The problems is that in interviews Tom says I did a horrible thing and immediately follows it with a BUT and then gives a reason/excuse for why he cheated, usually blaming Arianna for being mean, dismissive etc. He hasnt said sorry Arianna - full stop. So its hard for people to say ok and move on when he keeps trying to justify the cheating behaviour by blaming Arianna.
@jeanmcginnis9804
6 ай бұрын
Yes,he did apologize SINCERELY to Ariana with no buts or reasons/excuses. Part 1 of the reunion at 17:54. And I bet that’s STILL not good enough.
@janetskelley8555
6 ай бұрын
Yes, I agree, he did.
@tomlightfield3154
6 ай бұрын
Ariana deserves at least some of the blame as it was made abundantly clear that she wasn't boinking Sandoval at all!!! Tell me what guy wouldn't stray if put in that position??? I'll answer that-ALL OF THEM!!
@janetskelley8555
6 ай бұрын
@@tomlightfield3154 Totally agree with you and prepare to get inundated with hate mail. Unfortunately, people don't look at it from that side. They see it as one-sided and Tom is wholly to blame.
@jeanmcginnis9804
6 ай бұрын
@@tomlightfield3154 Look,I’m on Toms side as far as yes,he screwed up,sincerely apologized and has been raked over the coals for this when everyone of them has cheated. They’re a bunch of hypocrites but… Tom admitted he has cheated with 3 different women,2 early on when they were boinking like rabbits😆 so I don’t think he cheated bc he wasn’t getting any…I think he just likes variety and shouldn’t be in an committed relationship.
@margaritakmp
6 ай бұрын
It's so weird how hard Andy seems to be leaning on people to give Sandoval a pass, like give it up already
@lauradogg534
6 ай бұрын
When the audience voted for Schwartz should give up on his friendship and Andy says "wow, that's sad" 🙄
@Reed.E
6 ай бұрын
Andy has ALWAYS had a crush on Sandoval.
@EMANUGARC
6 ай бұрын
Ariana should get over herself already
@necolepratt4057
6 ай бұрын
@@EMANUGARCI agree she’s moved on, She’s not the 1st or last woman that has been betrayed I’m over her.
@mares9393
6 ай бұрын
@@lauradogg534well I mean it was just an affair with a Ho. I mean get over it. She couldn’t have been to upset she was with the new homely boyfriend within minutes. But what ever.
@caroclou1925
6 ай бұрын
Sandoval is just a narcissist!!!
@user-ck5ux4zm2o
6 ай бұрын
Just like Andy is!Both are and both think they're better than what they truly are.
@Duncan6664
6 ай бұрын
I believe Sandoval hasn’t shown enough remorse but it’s time to stop the hate guys.
@brianajensine
6 ай бұрын
No
@KA-eu9sy
6 ай бұрын
Shown enough? hasn't shown any!
@necolepratt4057
6 ай бұрын
Exactly enough is enough.
@prima-madalina
6 ай бұрын
No one has to like him if they don’t want to..
@Preah3
6 ай бұрын
We can point out the differences between James sleeping with Kristen way back when and Tom cheating on Ariana with Raquel but betrayal is betrayal,cheating is cheating and wrong is wrong regardless of the differences....which is why I think Tom was also wrong for bringing up the past when James was looking for an apology for what he did in present time...James is so far from being an innocent person but i do think Tom could've apologized to him.
@katjaxxx7353
6 ай бұрын
James is too funny 😂
@SteffyRodriguezAgredo
6 ай бұрын
So no questions about the abuse allegations for James?
@saramarshall2957
4 ай бұрын
I do think Tom feels bad about hurting other people. I really do. I also think he believed it would be worth it and that he fell in love and that love is what was guiding him at the time. I do also think he loves Ariana, and they have a long history together, and his love for her was also guiding him, but he just got his direction so wrong. When you genuinely have love for someone, then you don't string them along like that. If the end goal was always to be with Rachel, then there was no sense in continuing to lie to Ariana and not end things with her because it was only going to hurt her more and be a bigger betrayal. His love for her should have should have guided him to an honest place where he lets her go so she can move on appropriately. I think he has trouble taking accountability for everything because he thinks love is a good enough reason to have done all this. I also want to add that I don't think he was actually in love with Rachel. I think he just thought he was. His relationship with Rachel was a relationship that pretty much benefited him completely because she is so easily controlled. With Ariana, it's different because you have to give to get with her. Rachel is weak, and she will just keep giving and giving and doing what you want and let you walk all over her. The only thing she gains from it is her sense of self-worth because she gets that from male attention or admiration. When 2 unhealthy people get together it is usually unhealthy.
@janetskelley8555
6 ай бұрын
James is such a liar. Tom and he were friends before James got with Kristen. They were writing music together and James was going to move in. He's rewriting history.
@jeanmcginnis9804
6 ай бұрын
Yeah,he is but people will believe him like it’s the gospel.🙄
@jeanmcginnis9804
6 ай бұрын
I’m so sick of “ Toms not sorry enough” and “ poor Ariana” …just stop already! Y’all want his firstborn?! Everyone of them were unfaithful including Ariana.
@ManergoTones
6 ай бұрын
Team Tom
@jeanmcginnis9804
6 ай бұрын
Me too!👍🏼
@xfactor3346
6 ай бұрын
James is one of the most TOXIC men on reality tv but y'all can't admit that yet because the focus is on Sandoval right now
@jeanmcginnis9804
6 ай бұрын
I can. His emotional outburst has always been disturbing to me and when he threw that drink in Schwartz face?! I really don’t care for him,Lala and Katie.Without the Toms,I wouldn’t watch.
@javiruiz8365
6 ай бұрын
I feel like Andy has a crush on James
@nomadichomebody4230
6 ай бұрын
Tom and Kristen broke up before she got with James. Tom was with Ariana by then. It's not remotely the same and it was so long ago. To doesn't care, he uses the past to justify his terrible behavior.
@dawng.5801
6 ай бұрын
Tom and Kristen were still together when James was sleeping with Christian get it twisted. Ariana moved in pretty much her hands aren’t clean either.
@janetskelley8555
6 ай бұрын
Tom and Kristen were still living together when she got with James.
@kevinryanmccarthy
5 ай бұрын
Rachella! 🎉
@denisecook5640
6 ай бұрын
Gross if its ok for 1 to cheat but not the other...of course it counts...come on..
@hamzahanch
6 ай бұрын
let's talk about james SA allegations
@stmart4097
6 ай бұрын
Shut up andy..it's soooo different.. tom and Kristen were volatile.. he bought a home and was in a 9 yrs relationship with ariana and had an affair with her "friend" for almost a yr..
@jeanmcginnis9804
6 ай бұрын
And? Ariana thought it was ok to cheat with him,KNOWING that he was in a LONG TERM relationship with Kristen but that’s excusable?! 👌🏼🙄 Karmas a you know what!😆
@joannegrieco8523
6 ай бұрын
Sandoval has to go
@josephtrainor9143
6 ай бұрын
THIS SEGMENT SHOULD BE TITLED "GASLIGHTING" - BTW who is the annoying person in the red?
@user-ye6dk2fw6t
6 ай бұрын
Who’s the girl sitting next to James?
@jeanmcginnis9804
6 ай бұрын
Maddie from Southern hospitality.
@carmellacaver2001
6 ай бұрын
Andy will ride for tom so hard
@Ttravel65
6 ай бұрын
Vanderpump rules horrible is it the Arianna and Tom show Ariana comes across like she’s the mob and everyone around her is scared of her as you can see. I guarantee most of the people wanna try to forgive Sandavol but Ariana is becoming like a bossy person I just think the show is not good because it really is all about them.
@jeanmcginnis9804
6 ай бұрын
I agree.I haven’t even watched it yet bc I see stuff like this and I’m so over the Tom bashing. They’re all been unfaithful.I wish they’d all be mature and forgive…it’s not that hard.
@1lizloring346
6 ай бұрын
baby violin forsure
@sarahwashington1461
6 ай бұрын
Honestly I feel Schwartz should never be friends with Ariana! She’s super on her high horse and just not my vibe! Couldn’t be friends with someone like that! Moving on…..
@bruins94laurent85
6 ай бұрын
They all cheat it’s so hypocritical
@jeanmcginnis9804
6 ай бұрын
Thank you! I was beginning to think everyone was a judgmental hypocrite.😆
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