Is it just me, or does Jake act like Christian Bale's character from "American Psycho"?
@kara_mel.
3 жыл бұрын
Omg,I was just thinking that..The lack of emotion on his face is chilling..I literally feel like he killed a homeless person just before showing up for this
@claire1rocks225
Жыл бұрын
Yes! EXACTLY
@maximusw01
4 ай бұрын
I see that too. Must be too hip to be square for me 😂
@BL4CKPILLER
Ай бұрын
he's too hip to be square
@witchingbrew3
2 күн бұрын
Very much so. The way he snapped is how the character in American Psycho snaps at the character Jane when she put the spoon in the wrong spot
@juleswatson8298
4 жыл бұрын
When he says “as a matter of fact I flew last weekend” with that weird fucking smile face I got *chills*
@RootsInWisdom
6 жыл бұрын
He's gaslighting.
@pearlbubbles6885
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for pointing this out.
@freespiritxoxo7343
5 жыл бұрын
@@pearlbubbles6885 i lol'd at that
@jenng1770
5 жыл бұрын
what
@t.j.7789
5 жыл бұрын
I just saw that episode of him on that Mario Lopez show, H8tr and he comes off as so sweet and vulnerable. This is spooky!!! I totally see how he manipulated people on that h8tr show. He said he didn't get enough love from his dad. I see in him probably how his dad is.
@-Lily7415
5 жыл бұрын
T. J. When he said about his dad not giving enough love.,bingo that is what turned Jake into a man with narcissistic personality disorder.It is all traced back to childhood.I could tell he had the signs of the disorder before he even mentioned the relationship with his dad.
@crystalhaiku
5 жыл бұрын
He picked the youngest girl thinking he could control her. Sorry dude women have their own minds you know.
@MegKampen
4 жыл бұрын
No the numbest. It was between her and Tenley. He needed to pick someone to help him because famous. He did make it to Dancing with the Stars and Bachelor Pad. Tenley was actually the dumbest but he was more attracted to Vienna.
@colettespencer3357
2 жыл бұрын
Vienna was a firecracker...
@JustinW90
Ай бұрын
It isn’t real. It’s a scripted show.
@LoiDivine
21 күн бұрын
and their mind is f*ked
@tiffanysimkins1301
5 жыл бұрын
When he said “You disgust me”, I literally cringed. My husband would never even dream of saying that to me.. and I wouldn’t ever say that to him. Whew.
@jonathanrocha779
4 жыл бұрын
What if he cheated and acted like he loved you.
@tiffanysimkins1301
4 жыл бұрын
Bønzëaux Błëuxgrēn Sure if she is worthy of the disgust, why not. But in this video there was no signs of her acting in a negative manner. It seems like he just said it out of the blue, with no remorse.
@mitchellmartinsky2299
3 жыл бұрын
@@tiffanysimkins1301 she interrupted him too many times and wouldn't stop talking when it was his turn to speak
@huricanethreeonesix
2 жыл бұрын
That was, how they say in the streetr; 'cold blooded'
@jaweel6205
2 жыл бұрын
He sounds like a simp Tiffany
@kayseecoward7571
4 жыл бұрын
What we’ve learned from both Jake’s season and this past season: Pilots make terrible bachelors
@xolc_arohaox9633
4 жыл бұрын
OMGGGGGG DYINGGGGG
@kayseecoward7571
4 жыл бұрын
Shiloh Ferguson At least Pilot Pete seems nice unlike Jake
@emelietalledo896
2 жыл бұрын
Hopefully a pilot makes a good bachelorette ☺️ because Rachel😍
@kayseecoward7571
2 жыл бұрын
@@emelietalledo896 love Rachael and hope she doesn’t disappoint!
@SnowFoxParty
Жыл бұрын
I mean... have you met Glenn Quagmire lol
@khuyennguyen3967
4 жыл бұрын
“Why are you raising your voice?” Textbook narcissism way of deflecting to answer any real subjects presented, and instead attempting to turn it back on the victim to make them feel bad
@mitchellmartinsky2299
3 жыл бұрын
she seemed to raise her voice
@molotovgirl555
3 жыл бұрын
@Khuyen - Exactly! Spot on. He is so scary.
@qtfusiondance
3 жыл бұрын
She barely raised her voice. Then he raised his voice later and it was actually scary.
@colettespencer3357
2 жыл бұрын
They do that. I was with one...they emotionally confuse you to where you are never understood and then you break...they then call you crazy
@jonathanxavier2026
2 жыл бұрын
This is what women say.
@justsam802
3 жыл бұрын
This is what a narcissist looks and acts like. From the way he sits and composes himself to how he speaks and behaves and is pretends to be the “good guy”. They are arrogant and emotionally unattached; I don’t care how handsome they are, RUN.
@colettespencer3357
2 жыл бұрын
Yep....watching this back...he gaslight her, accuses her of cheating...disdain toward pets....so scary...then, when the woman gets upset....he blames the victim...reminds me of gabby petito...so glad Vienna dumped this loser
@moontide3943
2 жыл бұрын
He’s not even that handsome. Where are his lips?
@saysHotdogs
2 жыл бұрын
@@colettespencer3357 it's the "why are you raising your voice?" after she read off the receipts. She's not even raising her voice. I was raised by one of these things, they're literally not connected to reality. If you really watch one, they say the most insane shit but no one notices because they're smooth about it.
@colettespencer3357
2 жыл бұрын
@@saysHotdogs same...my mom. I left one behind 6 years ago. I was so confused always in the relationship. Always felt less than. After I left, I typed in adjectives of the man I had been with and "narcissist " came up. I learned so much and then understood how usually its in your family of origin that primes you for future narc relationships. I thank God for the understanding. They are vile creatures. Take care! 💖
@saysHotdogs
2 жыл бұрын
@@colettespencer3357 keep consuming that information so you'll know exactly what to watch out for and how to preserve your own sanity if you end up enmeshed with a particularly crafty one (coverts are really REALLY good at hiding.) I wish you the best of luck and all of the happiness going forward. No matter what still echoes in your mind from him, you deserve it.
@juliahyman7795
3 жыл бұрын
Okay why is no one calling out Chris Harrison for spinning the interview to seem like Vienna was the bad guy and that it was the victim’s fault!
@colettespencer3357
2 жыл бұрын
Totally. I see it all now. That shit would never fly now. Horrible abuse of vienna
@donmillican510
2 жыл бұрын
Because she sold their private details to the tabloids.. there was no saving their relationship after that
@andrepicsan2809
5 ай бұрын
Because shes not the victim. Shes the manipulator. No respect because constantly interrupting. Narcissist wanting his attention 24 and when not given what she wants she makes a problem out of it/blowing it out of portion calling it isolation and emotional abuse. Everything he does is reactive to her. A relationship is not always sunshine and rainbows, you need to work things out.
@MLeibs
6 жыл бұрын
His smug grin and squinting smug eyes. Chilling. And I’m no fan of Vienna but at least she wore her heart on her sleeve and shared her vulnerabilities with Chris and us. Jake is so chill with a Ted Bundy inside.
@FordOn5thCigars
6 жыл бұрын
M Leibs yes!!!!
@sharonrayford1048
5 жыл бұрын
Ted Bundy,right! Jake looks like he wants to hit her,I do believe this man could possibly kill a woman if he got too angry! Give it another 5 years he will be on Cold Case Files.Scary!
@vegasbaby888
4 жыл бұрын
So accurate!!!!
@tkmc803
3 жыл бұрын
Sharon Rayford well it’s 6 years later 🤔 Ali and the other girls had spoke out against her!
@HAINE-
2 жыл бұрын
He reminds me of Patrick Bateman from American phsyco like this kzitem.info/news/bejne/t4dqmmSuiJuqm6Q
@Lee935
6 жыл бұрын
He seems completely detached and distant from this conversation. No facial emotions or anything. Sociopath? 🤔
@dani238159
5 жыл бұрын
Narc
@Skittenmeow
5 жыл бұрын
Psychopath
@asbok180
5 жыл бұрын
Lee Pink for sure.... he looks evil the smile is evil
@HK-gm8pe
5 жыл бұрын
for me Vienna seems like total psychopath :D
@pepeluishernandez6306
3 жыл бұрын
Vienna is the manipulative one here
@weronikavanbree837
5 жыл бұрын
I believe her a 💯 percent. She's sincere, upfront, emotional. He's this. Detached famehungry fake shell of a person.
@KajS94
4 жыл бұрын
Hahahahahahaha good joke.
@xoire9754
3 жыл бұрын
@Bønzëaux Błëuxgrēn ? That does make sense. You phrased it like it sounds ridiculous, but it absolutely sounds sensible.
@loveforever8045
3 жыл бұрын
The guy is liar I can see that😅😅😅
@maryhiggins9062
3 жыл бұрын
@Bønzëaux Błëuxgrēn he’s a narcissist
@francelate9488
9 ай бұрын
Ctfuup yu must be white.
@qtfusiondance
3 жыл бұрын
“I have a job in marketing now” “Ha, that’s not a real job, I’m a pilot!” What a narcissist!
@teddybear6630
2 жыл бұрын
All pilots are a little narcissistic tbh
@greggwroblewski1689
2 жыл бұрын
And now Jake is just a garbage man
@theMompreneurMarcie
11 ай бұрын
Literally made me want to punch him
@mtadc1545
9 ай бұрын
@@teddybear6630pretty ridiculous statement.
@teddybear6630
9 ай бұрын
@@mtadc1545🤷♀️
@Toastwig
5 жыл бұрын
2:25 look at how he's ROCKING that whole chair back and forth, he's trying so hard to put on a nonchalant front but he is holding in so much anger
@tessaelto1472
2 жыл бұрын
woahhhh you're so right 😳 scary af
@bruceleroy5585
9 ай бұрын
@@tessaelto1472 he wants to LEAVE. He feels betrayed by this woman. His energy and emotion have left the building. Stop acting like you’ve never felt these emotions and acted this way towards someone you no longer care for.
@LozzieBabexox
Жыл бұрын
He's literally smiling the whole time and she's completely broken. He's enjoying this
@RichObiQuan
9 ай бұрын
As he should.
@bruceleroy5585
9 ай бұрын
He clearly said in the beginning of the interview he was shocked and in a bad space by all this. He feels betrayed. Did you purposely miss that???? He’s just over all this drama. There’s no emotion for this woman anymore and that doesn’t make him evil. You do it to people you no longer want to be around also. You stop giving them energy, and the things they do make you laugh cause you couldn’t care less. Just stop it.
@infamous3ree
6 ай бұрын
Women don't like truth
@WarsawBlues
6 жыл бұрын
'I'm a pilot' - lmao get outta here man.
@dani238159
5 жыл бұрын
I know!! Lol! I'd laugh and run.
@SeanBrown23
5 жыл бұрын
It was the show's producers that lied about him being a pilot. He just went along with it.
@hunnasimon4375
4 жыл бұрын
They alway say theyre pilots lmfao
@donmillican510
2 жыл бұрын
@@auspicious93 he is
@user-ph8xk2ms2p
6 жыл бұрын
This guy is textbook sociopath.
@jenng1770
5 жыл бұрын
how
@A-Train__2
10 ай бұрын
@@jenng1770 open your eyes. he looks like hes about to rock her in the face
@A-Train__2
10 ай бұрын
@@jenng1770 listen to what hes saying hes trying to mentally abuse her its just whack💀💀
@83wasagoodyear
9 ай бұрын
@@A-Train__2😂😂
@bruceleroy5585
9 ай бұрын
@@A-Train__2 how
@nataliepavlovec1616
6 жыл бұрын
Ok Ok Ok...I remember watching this years ago and siding with Jake. But I'm re-watching it right now AND I CAN SEE THE EVIL IN JAKE. Like Vienna doesn't seem like she's so evil...When he laughed at her, I saw the evil in his smile I was like OMG SHE'S RIGHT!
@jasminec2810
6 жыл бұрын
Natalie Pavlovec YES! I LITERALLY was thinking the same thing. First time I watched I was like Vienna is such a little spoiled brat and now re watching jake is DEAD inside. If I was engaged to him I would be scared.
@andand7597
5 жыл бұрын
Are you that stupid?
@sarahd2787
4 жыл бұрын
@@HK-gm8pe Be quite
@YoutubeSun1
4 жыл бұрын
Natalie Pavlovec same with me hon! At first I thought she was a horrible liar. After a few years of my own streak of “Jake covert narcissists” , I ‘m convinced this dude was evil from day 1!
@jrob367
3 жыл бұрын
SAME!!!!
@funchik93
11 ай бұрын
"why are you raising your voice" classic gaslighting move.
@k00pee7
2 жыл бұрын
she dodged a bullet. abuse starts small and grows. he is detached and vacant of emotions and i wouldn't be surprised if he's exposed for being an abuser. truly the worst bachelor. im glad she spoke up and stood up for herself, even as hard as it was.
@colettespencer3357
2 жыл бұрын
Yes, remember Gia Allemand from his season. She was so sweet. Killed herself when some guy she was dating broke up with her...said he didn't love her....ugghh
@the_spotted_quacker
2 жыл бұрын
@@colettespencer3357 I'm sorry I'm not seeing the connection. Its sucks to get your heart broken but it's not the guys fault. He doesnt owe her his love.
@colettespencer3357
2 жыл бұрын
@@the_spotted_quacker agreed. I wasn't clear. Definitely not saying someone breaking up with someone causes that. Narcissism is complex. Just really thi king about Jake Pavelka. Who knows.
@missmew3499
Жыл бұрын
Juan Pablo was terrible too. I guess they're tied for first place for the worst bachelor EVER.
@kaysimatherly5715
Жыл бұрын
I completely agree! How he spoke to her even on this spoke VOLUMES. Just the asking for a kiss is a part of emotional abuse… if you’ve never been threw it you’d never know. And when she called him a liar about the dog thing he fucking snickered and let it be. “Why are you raising your voice?” Condescending af. I see all the signs.
@dolphignition7176
5 жыл бұрын
8:24 I hate when people question why people "raise their voice/shouting" when they're talking in a regular volume!
@vegasbaby888
4 жыл бұрын
Me too, that’s his way of letting her take the stage to make herself look crazy. They fine them and let them be. That’s the Narcs famous way.
@Wowitzkay
2 жыл бұрын
It’s called gaslighting my ex husband used to do that shit to me
@debrastevenson709
5 жыл бұрын
She dodged a bullet!!! Jake is a dangerous psycho and would have made her life a absolute living hell!!!! He looked like the devil incarnate sitting there spewing lies!!!
@User21601
3 жыл бұрын
I believe her 100% over him. He seems so arrogant
@mitchellmartinsky2299
3 жыл бұрын
and she is a little whiny bitch
@lribbonk
2 жыл бұрын
@@mitchellmartinsky2299 men who call emotional women crazy, bitch, whiny is because they are so out of touch with their own selves and their own emotions and they don’t know how to socialize or truly connect with anyone, or communicate literally anything
@mitchellmartinsky2299
2 жыл бұрын
@@lribbonk there's difference between being valid complaining and whiny etc this female is the later
@bruceleroy5585
7 ай бұрын
@@lribbonk what a ridiculous statement
@skypieluv
6 ай бұрын
@@bruceleroy5585it’s true though, I bet you’re one of them which is why you think the statement is ridiculous.
@cazu2479
3 жыл бұрын
You just gotta avoid people like Jake simple as that
@mitchellmartinsky2299
3 жыл бұрын
and vienna at the time, she's a changed person now
@coconutsciencegirl9232
5 жыл бұрын
Jakes mad someone one upped him before he could destroy them mentally. Waaaah
@madisonsmithslll9899
5 жыл бұрын
He is sooo manipulative !
@alexxx5749
2 жыл бұрын
She’s the one running her mouth he barely got to talk
@justinm.1
6 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't be surprised if he got rejected by every girl after this .
@smellycaat
4 жыл бұрын
Sadly he probably still has groupies
@alexmsevans
2 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't be surprised if he didn't
@bouutiquems3578
2 жыл бұрын
Even serial killers have fans and marriage proposals. You are underestimating human idiocy.
@SEmme-ov6yy
2 жыл бұрын
@@bouutiquems3578 true unfortunately
@nataliepavlovec1616
6 жыл бұрын
Oh and btw Jake, you interrupted her as well. Just sayin'.
@Skittenmeow
5 жыл бұрын
Oh wow he's a true psychopath. That empty soulless smile. The degree of narcissism, manipulation, gas lighting, lack of empathy...He is too togethers to be a sociopath. Argh the empty smile
@thatgirlinautumn5995
5 жыл бұрын
Nothing he says makes sense. He is CONSTANTLY contradicting himself, senselessly. That's pure rage and psychopathy
@jozettes
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly what I was thinking, all his arguments are really just him bickering trying to get a reaction out of her. His points to everything she says doesn't have anything to do with the conversation. But damn he is handsome.
@kez5729
6 жыл бұрын
Jake has no emotions
@dani238159
5 жыл бұрын
Narcs never do. They know how to act though.
@bruceleroy5585
9 ай бұрын
It is possible to detach from a specific person/situation and have no feelings for it. Use your brains and deep thinking skills
@Jr.8442
4 ай бұрын
@@bruceleroy5585agreed. We men need to be stone faced at times, otherwise we are considered weak and/or a simp by both men and women for showing emotions in difficult or uncomfortable situations.
@dailyshananigans
4 жыл бұрын
wow I completely believe her you can see how hurt she is and how hard she’s breathing. meanwhile he looks so cold, chuckling, and calling her disgusting.
@leroyrodgers6089
7 ай бұрын
This is a case study in how women are completely different from men. Why do you completely believe her? I don't believe anyone.
@davonfryar-frazier435
7 ай бұрын
It's called acting, lol
@FufaCobain
4 жыл бұрын
im watching this AGAIN in 2019, vienna, my dear... times changed we all love you
@jessicarae6879
4 жыл бұрын
Anyone who smiles and laughs while talking about serious issues and heartbreak that just happened is a total psycho lol
@huricanethreeonesix
2 жыл бұрын
Thats a ridiculous thing to say. So many people, including my uncle and my friends can't help but laugh in painful situations. Don't start to think that the way you process emotions is the one and only way to do it. I have friends who cry in fist fights and friends who laugh at funerals and they're all amazingly sensitive souls.
@bruceleroy5585
9 ай бұрын
@@huricanethreeonesixtruth
@some5794
7 ай бұрын
Or maybe you’re just tired of being with a narcissist
@hunter.5625
7 ай бұрын
Not true at all what do you think all comedians are psychos?
@tajhaiwarner8368
6 күн бұрын
Shut up women
@marqueamore8467
6 жыл бұрын
LOOK at his eyes!!! Pause the video and look! PURE EVIL!!!!!!
@mlovespring7892
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah....theres nothing there in him. He is so emotionless sitting there listening to her Express her feelings. There was nothing! Except, his anger came out when he spoken.
@mitchellmartinsky2299
3 жыл бұрын
she's too emotional letting her personal feelings get in the way and was interrupting him too many times when it was his turn to speak
@thesingdance101
4 жыл бұрын
I remember everyone being against her. I’m glad we are all looking back on this now and siding with HER. I feel bad. We are all now on higher levels of consciousness and can see she’s been emotionally abused.
@jozettes
2 жыл бұрын
Wait people actually sided with that smug asshole? You can totally tell he likes to pick at her because it upsets her.
@sonjaheck3156
2 жыл бұрын
HULU is playing his season. Watch it again if you can - he was terrible but a good liar/actor. He fooled everyone. Plus Ali was a total dick and somehow she got all the god press. Tenley seems ok on a rewatch, but not Ali. This was the first time she had seen him in weeks, since she moved out. And was forced to this interview. Then the show promises her that BIP would be a chance to redeem herself, and that Jake would NOT be on there, and they lied about that too!
@Nish1988
2 жыл бұрын
No im not a fan of Jake but She was a bitch spoiled Pretentious, brst and entitled, whinning like a little girl. she also spoke over him and Interrupted him constantly! enough she is not angel. jake was her Krama and i still enjoy watching this. i side with jake, because at some point your gonna snap at thst person to Tell "Shut the fuck up" I have. Jake didnt even say those words, he said, " Please stop cutting me off everytime im trying to speak". I have been called the Cunt, i have yelled much worse at ppl. again Jake is her Krama
@milacek5942
Жыл бұрын
It must have been hard having all these bad feelings but not having yet those words to describe how exactly you are abused…
@jamesa.romano8500
Жыл бұрын
Same I remember some show either ET or Access Hollywood where they were interviewing two fans of the show reacting to it and they were basically "I did NOT like her" but the more they saw of Jake in the sitdown they were like "I believed everything she was saying." Vienna was FAR from perfect but people watching the interview basically got what they had come to expect from her by this time whereas Jake came off as a completely different person and a borderline sociopath
@LyricalSarah13
6 жыл бұрын
He’s literally Patrick Bateman
@averyvillegas8659
2 жыл бұрын
The fact that she said the first month he was crazy about me proves that he’s a narcissist that used love bombing on her until she was comfortable
@hismom5600
2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely this. So true.
@bruceleroy5585
7 ай бұрын
Every relationship starts head over heels, this is normal not narcissistic.
@liv3450
4 ай бұрын
@@bruceleroy5585doing a 180 in the way you treat your partner is not normal.
@bruceleroy5585
4 ай бұрын
@@liv3450 its normal if your partner is disrespectful like she was in this video to him
@abab9622
Жыл бұрын
She comes across way more genuine. I would like to see a body language expert, decipher this one.
@bruceleroy5585
7 ай бұрын
Just like a baby cries to get what it wants, grown adults can do the same thing, with more intelligence behind it. If you can’t see this woman was emotionally out of control and controlling, you need glasses. Crying does not justify you to interrupt people. This woman successfully manipulates “empath” people like you into feeling sorry for her because she’s teary eyed. Look at the common sense. Jake asked her not to interrupt him. Same way anyone would raise their voice out of frustration. He was not aggressive, but stern. “PLEASE, stop interrupting me.” It’s okay to change tone to convey meaning and seriousness. If it was a woman who did this same thing to a man, they’d applaud her for standing up for herself.
@kellywebber7103
Жыл бұрын
I'm honestly so happy others can recognize the red flags and narcassim in him. I thought this the whole season and that something was off with him and that he was vacant of emption, faking and at times you could see covert arrogance and a mean streak..I thought I'd come to the comments and find people defending him and not her and im so happy that isn't the case and feel validated that having been with a narcissist I can actually recognize the signs in others myself. But I feel so bad for her..he loved bombed her and got her hooked..she didn't see it coming..I'm not happy I'm right because she got hurt but happy that I myself have good judgement. I'm glad she's found love.
@bruceleroy5585
9 ай бұрын
Narcissist because he doesn’t like the girl. Okay. You do the same things to people you don’t like. Your cold with them. Don’t have much energy to give them. But Jake is a narcissist because she’s crying and he’s not crying with her. OKAY
@sanguinepenguin9576
7 ай бұрын
Eh, she was p annoying. This guy is a bit of a tool but she just seems like a huge drain overall. Would've done the same just maybe in a nicer say
@RoseQueen215
Жыл бұрын
I remember having read an article about their breakup in a magazine years ago. The one line that stood out to me was how Jake had been emotionally cold and distant, and how she almost cried when he accidentally bumped his elbow against her because she couldn't remember the last time he touched her. I was in the middle of watching their season and Jake now is a completely different person, like his laid back personality just took a 360 degree turn into a cold monster..
@klonklone7787
9 ай бұрын
That’s what happens when women ruin a good man. You’ll see more & more of it because you’re incapable of accountability for your own actions as women & how you’ve treated men recently in our social norms.
@Stuntman175
3 ай бұрын
If his personality took a 360 degree change, he turned into the same person again. 360 degrees is a full rotation.
@moriahann98
5 жыл бұрын
Ah hell no. If my husband ever spoke to me like, that my next interview would be for snatched🤷🏻♀️
@laracoad8466
4 жыл бұрын
Vienna - you are so lucky you got away from this creep.
@NealFowler
4 жыл бұрын
jake looks and acts like a real life patrick bateman. i half expect him to talk about how great huey lewis and the news is.
@slashnagy6
3 жыл бұрын
“I don’t have anything to fear, I didn’t do anything wrong.” That literally says everything. That is all you would need to hear from this interview to know he is a narcissist. I know because I am one. What he said is a defense mechanism; it is used to protect one’s self from condescending or emotionally abusive parents. Some of us weren’t taught it is okay to make mistakes and that there is no such thing as perfection. For the record, I’ve been in therapy for a year now and I will continue it for as long as it takes to rid myself of these traits.
@lorikavanagh8905
3 жыл бұрын
My husband is in therapy for similar issues. He did not have a good upbringing. Kudos to the both of you for acknowledging the traits as toxic...VERY difficult to do. Best of luck to you
@slashnagy6
3 жыл бұрын
@@lorikavanagh8905 thank you.
@brapbrap8673
2 жыл бұрын
Wow!!! That’s extremely impressive that you were able to identify that you were a narcissist and got yourself into counselling; happy for you!! 👍🏽 I’m sorry if this is too forward or personal as a question but I’m a curious person… and if you don’t want to answer, I completely understand. When did you realized you were a narcissist? Where you always self aware about it? Or did something happen for you to realized that you had that trait?
@saysHotdogs
2 жыл бұрын
what do you mean you WERE one? You are one. Narcissists do not heal or grow or change. They merely adapt. Either you were never one, or you're out here trying to scam like usual.
@chocclat
2 жыл бұрын
Narcissism isn’t a cold you just recover from. It lives on with you even while receiving psychiatric treatment.
@sharonrayford1048
5 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry Vienna! You are beautiful and deserve SO MUCH better.
@ellie3365
2 жыл бұрын
Honestly every single question she had the normal justified answer
@alexisarking8099
Жыл бұрын
This is abuse no matter how you put it . He’s not listening to her , he’s acting like she’s the crazy person , he keeps control until his emotions over flow . This is abuse because he knows what he’s doing and doesn’t care . A man who loves a woman doesn’t make them look crazy when they are clearly crying and upset . If this is how he is on camera behind closed doors is gotta be hell
@bruceleroy5585
9 ай бұрын
What’s type of nosense did you just peck on your phone or keyboard? He’s OVER HER. He stated in the beginning he felt betrayed. How do you treat someone you were betrayed by? Nonchalant just like Jake was here. WAKE UP ALEX. This is not ABUSE.
@LizNeptune
4 жыл бұрын
i can't stand Chris harrison. he doesn't even try to mediate the conversation at all... he does this at the tell all's as well. Let's people scream over each other.
@bdub1000
3 жыл бұрын
Chris Harrison is a corporate bag licker what do you expect?
@mitchellmartinsky2299
3 жыл бұрын
he's the reason why the whole conversation didn't go well he should have handled it better
@shauna3742
3 жыл бұрын
After being reminded about this I hate CHRIS H he is a JERK sitting there abd doing nothing at all
@ieatbeeple1961
3 жыл бұрын
@@shauna3742 So glad he’s gone!
@CoolHandLuke1117
2 жыл бұрын
Why did Chris interview Jake one on one...however, Vienna had Jake there? Seems Chris showed favoritism.
@LSSYLondon
4 жыл бұрын
Looking at this from a place of having not seen this season I can just say he seems really creepy and controlling.
@vegasbaby888
4 жыл бұрын
This is by far the most emotionally disturbing interview I’ve watched. Gaslighting at its best. Poor girl, she’s struggling to speak her part to only make herself look more crazy to a narcissist like him.. pure narcissism at its best, truly chilling to say the least.
@ForeverFashionGirl21
2 жыл бұрын
This is heartbreaking to hear after what I went through this past Friday- no empathy no emotions
@Nish1988
2 жыл бұрын
she was crazy she weak, and too cocky with the othet women she deserves it, she acted like a spoiled brat entitled
@Kartzchen
Жыл бұрын
Gaslighting
@blackvillain4479
9 ай бұрын
Struggling to speak?....she completely took over the conversation and wouldn't let the guy get a word in.
@haroldvazquez
9 ай бұрын
I don't think you watched the same video as we did 😂😂😂
@goats54
7 ай бұрын
He dodged a bullet. Not letting her manipulate him
@Unpopularopinion2024
7 ай бұрын
*Agreed! I stand with Jake! He's a* *survivor!*
@soonerstingergtrwd2906
4 ай бұрын
As a dude with no knowledge of this story...He is absolutely a narcissist. She has issues, but he intentionally pushes her for a reaction. He is disgusting.
@AdamNoizer
9 ай бұрын
The most egregious example of him being a textbook manipulator was after she thoroughly debunked his allegations of infidelity and he replies “well I don’t know what you were doing” and when she responds with “right”, he goes “see so you agree with me that I didn’t know what you were doing.” Merely to get a rise of out of her. Insane people took his side.
@KayJ2012
7 ай бұрын
The part that was so insane to me is how he literally told on himself. He said “I’m a pilot” in response to her saying he doesn’t have a career, she says you have flown in a year and he says “I just flew last weekend” baby if you were a pilot wouldn’t you be flying back to back and he’s acting all smug about it.
@theremidy29
4 жыл бұрын
his whole season I kept being reminded of "The Stepfather" thriller lol.
@sceneandseenful
2 жыл бұрын
I wish Vienna would find her true love. The way he screamed at her, I have been there...
@gabriellechanel7076
2 жыл бұрын
Jake is THE textbook definition of a narcissistic abuser. End of story.
@Editlovehandle
4 жыл бұрын
narcissistic manipulative gaslighters do that bluffing shit all the time and then they try to confuse you. It's absolutely maddening.
@blackllistd5752
3 жыл бұрын
sadly I was in a relationship alot like this and my ex was super emotionally abusive. I believe her 100 percent, this guy is doing so much of the same stuff my ex did to me. Good for her for getting out of it. also my ex would constantly lie to his friends about what was happening with us, his family thought i was using him and was treating him terrible until it finally came out that he was cheating on me and constantly beating me up. I def understand why she would come out about the issues before this guy got a chance to spin it and make it look like she was the problem.
@mitchellmartinsky2299
3 жыл бұрын
he wasn't great but she was no better just watch bachelor pad 2 even chris harrison was annoyed with her
@blackllistd5752
3 жыл бұрын
@@mitchellmartinsky2299 theres a difference between being annoying and being abused.
@mitchellmartinsky2299
3 жыл бұрын
@@blackllistd5752 I know and she was both annoying and mean to her then boyfriend on bachelor pad
@blackllistd5752
3 жыл бұрын
@@mitchellmartinsky2299 I dont know about that because I havent seen it however your comments are irrelevant. Trying to nitpick at someones character in an attempt to downplay another persons abuse behavior towards that person is victim blaming. She could have very well be annoying but this doesnt mean that she in a way deserved it just because she isnt perfect.
@mitchellmartinsky2299
3 жыл бұрын
@@blackllistd5752 she wasn't just annoying she was rude and mean not only to him but to other people during her time on the show
@katherinejames5294
Жыл бұрын
I’m so glad that Chris isn’t a host anymore. He didn’t intervene in any way. He allowed Jake to continue to trigger Vienna. Did anyone else notice how hard she was breathing? She was in full ptsd trigger mode. Many of the questions he asked where designed to cause toxic reactions between the two. Jake was emotionless. The only time he had any display of emotion was him smiling when we got a reaction out of her. His behavior was textbook narcissistic abuse. We are sooo much better off with Jesse hosting now. He actually cares about the people On the show.
@Taitea_____
7 ай бұрын
All these women comment bashing him😂😂 they are same genes with her.
@scarlettwinters5642
Жыл бұрын
His attitude says it all! He’s revolting in this interview, imagine how awful he is behind closed doors
@ellie3365
2 жыл бұрын
His silence speaks volumes
@MalikDelVonte
8 ай бұрын
Narcissism and just being calm and not letting himself get riled up, are two different things
@DestinyC1020
4 жыл бұрын
This poor woman... :( Jake seems like a narcissist I'm sorry. Something is very detached/cold/unfeeling about him. I don't even think he acts like a REAL, normal person. I feel so sorry for Vienna. She just wanted love. :( Jake seems like he was emotionally abusive smh. What a jerk.
@mitchellmartinsky2299
3 жыл бұрын
if you knew what happened you know that she wasn't innocent
@mitchellmartinsky2299
3 жыл бұрын
@Alkimiya Wisdom nope just being real and explaining that there is more to the story than this interview
@bruceleroy5585
9 ай бұрын
He’s just OVER HER. His first words were he FELT BETRAYED! How do you treat an ex who you are OVER and feel betrayed by? You detach, become cold, and “unfeel”. It’s normal, not “abusive.”. You’ve been this way toward someone before too.
@ShyBehr
3 жыл бұрын
Wowow. Watching this back after so many years is fucking disgusting. I used to hate Vienna but now I can see how completely abusive Jake is. It is so damn clear how jealous and toxic he is.
@donmillican510
2 жыл бұрын
And what about what Vienna did to him first
@kevinarzola4781
7 ай бұрын
He sat there and let her talk and get her feelings and point across. But interrupted and attempted to manipulate the interview every time he tried to say anything. He let her bad talk him without saying a word and he couldn’t even get a point across without her input to manipulate
@Mac-dt3iz
6 жыл бұрын
I love her, so sorry to hear about her twins. But good to see she's otherwise happy today
@KingAce49ers
2 жыл бұрын
Jake is so cold & detatched. He has been on multipal reality shows & that is a red flag.
@VickStarkiller
3 жыл бұрын
Vienna was so beautiful.
@lordybelance3410
4 жыл бұрын
Jake is getting me pissed! I hope by now he grew up and learned from his mistakes. I wonder how they're both doing now.
@PrinceDrumstarr
9 ай бұрын
That man waited his turn to speak and he’s in the wrong? Smfh.
@kailynbrennan1412
3 ай бұрын
I remember this when it aired, he’s so incredibly holier than thou and fake. Vienna sidestepped a land mine. Hope she’s happily married to a real man now
@SequenceOfEvents
7 ай бұрын
Just here because Instagram 😂
@SLIM3BALL
5 ай бұрын
Same😂
@noahfreeman6371
4 ай бұрын
same😂😂😂
@cariourso6399
5 жыл бұрын
Thank God they got out before she got knocked up and a child was involved in this. 2 very immature adults. Sadly couples in real life exist like this with children...
@KMnnA
3 жыл бұрын
So true.
@tumelotshabalala1239
9 ай бұрын
He let her speak for what felt like hours.. She interrups him when its his turn to speak almost immediately. Yeah.. I have a funny feeling he might not be as 100% responsible for the fall of the relationship as she says. Communication is key and she sucks at listening and letting people speak. A female Piers Morgan
@SleepyWeepy95
7 ай бұрын
In his defense…She did interrupt him lol
@Carrot578
9 ай бұрын
Na dude dodged a bullet.
@graveyardbabybrinkfangirl4234
4 жыл бұрын
Oh that's a narcissist. I had one of those. He is toxic. The smug face.
@michellemiller9857
2 жыл бұрын
She looks like if lady Gaga and Britney Spears had a love child
@benjamincollins8559
4 жыл бұрын
Jake & Vienna know some of each others favorite food, that's a good start. For reference you can see them on Ellen's show.
@navybeane3313
5 жыл бұрын
Does anyone know how to find the full interview? I can only find this "Part 1" (with no "Part 2")
@reflastori
2 жыл бұрын
now i want a dr grande analysis on this interview
@sayros6711
4 жыл бұрын
When Patrick Bateman tries out for the Bachelor.
@haroldvazquez
9 ай бұрын
Damn shes extremely emotional and i see so many red flags from her side. He cant even speak with out her interupting him! I could see he got tired of her shit. The man dodge a bullet he will never be in peace being with her. Yeah im sure this comment would get alot of hate from women that are the same as her.
@daintydalmatian
9 ай бұрын
She dodged him lol
@bonez_206
8 ай бұрын
@@daintydalmatiandodge deez nuts 🥜
@haroldvazquez
7 ай бұрын
@daintydalmatian not at all, she's a drama queen. Men don't want drama or chaos. Simply peace.
@bruceleroy5585
7 ай бұрын
@@daintydalmatian she is CHOATIC and emotionally out of control. She needs a man who has no back bone and is controlled by others feelings.
@mre8269
9 ай бұрын
She cheated on him and all you losers in the comments think he's wrong, get a life.
@nickatvip9124
3 ай бұрын
Thank you these women ☕️
@southcentrallifestylethein42
9 ай бұрын
Yeah, naw this girl ain't it
@caric8133
Жыл бұрын
She may be dramatic but I completely believe her.
@bruceleroy5585
9 ай бұрын
Please explain the logic in that?
@obsessivefreak2
5 жыл бұрын
Here after Vienna’s interview on Olivia Caridis podcast lol!
@maybememory1
4 жыл бұрын
I wonder how old they were here. This is such an immature mindset. She at least comes close to admitting fault and apologizing, but he just throws it back in her face. No self-awareness, it's all her fault. Even when he says "our relationship was going downhill" he's distancing himself, like the relationship was failing independent of him. Wow, what an ass. No man I've ever dated would speak to or about me this way, even after the fact. Even if it WAS all her (which I doubt), you rise above it.
@wanderlustendumado5396
2 жыл бұрын
She is 22 years old here...
@the_key_x
5 жыл бұрын
His voice sounds like Tom Cruise.... Jake is a complete Narcissist "I cannot fathom her doing this to *ME* "
@haris000000
6 жыл бұрын
Yeah this Jake looks like trouble
@missd3605
3 жыл бұрын
I remember watching this way back in the day and I still hate Jake just as much as I did back then.... I hope he's sought some therapy to get a SOUL.
@PeterLobo-
2 жыл бұрын
I JUST REALIZED This is the SNL. "Sally and Dan , the couple that should be divorced", 😅😅😆😆
@shauna3742
3 жыл бұрын
The show forced them to sit on that couch instead ofn2 separate chairs...
@yup.yikes.7843
2 жыл бұрын
"why are you raising your voice?" common deflection tactic when you start making a correct point. he knows he's being exposed for his ridiculous behavior and he needs to direct the negative attention back to her and make the audience and her feel that "she's emotional" "she gets agitated too easily" and ultimately think "she's not ready to have this conversation." and she's not even raising her voice. he just doesn't like hearing her make sense against him.
@carolinewilson8048
Жыл бұрын
Yep - Very True.
@bruceleroy5585
9 ай бұрын
I honestly think he was doing that as joke to her because she probably does that to him ALL the time and makes it about his tone. Like when he sternly and RESPECTFULLY said “stop interrupting me.”, and she burst into tears like he slapped her in the face. Definitely a “using your medicine against you.” Moment. You have to be with a crazy chick like this to understand.
@stanleybrown1585
7 ай бұрын
This has the kinda vibe that they both are playing a game. These people are grown but neither one of them are adults.
@mindi4992
5 ай бұрын
Honestly I believe they are both toxic for each other. She had red flags as well since the other girls saw something with her and tried to help him and he had his red flags and that drew them together until they broke up.
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