"A man who procrastinates in his choosing will have his choice made for him by circumstance" -Hunter S. Thompson
@RantTherapist
6 жыл бұрын
How many cocaine a day did that guy inject? Nevertheless he was a genius of his own terms. I'm just starting to read his hells angels book. About 20 pages in.
@PhatInAHat
6 жыл бұрын
That's not entirely a bad thing, to some extent - by all means narrow down your choices to what you are most interested in, but it can also be beneficial to consider circumstance along the way as you may have a number of choices which could be equally attractive to you, but external circumstances might tell you that one of those choices open to you might prove the most advantageous to you in the long-term.
@geraltblaviken6127
6 жыл бұрын
Garrett Keith The illusion of thinking that you have freedom of choice plays a major part in the process of self development and created this paradoxical absurdity
@PhatInAHat
6 жыл бұрын
What exactly do you mean by your post? I agree with what you say about there being an "illusion of thinking that you have freedom of choice", but how does this relate to the process of self development?! Would you say that the recognition that freedom of choice is an illusion actually helps one on the path to self development?!
@geraltblaviken6127
6 жыл бұрын
PHat in a hat I mean that the process of self development is indoctrinated by the educational system, for the sole purpose of social engineering. The whole process is predetermined and most people are unaware,thus the illusion
@zeepopular
4 жыл бұрын
Been avoiding this video in fear he would describe me perfectly.
@mando_apolgetico
4 жыл бұрын
Stephen Jeffreys roughly speaking
@frnzilla
4 жыл бұрын
Stephen Jeffreys same .
@jaetrnn6000
4 жыл бұрын
The truth can sometimes be scary but accepting it is necessary in moving forward. There's no moving backwards in acknowledging something you've known deep inside all along. It takes great strength and courage to face yourself.
@Ron-bz2xl
4 жыл бұрын
Well, did he?
@WaterKatara
4 жыл бұрын
Yea Ron had my question...did he?
@Demention94
7 жыл бұрын
"They rob your future self while allowing you to pretend you have an identity" That is one of the most accurate critisisms of Universities I have heard.
@erice.stewart3020
7 жыл бұрын
Demention94 You can't deny, no one who's sane or in their right mind can deny there's an agenda at play nationwide, and some say worldwide to halt the maturation process of young adults and keep them permanently and developmentally stunted. When I went to university I was surprised to find that there was nowhere to go, or everything around me was a 'Pleasure Island' as he said. Contrary to popular belief, this horrified me because I came in with a drive wanting to be successful - Immediately I felt the danger there that there was no support for development or molding young minds into a normal and healthy adults. Obviously this felt horrible, and I was already 25 due to working, and some other personal issues. A lot of which by partly stemmed from the malevolent, sick society that we now live in. People still don't believe it, and call you "conspiracy theorist". I guess I wear that as a badge of honor. I went to one of the biggest liberal arts schools on the east coast, but I was there for a science degree which I completed. Like many of you I had no idea what I was walking into. I didn't even know what a liberal arts school was about, but just went there for the program. But, I didn't come out of that place the same. There was zero, absolutely zero support for maturation there. Which I at the time thought very extremely strange considering it was a, University. That was the biggest mistake of my life - In retrospect. I should be packed up and gone somewhere else immediately, but didn't and I ended up choosing to drink the kool aid after a while. Life is tragic, and fuck them, for doing everything they can to destroy our lives and every chance we have at living them, by foisting on us an endless state of arrested development, corruption and endless...degeneracy/lack of ethics. Thank God for Jordan Peterson. I'm 31 years old have 2 degrees in Science and am more or less..jobless. I was swayed away from the path of my life by corruption, and important developmental guidemarkers which simply were not there in the environment -but plenty of corruption was -when I needed them. That's that and not without great difficulty and delay later on it will happen. I was let down, along with millions of other college educated young people, expecting something positive and hopeful from this country and once again - eating shit. We should have done something about this long ago. Hell, this country is going to hell so fast. Stay strong and cling to yourself. That's all you can do, everything else has let us all down it seems. It's up to us now, for our everything. Don't expect the luxury of society providing the framework.
@erice.stewart3020
7 жыл бұрын
It's true. Communists and Marxists have hijacked the country. All that they say, The State, are lies on top of lies. I'm surprised they don't shut down Jordan Peterson for being a beacon of light and telling the truth.
@bmack1708
7 жыл бұрын
You might not be aware of it, but Google tried to remove him from all their platforms just last week. Luckily for us, he's now known enough that lots of people were talking about it and he got his accounts back a couple days later. But, sadly, it's pretty much only a matter of time before someone use the very vague hate speech canadian laws to shut him up for the duration (easily 3-4 years) of a trial that will go nowhere.
@Cirris
7 жыл бұрын
The kids today aren't the lost boys, they're the LARPing Commies.
@seeingeyegod
7 жыл бұрын
Pretty damn true except for the exceptional students who actually know specifically what they want to go to University for. I never wanted to go to an Ivy League college, even though I could have gotten in, and I could have gotten my parents to pay for it. It seemed like it would have been a massive waste of money and that I'd be pretending to be something I wasn't. I guess I knew I was a slacker and knew I'd disappoint them. I saved them a lot of money by going to State schools.
@danielcook1271
4 жыл бұрын
I am the 30 year old man child and it's terrifying and soul destroying. Don't let it happen to you. What he says is true.
@lizzychrome7630
3 жыл бұрын
You still have time to turn your life around and become Iron Man.
@tylerdurden7057
3 жыл бұрын
Hey man how are you... I can relate with you!
@Meleeman011
2 жыл бұрын
Lol I've seen the otherside of that coin, and it's not much better.
@MikeKaz02
2 жыл бұрын
@@Zerozerozero0x0x0 The 30 year old man child is the person that can’t defend himself in the real world, because he has everything handed to him, still lives with his parents and is scared to accept the responsibility of life struggles they must endure. I’m still in that stage but I’m trying to get through it and put more responsibilities on myself, stop blaming the world for my problems, and fix them myself, learn new things and reach for goals that will sustain my existence across time instead of sit there at 30 at my parents house playing video games all day, doing nothing, and making a shitty 16 an hour for all of my life. I started to go to school, got promoted, starting taking responsibility, and stopped whining…well like a child about how everyone is doing better than me and it not being fair. Getting out of that man child mindset is crippling. However it’s mostly an attitude change that needs to be implemented into the person’s life. That’s how I see it.
@psychostranger2097
2 жыл бұрын
I am 37 years old man child.
@rustyshackleford5553
5 жыл бұрын
Never realized the clock was a symbol for mortality in Peter Pan... Damn
@hal9000xxl
5 жыл бұрын
You see maybe it even wasn't but Jordan is so good to connect stories with real world like he did in his book with Bible. I have never seen someone use book or story to relate it to real life like Jordan does to pass his message. The point is it just doesn't matter what creator of Peter Pan thought Jordan's message is so powerful that it floors you down. It hits you like hammer right in the head and the more it hurts it only means the more you need it!!!
@AntiCookieMonster
5 жыл бұрын
ikr? getting btfo with truthbombs from dr. Peterson over here
@claudermiller
5 жыл бұрын
I didn't know Peter pan had a message. I thought it was just a cartoon.
@Glasshopper
5 жыл бұрын
The original story of Peter Pan was written because James Barie saw numerous homeless children dying of malnutrition. Neverland represented never growing up because they died. That's also why the imaginary meals. It was not just a cute children's story it was a scathing commentary of the disposability of the unwanted children.
@Flippyboy
5 жыл бұрын
It wasn't. That's Jordan's interpretation. It is a good interpretation but no THE intepretation.
@cotegt
5 жыл бұрын
"Procrastination is the thief of dreams." - Native American Proverb
@Stoic1976
5 жыл бұрын
g0neplatinum NA had a completely different way of life. I don’t think dreams of becoming something greater than everything else would have even been comprehended.
@GinHindew110
5 жыл бұрын
maybe it means you should be sleeping instead of procastinating? cause you know, you will be dreaming
@MrJackal43
5 жыл бұрын
g0neplatinum hahaha. That be true if Native Americans had written history, you fn dolt.
@AlexKS1992
5 жыл бұрын
@@MrJackal43 Ever heard of the Mayans or Aztecs.
@SovereignStatesman
5 жыл бұрын
@UC1QbmR2M8XaTAB3eOWCdN7g- And dreams are the food of procrastination.
@wchmielinski
5 жыл бұрын
Don't reject advice just because it triggers you. In fact, that's exactly when you should be digging deeper.
@artawesome30
5 жыл бұрын
OMG RIGHT. It's crazy, the advice that offends/pisses me off the most is usually what I need to hear the most (even when I initially discount it as being "stupid" or "pointless"). I wish more people were willing to put their pride aside and accept that
@deevee7221
5 жыл бұрын
@@artawesome30 The problem is Brain. Many can't think critically or are socially inept and can blame disorders or anything else they imagine to dodge accountability for farming ass cells...and they strike out at jobs others can get.
@qwertyuiop-ke7fs
5 жыл бұрын
It hurts but you gotta hear it if you've got a thick skull.
@cam553
5 жыл бұрын
JP has some good points to make, and in some cases, offers sound advice. But this is not a one size fits all world. The man takes medication which sometimes leads to a sense of confidence and empowerment. This can be heard in his often fluent and eloquent articulation. This is not a model that Everyman should follow, and can lead to problems later in life. There is a honeymoon period while the patient is spellbound and literally unaware of the temporary soothing of the ego. They, whether consciously or not, are literally addicted to the sound of their own voice. Confidence and self esteem are abstract concepts that exist nowhere in the known universe. While it may be useful to convey confidence at certain times and behave stoically at others, detachment from ego and contrived goals maybe a better way to inner peace or contentment. I’m sure there’s plenty of men out there who are unhappy in their jobs and marriages that follow these self help books. Some maybe even hate or are hated by their children or spouse. I feel for these men that have tried so very hard.
@Off-The-Top-Of-My-Head
5 жыл бұрын
Cam 76 wow. Seems like you have it all figured out then, huh ? Got any stock tips
@s4awd2
2 жыл бұрын
I have a family member who is exactly this. Smart, charming, good looking guy who we all thought could be a businessman, lawyer, teacher etc. Everyone praised him continuously and girls fawned over him but as the years passed he never really did anything aside from graduating. He is now in his early 40's and still in his parents house stating that men are in their prime in their 50's so he has "time". Very scary. Perfect example of being taken totally unaware. Blink and 10-20 years will have passed.
@onebrokegirl3864
Жыл бұрын
Wow most phDs at that age I know work at some kind of job e.g lecturer and such, this is just wow
@xen3588
Жыл бұрын
50 year olds certainly have more oppurtunity and less oppression right now thats for sure
@katierose1893
Жыл бұрын
What did he graduate in? Did he not work at all?
@s4awd2
Жыл бұрын
@@katierose1893 Graduated from BU and worked at various banks and law firms and was always the life of the office parties. Had relationships with coworkers but as with any Peter Pan, he always dropped the relationships, switched jobs. Given there was no traction or career path, this led to lower tiered back office positions and IT which he thought would be fun but of course isn't lol. He then became a tutor overseas and ultimately decided he would become a pilot. He took the lessons provided by his parents but was not able to commit to the massive amount of hours required realizing even if he did put in the flight hours, he would be 50 + before he could get a commercial license for a low level pilot job. Not sure what's next but he seems happy.
@red3dart32
Жыл бұрын
@@s4awd2 Well it doesn't sound that bad. When you said "he never did anything after graduating and lives with parents at 40", I thought that he just partied, fucked around and never worked, being financially dependent on his parents. But it sounds like he tried a lot of careers. Sure, maybe you think it'd be better if he settled in a career path and got married. But idk, grass is always greener...
@ericrobbins9396
4 жыл бұрын
I am finally coming out of my man child stage of life. Admittedly, I pissed away all of my 20s by drinking, using drugs, and working dead end jobs. I mooched off my mom and familly because they enabled me to continue this lifestyle without having to pay Bills and be responsible. Unfortunately all of this stunted my growth as far as being an adult. I am now 30 today and doing stuff I should have been doing in my early 20s. It's okay though. Now I pay all my Bill's have my own place, car, decent job. I wake up at 330 am every day to workout before work and am going to pursue a career in fitness. I quit drinking and drugs and everyday strive to become a better version of myself. Do not baby your kids or enable your familly members. You will realize, through struggle, that you are stronger than you have ever imagined.
@Mountainman1971
4 жыл бұрын
As a mother of a 25 yr old that I am enabling...thank you for those words.
@bdhdhdhhdhdhjd3073
4 жыл бұрын
Ok boomer
@ericrobbins9396
4 жыл бұрын
@@bdhdhdhhdhdhjd3073 nah I'm a doomer turned bloomer.
@aLi112
4 жыл бұрын
@@ericrobbins9396 great man i'm 19 going to turn 20 and your comment gave me alot to think about ty
@ericrobbins9396
4 жыл бұрын
That's for the comments guys. One thing I want to say that has helped me significantly is working out. I don't know if this will help anyone but the gym is a fantastic outlet that will also carry over in to other aspects of your life. It will teach you self disciple and also give you the confidence and self esteem boost to perform better in other activities throughout the day. Another thing I've learned to do is to write everything down that I need to remember. Appointments, bills, important dates etc this will help you be organized and succesful.
@umeuwe
6 жыл бұрын
"You can be anything - but you're not anything." The brutal Truth of being too flexible.
@vladdrakul7851
6 жыл бұрын
It's just simplistic BS pretending to be 'insightful'. Of course no one can be everything. Time and space are limited and one does need to specialize but narrowing your horizons (which is what this fake guru is pushing because he wants to CONFIRM bias and bigotry and injustice rather than fight it). All my life i have been learning, New instruments, new history, new foods to cook, how to parent etc. This man is poison and you only have to see how all the racists, women haters and neo Nazis love him to see where he really stands. He talks rationality but defends religion which is immature reality avoidance. He pushes psychedelics irresponsibly. To close not open the mind. This guy is today's Charles Manson with good manners!
@vladdrakul7851
6 жыл бұрын
Your just another minion for a false prophet. Who do I have to be for logic to make sense? Look at yourself, you don't know why I criticize him OR what Peterson stands for. He is exactly like Manson in what matters. Weak fools falling for a narcissist. He speaks rubbish very nicely though but he gets people to like him because he tells people what the WANT to hear (as Hitler did, which explains why Nazis like him so much). He loves all the attention (he's a plastic Jesus) but he is full of shit. Like Trump he LOVES the unintelligent who can't see how full of it he is. You say a lot of fools listen to him . On this one thing you are tragically right and that's the problem, Just like McFood, the more tools 'lovin' it', the worse!
@Nyarlathotep_Flagg
6 жыл бұрын
Vlad Drakul+ When it comes to this specific point, I neither agree, nor disagree with you. It is not so simple as either you, or Peterson thinks in my opinion. And the idea that adulthood is about responsibility is a myth. It is, and was always about understanding. Forming an understanding of the world, is what makes you grow up. Responsibility is just one of the short-cuts(though I do not mean that as derogatory terminology, it is a legit path that grants a certain type of understanding. An understanding dependent upon what path and object/subject you become responsible for). I believe that much like many other intellectuals, he has chosen to push these simplified perspectives because the masses are seemingly incapable of grasping anything more profound(and so he accepted the flaws, in return for the gains, in terms of societal constructs). Religion was the same.
@laughingalien
6 жыл бұрын
Exactly, Andrew. The only way to grow (mature) as a human being is to experience life. Make your own decisions and take responsibility (i.e., accountability) for your actions. Jordan is stating the obvious (which resonates with a lot of folks).
@bamawebdev8640
6 жыл бұрын
Vlad: Gee, you don't seem like you have an agenda at all. If Peterson is concise, it's simplistic BS; If he's verbose, it's a word salad. Well? Which is it? Pick one and make an actual argument.
@ryn1706
4 жыл бұрын
Please stop posting lectures about me on the internet.
@MrSouthsideMuscle
4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@kevinyoung947
4 жыл бұрын
Gold!!
@playertomek5821
4 жыл бұрын
Hahahahah....you savage
@zekegonzalez1845
4 жыл бұрын
Dude! This guy fucking hit me where it hurts! Haha
@gusntroll
4 жыл бұрын
Lol
@shadow6543
Жыл бұрын
To all the man children there is hope, I was in the situation JP described at 24 no job, no direction, overweight. Then my dad died, without a safety net it was sink or swim. Now at 30 I’m married with two kids, in great shape and interning at a law firm. Struggle builds fortitude, success is out there you will find a way 🙏
@Beezmilk
Жыл бұрын
Awesome
@lukemerrifield9844
Жыл бұрын
I thank you for this, I'm 24 atm (25 in july) pretty much the same situation so gives me hope that someone started this journey off similar to where I'm at. Thank you and all the best to you.
@manoftherainshorts9075
Жыл бұрын
I am 31 with no relationships ever, in a simple job, and the life is great.
@jacksondickery509
Жыл бұрын
Fucking incredible 🙌
@jmaj4521
Жыл бұрын
jesus christ you're superman
@chucknorrisffs
4 жыл бұрын
"What have you been doing for the past 10 years ?" *Existential crisis intensifies*
@francescogiacomopelagatti8221
4 жыл бұрын
Hell, that s the crisis you want to dig through. That s the kind of crisis that makes you uncomfortable, but lets you grow up. The guy speaking in the video has got good points. On the other hand he's only telling what the peter pan syndrome is, he s stating what can be found in any psychology book. He s cool, yes, he knows a lot of things, but his perspective seems rather limited. Hell, are you kidding? Who wouldn't like to be Peter pan, living a life of adventures, taking life as a joke, laughing at life itself? Those who can laugh at life are the wiser amongst men, and can do everything. Who wouldn't like to be cptn Hook? Heck you fear time sure, who doesn't? He s got his own crew, a ship, he s a pirate, a most feared one, he s a rebellion against society, a man who fights for his own dream, for everyone s dream, even if he s got no hope, even if his dream seems stupid, even if he knows he gonna lose all the time. He s not an adversary to Peter, rather he s his other half. And yes they fight, as every man fights himself every day. Is Hook a bad guy then? And yes if you look at them from a bourgeois perspective Peter and Hook will look gray and flat and without hope, something wrong indeed. But that s why this guy is commenting Peter Pan and you could still write it.
@chucknorrisffs
4 жыл бұрын
@@francescogiacomopelagatti8221 It's not what others think about you, I could care less on the judgements passed on me by society. Your subconscious mind is the one that bites you in the ass depending on how you live your life in the form of the 'road not taken'. It effects you psychologically giving birth to various detrimental complexes and how you view yourself in the long run, just as much as how discipline effects you for the better physiologically and psychologically. So in essence no one would enjoy living the 'Peter Pan' lifestyle in the longrun, it will mess you up every time your subconscious mind chips away at you manifesting feelings of inadequacy and self-loathing. This is how depression, social anxiety and in worst cases schizophrenia come about. These things have a way of snowballing, even though you might not see it now.
@francescogiacomopelagatti8221
4 жыл бұрын
@@chucknorrisffs maybe i didn't explain it well, but what i wrote was all about the self, not involving others. It s not about the peter pan lifestyle. It s about the crisis you mentioned in the first place. You have to dig through it, ride it. That s why i find the speech in the video limited in regards of perspective. Just don't kill your inner Peter, or you will wake up some day in your 50s watching behind you and struggling with the road not taken. Imagine what the world would be without Peters and Hooks, there would be no art, no music, no literature etc. Ok not everyone can be an artist, not one worldwide known at least. But that should not stop you. That s why i described Hook as i did, he s got a purpose, he s got a meaning in life. This is also the reason why most crisis manifest in the first place, in the forms you already mentioned. Ppl at certain points in their life discover a total lack of meaning, cos they gave away all they had to become something and now find themselves being only that something, which is not a meaning strong enough.
@chucknorrisffs
4 жыл бұрын
@@francescogiacomopelagatti8221 Fair point. I guess Moderation between the two is key and it's one of my hardest struggles in life..
@francescogiacomopelagatti8221
4 жыл бұрын
@@chucknorrisffs if moderation works for you then let it be moderation. Everyone needs to find his own balance, which is btw different for all ppl. It s by no means very hard to obtain and even harder to keep. I wish every guy on the net was as wise as you, wish you all the best.
@AllieMoonSailor
4 жыл бұрын
“Time has already got a piece of you”
@kitkat186
4 жыл бұрын
His haters don't like the truth, so they want to shoot the messenger.
@kenburns4547
4 жыл бұрын
I was happy before I was alive, I can handle what's after.
@cellardoor199991
3 жыл бұрын
This is what Pink Floyd " Time"is all about.
@revokdaryl1
2 жыл бұрын
@@kenburns4547 How do you know you were happy before you were alive? When you weren't alive, you didn't exist. How can someone that doesn't exist experience happiness?"
@gabrielmaddern6070
4 жыл бұрын
"You can be an idiot at 25" >Turns 26 > Sweating intensifies
@blackcitadel37
4 жыл бұрын
Same
@theelderelk5582
3 жыл бұрын
Same
@sweetchocolate123z
3 жыл бұрын
Same !
@gabrielmaddern6070
3 жыл бұрын
27 now
@sweetchocolate123z
3 жыл бұрын
@@gabrielmaddern6070 how is it going man?
@dasunit07
2 жыл бұрын
Other thing I’ll add is as 32 year old male, life hits quick from 25-32. Can’t believe I’m 32 sometimes. And I took it pretty easy between 25-30, and my last 2 years have been literal hell learning that I have to sacrifice in order to feel fulfilled
@joseignacioctm
Жыл бұрын
shit man im 25 i wish i didnt read this
@mustbemeech
Жыл бұрын
@@joseignacioctm same😂😂😂 life is strange have a beer and laugh
@DL-nb9hp
Жыл бұрын
what's next?
@MrRAGE-md5rj
Жыл бұрын
@@DL-nb9hp Get a job, I guess.
@justinhopper5941
Жыл бұрын
I’m 33 and feel the same. I really feel after 28 time went extremely quick and suddenly everyone you know is married with a few kids
@DavidAlbujaGavela
5 жыл бұрын
wow. 36 years old peter pan here. in tears.
@ways1
5 жыл бұрын
Don't worry, you are young.. joke. Ppl learn a career in 3 years or less, what I mean is if u start now -with full motivation- you can get your shit together by 40. Lets go!
@pickmeup95
5 жыл бұрын
24* it's tough without a male role model. I think I was always waiting for that call to action. No sob stories tho Ima manifest my own motivation...after one more video
@UberStomp
5 жыл бұрын
I studied for my GED and went to a trade school at 36. Never too late brother!
@Ironfrenzy217
5 жыл бұрын
I awoke at thirty and am still trying to figure out how to get up and stay up.
@rizzotto95
5 жыл бұрын
You cried because the penny finally dropped. As long as you're still alive you can change things. Some people never realise they need to change so you've already made progress
@Kryptnyt
7 жыл бұрын
I feel bad for the guy he's making eye contact with for this whole lecture.
@rogerpharel207
6 жыл бұрын
Kryptnyt Like he's looking straight at you 🤓😣😎🤔😁
@Big_Sierra
5 жыл бұрын
Kryptnyt I was always that guy in school, the ones the teachers seemed to talk to more often. I think it was because I was engaged and they could tell. It’s an energy exchange.
@insomb
5 жыл бұрын
ahaha
@cellardoor199991
5 жыл бұрын
Kryptnyt LOL
@Aworology333
5 жыл бұрын
(camera moves in on face) (eyes shifting left and right)
@papaspike
Жыл бұрын
"There's a sacrificial element in maturation. You have to sacrifice the pluri-potentiality of childhood for the actuallity of a frame". This phrase this man said was something I've been subconciously thinking about and been afraid of for a very long time as a guy in my early 20s, but I could not find the words to describe it... This alone opened my mind a lot.
@chriscross4004
4 жыл бұрын
C. S. Lewis wrote: "The little boy chose security, the grown up man chose suffering."
@heyhoe168
4 жыл бұрын
No one in healthy mind chose suffering, this is the bullshit. I may understand a trade, but the pure suffering?..
@0Demiyah0
4 жыл бұрын
Happiness is overcoming struggle, not evading it 💯
@janmajer4662
4 жыл бұрын
@@heyhoe168 He choses the suffering so the others are happy and secure.. then his job is done.
@evilpajamas8192
4 жыл бұрын
@@@heyhoe168 many saints choose suffering to experience life, Buddha is a prime example.
@evanurena8868
4 жыл бұрын
@@0Demiyah0 There's also people that overcome struggle or at least cope with it but still end up unhappy. So struggle doesn't always correlate with happiness.
@sim.frischh9781
6 жыл бұрын
Plumbers also save Princesses, at least according to Nintendo.
@sim.frischh9781
6 жыл бұрын
If he marries the Princess, he now is a King! So he is NO LONGER a plumber. Yet he HAS BEEN one.
@pyrointeam
6 жыл бұрын
Yeah but because that girl can't go one day without being kidnapped he has to use his plumber skills most of the time, making him more a plumber than a king
@kathrynj.hernandez8425
6 жыл бұрын
Sim. Frischh Bwahahaha
@pyrointeam
6 жыл бұрын
a man? Sorry i'm out, that's so transphobic, have you ever asked him if he identifies as a man and which pronouns he prefers? No? Then you are literally Hitler.
@KK-jo2uf
6 жыл бұрын
MARIO , Right ?
@seintmike7907
Жыл бұрын
All these other guys needing help, makes me feel not alone. I hope you are all doing okay. At 28, still at my parents, unemployed, college student, loss of drive, depressed, low self worth. I believe we can do it.
@sydneykabiru9352
Жыл бұрын
You will be okay
@blackblurable
Жыл бұрын
That's cool that you believe in something.
@tribecalledmaya
Жыл бұрын
at least you are in college!! continue to challenge yourself, discomfort with awareness of purpose leads to growth.
@seintmike7907
Жыл бұрын
@tribecalledmaya thank you Maya. I appreciate that. Just got a new job 3 weeks ago too!
@brother_of_bruh
Жыл бұрын
Hell yeah brother, I'm rooting for you. Feels good to not be alone with these struggles. I should really look for a self help group or some stuff like this in my area
@Oldhogleg
7 жыл бұрын
I used to have a saying: "Every lifestyle has it's price, it's a matter of choosing which price you're willing to live with".
@overhang88
6 жыл бұрын
I would add, "and what price you're willing to pay"
@kiliya1086
6 жыл бұрын
OldHogleg, I so agree, my father told me once "you can do whatever you want as long as you're willing to live with the consequences" ,similar and equally as wise.
@kinkreetmusic2518
6 жыл бұрын
Reminds me of a quote from American Gangster: Success. It's got enemies. You can be successful and have enemies or you can be unsuccessful and have friends.
@permaculturedandfree2448
6 жыл бұрын
Oldhogleg or without 😉😆
@jagjag1277
6 жыл бұрын
Kiliya 108 and that is essentially the meaning of RESPONSIBILITY. Responsibility breeds life direction and purpose. A lot of young people always ask for a greater purpose in life when they can even lift a finger for RESPONSIBILITY.
@franzhaas6889
5 жыл бұрын
JORDAN "ROUGHLY SPEAKING" PETERSON .
@Runny117
5 жыл бұрын
thatd be a great name for his podcast
@josephbrandenburg4373
5 жыл бұрын
Jordan "as Jung says" Peterson.
@theusher2893
5 жыл бұрын
Jordan "clean your room" Peterson
@rampant9358
5 жыл бұрын
Jordan "lobsters are humans" Peterson
@7pazzainteramala
5 жыл бұрын
Jordan "as far as I'm concerned" Peterson
@pearlcorcet9652
Жыл бұрын
As a 20 years old female, I heavily relate to this. Being the first born, from my birth everyone has been congratulating me on my potential and ability without me having to do much anything. I also have the privilege to grow up in an environment that always cater to my needs, so overtime, I never take full responsibility for my decisions and trying hard in anything, my social relationships are strained or non existent and my future is really blurry. I have no basis knowledge of my studies and a clear sense of where I’m going, and I’m always making my parents worry because of my behavior. I know I’m still young, but I’m afraid that I can’t change and I will become a burden to my family in the future, because it’s only now that I realized my Peter Pan syndrome is really severe.
@anotheryoutuberperson38
Жыл бұрын
You blame yourself too much and probably have ADHD. The future is blurry for everyone right now, find what you’re good at and work on it.
@amitsingh-yk3ps
Жыл бұрын
I will suggest u to move out and travel more alone
@hope-cat4894
11 ай бұрын
Same here. It's good that you see this now because once you've realized you have a problem, you're on your way to fixing it. You're not alone in being a woman-child needing to let go of adolescence.
@timspiker
11 ай бұрын
Nah you will never be a burden. When I was 20 I started working towards my dreams, I achieved them when I was 24 and then lost them all due to Covid shutting down my business (I was a DJ and party organizer). Losing those 4 years and losing everything I had built made me realize that you shouldn't worry at all. Just spend your time having fun. If I could do it over, I'd probably choose to stay at home and play video games like I am now at 27 living back with my parents. Life is too short and you don't know what dumb things happen in the future. It is pretty much unpredictable and so making any planning is undoable and will likely not work out the way you want, which then could make you end up where you started. It's not worth it. Appreciate the life you've been given and be there for the people around you, they'll never see you as a burden.
@anandpushkar7510
10 ай бұрын
One day will be in a better place my friend, till then we keep on going and giving our best
@marcwareham9351
5 жыл бұрын
Imagine comparing a 18 year old of today, with a 18 year old from 100 years ago!
@theguybehindyou4762
5 жыл бұрын
To be fair, the 18 year old from a century ago had his hard work rewarded with good pay he could live off of, and he wasn’t being lied to from every angle.
@lnfestissumam
5 жыл бұрын
You mean slaving in a factory for pennies? Yeah, pretty fulfilling existence.
@rd3299
5 жыл бұрын
@@theguybehindyou4762 A century ago, an 18 year old would likely have been brought up believing he had to either find work in the growing industries or labor in the farms, start and raise a family, and fight in the Great War or whatever conflict his country happened to be coming to at the time...
5 жыл бұрын
He could easily handle wife and kids, in fact they married young anyway.
@rd3299
5 жыл бұрын
@ Aint nothing easy about a wife and kids
@adamhonestyanddecency5054
6 жыл бұрын
2:15- "It is NOT a happy day."- Damn straight. Hit me at forty-one. But I can still make choices, and I will. Life's not over until it's over.
@Magipot6
6 жыл бұрын
Adam Honesty and decency, same here I’m 35 at my desk like damn he hit the nail on the head. But options still exist.
@HuntingTarg
6 жыл бұрын
"It ain't ovah, 'till it's ovah; 'till the fat lady sings." -Lawrence Peter "Yogi" Berra
@molestedmango
6 жыл бұрын
Yeah pretty much
@AlielJorax
6 жыл бұрын
May want to consider what Randy Pausch said in his Last Lecture on that (free quote): Don't beat yourself up over not knowing what you wanna be in life. Some of the more interesting people I knew in life did not know with 30. Some of the MOST interesting did not know with 40... Check it out!
@SaraLovesTea
6 жыл бұрын
Adam Honesty and decency its not over until u stop breathing 🤷🏻♀️ Nelson Mandela was a true example
@pennation4234
5 жыл бұрын
Don't know why people hate this man He's just brilliant
@toontic1543
5 жыл бұрын
He speaks the truth and that is enough for some very closed minded people not to bear a millisecond of it.
@llewodcm20
5 жыл бұрын
There is a growing class of modern humans who can't handle the truths of life... Realities that are too harsh for them, and they don't want to hear it from anyone.
@Inannarising
5 жыл бұрын
People hate him? 🤦🏽♀️
@Pomiferous
5 жыл бұрын
@Hippo Pilot People need a sense of purpose in order to find fulfillment.Joining causes is a poor way but none the less popular method of going about finding it.
@AlexKS1992
5 жыл бұрын
I don't hate him but I think he's a windbag who thinks he's Gods gift to mankind.
@eirikram
3 жыл бұрын
I wish I had these lessons in my life when I was a young 20-year-old man child. I am 36 now, lost many good women, I have no children, I am alone. There is still enough time to make sacrifices and accept my mortality. Sacrifice, you get to pick your damn sacrifice, that's all. You don't get to not make one.
@ramsnation196
Жыл бұрын
well said brother
@johnbartender3451
Жыл бұрын
Same here. I recently lost a woman that could have been my wife… I knew deep down she was different. I never been this hurt in my entire life. That was a wake up call to stop acting like a teenager a be a man. I’m 37.
@manoftherainshorts9075
Жыл бұрын
Why don't sacrifice your progenesis?
@ericphilen3433
Жыл бұрын
37 here bro, it’s ok, we are late bloomers. I’ve dealt with addictions, my uncles and friends suicide, multiple trauma accidents via cars, tire blown up in my face, PTSD, depression, etc. But we are still here! Make the best of it. It started with replacing my worries with gratitude 🙏🏼 Not throwing myself a pity party Stay Disciplined. Stay Blessed. Stay Up.
@bryaneddy5272
Жыл бұрын
dude I'm forty and only started caring about getting my shit straight when I was about 33. It's doable and life doesn't have to suck.
@1life744
5 жыл бұрын
Heal your inner wounds and become alive. Opinions of society wont matter when you freed yourself from yourself. Feeling ashamed that you havent accomplished anything in societys eyes is being unkind to your self. Most humans accomplish things on the outside but never heal their ancient wounds. And that is the most profound journey to undertake. Everything falls into place after that
@dewaynestafford5507
5 жыл бұрын
BINGO
@platoschronus5560
5 жыл бұрын
1 Life You have no idea how bad I needed those words. Thanks for being you 🙏🏻
@sarahdixon6011
5 жыл бұрын
Face fears head on 🤨
@chocolateex1907
5 жыл бұрын
👌
@theapplechapel
4 жыл бұрын
True, very true. Life will shape you so you will grow up but you have to take the initiative to heal your inner self, no outer pressure will make that happen naturally.
@Lloydy786
4 жыл бұрын
I just turned 35 and still haven't chosen a career. Been "thinking what to do" for the last 15 years. There are too many options, I'm not sure if I'll be good at it, I don't know if I'll like it. Same thing for 15 years. Now I'm 35 very little job experience, no qualifications, IM NOTHING BUT POTENTIAL, an old infant and that's an ugly thing. I could be anything but I'm not anything. Today I will choose to be "something".
@jandub7569
4 жыл бұрын
I hope you did your decision
@rosycc0606
4 жыл бұрын
To be you need to act
@DanielLopez-sh2pp
4 жыл бұрын
I feel Ai will simply help me get the ball rolling and doing many things at the same time while adding complex meanings, memories, dreams etc. While being inside the matrix while being able to write multiple stories while moving forward in multiple realities and demensions. So time is no limit if you are engrossed in what you are doing. Since time is just there. You write your own stories.
@007lutherking
4 жыл бұрын
I'm 30 and i have an engineering degree, i failed my masters, wasted years, had a couple of years of professional experience. Now in a different country and couldn't find a job for 3 years straight. Finally found a gig leaned from it, now doing it on my own as a business. Not something i wanna do for the rest of my life. I can totally understand your situation, it's hard to pick a career as i do not want a career in my field and i wanted to get into IT but idk about that either. It's messed up when youre not passionate about something specific and want to only get into that field. Perhaps you are
@wintertontoday
4 жыл бұрын
Totally feel you. Good luck. 💪
@LightCrasher
5 жыл бұрын
"If you don`t go and get what you want you will die in a pile of what you did not wanted" - Chuck Palahniuk
@user-iu3ii8sq6t
4 жыл бұрын
Dude Chuck is like this guy but without all the bitterness and insistence on natalism
@user-iu3ii8sq6t
4 жыл бұрын
@@AlexAlcyone it's not the thing you want that matters - it's the drive to get what you want, so you can spend your life steering your own ship and not just being pushed around, because then you can at least say you did everything you could to grow and find your own meaning
@user-iu3ii8sq6t
4 жыл бұрын
@@AlexAlcyone why do people have to remember your name for you to matter? What if you have a silent positive effect on others that ripples down through the next generations?
@user-iu3ii8sq6t
4 жыл бұрын
@@AlexAlcyone hmm, if that doesn't work for you, consider this: billions of years from now, the heat death of the universe will occur. Everything destroyed. All dimensions collapse, including time. Which means everything that has ever existed, everything that ever happened happen at once. Everything, everyone outside of time. It will feel like a still eternity without time to move events forward, experiencing everything in your past at once. Do you want that to be a pleasant experience? If so, live well, grow, invest in yourself, live in the moment.
@satnav1980
4 жыл бұрын
Sweet. So there is light at the end of the tunnel.
@Shnecko
4 жыл бұрын
I'm 33, quickly becoming that 40 year old he warned about in the video. I haven't chosen my sacrifice. I haven't had to face that moment yet. One day, my parents will no longer be here to support me, and I will get hit with circumstance like running into a brick wall. I feel so gripped by my inaction, it has become a way of life for me ever since high school graduation. Depression sat in years ago, and I'm clueless as to how I should begin.
@anish15
3 жыл бұрын
Just start from wherever dude, do any job. If you're eager and willing to learn and show up there are people willing to hire. Just don't wait to be prepared, just dive and do it. As you start doing some work, get into some routine your mind will start working and things will start working out itself. It will be hard at first a d there will be days you won't feel like doing it but the thing is to just do it. I've been there where you are and choose to take action not care about what people think and did whatever work I could find and suddenly I'm enjoying it and wonder why didn't I do it five years earlier but it's always better to do it now than five years later! So just do it, apply for whatever jobs are there and whatever I mean whatever once you're life looks like its on some sort of track, get some education on what you would like to persue as a career, it's never too late! Good luck my man!
@CDines
3 жыл бұрын
I vowed to never do anything customer related in my 20s cos I'm very introverted. At 30 now, I wish I put my younger more energetic self out there to learn everything I could from tough choices
@arnoldwayne5402
Жыл бұрын
How are you doing now?
@joshfromtwitch7759
Жыл бұрын
I had to be pushed to get a job I was so depressed laying around doing nothing but once you start being active life becomes cool again. Just go to a temp service and take a job.
@user_7239
Жыл бұрын
Why the fk is it so hard? Just start doing shit that’s good for u that feel sucky. And keep doing it over and over. You lack discipline bc you gave up on everything that was hard but good. Get used to pain and discomfort or you’re screwed. And stop whining and playing dumb. U sound like a child.
@KTChamberlain
5 жыл бұрын
At the age of ten I learned a great piece of wisdom from my stepdad that acted as the foundation towards maturity and playing it smart: "Stupid costs extra."
@neonshark6972
5 жыл бұрын
Stupid does cost extra but we have over used and abused stupid so much that now we are over populated with stupid.
@neonshark6972
5 жыл бұрын
@imahelpfulperson its only a matter of time for when stupid people will be in a true furnished prison and jobs/labor will be filled with automation to produce FOR those in power. Video games and social media are primary example of the beginning of furnished prisons.
@Connie938
4 жыл бұрын
Your stepdad is a very smart man!
@lekkki1
4 жыл бұрын
lol. My dad used to always say: Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. It took me a while, but I figured it out.
@mando_apolgetico
4 жыл бұрын
KTChamberlain roughly speaking
@nnamdi602
4 жыл бұрын
I'm 28... I can feel the walls caving in... But I'm fighting & I will come out of the other side.. The sacrifice I have chosen is my comfort zone.
@CDines
3 жыл бұрын
I quit my job at 28 (thinking I could find potential elsewhere) and went full on hermit mode on drugs till 30. One day I woke up and realised everything he just said in this video
@CDines
3 жыл бұрын
@Ayor a alive and well thank you for asking. Went back to the job I quit as I was lucky enough for them to hire me back during tough times. Pretty much changed my mindset forcefully. I hope this method works
@bearifiablepau2095
6 жыл бұрын
I get so much crap from the people around me for wanting to convey this message. Living in Neverland is quite dire, adult-children feel so angry and distressed and lost, truly lost. They have no clue why. They are not capable of putting two and two together that they never did the work, thus they don't have the results. They confuse tyranny with being held accountable for their actions. I've had to fight a battle against lost boys and girls, angry adults that treat me like garbage because I do the work and expect them to do the same (my bad). They don't realize I'm not the enemy, they think the mess out there is put upon them when really it's the mess their party-lives left behind. Thank you for existing and verbalizing what is not allowed to many of us, Jordan Peterson.
@zeethree
6 жыл бұрын
I never had a party life and I became a lost boy. I never drank, did drugs, or socialized at all. Don't make assumptions. A lot of us have anxiety disorders from the way we were raised and poor parenting. Technology has damaged us psychologically as well. Games, porn, social media, smartphones have given us substitutes for traditional experiences and necessities. The rise of female empowerment has also decreased what many men have to offer women. If you can't attract a good woman without an absurd amount of effort then most men are gradually going to walk away from the responsibility. Feminism turned natural companions into competitors.
@bearifiablepau2095
6 жыл бұрын
Oh I see, it looks like I'm saying that all lost people were party people. I agree it's not always the case; I'm sorry to hear you had a rough situation. We're usually not in control of our circumstances, nevertheless we are in control of our reactions, therefore we can decide whether to be responsible or not. I'm quite displeased with the lack of responsibility and accountability on the part of most of the adults that surround me. I didn't mention feminism, I'm not sure why you brought it up. I will say, it would do men well to develop a sense of responsibility and self-respect. Girls don't want flashy macho type guys. In general women don't care about that, we care most for integrity, at least when it comes to long lasting relationships. Maybe it would help if you knew that also have attraction problems, we get frustrated, we compete, sometimes we feel like we have to put absurd amounts of energy to be noticed. I'm sorry but giving up is a choice, we all gotta deal with difficulties, so toughen up and go get em! ;)
@zeethree
6 жыл бұрын
@@bearifiablepau2095 Telling a guy to just toughen up is a joke meme which means you're clueless and out of touch. You are incapable of empathizing with the suffering of men. What I'm saying to you, if you could listen, is that there is no longer a benefit to become what you narrowly define as being a "responsible man." Women are now mens competitors, not their companions. Feminism and technology have broken the social contract. Marriage rates and birth rates will continue to decline. When I heard my brother's friend was getting married I felt deep sadness for him. I never told him, but I felt very sorry for what he was signing up for. It's like hearing your friend enlisted in an army. You're not ashamed of him, but you feel sad about it because he's potentially making the most regrettable decision of his life. I don't consider people who jump into things brave or tough, most of them are just stupid and naive about the consequences of their actions.
@bearifiablepau2095
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your reply Z, I see your point. I was in a predominantly male college for some years. I understand what you mean by the death of social contract. Having said that, the non-existence of a social contract has nothing to do with lack of responsibility, of boundaries and of acting in humane ways. In those days I had a constant feeling of being downplayed do to my gender. Btw, I was never a player, I didn't dress provocatively nor sought to gain advantage out of qualities other than what schoolwork required (mostly intellectual); this perceived lack of femininity led to isolation, as I got no attention from supposedly smart guys; these boys constantly objectified women and idealized the image of perfect-looking women in front of me and other female friends. Some even resented women because of bad experiences, in other words, victim mentality -I might add, that we girls have bad experiences too btw. I'm sorry but most of these guys had no balls and were absolute hypocrites, crying because some pretty girl didn't want to be with them while at the same time systematically ignoring and downplaying their female peers. Respect and consideration for others has nothing to do with gender in it of itself. What I enjoy about JP´s videos is that he has the capacity to present clear ideas, an tangible action plan for people, sometimes aimed specifically at men because of it's nature, and sometimes at women.
@zeethree
5 жыл бұрын
@@bearifiablepau2095 Men are very visually motivated regarding sex. So you say you didn't dress provocatively and then complain that you didn't get attention. You're complaining about a biological design of men. No different than a man complaining that women seek out men with more resources and competence. Most boys in college, let's not call them men because most are not, are looking for sexual experience. They're not thinking about women they want to marry or start a family with. What changed? It wasn't that way for my grandparents. To expect most boys today to want to be mature at 20 would require society to change in a way that rewards that goal. Married men and fathers aren't treated with any respect while sexually active guys are idolized by other guys and sought after by physically attractive promiscuous women. Married men are no longer seen as father-knows-best types, they're a bunch of simps who have their finances and decisions controlled by their wives and who retreat to a dark corner of their house they call a man cave. Every marriage today is tenuous at best and the costs to a man of a failed marriage are brutal. The costs to a man of a successful marriage are often brutal as well since raising/providing for kids is no picnic for men or women. This isn't an era where you're coming home from work and the pipe and slippers are awaiting you for your hard work. So what exactly is supposed to be the motivation for boys to hurry up and act like men? To get to your second marriage faster? Society caters to extended adolescence and encourages it with social media, dating apps, games, porn, movies, music and KZitem. So boys indulge in it because it feels good up until they reach a point where they realize that their lives have no purpose. They have no women and children to provide for and protect. The most satisfaction a man can get is to be so competent and useful that he can take care of others who love, appreciate and respect him. Ultimately I think everyone is losing today regardless of what choices you make. Responsible married men have a rough life. Carefree boys have a lack of meaning in life. Women who prioritize higher education and career goals are more likely to end up alone. Marriage isn't forever anymore so even if you get there you have poor odds for success. Bottom line, why be responsible in a world where there is no obvious reward for it? Women used to make the rewards for becoming a man obvious, now it isn't clear if there is any reward at all.
@dexterford8264
6 жыл бұрын
Choose Your Sacrifice
@drawmaster77
6 жыл бұрын
no. The only way to win is not to play.
@Difficultfuckhead
6 жыл бұрын
Gay rage will destroy us all.
@stt.9433
6 жыл бұрын
or take LSD to escape you existential crisis and wake up as a 70 year old hobo begging for money on the streets.
@cholulahotsauce6166
6 жыл бұрын
My damn sacrifice, rather. There's a proverb in which god says to mankind, "Take what you want, and pay for it". Truest statement I've ever read.
@cholulahotsauce6166
6 жыл бұрын
Difficultfuckhead Don't be difficul... Oh.
@TyDie85
7 жыл бұрын
Speaking as a person who is 32, I can not afford college and I did mediocre in high school...PLEASE PLEASE if you're young, please try tour best to do well at an early age. Even if you are against this structure we live within, just grow within it and try to make it better. Seriously, once you hit 30, people look at you differently...and yea, I'm just BEGGING all the younger ones out there PLEASE listen to JP, he knows most of his shit:!!! I only disagree with him on a couple of things...but not easily...he is so smart...please do your BEST even if it is hard.
@MmmMulholland
7 жыл бұрын
Killing Jokes I second this. Seriously. You do not want to hit your 30s without education or a good career in place. It is horrifying.
@Glurbschnurb
7 жыл бұрын
and please don't smoke weed. It is the biggest time waster and potential killer on earth.
@SerebiiWarrior
7 жыл бұрын
I believe that the worst thing that you can say to someone starting out is "you have time, don't worry". You only get to be young once. You start getting old and forming lifelong habits and the longer you wait the harder it is to change. Get those good work and social habits down now.
@ladynottingham89
7 жыл бұрын
It's not too late for you. You may not get to be what you ideally envisioned for yourself, but not all is lost. I don't know your personal situation (whether you have kids or other responsibilities) but I have seen single mothers with 3 children turn their lives around. If they can do that so can you. The struggle is not over until you're dead.
@unlimitedpotential8073
7 жыл бұрын
Glurbschnurb Complete lie. Cannabis increases one's thirst for knowledge and facilitates an expanded consciousness, along with increasing one's self-reflective capacity. There's a reason we have a 500+million-year-old endogenous cannabinoid system! It turns out that all humans make cannabis compounds, and they regulate pretty much all major biochemical processes from conception till death! (cardio, nervous, immune, endocrine, digestive, muscular, etc) Cannabis can literally align one with the evolutionary process that leads to higher complexity and increased self-awareness! Cannabis is one of the greatest things in terms of its vast benefits and uses. My goals in life have elevated and become more profound because of Cannabis use. Just use it responsibly, and it can be the life change that we are looking for! It literally aligns us with the evolutionary pattern of increased endocannabinoid activity!
@atrocious_pr0xy
5 жыл бұрын
I was 32 when i woke up and realized i had to grow up.. it wasn't enough that i had a wife and son prior to that. it is a lone journey to see yourself as something tangible and not whimsical. My realization is horrific, though, due to knowledge of wasted time.. But there is solace in knowing i have time to choose my sacrifices.
@uchechukwuibeji5532
5 жыл бұрын
Same bro. I turned 32 in June and I'm catching up on a lot of things I've missed. This whole year has been a transitional series of moments in my life. Keep fighting the good fight and don't give up. Too much is on line at this point.
@signorUBO
5 жыл бұрын
How is possible that you were not adult enough? Even if the son, and the wife subsequently, were an accident, you got them, you were not expressing responsibility to them? Hadn't you got a career?
@Julia-ey4zd
5 жыл бұрын
What have you realized specifically?
@mrs.schmenkman
5 жыл бұрын
You guys are backwards thinking. You should be happy you learned now instead of when you 62
@itown4ever
5 жыл бұрын
Exact same boat as you. Coasting along and then WACK! Like a hard strap over the ears. Thank God video games actually became boring - it's just KZitem that's left that I need to leave behind. PS I have 2 year old son and I'm living with his mother but none of it was planned. I'm not about to lie to you or myself that I adopted the responsibility willingly - it just happened to me but I thank God every day that it did.
@ykb946
5 жыл бұрын
"Never eat yellow snow" -Abraham Lincoln
@quantumfoam140
5 жыл бұрын
CC C “I said great googily-moogily!”
@kek397
5 жыл бұрын
"How the hell do I turn this thing off" -Atilla the Hun
5 жыл бұрын
"Never Eat Sea Weed" - Cyanide
@SovereignStatesman
5 жыл бұрын
@ "Eat Seaweed "-- The Beatles, KELP!
@KRAZEEIZATION
4 жыл бұрын
Nanook!
@UlyssesRyan-Flynn-w8b
10 ай бұрын
I’ve felt like this. The best step I took was to take a break from work, get sleep, workout and plan a career change. Working towards a career that excites you is so important
@richardsou
4 жыл бұрын
"Potential is interesting, Performance is EVERYTHING." This video makes sense. Every boy is talented, but a man chooses the wall to lean his ladder up against and stays there until he becomes successful. Only when you are successful do you get another role!!! This was comforting to hear due to me wanting to be successful in two endeavors in order to create a lifestyle for myself and family where we ultimately rely on our passive income, not our job income. I am 33 years old today, and realize that the next couple of years will be a challenge of wits... but the most important thing to me is to do the work, do it my way and do it with people that have like-minded goals.
@_siai
4 жыл бұрын
More power to you! I resonate with your comment about passive/job income so let me tell you something I've learned in my pursuit of that myself: Do one thing to the completion before you begin another. All the best!
@cristianm7097
4 жыл бұрын
Corporations will stunt your development as a human being.
@cristianm7097
4 жыл бұрын
@Rishi Life is not enjoyable anymore as a stunted human being.
@proudatheist2042
2 жыл бұрын
Not everyone is talented.
@MsNezbet
6 жыл бұрын
This video was a wake up call for me when I watched it a year ago. The way Peterson jumped from a young 20 something with potential to the old infant sent a shiver down my spine. Fear of failure never really resonated with me throughout school/university. Then 18 months flew by after I graduated and I was still a manchild (at the time of first watching this video). Moved cities, got a decent job and actually bear real responsibility for the first time in my life. I wouldn't say I've found "meaning", but it's better than delaying the inevitable/trying to convince myself that I was happy being a NEET.
@umagnovenju
5 жыл бұрын
you'll never find a meaning only what keeps you off suicide
@pokefanover900000000
5 жыл бұрын
Good for you man.... I'm still in the process.... Goin to college rn
@fozzyozzy1030
5 жыл бұрын
@@MsNezbet how'd you do it school, self taught?
@OhWaker
5 жыл бұрын
Yeah dude, how did you get good enough to be paid/get a job as a software dev? Did you teach yourself or did you go [back] to college for it or take programming courses?
@OhWaker
5 жыл бұрын
@@MsNezbet I see. Damn, I've been a NEET for 5 years with college and work for 3 years between NEET years 4 and 5 and sometimes it feels like the road is very long. Good to be reminded that it's possible to reach the end.
@akaGiNX
7 жыл бұрын
Man I need serious motivation to sort out my life. Edit: Wow guys.
@levijohnson3291
7 жыл бұрын
akaGiNX look into his future authoring program.
@levijohnson3291
7 жыл бұрын
It's helped me.
@dsbum
7 жыл бұрын
Don't wait for motivation. Motivation comes and goes, and its out of your control. Take charge of your life and just do it. Discipline > Motivation.
@samlloyd672
7 жыл бұрын
Nofap. Nofap. Nofap.
@proxyXIII
7 жыл бұрын
Clean your room everyday. Small steps.
@bokchoiman
6 жыл бұрын
More and more men are experiencing a mid life crisis through stories posted online, having never actually gone through the real events that cause it. It sucks because that roadblock has been shifted to a zone where men are supposed to be at the prime in their lives. We overthink and don't act because we've convinced ourselves that we can see the future and the future is bleak. So what's the point of continuing on this road? This barrier is hard for adolescents to overcome because they already have so many other societal expectations they have to meet. It's now impossible to block out the future and we have to deal with it somehow. It's not fear of the unknown but the fear of the known that's hindering development, and that is even worse.
@freshness222
5 жыл бұрын
Everyone needs to see this comment.
@iTydaa
5 жыл бұрын
@@freshness222 I saw the road i was going to a full time 9-5 life with debt so i ran away from it by doing nothing only playing video games lmao now im just thinking about starting my own bussiness and working but never wanna become in debt and be in risk of not able to pay it off
@edwardgaines6561
5 жыл бұрын
Your post means well, but it is steeped with fear. All the mid-life crisis means is that you have a newfound appreciation for what's really important. A mid-life awakening, it truly is. You cannot be afraid to seize what makes you happy. Time is of the essence, and your McJob certainly can't pay you with "time."
@sush6680
5 жыл бұрын
I don't know.about mid life crisis but I totally agree with your comment... I am in my early 20s and I seriously feel like I know what's gonna happen if I choose a certain path career wise and am feeling stuck where I am... anyway good to know more people face this issue these days
@edwardgaines6561
5 жыл бұрын
@@sush6680 I'm 35 years old. Please do not put your head down at your job like I did. For 6 years...
@mattozx6rr
7 жыл бұрын
100% truth. you need to take the time to figure it out when your young. The penalty is very real and painful. At 49 I am living the words to "Fade To Black". Yes I have a good paying job and a life but neither are what I would call fulfilling. More like slave to the grind. Figure yourself out ASAP and chase your dreams. You get one life. Live it the way you want or suffer a lifetime of torment.
@GeorgeMonet
7 жыл бұрын
Well you could wind up suffering a lifetime of torment either way.
@makemeajmod
6 жыл бұрын
Life is pain
@treyhightower875
6 жыл бұрын
God, people are just a bunch of whiny little bitches.
@Kate-ns1od
6 жыл бұрын
I don't understand why people expect fulfillment from their jobs? You can have a job and still chase your dreams, you just have to be proactive. The issue isn't that the job/life isn't fulfilling, usually the issue is that people use their lives/jobs/etc.. as an excuse rather than admit to themselves that they are too lazy or unambitious to achieve more.
@TacticsTechniquesandProcedures
6 жыл бұрын
Kan k why is there always some piece of s*** that comes on some comment like this and has to say oh you've given everything to your job know but you actually need to give more...why dont u just go f*** yourself?
@alexkarasz6186
5 жыл бұрын
At 42 I wish I'd discovered this video at 32. I could have had a great plumbing business by now!
@jiggajigjones8210
5 жыл бұрын
You can do it bud. Im 41 and believe in you!
@naylik2562
5 жыл бұрын
I'm 102 and I believe in you nigga
@todd77777772000
5 жыл бұрын
Easier then it sounds. Someone else with cheap labor from Mexico will under bid or under price you so you would have to be cheap as well which will make your economic growth slow down.
@chrisnichols6962
5 жыл бұрын
Ray Kroc bought a hamburger stand at 52...keep pushing!
@conejodemercurio6301
5 жыл бұрын
@@naylik2562 lol
@owenmarshall2599
Жыл бұрын
“You get to pick your sacrifice but you don’t get to not make one” this was nice to hear
@croy2032
6 жыл бұрын
I saw this and became a plumber
@minamatta1116
6 жыл бұрын
Congrats to you 😁
@bonbonpony
6 жыл бұрын
Those damn pipes won't unclog themselves, right? :J And I guess there's a lot of hot women just waiting for a plumber ;>
@utubedestroysmytime
6 жыл бұрын
@@bonbonpony honestly it's so much more. Try building a house without a plumber . Or repairing your gas line, having the license so your repair passes inspection,plumb a whole 100k project from the sewer line up you know....and charge you $120 to do something you can get done for $50 if you have balls....
@ArturMcCloud
6 жыл бұрын
I took up electrician this year, will become qualified at 30
@mezlandia
6 жыл бұрын
@@ArturMcCloud Way to go :)
@sandoruray2240
4 жыл бұрын
Never thought I'd hear tinker bell be called the fairy of porn
@arjakrumapar2211
4 жыл бұрын
Haha from a clinical phycologist too
@sfappetrupavelandrei
4 жыл бұрын
Why not?
@ckse7536
3 жыл бұрын
XD
@Nyconbr
3 жыл бұрын
2D waifus, in zoomers translation
@CybermanKing
3 жыл бұрын
I think the idea went over your head. Without a mother and without really any real and tangible woman in a man’s life, a man can be tempted to indulge in the only women he may see intimately which of course are girls in pornographic videos. Tinker bell isn’t real and neither is porn but there’s an addiction to the false promise of comfort it provides even some much it releases the same chemical reactions in the brain as does an infant embraced by its mother.
@linkscape1957
4 жыл бұрын
"If you choose not to decide you still have made a choice." -Rush 2112
@linkscape1957
4 жыл бұрын
@v- r-m holy smokes we got a keyboard commando in the house?
@linkscape1957
4 жыл бұрын
@v- r-m ? Ok as soon as I hook up with the cool homeless people in the park dancing like mutant zombies to edm music post Antifa Riot?
@sleepypanda8578
4 жыл бұрын
My man-child 50 year old uncle says this. He's as immature as it gets Lol (no offense)
@Jordan-cd3ce
4 жыл бұрын
fyi that track's on Permanent Waves, not 2112
@alextrujillo1613
3 жыл бұрын
Just turned 28 6’2 have my own business(5 years and still not very profitable) I go to the gym I dress well I consider myself to be an attractive guy, never had an issue with the ladies until recently I have nothing to show for, No serious girlfriend, still live with my parents, only 1 friend who I rarely see now, little to no social life, I always feel anxious now and completely lost all the time, Jordan is right when he says adopt responsibility my parents have provided everything for me up to this point. I have this deep burning desire to feel my age and adopt responsibility and grow up but I don’t know where to start. Life of tough
@AS-kg3mf
4 жыл бұрын
"You're an old infant and that's an ugly thing" 😆
@oceanside9508
4 жыл бұрын
Alyssa Sharp, I sincerely hope you didn’t interpret that statement imagining a literal “old infant”. He’s speaking metaphorically for crying out loud, don’t be silly. I’m only saying that because it isn’t actually something to laugh at, he’s making a serious point that should be taken seriously.
@SerenityNow331
4 жыл бұрын
@@oceanside9508 Yeah, I caught that too. Ms Sharp isn't the sharpest knife in the drawer, it seems.
@zizu1236
4 жыл бұрын
@@oceanside9508 everyone gets that it is a metaphor you imbecile. Hovewer visualising the image of that is quite funny.
@oceanside9508
4 жыл бұрын
Helper's Corner, I am known to be somewhat of a jokester myself, believe it or not. But this particular “joke” just rubbed me the wrong way. To me, this was like trivializing and joking about a sad tragedy. The tiny bit of humor to be found in this ridiculous literal interpretation of a metaphor is heavily outweighed by the tragic core of the statement. I didn’t mean to be a debbie downer and put down other people’s fun. I guess the topic just personally hit somewhat close to home and because it is, in its essence, quite a dumb and childish joke. But there’s nothing wrong with that, I just didn’t find it very fitting given the seriousness of the topic, in my opinion.
@thereisnosanctuary6184
4 жыл бұрын
Cape Meares Erase all your comments. You can do that you know.
@CheechWizard22
7 жыл бұрын
I completely agree with Peterson here. The modern world has definitely given rise to new challenges about how to structure your life and your career. The impact of the internet is just something that previous generations could not have predicted, and thus were unable to teach the young how to not fall into the traps that are set for the current generation. People are having to navigate this new age of constant distraction via social media, having too much choice (with alot of these 'choices' being shallow tricks in reality), and basically having to contend with the weight of the worlds problems on your conscience 24/7. Its no surprise that people retreat to virtual worlds (video games and internet bubbles) to escape from it all, and end up procrastinating in periods of suspended maturity. The internet, and the inevitable globalisation of the world that comes with it, is taking casualties. And these casualties come in the form of highly intelligent people, that most likely would have flourished 50 years ago, becoming these modern day man children. That being said, its hard to put complete blame on people who do this with their lives in a way. Because the so called 'careers' that most people have nowadays are equally dull and unfulfilling. One man taps mindless data into a computer at work, the other presses mindless buttons on his playstation controller. The office 9-5 that is most peoples work reality is not attractive at all to actually intelligent and self aware people. So theres a lack of aspiration forming here. Its part of a bigger problem that technology provides where we are moving too far away from the physical side of life. We are in a state where our bodies are under stimulated and our minds are over stimulated. And it feeds back into this loop that gives rise to mental instability at a younger age, preventing this generation from sewing the seeds that will help them fulfill their potential.
@scoodler
7 жыл бұрын
I have a physically demanding job right now working in a plant nursery. Although it has its challenges, (physical exhaustion, risk of injury and sun exposure), it still beats the hell out of the 9-5 office job. I'm tired when I get home, but it's a more satisfying tired and my mind is much more awake overall. If I can get to the point where I can work four days instead of five days a week, that would be ideal. I have another part time job as well as an artist so that would create a nice balance between the two.I think that finding the right job or career is the most important thing you can do in life. It affects everything else that you do and how you approach it - including the way you view other people in relationships.
@CheechWizard22
7 жыл бұрын
It sounds like you've found the right balance. And thats what life is all about.
@mikeschnobrich9694
7 жыл бұрын
So turning off the computer and plant a garden next spring wouldn't take care of most the traps. I am missing how anyone is trapped. People that work dull low skill jobs probably have more fun at work than anyone else. The form clubs, plan picnics, gossip about crazy lady's new boyfriend, complain about the new telephones in the break room. The job you describe is missing the people sitting next to you. There's a small part of a book about some Virginian or some such person I read about years ago that reminded me how it sounded like the world you described. Its the part of the story where is for some unknown reason, probably caused by PTSD from the civil war, decided to head out west and really struggled to get there. And on the day he arrived in some cattle or mining town, they are all the same anyway, as the train pulled into some dinky station, he saw through the window world that glowed. He gets a little carried away and its interesting and all to read but I just couldn't get over the fact that this goof was seeing stuff that just wasn't real. The place was just weeds and some dumb buildings that we all know probably had rats somewhere ready to bit. I still don't get it, he must have been doing drugs or something to looking at an empty cowboy shanty town thinking it was new and worth all the bother to get there. Besides, didn't he know it was all stolen land anyway. You tell about the world like it is, not the world like this cowboy dreamer on the crazy train sees thing. He is probably on of those man-children, just a little ahead of his time. Thanks for the really interesting post.
@levansegnaro4637
7 жыл бұрын
Mike Schnobrich not stolen land, conquered
@Deliquescentinsight
7 жыл бұрын
One thing you are leaving out from this enormous gift of the internet-it is something our grandparents could never have imagined, having the power to reach billions of people at scale, without having to pay expensive middlemen, the costs of building your own business was astronomical in 1930, 1950 e.t.c TV/Radio/Newspaper advertising was expensive and only reached local markets. We have won the lottery but so many just do not recognize this, as a digitally literate and skilled 60 year old I know this.
@Cal-md1et
6 жыл бұрын
Use to work as an engineer, made good money but was super depressed. Quit and moved to Asia to teach English. Life so much better. Rather be happy than a pillar of the community
@JacopoSkydweller
5 жыл бұрын
That's just it though: You are a pillar of community, just a different community and a different kind of pillar.
@raffiequler7510
5 жыл бұрын
The penis, not the pillar of the community.
@kinocchio
5 жыл бұрын
Raffie Quler Thailand?
@jayerbee7147
Жыл бұрын
I did the reverse, taught in china realized it sucked, then moved back to the states.
@amirulsuhaimi6736
2 жыл бұрын
Reading all your comments really gave me motivation. Knowing that I’m not alone in this battle of going out of immaturity and making sacrifices.
@MasteryOrder
2 жыл бұрын
To recognize your own immaturity is a sign of humility and growth. You are not alone, definitely. If you embarked on a journey of becoming a mature man, feel free to use the ideas that I share on the Mastery Order Channel to build yourself into the kind of man you would admire. All the best to you!
@dbishop4761
4 жыл бұрын
I wish I knew this at 20.. Because I feel like I failed life at 33.. I never learned anything ... They need to teach this stuff in High school
@iannesby
4 жыл бұрын
Well your 33 and your unhappy. Go chase the thing that your interests usually push you towards.
@alexaguilar8546
4 жыл бұрын
They wont. Because high schools are part of this business. They sell identities, so teaching you that everything is sacrificial, no matter you go to college or not in order to get yourself through adolescence and finally adulthood would be the equivalent of a very popular medicine advertizing itself with all the counter effects on the TV. Everything about them is business and power.
@doubled6256
4 жыл бұрын
D Bishop but you still have a chance. Life has directed you to a possibility of a new beginning, take it with both hands, fearlessly!
@mr.westin1313
4 жыл бұрын
Just a thought: if you woke up from a ten year coma at 33, would you consider the last ten years a waste of time? Would you still think of yourself as a failure? Hell no you wouldn’t. You’d be damn grateful to be alive and have plenty of time left to live. So get out there and learn what you want. Do what you want. Be what you want. The best time to plant a tree is 20 years ago, the second best time to plant a tree is right now.
@sultanjelle9168
4 жыл бұрын
My uncle stopped drinker at 31. Was a doctor by 40. Now he’s the happiest person I know. It’s NEVER too late dude
@sirClogg
4 жыл бұрын
5:30 "you can go to university to not be something" boy, is it nice to finally hear someone else publicly voice this fact. Skipping university gave me such a head start over my classmates who all went to study this or that just to be able to not take responsibility for their lives just yet. Have someone else making artificial hoops and problems they "have to face and stress about" in the safety of the environment they have known since 7 years old.. And everyone keeps repeating that degree is important while my experience shows that might be true only for medicine and perhaps a handful of other industries none of them chose to pursue.
@victoriannecastle
4 жыл бұрын
Nahh College is important but people should be aware it's not the life. You don't get there to find a stable job or a good future. You are there to use the excess and free time to do your passions-music, writing. I did write in libraries and skipped my classes. College is also important for some since their priority there are hookups and alcohol.
@sirClogg
4 жыл бұрын
@@victoriannecastle ok, fair. The connections you can make in the uni, might come in handy. Weather for romantic or professional purposes (still you can achieve the same effect by placing your tinder location over a school of your choosing). But is it really worth 3 or 5 or how many years you could have spent building real life experience? (just look at some memes, how many people are surprised and angry they are expected to have experience when looking for job :D they are in their 30's, fresh out of school, first time looking for employment and they just can't wrap their head around how come someone expects them to have experience. Why that's what you ought to have if you choose a career where title is not an automatic invitation.
@victoriannecastle
4 жыл бұрын
@@sirClogg In their 30s and first time looking for an employment? Which country is that? It makes me feel slightly better
@sirClogg
4 жыл бұрын
@@victoriannecastle Czechia. But I think it goes for most of the western civilization. If someone leaves their parent's house before 20 (student houses paid for by parents don't count) it's usually because of some abuse :D
@richardmccabe2392
4 жыл бұрын
While universities can cause students to delay taking responsibility for various aspects of their lives, I don't think it's fair to imply that all students go to university just to give themselves artificial obstacles and pretend they're stressed out like everyone else. Most students go to university because they actually have an interest or passion in a subject they want a career in. And to disregard the stresses of uni is foolish because the consequences of failing university is dire - you end up having no degree and thousands and thousands and thousands of dollars/pounds debt to pay for it. Degrees are important FOR careers that require degrees. Anyone who says degrees are important in general are being nonsensical..
@erichzahn3926
5 жыл бұрын
What about the tragic story of darth plagus the wise ?
@Zeppelin9113
5 жыл бұрын
Lmfaoooooo I'm dead
@MonstrotousM666
5 жыл бұрын
It's not a story the Jedi would tell you
@jiggajigjones8210
5 жыл бұрын
It was a surprise...a welcome one to be sure.
@henriktamminen7438
5 жыл бұрын
That's another story for another time
@justinm4497
5 жыл бұрын
hahaha i was literally just thinking of something star-warsy to say, and you just said it.
@Gmacc187
Жыл бұрын
I thrived the most when I was in a corner with no way out, but forward.
@sabrinaadam8557
5 жыл бұрын
I am a woman but thanks to watching several of Prof. Peterson’s videos I have learned to take responsibility for my life and my failures. Hopefully will be starting a new career this spring, thank you Prof. Peterson!
@ulfdanielsen6009
5 жыл бұрын
I´m sure you´re going to be a fantastic plumber. :)
5 жыл бұрын
So Sabrina, how is Yours plans going?
@TinyMK1
5 жыл бұрын
@@MrJackal43 Wow, umm... hmm. I think your comment may be just a tad bit unnecessary, LOL.
@santtosharya
5 жыл бұрын
All the best Sabrina! 👍🏻
@TinyMK1
5 жыл бұрын
@CarlosChip Morales LOL, your comment was certainly very encouraging as well! ha
@kphamcao
4 жыл бұрын
Someone said when you're 30 you get the first glimpse of your own mortality. Very true saying. I'm 31 now and I realise no more time to play around, it's time to get serious and narrow down and achieve your life goal.
@marijandesin8226
6 жыл бұрын
"You can go to university to not be something, instead of going to university to be something." Jordan B. Peterson
@Lee69911
6 жыл бұрын
I'd still rather hear the Tragic Story of Darth Plagueis The Wise.
@HermannTheGreat
6 жыл бұрын
lol
@RaawHax
5 жыл бұрын
Is it possible to learn this power?
@Luke-tt3dt
5 жыл бұрын
It's not a story the Jordan would tell you.
@teocharger
5 жыл бұрын
You guys are top notch! :D
@saemushailstorm3135
5 жыл бұрын
a myth even within sw canon
@hardenedsoul9784
Жыл бұрын
It really comes down to discipline and being the leader in your own life. The days you don’t feel like going to work, to train, to eat healthy. That’s where we need discipline. Motivation just isn’t enough and it never will be because challenges WILL present themselves. Stay strong brothers.
@Frankya92
4 жыл бұрын
Everything he said is true, except I didn’t start changing my issues until 25. Let’s just say it’s been extremely depressing and unbearably frustrating. The problem with this way of thinking is that you don’t get to see how bad your problems are, especially if you’ve never tackled them, until you have no choice but to see it. Not to mention establishing healthy relationships with people or even dating. The way I grew up was very detrimental to who I am now, and my dysfunctional, sheltering family sure don’t or won’t understand how or why. It sucks that the individual has to do all the hard work from all the reprogramming in adulthood, but that’s life. No support, just figure it out because no one cares and society is ugly
@dasunit07
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly my situation too
@Shvetsario
Жыл бұрын
Human society is at an early stage, we haven't been around for long on Earth. We still have those that behave like apes and give in to greed, lust, emotion. It's every person for themselves instead of all for one. It's why nations and borders exist, racism, etc.
@jobrakai9395
Жыл бұрын
@@Shvetsario The hell are you talking about??? Civilization has been around for a fucking millennium. And don’t give me this shit about racism, you’ve been watching too much shit on the news. These issues come from parents not doing their job, and not making kids strong, you’re out of your depth man
@komorebi4045
11 ай бұрын
Im 22 and exactly the same
@lordgrim1798
4 жыл бұрын
*“Tik-Tok gay”* - Gandhi
@assistanttotheregionalmana3002
4 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha
@MH-yc5pr
4 жыл бұрын
One of many famous quotes by Gandhi
@assistanttotheregionalmana3002
4 жыл бұрын
ADVITY COMRADE hahahaha
@kenburns4547
4 жыл бұрын
Tick-Tock Tech: clock engineering school
@wolveraspeaks
4 жыл бұрын
Pfft!! Bastard... Now I have to wipe off my computer.
@AE-gl6cb
7 жыл бұрын
I think the main catalysts for growing up and maturing are pain and suffering and coming to terms with the harsh realities of life.. Loss, death, poverty, sickness, trauma.. If you're wrapped in cotton wool til you're 29 and you've never had to struggle or sacrifice anything, if you've never had something or someone you love taken away from you, if you've never had to work yourself into the ground just to stay afloat then how or why would you grow up? I don't see it as a choice you make.. Just circumstances. If you're a 12 year old in sub Saharan africa and you've watched your siblings die of hunger and disease and you have to walk miles every day to get water then you will grow up very quickly.. If you're a western kid with wealthy parents in a happy family then I wouldn't expect you to be mature and worldly.. Why would you be?
@mrmugzzzable
7 жыл бұрын
I respectfully disagree Ambrose. I suspect intent has a lot of impact in the matter. I have encountered people from extremely cushy backgrounds who had achieved a great deal of maturity and then some from the opposite end of the spectrum left utterly wanting . I a few cases even siblings with similar experiences in life and opposing results. It seems there are too many variables to come to a blanket solution.
@breakingthemasks
7 жыл бұрын
mrmugz ... I see what you are saying, but I think the intention is not on the child's part so much as it is on the parents part. look for examples of competent young people who have achieved a great deal, then look at their parents and see the way they raised them. I predict that a great majority of High achiever young people come from families where the parents make a concerted effort to explain how life works and put their kids on the right path.
@mrmugzzzable
7 жыл бұрын
breakingthemasks As flattering as that would be to myself as a parent of a multitude of high achievers the studies I have read about don't lend a great deal of support to the notion. Near as I can tell from what little I have read parenting would have a maximum of 30% impact in the matter. What you are saying certainly "seems" likely though and I would like to hear what Dr. Peterson would have to say about it.
@mrmugzzzable
7 жыл бұрын
Roughly speaking.
@npn7564
7 жыл бұрын
mrmugz I think you are underestimating the effect that parenting has on a child's life. Without being tended to properly children develop feelings of loneliness and abandonment along with a potential plethora of others. Good parenting is not something to be glossed over
@EmperorPrinc3
Жыл бұрын
I'm 28. Life has slipped away from me. I have no job training, no skills, no future. The Army has taken my best years from me. I just hope some employer will give me a chance in the field I've always wanted to go into.
@SeansModelBuilds
Жыл бұрын
It's too bad that the Army didn't work well for you. 14 years ago, the Army saved me from the Great Recession.
@MrBomuch
Жыл бұрын
People would run to hire former army personal...trained in leadership.. Resilient.. Work well in teams and descipled.. What are you on about.. There is great respect for the military and the values it instills
@sabertachet
Жыл бұрын
If you're willing to do actual physical work, there is a huge market for skilled labor now. There are 6 month trade schools that can get you started in a real career for tiny fractions of college tuition. I payed my loans off in 3 years of working. Colleges dont tell their students that plumbers can make $120k/yr in the US.
@sunnydlight2375
7 жыл бұрын
STOP LIVING YOUR LIFE THROUGH THE EYES OF OTHERS
@TheGhjgjgjgjgjg
6 жыл бұрын
I agree.People are becoming obsessed with what people might think about you because of how you choose to live your life is getting fucking ridiculous.That's not to say be fine with being a lazy bum,but if you get out into the world and have some successes then are living life and THAT is what matters.
@lucibloom5966
6 жыл бұрын
YESSSS! When you are in touch with true self worth and know you are inherently worthy just because you are here, you don't need to do any of the things society tells you that you need in order to be accepted as 'an adult'. Most of those people are just kids in big bodies calling themselves adults but full of childish behaviour...so they are not the best barometer for what it means to really be a grown up to start with.
@karlhans6678
6 жыл бұрын
^This! Those adults that proudly called themselves adults (most people) and tell us we should be like them, they are full of childish behaviour and are terrible paragons of what an adult should be like.
@MrNo13
6 жыл бұрын
Luke Skywalking but it's so easy that way, no conflict, only in yourself that is
@FindingsOfAnArmouredMind
6 жыл бұрын
People, mainly adults, judge younger generations because there are preconceived ideas of what an adult should be or look like inserted in society. Things like studying a career, obtaining a job, paying your bills, having romantic or sexual relationships, breeding children and form a family, etc are generally associated with adulthood. Due to that, anyone whose practices do not conform to that idea of ''adulthood'' are judged as ''childish'' or ''immature'', which is funny because making such a prejudicial statement is in fact an immature and bias thing to say. Considering this, we cannot say that the older you become, the more mature or experienced you'll be, such a notion is clearly a false association. Maturity CANNOT be measured based on the things you might like or be interested in but on the decisions you make and actions you take.
@jakobos93
7 жыл бұрын
The fairy of porn There has to be actual porn called that
@AnaxofRhodes
7 жыл бұрын
Rule 34.
@foofoomagoogoo
7 жыл бұрын
jakobos93 Oh yeah there is..I dated tinker Bell and she could suck start a leaf blower, I highly recommend being Peter pan tell your 25
@joelhc9703
7 жыл бұрын
That's pagan porn, I don't like that witchcraft. I enjoy nuns, priests, altar boys and such (I'm joking.)
@destroyerinazuma96
7 жыл бұрын
Tinker Bell is a visual novel studio. Visual novels are like a hybrid between comics, a graphic novel and an interactive novel (like choose your own adventure). The type of VNs Tinker Bell makes is about magical girls and horny monsters.
@StarboyXL9
7 жыл бұрын
Destroyer Inazuma That's my fetish
@Justin_Joy
5 жыл бұрын
Tinker bell is like an anime girl. *SHE DOESN'T EXIST*
@artski09
5 жыл бұрын
yet all we need is funding
@ryllo2886
5 жыл бұрын
@@artski09 anime girls SHOULDN'T exist
@beaverincisor
5 жыл бұрын
@@artski09 smells like man-feathers around here
@lanceroark6386
5 жыл бұрын
But if those tits were real....
@spookyghost3209
5 жыл бұрын
VULKAN LIVES!!!!
@iFrazie
Жыл бұрын
I literally cry when he said you can be 25 and idiot. Makes me feel much better that I’m 26 and trying get my life together
@franingegnieri1831
Жыл бұрын
Its very common man, we're all in this together and at least you're trying and giving your best
@BigBoyYsel
10 ай бұрын
Hope you've come far. Don't forget that words like that can be harming also. Like it's giving a reason to take a break or to rationalize going back to bad habits. Take care!
@UtahStories
5 жыл бұрын
Great message! I know five “men” who don’t want to choose to sacrifice and are now greatly suffering in their prolonged adolescence.
@ichiagou
4 жыл бұрын
wait, so is it really a "sacrifice" if they needed to do it to prevent their suffering in prolonged adolescence?
@Defender78
4 жыл бұрын
There are several friends and acquaintances that I have who either just keep enrolling in wellness classes to put off having to get a job, or think that they can earn a living by teaching guitar part time, or to have low stress jobs and expect to make good bank, or to just do Uber and pretend that they are “professionals“. Some of these people are in such denial about their college loans, about their possibility of having to get a part-time job because they feel it’s beneath them, yet they want to spend and wine and dine and shop to keep up the illusion that they have “made it”. They should rather take notes from their peers who actually do monitor their own finances and live below their means.
@Crazyninja30
4 жыл бұрын
holy shit, im grateful im hearing this at 24. and i needed some reassurance and a push in the right direction.
@lev237
Жыл бұрын
Before you start feeling bad about yourself - remember that at the end of the day, happiness is what counts. All those years you were playing videogames and hanging out with your friends - this time is NOT wasted. You may feel regret about those years if you suddenly decide to buy a house and start a family (feeling of lost profit), but guess what - house and kids don't guarantee happiness either. I know plenty of married "grown-up" people who are miserable, angry and bitter all the time. Growing up on q doesn't guarantee happiness and there's no single "correct" way to live your life. If you feel it's time for a change - great, go for it. Don't be greedy with time, accept your past and move on. Also, finding your purpose is much, much more important and more productive than blindly imitating an adult.
@brother_of_bruh
Жыл бұрын
Thank you brother, words very well spoken
@ParksRec
6 ай бұрын
Well said
@iwanjb3593
7 жыл бұрын
2 Roughly speaking in 10 seconds, roughly speaking.
@dragunmane3029
7 жыл бұрын
Iwan Bounds and it's no bloody wonder
@maxand.1462
7 жыл бұрын
thats no joke!
@joelhc9703
7 жыл бұрын
And it is no accident.
@charleslewy6186
7 жыл бұрын
Roughly speaking, so to speak
@Ethan-vy4ke
7 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@johnnonamegibbon3580
7 жыл бұрын
A plumber is a practical engineer/mechanic.
@intothevortex7825
7 жыл бұрын
a plumber is a con-man. they can shakes hands with mechanics/panel beaters.
@realdomdom
7 жыл бұрын
+vortexos Imagine whatever helps you get through life, man.
@tibne2412
7 жыл бұрын
Electricians are the real ubermench
@youtubeuser206
7 жыл бұрын
ya drilling holes and pulling wire, such ubermensch *yawn*
@tibne2412
7 жыл бұрын
+legal canada Jeez are you a full time philosopher or something? Electrician versus plumber rhetoric is standard in every situation where one or the other is mentioned, now you're in on the joke.
@endersdragon34
6 жыл бұрын
“Critics who treat 'adult' as a term of approval, instead of as a merely descriptive term, cannot be adult themselves. To be concerned about being grown up, to admire the grown up because it is grown up, to blush at the suspicion of being childish; these things are the marks of childhood and adolescence. And in childhood and adolescence they are, in moderation, healthy symptoms. Young things ought to want to grow. But to carry on into middle life or even into early manhood this concern about being adult is a mark of really arrested development. When I was ten, I read fairy tales in secret and would have been ashamed if I had been found doing so. Now that I am fifty I read them openly. When I became a man I put away childish things, including the fear of childishness and the desire to be very grown up.”
@MASJYT
6 жыл бұрын
Did you miss this part? 4:17 This is pretty much what you're saying.
@ziyu3886
3 жыл бұрын
I'm still 20. This was surprisingly motivating.
@zafiruzoma6234
2 жыл бұрын
Don't let your year go to waste I'm just turned 21 I wish I did more this year
@Shvetsario
Жыл бұрын
22 lol, but at least I have a career goal in mind.
@bgoodfella7413
7 жыл бұрын
I don't see much attractive about a "mainstream responsible adult lifestyle". Work your ass off and tolerate a wife and kids. I'd rather do what I want even if it's nothing.
@2legit2Kwit
7 жыл бұрын
Have fun getting smacked upside the head at 40.
@TatiSaysSo
6 жыл бұрын
Being the wife isn't that great either.
@edwardgaines6561
5 жыл бұрын
The problem with potential is, you can be both something and nothing. It depends on your self-worth and drive. If a man is meant to drown, he'll drown. Even in a cup of water.
@firstsliveone1
5 жыл бұрын
Who said this?
@tonymac5546
5 жыл бұрын
Potential as a very seductive thing, eluding reality forever grasping
@nealm6764
5 жыл бұрын
Your post is so contradictory. You start off well, but then fall back to some lazy excuse. "if" and "meant to" is the thinking of losers. Make your own reality and destiny. If you don't want to drown in a cup of water learn to frigging swim, or stay away from water etc. and if you do bloody well drown in a cup of water anyway, at least you took charge of your life and didn't just sit around thinking your efforts didn't matter. Which is a big deal. You got people sitting around thinking "If I am meant to be successful it will manifest itself in my life." NO! It won't. You got to go out there and work for it man! The example is so ridiculous any way. Do you know of anyone who has drowned in a cup of water? I sure as hell don't. Examples like that are usually "hit by a bus" or something like that. Like it is all for naught because you could just be hit by a bus tomorrow. Well no, not really. I can stop jaywalking. I can look both ways before I cross. I can move to the country etc. I can control my destiny to a large extent. And if some bus just plows into my kitchen while I am eating dinner, well at least I was in charge of my life instead of sitting around making excuses.
@sirkaxz
4 жыл бұрын
Its just me, or you guys can spend the whole night watching this guy talking about life...
@australiantruckspotting8883
4 жыл бұрын
Stragosz yep
@alfredmorency8296
4 жыл бұрын
Yep, I meant to go to bed early and it's now 5:59 am.
@5029rahul
3 жыл бұрын
His videos are addictive lol
@loza261
3 жыл бұрын
Be childlike but not childish
@fleetcomm1
5 жыл бұрын
I’ve been greatly fortunate in that at age 50 then 57 and again at 60 my life began anew. Not perfect, very challenging but extremely satisfying. But I love to learn and take on change.
@nerdstorma8427
5 жыл бұрын
Man children happen when they're not allowed to make ANY choices and it causes you to stop trying. Parents that coop them up, Do everything for them, manipulate and mistreat them, never let them do anything or go anywhere, and mock them despite the fact that they're ignorance is caused by these Parents. The isolation has caused them to stop learning things firsthand and, more importantly to give up entirely. These parents also add additional pressure by expecting thier kids to please every expectation without ANY of thier help. It's also spurred on by traumatic events and mental health issues like anxiety and depression, although these are correlative not causation. How do I know? Cause I think I'm becoming one. And since every thing in my life leads to failure, and since every option in my life is nullified due to my inability to act on it, the best option seems to be sitting still and waiting to die. Not a day in my DREADED life by goes where I don't think about commiting suicide. It's not the type of thing I can explain but I cannot go outside and live life because I'm impeeded to do so by family or because bad things happen so I stay stuck in stagnation while I watch all my friends get girlfriends and cars and jobs and college. I don't know what hell I'm in, but I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy. I would give anything to wake up and be someone else.
@Ssookawai
5 жыл бұрын
Every single word of your comment hit home… here's the trick for me: act and I might not be there to pay for it (I'd be long gone) but my mother will pay for it. We were basically taken hostages , entangled in a hot mess with no perspectives , living in a country where a woman can't do anything when facing abuse (laws were too "flexible", they still are but now more and more people are aware of violence, so they Don't let things get too bad anymore). My advice for you is to get any job, save 70% of your income for a year or two then get the hell out of there, NO MATTER WHAT. Just get the hell out of that place… and never come back. I was also suicidal for too many years then I realised that what would happen? Death? I've been considering it for so long so if that can be price I'll pay for being independant and far away from this mess, then be it…. let's die trying. I'm now Following the same advice… I Don't know how long it's gonna take, I'm also anxious but hell, better be anxious yet determined to get over all this or just let myself being eaten by anxiety and depression… let's say it's my last fight against that monster called my father, either I'll be successful or it will be the end… and I'd rather die trying because I just can't take it anymore. If you can have (and afford) some therapy then it might help you. If not, just keep working, figure out Something you like to do, on which you can spend long hours without feeling exhausted and do it. That's how you'll be the best in your discipline/work field…
@terryvans1420
5 жыл бұрын
I too went through the man-child phase. I won't pretend I have the answer (I'm not completely out of it yet), but what I did was cling to the best option I was given (I wasn't given any of my own choices, so I had to make the best out of what I got) and play my masters' game, give them what they want till they trust me to go it alone and then, at the first opportunity, I moved away from them to another city so we weren't even likely to bump into each other. Now I'm working on building the life I do want on the side.
@terryvans1420
5 жыл бұрын
It truly is a kind of hell. One reason I didn't kill myself was that I was afraid I'd botch it and live as a disabled person, which would be worse.
@BadEconomyOfficial
5 жыл бұрын
True man, same here
@gitman3486
5 жыл бұрын
NerdStorm the cure for that is balls. If you can't muster your own because they have been cut off by your parents then try on some chemical ones so you know what they feel like. Seriously. Try injecting testosterone for a couple of months it will make you feel strong and solid. It will give you the strength and bravery to stand up for yourself and DO SOMETHING about your situation.
@serafim7779
7 жыл бұрын
1:33 He just described waifus
@sonicseducer69
7 жыл бұрын
0:00 - 7:46 he just described weeaboos
@MrGamemaker8
7 жыл бұрын
That hit hard, bro
@TheMonteCarlo
6 жыл бұрын
MrGamemaker8 Good.
@GrubKiller436
6 жыл бұрын
Have you ever watched Me!Me!Me! ? That was one video that I learned from, and I hope other people had learned from it as well.
@samuelarminana
6 жыл бұрын
dman literally laughed out loud bruh
@traviselrod7803
3 жыл бұрын
Here is a theory I have...Peter Pan will eventually become an equivalent of Captain Hook and Captain Hook used to be an equivalent of Peter Pan. Look at the way Captain Hook lives his life. He has a group of men that he is in charge of, all of them behaving immaturely, and Captain Hook lives in fear of time. Peter Pan is essentially living the same way. He has a group of boys he is in charge of, behaving immaturely and Peter Pan lives in fear of growing up. As time eventually gets him (gets older) and if he does not mature, he will be clinging to his childhood that he wants so desperately, becoming more tyrannical over his men as his fear increases, living in even more fear of time.
@kylereese458
5 жыл бұрын
Watching at 29 with a master's degree that means nothing to me and some health issues that also take a lot of options off the table. I was always top of my class at school, got high end university classifications, yet all I can get are call centre jobs. At 18 I was pushed by my teachers to study a pointless subjects, all I am now is poor with the ability to over analyse my situation. My potential feels wasted and lost, I feel like time has gotten away from me to the point I can't turn it around.
@RustyShakleford1
5 жыл бұрын
you listened to teachers parents colleagues friends your whole fucking life!!!! 30 years of following other people ideas/orders/goals/tasks/dreams/ listen to yourself start thinking for yourself. tell everyone who thinks otherwise to go think for themselves. your life starts once you take the first step
@joseignacioctm
Жыл бұрын
i hope everything got better for you my man, and if it didnt, its still not too late to start again but you gotta start again and find whats meaningful to you, not to other people, and considering your health issues of course whatever they are you must manage to accept them and work with what you have, much strength
@rahul-rz5uj
Жыл бұрын
I hope things got better for you And even if they didn't, rise again.
@Shvetsario
Жыл бұрын
Fr, most of the subjects in the public school system are useless, I feel like there's a disconnect between the school district and the teachers. They just teach whatever, instead of introducing subjects that have real life applications, that students can learn and graduate with those skills. Teaching various subjects instead of 1-2 specific ones is like being a jack of all trades: it's impossible, and a waste of time. You can't be good at everything.
@EllaArmstrong25
Жыл бұрын
This is me at 41, although I am a woman and mother, I never did much with my life. I was really pretty and used that to get things from men and married someone I truly love but who has enough money so I don’t have to work ever. My daughter is in school 8-3 every day and I do nothing, I have no direction. I dabble in things and then give them up. I just feel so ashamed of myself and don’t know how to motivate myself to be something more. I am a good mom though.
@pembatamang8233
Жыл бұрын
being a good mom is more than enough. Enjoy life!
@olliefoxx7165
Жыл бұрын
Being a good mom is very important. Eventually your daughter will grow up and need you less. That's when you get to pursue your interests/ passions. Find those and pursue them.
@mii2oo150
Жыл бұрын
Do something you're scared to do - anything that takes you out of your comfort zone. You won't grow as a person unless you put yourself out there and have new experiences that truly scare you. And I'm not talking about jumping out of a plane (although there's something there too), but starting a new job, a new college diploma, or some activity that takes you out of your comfortable bubble will be enough to make you grow as a person, create a sense of accomplishment, and open new paths to explore. All you have to do is commit to trying something that makes you feel scared.
@ritanjoki8264
Жыл бұрын
Go for online college on part-time n do all the house chores on your own,,cook clean ,if u have a maid,,send her away and u will feel productive....Engage with Ur baby on her studies,,social life-go outside n play with her,,
@EllaArmstrong25
Жыл бұрын
@@ritanjoki8264 thank you guys for your ideas, it’s kind of you to try to help. I’m going to try to make a change, I guess it’s never too late.
@gc3k
7 жыл бұрын
With the march of technology taking careers and replacing them with meaningless service jobs, I don't see a way out of prolonged adolescence taking over how society behaves. That's certainly a bigger problem than daycare universities, if not the root of the problem. Society must create a replacement for a meaningful career as the definition of adulthood because the post-WW2 standard of living is over
@TMP912
4 жыл бұрын
37... Living at home. Struggling with depression and anxiety. Kidney disease all my life. Got a new kidney when I was 30. That process nearly killed me, mentally. Woke up before the surgery was over. They're mistake. PTSD and trying to make sure new kidney is working and healthy. No direction, motivation... Sick Man-Child. 👋
@Anna133199
2 жыл бұрын
Damn. Woke up before the surgery was over? That's awful. PTSD is no joke. Under some circumstances I think it's okay to cut yourself some slack for still being a man-child, while also doing your best to turn things around, of course.
@anthonyestrada9037
4 жыл бұрын
I'm new to JP. I grew up poor my entire life. When I became an adult I immediately joined a trade and started making 3x the amount my single mom made raising us. I helped her with bills for awhile before I bought my own house and moved out. And I buy anything I want, which is a problem. I grew up never getting what I wanted and now I have a hard time saving money but I'm still in a good position. I'm just glad to hear I'm on the right path
@theyeticlutch3486
4 жыл бұрын
Petersen is a treasure bro, so much good content from him
@boopaloop
Жыл бұрын
I am 32, work a middle class job, pay my own rent in my apartment, own my own car, and I also am a functionally single dad. I still feel like a man-child.
@Sherlock245
Жыл бұрын
Peter pan lead other boys to take over cook.
@Prof856
Жыл бұрын
Dude I am living this exact life. If you are doing that, I would say you are doing just fine.
@nickbretz267
6 жыл бұрын
This is one of the most important videos on the internet.
@jeanvu
6 жыл бұрын
Indeed!
@gabrielus123gabby
6 жыл бұрын
not as important as the important videos though
@seankeenan9277
6 жыл бұрын
Nick Bretz I can relate
@zeethree
6 жыл бұрын
He doesn't really explain why though. Why is the 30 or 40 year old in bad shape? He just vaguely hints at it to scare the 20 year olds into behaving the way he wants them to. He never gives any details on what the consequence is. JP is a catastrophist. He says this guy is doomed, this girl is doomed. As if the guy who takes the family and kid route in his twenties is set for life. I mean what possibly could go wrong other than you losing your job, your wife leaving you, your kid getting a serious illness, you losing your home and you prematurely aging from the stress of it all.
@clarencebayer79
6 жыл бұрын
@@zeethree because the likelihood of you one day reaching that pinnacle is a lot higher than the chances you will be okay with that decision. I agree it's not a 100% across the spectrum truth, some people are just happier floating through and doing just enough to live free, but I have seen plenty who have hit 40 and 50 and regretted not doing something more constructive at an earlier date. I'm only 27 and I have seen minor instances where this is true. Not learning to be financially responsible at an early age and learning and becoming better over the last 2-3 years has shown me where I could have been if I had applied it far earlier. The message behind the man-child is simple and applies to a lot more people than it doesn't.
@tamarabradshaw4799
7 жыл бұрын
Boys need Fathers to teach them. And moms need to quit protecting them.
@iliketofuckwomen1265
6 жыл бұрын
Exactly .
@Volarere
6 жыл бұрын
Single Mothers are getting more and more common though...
@IllDawgable
6 жыл бұрын
Tamara yes, yes, YES! And Jan because they are becoming more common, they are not only raising their children in an overprotective way but they also are raising them into beta males
@renoldojeffrey4653
6 жыл бұрын
Jan Grünenwald Maybe it is because men are afraid of commitment and maturity so they don't stick around to raise their children
@DiogenesNephew
6 жыл бұрын
Yeah, that's no shit there dude. I got away with so much shit throughout my formative years thanks to my mom. Not good. I ended up alright, but goddamn I could have so easily ended up being a complete trash person.
@ginofoogle6944
4 жыл бұрын
People need to stop looking at age and what they have accomplished in a certain amount of time. Don't beat yourself up over it. It's not going to do you any good. Just look at your future what and who you want to be. The past is the past you can't change it..
@redbeatsmedia1972
4 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Everyone is just comparing themselves to others and wonder why they feel terrible.
@cstrap7
4 жыл бұрын
amen! everyone is on their own path. i believe we in the dark ages when it comes to mental health. all this social media is leading to status anxiety
@redbeatsmedia1972
4 жыл бұрын
@@cstrap7 Definitely that. I also think that it may not be that people are less mentally healthy but in the past, if you brought it up, you were just considered a wuss. Now, it's taken seriously.
@michaelcorrigan6577
4 жыл бұрын
Yes the past is the past. But like what I'm going through now is the " what have I been doing for the last 10 years". We have to beat ourselves up to some extent otherwise we dont really learn from our mistakes and hopefully then true growth & change can occur. But i get your point truly. I suppose we all mature at different rates. Some not at all.
@lopiklop
4 жыл бұрын
Exactly. And this is the worst 'psychologist' i've ever seen. That's why he's a teacher. Getting angry at youths. Actively projecting onto fucking kids. Why does he raise his voice? Um well he's describing himself. He is still at the college isn't he? Goddamn.
@smashstuff86
7 жыл бұрын
Our culture provides few coming-of-age opportunities anymore.
@shiverstewed4353
6 жыл бұрын
smashstuff86 MUSHROOMS
@MikeAnderson-mh2og
6 жыл бұрын
smashstuff86 Why ?
@tonysilva2060
6 жыл бұрын
smashstuff86 opportunity should be created through a free market that allows the individual to compete against the corporate this monopolist on an equal Level Playing Field is the only way to create develop maintain this is truly a sustainable Society
@Thunda1986
6 жыл бұрын
people are expect it to be handed to them
@orangewarm1
6 жыл бұрын
war? rape?
@biscottone3357
5 жыл бұрын
4:00 Pick your sacrifice. Pass the narrow training period(constrict you and develop you), opportunity will be in front of you. After Becoming, you have to rediscover the potential of the child inside you in the second half of your live
@NaNa-wj8tw
4 жыл бұрын
Biscottone 33 This is a great comment and absolutely how to approach changing career in your late 30’s or 40’s. You finally pin down a job that’s meaningful or a second meaningful job as you finally tired of the first after 15-20 years and know after training that you’ll (with a little luck of course) go through to retirement actually enjoying work. Maybe just about the time your starting to see it as just another job it will be time to hang up the boots and I don’t see much wrong with that:)
@eaubert1
4 жыл бұрын
I am a "tragic" man-child! Yet what are you expecting of men? To go get a job, get married, have children and buy a house, simply so you can pay your taxes, get divorced, alienate your children and declare bankrupcy? To me, the story of Alan Harper seems much more tragic than that of Peter Pan!
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