See this is the kind of relationship I've been looking for my whole life. A super pretty fem who's kind and sweet who's out of my league physically but who loves me mainly for my funny personality and doesn't care much too much about my looks. How do I find myself a Jen?
@ashgavs
Жыл бұрын
I know you’re trying to be nice but god damn. I’m laughing so hard, this is the biggest roast of my life.
@dweebsha
Жыл бұрын
brutallll lol
@eggs1249
Жыл бұрын
this person blind on one side or smth
@LamAnopro_
Жыл бұрын
Wh
@LamAnopro_
Жыл бұрын
Why
@chelsealee7667
Жыл бұрын
Ash: I feel weird answering right now because my self esteem is so low… Maddie: Do you want us to suggest things we think you should change? 💀 Like seriously, Maddie, you’re fucking hilarious! Quick, consistent, killer!
@biscuitanne6770
Жыл бұрын
Coming back to comment about how hilarious Maddie was all episode lol.
@leek6068
Жыл бұрын
maddi is so fucking funny. also the way ash looks at jen is insanely adorable. they're so in love i love it ashley i would rlly love if u talked more about being demi sexual and what that means for ur open relationship. i would rlly want to know how it manifests in romantic/sexual interactions with people other than jen. u def talked about it but i'd love to hear more
@nikkyblue
Жыл бұрын
i love the way ashley's eyes light up when she talks about jen, im thirty seconds in and i can already tell how pure and beautiful their love is
@nikkyblue
Жыл бұрын
and maddie third wheeling is funny as fuck
@jessik8560
Жыл бұрын
This pod has officially made me a Maddie superfan 😂😂😂😂😂
@a6ruled
Жыл бұрын
Came here to say the same. So many jokes :)
@nogacabomusic
Жыл бұрын
Yes yes yes , Maddie is just THE BEST so fucking funny 🙆🏻♀️😂
@torrin.aurora
Жыл бұрын
Maddie was so ON this episode! I was dying laughing, they’re sofuckingfunny 😂
@MichelleKelly1698
Жыл бұрын
Jen is more masc than Ashley personality wise and I love it.
@ashgavs
Жыл бұрын
I’m glad you picked up on this haha!
@KungFuE80
Жыл бұрын
Oh my Gosh Jen is such a cutie patootie! Her smile is so sweet and cute!
@cano2572
Жыл бұрын
I a femme, cis, pan girlie and I also identify as a humper … more specifically im a humper and proud! 😂❤ much love! Thanks for the great content you are all so beautiful!
@bingbongalong
Жыл бұрын
love this episode. Ashley is such a sweetheart and I'm happy for her and Jen, and Maddie is so insightful and hilarious as always
@ciarazmclarenz1020
Жыл бұрын
I think about your jokes while I’m trying to sleep and then I have old man chuckles
@hey_im_shanae2294
Жыл бұрын
maddie is on fire this ep, im still watching and cackling
@anodontiaa6553
Жыл бұрын
the way you too look at each other is so sweet and heart warming
@anodontiaa6553
Жыл бұрын
like no one else is in the room lmfao
@Mohmee88
Жыл бұрын
Maddie dropping mad humour balanced with raw humanity and effortless EI is 100% a vibe for an hour. Maddie get a side-pod!
@stephtaylor6292
Жыл бұрын
Hope your feeling better Ash!
@matthijsclaessen8152
Жыл бұрын
This episode showed perfectly why Ash is such a simp for Jenn. I’d be too. And be perfectly happy with that. Jenn’s inexplicably and unconciously wholesome, sexy and awesome.
@sherries7962
Жыл бұрын
Ashley doing google eyes at Jen is just so adorable. We should all have someone to look at us like that.
@melody_doing_everything_wrong
Жыл бұрын
Ashley, I'm super femme and I do this. It's just the flimsy bits seeking stimulation.
@carolinemiller2737
Жыл бұрын
Ash has got me questioning my own humping habits here - Pan Cis Woman. This is why I love watching WHGS and Chosen Family.. I actually feel like it opens me up to questions I have maybe been too scared to address with my Christian Heteronormative family background.
@killdianette
Жыл бұрын
Maddie is the best thing that ever happened. Ever. Lovely and funny and never mean. I hope everything will turn out good and even better she expect in her life, both personally and professionally because she deserves it plenty !
@xaj3252
Жыл бұрын
The long contemplative walk home after a weird hookup is so real
@JuMixBoox
Жыл бұрын
Living for mentor Maddie. Do what serves you and what you need and want and leave all of the external demands behind if it frees you!
@DDD2323-z5i
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, Ashley, for being so open and honest on this episode. This episode is truly amazing, and I know it's going to help so many people. I know it would've been life changing for me if I had this when I was younger. Hearing unscripted and genuine conversations about gender experience and expression is so so powerful. Truly, thank you for making this content.
@maddysmith8261
Жыл бұрын
this was a great ep, maddie being lounging about reminds me of kate 😩💅🏻
@Emilia-hj5xw
Жыл бұрын
love maddie always being in a higher chair so always has the high ground
@shojohi
10 ай бұрын
Maddie was on fire as always 😂
@kenziewenzieasmr9800
Жыл бұрын
People talking about “male” vs “female” humping is funny. Have we not learned from ash what tribbing is yet? 😂 I am bi or pan or queer (I haven’t quite figured it out yet) but I can tell you I have gayer sex with my bf now than I did with my gf because of Ashley 😂 when I learned about tribbing nothing could stop me and honestly my current bi bf gets a lot out of it and thinks it’s hot. Will literally say “scissor me” 😂😂😂
@callmemako3510
Жыл бұрын
What is tribbing?
@kellibunny
Жыл бұрын
Yes! Natasha Lyonne! i kept picturing her
@tris5602
Жыл бұрын
I sing to myself all the time. Sometimes I'm singing to entertain myself, but I also do it to self-soothe if I'm anxious or stressed. I had a roommate years ago who said it was like living with a Disney princess.😊
@nathanmoranx2105
Жыл бұрын
I was so sure that was a pokemon in the picture between Ashley and Jen then I saw 'Playboy'. 😂
@branp5522
Жыл бұрын
Maddie was on fire 👏👏👏 Great episode!!
@stephanielastname8271
Жыл бұрын
the way ashley looks at jen🥺 emanating such pure love
@oreo1237
Жыл бұрын
I picked the best episode to accidentally be mega early for 🥰
@thebaget
Жыл бұрын
oh my gosh what a wholesome snd just all round great episode ❤
@emilypumpkinseller
Жыл бұрын
I also interpreted the new quality question with superpowers in mind lmao. Teleportation please
@xheyitsjessx9313
9 ай бұрын
the way ash looks at jen 😭 they’re relationship is so sweet
@mnk3452
Жыл бұрын
definitely interpreted the quality/ability question like Jen did and immediately yelled "human torch"
@delaneykeller1389
Жыл бұрын
People can squirt a LOT. Like soak through many layers of towls a lot. Even if they pee beforehand, so the bladder is empty. And some people do it without a ton of stimulation. However I do kinda think this girl peed on you, Jen 😂
@rowanscreative
Жыл бұрын
love this episode sm so endearing and funny at the same time
@kenziewenzieasmr9800
Жыл бұрын
Every Monday I listen to your podcast (with headphones) at work. Today was the first time in months that i couldn’t because it was too busy and of course it’s a long awaited episode with Jen 🤦♀️ I’m so fuckin excited to listen to this on the way home from work! I can’t wait 😁 I could explode from anticipation 😝
@JustLisnin2
Жыл бұрын
I definitely relate to the celebrity crush thing. I’ve never had a crush on a celebrity no matter what they looked like, but I have had crushes on characters that they’ve played if they were actors on TV shows.
@XBloodwork1
9 ай бұрын
I recently watched the episode where Ashley talked about their break up and she was so sad. I’m so happy everything worked out for them in the end
@remionil
Жыл бұрын
Maddie just gives best advice ❤️🔥 and Jen's story omg😂 Great episode 👍
@blairjacobs8491
Жыл бұрын
About the humping while kissing thing is more of a "dominance thing" rather than "male" thing. I don't think I had to be particular to a sex or gender at all just the kind of energy that's natural to you. 29:01
@Ko_Ki1984
Жыл бұрын
"If you don't know what a golden shower is, you're VERY naive" 😊
@Do.Your.Best.345
Жыл бұрын
Maddie is the best 💜💜 They are so hilarious 😂🤣
@dylananthony
Жыл бұрын
27:54 pleaaaaseeee add a violin button! 😂😂
@surfyswag
Жыл бұрын
great ep, maddie killed this one
@hmmcms1
Жыл бұрын
Lol too the Actual liquid Iv commercial after Jen’s Story
@bripk9598
3 күн бұрын
As someone who has now taken a lot of voice lessons, mostly to improve confidence, "I'm not like a horrible singer but I'm not like a good singer but I love music and singing" is what good singers say when they're nervous. You're a good singer.
@britlynvincent6836
Жыл бұрын
This was so fascinating! I’m married to a trans man. I LOVE the gender discussions.
@KennyGeez
Жыл бұрын
Oh Ashley, you are sooo love sick. I hope Jen doesn't break your heart
@wadooshful
Жыл бұрын
Maddie had the full reins on this, incredible!
@circleofleaves2676
Жыл бұрын
When you asked Jen at the end there if she wanted to plug anything, I thought, "Yeah, Janis' urethra".
@sarahgoodman2855
Жыл бұрын
Perspective -- the quality of seeing the forest instead fixating on individual trees. I think that's the word for the quality Ashley named earlier in the episode. (But I could be wrong!)
@emilyinfl
Жыл бұрын
Maddie should top the pod more often. This is peak ❤
@adacarley5947
Жыл бұрын
As to what you call “loosing the forest for the trees”, I would just call that maintaining perspective. I struggle with that too.
@sergbastian5
Жыл бұрын
That tie dye banana is giving me life rn
@reetanruutu
Жыл бұрын
see things at a global sense + flying = birds eye view
@reetanruutu
Жыл бұрын
or astraltravel..
@dannimarie
Жыл бұрын
i love all 3 of you so much!!! i just wanna be there hanging out with you guys!!! sending you all so much love ❤
@ashlachman5880
Жыл бұрын
So good!!!! We should all have a friend like maddie!! Such a great episode :) ❤❤❤❤
@CHARLIEQUEER68
3 ай бұрын
THIS IS SO FKIN FUNNY!!!! 😂😂😂🥰🥰🥰🥰
@LaNoireDetruit
Жыл бұрын
You're a 100% *my man*, Ashley! ✊
@coco.exe_2739
Жыл бұрын
I already listened whole episode on Spotify 😂😂😂and still i am here⭐
@home-bodyz
Жыл бұрын
I like being here, having a break from the hetero-cis world outside.
@AnimeLuver0604
Жыл бұрын
She talks about humping and my science brain goes "oh like a whiptail lizard" (cause they're an all female species that still mount each other to induce the self fertilization).
@cornetemelyne98
11 ай бұрын
23:22 Ashley "What is that quality?" Me in my bedroom shouting: "It's called perspectiiiiive Ash" No but srsly though speaking as someone who actually has got that (and a lot of it), I'd say documentaries about the universe help a ton. Seems maybe trivial but honestly, learning the actual scale that we humans have helps sooooo much in gaining perspective ✨ Warning *side effect*: I think it'd have to be parallel to working on perfectionism for the people who have that trait because I think one can't go without the other.
@Crytotherhythm
Жыл бұрын
…😳 thanks for passing your gender crisis on to me Ashley what the heck?! I’ve never thought of this before in my life, now I’m going to be paranoid about it 🤣 uhhhh. Okay. Hmmm. There’s something to sit with. It truly is like…instinctual though ugh.
@ruthielalastor2209
Жыл бұрын
I'm female-presenting NB and I do the grinding bit when I kiss but I never feel like a man when I do it; I only feel dominant. 😅
@jclark1693
Жыл бұрын
I’ve had some sad sings. Sometimes you’re stuck in the middle of a whole ass moment and some lyrics just hit you right in the heart. Maybe I’m a little psychotic but in that moment I just want to push through and feel it out.
@crazyhusky2022
Жыл бұрын
The cis idiot ...ccidiot part...was so cute....smtg abt it made me replay it so many times
@c333th
Жыл бұрын
PLEASE Get Natasha Lyonne! I literally would die and cry and be reborn all at once I think.
@soulquarianvibes
Жыл бұрын
I wish we had a demo of the grinding thing 😂
@themorales6
Жыл бұрын
Maddie was on fire today!😂
@carolduncan7133
Жыл бұрын
Maddie! Amazing! How do keep just getting funnier?!?!
@pedrosmurf
Жыл бұрын
After 35 minutes I noticed that there is a huge colourful grinning banana next to the sofá, weirdest double take of my life.
@AlliB33tle
Жыл бұрын
Also fwiw Ashley, for me, mentally, the humping thing would not translate to “man behavior” so much as “extremely turned on and wanting to get to intercourse as quickly as possible,” which I agree with Maddie is super hot. I do wonder if the of stereotype of men being “more sexual” in general influences the interpretation that your ex had.
@emjayink4505
Жыл бұрын
"All the sudden as a demisexual I feel like having sex with you now" is actually such a good compliment
@riversauerwein
Жыл бұрын
Fascinating episode.
@mindofmisery3296
Жыл бұрын
I mean I'm not going to lie when Ashley you just hella took down Maddie poor girl she was like whoa obviously the joke was about Maddie but I mean that probably hell a docked self-esteem
@ashleydailey7844
10 ай бұрын
Jen Parker Davis is a perfect actress name
@datfae7694
Жыл бұрын
Here to weigh in on if humping while kissing makes you a man. I'd never heard of it being a male or even masculine thing? For what it's worth I personally also do lil humpy kiss sometimes, and am a bisexual women, fairly fem (while I have some masculine personality traits no one would look at me and think masc)
@Ryder204
Жыл бұрын
Great episode once again guys!!
@marachelleib9607
Жыл бұрын
Plenty of female animals are humpers also! The book Queer ducks and other animals talks about some ♥️
@Freedomislight
Жыл бұрын
such a healing open episode, wondorful to see online
@esthermaples4456
Жыл бұрын
o my glob... approaching cuteness overload 😏 & yes, I'm a lil jealous 🥲
@GleekOff
11 ай бұрын
This episode is so good ❤ Love this group
@firefly24601
Жыл бұрын
Jen loves musicals!! AHHHHHHHHH!!!! 🌈💜
@lilytremble2937
Жыл бұрын
I just came back from a 2 week vacation which was absolutely amazing and now I’m prepping to go back to school in 2 weeks
@jazf9539
Жыл бұрын
I also heard Miss Hugh 😂
@nathanmoranx2105
Жыл бұрын
After I watched this episode, I fell asleep and had a dream that white snakes came out of my mother's face.
@loupelizzo2399
Жыл бұрын
I love the relationship you have and you’ve worked it out I guess but this podcast was great and yes it was like a conversation. Thank you so much for doing this podcast
@cinthiahm1444
7 ай бұрын
As a Latina, I can’t help but notice Jen is literally Belinda (the Mexican artist) when she was younger. It’s insane
@themorales6
Жыл бұрын
Yes! Get Natasha Leon on the pod!
@evelyngaskill5122
Жыл бұрын
It was definitely pee lmao
@qwerfy34567894749
Жыл бұрын
Man I love this podcast but sometimes it’s so difficult to listen to I just wanna throw my gender studies degree at them lol
@ashgavs
Жыл бұрын
We’re a comedy pod, I don’t claim to be an expert, but we’re knowingly using short hand and glossing over things and doing bits. If we didn’t do this we’d be a sociology pod. But we’re not. We’re a comedy pod.
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