a relationship isn't about who is right or who is wrong (having said that; violence is wrong), it's about investing the time and effort to understand and love each other more. it's about how we can do better for each other. i agree working in F/I can be tough but that's no excuse to disrepsect / neglect your wife. i agree your wife could do more based on your account of her daily habits but that's where communication comes into play. you said a lot of "she SHOULD do this she SHOULD do that" that's an expectation that you have (rightly or wrongly) that needs to be communicated and quite frankly she may not agree and it's not a case of she's right or wrong. everyone has their opinions to living their life just like you and your dad and in this case your wife. ideally this communication comes into play before marriage but if you can't come to an understanding then divorce might be an answer as you're clearly not a match for each other. try replacing the "should" in your statements/expectations with "could". she COULD do more, yea sure but what have you done to facilitate that aside from throwing money at the situation. just cuz your mom put up with your dad doesn't mean your wife will/needs to put up with yours. good luck bro. it's a long road ahead.
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