Jess was just perfect, they just met at the wrong time..he likes books, he put rory in track, he convinced her to go back to yale and much more. I wish he would have been the one all along for her
@sahej6939
Жыл бұрын
I think he originally was going to be… but their real life break up might have changed that.
@Sarah-wt7ut
6 ай бұрын
nah tristan it is
@peacefourever
4 ай бұрын
Jess had toxic issues. He was always horrible to her mom, and basically anyone who Rory cared about. People like that try to isolate women so they can control them. Not charming.
@marlennefuentes117
2 ай бұрын
They were like soulmate but when they broke up I felt so sad but when i realized that they dated for 4 years in the real life I felt so happy
@christineirving4300
Жыл бұрын
I don't get how Rory didn't know that he was in love with her from the beginning.
@asmrrandom8217
Жыл бұрын
tbh I'm pretty oblivious and that has to do with my lack of social skills-
@bobbyavitia
Жыл бұрын
That's what happens when a person is raised to think someone wouldn't love them. They don't don't consider love as an option.
@ashleyelisabeth4
Жыл бұрын
That's because Rory has abandonment issues from her father. She always has doubts that her boyfriends love her or she freaks out when the relationship becomes serious since her father was barely around throughout her childhood, coming and going when he felt like it. As a result, she fears this will happen in her relationships. We first see signs of this when she was afraid to express her feelings after Dean said "I love you". Then, we see this again with Jess when she starts doubting if he loves her because he is evasive with his feelings and he's not open about what he wants since he has his own abandonment issues as well. Even when Rory was with Logan, she questioned his feelings towards her because they were raised differently and he had never been in a serious relationship before so she feared he would grow bored of her and they would break up.
@shaunarichardson9526
Жыл бұрын
There are actually a lot of reasons why but I think her acknowledging how he felt for her would make her have to acknowledge what she felt for him and she didnt want to leave the safety of Dean.
@Sofia-oi4sf
Жыл бұрын
i’m
@vsyfi
Жыл бұрын
he was literally the best of her boyfriends and she still chose logan over him, devastating.
@ayej26
Жыл бұрын
It’s alright. She doesn’t deserve him.
@vsyfi
Жыл бұрын
@@lauriecarson6483 He genuinely loved her (unlike dean or logan where they argued over her like she was an object, or rather they loved the IDEA of her more.) He shared the same interests/hobbies. He had his faults as others did but he always did his best to put her needs in front of his. Extra brownie points for the “hates everyone but them” trope. Also every opportunity to make it up to her, to talk to her, he took. I think he always cared for/loved her the most. They were so similar, he also stayed loyal/was never interested in other women while they were together.
@vsyfi
Жыл бұрын
@@ayej26 real!! he’s so boyfriend >>
@vsyfi
Жыл бұрын
@@lauriecarson6483 Also just to add on, he literally came back in one of the later seasons to talk to rory. Way more mature, civil, he even tried to talk it out with logan. (ultimately you can’t wash out the blonde douchebag so rory had to break it up)He came back a better man to try to win her over again, has the best character development, and as always did it all for her.
@vsyfi
Жыл бұрын
@@aharrypotterhead3025 Hmm, oh wait let me think. They shared writing (he basically kept up with everything article she wrote) +they both went on to make books later. Shared taste in music. As well as in films (at times)Both loved literature and always had a book on hand.Both were fine in solitude (thinking introverts), and before they met each other i would say they even preferred it at times. In the revival of the show, i would say he was even too good for her. Putting jess aside for a second, while i don’t dislike dean or logan; i wouldn’t say they were ideal boyfriends either. If you’re disagreeing with me i think it’s safe to say you prefer one of these two. Dean was REALLY the boyfriend that shared no interests with rory. Maybe aside from the occasional movie, and while he was sweet and treated her to gifts; he had to know where she was at all times. Even if they were all possessive in some aspect, calling your girlfriend five times when you know she’s out of town is a little much. Now with logan, they might’ve shared writing (i’ll even add on reading) but he didn’t partake much interest in it, as he was forced to do it most/if not the rest of his life. He put himself, and others in danger all of the time during the life and death brigade. In the revival, he doesn’t even have a stable relationship with rory anymore. He married someone else, whether he wanted to or not he still cheated on his spouse and i think it was indecent that he never told her. Now returning to Jess, all he ever did was love rory the best he knew how to. Him hiding his situation to her was never out of malice. He never wanted her to worry or to be disappointed in him. During their relationship they had countless miscommunications, and you act as if all of it was intentional. He opened up his life to not only rory, but others even if he wasn’t comfortable doing so. He wasn’t perfect by any means but when he told her he loved her he meant it. None of those gestures were empty, and though his timing at the party was terrible. I don’t think he thought “hey let’s make rory feel bad”?? I just think he went up ALONE in that room for a reason, he needed clarity. Afterwards he knew he screwed up. He said so himself “you didn’t do anything”, after she left the room. Adding on, he didn’t even hit dean first. For rory’s sake he didn’t start anything until he LITERALLY got punched in the face. Dean was always hanging around. You paint rory in this angel light as if she was helpless. Most times she ran back to dean, and this is especially clear in the fifth season. From this relationship at least rory could learn from it, and find out who/what she wanted in a relationship. She had room to grow, and even with all of the tools provided to her she still turned out more immature than him. Don’t forget that he was the SOLE reason she went back to yale, not her boyfriend at the time logan. Jess. While it was naive of him to think they could run away and fix their problems, he loved her so much he was willing to try. When he arrived to california and met his dad, one of the things he said was that he had nothing. I loved their dynamic, but not so much the way it turned out. Their trajectory is bittersweet and i think thats what makes it the best relationship, as well as him, the best boyfriend. This may be a biased stance, but writing about a character you’ve researched so much will probably do that to you. Also if you’re going to pick an argument next time, don’t use run on sentences. It’s hard to read and too clumpy. Now that i’ve taken a good chunk out of my persona time i’d like to wrap up my points.
@lexusbremner3999
Жыл бұрын
"POV". Fans being in love with Jess for 45 seconds straight
@thegilmorevenue
Жыл бұрын
love that might actually take the idea
@lexusbremner3999
Жыл бұрын
@@thegilmorevenue 😊
@AddBowIfGirl
Жыл бұрын
That’s definitely what’s actually happening here.
@madeleinestone2110
Жыл бұрын
“I-I don’t mean ‘care care’ like care..I mean if you like me at all. Not ‘like like’ I just meant that if-if you think of me remotely as the sort of person you can occasionally stand to talk to. Then you’ll try to get along with my mom, that’s all.” 😂
@user-ml8bz1bz1f
11 ай бұрын
“okay” ☺️🤔🙄😚😉😕😏😂
@imnina865
Жыл бұрын
There were so many things wrong with Jess' life, but he never made it Rorys problem. He was the funniest and honestly most fine boy that Rory had. (Hence my pfp) He truly loves Rory, always making sure she does her best in life such as convincing her to get back into Yale. He loves her more than Dean or Logan ever could or ever did.
@Sarah-wt7ut
6 ай бұрын
HELLO HELLO ? SOMEONE FORGOT TRISTAN !!
@imnina865
6 ай бұрын
@@Sarah-wt7ut omg wait you’re so right. But he wasn’t her official bf sadly so I don’t really count him here.
@euteacherlindsay
Жыл бұрын
"miss swift writes bout them" I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE WHO WAS SURE ABOUT THAT HAHAH I LOVE IT
@J-Bird_edits
Жыл бұрын
At first I hated Jess but now I like him wayyyy better than dean
@marisagonzalez1543
Жыл бұрын
Why?
@RandomPersonnnnnn1
Жыл бұрын
@@marisagonzalez1543 Dean took his anger out of Rory and got mad at her for no reason and was a red flag but Jess was never like that and yes he walks out a lot but he loved her and has the same interests and was just better
@J-Bird_edits
Жыл бұрын
@@RandomPersonnnnnn1 I'm so upset Rory and Jess didn't end up together 😭 I can't stand logan.. Jess truly cared for Rory
@bestiewhat5823
Жыл бұрын
@@J-Bird_edits they did date… from the beginning to season 3 till the end of season 3..
@simplyeviee44
Жыл бұрын
@@bestiewhat5823yes but like we mean we wished the show ended with them together
@jiahmaitra8590
Жыл бұрын
Out of all rory's boyfriends, Jess is definitely the best. He is soooo sweet. His expressions when he is around her is ❤️❤️
@yeganeh3945
Жыл бұрын
So sweet: not even saying hello back and talking back like a know-it-all to lorelai, making everyone's life miserable in town
@whowroteholdencaulfield
Жыл бұрын
@@yeganeh3945 so you're just gonna ignore how his mom was a literal drug addict and didn't take care of him for most of his childhood? and you're also gonna ignore how out of all of the characters, he had the best character development and ultimately always cared for Rory and her future?
@LaviniaDeMortalium
Жыл бұрын
Dean was a great character in season 1. Once Jess was written into the story, the writers basically cannibalized Dean. And I'm saying this as someone who is firmly on Team Jess.
@That_Marvel_Nerd
Жыл бұрын
At 1:14 his “okay” makes me swoon every time 😩
@bryand6811
5 ай бұрын
Jess was the best match for rory cause he challenged her and didnt treat her like the stars hollow darling everyone insisted she was BUT he also had a lot of healing and growing to do. His family life was really turbulent. His parents were both immature and flighty so it makes sense that he ran away and abandoned rory as a teen. Unfortunately, that triggered Rory's abandonment trauma from her dad so i feel like that's why although she clearly still likes him, she'll never go back to him. Older Jess has grown up a lot and hopefully he can show rory that he's changed and won't run from her like he did back then
@helenwildycomedy
Жыл бұрын
“Girl you know ily” 😂❤
@johannapedrazas3658
Жыл бұрын
Honestly I hate how they didn’t end up together even tho he had his flaws he really knew her and somehow always found a way back to each other…kills me I wish there was a point of view where we saw them endgame 😭
@salonikullar3627
Жыл бұрын
I hate the show creators for ruining this relationship. I HATE THEM. Even if they broke up due to reasonable circumstances, they couldve rebuilt it after they both matured. Why isnt there one show on this planet that shows a mature relationships which realistic ups and downs. WHY DOES EVERYBODY HAVE TO BREAK UP😭😭😭😭
@luvrachaell
Жыл бұрын
jess was the best idc what anyone says
@jisungisbae6584
Жыл бұрын
he didn’t get pissed of because rory didn’t want to do it with him, he got pissed off that he couldn’t graduate and take rory to prom. he just took it out on rory
@LovedLamb
9 ай бұрын
@@jisungisbae6584 he is still an ass for not telling Rory and not going to school even though he promised Luke to.
@atwoodsmariano
Жыл бұрын
just seeing this now - I loved it so much
@mahaksharma5177
Жыл бұрын
His face when she is rambling 😭🫶🏼
@THEREALPOOKIE18
Жыл бұрын
"What makes you think I care about you?" 😭🦋
@Tealwolf-il6rw
Жыл бұрын
Internal screaming was happening the whole video you've officially broke and blessed me
@izzytherose
Жыл бұрын
The editing = every thought I had
@xfetta_
Жыл бұрын
i will be always team jess like forever
@user-rg3zy9dr5y
Жыл бұрын
jess cared about her way more than dean or logan ever did, they were literally meant to be.
@styless28
Жыл бұрын
the way you added the "hi sweets" UGH IM IN LOVE
@ellajoy1652
Жыл бұрын
if your not team jess dont talk to me.
@agatheb
Жыл бұрын
The last scene🤌🤌🤌🤌 he knows what he's doing!!!!
@pop-tart..3
5 ай бұрын
the entire “if you care about me at all” scene kills me im screaming crying throwing up on the floor help
@isabellouis3833
7 ай бұрын
THEIR CHEMISTRY IS INSANE
@user-mj9fp6me4x
7 ай бұрын
IT IS
@thatonepjofan909
3 күн бұрын
I love this sm THIS IS ONE OF THE BEST JESSxRORY VIDS
@sahej6939
Жыл бұрын
hope he learned a valuable lesson… always be nice to the mother
@hellnahhh7368
5 ай бұрын
Omg u forgot the part he destroyed the overly done snowman so they can win😭
@QuestionsIAskMyself
Ай бұрын
AAAHAHAHAHSHDHH😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@tessebesjuh
Жыл бұрын
They should have been end game, still not over that…
@Noor-yr4py
11 ай бұрын
bro i literally screamed “no are we done” as soon as the video ended😭👌🏻
@Yuzi-Goat
8 ай бұрын
He protec He attack Most importantly He make diner snak
@user-mj9fp6me4x
7 ай бұрын
Such an underrated comment ❤
@Bored_124
Жыл бұрын
Right person wrong time 😭
@user-ne2om7cb7e
Жыл бұрын
That was a masterpiece
@DaphneNey
8 ай бұрын
HELP WHY AM I DYING AT THE SECOND ONE WHERE LUKE GETS CUT OFF IN SAYING “Oh you are-“ WHY AM I CACKLING
@emmas_preppy
2 ай бұрын
silently giggling at his face while she rambles 🤭
@Itstjmj
11 ай бұрын
He is literally one of her best boyfriends, like omg, whyyy whyyy I didn't even finish watching it, and I'm not wailing to lol
@Yytggg345
Жыл бұрын
I believe in the jess and tristan supremacy💀💞💋 Dean was good at the beginning and logan was an asshole tbh😭 0:08
@Noor-yr4py
11 ай бұрын
“and i think i loved u” omg.
@laineyqueen7677
2 ай бұрын
this is my favorite video on the internet
@alto.xoxo.
11 ай бұрын
Tbh I wish Tristan stayed for longer! I loved her with him!
@cleosxtori7366
Жыл бұрын
did u just make me miss Gilmore girls again-
@malenahardt9283
3 ай бұрын
honestly, I think that they were perfect together. I mean, ofc Jess had issues but he became better for Rory and I'm soooooooo mad at the producers for not making them endgame because they pushed each other to become better people and that's rare in relationships
@wandakobza2158
10 ай бұрын
Omg i love Jess and Rory so much
@tvisha8414
8 ай бұрын
and when he destroyed the winning snowman for her 🥺🥺
@_vaniia12
Жыл бұрын
team jess por siempre
@zoetgn
Жыл бұрын
The sprinkler scene is missing!!!! 😫
@thegilmorevenue
Жыл бұрын
yeah ik it'll add it to part 3!
@Vr4018
Жыл бұрын
The editing is awesome! 😆
@lina_vanilla_
Жыл бұрын
I always come back here when I feel the need to raise my standards
@giatalamantezz_
11 ай бұрын
1:51 F DEANNNNN
@WafflesSong
Жыл бұрын
where is the scene where he helps her turn off the neighbours water sprinkler? 🔥🔥🔥🔥
@thegilmorevenue
Жыл бұрын
I'll add that to part three!
@WafflesSong
Жыл бұрын
@@thegilmorevenue ♥️♥️♥️♥️
@shanaayasoni
7 ай бұрын
And they weren't even dating here.. like how can it be so wholesome❤
@fawnveil4136
Жыл бұрын
The Wii music in the background 💀
@your-moms-fav-blondie
Жыл бұрын
the. last scene says everything without saying anything
@ajoydalzell
Жыл бұрын
what episode is it from?!??
@your-moms-fav-blondie
Жыл бұрын
I don't even know tvh
@Brooklyn_N
Жыл бұрын
no bc the next day that competing snowman was knocked over and i kinda think i know who did it…
@thegilmorevenue
Жыл бұрын
the obsession I have over that scene is insane. so mad i cant find it anywhere
@Bob-gi6dh
Жыл бұрын
Jess is the best idc
@lorihaupt9103
5 ай бұрын
Oh my gosh! He's cute
3 ай бұрын
você estava parecendo o Jess de Gilmore Girls no início do vídeo com o livro no bolso
@saraxd438
Жыл бұрын
NOOOOO DO A LONGER ONE
@cloudyyclara
11 ай бұрын
AHHH TOO CUTEE❤❤❤❤❤❤
@rainterature
Жыл бұрын
💜💜💜
@user-gx6rr8gf4l
7 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@Sharkybugzz
5 ай бұрын
they should've been endgame
@GrimmgirlFandom
Жыл бұрын
Love
@victoriaadams2171
9 ай бұрын
Logan was a nice guy.
@McKenzieMansour
3 ай бұрын
As much as I loved Logan Jess was a close 2nd
@icysnow57cold64
Жыл бұрын
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other. Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone. Women tend to be more emotionally intelligent, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more understanding, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind-hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, more intuitive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way. Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men. Also, girls that are friends touch each other in ways that guys just don’t.
@crystal3160
11 ай бұрын
What do you mean? It’s just a matter of sexual attraction and emotional chemistry.
@icysnow57cold64
11 ай бұрын
@@crystal3160 I heard that lesbian relationships are healthier because they understand each other. If both partners understand each other, they won’t want to break up with each other. I also heard that women have higher rates of depression when married (in straight relationships). There is a very small percent of women that are happy in heterosexual relationships. So it's very hard for men and women to bond with each other and have a strong bond with each other. Both men and women think differently, behave differently, react in a different way.
@timmiespigeon6516
Жыл бұрын
Jess ignore her look at me 🙈
@Eva_noel
Жыл бұрын
Wait I never understood the hair scene pls someone explain😭
@thegilmorevenue
Жыл бұрын
me either! ig it was just a hint at jess liking rory but who knows lol
@isla2701
2 ай бұрын
I think it’s because she got her hair cut but dean her boyfriend at the time didn’t notice but Jess did
@devizkit
Жыл бұрын
That was good
@iamsam1296
Жыл бұрын
younger jess was just one of the worst boyfriends but when he got older he was the one of the best along with logan
@teresajulian9571
3 ай бұрын
Didn't he sabotage that one she said would win
@aksha6609
Жыл бұрын
Can anyone note down the songs that Taylor has written for them?
@irmakyesilkaya4468
Жыл бұрын
Why am I just finding out abt this what
@thegilmorevenue
Жыл бұрын
ive got a playlist! here's the link: open.spotify.com/user/hf78b3kdj38ljvzopgty8zr2y/playlist/0Cv3VrKd2pC2FiJQHPIlF3
@user-sm5po8dg9z
9 ай бұрын
WHY DID YOU DROP OUT OF YALE?!
@giatalamantezz_
11 ай бұрын
ahhhhhhh slayyyyy
@PhilospherDjPsychologist24
Жыл бұрын
I love jess, but I think he actually had a crush on Dean, so every time they talked about Rory and Dean's relationship, Jess wasn't jealous of Dean with Rory, he was Jealous of Rory with Dean. but you read Jealousy, so you misread where his jealousy was directed towards Rory and Jess got a long so great, because like with Paris, despite her flaws, intelligent conversation is always hard to come by
@thegilmorevenue
Жыл бұрын
he clearly had a crush on rory wtf 😭
@PhilospherDjPsychologist24
Жыл бұрын
@@thegilmorevenue actually, I think Rory is actually Luke's kid, the moral of the show is that he is any way because he did the work and raised her, but I think he actually is, I think Lorelie and Luke met in Marthas vineyard , she got pregnant, and said it was Chris. that's why Luke freaked out every time he was around kids when he was younger (which is why April''s mom said she never told him), and they have a lot things in common. So technically they are cousins (I know it was an adjustment for me too) Rory just wrote it so everyone would think Jess was the love of her life because she recognizes that whoever she is with is kind of a prom King, and she wanted to recognize him as what should be the ideal man , or masculinity, and I think she takes inspiration from him in that. also there is an idea Lorelei sent Jess away so that the event would traumatize Rory, making the experience more memorable, so that why Rory would always have a "the one that got away" fixation on Jess , so she would always see him as a symbol of masculinity, but that just my suspicions , nice video though : )
@thegilmorevenue
Жыл бұрын
@@PhilospherDjPsychologist24 well that's actually a really cool theory, pity it doesn't make sense due to lorelai meeting luke when rory was around eight years old. love your pov!
@PhilospherDjPsychologist24
Жыл бұрын
@@thegilmorevenue Actually, in the Marthas vineyard episode, with Logan and the double date, Lorelei talks to Luke about how they frequented the same beach as a kid, they say they didn't know each other, but I think they were being coy, so as far as the time line goes, ya it is very possible they met then, and because Luke is so shy he never wanted to fully recognize her, and after awhile it would be awkward to, but maybe part of the reason he doted on her as if she were his daughter was because he thought he was, it wasn't Just Lorelei
@whos_liv
Жыл бұрын
@@PhilospherDjPsychologist24 just calm down ok Jess liked rory not dean💀
@Sierrawashere
6 ай бұрын
Not tryna brag but I know a boy who’s just like him visually and personality
@Joe-ny2up
6 ай бұрын
In college my wife and her girlfriends dubbed me Big Jess, due to a hot tub incident. My fav was when one of her sisters explained to a girl in a bar loudly, "Big because he has a massive... schlong!!"
@laufeysfavfan
9 ай бұрын
ok but why is jess mariano simping on rory's pics of when she was a baby ;-;
@isla2701
2 ай бұрын
I don’t think he was simping over her as a baby I think he just thought she looked cute as a kid
@willbearheart7919
6 ай бұрын
Who's this Miss swift that wrote about them?
@thegilmorevenue
6 ай бұрын
... taylor swift?
@willbearheart7919
6 ай бұрын
@@thegilmorevenue ah gotcha lol. Thanks.
@diahnitalisa
Жыл бұрын
𝖬𝗈𝗏𝗂𝖾 𝗇𝖺𝗆𝖾?
@thegilmorevenue
Жыл бұрын
gilmore girls
@isla2701
2 ай бұрын
@@thegilmorevenuewhat episode was clip two where he put the umbrella up for Rory in the diner
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