His story sounds so so similar to my 9/11 story except my mom came home. I remember being in school in Math class when we got the news. My math teacher was visibly upset. When I heard the plane hit the building, my immediate thought was wow that’s horrible. It didn’t register that this event affected me. Even though I knew my mom worked down there, it just didn’t click that my mom life is in danger. It didn’t click until the very next period of class. I went to the Principal office to call my mom work phone and cell phone. By that time, there were a line of students who were trying to call their parents that worked in the WTC. I couldn’t get through to her so I left school. I walked home, picked up my siblings from their school and came home. My sibling’s school released them to me even though I was under 18 because I told them my mom worked in the WTC. They were crying for me and immediately released them. I came home to a bunch of voicemails from my aunts, uncles, grandparents, and my mom’s friends and cousins. It was in that moment that it really hit me that I may never see my mom again. The deep sadness came over me and before I can full fall into sadness, the door unlocked. My mom was standing in the doorway covered in white debri that looked like powder and sand. We ran to her and hugged her. She looked so exhausted. We helped her get undress and in the shower. And we laid in the bed and watch the news all night. My mom ran when the tower collapsed and she walked across the Brooklyn Bridge. She walked from Manhattan to our Brooklyn home. She was extremely weak and tired but she was alive and for that I am grateful. She’s still with us but she doesn’t talk about 9/11 much.
@suras8984
Жыл бұрын
im so happy you still have your mom
@stayenyolanebigsby9632
Жыл бұрын
God bless you and your family.
@geetaverma196877
Жыл бұрын
God bless you and your family ❤❤
@geetaverma196877
Жыл бұрын
Till today who works in WTC Towers and nearby that day couldn't get over about 9/11 attack because it was such a horrifying incident for so much people. Also it effects never go away from their life's till they are alive .
@alejandrafretes4707
11 ай бұрын
Bless you, your mother and your family. ❤
@meesh1002
11 ай бұрын
The amount of awe he has for his mom. Beautiful
@ammccoy2142
Жыл бұрын
Words from a loving son about his loving mother.
@Sushi2735
Жыл бұрын
All these many years later, I still cry. It will never change and I’m 71. My heart still breaks for the horrible loss.
@dianealbrecht496
11 ай бұрын
Me as well!
@rubytuesday1316
4 ай бұрын
Being on Long Island NY at this time Im now 65 and also struggle with tears at these. Its not something we get through. Its something we learn to cope with
@Sushi2735
4 ай бұрын
@@rubytuesday1316 It’s our Pearl Harbor. My grandma would cry just talking about it. It touched her heart so. All of us remember exactly where we were when we heard about the first crash………l.the horror begins for a nightmare of a day. I was in Atlanta. I can’t imagine being on Long Island!
@LoweringMyProfile
Ай бұрын
You're not alone. I was 20 years old back in 2001 and whenever I watch the documentaries like these about it I still become overcome with grief. What happened on that day is forever seared in my memory. May God bless the victims, their families and survivors of 9-11-2001.
@annonym06
Жыл бұрын
So sorry for your loss Professor Jeffrey. You are the best Professor i have ever met in my life . Your interest and enthusiasm in class has inspired me so much . Thank you for being such a genuine person.
@vnewen2157
11 ай бұрын
That’s so nice to see someone who appears like a great person with a beautiful but devastating backstory actually turn out to be a genuine person with a great impact on others… thank you for sharing this testament and humanizing this story
@FrancaB-ct3wh
11 ай бұрын
❤
@annonym06
10 ай бұрын
@@vnewen2157 That is exactly true. I used to respect him from the very start, but when i got to know about this ...i was so shook. They say , God keeps testing only the good people and People like him help me keep my belief in humanity
@brookesmith8967
11 ай бұрын
Broke my heart listening to his voice crack. The pain of losing a love one just never goes away. 💔
@commercialzone4141
7 ай бұрын
I imagine Your mother would have been so proud of you. Good son.
@LouisianaAstroRambler
Жыл бұрын
I knew I'd break while watching this, I can't imagine losing my mother, especially in such a cruel way.
@lsnead72
Жыл бұрын
To lose ones mother is the most difficult loss.
@hildeschmid8400
Жыл бұрын
@@lsnead72actually, losing one's child is much worse.
@alisonjmiller5339
11 ай бұрын
Every way you lose your mother is cruel
@LouisianaAstroRambler
11 ай бұрын
@@alisonjmiller5339 I'd still rather lose someone to old age while they're in a warm bed surrounded by family.
@BlackStump172
11 ай бұрын
@@hildeschmid8400I disagree . It is worse for a child ( not adult ) to lose his mother , than the other way around . My grandson suffers my daughter’s loss more than me . His need is greater .
@Yorkiepoo1983
2 жыл бұрын
This is truly heartbreaking. I’m so sorry this happened to him, but I am so appreciative of him for sharing these beautiful memories of his mother. She would be incredibly proud of him. May her spirit rest in eternal peace.
@number13thirteen
Жыл бұрын
I re-watch this story every few months. Please know your mother will never be forgotten, thanks to you sharing your story
@slamdunk406
3 жыл бұрын
Jeffrey was one of my GSIs in the UC Berkeley philosophy department. Great guy. Thanks for sharing his story.
@barbaravyse660
3 ай бұрын
It’s so devastating for children to lose a mother. May she rest in peace.
@KerryMcSweeney
Жыл бұрын
She had a very loving face. You can almost hear the sound of deep understanding to whatever is on your mind. Thank you for sharing your story. I'm so sorry for your loss.
@wrighty553
11 ай бұрын
A beautiful tribute from a loving and appreciative son to his mother; she would be very proud of you.
@kellybeddow6562
Жыл бұрын
He looks atlot like his mama ❤ so sorry for your loss
@BlackStump172
11 ай бұрын
My grandson lost his Mum when he was 8and a half . I worry about his pain and loss that cannot completely heal . This was a very moving voice to hear .
@TheKreature13666
11 ай бұрын
I was born on November 6th, 2002, and I've been going down this 9/11 rabbit hole for the past hour, just trying to learn more about the event than what I was taught in school. (For example, it wasn't until earlier that I learned actor Steve Buscemi was a firefighter and was one of the first responders who showed up to the scene.) All of the photos, home videos, news footage, interviews, songs, and even video games, have not only shown me just how traumatic this event was, especially for those living in Manhattan at the time. But to me, it also showcases just how much this has affected our country within the last twenty two years. I'm not a medical professional by any means, but I believe the United States is suffering with/from something that I like to call: Nationwide Generational Trauma or National C-PTSD. From my perspective, it seems like the only way anything is ever going to get fixed in the US, is if we (as in the whole country) actually work through the trauma of 9/11, and actually begin the healing process.
@dietitianmama
11 ай бұрын
Keep learning about it. There was a dramatic shift in culture that took place after this even that affected everything, including how children in your generation were parented. Many of us who lived through it are aware but not in a way that would change our behavior. But when we say everything changed, it literally means everything.
@ellew4573
Жыл бұрын
A very beautiful mother.
@2300j
11 ай бұрын
Seeing anyone choke back tears breaks my heart.
@meganemery6312
11 ай бұрын
I’ve watched a lot of 9/11 videos but this one is different. Just really hits a personal nerve, hearing a son talk about his mother. So so sad. 😢❤
@andreaadkins5123
10 ай бұрын
My ❤ just breaks for him and his family. And although I didn't know anyone who died in this horrific tragedy....I do know what it is like losing your mother and because mine hasn't been gone long and I know my heart will forever be broken.
@mitzimcewan9124
Жыл бұрын
Your mom was beautiful, inside and out
@PandS100
7 ай бұрын
She seems like such a loving woman my heart dropped I wanted to cry omg this was a tragic day for so many families.
@seyhanguzelordu2530
Жыл бұрын
Professor Kaplan, I am so sorry for your lost.
@srs3572
11 ай бұрын
This poor man 😢
@laurelwood791
11 ай бұрын
Your ,"testimony" has touched me so deeply that I actually feel a connection to you as if I "know" you. No type of weirdo here, just another human being still obviously to this very day effected by 9/11. I wish you all the peace one soul can give to another. Continue asking , studying and seeking answers to those questions sir. God bless you. Thank you for the lovely tribute to your wonderful beloved mother.
@debamodio5971
11 ай бұрын
Beautiful . I’m sure if his mom heard his words she would know she raised a smart , considerate , loving young man . People don’t always see their impact on others . It reveals itself with time . Even though her life was cut short she will live on through memories , stories and life lessons. And her namesake ❤️
@leanneadams2549
11 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry your beautiful mother was taken from you ! Thank you for sharing what a kind and wonderful woman your mother was. All my prayers ! ❤️😞🙏💯
@rebeccafeder8582
Жыл бұрын
Crying for him. How unfair for all of them.
@grrlgd3835
Жыл бұрын
Sorry for your loss. Love from London
@cindypltnm
11 ай бұрын
Does anyone know why his mother did not make it out building despite her being on the 64th floor?
@simonakalinkaite5965
2 жыл бұрын
Very deeply sorry for your loss
@sunnymane
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your story!
@anniebananie7887
Жыл бұрын
He's got amazing eyes.
@mamirojo07
11 ай бұрын
Yes he does and beautiful eyelashes to go with them ❤
@reylatable
11 ай бұрын
This will never stop being just so heartbreaking 😢. Rest in peace to your mom and all those innocent lives loss on September 11 2001 😢❤
@stephaniels5421
10 ай бұрын
Bless his heart. We don’t know how lucky we are when we can sit by the bed of a loved one & be close to them when they pass on. Typically, we don’t think of that as fortunate, but when you think of them perishing under the circumstances of 9/11, it’s really a blessing to get to hold their hand during their last breath.
@greggruane3870
Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for your loss .you are wonderful at explaining in your videos, now I know where you talent comes from.
@oleskao.4327
2 ай бұрын
You speak in a wonderful way about Mommy
@AnnapolisGirly
11 ай бұрын
My heart goes out to this family.
@batagur4233
Жыл бұрын
Your mother would be proud of you
@animicute9827
11 ай бұрын
hi i'm from Nagaland, INDIA watching your video, my heart is paining and i love u and ur family❤️
@Kori-_-.
11 ай бұрын
Hello, an eleven year old here. I’ve recently been following up and listening onto these tragic stories from 9/11. It hurts me mentally hearing all these stories, but it’s very important to remember these poor victims who succumbed to the attack. I don’t have a long, meaningful and sad speech like many people here, since I wasn’t in any of these people’s shoes, I cannot say I relate to any of this. It would be disrespectful, in my opinion, to say ‘Oh, I relate to this because in [Day/Disaster(anything)] I almost thought I lost someone important to me’, because this is focused on what happened to those victims and their loved ones. I don’t have words to describe how much my heart aches for everyone who witnessed, or even was involved with the incident in any way, and my heart and condolences go out to everyone who was affected by this horrible tragedy.
@vidananovazelandia
11 ай бұрын
You are a very mature and empathic 11 yo
@ornellarose6378
Жыл бұрын
Beautiful
@oliverdesvaux
11 ай бұрын
Geez, what happened to his Mom? She was way below the impact zone? Did she not evacuate the building or something? Very sad 😞
@onegirlrev
11 ай бұрын
They were told to stay put!
@oliverdesvaux
11 ай бұрын
@@onegirlrev initially yeah, but they all started going down. Firefighters were even guiding them down. So many escaped, tragic that they she didn’t manage it
@chezzachezza7325
Жыл бұрын
Sorry for the loss of your beautiful mumma 😢😢😢😢
@keithwarner6997
2 жыл бұрын
You're amazing **
@luccaa7c790
Жыл бұрын
Philosophy saved my life once, i can see it saved his life as well...
@crystalinabacteria3430
29 күн бұрын
Heartbreaking 💔 I'm from the UK & I was devastated with what happened. I watched many documentaries. I like listening to the stories of the people that were lost . To learn all about them as a person. They may have gone but I don't want to ever forget them. I don't want to forget that they were so brave. Some made devastating, courageous decisions to jump. In 2005 I visited Ground Zero & paid my respects. I had to because I remember sitting on my settee crying feeling helpless when it happened & unfolded into complete devastation on the TV. RIP sweet angels we will never forget 9/11💔🙏😢
@helenajeret
11 ай бұрын
Randomly clicked... nostalgic to see the campus of UNCG where I was an exchange student in the spring semester in 2010. I remember the day of 911 clearly. I was 15. It was also a crisp September day, sunny and all. Since I was 7hrs ahead, it was late afternoon. I was home from school and eating some noodles before going to volleyball practice, TV was playing in the kitchen and a "youth show" was on (you know, a bit of games, a bit of news, music videos etc). Suddenly, they stopped and said something happened in NY, a plane has crashed into a building. They live broadcasted CNN's feed I think that showed the smoking tower. I kept eating my noodles. Then the second plane hit. And seeing that scene repeated.... I felt that something has changed. I couldn't say what but it just felt like a shift. I went to my practice and told others that planes had crashed into buildings in NY. Noone really understood what I was saying and didn't think it was significant. I visited Ground Zero in March 2010.
@veronicahair7427
2 ай бұрын
Professor I absolutely love your videos. I’m so sorry this happened to you.
@likespurple2261
11 ай бұрын
This poor young man lost his mother, and shares his sorrowful story on YOuTube, and for that, half the comments he gets castigate his mother for dying in the North Tower. Shame on you people who did that.
@Angelfly625
7 ай бұрын
I am so sorry for you loss . RIP to your Mother
@Angelfly625
7 ай бұрын
RIP to everyone who lost their lives on 911
@Amy-466
11 ай бұрын
So sorry for you and your families huge loss... Heartbreaking.
@egrintarg230
Жыл бұрын
Humans definitely have a soul. Some of the people who died that day are now children recounting the story to their new families. Some of them went to some other place. But they are not still trapped there in those buildings. We should all move on as well. But never forget.
@KrystyneY
Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for his loss.
@goalchamp1439
11 ай бұрын
This is very hard to watch, even so many years after the tragedy. But thanks to those shared memories, these poor people are being remembered
@skysetblue9578
11 ай бұрын
This one got me crying bad… we will all reunite again. But this time on Earth will be hard..
@TheSavagederek
2 ай бұрын
I lost my Dad 11 years ago on the 12 of July and my Mum last September. Its changed me in a way i hate . Im angry a lot and go through periods of deep depression. Im lucky i had a good relationship with my parents so feel blessed in this way , both died peacefully, this man and many like him , lost their parents , sisters , brothers , sons , daughters , ants and uncles and friends , in a shocking , violent and very visible way , and that must be so much worse for them . My heart goes out to all families and friends of those that lost that terrible day .
@bellehorse
Жыл бұрын
Sending love
@jeffreydean3568
11 ай бұрын
Heartbreaking.
@abundantt1
Жыл бұрын
this breaks my heart
@dhurley8522
Жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry Jeffrey 🙏🏻♥️
@jerradmechals1
2 жыл бұрын
Great story teller...
@shazanali692
11 ай бұрын
Not a story it's from his heart, this is the soul
@jodyj0
11 ай бұрын
The lady was well below impact zone at 64th floor,strange how she didn't get out, considering people trapped for 30 minutes before rescue in 89th, 90th, 91st floors well above her near impact zone got out on time managed to survive even if barely escaping bc they were so far up & had to wasted lots of precious unrecoverable time getting rescued out. Baffles me she was unable to escape with her life being so far down, how sad. 9/11 really hit me hard bc I was living in Manhattan only 10 years old & unfortunately,witnessed all the catastrophe, very traumatizing & scarring💔
@onegirlrev
11 ай бұрын
Are you joking? Are you blaming her?There was a PA system telling everyone to stay were they were. She could have been walking out of the door as this entire skyscraper collapsed on top of her head.
@jodyj0
11 ай бұрын
@onegirlrev are you blind or deaf I said it's baffling bc 99% of people below impact in the North tower evacuated immediately & made it out, but then she could've been struck by a jumper, debris or gotten sick etc.. something that obviously detained her & prevented her escape. The ones that were told to stay put were the trapped victims above impact & the South tower tenants, the north tower individuals below impact were never told to stay put. Get that information correct.
@WurmisD
11 ай бұрын
Port Authority employees on the 64th floor, including Mr. Kaplan's mother, were initially told to shelter in place by security. They were waiting for rescue personnel. It wasn't until very late that they finally attempted to exit the building, however when the north tower collapsed they were still in stairwell B. I believe only two people from this group survived the collapse.
@jodyj0
11 ай бұрын
@WurmisD yes I have almost all the books about the WTC events on 9/11. I tend to focus on the WTC bc I witnessed it in person on the outside of course i was just a ten-year old child at the time. But its definitely very close to me bc I felt the terror close proximity too. I thought a nuclear weapon would be tossed & that it would be the end for all of us. It's was just horrific. Anyhow, the evacuation was so uncoordinated at the WTC on 9/11 that it frustrates me that lives could've been saved had there been more coordination. But then none of it should've ever happened, its was such a senseless cowardly massacre taken out in innocent individuals. I also get that there was barely enough time to react coherently bc nobody was prepared by the ambush & it all happened so fast in under an hour in the South tower & under 2 hours in the North it was a huge undertaking. I never have enough time to read them all in one sitting, Hopefully. I finish all of them before the year is up. So far I've started, but haven't made it through all of them yet. I started reading some chapters of the remarkable♡☆ & just phenomenal book■"102 Minutes" by Jim Dywer & Kevin Flynn■ The book is very revealing, insightful & explainitive. I've found some answers. It's true that Port Authority on the 64th floor of the nonexistent north tower were very misled, while basically almost everybody below the 91st floor walked past their floor they stayed put, bc they were told too on that floor. Most of the authorities downplayed a lot & gave instructions that were of little reassurance, they messed up badly, fatally in many cases. I've to look for the page number to pinpoint exactly which page I read this from, there's even their names revealing who made the phone conversations (who gave misleading instructions & who called) the books have been so eye opening.
@lauraMacKinnon321
11 ай бұрын
This is so sad..😢 Sorry for the loss of your mother. Never forget that horrible day. ❤
@danielavenditto3874
11 ай бұрын
Grazie
@aliahspirituality
11 ай бұрын
You would not think looking at him that he carried such a deep loss. I am so sorry for any kid to grow up without their loving mother. Shes surely so proud of him and I admire what he's made of himself. He has a really cool career.
@lw7210
11 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry for his family's loss. I love the fact that there aren't many Deborah's born in 2018. That's special.
@jeniferburton5235
2 ай бұрын
Well thought out story. He obviously loved and respected his mom to the max. I'd like to think my son would talk about me like this when I'm gone.
@nataliemeenakshithegreat7780
11 ай бұрын
Oh Jeffrey rosh hashana just ended today I am so sorry for your loss Your mom was amazing your siblings your dad your grandparents I can’t fathom the pain you all felt but know that she has reincarnated now amen so her soul is all around you guys and protecting you
@christinegavatorta4434
4 ай бұрын
Aww another sad story. These poor families
@iamhappy679
11 ай бұрын
Rest in peace So sorry to those who died So sorry to their loved ones 🕊🤍
@phoenixresurrection
Жыл бұрын
😢
@leeannehudson7314
2 ай бұрын
Your Mother would be so very proud of you Jeffrey ❤
@MsAliceinwonderland
Жыл бұрын
I am so sorry. I can't imagine 😢
@threadz-sr6305
Ай бұрын
My heart aches for your loss and it also makes my blood boil for all those thousands murdered on that day, thank you for sharing the story of you’re mother
@Venom-zi4ht
11 ай бұрын
May she rest in peace
@ecbrent2
11 ай бұрын
I wonder how many more lives would have been saved if both buildings had been evacuated after the first plane hit. So much devastation. ❤
@KiwiHobbitful
11 ай бұрын
God bless
@aleatoriamentecomaday8739
10 ай бұрын
😢😢😢😢😢😢
@mariechosgaire6984
11 ай бұрын
Yes, I remember not knowing the significance watching the smoke billow from the first tower. I thought a plane accident at firsr, I was 10 years old. The minutes passed and when the realisation hit of what was actually happening.... Damn. I was watching from Ireland so I can't imagine being an American citizen or a New Yorker watching this unfold. Bless you all. ❤
@mariechosgaire6984
11 ай бұрын
Just got to the end, I'm also very philosophical after losing my Mum. I think of were she is everyday. R. I. P Jeffery mom and mine.
@JD-yu3dk
11 ай бұрын
I wonder why his mom couldn’t or didn’t leave the building.
@ke11yke11z
11 ай бұрын
I grew up in Maywood nj
@Amada_porDios
11 ай бұрын
😭😭😭 beautiful family! She seemed like a great woman! ❤
@keithwarner6997
2 жыл бұрын
You're dad really loved mom at wedding
@garygirouard4205
3 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry for your loss, i feel your pain
@winko567
2 ай бұрын
this is so sad. i thought his mother would have escaped from the tower because she was below the impact zone, but then i remembered how long it took to walk down the stairs :( this is horrible :(
@aleatoriamentecomaday8739
10 ай бұрын
Dear Month😢😢😢 horinle
@user-tg8ug2pt2m
11 ай бұрын
Each and every one of these wonderful people will always live on in our shared and united love. Peace to all people who have good for humanity and nature in mind! Let the evil devour itself, let us try to forgive, because adding more bad to something bad will not make the world a better place.
@johndurrer7869
10 ай бұрын
61st floor on the North tower. How did she not get out? She must’ve stayed to try to help people
@matts.6904
10 ай бұрын
Wondering the same thing here.
@johndurrer7869
10 ай бұрын
@@matts.6904 maybe she tried to leave through the plaza and got hit by debris or someone falling . There is certainly a big part of her story that is missing
@mrno.7366
11 ай бұрын
תנוח על משכבה בשלום .
@ReneKillion-ft5jh
2 ай бұрын
So very sad yet beautiful how this young man talks about his Mother. To lose your Mom so young, in such an evil way is understandably hard to figure out. All those lost on 9/11, innocently going to work that morning, like any other work day, to unkowingly be ripped from this world by the awful terrorists/Devils. Bless this young man and his family for sharing this story. 🙏
@NOSFERATU_ONE
Жыл бұрын
Fascinating that he's voice sounds so much like Jeff Kaplans from Blizzard
@cinnamongirl5410
Ай бұрын
Your mom was very beautiful. You look a lot like her. She is somewhere very proud of you, and is always part of your very essence
@sabrinashelton1997
11 ай бұрын
I wonder why she didn't get out. She would have had more than enough to time to. Strange.
@edwardzarnowski5558
11 ай бұрын
Maybe she went back to help someone else.
@slrs8777
11 ай бұрын
I’ve been watching a lot of 9/11 videos lately and many of the people in the buildings were told to stay put. No one really knew the severity of the situation, did not know they were under attack, and believed the buildings to be secure. Announcements over the intercom in the towers plus security instructed everyone to stay in the building. Unfortunately many people listened and thought it was safer to stay in than go out to the unknown where debris was flying everywhere.
@sabrinashelton1997
11 ай бұрын
Yeah, I know that's true for the second tower, but didn't he say she was in the first one? So to stay in the first after both towers had been attacked makes no sense to me. Maybe she had a medical emergency and couldn't move? Maybe she went up to try and see a friend in a higher floor? Maybe she left and went to the second tower and then was hurt? I wonder if she called anyone and let them know her plan or if her family has to just always wonder?@@slrs8777
@sarahshulman2086
7 ай бұрын
I found out that that private school that Melissa doi went to started a scholarship fund in her honor after this happened
@rogerpereira9644
11 ай бұрын
Jeffrey my heart goes out to you and your family, I wish you to continue to be the strong person you are with a beautiful sold and you always have a star with you every place you go…
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