As a cop, I really appreciate how deep you got into explaining the anatomy of how the system blatantly functions.
@SibsM93
2 күн бұрын
Thee most clear, fact based and unbiased analysis and commentary of this situation that I have heard all week! Props
@radleyclack9513
2 күн бұрын
These are the types of OPEN conversations parents SHOULD have with their kids.
@en1575
Күн бұрын
I do,i tell them the world is not only black and white
@GodForMe22
3 күн бұрын
Nota should have stayed in the U.S
@VuyisileLunguza-pw1rj
2 күн бұрын
For ?
@nkosinathikhumalo3523
2 күн бұрын
Indeed
@with_palo
2 күн бұрын
But his home is here in South Africa.
@matsienthati
2 күн бұрын
An unbiased and educational breakdown! Thank you
@nhlakadlamini7181
2 күн бұрын
I love that you took thus as an opportunity educate both male and female about rape and it technicalities cause it's really that complex I also learned myself thank you
@DiceRoll213
2 күн бұрын
45:00 Rest in Peace Bafana Sithole...a teenage boy who killed himself after he was falsely accused of rape by a school mate. The "accuser" then said she was just joking💔....where is the accountability for females?
@mayalippert2046
2 күн бұрын
Exactly 😢
@Twinkle_Lethula
2 күн бұрын
Did she somehow get arrested? Because she has to be arrested. She's evil ngwanyanola
@sokotimandlazi9147
Күн бұрын
Penuel, the first time I saw you was on Maponga Joshua’s Sankofa, and I knew right there and then that the larger SA media space was headed towards a new era. I must say, I feel like you guys in the alternative media space have almost completely revolutionized the way we consume information and pop culture. Big ups to you and the team! You guys are doing great work. Keep pushing forward!
@DAMILENDAGANE
2 күн бұрын
At this time we support Nota, be strong Authority
@mayalippert2046
2 күн бұрын
Freakin hell. I'm watching this again later on, after the kids are in bed. I'm super impressed with your delivery!
@Dijo_Vu
2 күн бұрын
This was so educational Penuel, big ups 🙏🏽
@Tukstah360
2 күн бұрын
this might be one of the only platforms I would be willing to speak out on if I could, because you are balanced in your review of what rape actually Is, however I am being silenced by the terms of a protection order. I cannot dispute nor deny how much of this is relevant to my case because I don't know how it can impact the outcome of my case. Thank you for this take, I believe it will be sobering for many people and, regardless of the outcome of my case, this is an important contribution to the conversation surrounding rape. ..I wanted to add that all I ever wanted is a fair unbiased trial, with a judge that would look at the merits of my claim rather than the mood of social media and I'm praying to God that is what I get, I might have to go it alone because I cannot afford Good legal representation. But I have Faith and I know my truth
@mikesishi8471
3 күн бұрын
Pen I hear you, but I 100% agree with Nota, imagine what this would have done to his image had he not spoken up
@mayalippert2046
2 күн бұрын
Surely his lawyer could have spoken on his behalf and deal with anyone who threatened to cancel him? He can't just say as he pleases. This is the real world, not Nota's world.
@heathermbambeni529
2 сағат бұрын
What image?
@lebomsweli
2 күн бұрын
wow Pen is so smart😢😢😢😢I wish you could host seminars about these issues I learnt alot from watching you & I must make it my task to watch you religiously….Please approach the government for funding for educating young people especially in school about such, it will help alot of people & such situations may be avoided
@pinkhappynesslady5331
2 күн бұрын
This is lovely, it hits home when they say;"what if it could be your brother".
@nondumisodlamini8939
2 күн бұрын
🙏 God bless you for this piece about consent every young boy should hear this because it’s such a thin line 🤞
@WatchMan666
3 күн бұрын
In all the examples you have mentioned, were all the accused gents went off the map, it fucked up their bag. Maybe its time a falsely accused gent tries a different approach to protect himself.
@Thatsong-fr9nq
2 күн бұрын
Like what route?
@unitedcolorsofafrica2027
2 күн бұрын
Awesome delivery Penuel. .... Ey Nkosiyami, rape is something else, and so many people never get justice. I'M REMINDED ABOUT MEN WHO ALSO GET RAPED BY WOMEN, AND BCOS THEY MEN, THEY USUALLY REMAIN SILENT
@jacksonnkabinde9238
3 күн бұрын
If we being honest according to the chats we can see Itu tried to use the incounter as leverage to extort Nota
@lebogangkekana7530
3 күн бұрын
exactly. she wanted a career or serious relationship. how can we still take her story as credible. she didnt sound like shes mentally stable
@nyashamahleko7007
3 күн бұрын
@@lebogangkekana7530 No one is Mentally stable after a rape.She may need help and support for the rest for her life.
@jacksonnkabinde9238
3 күн бұрын
@lebogangkekana7530 she offered him sex in exchange for his services, even sent him songs and told him she'd forget about the incounter if Nota got the songs playlisted, she wanted industry mavuso
@TerryGrootboom
2 күн бұрын
Earlier in the convo she said she doesn't want to have sex with him. After a few visits she said she's pulling back because Nota doesn't respect her boundaries. This is important context. Is she extorting him? Certainly! Is that proof he didn't rape her, no it isn't.
@justkiingza3928
3 күн бұрын
If Toll ass mo spoke earlir his career would have ben saved h spoke too late Nota is doing well
@coachMims
3 күн бұрын
Very true 7:35 Nota isn’t behaving like the executive he says he is.
@lopezdube9043
2 күн бұрын
How does an executive behave?
@coachMims
2 күн бұрын
@@lopezdube9043 he calls his lawyers and tell them his story and and
@Tee-e4i
2 күн бұрын
Rape is increasingly being defined by a woman’s perception rather than being strictly bound by legal statutes. A case in point involves a virgin girl, presided over by Acting Judge Thembeka Ngcukathombi. In the South African context, anyone who has had intercourse with a virgin is at risk-she might later claim that she was sexually violated. It amazes me how quickly men forget everything when temptation is in front of them. They engage in the act without ensuring they have collected evidence of mutual consent. In the future, it seems that sexual intercourse might require the presence of legal officials, written oaths, and witnesses of sound mind to ensure clarity of consent. Perhaps even a live inspector will need to be present to confirm that what is taking place is indeed consensual sexual intercourse. It raises the question: in today’s world, who truly knows what consensual sex is anymore?
@kwazilucas
2 күн бұрын
You are saying what I once said that all sex is rape because if you had sex with a woman and she said you raped her even though she initially consented, then they gonna say you raped her. Rape is basically what what the girl says, she if she feels you raped her then you raped her.
@mayalippert2046
2 күн бұрын
This is so sad. Someone's life can change overnight due to false accusations. My heart goes out to any boy or man who this has happened to! I'm putting myself in their shoes. If something like this were to happen to my child, I'd be devestated! Ladies, pull yourselves together! If you've ever done this, shame on you! I wish the worst of illnesses on you!
@nyashamahleko7007
2 күн бұрын
So with perception should trust.Should only trust the man perspective.If a Woman smiles or does anythings sexual does it mean i can rape her.Should we start trusting only Man.Are man the logical ones only.We had centuries of trusting only Male version the story,and this way didnt work.
@nyashamahleko7007
2 күн бұрын
I think you are right.We should have presence of legal officials, written oaths, and witnesses of sound mind to ensure clarity of consent.Yes in that case we can remove all unsure rape accident.Maybe Man would be more careful if there start engaging sexual intercurse and we can remove the 60% rape cases on underage girls.And i would to talk about Sexual coercen on Woman and gils.No Man should be having s.. with an uncounsen Woman or girls .That is called RAPE
@en1575
Күн бұрын
@@mayalippert2046they don't c that they are killing our communities by these false allegations,cause now majority of men will be convicts,ex convicts and once the man's reputation is ruined there's no future for him.
@mayalippert2046
2 күн бұрын
Nota needs to understand that his right to freedom of speech is limited. The State (prosecutor) can and might add additional criminal charges! Both crimen injuria and criminal defamation can apply here (on the face of it). The complainant is staying in her lane and so should he!
@azikiwez126
11 сағат бұрын
Remember nota is not convicted he is the accused person , so he has the same rights as the complainant and the complainant has to prove the allegations.
@mayalippert2046
9 сағат бұрын
@@azikiwez126 I don't think he's even made a first appearance yet. I think the docket is still with the IO for investigations? But ultimately, his charge sheet might not only consist of *grape* at the rate he's going at. Mochochisi might instruct IO to investigate additional charges. And yes, both accused and complainant have the same rights. Complainant however doesn't go on podcasts blackening accused's name.
@ezy78667
2 күн бұрын
When you look at the chats you can see that Nota initially sexually violated this lady (who clearly set some boundaries) - However, she saw that as a tool to manipulate Nota to get what she wants and when the plan didn't work she then went to open a case! Her giving him an ultimatum was the worst thing she could've done for herself. This matter isn't black and white, very tricky "according to their chats" 😢 I feel sorry for her, seems like she is desperate to do whatever it takes to get her career rolling! Well, that's if the texts are legit!
@Thatsong-fr9nq
2 күн бұрын
Can you please clarify,which part of the chats shows that he violated her? Which part?
@shaunvlogs2035
2 күн бұрын
There is absolutely no text or sign of Nota violating her in the chats
@Thatsong-fr9nq
2 күн бұрын
@@shaunvlogs2035 So these people make up stories from emotions. Thats what women do,its annoying
@azikiwez126
11 сағат бұрын
@@Thatsong-fr9nqand no takes the to account for such bad acts
@mayalippert2046
2 күн бұрын
This was SO SO GOOOOOOOOOD man!
@NeoNtshole
2 күн бұрын
Love your balanced opinions❤
@luckmash2015
3 күн бұрын
Yeah I agree Nota doesnt understand the gravity of these allegations. However how does one defend themselves against these allegations, because there's no coming back from this. His reputation is tarnished for life. I just think he is the type of guy who would want to get ahead of all this and start managing his reputation, however the courts dont care about your reputation. This shit is crazy, like you said its complex and complicated.
@nyashamahleko7007
3 күн бұрын
What are you talking about.The Womans reputation is tarnished.Finding a another Man is going to be difficult,on top that she is going to be Victim Blame and beeing laught at,blamed and shamed by other Woman and Man.She is going to seen as a Prostitues.She is the one loosing.Man in this system get away with everything
@tshidisomoraka8861
Сағат бұрын
One thing you don't do is bash the person who opened a case against you esecially in public.
@fulumukwevho4744
Күн бұрын
My problem with something you’ve said regarding Lady Zamar is that a man can be acquitted of a rape charge but they are still labeled a rapist for the rest of their lives. Bafana knew that which is why he decided it would be better to end himself. Even if you win the case and it’s proven beyond a reasonable doubt that you did not commit the disgusting act of rape, you will be labeled a rapist. It’s important that we make an example out of the women who falsely accuse men of this disgusting act so that the people who think it’s a good idea to weaponize sex and use it to extort men that you will not succeed. Now I’m not saying this is the case with Nota but women who do this need to be shamed and face the same consequences as us men will have too if the opposite was true. Thats just my 2 cents about this matter.
@tumi39kekana99
2 күн бұрын
The SCA upheld the appeal of the Eastern Cape case.
@Cookingwithgugu
2 күн бұрын
I agree with you 100% for the first time,even if he did 2 strokes and was told to stop,if he continues the 3rd stroke is a rape.
@faithsibisi9988
2 күн бұрын
This is such a useful and helpful video ❤
@theonly6359
3 күн бұрын
Good advice.
@LuyoloDyantjies
2 күн бұрын
Thank you Grootman, mindful
@aobakweCup326D
2 күн бұрын
Preach god Penuel. 💯💯🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@nondumisodlamini8939
2 күн бұрын
Unfortunately she can’t sue for sex work coz it’s illegal and for any contract to be enforceable it should be legal
@Akha141
2 күн бұрын
She is no victim, she's an extortionist... No rape victim is "raped" and still makes demands of compensation through music promos or demands an exclusive relationship with her alleged "rapist" Nota is a victim here, but i am truly disappointed in him he allowed himself to be over powered by lust.
@nyashamahleko7007
2 күн бұрын
@@Akha141 Yes it is called Stockholm syndrome. Sometimes rape,domestic victims do fall in love in there abusers.
@mayalippert2046
2 күн бұрын
I'm wondering if this (lust) isn't the case for the majority of men? Not saying it is so... Just wondering 🤔
@Akha141
2 күн бұрын
@@mayalippert2046i mean it is the case for both genders. Men will succumb to the act of lust which is sexual intercourse Women will lust after the benefits that come with giving their bodies sexually to men in a transactional manner.. Like in context to this matter the sex was consensually transactional from both parties... Except the woman saw it as a loophole to extort.
@lopezdube9043
2 күн бұрын
Power by lust is always men's down fall through history and in the bible
@siyandamazibukoonlife3611
2 күн бұрын
@mayalippert2046 true, siyasithanda isibumbu singabantu besilisa. 95% of men, myself included always find ourselves in such situations. It just happens that we haven't been in positions where we find women who see a window of opportunity to use that against us.
@The_Don0709
2 күн бұрын
thanks man for schooling us
@Professor_Stark
2 күн бұрын
Social media really is a double edged sword. It can raise awareness or land you in hot waters. Ska Speeta Mfana! Chilla and avoid being reckless with clapping cheeks!
@Thatsong-fr9nq
2 күн бұрын
@@Professor_Stark We are being emasculated. They will cry for real men and wont find us
@sonininyaniso9683
3 күн бұрын
Hey hey the man's problem is that they don't talk. When you talk it must be harsh harsh. Someone's life is on the line here from both sides trying to keep quite doesn't help.
@nyashamahleko7007
3 күн бұрын
Only the Woman life is on the line.Man get away with everythings.So what are talking about.Woman loo their value,name,dignity and everythings.
@Thatsong-fr9nq
2 күн бұрын
@@nyashamahleko7007people must not lie to punish others
@lopezdube9043
2 күн бұрын
What are you saying?
@BillySehurutshe-bh4je
2 күн бұрын
My brother most of the time I don’t agree with you marry this one 100% agree with you this is dangerous in South Africa there’s no people who hold more power than women
@RoseKotana
2 күн бұрын
I wish most ppl can listen and choose wisely before any act
@matamelaratshibvumo1018
2 күн бұрын
This got me very emotional😢💔
@trdhlamini7458
3 күн бұрын
Very sensitive issue...22:50 it gets very tricky
@mayalippert2046
2 күн бұрын
Agree. Best to steer clear of *porn*. Things can go downhill fast.
@amandamatikinca9208
2 күн бұрын
Nota is going to jail for sure, he was already wanted by the state.Whether the allegations are true or false , he is shooting himself by being arrogant and going to podcasts as well as sharing private and confidential information about this lady without her consent
@shaunvlogs2035
2 күн бұрын
Shes the one that went to the papers first to expose her case Nota is just using media to retaliate as well this matter is not private at all
@duncantsolo3273
2 күн бұрын
Thank you panuel
@thembamakubalo54
2 күн бұрын
For the record MacG was never implicated on rape. Amanda said anyone who was rape by MacG must come forward and no one came forward
@Mashwabade917
2 күн бұрын
It is indeed complex q
@TUMELORAKHALE
Күн бұрын
Penuel nawe you’re wrong ,firstly you have a relationship with Nota why not attend these points privately ,and then you can do content after the case.😢
@Accuface2000
2 күн бұрын
Penuel, you must stay away from Nota. He is an attention seeker, thirsty for the limelight and will do anything for fame. We are dealing with a narcissist who thinks he is the kingmaker, an untouchable Teflon John. The dude was in the USA avoiding a pending trial, and the first thing he does after coming back is involving himself with women of questionable character. I thought he said "Sex is not for pleasure" on your podcast but he is doing the opposite in the background. This guy is spoiled, let him learn life. He sees himself as P. Diddy.
@mayalippert2046
2 күн бұрын
Pending trial? 😮
@tshidisomoraka8861
Сағат бұрын
Ya'll told this guy his genius over and over again now he actually believes his always right and nobody is smarter or knows more than him.
@malebs8332
2 күн бұрын
All I can say Pen if there's anyone who needs to take this lesson, is yourself my brother, and believe, you have angered a lot of women with the way you handling your kids issues and all, women can be vile, one will come with intentions of taking one for the team and take you down. Be careful, my brother.
@papamamtshatsheni5991
3 күн бұрын
Nota knows the ins and outs of the industry. I doubt if he's that careless about how he handles himself through this ordeal.
@kgothatsoc4nong688
2 күн бұрын
Hell hath no fury.... and please people Don't put words into my mouth
@siyasb79
2 күн бұрын
I just switch off when there's sexual accusations. The only people that know the truth are the people involved, the rest of yawl opinions really dont hold any surface. #Out
@kevin_7__6
3 күн бұрын
Nota might have rubbed some ppl the wrong way.
@lamoola9279
3 күн бұрын
Literally?
@melanated7437
2 күн бұрын
@@lamoola9279😅😅😅😅
@jonajonie4066
7 сағат бұрын
False allegations have very dire consequences. There was a story on Cutting Edge of a guy from the Eastern Cape who was falsely accused of rape. Poor guy was convicted and did the time. When he came out, he became a serial rapist due to anger. Then he was arrested for things he actually did as a result of the first experience.
@Dimasi2
2 күн бұрын
7:59 I think he need to share the conversations. The public actually does prosecute.
@ronniewiseman7651
3 күн бұрын
CALL NOTA ON THE PODCAST MY GUY
@CarolineDladla-f8d
Күн бұрын
Straight talk doesn't break friendships, this is not a joke, I spoke with my boys about this case Nota case and also told my girls that please be alert but don't accuse boys because of heart breaks 💔 cos you also have brothers
@nkululekomabaso1629
22 сағат бұрын
You’re right
@ndumisomakhukhula4890
2 күн бұрын
Like u once said Nota like to be South Africa's Andrew Tate I believe that is why he went to a podcast like the Tates does
@tsamontlemotsie2720
22 сағат бұрын
Nota is too focused on destroying this lady. We understand that the lady is wrong but body shaming her exposing private details like this her finances and etc. But narcissist are like they will damage you she must ask Berita. Nota doesnt respect women and its sad to watch....
@azikiwez126
10 сағат бұрын
Nota is the accused. Are you close friends with him? How you know he doesn’t respect females? How many females you know that he disrespected out of the females out there.
@zaka3956
51 минут бұрын
That girl will lose this case if she decides to go to court those whatsapp messages will help uNota
@vanscalo
2 күн бұрын
With friends like you who needs enemies? You definitely one of NOTA 's haters ....you just say things without thinking.
@ohlangeni
2 күн бұрын
Agreed. Nota is handling the situation correctly so far
@livinganddyingabroad
2 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@mayalippert2046
2 күн бұрын
Penuel, not the bj example! 😂 I'm laughing coz it's true 😂😂😂
@Him2703
3 күн бұрын
Nota cant be our hsre smashing no more
@tumelo181
2 күн бұрын
But honestly now as Guys I think we both need to have a video recorded before having sex because Even when there was consent a few days later she might change
@nyashamahleko7007
2 күн бұрын
Man privlied is caming to an end and Man are been held to task.No one is allowed to Violante someone else Temple Period.I am happy Patriachy is breaking down.NO is NO
@mzansitrash
2 күн бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@siyandamazibukoonlife3611
2 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂 Aii kubi😅🤞🏾
@adolfmudau9956
3 күн бұрын
nota gonna fight for ever he got lawyers for days
@Thatsong-fr9nq
2 күн бұрын
He got x/twitt bundles and podcasts appearance for days.
@mangie_mmb
Күн бұрын
Mawutshela u Nota yena uthin
@kwazilucas
2 күн бұрын
Rape is a very complicated thing and at this point its like if a girl says you raped her then you raped her. I understand when someone is being forced by a stranger. But your girlfriend or wife or friend saying you raped her and you think it was consensual then that's something else.
@zimasajam
3 күн бұрын
I'm surprised that Nota only has text messages as evidence, as intelligent as he is.
@Thatsong-fr9nq
2 күн бұрын
What else my guy?
@zimasajam
2 күн бұрын
@Thatsong-fr9nq video footage, audio recording and witnesses. The encounter happened at Nota's home if I remember
@Siyambonga_Mbasane
2 күн бұрын
@@zimasajamlol how would he get such? Do you do that with people you sleep with?
@livinganddyingabroad
2 күн бұрын
@@Siyambonga_Mbasaneas for video footage like how 😂😂
@ruudbwoy404
2 күн бұрын
Ai, hektikk🙆🏽♂️
@freetv1278
2 күн бұрын
Should have called him
@nyashamahleko7007
3 күн бұрын
I feel sorry for her.She may need Therapy and healing for the rest of her life.He actually damages another human being.S.. Trauma can be inherit to the next generation,so i hope she is going to have help.
@Thatsong-fr9nq
2 күн бұрын
No you must to get all the help you need because you have not healed. Dont project. How do you know he damaged her? Were you in that room??
@nyashamahleko7007
2 күн бұрын
@@Thatsong-fr9nq No Woman cries for rape if it didnt happens.And yes rapes Victim need help.And if she is lying want i dont think ,she still needs help.Stop protecting rapiest .Man like you are part of the problem.IF this was your daughters would react the same way.He demages her.And Karma is caming
@nyashamahleko7007
2 күн бұрын
@@Thatsong-fr9nq Man like you protect,support and cover for male rapiesnt.If was your daughter you would react different,but because this is someones else daughters you dont care.Man like you are sick
@nyashamahleko7007
2 күн бұрын
@@Thatsong-fr9nq @Thatsong-fr9nq Man like you protect,support,defend and cover for male rapists.If that was your daughter you would react different,but because this is someones else daughters you dont care.Man like you are sick
@Thatsong-fr9nq
2 күн бұрын
@@nyashamahleko7007 You are being emotional my dear but I look at facts. You saying she can never lie about Rap,but if she is lying then she needs help? You are confirming that some people do lie. What if they lie against your Son/husband or Brother? There is a reason why we have qualified judges who dont use emotions.
@NxibeloSibulele
2 күн бұрын
There are no caring guys in the internet world. If Pen talks to Nota why is he saying these things here and not tell them to Nota? Xelela uNota not the world, show sensitivity cause you talk to the guy
@azikiwez126
10 сағат бұрын
Nam ndizibuze lonto yaz
@sandiso808
2 күн бұрын
I got a buddy that went to prison for rape and got out because there were voice notes where she was admitting to lying, He got out of prison but the stigma is still on him he's still known as the guy who was accused of rape
@godpenuel
2 күн бұрын
@@sandiso808 did the lady ever get arrested?
@sandiso808
2 күн бұрын
@@godpenuelshe ended up moving to another place cause people kept reminding her that she falsely accused someone of rape
@godpenuel
2 күн бұрын
@@sandiso808 No jailtime 😭😭😭
@Dimasi2
2 күн бұрын
4:17 Netflix
@mduduzimakhoba8304
3 күн бұрын
Kurojwene lana
@Pelohzewrlwide08
3 күн бұрын
13:23 🤝🏾
@Pelohzewrlwide08
3 күн бұрын
26:01🤝🏾
@Pelohzewrlwide08
3 күн бұрын
27:39😂🤝🏾
@thealmightysbupotcastandth8716
2 күн бұрын
🤔🤔🤔🧐🧐🧐🇸🇿🇿🇦
@NeoUnfazed
2 күн бұрын
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@anelekutwana7408
2 күн бұрын
Uyindoda kwedini
@7hmnchart
2 күн бұрын
Emtee is one of the haters 😂
@aobakweCup326D
2 күн бұрын
@macg and @dudumethula, lets have PENUEL for this topic.
@theAfroSamurai
3 күн бұрын
I'll say it again, My Goat is alota things lol but not a rap*st. We standin on bidness🥷
@mazwideamahle4091
Күн бұрын
Nota also comes across as deceptive , cunning..... highly manipulative....wouldn't put it past him.
@theAfroSamurai
Күн бұрын
@@mazwideamahle4091 I'm not disputing any of that Amahle. Im just saying ukuthi mina I choose to stand on bidness and stand by my goat. I was a fan of his before these allegations, I will remain a fan even during this time and I'll still remain a fan even if he goes to jail. We standing on bidness 🕴️
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