《淨空法師 - 學佛答問》
地點:新加坡佛教居士林
日期:2000/9/18
編號:第十三集
檔名:21-90-0013
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問:「如果有人恨我,應如何化解?大概需時多久,自己能否感應到惡緣化解了沒有?請開示。」
答:這個問題問得很好,這是一個普遍的問題,也是非常重要的問題。我們在世間,說實在的話,因為我們一生造作的惡業多過善業,我們處事待人接物,我們的惡念多過善念,我們自私自利念頭行為多過利他,於是冤親債主就太多了。雖然佛菩薩教導我們冤家宜解不宜結,可是我們有意無意、不知不覺中與眾生結下了許多的冤仇。這些冤結,我們起心動念想化解,這是你真正覺悟了。
用什麼方法來化解?簡單說,用真誠心、清淨心、平等心、慈悲心就能化解。別人恨我,我不但不恨他,我還要尊敬他,我還得要愛護他,我們永恆都不變。大概需要多久時間?永遠都不變更。毀謗我的人,侮辱我的人,陷害我的人,我們沒有一絲毫怨恨的念頭。
為什麼沒有一點怨恨的念頭?我們想想佛經告訴我們的「因果通三世」,所謂「一飲一啄,莫非前定」,他來侮辱我、毀謗我、陷害我,必定是有原因。什麼原因?總是我過去生中對不起他,我也曾經害過他、毀謗他、侮辱他,今天他這樣對我,這是報應。懂得這是報應,我們就歡喜接受,不再有報復心了,這個帳到此就了結。如果還有報復的念頭,麻煩就大了,冤冤相報沒完沒了。人一定要覺悟,無論別人用什麼手段、方法對待我們,我們在此地銷帳,這個帳勾銷了。我們歡歡喜喜,一絲毫怨恨的念頭都沒有,慢慢地對方覺悟了,也就不會再恨你、罵你、侮辱你。為什麼?他覺悟明白了。這是我們對他的回報,幫助他覺悟,也幫助他消業障,成就自己的德行,一舉數得,這是好事不是壞事。所以我們自己不要跟自己限定時間,對於怨恨自己的人,永遠的愛護,永遠的關懷,永遠的幫助,這樣冤結自然就化解了。
Summary:
Summary of the Article in English:
*Question:* If someone hates me, how can I resolve it? Approximately how long will it take, and how can I sense that the bad karma is resolved?
*Answer:* This is a very important and common question. In life, we often create more negative karma than positive karma, leading to many resentful relationships. Despite the teachings of the Buddha and Bodhisattvas to resolve enmities, we often inadvertently create more. Wanting to resolve these enmities shows true awakening.
To resolve this, use sincerity, purity, equality, and compassion. Even if others hate you, do not hate them back. Instead, respect and care for them genuinely and consistently. This attitude must be maintained indefinitely. Regardless of any slander, insult, or harm, harbor no resentment.
Why should there be no resentment? According to the Buddhist teachings on karma, such negative interactions are due to past actions where we may have wronged them. Understanding this makes us accept these actions as repayment, eliminating thoughts of revenge and ending the karmic cycle. Without such understanding, the cycle of retaliation continues endlessly.
When we joyfully accept these situations without resentment, it helps the other person gradually understand and cease their hostility. This attitude helps both parties dissolve karmic debts and cultivates virtues. There is no set time for resolving enmities; maintain perpetual love, care, and assistance to naturally dissolve them over time.
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