İ am 40 and i still have the same issue. I guess i ‘ve grown without any treatment . Really hard living like this . İ became an advocate but ask me how 😩
@steveg4082
Жыл бұрын
I’m 50. It is 4:30am. I am half packed for a trip that leaves at 7am. I am waiting for the panic to kick in so I can recklessly finish packing.
@roypetrieacoustic
3 ай бұрын
Im 37 and have the same problems. And have also kids 😂
@AnneAdametz
5 жыл бұрын
Hi! Can you go into detail or do a video on HOW TO Teach each item: time management, non preferred task strategies, etc?
@ADHDDude
5 жыл бұрын
Anne that will be covered in my Executive Function crash course for parents. You can sign up to be notified when it will be released here: www.subscribepage.com/adhddude
@eyeris415
5 жыл бұрын
@@ADHDDude Any updates on that Executive Function Crash course for parents?
@ADHDDude
4 жыл бұрын
@@eyeris415 If you are on my mailing list you will get an email when it's release: adhdudde.com thanks for asking :)
@fonzellpasquale7169
4 жыл бұрын
This is very helpful. Thank you. I just joined your mailing list. I hope to get more info on your executive function crash course.
@soul_luv3710
5 жыл бұрын
Oh jeez yes my son no clue about time. Although he can tell time quite well. Avoidance of tasks. Mornings we have the 5 things...meds,food,dressed, brush teeth, brush hair..boom that’s it and we still have issues of getting dressed takes an hour.
@TPWK216
4 ай бұрын
My son who is 8 with severe ADHD gets dressed on the stairs, take his meds along with a glass of milk. Then he pick up his bag and a banana and we go together to the bus. He eats the banana while he is waiting for it to come. I find this very affectice. Because my son doesnt function this earley in the mornings so I loward my gard. Breakfast he eats in school when he gets there and he also has snacks during the day the teacher can give him if its neccessary. He doesnt eat mutch during lunch, though he has provided food. So snacks and fruit during the class is highly recomendble. Of course it should be something full of vitamins and nutrition.
@piaffe25rider83
4 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh, Thanks So much for this video!!! I have a young adult son with this and never knew what to do for him...he also has adhd, inattentive type but no meds- too many bad reactions. Thanks again!
@ADHDDude
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching!
@roypetrieacoustic
3 ай бұрын
Im 37 and still have this problems. I have kids and its hard to clean the house, clean dishes, washing clothes, cook, kids to school and work. Dont know how to do without stress 😢
@ADHDDude
3 ай бұрын
It's definitely hard. I don't know if there's a way to do it without stress, but I found that it was easiest for me to get up earlier or do things after my son was in bed.
@amywhite2874
2 жыл бұрын
As a member of the forgotten generation of ADHD girls, now adults, how would you recommend building these skills?
@ADHDDude
2 жыл бұрын
Hi Amy, are you asking me how to build them as an adult, or to help parents help their kids build them?
@moongoddess1978
Жыл бұрын
You can reparent yourself and fill in your skills gaps as an adult with ADHD with The ADHD Dude Membership site (it’s aimed at parents but it helped me and my daughter), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, medication, and extra coaching if needed in specific areas like organization or nutrition. The best advice I can provide as a 44 year old woman diagnosed at 21 is not to sell yourself short and realize that you have adapted better than you think. Part of the insidiousness is the way our brains trick us into these false beliefs that we can’t when we absolutely can when we feel an emotional connection and drive. This is why music is helpful or remembering your why or setting a deadline with a reward at the end. Ryan also mentions in his membership “purposeful recognition and praise” which is really important to incorporate for yourself. Encourage yourself. Tell yourself you’re doing a great job. Your subconscious absorbed all that negativity when you were little. You have to turn it around. I highly recommend Mel Robbins’s 54321 method to jumpstart as well. She has ADHD. Don’t put projects on your to do list. Break it down into tasks. Persistence not consistency. And though it’s hard sometimes, do keep up with your health. Get regular labs (vitamin D and iron deficiency can cause fatigue). Exercise and eat regularly. Get enough sleep. You will be more focused that way. Good luck!
@moongoddess1978
Жыл бұрын
Also: the more you get done, the higher the dopamine in your brain. Small wins lead to bigger wins. Dopamine is higher in the morning. Don’t waste it on your phone. Get ish done earlier when you’re fresh!
@GillBoxfish
Жыл бұрын
Do you have videos that drill down on some of the strategies you mention: - conceptualising time - inner coach - motivation ..
@ADHDDude
Жыл бұрын
Conceptualizing time is covered in webinar 3 of Executive Function Crash Course webinar series. Building internal dialogue is covered in webinar 1 of the same series. Improving resiliency to persevere through non-preferred tasks is covered in webinar 4.
@ZoeyHavoc
Жыл бұрын
Me, I’m one of those adults. It’s embarrassing
@ADHDDude
Жыл бұрын
Nothing to be embarrassed about, no judgement about how your brain works.
@noahdacruz5778
Жыл бұрын
Literally watching this video instead of doing homework
@ADHDDude
Жыл бұрын
:)
@poshcustomdolls9841
3 жыл бұрын
But how do we help our high school kids to develop those stratagies to get through non-preferred tasks? I have a whole team of people. Therapist, psychiatrist, school 'team lead,' and I dont know how to guide them- they don't teach what you do. Thanks! Sharon
@ADHDDude
3 жыл бұрын
I cover this in my Executive Function Crash Course Webinar 4. adhddude.com/executive-function-crash-course/
@brendalg4
Жыл бұрын
@@ADHDDude "this page can't be found” error
@sart1973
2 ай бұрын
Do your tools work for neuro typical kids?
@ADHDDude
2 ай бұрын
Yes, I suggest people use the strategies in the courses with their kids (diagnosis or not) so there is consistency in the home.
@sart1973
2 ай бұрын
@@ADHDDude that’s good to know. I’m just curious because I don’t have any kids diagnosed with ADHD but I have one kiddo with adhd like behaviours and I wondered if these techniques would work?
@ADHDDude
Ай бұрын
To my surprise, we have a lot of members who have a child that does not have a diagnosis.
@sart1973
Ай бұрын
@@ADHDDude I can believe it. There are many different causes that produce adhd-like behaviours. I feel, in our case, it’s nervous system-related roots which is why I’m drawn to your information. Thank you for sharing your experience and knowledge
@Haloofhope
Жыл бұрын
My daughter at 9 years had developed the habit of going to toilet and flush without actually using the toilet, She used to do this 6-7 times in an hour. Now she is 12. I still don't know why she did that. But when she was treated for anxiety , it went off. Now she developed the habit of touching the wall surfaces , going one step back before walking forward, opening the tap thrice before using it. Put on the switch thrice before the lights are on. We don't understand why such habits are developed.
@ADHDDude
Жыл бұрын
This sounds like OCD, it is easily treatable, and you have to learn how to not accommodate her anxiety.
@brendalg4
Жыл бұрын
I am 59. Not diagnosed. How do I get treatment for these things? I haven't heard anyone else describe it this way. My doctor can't even find anyone to diagnose me due to being on Medicare/Medicaid
@ADHDDude
Жыл бұрын
A family doctor can provide a diagnosis
@scarlettsmama310
5 жыл бұрын
In addition to dealing with this at home in regard to chores, my daughter's school reports noncompliant behaviors such as refusing to answer a question or respond with "I dont know" "it's too hard" or simply no. What suggestions do you have as to how I or the school can approach reducing this and what about adhd makes her do this? She also has a language disorder stemming from a hearing loss during infant and toddler years.
@ADHDDude
5 жыл бұрын
Tara if she's in an ABA program they should figure this out. tell them this issue should be integrated into her program.
@msecord8943
5 жыл бұрын
Excellent video. Thanks.
@ADHDDude
5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@piaffe25rider83
4 жыл бұрын
I will let his therapist know- now we have something to work with- so theres hope🙂🙂🙂Thanks again so much!
@ADHDDude
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@ankushmanhas5194
8 ай бұрын
❤
@amandamorgan2077
3 жыл бұрын
Do you have videos geared for teens or young adults?
@ADHDDude
3 жыл бұрын
Dude Talk playlists are my videos for kids. There's a general Dude Talk playlist, and then ones by age group. I don't make videos for young adults, as they would not be viewed enough to invest the time in making them. Thanks :)
@jillk5151
3 жыл бұрын
When is your crash course being released?
@ADHDDude
3 жыл бұрын
My membership site is being released in the next few days and will include access to the executive function crash course for parents webinar series as well as my parent behavior management program. Thank you for asking
@DVD927
3 жыл бұрын
He knows what he’s talking about
@ADHDDude
3 жыл бұрын
Thank You!
@aimmiekearley6110
3 жыл бұрын
This is me with housework 🙈
@ADHDDude
3 жыл бұрын
Join the club :)
@megangoodell
2 жыл бұрын
How do you tell if your child is really struggling with this kind of executive functioning or if their just being stubborn and/or lazy?
@ADHDDude
2 жыл бұрын
So I have a thing where I don't call kids "lazy" because I think lazy implies they have a character flaw. I always presume that it is the result of lagging executive function skills which includes a lack of ability to sustain attention to non-preferred tasks/subjects.
@mtbgirl7
5 жыл бұрын
Is there a source you recommend to develop these specific strategies for a 9-year-old boy?
@ADHDDude
5 жыл бұрын
I'll be teaching this in my online course. You can learn about it at: www.adhddude.com
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