Congratulations to you both. I hope he stays loyal and loves you unconditionally. You are a brave woman with a kind heart. Please don’t doubt your beauty anymore. You are beautiful inside out. May god bless you with love and a healthy relationship.
@home5u
17 күн бұрын
WOW...awesome. Wish you(them) the best.
@juneyang-8263
15 күн бұрын
I support you. Time has changed. It's totally OK.
@meehlauj9595
16 күн бұрын
Props to u sister... 👏 happy for u both.
@hmoobxwb1
17 күн бұрын
What a beautiful story Sab sij huam qab zib
@yayulyn4016
16 күн бұрын
Good for you to them nqi tshoob rau koj tus txiv. Tej zaum rau ntawm koj yog kev hlub tabsis rau ntawm nws yuav tsis yog kev hlub. Tej zaum rau nws yuav yog kev hlub thiab money nrog. Good luck hope everything go well.
@neverforgetmisslee
17 күн бұрын
Great story
@bchang227
17 күн бұрын
Actually, a lot of guys like to use that bride money as a way to control their women. Since you use your own money, your hubby won't be able to control you. 😂 If things don't work out with your marriage, you're free to leave, no need to pay his family 1k to get rid of him. Hmong ppl just need to get rid of that bride money. I gave my daughter away for free, too.
@kermoua6883
17 күн бұрын
Congratulations! Hopefully your husband loves and cherish you!
@cuayaj7174
16 күн бұрын
Kuv thov qhuas koj yog ib tug nyab ntshuag kub yog tsis muaj hmoos yeej tsis tau cov nyab siab zoo li os nej txhob thuam nws ua tau yog lawm muaj kev hlub lub neej thiaj li vam meej os
@zoolikuv
16 күн бұрын
You're a good woman. I just hope he will never betray you. Good luck.
@7stars2love
7 күн бұрын
Nrog neb zoo siab, tab sis ceev faj vim txiv neej hmoob lawv xav hloov siab thaum twg los tsis paub.
@Faifferz
16 күн бұрын
As long as he’s not marrying you just because his family is poor and you are a nurse then this is wonderful. Regardless of who makes more money, when you get married you are one. Support each other and build your life.
@paLeevang
16 күн бұрын
It's not desperate its real love. What's mine is yours, what's yours is mine. So happy for you both ❤❤
@bliaxiong9563
16 күн бұрын
Kev hlub muaj nuj nqi duas nyiaj. Yeej yog thaum yus yog txij nkawm ces nyiaj yeej yog ob leeg lis.Tsis uas lis cas.
@LillyRose09
17 күн бұрын
Happy for you both! It sounds like your husband was someone who had it hard in life, which shaped him to become a thoughtful young man with the right intentions. I don’t see anything wrong with women helping fund our own weddings now that many Hmong women are successful with high earning potential.
@xiongandcheng
17 күн бұрын
That's true love
@gaohmoob6816
16 күн бұрын
There's nothing wrong to pay for your own wedding. It proves you are an independent woman. Because he was honest and genuine about not having the money to pay for the wedding it makes sense to step in and pay for your the wedding. May your love blossom together.
@wisteria4550
17 күн бұрын
The saying that money cannot buy love. But it can. It’s called, “love buys love”. Because you love each other. You support each other. You made the right choice.
@alee6534
17 күн бұрын
You go girl!
@leejmuam1
17 күн бұрын
I only hope your marriage lasts. Desperation will only lead to heartache later on. He sounds like a thoughtful person. You're a decade older than him, and according to you, he is not bad looking. I hope that when you're 50 and he is 40, he still loves and appreciates you.
@PM-oe5mk
17 күн бұрын
We are in America so I don't see anything wrong with what you did----it's unconventional but it got you what you wanted. The one thing you SHOULD have done, but didn't, was protect yourself by having him sign a prenup (prior to marrying him) just in case in the future he turns out to be like his father (sometimes the apple doesn't fall far the tree, as the saying goes). Since you didn't protect yourself with a prenup, I truly hope he will be faithful to you 'til the end of your life/his life so that you never have to regret your action.
@meexiongvang3373
17 күн бұрын
Kuv qhuas koj yog ib tus ntxhai muaj peevxwm heev tsi txhob quavntsej txog cov neeg thaum koj hai koj tsi zoo lawv yeej tsi muaj peevxwm ua tau lis koj ua os me ntxhai kavtsij hlub koj tus txiv thiab cov me nyuam xwb twb yog koj muaj hmoo kawg TSWV NTUJ thiaj muab ib tus txiv txomtxom nyem liskos los rau koj hlub nws xwb mog nrog koj zoo siab nawb.
@colleenchan9872
14 күн бұрын
Wow zoo tshaj plaws peb nyob mekas lawm tsis need txiv neej pheej yuav paid all the time os..peb yuav tau change lawm os..hmoob mas sim neej no ntxim ntxhub dhau os especially cov niag pojniam hmoob laus os ntuj aws..li cas los tsuav neb sib hlub os twb zoo li cov pog laus mus yuav txiv mos ab tim nplog ne lawv twb mus yuav them nqi ib yam nkaus ne!!
@kaher9238
16 күн бұрын
That’s good. I hope that your husband will appreciate and love you and don’t use you because he knows you have a good job.
@ziaskabhmoob
17 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story, sister. You made a good decision about paying for your own wedding. But, you are not the first to do that, actually. 30 years ago, my best friend paid for her own wedding too, and they still very much in love with 4 college grad children.
@nancymoua4982
15 күн бұрын
Do whatever makes you happy. Don’t care what others say and think. lawv tsi yog tus nrog koj nyob hlub koj so who cares.
@lovekimchi1
16 күн бұрын
My sugar daddy said ntuj teb aw nceb lo tau noj dawb, nyiaj lo tau siv dawb, tus ruam piav tes piav taw thiaj li tsis yuav xwb no. 😂
@alenalor1432
17 күн бұрын
Nimno ces kawg cov ntxhais them nyiaj yuav cov tub xwb tiag. Tus ntxhais twg yog tsis muaj nyiaj pab them tus tub ces yeej tsis tau txiv yooj yim li thiab. Yog tej niam tej txiv los tseem yov noj nyuj noj twm ua tshoob Thiab xwb ces, Kawg vauv mus tsev tsis tuaj alawm xwb. Kav hlub tus uas uas txaus siab rau yus xwb.
@hlubforlife
16 күн бұрын
COUGAR Mama is going after her prey😂
@kondiminoi4333
16 күн бұрын
Zoo ua neb work out and hope it last. Xoj laim txiv neej mas use yus es once you help them raise up to be independent after certain years, they will cheat and leave you especially when there is an age differences and the guy’s age is younger plus he has a bad habit bad egg from his father. Hope it doesn’t happen to you and he’s not like that.
@bnmobile6443
16 күн бұрын
Nej hmoob me ka vam meej kg li o yu muaj nyiaj lm ce tu neeg yu hlub lm muaj nyiaj ce yuav kiag nw lo xb ma😂😂😊😊😊
@kermoua6883
17 күн бұрын
Don’t be sad, pay your own wedding! I paid my own wedding too except he loaned the money from the bank but it takes me 4-5 years to pay the loan back. Now I had 4 children and he doesn’t appreciate me much and doesn’t give me 💯 ❤️ hopefully your husband doesn’t cheat on you and love you forever!
@sunnygirl973
17 күн бұрын
Yog yus tus txiv tsis muaj nyiaj them yus lus tshoob ces yus tsis thas them them lis os. Poob koj civ nyiaj dawb dawb rau lawv xwb os. Lam nyob ua ke es kav txog hnub twg nyob txog hnub ntawv xwb los mos.
@yahookv15
17 күн бұрын
She’s not the first. Many of us have done that, we just don’t say anything. I even gave my money to “tshab xo” the night he took me home. I paid my own head. When we divorced, my family didn’t pay him anything. Hope this lady’s life turns out better than mine. Her guy sounds more thoughtful than mine did. Good luck lady!
@nancymoua4982
15 күн бұрын
cov mus yuav txiv tim nplog ho tsi poob ntsej muag. cov yuav txiv tim mekas ho poob ntsej muag. oh...hmong mas ua li cas yeej tsi haum hmong lub siab li os.
@user-kd7mq8rc5f
17 күн бұрын
Kuv tus nyab los nws twb them nws ib rab nqe tau hau thiab vim yog kev HLUB, tam siim no nkawv twb muaj ib qho menyuam lawm thiab es zoo zoo siab kawg li os!!! Zawm no sawdaws yuav pom txoj kev HLUB no au ntu jus Tom ntej , txawm zoo thiab phem los kev HLUB yeej txhua Yam, ntej puas ntsheeb li ntawb thiab?
@chorlee6835
16 күн бұрын
If I have to pay my own wedding I’ll not marry him!
@Fromspam09
17 күн бұрын
Wow girl....I am so proud of you for fighting for your love. I wish you both a long loving life together with your kids.
@CloverStarz
16 күн бұрын
Yessa it's time for ya women to pay up!
@iTek14
16 күн бұрын
My husband had to take out a student loan to cover the dowry while he was in college. After we finished our schooling, I worked to help pay off the loan.
@whatheck6797
16 күн бұрын
Wow that’s a huge age gap!
@user-vl7ov4vz7n
17 күн бұрын
As a Hmong daughter, I will only pay for my dowry if I hit the lotto. 😅😂😊
@maichavang6896
17 күн бұрын
U never know, he may not love u for u, he loves u only for the good life.. so im.sorry I agree with your mamma
@thomher2955
17 күн бұрын
Zoo heev. Ua lis koj hais yeej muaj tseeb. Nyiaj khwv tau tabsi kev khwv tsi tau. Thaum lub cai lus txog tes txais nkaus xwb thiaj tau. Thaum plam lawm tes tag ib sim. Koj twb tsi yog them leej twg. Koj them rov rau koj niam koj xwb tes yeej tsi poob peev. You are one of the girl step outside Hmong traditional wedding but nothing is impossible. You put your money in good use..to buy your happiness and build your dreams. 👍
@genuanneli
11 күн бұрын
600$ mus lwm qiab los mus fi xov na😂😂😂😂😂😂😅😅
@xeeyang5867
17 күн бұрын
Tam sim nov mus, cov vivncaus? Yog pojnrauj txeeb u tus txiv no ces nco ntsoov sau nqi nawj, kv tsuas hais tus txeeb luag tug xwb ov, kv li thau kv tseem g Muaj tswvyim, nim no mam xav tau ces lig rau kv lawm,
@sandyhebbs3466
16 күн бұрын
To the sister in this story, its good that everything work out for you and your husband, but for the majority of people, please take this story with a grain of salt, because it might not end up good. Yes, parents have a lot of concerns because many women are desperate nowadays.
@denali12023
17 күн бұрын
1st very good 👍 👌
@zouachang7857
17 күн бұрын
Me ntxhais koj txawj xav ua tau yog kawg li lawm mog. Koj txawm them koj li nqi tshoob kom koj tau yuav koj tu txiv lo yeej zoo tshaj os. Koj poob 10 tawm phas lo ua koj lub tshoob xwb zoo tshaj cov mus yuav txiv mos ab tim nplog tuaj lawv tseem poob nyiaj ntau tshaj koj li 10 npaug mus yuav lawv cov txiv tim nplog teb tuaj thiab koj ua qauv zoo kawg li rau cov nyob teb chaws vam meej no lawm thov qhua koj mog. Thov kom neb sib2 hlub kom txog hnub lau plaub hau dawb paug xwb mog.
@jeanpaulthao7610
16 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂 txiv hlo txiv ntxawg lawm tsis pam nyiag yuav poj niam rau tub es lwm hnub tag txiv hlo txiv ntxawg es tseem tau ua nyub dab rau thiab peb hmoob kev caij ruam liam hiam ib sim neej lis os 😂😂😂😂
@tsis-k-koj
8 күн бұрын
99% of younger man older women don't work out, but hope you can be the 1%.
@sunnygirl973
17 күн бұрын
Mloog mas nws tsuas yuav koj kom dimbnws tsev neeg txom nyem xwb as.
@leethao3975
17 күн бұрын
I hope he really loves you and not just using you. Men changed once they have money. I hope your mom is wrong.
@krisloveseat
16 күн бұрын
If I was the relatives of this guy I would be so embarrassed!!!! No balls at all!!
@SheEye9111
17 күн бұрын
I hope your husband appreciated and love you the way you are. Because you're like the first to ever paid for a wedding. 🎉
@haivneegkeej2674
16 күн бұрын
Lot's of red flags within this lady story on both sides. Dude see her as a saviors. Cause she has a decent job. The lady is super desperate. Take whatever she can.
@DisBoiVaj
16 күн бұрын
Risky decision mostly because he is 10 years younger and he was in a financial crisis. Good luck though
@BANNA_007-r6q
16 күн бұрын
When he divorce her and take half of her things that's going be part 2.. let's see her picture that will tell why she pay for her husband 😂😂😂😂
@allisonvang6067
17 күн бұрын
There are alot of women nowadays that are doing what you're doing.
@nalaher3022
17 күн бұрын
Great story. True love does exist. Have a happy life and ignore the negative people around you.
@tsismuajhunbncaim
17 күн бұрын
I'm proud of you, sister. You have the money, so you make the rules. Your husband is younger than you but a very clever man for choosing long-term benefits over beauty.
@pamthao8955
15 күн бұрын
Only 12? Lady wait until you marry for 20 to 30 years and he still stay married to you how ever good luck hope he prudes me wrong and he turn out to be one of good Hmong man for you
@toosay200
16 күн бұрын
Im glad it worked out in your favor. But your mom was right about you being desperate, if a man loves you, he would've married YOU.
@kavaj6693
16 күн бұрын
My husband got loan and we paid it back. Even if his father f$@k a life. Like I said to him I paid my wedding I will not help cover your dad’s funeral. 😅bc that is the reason why they pay our daughter heads so no pay so no funeral for his parents 🎉I have a better education than my husband I still married him. 😅no my mom and dad respect me. I told my husband he needs to help my side more than his side. His side can’t say nothing so like I said back off 😅
@angelalee4598
17 күн бұрын
May God bless you both
@crystalsong2039
17 күн бұрын
They say money can't buy love, but I guess it does in this case. Good luck. Would love an update story in a few years....
@maixiong-mu5cm
16 күн бұрын
Congratulations on your success n being the first Hmoob woman to married ur husband n paid for him. However, b careful of what u got. Nrog koj zoo siab. Thov kom nej sib hlub mus txog hnub kawg. Tsis txhob hais tias lwm hnub koj tus txiv tsis hlub koj ces koj ho yuav cem tias: "koj pluag. Kuv muab nyiaj yuav koj. Koj los thawj kuv.....etc"😮😢😭
@ambervang8074
17 күн бұрын
Wrong title, but as long as you’re happy. You bought yourself, because you paid your parents. You did not pay his parents.
@user-gb2nw6mw4s
17 күн бұрын
Qhov nov yog koj pab koj tus txiv yuav poj niam rau nws xwb yog rau kuv ces tsua yog ib qho normal xwb ❤
@lindayaj1333
15 күн бұрын
This is going to backfire on you for one day. Hmong men are siab phem. He will leave you bc you will age quickly after having kids. He only loved you bc he’s desperate and had nothing. Good luck. I hope I am wrong but you hear it time and again it will not end in your favor.
@hmooblor1
17 күн бұрын
tiam tshiab no tus pojniam them nqi tsoob muaj coob lawm o. cov tim mekas los muaj cov pojniam mus yuav txiv mos ab tuaj mas txhua2 tus yog tus pojniam them xwb.
@myprecious6751
17 күн бұрын
WHY THE HELL WOULD YOU PAID YOUR OWN WEDDING? IF HE LOVE AND WANTED TO MARRY YOU, HE SHOULD'VE A JOB AND MONEY TO PAY FOR HIS BRIDE. YUP YOU'RE DESPERATE
@user-uc3ng8do8w
17 күн бұрын
I give you 10 more years once he hit 40 he will change
@PMThao
17 күн бұрын
Good job sister. May your love remain strong. Only mistake was letting everyone know you paid for yourself. No one need to know that. All hubby need to say was he got loans from banks, he managed to save, etc., etc. You’re not the only bride who pay for herself but the couple/family are hush hush about it and none is the wiser.
@miabhlub63
17 күн бұрын
Nothing's wrong with that. Yus them yus li nqi tshoob es thiaj tsis tshuav leej twg nqi os.
@mithounavang5500
17 күн бұрын
You not alone pay for you husband
@diannaxiong693
17 күн бұрын
I am Agree with you! Yog peb tsi tau muaj nyiaj nto lab no tsi txhob rawm mus thuam koj tus ntshais tsam lwm hnub ho vam nws nev.
@missysmart8620
17 күн бұрын
Love comes in many forms so I honestly hope that he truly love you and doesn’t follow his dad footsteps.
@maiyang570
17 күн бұрын
$ talks. Run, he's $ hungry only 😂 You are too desperate!
@MTlee-zr4oh
17 күн бұрын
Sounds like your husband wanted better lifestyle/ $$ and wanted you to help his family financial problem
@jefferythao4243
17 күн бұрын
Must be sugar Mama.
@Justin-q4w6d
17 күн бұрын
He likes you because I guess he wants shade in the summer and blanket in the winter 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@kuvxwb11
17 күн бұрын
Koj them nqi tshoob ma koj yuav tsum coj lawv tus tub los ua koj niam koj txiv tus tub pob. Koj tseem siv koj cov nyiaj them koj nqi tshoob xwb koj ruam dhau lawm....lwm hnub lawv tsis hlub koj tsis xav yuav koj ces lawv yuav hais tias koj them koj nqi tshoob rau koj niam koj txiv lawv xwb ces lawv saib tsis taus koj. Lawv yuav koj mus nrog lawv nyob ma lawv yuav tsum them nqi hos. Yog koj them nqi ces koj coj koj tus txiv los nrog koj niam nej nyob vim tiam 21 no cov txiv neej ua nyab nrog neej tsa nyob lawm na.
@mainenglee-xiong3344
17 күн бұрын
Seems like he’s looking for an easy way up by using you. Value yourself and don’t settle for less. If he can’t afford you, at least his parents should have paid for the wedding. His father is misusing the money. Be on the look out, so you don’t end up with a heart attack or stroke.
@Gazalle12
16 күн бұрын
Yuav luag txhua tus txivneej yeej yog muaj pojniam los nrog tsa lub neej thiaj ntseg. Yav thaum ub los yeej yog pojniam los tsa tibyam nkaus.
@22cute-o2b
17 күн бұрын
Tiam no tsis yog tiam thaum ub lawm leej twg them los tsuas sib hlub tiag tiag xwb leej twg yuav hais li cas los yog lawv txoj kev xav thiab lawv lub qhov ncauj xwb
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