【Is this OUT or SAFE? 】 - an English summary In this stream, Leos reads moral dilemmas submitted by fans and asks the group to vote on whether their actions were reasonable (SAFE) or unreasonable (OUT). 1. Topic: Love (starting 00:05:40) Submission: I still use things my ex gave me (a cup, a pencil case and so on.) On top of finding it inconvenient to go buy them for myself, I end up thinking about the cost, so I’ve just been using what I already have. The items themselves are blameless, and the breakup went pretty lightly. Would you throw away the things you received? Would you keep using them? Unanimous: SAFE Kaida: “Wouldn’t it make more sense to throw them away when you start dating a new person?” Ange: “If the next person said it made them uncomfortable then I’d throw them away.” Hakase: “If the writer is someone who finds it hard to move on, then I’d suggest throwing them away immediately.” 00:09:10 Kaida raises the stakes with “What if it’s a brand-name item, or super expensive? […] Like a car?” Hakase: “I’ll send it to my parents.” Ange: “Whether it’s expensive or not, I would use it or throw it out depending on how the next person felt.” 00:10:13 Leos: “What about something you had really begged them to buy for you in the past?” Hakase and Kaida in favor of selling it and buying a new one. Ange: “I’d feel guilty about selling it, I think I’d still throw out the old.” 2. Topic: Work (starting 00:13:21) Submission: I don’t feel like greeting people at work, so I’ve gone 5 years without greeting anyone. As in, I don’t like saying “good morning” or “otsukaresamadeshita” (‘thank you for your work.’) I prefer not to bother others with my coming and going at the workplace, and if my senpai’s back is turned to me, they might not even be listening when I greet them. If others greet me first I’ll greet them back normally; I participate in business conversations; I converse with superiors and subordinates and people outside the company. Even so, I just don’t do greetings. Unanimous: OUT Hakase: “But if it were between friends, it would be rather fun.” Ange: “It’s not infuriating, but between OUT and SAFE it’s definitely OUT. Leos: “If the writer also didn’t respond to other’s greetings then it would be a total OUT, but […] in the end, it still changes the impression you make.” Kaida: “There’s a sense of camaraderie in greeting people.” 00:17:20 Hakase’s alternate scenario: If it becomes a running gag between friends Kaida: “You’d probably decide what’s right or wrong based on what the people around you consider right or wrong.” Ange: “So, if a group of friends has a norm of never saying good morning, and the new kid comes along and says ‘Good morning!’ it would be really awkward.” ===== Expand replies for the rest
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6. Topic: Family (starting 00:48:13) Submission: I want my little brother to find out that we were born to different parents, since our parents have been hiding it. He is much younger than me. I thought our parents would have told him in middle school, but he has become a college student without ever being informed. If this is judged SAFE, I will do an anniversary reveal. Ange, Hakase, Kaida: OUT Leos: SAFE Ange: (referring to her own family tree) “After they found out, I once heard someone say they would have been better off not knowing. […] Also, what kind of anniversary? […] If he’s lived up to this point not knowing, then maybe it’s fine to keep it this way.” Hakase: “First of all, family matters should be discussed with the parents first? […] If the parents say it’s fine to tell him, then it’s fine.” Kaida: “It’s not an individual person’s issue, so everyone affected should participate. […] To the writer, this info may be pretty light, but to the little brother, it’s a huge thing to find out. The reveal needs to be taken more seriously.” Leos: “I see. Hmm, well I very simply thought it would be interesting to reveal it so I answered SAFE.” (Some discussion on how people react differently to life-changing info depending on their personalities) 00:55:26 Kaida: “This one should be OUT. Unless Leos is okay with taking responsibility? […] If it goes badly and you’re asked to pay up or something?” Leos: “… Let’s say this is OUT! This is no good! If you really want to tell him, at least consult your parents first.” Hakase: “Somehow you’ve changed huh.” Ange: “You want to be entertained, but you don’t want to be responsible.” 7. Topic: Love or Money (starting 00:56:30) Submission: Is it okay to go into debt to give presents to a lover? While we were dating, my ex-boyfriend borrowed 1 million for us to have fun and spend on luxury. Over two years, I helped him repay the loan. When this ex-boyfriend proposed to me, he gave me a wristwatch worth some 5 million and a handmade engagement ring that looked like an iron plate. He was again in debt because of the watch and ring, and we paid it off in no time. Overjoyed, he borrowed money to start vocal training and form a band. I thought, ‘Surely getting married won’t go well!?’ and so we went to a Metal Slug 3 concert to commemorate and then peacefully split up. I’d like to hear the guests’ thoughts. Ange, Hakase, Kaida: OUT Leos: SAFE Leos: “I do believe there are things that can only be obtained right then and there. […] If there’s something that the other person would be delighted to have, or if you want to have a good time together at that moment, […] whether you break up or not later on, I think SAFE for going into debt to give presents to a lover.” Kaida: “To be blunt, rather than the handmade ring or wristwatch that put him in 5 million of debt, wouldn’t a person be happier receiving a present that cost nothing and brought on no debt? […] Also, there’s a lack of an honor code between this couple.” Hakase: “It says they both helped pay off the debt, but in the end, isn’t it just yourself losing out? Besides, I don’t need a present that puts me in debt. […] I’d just be like, ‘Please use money wisely.’” Ange: “For me - by the way, taking on debt to give a present is SAFE, I think. […] But! This person is taking debt too lightly! […] Looking at this history, I would have helped him with debt before, and might need to again from now on, so as Hakase said, I’ll end up paying for it too.” 01:02:37 Hakase: “Well, they dated for two years so I guess he must be a good guy. Moreover they broke up peacefully.” Leos: “I might want this person as a friend, but as a relative or lover things would be tough.” =========== Thanks for reading! I mainly translated this for my own sake, but I do hope other viewers will find it.
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