A man has a strong desire to be respected and a woman has a deep desire to be loved. Put these together and you've got gold 🥰
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
Amen sis! 🙏🏾
@brendamller
Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@normametcal5173
Жыл бұрын
When a man loves a woman as God loves the church..with spiritual guidance, providing, sacrifice and protection...His Queen will follow suit...the two will have ...at point...embraced the covenant intended for a man and women...Amen...
@otiss3213
Жыл бұрын
Boom! You're dead on it darling!! Front & center,if I say so myself...💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
@cedricjenkins158
Жыл бұрын
Exactly 💯
@ceegabe1555
Жыл бұрын
Both people need to RESPECT each other and be able to handle grown folks responsibilities for their families and children as providers, protectors and nurturers.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
You’re right
@Diamond_InTheRuff
Жыл бұрын
True. I don’t care much about love than I do for respect. Some men, make it hard to show respect, and love, if their not showing it….. if a man do his part as woman we naturally submit.
@gilliangiles7589
Ай бұрын
Exactly. A man has to earn that respect from his woman.
@kevinboyle538
26 күн бұрын
Missed the point.
@hrushikeshavachat900
43 минут бұрын
Yes. But male would take respect over love and a female would take love over respect. They both would want both but it is about what I prefer, if I can get only one of the 2.
@carrieh.594
Жыл бұрын
This is true. Even if he's disrespectful to you. He will still leave if YOU are disrespectful to him.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
🤔🤔🤔
@bubullibooooo9928
Жыл бұрын
😂
@chivonfortney1656
11 ай бұрын
Truth
@aprilchow-chee5281
9 ай бұрын
Well then let him go cause why tf would I want a disrespectful man!
@crshbannditc00t53
Ай бұрын
@@aprilchow-chee5281who wants a disrespectful Wemon
@Luxfan7090
Жыл бұрын
A man can only be kept if he wants to be kept.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
That part 💯
@TT-zu5pr
Жыл бұрын
Respect is a 2 way street and has to earned once its lost. That's why infidelity is a deal breaker, no forgive n forget. Bc if they didn't respect you enough to not do it to begin with, they're not gonna respect you enough to earn your trust back
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
You’re right! But I believe it’s much harder for a man to forgive a woman after she cheats than a woman to forgive her cheating man. Idk why it’s like that though
@TT-zu5pr
Жыл бұрын
@@TiffWithTheTea it's like that bc of the stigma around women cheating and the celebration of men cheating as if its some sort of achievement to destroy someone else. My ex cheated n everyone treated him like the coolest playa around. Getting props n dabs from ppl like he accomplished something 😆 n all he did was destroy our 6 year relationship. I forgave him, which was not easy at all but I did. And he got so much praise from everyone, why wouldn't he do it again??! He went on to not only cheat again and again but started having the girls call my phone n taunt me while they were with him. It was horrific bc I loved him more than life itself at that point. I wouldn't wish that experience in my worst enemy let alone someone I supposedly love. I had to break it off n go figure I FINALLY move on with someone else 2 years later n he brings me a 4 page love letter proclaiming his love for me. So I stupidly broke things off with a great guy, only to be tortured again a few months down the rd. I was so STUPID when I was younger. It's quite sick honestly, if we're going to shame n outcast women, then men should be shamed n outcasted also, especially when it's done to someone who's done nothing to deserve such treatment n they've completely devasted their life. For him to be lifted up n celebrated was like having everyone just spit on n stomp me. I not only lost my man but my friends as well bc how could I ever trust them again either, treating him that way for intentionally harming someone they suppose to care about- their friend.
@josephsilas9945
Жыл бұрын
@@TT-zu5pr That was a lot not over him yet are you?
@TT-zu5pr
Жыл бұрын
@@josephsilas9945 if i wasn't then I would've given him yet another chance. But unlike him again I've moved on. I get triggered tho by men getting celebrated for sick n twisted behavior n women being shamed for someone else's behavior. Btw- don't read it.
@josephsilas9945
Жыл бұрын
@@TT-zu5pr Get over it!✌️
@rafleming263
Жыл бұрын
That is not always the case, that's a blanket statement, because there are some guys that are going to leave you no matter what you do or how respectful you are! Sometimes it's something in them they're dealing with.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️😑
@commonsenceaintsocommonnom1496
Жыл бұрын
Omg do you know any? Have you ever been in that situation or are you just talking down on a man because we not all like that maybe the dogs you sleep with but not all
@rafleming263
Жыл бұрын
@@commonsenceaintsocommonnom1496 I can say that with my seventy plus years, yes I do know some and have known some. Some are men right in my family. Also, to clarify I'm not low rating or dogging anyone. I've never slept with a dog, but I do know what a dog is. I'm just stating an observation or are we not allowed to do that? Some people are on these platforms to learn and gain wisdom, not to stir up some crap in which nobody's interested. Have a great day!
@sophiizplace
Жыл бұрын
@@rafleming263you're right...I know someone who did all the things right...the man treated her dirty...She tried to get his mother to talk to him....know what she said?.." he's grown I cant tell him What to do!"...She finally said enough was enough and dropped him.....he hounded her for a solid year...everyday...sending voice mails.....getting his family to beg for him ..he now misses her respect....they need to stop saying all men will treat a woman right if she respects him...Most Men respect Women who wont allow the BS ither!...
@rafleming263
Жыл бұрын
@@sophiizplace Thanks everyone knows someone if they just think about it.
@mikspoonks
Жыл бұрын
My ex left me 4 a woman dat look better than me (I will be honest) and she treated him like crap and even cheated on him in the end but he left because she was wining and dining him. I gave him all the respect he needed and deserved. Nothing will keep a man unless he wants 2 be there!
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
That last part goes without saying. And I’m sorry that happened to you!
@williamgrowcock8561
7 ай бұрын
Bruh if you did any of those things bro would be there
@danielsoares3737
6 ай бұрын
So what weren't you giving him? That's the question
@mikspoonks
6 ай бұрын
@williamgrowcock8561 who are you calling bruh? You know wat you don't deserve my energy.
@glamorouslee3812
Жыл бұрын
I had ZERO respect for my ex husband when I discovered he committed adultery. I divorced him because when I have no respect for you my verbiage will indicate my lack of respect every time I open my mouth. I had love for him but I knew I would/could never respect him again so I divorced him. To this day and it will be six years next month he still wants me back but that will never happen again. I can not be married to a man that I do not respect.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry to hear that 😔 but you’re right, once a woman doesn’t respect you…it’s OVER
@sowyzsewing3993
Жыл бұрын
If he wants to leave, respect all you can, He will leave anyway.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
Facts!
@chisahinson7483
Жыл бұрын
That Part🙄🤷🏽♀️
@louisesantaniello593
Жыл бұрын
💯
@SoCalOnTheBeat
Жыл бұрын
so if he gone leave why even put up with men then since yall woman feel like yall know eveything this yall number 1 go to exchse he gone leave anyway that shit so corny and lack determination with that mindset us blacks will never move head its always this dumb back and forth and from the looks of it the main problem is the woman not accepting accountability and being masculine a man cant do nothing with that if the woman not complying with respect after he give her respect its literally pointless of trying then yall use that against us and say we making yall slaves and we narcissists, and then thats how you end up and a forever loop which is called insanity because the same shit keep happening over and over and expecting a different result thats never gone happen to we change our ways and thinking but you tell a woman to change its world war 3! then comes the blaiming game! yall woman know this shit true but yall live in a delusion because yall wanna think and act how yall wanna act its a companionship!
@adriennesmith2133
Жыл бұрын
That's fact!!
@stayreal7835
Жыл бұрын
Initially, we need to respect ourselves in order to ask for respect. In this case I guess you are referring to a good man.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
Some things go without saying
@franortega9848
Жыл бұрын
Any man
@antwanettajohnson1694
Жыл бұрын
@@franortega9848 what
@theresabarnes4940
Жыл бұрын
Right but a lot of that don't even show their mother respect got the nerves to want respect and this be mother that was really good to them. I know people want to talk to you like shit but oh don't want you to talk to them in that way.
@theresabarnes4940
Жыл бұрын
Here lies the problem with this information. When woman have a man with the qualities she will automatically have respect for him it's says love your wife as you love yourself and wife's respect your husband. It's says a woman needs to be cherish.
@Purepiscestarot
Жыл бұрын
Respect, trust and honesty. These are the pillars of love. Most will still cheat even if you give this. Be safe y'all.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
🤔🤔
@LeratoWinz
Жыл бұрын
Men have left many respectful women. For the record, the one who loves him is the one who's respectfully towards him.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
Not always
@michellemcneill9292
Жыл бұрын
Amen, respect is a two way street. If I want my husband to respect me, I give him the respect he deserves.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
100% give respect and you’ll get it. If not, then leave!
@WARLORD8189
Жыл бұрын
You will get knocked on the head for disrespecting a men. So you can think that way about western men. Arabs, Asians, Indians, Africans, are not having that bullshit.
@justbeforethereturnofchris2393
Жыл бұрын
She not talking about when yall first meeting each other for the first time ;this is is during your relationship that you become cold towards him and likely sleeping with another person secretly.....notice i said person because some women having sexual activity with another woman or man .....
@michellemcneill9292
Жыл бұрын
@@justbeforethereturnofchris2393 who are you responding too? What I said is a general statement regarding the entire timeline of a relationship. If your woman is disrespecting you and your relationship by cheating, leave her and find someone who will respect you.
@archerx68
Жыл бұрын
Thank You... Stop coddling ♂️
@therealmulatto
Жыл бұрын
A women will leave a man after she finds him boring
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
And feel justified while doing it!
@purearea5142
Жыл бұрын
Man you said a mouth full. I almost left my fiancé and the father of my son because I was bored with him. I had to pray and talk some sense into myself. I have been happy ever since. Cause it was me that settled into a boring everyday ritual.
@pimphandstrong6620
Жыл бұрын
Yeah we men have known this for decades tell me something i don't know
@Jupiter_12
Жыл бұрын
Big facts
@ronl.2913
Жыл бұрын
@@pimphandstrong6620 she talking to the women.
@valeriecoleman8622
Жыл бұрын
"A man wants, a man needs, a man will stay" ugh, I'm so glad I'm single!
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
🤷🏾♀️
@madihacrawford302
Жыл бұрын
Male centric women are contagious! Make me itch too! Ugh!!! Forget about it!!!
@HerRoyalPriestess
Жыл бұрын
All they care about is what a man wants or needs but God forbid you speak on what a woman NEEDS lol
@agrantverde
Жыл бұрын
Speak on it. Everything is about what a man wants. Sigh!
@burundishallsmile1day109
Жыл бұрын
Well,Enjoy your Singlehood while changing sexual Partners 😉👍🏽 If You don't need a Man,Good for you🤷🏽♂️
@lisa196409
Жыл бұрын
A woman will leave you if you don't respect her to that goes both ways. Stop patronizing these men that don't want y'all.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
Don’t want who? Me or you? Cuz I have a man sweetie. A husband at that.
@dialysisdiva7430
Жыл бұрын
Respect go both ways and he must respect himself and give you something to RESPECT. Cant be asking for respect when don’t respect yourself, your family or the relationship That’s a no go for me. I won’t disrespect you, I will leave cause there is no relationship without respecting EACH OTHER and boundaries and all
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
You’re absolutely right!
@w3n33dam1racl3
Жыл бұрын
This
@pamalawilliams550
Жыл бұрын
right....exactly...
@mistyjordan7147
Жыл бұрын
Exactly! 🤷♀️
@kikismith9563
Жыл бұрын
Thank u!
@iamimperfectionperfected4
Жыл бұрын
I asked my man. He said if you don't love me I am out! If you love me you automatically respect me. If you don't love me that's when you disrespect me.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
💯💯💯👌🏾
@ladym7198
Жыл бұрын
Exactly it’s simple with love come respect. Without love there may be some respect initially but it will go away at some point.
@carlmiller8138
Жыл бұрын
@@ladym7198 It seems many women are of the same belief.. there are thousands of stories on reddit, KZitem etc of women saying " I love you" and still disrespectful to her man. We men cannot listen and believe what a woman says.. we watch her actions. Very Carefully.
@madihacrawford302
Жыл бұрын
@@carlmiller8138 that’s a trust issue. You not loving with trust issues. You want respect without loving.
@ga6589
Жыл бұрын
@@carlmiller8138 Actions speak louder than words, whether it's a a man or woman.
@shirley9209
Жыл бұрын
Few things about a man: 1, A nasty woman can keep one. 2, He will deal with a woman with kids than one without. 3, Wants to be waited on hand and foot. 4, Not looking to take care of no one but himself, if don't have a job you need to be looking for one. 5, Always want to know what's for dinner. 6, Will trying and get more insurance on you, with the hopes of you passing away first. 7, He a night huncher, when your sleep want to bump up against at night hoping you give in or give up some. 8, He's sneaky, ain't no woman got a man all to herself, if she thinks so then she a #1 dummy. 9, He's not going to tell you everything, they don't think that highly of us. 10, Con artist, cheat, liar, no way is he God's gift to women, God said "trust no man."
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
@Huv-T-Man
5 ай бұрын
Who hurt you????
@shirley9209
5 ай бұрын
@@Huv-T-Man Life's a funny thing, my mother always said "keep on living", " I was blind now I see" to answer your question Buck head Wayne.
@TynishaWilbourn
Ай бұрын
I believe what she says though that is a man who just has bad character and lack values. Not all men but this is a certain type.
@justinaolabode8534
Жыл бұрын
Respect is reciprocal. Honor her and she will worship the ground he walks on.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
Facts! Two way street!
@annaupendoMoll
Жыл бұрын
You say facts but didn’t mention it in this video. You should have said it’s a two way street because you made it sound like all men are entitled to respect from their woman
@brendamller
Жыл бұрын
And the Oscar goes to justina Olabode🥂🎯
@mbalenhlezulu8075
Жыл бұрын
You are absolutely right Justina Olabode. It's a give and take situation and nobody is more special than the other. It's exhausting that often times women are the ones who go through the most ,trying to sustain a relationship, some even go to a point of losing themselves in the process of keeping a man who doesn't want to be kept, a man who makes u feel less of a human being, a man who makes it seem like he's doing u a favour yet he is the one who initiated the whole thing from the word "go". If he wants to go he must go and never come back. The majority of women can do perfectly fine without a man in their lives.
@justinaolabode8534
Жыл бұрын
@@mbalenhlezulu8075 absolutely my dear.
@IAMGROOT4EVA
Жыл бұрын
Toxic attracts toxic. If you're toxic and your partner stays, they're one of two things. Either they're weak minded, or they're just as toxic as you. Simple.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
Facts!
@templekanu6740
Жыл бұрын
Not true. Most toxic people pick out a perfect victim. Two evil people cannot cohabit for long.
@vmac38
Жыл бұрын
No, we care if a woman loves us. If she knows how to truly love, then she will respect you. This goes for men towards women. If we truly understand what love is, we will respect and treat a woman accordingly. It doesn't mean perfection, just honest effort to want the best for the person you say that you love and the relationship. It means willingness to compromise, listening, active listening and sacrifice.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
Well said!
@Huv-T-Man
5 ай бұрын
Indeed!👍🏿
@ameliahorn1
Жыл бұрын
Y'all men that get the upmost respect from women will still leave. They don't leave because the woman is not respecting them. They leave because she finally decided to stop taking his crap. Also, if a woman is disrespectful and talking mess, you can best believe that man was disrespectful to her or the relationship first. Women just don't start being disrespectful for no reason. Real men understand this ,and they take accountability. BOYS LEAVE!
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
😩😩
@checkthisout3736
Жыл бұрын
Facts, sis Facts
@charleslsledgeiii3683
Жыл бұрын
Accountability goes both ways. Never seen a coin with 1 side.
@henryhughes5678
Жыл бұрын
You right that happen to my mom and sisters
@cesarcamacho5223
Жыл бұрын
You have to accept that YES! BOY LEAVE and woman should do better for their men not to leave. Men dont like cheap messy women.
@SageOfTruth1111
Жыл бұрын
Honey, that woman he would leave me for the other woman doesn't got much respect for herself. My daddy always said, " A man will be where he wanna be" You can't keep anybody they will be wherever they want.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
That part 💯👌🏾
@Fungigi
Жыл бұрын
It’s a two way street. A disrespected woman shows her anger in a lot of different ways. Some men feel like they should be respected regardless of how they treat you. Poor treatment yields more of the same.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
You’re right!
@vonking9118
Жыл бұрын
Well True respect is not fair weather..all of us may act unkind at times. .. God according to his Son jesus.said God Give to the thankful and unthankful.. Let sun and rain fall on evil and the righteous ..as an example for us Why would God tell us to do this If this can 't be done...Luke 6:35** In other words...we can respect the disrespectful..we can show love To person that don't act lovable. We show respect to the police Even if they don't necessarily deserve it...
@kiddchris9579
Жыл бұрын
@@vonking9118 Why do certain men always use authority figures as an example for why they should be treated with respect? If you disrespect an officer it is likely you will go to jail. No one should respect their partner out of fear of punishment.
@Autumn-zd9nq
Жыл бұрын
Sweetie, there are respectful wives everywhere wondering why their men cheat. Men mistreat you because of who they are not what you do.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
Yes I know! We’ve gone over this SEVERAL times in the comments babes. 😘
@Autumn-zd9nq
Жыл бұрын
@@TiffWithTheTea Do not assume that everyone reads the comments. Some of us just leave ours and move on.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
@@Autumn-zd9nq clearly 🤔
@panama2468
Жыл бұрын
Where everywhere? Women pick bad men, and give their good to those bad men, and then complain that their man is bad. And when a good man comes along, that same women is bitter and withholds her good from the good man, based on her experience with the bad man. Good Men do take note of how hypocritical you are. Bad men mistreat you just bc they are bad men.
@josiecedeno2057
Жыл бұрын
Amen!!
@km-qc3iv
Жыл бұрын
This gets exhausting. Basically, you can never tell what is in another person's brain, whether you are single, in a relationship, married, etc. When you go to meet your maker, you go by yourself. You can be the perfect weight, height, complexion, the prettiest or most handsome in the room. You can do everything that person asks you to do, be as submissive and helpful as you can possibly be, and still not make your partner happy. Because sometimes the issue isn't even with you, it can be with the other person. That person can leave and move to the next, but still end up unhappy because they haven't corrected what is going on inside of themselves. We are creating a mindset where people will feel like they have to shrink or change themselves in order to match someone else's unrealistic expectations. It has got to be a mentally exhausting time for these young people out here. Seems like a lot of hurt individuals out there. Gosh, it is too much.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️what’s exhausting is these comments
@km-qc3iv
Жыл бұрын
@@TiffWithTheTea This is what happens when you start the conversation
@Maryann2024
8 ай бұрын
Me and my boyfriend both respect each other we both feel special and we have the strongest bond
@octaviusbrightwell6215
Жыл бұрын
The love has respect and the respect shows love! They work in tangent with each other!
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
Facts!
@CeeSparks
Жыл бұрын
Ppl seem to miss this. I literally can't see love with no respect infused in it. Lol
@feliciagray5781
Жыл бұрын
I can’t imagine a woman that’s cooking, cleaning, staying in shape, and giving him sex, isn’t also respectful to her man. I mean, this scenario just really makes me then wonder about the man. I’m not doing all that for a man I don’t respect. Just don’t make sense.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
Maybe you’re right…
@pimphandstrong6620
Жыл бұрын
A Wyman that doesn't respect her man isn't doing all of that shiit
@feliciagray5781
Жыл бұрын
@@pimphandstrong6620 exactly which is why I’m very confused by this video lol
@nataliewalton5118
Жыл бұрын
Yeah, she threw out all these wonderful ways a woman can respect her man but said who cares if you do that?
@SoCalOnTheBeat
Жыл бұрын
respect is respect stop naming other extra stuff the main thing that has to be for sure is respect and peace! off top thats not even asking alot 🤦🏾♂️ see woman got this complex brain and way of thinking that if this relationship or marriage get boring its a possibility i will leave! facts! and if the relationship or marriage aint how you expected it then its time to leave soon yall want everything how yall want it the world dont work that way! and its proven facts woman initiate most of divorces! facts and it dont even be nothing big till where you cant fix it yall just wanna do what yall wanna do
@gaimmmeeee
8 ай бұрын
I dont see why women get pissed after hearing about respecting men ..whereas ' 'respect women ' is a term used by vast majority of men
@elginwinston3390
Жыл бұрын
Respect is key
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
Facts!💯
@stephaniebailey4236
Жыл бұрын
Respect goes both ways. A man who respects a woman who loves him, shows her respect by not cheating. Respect goes both ways.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
Yes we know! 👌🏾
@JG-np1qg
Жыл бұрын
You should say it 3 times.
@reginagolden3291
Жыл бұрын
I knew a good Christan women who honored her husband with all her heart she died because of him, that maybe true sometimes but he'll leave the best of them if his heart is not there, respect is a two-way street.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely. Relationships should always be a two-way street 💯👌🏾
@lusungumkolla6672
Жыл бұрын
Have you tried
@word3652
Жыл бұрын
Yeah, thats true but woman receive respect differently. When we love you(Eros) not in word only, but protect and provide for you, mentally and physically. Thats what a woman needs from her HUSBAND. Love is her respect. Respect is a man's love from his wife.
@atukundakunda1906
Жыл бұрын
Thanks dr
@estherkariuki616
Жыл бұрын
Example osinachi the singer, later that man killed her. Respect is for both side ,if aman lacks this for me he can go to hell and burn to small,small particles.
@uniquea7971
Жыл бұрын
If only it was that simple, a man does whatever he wants he will leave you just because he feels like he wants something new, even after giving him all the love and respect in the world.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
😩😩
@prynceal6762
Жыл бұрын
After giving him what u think/thought was "all the love and respect in the world".
@rodsteel6595
Жыл бұрын
We want 3 things.... Love, respect, and devotion.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
💯💯
@ladym7198
Жыл бұрын
Thank you idk where they got that from
@responsherbility
Жыл бұрын
If he is not in his position. She will not understand her position. The end.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
Ok I like that 💯✌🏾
@mbalenhlezulu8075
Жыл бұрын
Precisely 👌
@luisvasquez7406
Жыл бұрын
I'm an old school man , a classic man, not a pimp, not a hood, no gangster, no womanizer, loving my wife of 30 plus, and I totally agree with you. God Almighty I been wanting for a true woman like you to say it , thank you Lord. Say it like it is, yes madame 👋👍😊
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
💯👏🏾👌🏾
@ththim7785
Жыл бұрын
All men are not to be respected. Period! Respect must be earned. The fact that you are a different gender than I, is not enough for me to respect If a man plays the role that God intended him to play in a woman's life, God himself will ensure that he gets there respec that he deserves. The bible says, a wicked woman is giving to a man who does not fear God. No amount of talking will ensure that. A lot of men are WICKED! So, God gave him a wicked woman. There is a spiritual side to this thing. When my people who are called by my name turn from there wicked ways I God will hear from heaven and heal their land. No one can override the judgement of God.
@mbalenhlezulu8075
Жыл бұрын
So happy for you Sir😊🤗. U are a king👑 and she is a queen 👑❤😍❤ More blessed years to you and your family❤🙌. The good behaviour shall be passed on to your next generation. ❤🙌
@orlandojohnson5742
Жыл бұрын
Lotta women aren’t gonna agree to this today! It’s exactly what the problem is now! Ole school had a different love & respect for one another! My mom misses my dad (he’s been gone since 2015!)…. But the love they had for one another was real!
@ga6589
Жыл бұрын
@@orlandojohnson5742 The past always looks better through rose-colored glasses. I know many loving and long lasting marriages today, including my own. I also know that in the "good ol' days", many women were stuck in miserable marriages with a bunch of kids. They were afraid to leave, as they had no job skills to earn a living. Oftentimes, the "man is the head of the house" malarkey led to abuse and wife-beating.
@Thennszn1
10 ай бұрын
Not a "pick me", she's enlightened! FACTS! 💯💯💯
@brooklynguy8744
Жыл бұрын
Aretha franklin said it. JUST A LITTLE 'RESPECT '
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
💯💯that’s right! R-E-S-P-E-C-T, find out what it means to me!
@ninacanders7835
Жыл бұрын
Respect is just half the battle. You can be all that he need and want, love, honor and respect, a great woman, uplift, build and encourage. HE WILL STILL LEAVE!!
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
I’m tired of this shit 🙄
@commonsenceaintsocommonnom1496
Жыл бұрын
@@TiffWithTheTea right they need to stop
@commonsenceaintsocommonnom1496
Жыл бұрын
If he left after love and respect then he just didnt like yoass in the first place and I'm sure she seen that?
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
@@commonsenceaintsocommonnom1496 of course she did. She just wants to pretend she didn’t 🙄 typical
@ryanphillips5591
Жыл бұрын
Nina Canders Did you ever ask your ex that cheated, why he did? Seems like your opinion isn't complete.
@TemptressMoon
Жыл бұрын
Girl please. These pickmes kill me. My cooking, cleaning, sexing, baring his children and all the other ish I’m burden with that help him be a man are my respect. Women don’t nag for no reason. They do it because they aren’t happy with something that man did. Respect is earned not given and if he wants to go… then Bye Felicia.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
Smh this applies to good men in a HEALTH relationship 🤦🏾♀️
@yemiserachkebede3344
Жыл бұрын
If a man wants to go, who will stop him?. Live him alone. Let him go! Period ! There is another man who is for you.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
🤨🤨
@CeeSparks
Жыл бұрын
They go hand in hand. To love me is to respect me. My husband needs both. Same here. We've had these discussions as it should be among couples. What man if he truly loves you, doesnt want to be loved by you?
@ladym7198
Жыл бұрын
💯exactly
@tootie70127
Жыл бұрын
Respect to most men = don’t question him, let him cheat in peace.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
I don’t think so 🤷🏾♀️ but that’s just based off of my own experience with men
@chamiltonmgb
Жыл бұрын
Right! Shyt! 😆
@ladym7198
Жыл бұрын
😂 right
@KayQhosa
6 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@pamalawilliams550
Жыл бұрын
A man who is mature, recognizes that respect has to be neutral. Men, do care if you love him, he wants that, just like we want to be loved. We as woman, have to stop worrying if he stays or not, we just need to be ourselves. I know this because I'm with someone that meant me when, I was a size 9, size 23 and size 16. He works through things with you because he can handle that. Men who are not ready to be committed will complain about things u do.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
You have good points as well…
@checkthisout3736
Жыл бұрын
Only a woman who has been married longer than 10 years only understands this truth right here, sis. You hit it on the nail...mature...💜🕯🙏🏾
@chelseashaffer7727
Жыл бұрын
Can we talk about the ways he failed to realize how he disrespected her first?!
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
🤔🤔🤔
@4thwave323
Жыл бұрын
shut up
@glecservices3114
Жыл бұрын
So sad that you even had to say this, what Ashame poor you
@brqbui
Жыл бұрын
Respect, like love, is a choice that should come unconditionally and naturally in a commitment. The difference is that you can respect without loving, but you cannot love without respect. So women needing love inherently needs his respect, so if a man loves you, then he has already been admring and respecting you. Men needing respect more than love shows men need less than women need, and if she can't give the bare minimum, then it wouldn't be the man's fault especially if he's been trying and still loving her.
@chelseashaffer7727
11 ай бұрын
@@glecservices3114 who are you??
@movencool
Жыл бұрын
facts, cause if you respect me I know you love me
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
💯👍🏾
@terryjohnson1250
Жыл бұрын
Wow! Finally two women truly understands. That’s all men wants is respect and peace.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
It could all be so simple!
@terryjohnson1250
Жыл бұрын
👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾
@denisej.smith-perry4949
Жыл бұрын
So true...and a woman can do that as long as she is not toxic...he's not toxic...
@squeint
Жыл бұрын
And what does a woman want?
@sheilahenriquez5871
Жыл бұрын
Then if he gets that from his woman then that should also make a man return those actions all the more...😏
@rbranfordrb
Жыл бұрын
How many “pick me” do we need on these KZitem shorts. They hanging on for dear life!
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
Yes we are! 😂
@breibyrd4132
Жыл бұрын
100% true. Showing & maintaining respect for any man is far more important than love.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
💯💯
@ladym7198
Жыл бұрын
If she doesn’t love you she won’t respect you forever. There is no respect without love in a relationship
@breibyrd4132
Жыл бұрын
@@ladym7198 There no love without respect, as respect is the prelude to love. We're taught to be respectful before we leave home, simply because we're a reflection of our family.
@gayleduncan8544
Жыл бұрын
I have to respect myself and demands that he do the same. Some men no matter how much you respect them they still going to leave. They had no good intentions from the beginning. Sometimes they leave you for another man! Facts!!!
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
You’re also right
@danajaye2911
Жыл бұрын
Adorable. Respect is essential in order to do all those caring things you mentioned. Women lose respect over time with ungrateful, disrespectful men that do not reciprocate. They are stuck working and paying bills, taking care of the kids and home and the man is spoiled, lazy and full of himself. Women lose their patience asking for respect and then they get mad and start talking ‘out they neck’ 🤔😂 Whatever. The man gets doesn’t want to step up and keep promises and promote the health of his current relationship- because he is immature and bored and society doesn’t support his marriage vows either. So he stays playing with other women until one of them gets pregnant or his wife kicks him out because she’s doing everything on her own and he’s cheating and disrespecting her! You are young and think you know- give it a decade and you’ll find out. There are truly remarkable men out there that keep their promises and enjoy being the head of the family- they make it a priority. If you are fortunate to find one- cherish him and make him proud he chose you. Your children will thank you for it.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
Some things go without saying. I wouldn’t be talking to women who have ungrateful, disrespectful men who “do not reciprocate” And yes I know all about the truly remarkable men out there that keep their promises and enjoy being the head of a household, as I have one and have been married to him for 6 years now 🤗
@pippiesroom4822
Жыл бұрын
Everybody think they know the formula 😂😂😂.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 everybody has an opinion about this who “think they know the formula” 😆 IMAGINE
@okwudirilinus1193
Жыл бұрын
The love that will secure me is the love I give to myself not the love or respect a woman can offer to me.I was born alone in this world not twins.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
🤔🤔🤔
@naturelover6883
Жыл бұрын
We deserve respect too We’re not slaves sorry. We ain’t always nagging for the wrong reasons. If we remind you to pick up your socks more than once then what do you expect We do everything and they’ll still leave It’s character above all
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
No one said we were slaves 😒
@carlanaturalcurls7260
Жыл бұрын
You gave him all the respect in the world when you cooked and cleaned behind his sorry ass. There is no way you can please no man 100%, and I don't even try to have the time cause I am not the one.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
😆🤔🤷🏾♀️
@doriscrumpton7887
Жыл бұрын
If a man doesn't respect u and u allow him to stay around then u are telling him u don't respect yourself. A man will stay and keep disrespecting until they find a woman they will respect and marry🙏🏿 💯 👌🏽
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
We are not talking about men who are disrespectful
@SeekingGod77
Жыл бұрын
My man told me this I was like what … he said I want your respect more than your love ….. I was like dam im learning a lot from you…. He said baby I must love you more than you love me and all I want is your utmost respect…. No problem dear
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
Amen. I love that he communicates his needs to you.
@ga6589
Жыл бұрын
respect (definition): 1. A feeling of deep admiration for someone or something elicited by their unique abilities, qualities or achievements. 2. Due regard for the feelings, wishes, rights, or traditions of others. I think everyone wants to be respected, whether you're a man or a woman. If it's absent in a relationship from either one, it's doomed.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
Also true👌🏾
@walterkennard5880
Жыл бұрын
You respect your damn boss man. If you can't love and respect 💯 me at the same time, you're not my kind of girl.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
💯💯👌🏾
@ladym7198
Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@queenbeaute9967
Жыл бұрын
Keep ur preferences and stay strong 💪🏾
@Chiqsan
Жыл бұрын
By "Stay" you mean NOT cheat bc majority of them don't go anywhere. They just step out.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
🤔🤔
@ZipporahRian44
Жыл бұрын
Respect is a part of love. But yes I hear you loud and clear. My man said his love language is respect. So love, honour and respect your husband ❤
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
💯💯
@hrushikeshavachat900
44 минут бұрын
A man needs respect and wants love. The women need love and want respect. As a male, I would rather prefer a girl who respects me, but whose 1 percent pretty of the girl who loves me but doesn't respect me.
@ChrisSmith-qc7hv
Жыл бұрын
Now being a grown man now I understand why God say she don't have to love you but respect you now I understand the power of the word respect
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
It’s true!
@shirleydaniels9310
Жыл бұрын
And his idea of respect is being his door mat and his mommy
@KingJames-qe4lv
Жыл бұрын
Who hurt you?
@squeint
Жыл бұрын
@@KingJames-qe4lv what makes you think that she was hurt? Maybe she saw something growing up that caused her to be cautious. But regardless she has an opinion and should not be gut punched for stating it. Even the person that made this video can't take it when someone has a difference in opinion. This is how it goes with misogynistic men. And that's why they die alone!
@nadajohnson3826
Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣 exactly
@nadajohnson3826
Жыл бұрын
@@squeint amen
@thisandthat1523
Жыл бұрын
@@squeint you came swinging huh. Never fails. Your ex is not here for you to shadow box. Focus on being a single mother.
@christine2952
Жыл бұрын
I think as women , we spend too much time worried about men and what they want and need. Waaay too much time!
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
🤔🤔
@ataglance556
Жыл бұрын
LOVE AND RESPECT are CRUCIAL among OTHER wholesome qualities and a real man will reciprocate 😎💯
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
💯💯💯💯
@lessonlearned1525
Жыл бұрын
When a woman is "nagging" it's because there are things a man should be doing that he isn't. If he listened to her and showed her respect she would only have to ask once.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
Not always the case but there’s some truth here…
@jeffjones8955
Жыл бұрын
It's about time these women put other women up on game respect is #1 💯
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
💯💯
@orlando9510
Жыл бұрын
Disrespect is really a blow below the belt.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
💯👌🏾
@TheMr007247
Жыл бұрын
One thing she got wrong. Men aren't the main ones leaving relationships.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
🤔🤔🤔🤔
@standingtall223
Жыл бұрын
A man will do what he wants to do when he wants to do it, Women. Stop trying to figure men out and put the effort and energy in loving, understanding who you are, and living a good quality life. And also, stop listening to other women telling you about men or chastising you about men. They're doormats.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
Your mother is a doormat.
@aginggracefully1391
Жыл бұрын
STOP IT 🙄 You can be everything a man wants, and he will find a negative excuse why he isn't staying.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
You’ve missed the point love.
@aginggracefully1391
Жыл бұрын
@Tiff with the Tea That also includes RESPECT! The question is, does he have what it takes to respect you! What gives 🤷🏾♀️ Do to him, what he does to you, he would not be able to handle it. Stop settling for those types of men, and there wouldn't be a topic like this. I'm quite sure that you want Respect and Peace too!
@charsafrazier9953
Жыл бұрын
You can respect a man and he can still leave it depends on the maturity level of the man
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
Also true.
@sherrybartels3530
Жыл бұрын
He really didn’t want you at first, Just needed some place to lay his head, until he get his shit together
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
🤔
@Jacqueline-mz9fj
Жыл бұрын
Damn! so True🖤 I approve this public announcement. All women need to hear this.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
💯✌🏾
@queeno547
Жыл бұрын
What if you love and respect him but he keeps on cheating then what..
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
Well that depends…are you married? Besides the cheating is he disrespectful? Does he fulfill his duties as a man?
@tylercampbell6365
Жыл бұрын
If you're a good woman and you do all the above with respect and he leaves..He wasn't a real man to begin with and definitely not the man for you.. Leaving is a good thing..Makes room for the one..
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
🤔🤔
@sociableman3333
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely true my beautiful sister. Once a man is respected, you will definitely be loved ☺️.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
Facts💯
@Petlex67
Жыл бұрын
No one can keep a man no matter what you do. He has to WANT to be there by keeping himself
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
👌🏾
@karenhall8330
Жыл бұрын
A Loyal man will stay regardless of nagging if they love you, but a cheater no matter. they'll cheat and leave you .
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
🤔✅
@brendamller
Жыл бұрын
And the Oscar goes to Karen Hall 🥂👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿🎯
@dennismitchell6979
Жыл бұрын
Ain't no man Loyalty to NO woman that nags all the time women rule number one treat men the way you expect to be treated ? Stop trying to figure out why a man will not stay with you and just look in your mirror would you stay with yourself with your attitude hell no exactly you are your own problem get yourself right before you try and find a man period.
@karenhall8330
Жыл бұрын
@@dennismitchell6979 well I'm not angry, I'm just commenting on a subject with what i experienced . I've been married over 23 years,.. and from my experienced of being married a long time. . is that everyone, naggs once in a while, sometimes because of communication problems, my husband also nagged at times as well, an he was also a Christian that loved and cared for his family, and never left me or cheated since we were married. however, there's a certain type of man that will cheat, and there's a certain type of man that does not cheat regardless because they know what's really important ,.they put God principles first, they have respect for the relationship the marriage and family. Most immature men used nagging as an excuse to cheat, because they don't have the maturity not to be selfish, disrespecting his wife and children, because he lacks the control to be loyal, and want to sleep around.
@lillyrodriguez1619
Жыл бұрын
Respect and honor goes both ways
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
Also true
@johnbar6628
Жыл бұрын
A man and woman they supposed to respect each other lift up each other love one another have a great family. That's how you build a great couple they're in love amen 🙏
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
💯💯
@DELMERABFITNESS
Жыл бұрын
If he can comfortably leave, he wasn't gonna stay and he shouldn't!
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
🤔🤔
@mxdivah7
Жыл бұрын
We REALLY do not respect nothing that doesn't Respect himself FIRST... SECOND respect me!!! PERIOD
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
🙄🙄
@iopakayalo3459
Жыл бұрын
RESPECT and LOVE is a two way street. I held down a job too, assisted with meeting him half way with food, bills, school fees, saved money, contributed to medicare, cleaned, did the washing, cooked but he still cheated. After 11/15 years, I lost respect and love for the guy. I had to choose me first after I had been clinically diagnosed with chronic depression. Turns out I never even realised it was Narcissism coz I never even knew such a word existed until 2 years ago! When I reacted to the abuse, I made things worse for myself. 😏
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
It goes without saying that relationships should be a two way street…I’m sorry for your experience
@TBWL829
Жыл бұрын
when a woman is a wife. she's going to talk. she's going to ask for things. she's going to remind and repeat things to him because men can be lazy, forgetful and hard headed. always remember the wife is usually the person is keeping their husband alive. by booking his doctor appointment.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
🤔🤔
@leeb.2930
Жыл бұрын
The only way a man stay with a woman that disrespect him, is, if he's trapped. (kids, money, etc) Some men always have an exit strategy if things change, and sometimes they do in mid stream.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
💯💯
@leeb.2930
Жыл бұрын
People sometimes have premeditated, selfish agendas. After their exposed, here comes misery. All in the plan.
@HerRoyalPriestess
Жыл бұрын
If a woman is disrespectful to a man 9/10 he is disrespectful to her. If you want respect you should give it.
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
💯💯
@That_one_guy_Travis
2 ай бұрын
I know this video was a while ago but I appreciate the fact you are telling the truth. Some women(no offence) do not understand. My bother used to have a girlfriend and she was such a rude and mean person. She would make my brother feel like he can’t be normal around her,and she got mad at him for dumping her.
@cecilia77779
Жыл бұрын
I cant respect someone who call me names and Yell I grew up with a dad who showed my mom respect..I almost got ran into the ground
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
💯👌🏾 big facts. We don’t do that
@Melissabarroc
Жыл бұрын
You cannot find your worth in any one but you
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
💯💯
@tequilachanel7312
10 ай бұрын
“You really think his gonna stay?” 😂
@ibrahimmohammed1556
Жыл бұрын
I swear you are 50000 % right yah stay blessed
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
💯👍🏾✅💕
@goldmanbobby9039
Жыл бұрын
You have to wonder why she is complaining. Is it because he isn't giving her what she needs
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
😒😒
@fredpapa4928
Жыл бұрын
Love = Respect. Fact
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
Big facts!💯💯
@IAM-nb4yk
Жыл бұрын
My girl is diagnosed bi-polar & drinks heavy. She started with verbal abuse then moved to physical. As much as I love her the respect has left & so have I. Respect in my eyes is love
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
Yikes! I’ve been there before. Heal your heart, it gets better.
@caramellymel3922
Жыл бұрын
A MAN WILL NOT BE KEPT IF HE DOES NOT WANT TO BE KEPT! PLAIN AND SIMPLE
@TiffWithTheTea
Жыл бұрын
🙄🙄
@caramellymel3922
Жыл бұрын
@@TiffWithTheTea you just keep on living! You’ll see sweetheart🥹
@prynceal6762
Жыл бұрын
Facts x 10000000000!! If we feeling like u don't respect us then we also feeling like u don't love us.
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