4:18 this quote was given to me by Katya Zamolodchikova. Expectations are premeditated disappointments. 7:53, I've been there too. It is so liberating when you finally get to the point of not having that particular expectation/ hope/ need from men. I've never used a man for money or anything but companionship and hope. And once you set up the IVF, you can be hopeful on your own. If it helps you any, I got 100% positive feedback on guys being okay with me undergoing IUI/ IVF. Though, I eventually got back with my ex- Though I still need IVF. Wishing you the absolute best, and your estrogen puff reminds me of young mommies to be. You wear it well! ❤💖❤
@jonabumstead-jv2ql
6 күн бұрын
I took my fifth estrogen pill this AM. I feel you. I want to soak up and enjoy life, but this summer was just a stressful and hormonal blur. Cheers to being so close to our first transfers!
@backupplanpod
6 күн бұрын
Keep me updated!! I love hearing how my transfer sisters are doing. ❤️
@Samia1311
7 күн бұрын
You should write a book - your diary of your experiences and path to motherhood :)
@backupplanpod
6 күн бұрын
Oh, don’t think I haven’t thought about it!! 😉 Thank you for the validation ❤️❤️
@erikaueda
6 күн бұрын
Don’t be to hard on yourself, tender friend! And thank you for being so open about your feelings. You are truly the best! Lots of love from Portugal.
@backupplanpod
6 күн бұрын
You’re the best, tender friend
@hanafri8
6 күн бұрын
We all feel like that from time to time. It's that breast cancer scare,and having to postpone everything. Once you had the transfer of the embryo you will have so much to look forward to. Being a mother will be such an achievement 😊 Your donor is quite attractive😊 Just stick in there! You will get rid of that extra weight after your baby 👶 is born,it's just the hormones. All the best best 👌 for you. Can't wait for your journey to start❤
@backupplanpod
6 күн бұрын
Your words are so kind!! Thank you thank you. ❤️
@mollymccormick825
6 күн бұрын
Love this, friend. Relatable in so many ways. Maybe it's estrogen, maybe it's age, but I also think the decision to have and support a baby is just .... a huge life decision that will change your life completely (no matter your circumstance!) and you're giving it the space and gravitas needed to process (not many do!). Hopeful that the precipice will give way soon ❤ (Also what if ... this bad summer just means you get to exchange it for like, a Euro summer down the line with the bebé? I can see it.)
@backupplanpod
6 күн бұрын
I love you so much, old friend. ❤️ Maybe I rent a Euro Summer House with bebé and you come?? I can also see this.
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