If you had told me in the beginning that the husband was a 40-ish successful businessman and wife a 32 years old eye doctor, living in Taiwan, I could have predicted the rest. In addition, the mother-in-law is a control-freak, interfering with the lives of this married couple. You did not get married to the man; you were chosen to fit-in to this family! The rest unfolded entirely predictably. The marriage was doomed to fail. Your ex-husband wanted a compliant wife, yet intelligent and prestigious, so that he could show you off socially. He does not treat you as an independent person with your own mind. You will continue to struggle regarding bringing up of your two children. You two are completely different in your sense of value. To him, his sense of value is entirely based on the dollar. To you, it is common sense and mutual respect. You two will never see eye to eye! I hope other women in Taiwan will learn from this story. It is similar in other places too, for example, in South Korea etc.
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