I am a Malaysian. Some years ago, I finally traveled to Cambodia to visit Angkor Wat and to watch the moment the morning sun rises from behind the sacred temple. When the sun was about to come out, a Chinese lady scolded her son very loudly, and he cried on the spot. What I can remember after so many years is the loud noise made by that woman, which ruined everything. Thanks to her ! (I have been to China 10 times, and I know how Chinese people behave, but this was way too much)
@Reborn_in_Malaysia
Ай бұрын
This is so commonly seen Chinese parenting mode of “humiliation motivates and makes a man”😭
公眾場合吐痰。 My husband and I were planning to rent a condo in Shenzhen. A lady agent was bringing us around for the viewing. When we get inside the house and start to look around the small studio unit, the young lady suddenly making rough noise with her throat, then she just spit to the kitchen sink right in front of us!! My husband and I were shocked, but we pretended nothing happened 😂.
@@Reborn_in_Malaysia 其实真的不必特别推广,最有效的就是由上至下的效仿而已。还有就是同理心,这真的觉得部分很缺,所以很难沟通。送上我们这里所有民族由老到小很流行的一句话吧,我也是常和孩子那么说“give and take"我们得先付出才能取得, 施比受福。共勉之。
@ysyean6762
Ай бұрын
@@tungmongling5161 I am Malaysian. In my opinion, this practice must be implemented continuously. I was shocked when I visited Shanghai in 2007 and saw the slogan "Don't Spit" (不随地吐痰) on public transport such as buses. I wonder why this isn't already known by everyone from a young age. However, I feel it must be implemented and emphasized before Chinese go overseas. I have been frustrated by many Chinese people (from China) until now; some of them are really rude. Nowadays, I introduce myself as Malaysia, not longer Malaysia chinese, people confuse and thought i am from China.
@tungmongling5161
Ай бұрын
@@ysyean6762 @ysyean6762 ya, this is the point. If my country everywhere is wrote slogon to warn us not do this not do that I will feel very embarrassed and shame. But seems like most of them in the country feel is just normal or just a display. If you no the feeling of shame no matter how many u warn also no point 😅
@ysyean6762
28 күн бұрын
@@tungmongling5161 We are saying the slogan or signboard display ! Your government should urge people via series of activities, policy implementation and school education, or adult etiquette course !
I wonder if this is more like one of your example (fireworks) that the people are not aware of local rules than a “bad habits”; I often see other race also speaking loudly, yelling at kids, disrespecting spaces etc.. so it’s not fair to just pinpoint it towards a certain race. In respect to wearing your PJ outside - this is common in Canada, we even have PJ day where students wear PJ to school… so I think it’s what you are use to locally and often we judge “others” with these lens.
@Reborn_in_Malaysia
Ай бұрын
I wanted to learn from Malaysians and act like those Malaysians who care for others and community. On the other hand, behaviors like wearing pajamas outside, talking loudly, littering improperly are defined as uncivilized habits by our China central and local governments.
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