When Jordan talks about living life like “everything matters”…. He really does practice what he preaches. He is a solid example of an honest man
@SallyMankus130
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, totally. Like the time he claimed that having apple cider sent him into a depression spiral.
@benjaminwadsworth9228
2 жыл бұрын
@@SallyMankus130 focus on steal manning people. It’s to easy to straw man.
@buffgarfield3231
2 жыл бұрын
I live life like nothing matters.
@jsmith7888
2 жыл бұрын
If you believe that then what about the photo of his room being a fucking bombsite of a mess
@WoodstockG54
2 жыл бұрын
He’s delusional. There something wrong when you’re always right.
@Stratigic_Cheese_Reserve
2 жыл бұрын
He's not saying always dress fancy, but wear your clothes with dignity, and choose the appropriate clothes for the occasion.
@J509-b8c
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah no sh7$
@JustinCase780
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for Jordanplaining Captain Obvious.
@beattrixkiddo2725
2 жыл бұрын
@@JustinCase780 slap yourself for saying ‘Jordanplaning’
@JustinCase780
2 жыл бұрын
@@beattrixkiddo2725 where? 😆😆😆
@brunox3042
2 жыл бұрын
Society decides what's appropriate and what's not. He is just old fashioned and can0t wrap his head around the fact that people nowadays put a lot less value on the little things. They no longer think a suit is gonna make you a better man or a better professional. It's actually a sign of advanced thinking, because you finally realize what's really important and what's not. A suit isn't. He feels better wearing it because he isn't comfortable with himself, hence the need to do his maximum to try to improve his looks. Therefore, he wll criticize those who don't do the same. It's a pretty normal human behaviour. You make a choice, and one way to put even more value in your choice is to look down on those who don't do the same. He says men dress like children. Well, perhaps we're simply more open minded now and no longer think certain clothes are just for kids and certain clothes are just for adults. Like i said, it's advanced thinking. Less bullshit, more practicality. If you can be happy and successful in a t-shirt, why go through all the trouble of putting on something much less comfortable, much more expensive, that will take considerably more time of your day? That's not logical in any way.
@captahab6370
2 жыл бұрын
I just recently started dressing up more to go to University and this happened to be recommended for me lol, thanks for the reenforcement! It definitely feels better to dress respectably in society, you feel more productive and positive about yourself.
@bitcoin4624
2 жыл бұрын
Like a full suit?
@captahab6370
2 жыл бұрын
@@bitcoin4624 lol, nah. I hate sports jackets tbh. Just some khakis, button up shirt and a vest on top.
@justadude117X
2 жыл бұрын
@@captahab6370 thats a half a step down from a full suit and tie imo but i think its awesome that you did that. How did it feel? How did others respond? Were there haters? Do you think it influenced your ability to make friends/hookup for better or for worse?
@captahab6370
2 жыл бұрын
@@justadude117X mm, confidence boost I would say. But I’m still me lol. In terms of others reactions, ppl who knew me before were mostly supportive/impressed. But ppl who didn’t, well it’s just who I am to them 😅, they can like it or not. But there are a few smirks and sneers once and awhile, but that’s that. 🤷🏻♂️
@Dang3rMouSe
Жыл бұрын
@@captahab6370 college is a great place to make connections which could be advantageous later on. Dressing smart as well as having a positive & professional attitude will leave a lasting impression on those around you.
@MrHooligan357
2 жыл бұрын
working-class people in my family have always worn overalls, t shirts boots or dirty jeans. we typically didn't trust dudes in suits or ties in my neighborhood when I was a kid. I think dressing casually has a huge element of class involved.
@anilgill6846
2 жыл бұрын
I'm of a double mind on this... I'm a Pal Zileri guy for "formal" wear, meetings etc.. But I'm also a strong advocate for dressing for the occasion You can also look smart dressed down It's ALL context.
@seamushayday1222
2 жыл бұрын
Agree, Nothing wrong with jeans per se. Ripped jeans, oversized T-shirt and scuffed converse just make you look like a teenager that never grew up though
@frankiepizzurro
2 жыл бұрын
I don’t have any issue with confidence but I have noticed when I’m dressed up I feel more valuable and assert myself more. I’ve started dressing up 24/7 now.
@rogfusionkid
Жыл бұрын
Dressing up doesn't have to mean dressing complicated, For men you can use neutral suits and shirts that can be interchanged, and have a selection of ties that can throw a bit of colour in depending on circumstance. Develop your own personal uniform is the kind of idea. You don't have to be a model, just make an effort, it doesn't matter if you can't buy certain things just make sure it's clean and pressed make sure you have a shave and cut your finger nails, it's quite basic really. This reminds me of a conversation a had with my Dad, talking about the 1960s he told me "You wouldn't be seen dead without a shirt & tie on" even just going out socially. It didn't occur to me until after we cremated my Dad RIP we didn't put a tie on him at the end, I regret that now. Sorry Dad
@Melindashelley2017
9 ай бұрын
Be intentional ❤ dressing up feels so much better and you get much more respect.
@__seeker__
2 жыл бұрын
I’m only 33 but in the time between now and when I was a child, apparently it became not uncommon for people to wear what can best be described as pajamas in public. Billowy flannel pants, oversized t-shirt, socks with sandals or even slippers. That’s a new low. Real low.
@mugga5590
2 жыл бұрын
It's appalling that people go out of the house looking that way. You would think they would be embarrassed to go out in public looking like trashy slobs.
@conorhennell2623
2 жыл бұрын
@@mugga5590 who gives a shit what other people are wearing? if they are happy wearing it then leave them to it. it says more about you if you are judging people by how they dress
@mugga5590
2 жыл бұрын
@@conorhennell2623 As a society we need to do more judging, it's how you keep people acting civilly. I always judge people by the way they dress in public and always will.
@conorhennell2623
2 жыл бұрын
@@mugga5590 having a certain type of fabric on you doesn't change if you are a good person or not, how shallow can you be
@mugga5590
2 жыл бұрын
@@conorhennell2623 Walking around the mall in the middle of the day wearing slippers and pajamas or wearing flip flops to a wedding shows people that you're a dimwit with no dignity or sense of what's appropriate. Like it or not you will be judged. Maybe you should find a different video to watch or maybe listen to Peterson and learn something.
@MrFraiche
Жыл бұрын
If you’ve bought something because it was packaged well…then think of what it can do with a person.
@CarlosG0m3z
2 жыл бұрын
That all depends… blue collar workers don’t have that luxury to dress up on a Tuesday mid-day, BUT that doesn’t mean that the person has to look dirty or not groomed. Everyone can always do better regardless of what they do for a living
@bighands69
2 жыл бұрын
Every profession has its dress code. An undertaker is going to wear a suit, barber will have overalls and a butcher will wear an apron. Welders will wear their own type of clothing as well. It really depends on what you are doing. But there is nothing stopping a worker from wearing a shirt or a jumper.
@Abraxastrust
2 жыл бұрын
Look at 1920- men wore three piece suits in absolute poverty , iron workers , rail way workers , even men begging for change had a shirt . For every solution .. there’s Alwways a man with an excuse .. pick the man you want to be
@Matthew-ez4ze
2 жыл бұрын
Two of the best pieces of advice I learned when I was a young man - "Always leave the house looking your best - no matter where you're going," and "dress for the job you want, not the job you have."
@elgrigorio1
2 жыл бұрын
I can kinda relate. I rarely get dressed up in a suit unless it's for a job interview. I ended up running into a friend of mine who is always well dressed, on my way to an interview. He told me he liked how I looked and encouraged me to wear a suit and tie more often. I took his advice, I don't dress up as often, but I feel better in a suit than in a regular t-shirt and jeans.
@MessiAndA3
2 жыл бұрын
I should be wearing lab coats everywhere then.
@felicianothorpe8998
2 жыл бұрын
sound advice
@ProjectAlphaPrimetime
2 жыл бұрын
what if the job you want everyone works in jeans and maybe a polo lmfao
@dovahkiinhater
2 жыл бұрын
Those imply the nearly exact same thing...
@peteryyz43
Жыл бұрын
Tom Ford said it best: “Dressing well is a form of good manners.”
@ravenclaw783
Жыл бұрын
If we were all as rich as Tom Ford, I'm sure we would all make more of an effort too.
@gabriel.t.anderson
Жыл бұрын
@@ravenclaw783 i think that is not what it means. I'm only 20, and a student, so i don't have a lot of money, but when i buy clothes, i try to take my time and buy quality ! "Manners maketh man" , words to live by, taking care of your look, is a part of the respect you have for yourself and for others.
@ravenclaw783
Жыл бұрын
@@gabriel.t.anderson Oh ok. Good for you. I didn't know H and M was quality.
@JPS2525
Жыл бұрын
@@ravenclaw783 oh shit😂
@konyvnyelv.
Жыл бұрын
Who decides what it means to dress well?
@04dram04
2 жыл бұрын
Im taking Jordans advice. Today I wore a suit to the gym, and never felt better. Everyone was even staring at me, so there must be something to it.
@charmander9631
2 жыл бұрын
LMAO
@JoiskiMe
2 жыл бұрын
Can you get more boomer -deconstructionist xD this is exactly the kind of joke you'd find in a newspaper comic 😂
@marshal7957
2 жыл бұрын
very funny...
@DavidAPerez-ee2gi
2 жыл бұрын
Based
@lebowe6131
2 жыл бұрын
Are you gonna speak in a woman's soporno voice like cult leader jordan
@stevenbrazell8460
Жыл бұрын
Dated a girl who told me once that as a adult, the way you dress is how you’re treated. Best thing I’ve taken away in a long time.
@vibhasj8470
10 ай бұрын
As an adult
@slothymango
9 ай бұрын
@@vibhasj8470as a baby
@claudiamanta1943
8 ай бұрын
But should one be treated according to what he/she wears?
@FragmentOfInfinity
7 ай бұрын
@@slothymangoas a brontosaurus
@JoshuaTraffanstedt
6 ай бұрын
@@slothymangoI wear diapers but people just treat me like a grown man in diapers.
@gustavomacall4997
2 жыл бұрын
Dressing up is not always about impressing others but it's about having respect for yourself, your position,the event you're at and expressing your style.
@OS-yg9fr
2 жыл бұрын
sheep
@ivayloivanov3744
2 жыл бұрын
sheepoo
@afromuthfuka
2 жыл бұрын
i mean, whats more "respect for yourself"? wearing the same classy attire as everyone else to try fit in with the occasion? or having the courage to dress the way you want, get weird stares and not care? Guess what? the wrong answer doesn't exist...your perspective and opinion exists though.
@OS-yg9fr
2 жыл бұрын
@@afromuthfuka ok aristotle
@afromuthfuka
2 жыл бұрын
@@OS-yg9fr ok sheep caller
@K.J.H_
2 жыл бұрын
I think Jordan hit the nail on the head with the story about his father. People dress up to see Jordan speak as a sign of respect and to mark the occasion as an important event in their lives. The choice to formalise the evening has an intention about it, that you're there to take the information and the man seriously.
@brucehutchinson9527
2 жыл бұрын
@bobby macallister . So why are you here following his "dumb right-wing Babel"?¿? Seems like you would spend your time better listening to ESPN or ESPN KZitem to figure out what's the best over-under and spreads are for the next game & listening to why billionaires and mega millionaires are racist toward millionaires in their employ.
@bobwallace4733
2 жыл бұрын
@bobby macallister Here's hoping you can use your reasoning mind to put your feelings into place.
@proseforpoets
2 жыл бұрын
@bobby macallister I think they dress up on CNN too, maybe more your speed.
@sharkymoon422
2 жыл бұрын
Jordan took a untested jab for a cold and then told everyone to take it too! Knob
@petecabrina
2 жыл бұрын
Na this is all a lot of mental masturbation, which is kind of ironic from a psychologist, just as your notions and bias towards Jordan is a lot of mental masturbation going on in your own head. This all just speaks to western bias as well and Jordan's own cultural bias, men who only feel comfortable in suits or certain clothing are restrained on some level. Not that I am saying you should not dress up and make an effort, but the idea that it matters so much or is of importance is trivial to say the least.
@anthonyfonseca2417
2 жыл бұрын
“Everyone dresses down so they look like overgrown 10 year olds” I feel some relief hearing him say this because sometimes I look at people that get so much hype for their “clout” or their “drip” and I feel like I’d look and feel like a clown if I wore the same thing. I always feel like maybe I just don’t care enough to keep up with the fashion trends but maybe I just genuinely dislike most of the trends going on today.
@pixelfan8792
2 жыл бұрын
Don't follow every trend, but instead be yourself!
@arejaycee5484
2 жыл бұрын
I've always wore what I want never cared what others thought. Just be yourself
@williamg.beaulieu1465
2 жыл бұрын
The illusion of cloutness or dripness is in itself a trap of limited identity, don’t fall like a prey, hunt for the prey ! which is a process in the self
@donjon1518
2 жыл бұрын
@Carbon Proksi sthu
@lightsprite6128
2 жыл бұрын
@@donjon1518 Bro why 💀
@Munchkin2357
Жыл бұрын
I used to hate dressing up but nowadays always feel good and more confident when I put on a shirt and tie. It's as much about self respect as it is about respect for others. This matters at any age, even for 65 year old like myself. When I see so many people dressed up like chavs, I despair, but I think there is now a movement towards more classical dressing, which is to be welcomed.
@konyvnyelv.
Жыл бұрын
What if I hate ties and shirts. I feel ridiculous into it. It's a nonsense clothes.
@GooseBurt
Жыл бұрын
@@jwolf267if you’re wearing a tie to appear more successful to strangers and that type of clothing is not in common with what you do for work, yes it is nonsense. But let all these inspired men walk around urban zones dressed up nice reaping all the benefits of real men who wear overalls and provide food and build the world for them.
@ice9557
Жыл бұрын
Just a simple little thing as you increasing your appearance and presentation helped build/change your mindset. That’s great and an awesome story. I read a few years ago that. . . You don’t get paid by the hour you get paid the value you bring to the hour. That change d my whole perspective and outlook of hourly wage labor.
@jonm5217
11 ай бұрын
Unless it’s required for work or a formal event, dressing up is completely unnecessary. Clothing doesn’t/shouldn’t change how you feel about yourself.
@CarlosSantana-we6ts
11 ай бұрын
I disagree, we all have a certain pair of pants or a shirt that makes us feel good about ourselves clothes can change the way we feel. @@jonm5217
@c05l24
2 жыл бұрын
Monday - Friday I do a suit or sports jacket and slacks, weekends jeans or shorts. I like both equally but I have to admit the ladies seem to like the suits better lol.
@romariosmith422
2 жыл бұрын
So you wear clothes to impress women?
@c05l24
2 жыл бұрын
@@romariosmith422 Read what I said again :)
@RichardS-hz6wn
2 жыл бұрын
With that face I don't think it matters
@thetrokeroroberto3106
2 жыл бұрын
Damn Chad leave some for the rest of us
@mgtowmonk7044
2 жыл бұрын
@@RichardS-hz6wn lol
@garysavala665
Жыл бұрын
As a lifelong construction worker this rings a bell It never hurts to look professional and take pride in your boots tools or work I feel like it goes hand in hand . My two cents from a blue collar .
@oakleyorbit
Жыл бұрын
Yes!
@jamieirving941
Жыл бұрын
I knew a mechanic, old school guy, wore a shirt and tie under his overalls for 40 odd years. Real gent.
@moorshound3243
Жыл бұрын
So do you wear JK boots? I really want a pair.
@christiannoriega9503
Жыл бұрын
Well said.
@IceBug1337
Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@cristianibanez7303
2 жыл бұрын
“Dressing well is a form of good manners” - Tom Ford
@jsquared1013
2 жыл бұрын
I think the guy is overrated and his products are pretentious, but that statement is bang on.
@MatthewC137
2 жыл бұрын
@@jsquared1013 I've never heard of him but also agree with the statement.
@lavinder11
2 жыл бұрын
Lol I know this guy personally. Yuck to him
@gadget00
2 жыл бұрын
I like his designs, and this quote now as well
@David-eu1ms
2 жыл бұрын
The more well dressed the man, the less trustworthy he is.
@marieehanes
2 жыл бұрын
My dad was a cardiologist and is now passed away. He wore a suit every single day. As children, we never saw him that he wasn't wearing at least a tie.
@andrew_koala2974
2 жыл бұрын
The Elite rulers who control the world - place their influencers into society - mostly via Student groups and in certain media - to change perception of the people - In most cases the result of the controlled manipulation creates an economical advantage for the controlling Elite and to a lesser degree fro the 'paid' influencers who infiltrate many areas of society and whose job it is to change the culture. What has largely been created is a society of modern-day peasants. Mass-produced cheap clothing where the people who make it are paid in cents per garment - NOT Dollars -- these make huge profits for the retailers' Manufacturers and distributors - and a pittance for the workers. The clothing is NOT always sold to the consumer at the lowest price - It only appears inexpensive to the better quality products that create a social gap between the have(s) and the Have Not(s) This is all done intentionally - People are being constantly manipulated by the Elite Rulers. PSYOPS have been conducted for well over a century. Having served in the Military for 30 years - I wore a uniform most of the time - and that had to be perfect in every way to a specific standard. One would spend an hour just polishing one shoe boot. I had Canadian Brass on my uniform and it was a shiny as polished Gold.
@charmander9631
2 жыл бұрын
what does your father being a cardiologist had to do with anything in this vid?
@aamirh3567
2 жыл бұрын
@Matej Juhás not seen a doctor in a suit for years. i'm 31, the suited doctors in my area have diminished
@AlaborJinta
3 ай бұрын
sounds like an anal retentive compulsive figure.
@dontdoxmebro
2 жыл бұрын
As a six figure blue collar worker I find dressing homeless looking beneficial. No one ever asks you for money or favors if they think you’re worse off than them. That being said, I wouldn’t mind wearing suits if I didn’t live in florida
@icanseewhytheyhateus
2 жыл бұрын
i think places like florida and all the big shots moving there is a reason for this. i had a teacher who said she never saw ppl out in public in flip flops until she moved to florida, but its so hot you need to here.
@J509-b8c
2 жыл бұрын
Amen
@AnthonyRamirez-bk8ss
2 жыл бұрын
@@icanseewhytheyhateus yeah I mean it's near the beach, flip flops might be common
@sw6088
2 жыл бұрын
Everyone is so caught up in the suit thing. The overall point they’re making is don’t look like a bum. There nothing wrong with a collared shirt and nice pants. Just try not to look like a bum and take pride in how you look.
2 жыл бұрын
As someone that makes too many figures to count I agree. - Said no one
@Joel-ew1zm
Жыл бұрын
My first job in IT only required a company branded polo or button down. I took it a step further, wearing the button down exclusively and also always wearing a tie with it (I was the only one who chose to wear a tie). For the 3 years I worked at that company, I was the fastest rising employee on the help desk, receiving a promotion and several large raises. Many people who only wore the bare minimum attire also presented a bare minimum attitude and therefore received bare minimum compensation.
@tonygrowley5275
Жыл бұрын
Ties remind me of leashes and collars, like on a dog. Anyone can come up and yank your chain!
@hallowiegehts9227
Жыл бұрын
Bro is it really worth it... Wearing a fkn choke holder for 3 years during summer? Just let your actions speak and be productive win the competition
@Muhluri
Жыл бұрын
So: Externally: symbolizes that you're not average Internally: makes you feel that the job is important and therefore that reflects in the work that you do
@brucelee4763
Жыл бұрын
You are wrong
@perrycoffey5410
Жыл бұрын
It's pathetic how this society is
@thestandardbarber1708
2 жыл бұрын
I've worn at least a button-up shirt EVERY DAY for the last 18 years! I did it while driving a concrete mixer and as a barber.
@keithjackson4985
2 жыл бұрын
Lol 😆 lol 😆 hilarious. Love that.
@CCF_Christopher
2 жыл бұрын
That’s Awesome!!
@bugsy791
2 жыл бұрын
Lol... U a legend mate
@davruck1
2 жыл бұрын
Good for you. Would you like a Scooby snack?
@eyes2338
2 жыл бұрын
Good on you Hernandez.
@ogtuk8363
2 жыл бұрын
"Clothes don't make the man ,but appearance is everything" a quote my dad uses a lot
@SeregaOrgan
Жыл бұрын
Your dad is not very smart
@karahka2
Жыл бұрын
@@SeregaOrgan You are filling gaps in your mind and you dont even question your conclusion?
@MaximusAugustusOrthodox
Жыл бұрын
@@SeregaOrgan didn’t notice you know his father
@vikashsharma9837
Жыл бұрын
@@SeregaOrgan Toff mentality
@Thegoldenchild415
Жыл бұрын
Its not expensive to dress nicely. Target button up shirt(fitted $22), Target fitted suit ($160). Ross/Marshall's Bow tie($12) I've had expensive suits, but here is the cheat code. If you're in phenomenal shape, everything looks good on you. I have this Tshirt($11) , that's ironically from Target and it's a "Superbad Mclovin" Tshirt. I get more compliments on that shirt than much more expensive clothes. Stay in shape. That way you can wear any and everything. Out of shape people look so uncomfortable.
@DemetriosLevi
2 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad someone as influential as Jordan is spreading this message: you're an ambassador of yourself, your family, religion, people, city, country, etc. So dress like it with dignity and honor and intention
@metamorphicme9378
2 жыл бұрын
Agreed sir!
@lovedove2661
2 жыл бұрын
Yes, well stated!
@sta1RR
2 жыл бұрын
Yes but not always, dressing properly for the occasion is the point. Not wearing suits for just grocery shopping or going to parks….
@sta1RR
2 жыл бұрын
@@joeyondakeys dressing up helps with own confidence and people, ofcourse dress up according to the occasion at hand . Like you cant say oh mu anxiety , ill just wear a jeans and stained tshirt to a funeral, or your own wedding, or some important meeting maybe……
@InKwetrust99
2 жыл бұрын
@@joeyondakeys yes! Status anxiety mainly
@SC-gp7kt
9 ай бұрын
As a woman, I absolutely LOVE to see a man dressed up. Even if he's casual but well put together, clean, manicured and confident, its a great attractor ❤
@Sherman350
7 ай бұрын
Not every man gonta be lovin on other men with that sweet stuff
@lotte4267
7 ай бұрын
Yep, definitely
@NS-lz6jh
4 ай бұрын
I hate the term "well put together " wtf is that supposed to mean? Most guys in suits can't do a dmn thing! I bet they call AAA when a tire blows. Or use cleaning people to clean their house. I doubt they would even change a diaper.
@Nattymatty7
2 жыл бұрын
When you dress up and especially stand out from the crowd you just automatically get respect. And that’s a fact. Never be average. Screw what people think, or if there dressing down. Always dress one above everyone else. Trust me
@rick6582CNCMedicalParts
2 жыл бұрын
100% RIght -If you want to be "In - Like Flynn " & meet women & look good at work ..
@defaultworkouts
2 жыл бұрын
I look at accomplishments and results, and not the cover of the book. I have met plenty of scammers dressed in business suits too.
@Nattymatty7
2 жыл бұрын
@@defaultworkouts so everyone who’s wearing a suit, has to be worth 1 million dollars? Lol. Nothing wrong with dressing up to feel good mate. Most business guys who work in an office make average salaries a year.
@fvr12345
2 жыл бұрын
Or you look like that guy dressed like a rapper, except that he’s not a rapper. Just comes off as an insecure imposter worried about what everyone thinks.
@JustMe-999a
2 жыл бұрын
A man knows the difference between there, their, and they're
@jag5798
2 жыл бұрын
I was hired at Disney at one of its entry positions. I wore a suit for 6 weeks. When we graduated from customer service class, everyone automatically thought I was already a manager - when I presented with a promotion after 2 weeks of graduating. Dress for the position you want.
@stevegwizzle3560
2 жыл бұрын
🧢
@cheetor18
2 жыл бұрын
So, you are joking right? I've seen drunken homeless people in suit and tie. It is about what you have up there.
@jamesmir89
2 жыл бұрын
@@stevegwizzle3560 hahahah
@gatsbymaguire
2 жыл бұрын
And then everyone at Disney clapped, right?
@ryancasey919
Жыл бұрын
What kind of suit? Are we talking bespoke, Gucci, quintessential men’s warehouse? Or are we talking a Mickey Mouse or goofy costume suit?
@aa1589
5 ай бұрын
Dressing in a suit regularly will change your life. It's like working out, except the benefits are instant.
@Jake_AC
2 жыл бұрын
I generally like to dress up. However, sometimes it’s really nice to dress down as a way to hide into the background when I don’t feel like talking to people.
@bigb9257
2 жыл бұрын
based on your statement, you only talk to people when you dress up? If you dress down, you don't feel like talking to people? Doesn't make sense to me. Clothes doesn't determine if a person wants to talk to people or not. Overall, it's usually the mood of the person.
@jdizzle6324
2 жыл бұрын
Clothes are more important than character or morals. -Giant turd
@antondavidovic3996
2 жыл бұрын
@@bigb9257 He's right in that you stand out less the more casual you dress, sometimes people prefer not to stand out at all.
@tkushhhnigga
2 жыл бұрын
With you on that Jacob.
@graxburg4412
2 жыл бұрын
@@bigb9257 no, but, a person can dress-up or down to better maintain expectations when interacting with someone.
@ExMachina70
2 жыл бұрын
I learned that the word "consequence" simply means "result", not necessarily the negative connotation that often comes with it. At every turn, I learn something new with Jordan Peterson.
@tezzo55
2 жыл бұрын
Con sequence: a sequence of related events. The clue's in the word LOL
@ExMachina70
2 жыл бұрын
@@tezzo55 😜Yes I get it. It's just commonly used as a negative and I never really looked the word up.
@socter
2 жыл бұрын
Jordan Peele begs to defer
@tezzo55
2 жыл бұрын
@@ExMachina70 LOL. Not sure why 'events that occur through previous events' would necessarily be negative, or positive. Thinking that all consequential events would be negative probably says more about your life, than it does about the word or the world. It seems like depression.
@tezzo55
2 жыл бұрын
@@ExMachina70 It's not so much the '12 Rules for Life' you need. It's 'The Oxford English Dictionary. Best :-)
@thomasjorge4734
2 жыл бұрын
Your Father said EXACTLY what I said and lived as a Teacher. Students liked it. Parents appreciated it. Teachers were astonished. I enjoyed it. It said: I am a Professional and what I do is important.
@ReadOrwell
2 жыл бұрын
I was told to not dress up as a teacher. I did it anyway and got lots of hate.
@thomasjorge4734
2 жыл бұрын
@@ReadOrwell ENVY!
@lebowe6131
2 жыл бұрын
No one's dad every told them to speak in a soporno voice and cry every other interview
@Bauks
Жыл бұрын
There are 6 reasons I dress up. Weddings. Funerals. Job Interviews. Court. Because a girl wants me to. And for Jordan Peterson seminars.
@sumayabetty2296
2 жыл бұрын
When you dress good, you feel good and you feel good, you do good.
@_VISION.
2 жыл бұрын
And we all know good is subjective
@Thank-u-so-much-for-everything
2 жыл бұрын
@@_VISION. bla bla bla(sorry for that not feeling great for as a excuse to use unappropriate words) there is always common we are not so very different from each other dude............
@rexcaverly3788
2 жыл бұрын
I think the tech industry has really shaped our way of dressing more than anything. Suddenly, we have all these highly skilled professionals who dress like they’re working from home and the old paradigm is broke. It became apparent that the clothes don’t necessarily add value to the bottom line.
@nofurtherwest3474
2 жыл бұрын
It depends on your role. It's like having a uniform. You wouldn't wear a suit working at McDonald's or being a lumberjack. A good uniform for coding is something more casual. But the guys in the legal department were not wearing T-shirts most likely. Depends on the particular company's culture as well. But yeah, siting in front of a computer and coding for 8 hours in a 3 piece suit doesn't really make sense.
@Transatlanticism04
2 жыл бұрын
I think k you missed the point really
@advancedomega
2 жыл бұрын
I don't know whether this is a joke or a fact: "Whenever you see a room full of men in suits with one guy wears only denim and t-shirt, that guy is either the IT guy or the owner."
@frankalexson4475
2 жыл бұрын
@@advancedomega it's both xD
@Matheusreisl
2 жыл бұрын
Bad example. Most tech companies have negative bottom line..
@hugster2000
2 жыл бұрын
You don’t have to dress formally, but you either put in an effort or you don’t. In my opinion, these things are momentum based, so when you start putting effort into stuff like this, it tends to be easier to apply that effort to other parts of your life. It’s a behaviour pattern of doing more than the bare minimum.
@toby9999
2 жыл бұрын
What do you mean by effort? It takes the same effort to pull on a pair of jeans as it does suit trousers. Shoes the same. Adding a tie is a little extra but not a lot extra. I don't see it as measure of "effort". I see it as a measure of "ego".
@hugster2000
2 жыл бұрын
@@toby9999 mental effort to put together a better outfit. It’s not complicated.
@cordulam
Жыл бұрын
@@toby9999 That is sad. Don't be afraid to dress well.
@teejayventura6758
Жыл бұрын
Well said.
@KanesTrades
2 жыл бұрын
Im glad I watched this. I often dress like an overgrown 10yr old. I'll be putting more effort into dressing more sharply from now on. Thanks JP.
@sskengineering8474
2 жыл бұрын
Ah hello brothers
@handsomegiraffe
2 жыл бұрын
Good on ya!
@ricoandrade3123
2 жыл бұрын
Balenciaga
@johnreynolds6369
2 жыл бұрын
Time to splash the cash then.
@johnpatterson4272
2 жыл бұрын
Well articulated by Peterson. Dress-up and be ready to do business. It sends a message before you even open your mouth.
@andrew_koala2974
2 жыл бұрын
It is no different to being in a cake shop and seeing a beautifully decorated cake and a bland plain sponge. Which would you choose? One can also see the difference in perception from how the average Man dresses how shabby a vagrant dresses -- And naturally one has a lower perception of value of the vagrant simply because of the way that they dress -- It is not their fault that they dress like that as they cannot afford to maintain them-self However - the point is how one is perceived by the standard of clothing - behavior and the language used - By language I mean the specific choice of words and how the words are delivered. I recall speaking with the wife of a Sydney Jeweller who specializes in selling and mining precious stone - She met her husband when he was visiting Thailand - and said that she chose him because he was well dressed / well presented. Her words were 'Always dress well and sharp - You never know who you will meet - and the presentation can make a big change in one's future.
@johnpatterson4272
2 жыл бұрын
@@andrew_koala2974 Well said. Thank you for that.
@theconqueror21
2 жыл бұрын
Really just depends on what type of business you are doing. Unless I am meeting with owners of a company it is a bit much in my opinion.
@Beyondqqq
2 жыл бұрын
@@andrew_koala2974 Disagree on the analogy. Plenty of cakes look exceptional and are utterly devoid of taste and quality. Same with people.
@trancemaster5009
2 жыл бұрын
It can also backfire on you.
@JG-fx8jm
2 жыл бұрын
Yes the dress down mentality is global but NOTHING like the U.S. We have become a lazy and sloppy society. Women wearing pajama and yoga pants, grown men wearing sneakers and ball caps, and how does a grown man not wear a jacket to a formal event?? Grow up America.
@solodolotrevino
2 жыл бұрын
Clothes don’t make the man
@grendelprime166
2 жыл бұрын
Pushed by certain people in the fashion industry. It's awful how cyclical fashion has become since the 50s.
@chriscoulson7684
2 жыл бұрын
I feel like all this is about to change. It’s all a reflection of how we all have everything in abundance and nothing is out of reach, I’m from the uk and we have a very big pub culture. My grandad used to wear a suit to sit at the bar and his wife wore a fancy beautiful dress. Now in England we go to the pub in shorts and T-shirt all night. It’s because it’s not seen as a treat anymore, we can all afford to eat at a restaurant every single day, sit at a bar drinking and still have money in the bank, even lowest skilled workers have spare money, even people on social security go out to dinner. It’s crazy. But I feel all that is going to change. People are going to get slightly poorer and appreciate things again
@JG-fx8jm
2 жыл бұрын
@@solodolotrevino In that sense, nothing makes a "man" other than his character. But proper dress in many aspects defines who you are.
@Baker68
Жыл бұрын
I still dress like a ten year old
@LeadLeftLeon
2 жыл бұрын
Suits are the biggest scam in fashion. Most males wear a suit maybe 2 to 3 timez per year. Yet spend $500+ on a suit that’s barely worn. Better to invest big money in clothes that you wear daily: jeans, jackets, and shoes
@martincadenas5839
2 жыл бұрын
I agree bro. 👍
@KD400_
2 жыл бұрын
Thsts y they wear it to look rich
@mgtowmonk7044
2 жыл бұрын
@@KD400_ wear to look rich but they are not rich 😂
@slkjess1206
2 жыл бұрын
It’s having a sense of pride in your stride. Of course it’s not for everyone. Also, to respond directly to your comment, there is people who wear their suits very often. For example, Jordan Peterson, Dan pena, etc.
@raysesma6944
2 жыл бұрын
I can fully agree with what is said here. I'm a technician but self educated, I get dirty so the engineers dont have to. I have young children as well so I have never felt the need to dress any more professional than just a simple solid colored t-shirt and jeans. I have noticed that I get treated inferior to others when I dress casually on a regular basis. But when I clean up, wash my face and trim my beard and remove the oils from my nails, put on a nice suit and get the expensive watch out and then drive my wife's nice car ( I ride a motorcycle), people treat me better and talk to me with respect. They let me have their seat and even sometimes even open doors for me. Its weird how materialistic objects or fabrics can dictate how others perceive you. Then the next day im back in my dirty clothes covered in oil and im back to being a nobody. The funny thing is that I probably make more money than alot of them realize.
@Nattymatty7
2 жыл бұрын
It sounds fake but that’s exactly true. You gain respect from people when you dress up. You get compliments that wouldn’t happen if you were just dressed normal. This has happened to me sooo many times when I dress up nice.
@APsupportsTerrorism
2 жыл бұрын
I like how he cuts straight to the heart of "fashion" as a psychological need for the wealthy to disassociate themselves from the working class, and the working class' simultaneous emulation of them.
@SoumilSahu
2 жыл бұрын
And this fashion includes suits as well.
@tonygrowley5275
Жыл бұрын
The working class does not emulate them, it's more like pity.
@moonbasemonk
Жыл бұрын
The working class feels too uncomfortable or ashamed to emulate the wealthy, so no.
@Anonymous-ro5fv
Жыл бұрын
Whoops! That hit a nerve!
@tonygrowley5275
Жыл бұрын
@@Anonymous-ro5fv A better title - "Why I think men should try to look like me"..
@darylhopkins9796
Жыл бұрын
This presentation made me think. To your point, you’re absolutely right. Why do us as men dress like we’re still in high school? Jeans, sneakers, and hoodies. Instead of dress shoes, slacks, and sports coats. In the military I felt a sense of honor when I wore dress blues. I think as men we need to reboot our wardrobes and update our definition of fashion. Dressing for success speaks volumes.
@jacobwalsh1888
Жыл бұрын
Life is often suffering and discomfort. If wearing what I feel comfortable in helps me to deal with that, I will continue to do so. Dress shoes are stupid and uncomfortable. Good supportive footwear should be worn at all times. Sport coats are ridiculous. A simple good quality shirt is all one needs.
@jrbobdobbs5516
Жыл бұрын
Do you dress for success every moment of your life? Going to a ball game, taking the kids to school, running to the grocery store, when it's 90+ degrees outside, etc? Can you think of any time in your day or week when wearing a tee shirt and shorts are practical?
@igormoravcik300
Жыл бұрын
We do it because sneakers and hoodies are comfortable, its that simple Who is it that defined that men have to wear shirts and ties and suits? Its just bs you were contidioned to believe...
@LokiTricksterG
Жыл бұрын
@@jacobwalsh1888 I dress up all the time, and I feel that dress clothes are every bit as comfortable as normal casual clothes. Maybe I'm just used to it, but I don't see how wearing a sports coat is uncomfortable at all unless you're wearing it in extremely hot temperatures. As far as shoes, you don't have to buy dress shoes, you can buy leather sneakers or boots that provide the same level of comfort, but give a classier appearance.
@LokiTricksterG
Жыл бұрын
@@jrbobdobbs5516 I don't wear a suit in the summer obviously, but there are still ways to look good. When it's hot, I usually wear a short-sleeved button-down shirt or a short-sleeved Henley. In my opinion, both look better than a t-shirt AND feel better than a t-shirt. No one is saying you have to do this. You can wear jorts and a t-shirt like John Cena if that works for you. However, I often hear men complaining about how they don't get attention from women, but then when people give them advice, they get irritable and start listing off the reasons for why they can't do what was just recommended.
@palomino73
2 жыл бұрын
It's always a wonderful feeling to hear someone talking about something, using all the same reasoning and sometimes the same words and phrases like you used yourself.
@vendicardecarian9220
2 жыл бұрын
I can't wait to hear his opinions on the color underwear men should wear and the proper way to man-scape.
@dranklucas3724
2 жыл бұрын
@@vendicardecarian9220 what^
@pixelfan8792
2 жыл бұрын
@palo - Peterson speaks out of common sense.
@vendicardecarian9220
2 жыл бұрын
@@pixelfan8792 Peterson does occasionally produce sentences that contain not only words, but some meaning, and yes, a few of them actually make some sense. He isn't as stupid as a rock. He is more like a sack of apples. It's his fanbouys who are the sack of rocks.
@jaylenny62
2 жыл бұрын
As an image consultant, I can't emphasize this enough. Best dressed people go further than well degreed up people. Looking good is good business.
@manilamartin1001
2 жыл бұрын
Minority men understand there is a message to be sent. I hated watching ladies dress so nice and their date look like a slob.
@overdose8329
2 жыл бұрын
It seems a bit narcissistic to put so much effort into looks and clothes though
@cm-yu6gu
2 жыл бұрын
@@overdose8329 if you think nice clothes makes you narcissistic then it's hard to not have a bitter outlook on life
@jaylenny62
2 жыл бұрын
Every little thing people just throw the word narcissist....ughh. What has dressing good for to do with narcissism?
@Kwizii
2 жыл бұрын
Meh, substance is more important than form. I prefer competent, smart and efficient people over good looking well dressed ones. I guess it depends on who is in power to decide who can go further; I'm part of a younger generation and I don't care much about form as long as the person is competent, honest and trustworthy. I've even come across the counter example: this dude was over dressing and using extensive vocabulary and in effect wasn't that competent, just a good confident talker. I didn't keep him long and was a bit ashamed that I had fallen in his trap and hired him to begin with, all because he presented himself so well.
@joaquinmoncada6374
2 жыл бұрын
I began dressing up thanks to the words of Dr. Peterson, and I feel absolutely fantastic.
@creeep755
Жыл бұрын
Same 😎 love him.
@tonygrowley5275
Жыл бұрын
You aren't wearing a suit in your avatar pic.
@potatoeskimos
Жыл бұрын
@@tonygrowley5275 dressing well isn't just putting on a suit. It's to wear a jeans or a trouser that fits and t-shirt or a shirt that matches. No one wears suit all the time.
@tonygrowley5275
Жыл бұрын
@@potatoeskimos Watch the first 2 minutes of the video and see what Peterson says.
@albertogutierrez8653
Жыл бұрын
I started building a wardrobe because of him. I feel fantastic, and I like my bank account. I owe this man so much.
@jeffincanada5060
Жыл бұрын
It is always more comfortable to be overdressed than underdressed. When you are overdressed, you can go places that you cannot go when you are underdressed, but it is not reversible.
@seamushayday1222
2 жыл бұрын
I work in the construction industry on the tools and the outdoors sector, I have a uniform for both and when I'm going out I wear a smart jacket, tie and shoes. No excuse for shabby dressing like an overgrown child, no matter your profession.
@stepparentingmadeeasy
2 жыл бұрын
I partially agree with him; I was brought up in boarding schools since a very very young age. I wore a uniform since first grade. Grey slacks, white shirts, tie, jacket and loafers. From first to 12 grade. I was in the military after that and uniforms is the norm. Then I went to work in three piece suits in all shades of grey for a very long time…now I refuse to wear anything that resembles a formal attire. I feel at ease even if dramatically underdresses compared to the rest of the crowd. But If at any point I were to feel the need to dress up to par, I would.
@aamvoor
2 жыл бұрын
Agree!!
@fatgeisha4685
2 жыл бұрын
it's so funny he says this, I actually started having a lot of thoughts about my clothes and image as I got closer to 30 and it really confused me because I wasn't sure how to present myself, I still looked like a kid, dressed like the kids, which got me treated like a kid. As soon as I began dressing nice for the occasions and putting effort into presenting myself as a collected adult, not only did I get treated like an ADULT but others looked too me as an example.
@creamydistortion
2 жыл бұрын
It works better in Europe.
@TanisHalf-Elven
2 жыл бұрын
See that guy? Go snatch his wallet
@juangraciaofficial
2 жыл бұрын
In my case I love dressing up but the weather in Mexico really forces you to dress simple, from May to October you sweat like a pig all day
@johnmuniz328
2 жыл бұрын
Nicely stated.
@Phyclone
2 жыл бұрын
crazy you say that cuz i been thinkin bout that a lot the past few years to the point i be on pinterest and checkin out the suits and looking to change my wardrobe. of course i will still have a few articles of clothes to dress down in but i am def with you with changing it up for the better. and even that thought has been changing my approach with cars also since im a car guy. i don't find japanese cars appealing anymore like i used to when i was younger. now i want clean euro cars and thats not to say japanese cars dont have a clean fleet, its just my preferences have changed
@buzzwords1996
2 жыл бұрын
I have to 'dress up' in business clothing before I go to school for the morning, then I head to the office. I always feel awkward and out of place amongst my classmates as they all wear sweat shirts and pants, baggy ripped jeans and such. I don't intend to sound judgemental, but the majority look like they've just rolled out of bed. Listening to this made me feel much better, thank you gents!
@ImDembe
2 жыл бұрын
Nothing wrong with a sweatshirt and jeans but ill fitting clothes = bad, so things can look bad even if you buy a suit if it's not sized correct.
@redshark9537
2 жыл бұрын
Classmates are not the ones deciding your grades. I'm retired but applied for a part-time job to stay busy and bring in a little extra. One of the first questions was about my GPA. I graduated college in 1972, and that number is still following me around. Impress the people who determine your future, and your baggy pants classmates will end up working for you.
@Rohilla313
2 жыл бұрын
My experience exactly Elizabeth. You took the words out of my mouth.
@TheRefinedGentleman
Жыл бұрын
When I was in first year of undergrad, I saw so many people show up to write exams in the evening in pyjamas and onesies. It was honestly kind of sad. I get people like comfort in clothing, but it looks bad when some of the professors and grad students dress the same way lol. If you want comfort in tailored clothing, try something single-breasted, made of a really lightweight fabric with unstructured or soft shoulders. A jacket like this with a canvassed construction, paired with handsewn armholes, shoulders and sleeves feels like a second skin, and moves with you. There's this assumption that men's tailored jackets have to be stuffy, uncomfortable and overly formal which can't be farther from the truth.
@Greenmachine305
Жыл бұрын
Nothing is more disrespectful than the adults who dress like toddlers.
@VALINOR24
5 ай бұрын
Unfortunately it's more prevalent now than ever.
@04dram04
2 жыл бұрын
When I dress nice, I get treated completely deferent for my favor. Absolutely worth the effort.
@pixelfan8792
2 жыл бұрын
Ask the ladies...
@StrategikMedia
2 жыл бұрын
True
@macjamesflynn3732
2 жыл бұрын
Definitely.
@airlebron7467
Жыл бұрын
The ladies love a well dressed man . Go out there and you will see. You will get signals galore.
@JonathanStrange
2 жыл бұрын
I agree with his points so much! Such an inspirational man.
@antonia6059
2 жыл бұрын
When my family and I moved from Texas to Sacramento California. One of the first things that shocked us was how so many of the men dressed and acted like children. We call California never never land. Having grown up in Texas I used to think the cowboy types were a little bit much. With their big trucks and belts and all. But At least they work hard, can shoot a gun, and respect their mamas. Now I think hands-down you’re better off with a cowboy type than an oversized baby.
@savvyroca
2 жыл бұрын
So true. Moved from H-town to Sacramento. Almost think California cool is assuming manners and behavior of someone 10 years younger than onself.
@antonrameka9292
2 жыл бұрын
I’m coming to Sacramento in August, I’m coming from New Zealand, I will be in my suit while I’m over there as well so I’m glad to see this comment so I know what to expect when I arrive
@alexdaland
Жыл бұрын
I used to be a bouncer, at nicer night clubs. On a vacation in Thailand I bought 5 tailor made suits + xx shirts, ties and so on and started wearing at work. We usually had black windbreakers with "Security" the night club gave us, and the first night someone said "you cant work like that?" Sure I can, I have my badge visible, complying with the law, nobody is going to mistake me for a customer... Within weeks I was promoted and had a pretty nice "career" working high end nightclubs for a few years. And my employer told me straight: Its because of the suit, its looks GREAT, and you wear it good. People love it.
@Heywoodthepeckerwood
2 жыл бұрын
I work outside in nasty conditions and have most of my life but I’ve always dressed up on my off days if I’m not going to do anything that requires otherwise. People that on,y ever see me during work always ask why I’m dressed up. I’m not. This is how I dress. I also hate the fact that most men dress like children. They seem to act like it too.
@bighands69
2 жыл бұрын
For many people simple changes would make all the difference such as a nice jumper or pair of trousers. A polo shirt can also look stylish when worn with nice clothing including Chinos. I look at men visiting a post office in t shirt, shorts and flip flips which always strikes me as bum wear.
@TheRichie213
2 жыл бұрын
Just dress to the occasion.
@Micloren
2 жыл бұрын
A lot of idiot comments totally taking things out of context. He’s not saying wear a suit at the beach. He’s saying be like James Bond & be well put together for the type of scenario. You can be casual and still be well dressed.
@NationalSportsEntertainmentNSE
Жыл бұрын
I’m not even kidding people treat me like a celebrity ever since I got a bargain Gatti😂 It honestly does make a difference I cant explain it but if I’m not wearing a suit I feel like that old bum me from a year ago. Suits are so much more than just looking rich
@rustler160
2 жыл бұрын
I'm also a teacher at a high school. I used to dress up sharp for school out of respect for the children. I even ironed my own clothes because I'm single. I did it for several years. But I found out that the children treat you with the same disrespect regardless of how you dress.
@konyvnyelv.
Жыл бұрын
Yeah plus one can be lazy and respectful even if they are in suits
@alvc22
Жыл бұрын
I wonder if there are any kids whom your dressing up did have an impact on. You do it for the one, not the many.
@brilliantran9808
Жыл бұрын
As a recent student, we only respect teachers when they are making positive impacts to students. You can wear t-shirt and shorts…..😂
@JJDoggett
2 жыл бұрын
I’m early 30s but have always enjoyed dressing smart, even when I get funny looks around the place I live because very few people dress like that here, even when going out for a nice meal etc. Office dress codes have gotten more casual in the decade since I started my career and the pandemic and working from home has turbo charged that. But I love pulling on a suit, tie and pocket square, I don’t care if it’s seen as old fashioned or stuck up or whatever these days, like the guy on the left here says, I too feel more confident and happier when I’m dressed smart and showing my best out to the world. I also feel like when I’m working I’m an ambassador for myself, the office and organisation I represent, so I want to look the part. When I’m on my grind I mean serous business and my outfit reflects that. I know that’s not how everyone thinks, and each to their own, but I’ll keep doing me. To any fellow young men keeping classic fashion alive - I salute you!
@dcarbs2979
2 жыл бұрын
From the original 12 Rules For Life: Hold your head up with your shoulders back. Fine clothing generally, and a good suit in particular makes you feel like doing that. It can have a profound impact on your day.
@jazzkatt7083
2 жыл бұрын
"men were dressed like their children". 🤣Well that did it for me. It's time for me to step my game up. 😎👍
@SeregaOrgan
Жыл бұрын
Cringe
@LastGamer
2 жыл бұрын
Just found your channel, have got nothing but value from it. Thank you. Subscribed
@LITTLEDANCERSADHU993
2 жыл бұрын
Rollo Tomassi is also great
@xkimopye
2 жыл бұрын
When’s a new episode of story mode coming back Joel?
@LastGamer
2 жыл бұрын
@@xkimopye soon man. By Easter 👍
@xkimopye
2 жыл бұрын
@@LastGamer awesome, missing your gaming adventures.
@LastGamer
2 жыл бұрын
@@xkimopye thank you 🙏
@jameskrell4392
2 жыл бұрын
I was saying a couple of days back that no one ever grows up now a days. Have a pride in yourself, project the person you want to be.
@barbellsamurai8014
2 жыл бұрын
yeah wear a suit and become a pill head like junkie peterson
@littleripper312
2 жыл бұрын
So you're saying all the tradesmen who work hard and don't wear a suit in the off hours are not grownups? Some of the most grownup people I know don't wear suits.
@dsJavi2
2 жыл бұрын
People grow old, not up.
@C2yourself
Жыл бұрын
My dad always dressed nice, even to go grocery shopping. One day he's shopping in Walmart North Idaho, wearing his usual dress shirt, sweater best, wool jacket and slacks. They clerk recognizes him and asks what kind of work he does. He said he's in real estate, she answers "you look like a professor". 90% of customers were wearing sweats, puffy vests, athletic shoes, messy hair, no make-up etc. My dad was 80, still working managing his office building but shopped at Walmart to save money. Everything in his closet he bought on sale at Macy's. Always fit, 32" waist and well dressed. Makes a huge difference
@pulpficti
Жыл бұрын
Makes a difference for what? So a random cashier hit on a grandpa. Great. Let's wear tuxes
@Conservative_East
10 ай бұрын
Your dad has "class." Thanks for sharing.
@ethxo6734
2 жыл бұрын
I have meet and greet tickets to his show and my husband and I will both be dressed up 👌🏻
@mgtowmonk7044
2 жыл бұрын
That means he is gae
@billsmith2308
2 жыл бұрын
I will both be dressed up. Did you made a deliberate slip, or you are both a husband?...never mind
@Entropy106
2 жыл бұрын
Sounds like a pretty bullshit, lame, obedient, obsequious, credulous, supercilious, ostentatious, pretentious, dumb thing to do
@somevids4187
2 жыл бұрын
@@billsmith2308 “my husband and I will both be dressed up”.
@ellkir1521
2 жыл бұрын
I love what Ben Shapiro said: "I think maybe his pajama's have a coordinated tie".
@dontwannabefound
Жыл бұрын
Because it’s not about how you look that matters it’s what you produce, what you create, what you accomplish. Dressing up is just trying to hide some underlying inability to do the above.
@jspright5226
2 жыл бұрын
Another interesting point I'd like to raise, is that I've noticed a lot of young children, even as young as 8-10 year olds, are dressing more "grown up". For example, the number of (what has to be) 10 year old girls I see out in public, often wearing one pieces or dresses that are commonly designed for models or adults is staggering - it's actually really disturbing. I know the current fashion climate is one of sexuality; exposing skin, showing "confidence" and "owning oneself" by exposure, but the fact that children are being influenced by this is not good. I personally blame social media and a lack of parental discipline to be the core of this. So it seems to me that adults are dressing "down" towards childishness, whereas children are dressing up towards... well I don't know. What is it exactly?
@JohnSmith-zk8xp
2 жыл бұрын
its that people want to look stylish/sexy and not formal, and they can't grasp what is more important in life, being formal or stylish/sexy... and most people are shapeless blobs so the only thing they can do is completely cover up in FORMAL attire... but formal attire isn't fun or sexy or really that stylish, and so they go casual. casual blobs right next to the fit, shapely, and fun stylish/sexy crowd.
@advi8143
2 жыл бұрын
I have a 2yo. The amount of toddler kids clothes that make them look like mini adults really frustrates me. I miss the days when you could easily find children’s clothing that are sweet and innocent, a reflection of their childhood
@allwillberevealed777
Жыл бұрын
The problem is your greko-roman Christian religion of the devil.
@Timetravel1819
Жыл бұрын
Very good video. I'm doing the female version of that. I recently switched to wearing dresses and skirts 100% of the time now and I love it. 😀 What most people don't realize is that all over the world before the 1960s, women wore dresses exclusively and men word suits exclusively, even when just going to the grocery store or barber shop. This dressing down culture started with the rebellion of the 1960s and spread all over the world through American TV. Then jeans and t shirts became the thing, then sagging pants and ripped pants etc. We all need to go back to dressing up to have more self respect. 😊
@ardentdfender4116
Жыл бұрын
As a guy, I literally can no remember at all the last time I say a woman wearing a dress. I mean that with most seriousness. It says something about the time and culture we are in when you cannot remember women actually wear dressed. So I applaud you for taking the step and switching for yourself and being that ambassador of style.
@Timetravel1819
Жыл бұрын
@@ardentdfender4116 Thank you! 😊
@SeregaOrgan
Жыл бұрын
We all? Speak for yourself, goat. The man dressing as he wants, there is no standarts here. You want have self respect? - cool, but its sad, that the only way you can expierence that is by wearing a fking skirt and not taking admirable actions. Quit using emojis tho, youre cringe
@RealNick04
Жыл бұрын
Thats nice to hear. I havent seen any women or girls weaing a skirt or a dress since the beginning of the 2020 coronavirus pandemic. Im an 18 year old man whos young and graduated HS back in late May. This is gonna be a long paragraph but I will give you some insight as to how I dress: I still wear jeans and t shirts of an artist that I like, but Ive been wearing plain t shirts, clean zip up or button up jackets, with tailored jeans, sunglasses, and clean sneakers (Im a sneakerhead so Im familar with what shoes I should be wearing to be comfortable and look nice) and I’ll the keep the minimum amount of logos on my outfits to 3. I have to wear hats since its hot in Florida and I like to wear dark colors, but I usually switch between dark or colors that arent too bright and I feel great since this what I like to wear because I’m my own person who isnt afraid of being myself.
@georgebelli4403
Жыл бұрын
Time Travel kudos to you!! I recently retired after 20 years at a company I was not required to dress up but wore a shirt and tie every day I did it more for myself than to impress anyone I actually felt only half dressed without a tie I Constantly received complements from women for my "put together "look . Even in retirement I wear collared shirts and chinos rather than ts and jeans most of the time I'm a political moderate to liberal so it's not nostalgia for a "better day" motivating me just pride in myself and respect for others keep at it and don't let anyone intimidate you out of dressing well
@waseemsultan7076
2 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with Patrick. Whenever I wear a suit it does make me feel good and much more confident than wearing designer casual clothes.
@CCGarland
Жыл бұрын
There's something about dressing up and the confidence it gives you when running your business, especially during difficult times. Looking the part is half the battle.
@sunilmathew349
2 жыл бұрын
Love all your Podcasts and I really love this clip. I truly believe all men should dress up as much as possible. It will help you feel better as a man, mentally and spiritually !!!
@t-bone7988
2 жыл бұрын
big facts homie
@vischetty7736
2 жыл бұрын
Hear hear man, we’ve gotten WAAAAY to comfortable here these days.
@TheRelger
2 жыл бұрын
I dress for work. Rarely dress up. I used to when my wife and I would go on a date. But we rarely do that now. I’m a labourer and I don’t have much opportunity for dressing up so I don’t have many nice clothes.
@silvergirl2847
2 жыл бұрын
Treat yourself to a suit wear it once in a while you'll feel.amillion dollars.and guess what your wife will want to matchup with you I'll bet 😁.its a win win.
@bighands69
2 жыл бұрын
Labourers have their own professional garb. Just like a baker, Barber or gardener.
@kristiejones5431
2 жыл бұрын
RIGHT. I used to dress up when me and my husband (about to be exhub) would go out even if it was just to the walkin theater, sonic and then maybe stop for a beer on the way home. It was great. Loved it. Until he started jacking around with well...anyone and everyone else...and some low rent trashy things too. Ugh good God. And it got to where I stopped going anywhere with him. It was degrading to be seen with him. Took its toll on my selfesteem like you wouldn't believe. Now, im trying to get my head back where it used to be...where it was about "me feeling like a woman" for a bit in my heels, wiggle dress or pencil skirt, makeup and victory rolls... When majority of your time is spent wearing the jeans, hoodies and Harley boots, lugging around power tools, climbing up on your roof or crawling under the house to fix sh!t and by the end of the day you LOOK LIKE A MAN AND YOU SMELL LIKE A MAN...YOU WANT TO FELL LIKE YOU'RE STILL A WOMAN BY DOLLING YOURSELF UP LIKE A LADY lmao Which is why your wife loved you putting in the effort to be "her gentleman" and taking her out as "your lady". And vice versa
@manhoosnick
2 жыл бұрын
Dress up night and lady will be inviting you to date, i mean your wife lady ;)
@xFusselmanx
2 жыл бұрын
Blue Collar is the only way to be 🤘🏻
@paulweston2246
2 жыл бұрын
Sorry but this guy isn't god. Sometimes he just talks common sense that most people have. He isn't any different to anyone else, he is just stuck in his own ways
@bighands69
2 жыл бұрын
That just nonsense.
@Phantomshader
9 ай бұрын
I am 17 now and still wear suits casually like mostly the 3 piece suits (Thanks to peaky blinders) I felt really good and new about myself, I love to see this fashion come back like the 1930s - 1960s and seeing 18 - 25 year olds wear suits as a casual thing makes me know that im not alone in this fashion and I hate it when everyone says "It feels uncomfortable) it all depends on the material you use for each weather and I use wool for winter and Cotton for hot weathers and I also dress up more in old money style too but I think this fashion should return.
@CampbellsDiaryVA
9 ай бұрын
Hey, i just wanted to say that you definitely aren’t alone in this, i’m 16, going on 17, and i’ve been fascinated in this sort of style since i was 13 when i first laid my eyes upon a dark green tweed suit that my grandfather had since he was young. I’ve always figured that, contrary to what most people think, you CAN wear ties/suits casually, and I do wear them casually every day, constantly trying to improve on my style. Respect to you, sir!
@Phantomshader
8 ай бұрын
@@CampbellsDiaryVA I respect you too, and ye the old movies really fascinated me because men back than really showed their masculinity through suits and not through undershirt with leather jacket and tight blue jeans. I didnt see anything masculine in that but when you look at men from 1940s it shows how really masculine they were and Jordan is right men started dressing up like High school or 10 year old kids, we really lost the masculine fashion now sadly...
@tjbjjtkd
2 жыл бұрын
My grandfather told us years ago that every man should own a few suits!
@chrisjames4711
2 жыл бұрын
I really like Jordan Peterson’s content. He’s a pretty practical guy who speaks on things from an objective point of view typically. To hear that he sees men in t shirts and shorts for example as oversized kids is hilarious. I strongly disagree but I think people should be allowed to loosely judge people subjectively on public platforms without being cancelled so I’m all for this kind of conversation.
@alpha0xide9
Жыл бұрын
With all due respect to Dr. Peterson, his view are very subjective
@trevoranderson4257
11 ай бұрын
Yeah, his views on this topic are a bit ridiculous. Even if I'm wearing a t-shirt with jeans, I don't dress like I did when I was a kid. The t-shirt is plain and fits perfectly, the jeans are the perfect fit, waist size, and length, everything is color coordinated and so on. The suit to me is largely just compensation. You get to pretend you're sophisticated and put together without necessarily being those things. And it gives men a more rectangular shape with more square shoulders and hides obesity (look at Trump in his tennis attire) so it's something similar to the woman's push up bra. I'm usually a fan, but Dr. Peterson often just likes to rationalize why we should uphold tradition for the sake of his own traditional preferences.
@sirclarkmarz
11 ай бұрын
I see so many grown men that look like and act like large obese toddlers . For many of them jeans and A T-shirt would be an extreme upgrade .
@roddydykes7053
2 жыл бұрын
I don’t recall him saying “always”. But he did say parents shouldn’t dress the same as their kids, which is reasonable advice
@TheAlibabatree
2 жыл бұрын
Not trying to argue, but what makes that reasonable? If you go to other countries, many times the women and their little girls will be wearing very similar dresses. I think clothing preferences are more cultural than anything.
@gadget00
2 жыл бұрын
@@TheAlibabatree but in those countries, the reasoning is contrarian: the girls are taught to dress like a woman, and not the other way around
@quirkasaurussaurus2896
2 жыл бұрын
@@TheAlibabatree frankly, i totally agree. maybe not to the formality of suit and tie -- but watching 40 year old's trounce around the office in flip-flops and T-shirts is degrading to the rest of us. I dress better than some of these people to mow the lawn or wash the dog.
@iluvcakes19
2 жыл бұрын
Didn't kids back in the day dress like miniature adults?
@gadget00
2 жыл бұрын
@@iluvcakes19 still do. You can buy clothes and get the “mini version” of the same polo shirt or dress shirt for your baby, so you can dress alike in birthdays or christmas LOL
@marks4471
Жыл бұрын
0:22: Guy on the left thinking to himself: "Out of all the days I chose not to wear a tie!!"
@ShyMplsMale
2 жыл бұрын
Do what feels comfortable but what makes you feel good. If you want to wear a suit, wear a suit. Or whatever. Don't worry about anyone else. Just do you.
@MatthewC137
2 жыл бұрын
Having some class is better for society. Having some class is better for you.
@joeybonin7691
2 жыл бұрын
That sounds so 70s to me. So artificially Zen. Once in a while it doesn't hurt to conform.
@MatthewC137
2 жыл бұрын
@@joeybonin7691 Anyone who says "just do you" has already conformed completely. Conrad is the manifestation of what's wrong with every generation. Young people always think they are special and unique and somehow know something new. Every generation conforms when it rebels. In the 90s there was grunge and flannel shirts; the last 10 years it's been skinny jeans and tattoos. Every generation has a "look" because the herd instinct is very strong with over 90 percent of the population. Most try to express their individuality by doing things that are identical to their peers because few have the confidence to be truly counter to the herd in any significant way.
@JimmyMook700
2 жыл бұрын
I dress like a scrub 7 days a week. Financial freedom baby!!!
@johnmcclain3887
2 жыл бұрын
I've always "dressed down" I think in part because of working as a mechanic, and always being ready to fix something, "out of time". Watching this, I realized part has always been "confronting the formal I didn't like", our father was professional and always wore a suit, and I had many years of trying not to be like him, in large because I've always been so much like. Rebellion is a powerful factor, I spent two decades a marine, and the feeling of my "greens or particularly my blues" was always something that makes on stand up straighter, look around and fit the occasion, and I do feel the need to get a new suit because I've not done so in a decade. Very interesting talk.
@wolu9456
2 жыл бұрын
a dentist friend of mine dresses down so he doesn't get mugged
@centurionl
2 жыл бұрын
My dad is a welder and a machinist but everything he wears is tidy and well put together. Even in his work wear he doesn't look sloppy. Always advices me to look as best as I can, even in very casual settings
@Ndasuunye
2 жыл бұрын
every high paying blue collar job interview I went to, i was specificially told NOT to dress up. dress up how you'd expect to work in. if you a mechanic, i was told to dress like one. safety boots, blue jeans and polo short sleeve. because expect to get dirty and you don't do that in a suit. I'd say dress for the job not for the party.
@wolu9456
2 жыл бұрын
@@Ndasuunye unemployed? who told u this?
@benjaminsagau
Жыл бұрын
@@wolu9456 I know a guy who wanted to get employed as a truck driver and went at the job interview dressed business( suit and tie). The interviewer told him they are not hiring anyone at the office 😃😃 He was not seen as a good fit for a truck driver.
@borabg6267
2 жыл бұрын
Dressing up shows that you respect both yourself, and the person you are meeting. As simple as that.
@konyvnyelv.
Жыл бұрын
Who decides what it means to dress up? Maasai wear colored long dresses as manly
@gadget00
2 жыл бұрын
In my opinion, the concept of “excessive casual” clothing is an american value that has taken over the world slowly. Back in the day, at least in Latin America, there where jokes made about how american tourists weren’t allowed in restaurants or casinos because they were wearing shorts and flip flops and got mad about it. “Kings of informality” is how they were depicted some decades ago. Now that american ethos of “comfort is ok” is what dominates western societies looks. Its a staple of “entrepreneurship” success to run a business in hoodies and jeans, specially in creative and tech industries which are the most sought after today. That’s how I see it
@LA_HA
2 жыл бұрын
gadget00: It may be that, back in the day, American tourists dressed that way because they were on vacation. In comparison, back in the US, they dressed up. Take a look at old movies and tv shows like Mad Men. As far back as I can remember looking at history books, there were always people who took pride in how they presented themselves in public. It was a social identity, contract, and philosophy back in the day. Check the 20s through the 60s. Suits were normal though different as casual, business, and formal wear. Suits, hats, ties, handkerchiefs, cuff links, shoes, all of that was normal for my grandfathers, grand uncles, etc. The same as women. It's arguable that today, the clothing has caught up with (and possibly encourages) the social psyche of selfishness, narcissism, and self importance of society. The idea of "as long as I'm comfortable, who cares about what anyone thinks?" That attitude permeates us in ways we simply don't think about or track. There was once a saying - "Clothes make(th) the man." Once upon a time, people got dressed to go to the mailbox, store, generally out in public. Contrast to now. People dress however, whatever; and their behavior reflects that. So many are so quick to take a simple piece of advice as an attack, old fashioned ideas, unreasonable (as Jordan's comment is immediately taken to outrageous extremes), or a negative feeling about himself Because Jordan simply said, "Make an effort." There's always an undercurrent to this stuff. Like when Harvard and other Ivies had to start workshops to teach students how to dress for job interviews because they would show up unkempt in jeans, sweats, flipflops, shorts, even pajama bottoms and UGGs in the early millennium. Adulting was uncool (read: uncomfortable), and it's only degraded since then. Being judged on one's looks is a sore spot for today's societal reflection of self. "Dress for the career you want, not for the job you have" leads to the antithetical thought of, "Work is slavery and degrading." True meaning: Being an adult is difficult and demanding. Therefore, the idea of dressing up is condensed into feelings of Why Should I? Who cares? Live life, bro. It's not that serious/important, lol. Just a thought, not an argument
@Huppyhuppyhuppy
Жыл бұрын
I always dress down when I am about to enter in a context where they can try to take more money from me than they should, like taking the car to the mechanic.
@nwinburn
2 жыл бұрын
Wow, this is one of the few times I disagree with Jordan. I used to wear a suit every day for work up until 14 years ago. Since then, only at weddings or other formal dress code required events, and I feel completely uncomfortable. I've been wearing jeans, converse, and a t-shirt on a regular day for several years now, and a nice shirt or golf shirt for less casual moments. I don't need an expensive suit to feel confident. I'm several years past that. If someone feels disrespected because I'm not wearing a suit, it is their problem, not mine. I mean, I wouldn't show up with torn jeans and a hoodie, but respect is shown in how we treat people, not how we dress for them. At least in my opinion.
@DudeMan-xs3db
2 жыл бұрын
You didn't listen to what he said.
@buddhistsympathizer1136
2 жыл бұрын
You felt uncomfortable. Ok. Was that because the clothes were uncomfortable, or that YOU were uncomfortable? If it was YOU then (to reverse paraphrase your comment) that's YOUR problem, not theirs (other people). People are going to judge you on how you look. Deal with it.
@nwinburn
2 жыл бұрын
@@buddhistsympathizer1136 I feel uncomfortable wearing suits because I don't like wearing suits, so I don't wear them; therefore, it is not a problem. It would be my problem if I wore them when they make me uncomfortable. If people judge me on how I look, I don't have to deal with it because I don't care what people think of me. I know I look good, I am comfortable with myself, and that is all I care about. My point completely flew right over your head - hahaha, but nice try.
@nwinburn
2 жыл бұрын
@@DudeMan-xs3db Ok "DudeMan"
@nikunjpatel6203
2 жыл бұрын
@@nwinburn you are absolutely right! Jordan’s explanation for wearing a suit is laughable! Stupid anecdotes for his biases that’s all. People don’t want to think themselves because they treat a higher figure as “ GOD“
@donnapartow
2 жыл бұрын
This is SO refreshing. It really bothers me that everyone dresses like slobs today. I do NOT go out in public like that but then feel chronically over-dressed wherever I go. I would love to see a return to glamour. I look at women in prior decades (and centuries) and they looked spectacular. Now women walk around in their pajamas.
@rasul407
2 жыл бұрын
Yesss yessss yessss
@dancooper1970
2 жыл бұрын
i agree about the suit thing 100% but in my own defense, an ill-fitting suit makes a grown man look like a jackass , and a good fitting suit cost more than my car
@pixelfan8792
2 жыл бұрын
Not true. Please get in contact with someone who knows how to order perfect suites from outside your country.
@theukeconomist6518
3 ай бұрын
😅 I've noticed this too, many men dress sloppy and appear like adult kids. But they do have girlfriends and wives, so I guess it works.
@beshkodiak
2 жыл бұрын
I live in the woods of Western Washington. I wear a tweed jacket, waistcoat, button down shirt and slacks with field boots, daily. My manners are polite and polished, but not snobbish at all. My wife appreciates this. Its how i show how much i respect her and cherish her. The ravens, elk and otters recognize me in the woods and dont panic or run away. Its rather a nice feeling. I go to town 2 or 3 times a month, about 50 miles away, the shop keepers and clerks remember me and are polite and friendly. Some have remarked that i look as if i have stepped out of an earlier time.
@jjmcwill1881
2 жыл бұрын
Dr Jordan Peterson is rocking the Joker suit.
@stevenrosscarpenter
2 жыл бұрын
fitting
@terryneal5569
2 жыл бұрын
PBD is the man, love JP too.
@toosweet6046
2 жыл бұрын
Gay
@Samsonight33
2 жыл бұрын
Love em both too
@_M_D_M_
Жыл бұрын
Ever since WFH started due to Corona, I wear my full office attire including shoes while working at home. I am not a suit person although if and when occasion demands, I will go full 3 piece. But, being properly dressed, clean, shaved, healthy, smelling ok and talking sense is the mark of a decent man.
@xGSxAmAZyn
Жыл бұрын
Facts
@shasmi93
Жыл бұрын
I’ve met FAR more awesome men that were honest, hard working, badass, loyal and they were in converse, band shirts, and jeans. I’ve met many many men in suit who are thieves, filthy luring lawyers and bankers and dishonest men in general.
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