around, and never finish anything. I kept thinking I had to pick something, but I think you just gave me permission to loosen up on myself and realize that I can do it all and just relax about it. Thanks!
@Rafiwashere
Жыл бұрын
Yes!!
@NorthbertR
3 жыл бұрын
I have started 12 years ago, made 3 attempts at painting, and had to move house, so I've stopped for almost all this time any painting (was still drawing and doing textile and jewelry). Just to get back to painting again now. Currently re-working those first attempts ... thanks to your advice :-)
@lucycannon6732
3 жыл бұрын
Oh, cripes, Rafi....allll of the stops and starts!! All of them! And I didn't get the notification, either. Farkkin YooToobz.
@fridamusic
Жыл бұрын
Well thanks for this. I am a professional stopper it seems. Approaching 60 now, but never gave up completely, thought about it many times though. The big lie and the big doupt is always around the corner. But art is breath to me, so I guess there is only one way...keep going. I'm glad though that I'm not the only stopper haha that helps. Hugs to all...
@Rafiwashere
Жыл бұрын
You got this Frida K. Singer-songwriter! Just keep going. Persistence is the thing that devastated failure.
@quiettornado1970
3 жыл бұрын
"Good artist doesn't go the normal route." - Rafi
@PhyllisMasters
3 жыл бұрын
My appendix burst in July and I almost died. While I was recovering I decided to pick up art where I left it 30 years prior. I don't really have a plan for a career in art or anything. I am 53 and disabled, and have a ton of time on my hands. I fill it with art now and I am very happy about it. Except I have dozens of completed artworks and am running out of room to keep them. Things could be worse.
@JoellaNotte
3 жыл бұрын
Oh wow! You just described my life! It took me quitting one office job to being laid off at the next two to finally realize, this is the universe pushing me into the direction of my passion. At my most recent layoff I was told they were hoping to call me back this spring but I feel like I'm finally making headway with my portraits and still lives. My heart races each time I think about going back to an office job. However, EI will eventually run out and my creative business has been tough through covid. I'm hoping that I can create a body of work to get the sales coming in before they call me back or my EI runs out. Thank you for making this video. I was beginning to question myself once again and you've given me hope!!!
@abigailhayes7910
3 жыл бұрын
thanks i appreciate you! as a young artist myself, im 21, ive felt a lot of resistence along this path. people have really tried to discourage the decision ive made to pursue art and illustration. but ive made the decision im not going to quit, no matter what it requires of me. thank you for reminding me of that
@RLDSTUDIO
3 жыл бұрын
Man... our pasts are eerily similar. Like crazy similar. I truly appreciate you sharing this story. Thanks for putting this out there.
@RLDSTUDIO
3 жыл бұрын
The major shift for me was getting let go during a merger after almost 12 years as a creative director at my previous job... and that was my wake up call. I had built so much of my identity around that job and had 20 plus years of guilt and regret for not making time for art. Like you said it's a work in progress, but my attitude and identity has changed and I feel like it's all good from here on.
@mrslandanna
3 жыл бұрын
At the moment I am lost, again. That does not stop me from creating because it is my refuge but I am growing to the place that, after more than 10 years, my art is my thank you note to the world. I love what I do, I love what I create and this is my footprint. Thanks again for an awesome video, Rafi!
@ToyasTales
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I really needed this message and encouragement today. Thank you for sharing your story and your light.
@charlim2479
3 жыл бұрын
I can relate to this. Looking back, I had opportunities to get into the things I loved but I allowed my fears to get in the way. Since this past year, I'm realizing the importance of taking my passions seriously and I know now that I need to create. Thank you.
@scottmitchum6571
3 жыл бұрын
Thank-you for this video! I worked in the family busyness for 26 years ( environmental Lab ). My Dad is world renowned and we worked hard to make the Lab successful. When he closed the doors last year I was offered several jobs in the field, but found a reason to tank everyone. I realized that if I was to work in a laboratory again I felt like my soul would die. Extreme, but that was the feeling. Long story short, I started painting again ( abstract ) and am moving out of my small space at home to a larger studio. I just started watching your videos about a week ago. Thanks again for your insights and especially this video. It really helps to know that what is happing to me now is not so unique.
@MariJadeWrites
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the talk, I needed this push today :) I was feeling a bit down on myself and like my art is going nowhere. But I am going to work on it and get better and record my process :)
@jessicadarlingstudio
3 жыл бұрын
❤❤ I just realized at the beginning of this year that I will only be truly happy pursuing art. I started and stopped many times and like you I got to a point that I didn't even recognize myself. I am happy I am finally seeing where this creative path takes me ❤
@melissaanowai9419
3 жыл бұрын
This is me, as well. I tend to self sabotage. It's a viscous cycle for me. Today, I vow to break myself of that habit, and pursue my art so I can be the best version of me as an artist.
@susantreibs6593
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing and rambling, I really like when you do that, gets me to think, reflect.
@kathyhayden3787
3 жыл бұрын
Oh, this is great, and so timely for me! Thanks you so much!!
@terrybarton1808
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for always posting topics at the time when I need to hear them most, when I am having self doubt about my art you seem to always cheer me on with your videos, thank you
@jimoriley357
Жыл бұрын
This hit my feed exactly when I needed to hear this the most! Thank you
@Rafiwashere
Жыл бұрын
So glad!
@clintwhitsett
3 жыл бұрын
My story is so similar to yours. I did the corporate thing for 30 years always telling myself that someday I was going to be a full time artist. Then the 2020 pandemic came along any I found myself without the security of a full time job for the first time in my life. Fortunately I have the support of my wife and was lucky to have inherited a nest egg from my parents. I get a lot of inspiration from your videos so thank you for doing what you do. I’ve always wanted to have a stall at a formers market to sell my art. This summer I’m finally doing it. I have nine dated on the calendar at two separate markets. Both are in high-end communities so I’m hopeful it will be a successful environment for me. Thanks and keep up the good work!
@illanellinor
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this Rafi. Lots of content on KZitem is contrived but some of it comes from people's hearts. This is one of those videos. I've been stuck in that place where you were for so many years. And until now I have always thought that I'm just 'a quitter,' that I can't stick at anything when it gets difficult, I'm just too sensitive. Even my family have validated those thoughts in the past when I've quit things or not carried things through. 'You never stick at anything,' they say. Hearing you say that it's not who I am just because I've quit a lot of things in the past helps. So again thank you. There's something else I wanted to mention - fear. When I'm not giving up on projects because of fear, I'm doing something possibly worse: not even starting them in the first place. These past few days I've realised that from a very young age I've always had an unhealthy response to fear, where I have hated being overwhelmed by my fear so much that I fear my fear. And so I've never faced it; never given myself the opportunity to realise that it actually has no substance on its own. Only what I give it. I've heard people say fear is like a coward, and they're absolutely right. It grows when you ignore it or surrender to it but when you face it, it dwindles. In my defence I never learnt a healthier response to fear from my family or anyone around me while growing up. All of my family are avoiders and because of that they're unhappy. I see it everyday. So, with that in mind, I'm not going to be too hard on myself. It is what it is. Focus on the now. I can learn a different, healthier response to fear, which is facing it and proving it wrong everytime it shows up. I'm not going to let myself run around avoiding things anymore. Because fear is a part of living and if I'm avoiding my fears then I may as well be..avoiding being truly alive I guess. But yeah, just thought I'd say this here, in case it helped anyone. I know these things you usually have to learn on your own, but sometimes it helps hearing someone else's story. All the best to everyone here.
@timclemons8719
3 жыл бұрын
Great advice! I love the little intimate talks you have with us Rafi. It helps more than you can imagine. Right now I’m at my day job listening to the video more than watching. But I need the inspiration daily just to go home and create.. thank you Rafi I often quit almost every night, but then I wake up and find inspiration anywhere I can get it. Keep up the great work!!
@Tracyhopkinsontextileartist65
3 жыл бұрын
Wow its like listen to inside my head. Ive had a few nearly getting there and stopped and gone down another path. But this time due to Covid I am going to stick to it. We are going to be moving to another country later this year from UK to Portugal so this is the time to get the KZitem channel going and just do it. Thank you Rafi.
@flkerbean
3 жыл бұрын
Well said Rafi. This certainly rings true and respect to you sir for listening to yourself. The hardest part is knowing where to start and thats the pressure we can place on ourselves. Understanding your character has an effect on the way you approach life, so taking a moment to reflect on how and why we do things can help us achieve more than we ever thought possible. If you want to be fit and healthy we look to fitness influencers who suggest this and that, but hey we dont all want to get up at 5am, stop drinking and go for a 10 mile run for example, so we stop when instead if you do it your way, then you will get fit and healthy and feel stronger for it and breaking the barrier when you start something will get you to that point when you start seeing progression you can be proud of. The same with creative projects... I wrote a book and yeah it doesnt mean im going to be an author and have a career as a writer, but doing it and finishing it means you can stand a little taller as it isnt just a thought followed by a page of writing and then stop. The same goes for anything. We have many strings to our bow, so do them all. A little bit here and there can only be a positive, as long as it makes you happy and feeds something inside, then damn, do it for sure and we and the people around us will see us as 'doers' rather someone with just another nice idea. A little less looking at what other people do and focus on ourselves will do wonders for the soul. Anyways peace and respect Rafi - well said. Ramble over
@SativaMoonStudio
3 жыл бұрын
I so needed to hear this. My sewing/craft biz is non existent. last yr was gonna be my year. But then covid came. I have an awesome product, and there is just no way it can fail. unless i give up again. Yea I am almost 61, but not dead yet. thanks for the reminder.
@lovethineownself7994
3 жыл бұрын
Wow that hit me hard! Thank you Rafi
@billyliar1614
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video, really sound advice and true words of wisdom. Thank you.
@Rafiwashere
Жыл бұрын
Awww! Thank you so much!
@artzguy8379
3 жыл бұрын
You guys are a bright light in this vast tunnel of despair. I hope you understand what I’m saying. Hi my name is Jacob “I’m an artist” ..... surprise! You and Klee are my number 1 go to while in the studio or while at work “ oh I’m also a truck driver” I listen to y’all’s podcast while pushing through snowstorms up here in Marquette Mi. I get lost in your countless rants as well as Klee’s witty sarcastic comments .... creating art is as important to me as oxygen and yes sometimes I have doubts but I know that’s just me hating on me ..... so I push through that dark tunnel...... While in that place , while in that tunnel I just want you guys to know I see your light. So keep shining!
@justinhunt4767
3 жыл бұрын
Great!!!!
@patriciajung9157
3 жыл бұрын
You are a loving and caring soul. I am glad you found life in your creative work. Thank you for helping me stay focus on my vision. Peace and love to the both of you.
@HeleneBlonsky
10 ай бұрын
This hit the mark Rafi…. I’ve stopped and restarted and diverged and experimented with many different creative things that I have enjoyed, some of which I still do. Nothing seemed to “take off” (financially) so to speak. Oh I have received some lovely feedback from people and made a few sales over the years, but nothing that could help me make a living. I know I’m no good at the marketing and networking thing and regardless of people saying the internet gives you access to the whole world, the fact that I live in Greece and where the art world works quite differently to the US, I feel has been a big handicap for me. Anyway, thank you Rafi for this as I had been once again considering retreating/withdrawing… 🙏
@devandestudios128
3 жыл бұрын
I worked in food service for more years than I care to count and came to realize that I was miserabIe in my own skin. Food service is by far, not who I am. Did a IittIe factory work here and there and the drugery of repeativeness nearIy drove me mad. So a coupIe or three years ago, I quit. I quit doing that which I absolutely hated and started doing what I absolutely Iove, which is creating art. It's a slow burn and I'm okay with that, because it means I get to do my own thing. I now know exactly who I am and recognize the me staring back out of the mirror.
@JulieHiltbrunner
3 жыл бұрын
You ARE pretty damn awesome! 👏 😎
@KathyBrooksArt
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you. This is just what I needed to hear. So, thank you!
@Zoe-Eves
3 жыл бұрын
It only took a pandemic, because I couldn't go to work which left me with an abundance of time to be creative ☺ possibly one of the few at my workplace that has enjoyed having this time.
@veronicasoup
3 жыл бұрын
Not 10 minutes before I stumbled across this video I was having this exact conversation in my head (!) My friends in art school had family to rely on, I didn't. Enter the crappy job that was stable and paid the bills, and fast forward 30 years. For some reason I convinced myself I was supposed to paint, although my talents were much stronger in other things I would drop them and torture myself with attempts at great paintings I just knew I could do if only I wasn't such a failure (just like my ex(also an artist) always said I would be). I have literally cried and prayed and begged any god that would listen to please give me a direction! I'm not so stuck on the idea of what a "real" artist is or does anymore. Yay! But I'm 50+ now, my job makes me very sad, I want to move out of state. I'm so scared to give up the health insurance this sucky job provides.
@terrybarton1808
3 жыл бұрын
Great video, I really appreciate your perspective on life and Art, I keep telling myself that I am going to pursue a career in Art but it's hard to break free from supposed security
@donnathomas202
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your journey. I also spent most of my time working corporate type jobs and am now pushing into art and writing as a living. My story is similar to yours in that I loved to read and create as a kid and was rewarded for that. And then adulting happened. I have always had one foot in the creative world though and like you I was interested in music. (I was actually forced into piano lessons in kindergarten and kept them up until I graduated from highschool). Like you, I took the 'normal' route, except I never moved up in the corporate chain. After a lifetime of office work, I was put in a position where I had to either fight for my job or quit. So I quit and pursued art. That's where I am right now. That's why your story has been very helpful and inspiring to me. Keep doing what you're doing. You're awesome!
@krd5461
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks. Great advice! X
@alisturkericmacnanty159
2 жыл бұрын
This is a sad, familiar, but hopeful story my friend. I hope a lot more people listen to this!
@mooshookatie
Жыл бұрын
You ARE pretty damn awesome Rafi, thank you! Thanks for acknowledging that and for being a source of empowerment for us fellow artist. You and Klee rock! Thanks for what you guys do. 🥰
@Gcanova
3 жыл бұрын
Real talk! Very relatable. I have been told countless times that I am too hard on myself. But is hard when making art shouldn't be a struggle, but sometimes it is. I suppose that is why we can always learn something from other artists, because everyone's journey is different.
@lizestes4746
3 жыл бұрын
You are awesome and yes I am 50 just starting and again feel like I waited too long. But art is all I think about.
@chrissye0
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. I really needed this ❤️
@symbologee
3 жыл бұрын
Your story is similar to mine in a few ways...I did the herky jerky art waltz more than a few times. I keep making and refining my art, but, am to the point where I need to be selling my art. I'm on Saatchi (in one of their collections, not that it's important though), IG (the responses are eh...no sales), no website yet...I know that I need to make one. I know marketing tactics, words that persuade, selling concepts, benefits vs features, etc...but, also grasp that art is a unique and somewhat different animal. Basically learning on the fly. I'm not going to stop with my art any longer. Life is only getting shorter and more dystopian like. Make it the best that you can! Art is also my therapy as well...so, I have to do it.
@truseeker1
3 жыл бұрын
Wow, did you just retell a story that practically mirrors my own in the grand scheme of things. I left the 9-5 back in spring of 2019 to go freelance but was scared to do what I wanted so even though I was free from the "system" I was so unhappy. COVID only made things worse for me in terms of clients leaving and personal imposter syndrome and self sabatoging habits. When I turned 30 last year shit really hit the fan and all the childhood trauma, the 10 years of bulimia, and the last 5 years through which I have been struggling to realize how the fuck I got myself into a hole so big and so deep and why I keep allowing myself to fall into it. I have 1 friend outside of my partner which has been so hard. Ive been mostly a hermit becuaee of the eating disorder and the isolation/not beloning/not enough beliefs my family passed onto me. I believe now that community is so essential. Thats why I love your channel and others like this because I have never met anyone in my life that thinks and actively talks and lives these more "radical" haha artsy beliefs. Seriously, I don't know where I would be without channels like yours. I have had SEVERAL nervous breakdowns this last year and somehow I am emerging out from them. The whole lotus blossoming out of filth type situation. Currently, I am working through getting over those loud thoughts in my head and the doubt my family continues to seed in me when I go off track. Its been really really challenging. Like whats the point in living? Challenging. But when I see people as authentic as you speaking and creating your truth and AND SUCCEEDING?! Wow does that shut those thoughts down. You help people so so so much more than you can even imagine. Thank you from all of my heart. Truly. I hope to one day have people as wonderful and as authentic and creative as you in my life one day. Thank you for making me believe its possible. ❤🙏❤🙌❤
@Mollygirl444
3 жыл бұрын
I wrote a children's book at a time when there was a plethora of publishing houses (early 1980s). After 14 face-to-face rejections, I put it to the side. I keep trying to resurrect the interest, but can't be asked now. I still draw. I still write, but not so much for children. I think the experience completely burned me out. The energy is now concentrated on what I want to write and draw, and the income is passive-- very. At least I don't feel like my soul is being sucked out of me, but I wish I could do it more as a full fledge job.
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