"Does he work EVERY DAY or is he sleeping during the day!"
@amandalidey329
Жыл бұрын
Definitely facts. 2 major for me. Job & take care of your kid/kids. Idc how good of a man or how good looking he is, if he's a grown man with no job for no reason & has a kid/kids & doesn't care for them. Turn off with 0.5 seconds. Only one I don't agree with is, his family background. That doesn't always define someone. Iam not dating/marrying his father or mother. If he doesn't come from a loving background with his family, not always his fault. Depends on how he carries himself from his family. I definitely wanna know about his family, but if their "dysfunctional" it doesn't necessarily mean who HE is. Facts.
@queenaries4206
Жыл бұрын
I disagree the apple 🍎 doesn’t fall far from the tree. Trust and believe if the family is dysfunctional and he was raised around them all his life,he possesses it as well. It took my husband 22 years of marriage & death of 2 of our children to display his dysfunction. PTSD brought out family members in his character. I’m getting a divorce 🙌🏿🙌🏿
@champagnes5898
Жыл бұрын
@@queenaries4206 but what did u expect loosing children multiple at that is devastating..most ppl never recover from such a lost like that…I guess
@loyalandkindsunshine3382
Жыл бұрын
@@queenaries4206 I agree, If he's dysfunctional I guarantee the apple 🍏 doesn't fall too far from the tree because he gets it from somewhere congratulations on your divorce.
@monicanorman4681
Жыл бұрын
Tell the truth and shame the devil
@bidah007
2 жыл бұрын
Your knowledge is a HUGE blessing for Black Women ,thank you so much
@bravefitchick7184
Жыл бұрын
For all women IMHO. Regardless of appearances, those of us of other races and cultures don't exactly have this nailed down😬 either.
@stopthecancelculture
Жыл бұрын
@@bravefitchick7184 That advice is for men and women smh
@bravefitchick7184
Жыл бұрын
@@stopthecancelculture I was specically responding to bidah eve's comment above. Although I don't disagree with you per se [that it could also apply to men], she does specifically address "ladies" in THIS and many of her other videos. If you would like to split hairs over it...by all means, knock yourself out. 🙄SMH, lol.
@stopthecancelculture
Жыл бұрын
@@bravefitchick7184 ok put the gunz away
@bravefitchick7184
Жыл бұрын
@@stopthecancelculture No guns, not even water pistols. Moreover, I dont expect to have a rational conversation with someone whose initial comment was nonsensical. I am out. Have a blessed evening. Good advice is good advice. Some folks try to tear down, while others try to build up. I am praying that all your relationships are edifing and positive ones.
@smartchick649
Жыл бұрын
That quote that says,” show me your friends and I’ll tell you who you are”. It’s true.
@laninaclay6276
Жыл бұрын
Yes!!! Birds of a feather flock together!!! My ex husband's friends would be argumentative towards me, so was my husband. They would put their hands on their wives and girlfriends, mines did too. They didn't work, slept all day, played video games, smoked weed.. mines was too. I was young and dumb back then.
@sweetgirl62
Жыл бұрын
What if you have no friends??
@sweetgirl62
Жыл бұрын
What if you have no friend??
@gypsylotusblossom777
Жыл бұрын
@sweet girl Then work with the other qualities, things that you have to determine through the other factors she mentioned that you can work with, if he has no family, that's all. And of course it will work out that way too😊💯👍
@deliciaford4343
Жыл бұрын
@@gypsylotusblossom777 Thanks for responding because we need these FACTS!
@dannysims5914
Жыл бұрын
Yeah as a real mature single man. I do have to agree.. There are alot of demons walking around out here in human flesh.. Men and women. Be very careful and wise out here...
@KM-oy5yh
Жыл бұрын
AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN 💯 🙏 🙌 👏 ❤️ ☺️
@Auntiefeliciaofficial
Жыл бұрын
So true. The Devil is using people as traps
@dorisalfred2760
11 ай бұрын
For real. Demons in human skin.
@soiledskin
10 ай бұрын
💯💯💯
@meselechlole9691
7 ай бұрын
Thank you that’s so true
@zoejaiattoh1243
Жыл бұрын
That initial approach is everything, if he don’t come correct , I’m not even giving not one look
@romandulce999
Жыл бұрын
And be alone at your 50s with a bunch of cats...
@Forestlover6654
Жыл бұрын
@@romandulce999I would rather be alone all my life then let someone who approached me with disrespect from the get go into it. Plus, animals are better than people.
@africanbrowny
10 ай бұрын
@@romandulce999Being told by a man that you'll be alone at 50 with cats, is no longer the insult that it used to be in the 1960's. We don't care anymore.
@romandulce999
10 ай бұрын
@@africanbrowny It’s not an insult, and never been. It’s just an optional fact.
@heathercampbell1560
Жыл бұрын
This woman is leading grown sensible women towards what is good....listen to her, she knows what she is talking about!!! Thank you Madame!
@stephanierouse4458
Жыл бұрын
Amen Amen Amen
@chrissyh3270
Жыл бұрын
Keywords - grown, sensible women. It's some scalawags that are going to try to use this information but it's not going to work for them because of who they are.
@kittyunicorn3531
Жыл бұрын
I needed this like.....10 years ago. Damn. No one taught me how to date!
@godslocddaughter1545
Жыл бұрын
👋🏾Right!!
@mybestlifefortherestofmyli7137
Жыл бұрын
Not even your mother or father? It's called standards
@lalani888blue
Жыл бұрын
@@mybestlifefortherestofmyli7137Neither. Had 2 dates in highschool for 2 proms. My father who was physically, emotionally abusive ..greeted both dates with a shot gun in his lap. Confusion much??? 🤦
@healthyrunnerange3188
Жыл бұрын
@@mybestlifefortherestofmyli7137 some people grow up in abuse/ neglect sadly / and parent(s) telling you negative things that you are “deserving” of because they are evil. no one ever took me under they wing to teach me what to avoid. I went to church too growing up 4 days a week and they knew I grew up in abuse and they never taught anything to help with my dating life. This lady is helping me now at my grown age cause I had no idea how to choose . better late than never
@mybestlifefortherestofmyli7137
Жыл бұрын
@@healthyrunnerange3188 yeah I under. I grew up in church as well, and then when I started to see the scumb bags out here and why The Lord God tells us to not date them and even deal with unbelievers to don't walk with Christ, I get it.
@Atlanta718
Жыл бұрын
Quality men 1. Gentleman 2. Communication, get to know you conversation 3. Career, work daily 4. Family, loving 5. Friends, supportive 6. Children, priority or BD Reflection of you and your upbringing
@basicinfo2022
Жыл бұрын
1. Healthy masculinity 2. Happily and proudly is a provider 3. Values commitment
@glendalewatkins7906
Жыл бұрын
I always say keep a eye on the family...that's where you really going to get answers...listen to side conversations
@zoejaiattoh1243
Жыл бұрын
Exactly .. when you that nonsense run
@AG-nn8lp
Жыл бұрын
That is NOT TRUE. I grew up in an addict home and I am nothing like my family. How ridiculous to judge someone off of their family. I learned exactly how to not be.
@DrCassie-Psy
Жыл бұрын
Wish I had done that. It would have saved me a whole lot of heartache, anxiety and trouble
@vmwilliams9198
Жыл бұрын
@@AG-nn8lp I think the side conversations part is a good piece of advice. There are some men who bring a new woman around a lot. One sister pulled me aside and told me what's up. I understand when it's not a healthy environment in the immediate family, but when the extended family are around, they tell all the business- no holds bar.
@raecaston4507
Жыл бұрын
@@AG-nn8lp good morning love how are you? I hope all is well…I hear what you saying and honestly that’s good that you didn’t follow down the same path as your family became your own person but at the same time you have some people who come from the same type of family and will follow in those same foot steps because that person didn’t have no one teach him or her to know right from wrong or the paths of everyday life so sometimes you do have to pay attention to the background the person come from because it’s people that come from broken homes or environments so they’ll be just as broken to a point they don’t know how to treat someone you know what I’m saying so it’s true what she saying but it’s not true I hope what I said didn’t offend you in any way if I did I apologize💯I hope you have a good day ☁️
@bravefitchick7184
Жыл бұрын
"Is he a loving father....or a baby-daddy". I am too old to have children, but this is NEVERTHELESS an important question. It speaks to his integrity, morals, sense of responsibility to not only his own offspring, but society as a whole. An ABSOLUTE deal breaker if he is/was not involved in his offspring's lives! Do not kid yourselves on this one ladies. I don't care how good looking or wealthy he is. A man that doesn't take responsibility for his own DNA is not worthy of any woman's time or attention. Run.
@jadacruz5284
11 ай бұрын
You are absolutely Right! I wish I knew that 7 years ago but better to learn now then make the same mistake.
@alixptn
Жыл бұрын
100% The only man I have been in relationships that met this criteria is my husband today. It took me 43 to recognize and accept the love of a true man.
@gBalldevelopmentllc
Жыл бұрын
And also his relationship with his mother and sisters!
@AG-nn8lp
Жыл бұрын
Nope..my ex had a good relationship with his mom and sisters but was STILL A LYING CHEAT.
@indigameriseminalindian
6 ай бұрын
I don't have a good relationship with my mom and sister, because they were toxic and once I grew up and got a wife and kids, I no longer entertained the gossip and toxic behavior that they never grew out of. This is why I moved to a whole other state and changed my number.
@RaqueLauren
Жыл бұрын
SO TRUE. I underestimated family dynamic and paid dearly. Their childhood experiences determine their psyche forever. There is NOTHING you can do to undo their learned toxocity.
@susanparker9877
Жыл бұрын
Forever.
@libraaaa_chick3297
Жыл бұрын
🎯🎯💯💯
@leahislar4911
6 ай бұрын
You can break generational cycles by going to therapy and individuating. People heal everyday, not sure why you assume they don’t. I come from a dysfunctional family and have healed from trauma, anyone can 🙏🏽
@aliciawoods8925
Ай бұрын
This is good. ANYONE can heal from trauma,
@VendieSolde
20 күн бұрын
@@leahislar4911 you're a woman... you're naturally better at working out the internal...men are piss poor at it
@kennettabradford6566
Жыл бұрын
Yeah quality men believe a woman is worth a plate of food. I don't entertain the " what you doing tonight" dudes. They looking for help not love. But always calling women Golddiggers
@gypsylotusblossom777
Жыл бұрын
You hit the nail on the head👏👏👏👏💯💥🥳
@nattie911
6 ай бұрын
Firstly there actually needs to be gold that can be dung 😂
@lakeashacolemon3814
Жыл бұрын
I totally agree with your videos. One thing o want to point out is that not everyone who comes from a dysfunctional family dynamic is a bad person. As long as they have put in the work to heal themselves by going to therapy and focusing on healing before they start dating. Let’s stop making people who come from terrible beginnings out to be some sort of monsters. This really hits home for me because I work in the mental health field and the stigma around mental health is part of the reason why people are afraid to admit they need help.
@ClowneryAtItsFinest
Жыл бұрын
❤
@AG-nn8lp
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely. If I'm shunned because of my families mistakes, then wow......am I not my own person?!? Horrible advice. Usually agree with her but not on that.
@michellebussell9831
Жыл бұрын
My ex needs serious mental health help. He snaps for no reason and has no empathy.
@mc5549
Жыл бұрын
Some of those dysfunction traits and habits does pass down and most do not get help. But I agree that you can make a choice to do better than what you were raised from.
@clarity2974
Жыл бұрын
Not willing to risk it especially if the person never admits wrong doing. When people get comfortable with you that's when all the bad habits they get from their family comes out.
@michellebussell9831
Жыл бұрын
My ex came from a strict Christian background, worked hard, and had no kids. He beat me up all the time not only physically, mentally but emotionally too. I grew up in a toxic environment and am nothing toxic like him. So sometimes it doesn't matter how you were raised but who you choose to be as a person and your character.
@laninaclay6276
Жыл бұрын
Agree but it does set the foundation on how they were raised. People can definitely change their family dynamics for the better IF they WANT to. People have to put in the work.
@vibinghigh2711
Жыл бұрын
I didn't realize the bm I been involved was abandoned by their fathers and alot of those males have serious problems and I made a mistake by feeling sorry them.
@yecoliahisrael4156
Жыл бұрын
Me too Sis. I have been married since 2004 and let me just say , it was not a wise choice. He is fine as hell but damaged by childhood abuse and father rejecting and then introducing cocaine to him. So many black men are traumatized at an early age and so we sisters have a har d time dating.
@jayc5756
Жыл бұрын
EXACTLY!!! That's what we are talking about ladies when we keep telling yall to vet men...and yall keep talking bout idk how to. That's how. Everything she said right here.
@EleiaRoddy
Жыл бұрын
You know she has this TRUTH because she learned from experience, this ain’t no wisdom coming from somebody talking about #relationshipgoals this coming from somebody that done been through the trenches, better listen! 💯
@iamcellular6650
Жыл бұрын
Yea mine is legittttt 😂❤ single, interactive, attentive, honest, straightforward, accountable, intellectual, assertive, similar values, not controlling, 2 parents and black, in school, working and working out, has goals and mannnnnnn 😂
@bernicebaker2596
Жыл бұрын
👍...Gem!
@Sheperdsdaughter
Жыл бұрын
This is something fatherless women struggle with. Identifying the quality in the men so thank you for this clip.
@countrylay_d4389
Жыл бұрын
She's absolutely correct!! Especially that part about how he approaches you; that part. Pay attention ladies.
@murticejackson5133
Жыл бұрын
I pray that our young ladies are listening and hearing what you saying 🙏.
@anthonysanders7407
Жыл бұрын
Sorry, they are not listening...only to hip hop boss type girls...all about the money...oh, the bag
@hudsond110
Жыл бұрын
Right now young ladies are thinking to themselves she is so lame.
@CoCo-yv3hl
Жыл бұрын
As if older women have it right 😂don’t do the things 🙄
@KM-oy5yh
Жыл бұрын
#OLDER ONES TOO💯💯💯💯💯
@laninaclay6276
Жыл бұрын
Not just hearing but applying it!
@antonioflowers
Жыл бұрын
Miss Natalie I'd pay for this. I've been in relationships and have dated plenty . If I paid more attention to what was really going on instead of feeding my feelings I would have saved alot of me time and probably wouldn't have dated half of the men I have dated.
@bethecuervo
Жыл бұрын
I just want to say, I'm in a relationship and I've been following some of your advice and I must say my relationship is getting healthier, fun and better. My mindset has grown SOOOOO much thanks to you and my partner is naturally stepping up more in ways that I desire without me telling him. We are also are communicating better, effectively and healthier. Our telepathic connection is getting stronger as well. 🥰 I grew up in foster care for most of my life but what I seen from men growing up was they were alcoholics, beat women, molest girls and/or boys. Even young boys always felt they were entitled to grab girls anywhere on their bodies and I always had to be aggressive with males because they lacked respect and boundaries. I also watched how women tried so hard to please men just for them to not care and treat the next woman just as bad if not worse. A vicious, sad and vapid cycle... Or if a woman left a man, he'd find her, stalk her then beat her up for leaving. I grew up believing it was normal to suffer, not have emotions and constantly give give give despite how painful and miserable it is. I am learning what is normal & healthy vs what I'm used to experiencing, creating and accepting. I never had a big mama I just heard stories about them... You're definitely my big mama giving me valuable life advice. My last relationship was severely abusive and I did become less smart due to the abuse. So I had to relearn how to count money, bigger numbers, understand what I was reading and retaining knowledge and so much more. I was such a brilliant minded person, excelled in academics, learning quantum physics on my own and everything. I'm trying to get my knowledge back and it is challenging but I'm slowly getting it back. I meditate a lot and read a lot. You are showing me green flags and red flags that I may misconstrue with one another. Thank you so much!! More power to you! 🎀🕷️
@my_humble_opinion4019
11 ай бұрын
Thank the good Lord and Savior that Natalie Clarice is calling out this behavior. What she says is truth. She isn’t being judgmental…this is discerning someone’s character before you get involved with him…if it’s curled up on the ground, has a rattle on it’s tail, and a set of fangs…calling it a rattlesnake is spot on. God is working through you, Natalie. Keep doing you 🙏🏻
@MegaLadylove2012
Жыл бұрын
It’s a must. Robert Greene said you must develop a radar for toxic or narcissistic ppl so to avoid getting involved with them in the 1st place
@Freverprincess
Жыл бұрын
I bet the dusties hate this women for speaking truth I hope all the younger ladies coming up nxt are listening and watching
@tracyware2029
Жыл бұрын
Well put!! Listen ladies, this can save you a lot of heartache, pain, and time.
@JaneDoe76664
Жыл бұрын
When You first meet a guy, he sends his representative.. He sends Jekyll... But Your advice is 💯
@angelicaflores6559
Жыл бұрын
Talk to me woman. Speaking truthfully, loudly. We need those word over and over again
@lipglosslover83
Жыл бұрын
Meanwhile all the men can do is talk about women needing to go to the gym and taking money they don’t have … I love this lady she tells us everything your auntie should’ve!
@hthomas789
Жыл бұрын
I needed this 30 plus years ago....💯💯💯
@katyarnold6757
Жыл бұрын
Mrs. Natalie Clarice is just stating 100% facts. And if any man or women is offended by this video message is because they know what she is saying is truth and nothing but the truth. Preach it!!!!! Mrs. Natalie.
@gableeaton5311
Жыл бұрын
I love this woman. As a man, I learn to be a better man.
@briesenga3180
Жыл бұрын
What kinda fam he comes from is key. I just learned that dealing with my ex
@_molebogeng6281
Жыл бұрын
You can come from a toxic background and still turn out better than those coming from "good" background
@carlajones2619
Жыл бұрын
RIGHT ON POINT AGAIN!!!! Ladies her advice is VERY CORRECT! TAKE IT!!!
@Raider352
Жыл бұрын
I educated my sons the exact same way.
@Mindfreegardener
Жыл бұрын
Amen sista amen… You betta preach in these internet streets
@jillgreene9225
Жыл бұрын
Loving SON, Loving father & loving brother....=.loving gentleman
@vmac38
Жыл бұрын
This is advise that women and men should pay attention to. I've been telling folks, learn to vet people properly. Pay attention to the things that matter, not just the superficial stuff.
@johnfulton4061
Жыл бұрын
I agree with you completely but I think men should hold women to the same standards I love your messages which are directed to women but as a man I am also learning a lot from you because the bottom line for me is knowing how to recognize and reject negative people regardless of gender
@arminegeremaia9031
Жыл бұрын
What a tough thinking straight forward woman you are, my dear lady. I admire your brain and attitude. BRAVO 👏
@libraaaa_chick3297
Жыл бұрын
🎯🎯🎯🎯Heavy on the family background!!!! Tells a lot about the person! I learned that the hard way
@vivianjerrells
Жыл бұрын
Sis you definitely speak the truth that's all I can say I love listening to you😂
@aliciawoods9710
Жыл бұрын
I swear you need your own Talk Show!
@luluhen72
Жыл бұрын
🎯🎯 Thank u at 54..half he hid it at first for a few months. I NEED THIS REMINDER.. free and single now choosing better, wise & smart now. EQUAL & HIGHER
@stevenwillis9816
Жыл бұрын
Us men can't be mad at this lady bc its like my mom or aunt giving advice... what if she was your aunt talking to your daughter???? Sometimes we just need to listen.. she's not bashing men at all..... I hope you ladies are listening bc she's right... its not that hard
@ladyofspa
Жыл бұрын
It all matters . Good compatible men with character will make for a good partner this is nothing new Look to the experts for advise on vetting. How men manage aspects of his life is how he will mange you. Respected at work or conflicts, loving family and friends or conflicts, angry at the world, or peaceful man, good with responsibilities pets, bills, clean car or drama everywhere. It all matters.
@tory198511
10 ай бұрын
Exactly! please tell them because a lot of people get with these guys that don't take care of their previous kids. Crazy to think he's just going to magically take care of yours
@talenalewis1823
Жыл бұрын
She pointed out all the major important personality traits in a nutshell.
@ayeshaa6890
Жыл бұрын
Your knowledge has been immense in the KZitem community, and I just want to say how grateful I am for your content. I remember when I first saw your contact, someone Reese posted a TikTok video of you, and I absolutely loved your demeanor, your composure, the way you carry yourself, I told myself that I would want to be just like you when I grow older and someone who carries themselves with such self-assuredness elegance and grace. Thank you Natalie,
@beverleydowney5183
Жыл бұрын
Omg I love this woman! She speaks so much truth
@Sophisticated8
Жыл бұрын
Yes 🙌🏽 sister you’re a darn GOOD teacher continue teaching your students well we’re gonna get it we have been failing the class we have the right teacher now no more failing the class
@ShadaeMastersAstrology
Жыл бұрын
You’re incredible Mrs Natalie ❤ 🥰
@stephanierouse4458
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely amazing
@Tosh.Oh77
Жыл бұрын
Man..I felt that about the toxic family background. Please pay attention to how they interact with their mother and sisters, even if they antagonize him..is he quick to go below the belt? Is he the one escalating the situations?
@laninaclay6276
Жыл бұрын
My husband really don't interact with his family. Don't don't spend quality time with us because our life style is different. We're Christians and don't smoke weed. We have even tried to plan family vacations with them but nope. My side of the family does everything with us, not all our Christians too..
@ginaparker211
Жыл бұрын
Chinese, Japanese, Korean, Indian been doing it for years, that's the reason why they have arranged marriages. The parents want to know everything about the other person and their family. If they do it why can't we, minus the arrange marriage.
@Cici_mimi
Жыл бұрын
Africans been doing that too. Because y'all AA are too westernized and y'all accepted yt man's culture I'm sorry.
@Dweeble233
Жыл бұрын
Unlike all the groups mentioned BW have problem just keeping their legs closed and not getting pregnant outside of marriage. 80% of births by BW are to unwed mothers. A damn shame.
@mi_bulle_ha_noname3775
Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@chrisdarion808
Жыл бұрын
I disagree. is why divorce is high. Arrange your marriage do not go in eyes close. Have a mindset what you two do as husband and wife. You both been upgraded in status of relations, it need to be uplifting. what you didn't or wont do as single people. Now you both have to go through the other about plans. From going out, what you spent, to whose eating over, and how the home is ran. Arrange your marriage. Detail wedding but wont seat down about family dynamic is to me the most funniest.
@KurosakiLuvar01
Жыл бұрын
I totally believe in arranged marriages and I’m American af.
@ADan-yw5gv
11 ай бұрын
Well Said 🌹 by doing this, will Prevent years of wasted time... especially thinking ppl can change ... They definitely walk in the door 🚪 being who they Truly are !
@tiffj.3713
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely- QUALITY MEN…❤❤❤
@27jthompson
Жыл бұрын
Natalie you need to do a conference for women as it seems there is a great need for your wisdom and direction.Also books your talents are endless.Regards from the UK.
@rubytuesday9831
Жыл бұрын
I can't get enough of you...l love listening to you Queen 🙏🏽♥️🙏🏽
@stephanieskyes5777
3 ай бұрын
Very true you know them by the fruits they bare!! His life will simply speak for itself!!
@roslynkelley-world8692
Жыл бұрын
Thank you, my sister from helping us women out ,because we need it 🙏
@shamch22
Жыл бұрын
Words of wisdom
@Diligently2U
Жыл бұрын
This is my pick for her most important video!! 💥
@crystalnelson1775
Жыл бұрын
Sis you hit the nail on the head
@areacode228
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely true. I met a guy who has 5/5 kids & mothers. I had to let him push on because even though his kids are “grown”, he is a poor decision maker.
@joantorres3309
Жыл бұрын
If he has to ask "what does that have to do with it!" Get out!!👉
@bridgethill5359
Жыл бұрын
Amen! Everything you said is so true, would've saved me so many heartbreaks if I was taught this early years, thank you so much for teaching true facts💜!
@kimcalhoun7835
7 ай бұрын
That’s how you kick off 2024!! Love you Natalie and keep telling us!❤❤❤❤😉😉
@adaiyah-zyahudah9890
10 ай бұрын
It's a testimony of his true character. I approve this message.
@shamarr.swint-robinson2730
Жыл бұрын
Great advice queen
@ruthhermiz9421
Жыл бұрын
The QUEEN of all queens I swear Natalie Clarice has given me power. Each time I feel weak I hear Natalie’s voice and her wise words and power and it’s like I snap back to reality of the respect deserved. We owe you big time God bless you always ❤
@angelawhite3058
Жыл бұрын
My dear lady how I wish you were giving motivational speeches years and years ago!
@shedrickwallace9363
Жыл бұрын
Sometimes. Just sometimes a man’s relationship with his child can depend on how cooperative the mom is.
@rochellethundercloud346
Жыл бұрын
now,toxic family. you could come from a toxic ,dysfunctional family,and still be a decent person. if you put in the work in therapy,recognize the dysfunction,and break that cycle.
@shalalala868
Жыл бұрын
That’s definitely the exception but not the rule. Most people lack self-awareness and will not do the inner work to heal and break cycles. But you are correct, though.
@KM-oy5yh
Жыл бұрын
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
@landrat3481
Жыл бұрын
Makes a lot of sense📝💞
@laveepinealgoddess111
Жыл бұрын
She is so on point🙌🏽👍🏾
@msthinkaboutit
Жыл бұрын
Bless you for stating facts.😎 There are about 3/4 women on social media (that I've come across) who are stating cold, hard facts. You ladies stay strong and keep telling the truth. Stay blessed.😎
@ellebaptiste2430
2 жыл бұрын
I wish I could pin this to the top of my homepage.
@tamaramoore6069
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for schooling me I appreciate it my sister
@Erica-ep9sw
Жыл бұрын
I love how natural and raw you are! Thanks auntie for the knowledge, always🎉❤
@cic-jakevanddalgeemyers.2739
Жыл бұрын
This goes for all my fellows out there, too!
@alisiamontavono4727
Жыл бұрын
Yes say it beautiful 😍
@xanaduxavier9067
Жыл бұрын
Oh I already look at things like that even their relationship with their mother sister and other females. Trust there is a lot of scrutiny that goes into getting to see who a person is it's not just how good he looks and how much money does he make oh boy there's so much more 😳
@brooklynguy8744
Жыл бұрын
You're right. Only one thing I work nights.
@louhawk559
Жыл бұрын
A conversation with this lady and kevin Samuel's would've been interesting.. but kevin got his wings
@katherinefoster5659
Жыл бұрын
omg, this is the most knowledgeable advice I ever heard when dating and every thing you said it's very truth!!! thank you so much!!!
@orealdenney
Жыл бұрын
Yes, ma'am!!!
@KEESWAY
Жыл бұрын
Yup!! I was called judgmental when I said this! I don’t care though! I even have to do a little background check on the family too; that upbringing determines a lot!!! 💯💯💯
@MR-fl6ul
Жыл бұрын
the family thing could be worked on some ppl have no control and sometimes those dynamics can change over time, but the rest absolutely!!!
@jillgreene9225
Жыл бұрын
Family Dynamic IS SERIOUSLY Important to Know....Retired & busy works❣ volunteering or working p/t @ the local symphony, theatre or bartending at a country club, 2nd income situation, mentoring, president of the local bank board a family liason for Father's or a school tutor.....Retired but NOT a tired couch Potatoe
@katrinab7657
Жыл бұрын
That's a personal preference. A couch potato with a good heart might be the perfect fit for someone else. All those things you mentioned sound like jobs to me and I'm looking to work less, not more.
@jillgreene9225
Жыл бұрын
@@katrinab7657 No Couch potatoes 4 me...rings boring
@TheChocolat
Жыл бұрын
This is so on point. Thank you for this
@barbaraguillette9632
Жыл бұрын
Disrespect is a manipulation to see how far he can go.
@iammichaeljustice
Жыл бұрын
THIS IS HELPING ME WITH FINDING DECENT FRIENDS. THANKS SO MUCH!!!
@LiveLife-hs6gn
Жыл бұрын
Great advice
@Dweeble233
Жыл бұрын
Given that BW currently have an 80% out of wedlock birthrate. Not only is choosing a man correctly important, but how about either using protection or just closing your damn legs unless married?
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