I was married in 6 months of meeting my husband……I knew the minute I met him he was the one. 41 years later I love him more then ever. Good Podcast.
@candacedawn357
5 ай бұрын
Awee...how sweet! 🍦
@dorothymatthews6690
5 ай бұрын
I'm so happy for you! Divorced twice. Pray the same for me to have the similar type of married.
@Sandy.TX5050
5 ай бұрын
@@dorothymatthews6690 Yes…….Dorothy, I have already prayed for you that GOD will send you a man OF HIS Choosing not your🙏🏼. My Grandmother told me to get out of my own way and Trust in GOD to send me someone……but I kept interfering with the process. She told me if you (me) will pray sincerely to GOD asking for what you want…..THEN she told me to go about my business and don’t think about it because I had turned it over to GOD. This is when trust comes in. I did that sincerely from my heart ♥️. I allowed GOD to Choose a Husband for me it was not me. I kid you not in 2 weeks I meet my husband. GOD knew I had trusted, had faith and believed in HIM 100%. Dorothy, The Key is you Cannot Doubt……NOT one time what GOD can and will do. GOD will know if you are sincere or not. If you ever need to talk you can call me 214-642-2295. All GODS blessings in JESUS CHRIST NAME🙏🏼♥️
@tonyacanada
4 ай бұрын
Love it!! I think marriage takes works no matter how long y'all dated before getting marriage. Everyone's time on dating is different. There are so many that dating for years and still had challenges or divorced. It's all in God's timing. You know when you know. I personally don't think it's good to date for years. Depending on the age, I think 1-2 yrs should be the max. But me and my husband dated less than a year. I love him so much.
@kuldoxy5637
4 ай бұрын
I love to see comments like this.
@LetMeMuse
5 ай бұрын
My only kick back with the “timing in dating” thing is people who have been together since they were young , don’t always understand that being single in your 20’s is not the same as being single in your 30’s and beyond. Your mindset and approach to dating has way more intentions. You know who you are, your understanding of life is different, your needs, what are are willing to give. Etc. Dating for 4 or 5 years is unnecessary because you intentions are completely different. It’s a different life than growing with someone since you were a teenager.
@shondalesstudio
5 ай бұрын
Okay!
@spicesmiles
5 ай бұрын
Well said. 💯 Bless you and your allowing message 💞
@lcalixte10
5 ай бұрын
Exactly...people who are younger need that time...but when you know who you are...and your motives are pure...all that time may not be necessary. But you have to know who you are...and that's a process of sanctification...
@teddynkwabi4502
5 ай бұрын
Agreed. Emphasis on "knowing who you are" 👌
@sweetulip2004
5 ай бұрын
My husband and I married after courting for 5 weeks. God joined us and when you know it's God, time doesn't really matter. Pray and follow the leading of the Holy Spirit.
@TheColeLife
5 ай бұрын
Love that!
@lindagail4355
5 ай бұрын
When I got married, everyone kept saying if it goes past 7 years, so for the first 7 years , I hyphenated my name and, after the 7 years, was up. I dropped my maiden name and he was so happy. And so we lasted 28 years until he passed away. I love you guys, podcast.❤❤ keep up the good work. Ms, Linda.
@evettemccree4779
5 ай бұрын
We knew each other for 72 days. Married Now 24.5 years!!
@lynetteprice360
5 ай бұрын
I agree with Brian the hard times have to surface to see what a person is made of
@tonyaharris6593
5 ай бұрын
I agree. We all have to give it time and don't be so quick to walk away
@KEOSHAANEILIA
5 ай бұрын
I agree with you, Brian. I want to see you with pressure applied. How your partner responds to hardship, stress, and difficulties WILL affect you & the relationship overall.
@TheColeLife
5 ай бұрын
100%! It’s not about dating for a long time but truly knowing someone.
@Arlene_DOTK
5 ай бұрын
Brian, I agree 👍 I think a better word is life struggles, it could be a job loss, death, family drama, etc. Also seeing how a person behaves in various situations: being cut off while driving, bad service at a restaurant, gossiping, etc. It's important to see your partner in non ideal situations, it lets you understand them better and allows you to view and feel from a relationship perspective.
@StarlessTerrace
5 ай бұрын
I don't think the length of time is as important as being intentional with the time while dating. I think that as long as you ask the hard questions and have real conversations about what your potential partner believes, you should be good. You absolutely need to get to know each other for real. I also think that the commitment is important. It is important to marry someone who is willing to grow and put in the work necessary. If both parties are willing to do that, the marriage will stand the test of time.
@TheBestLifeTV
5 ай бұрын
I think Alexis and I had the same "type" of Father. I've been married for 25 years and my husband called my Dad "Sir" until the day he died. Both were military men, so respect was must.
@maameafuaannan9419
5 ай бұрын
Unorthodox timelines are relative to everyone, I think dating past two years and not settling down is unorthodox, if you happen to meet someone in a time where you both learnt alot in your season of singleness, you dont need to wait to get married just because the world says you should when both of you feel ready to do so knowing that marriage is an institution and a journey of learning to becoming one with your partner
@candacedawn357
5 ай бұрын
1.) I loved your sit down videos from the beginning & I'm glad they're back! 2.) I want to see my partner when we argue and/or he's not having a good day. 3.) If I'm abstaining, I can't be dating for FOUR YEARS!!!! 🤣😂
@ithinkigottalent4047
5 ай бұрын
Your dad is like my dad, "Yes/No Sir" and I'm the same way when I meet elders. It shows respect.
@hellothere22766
5 ай бұрын
I Luv how you guys are so mature & intelligent, not many couples think like you do, Spiritually driven for sure 🙏🏽
@beatrixjansen6297
5 ай бұрын
You guys did it the right way. If couples would take their time to really get to know each other in the good ,happy moments ,but also in the bad weird moments and talk honestly about the situation there wouldn't be as many divorces. I believe,that the two of you are very special and were meant to be together to inspire other couples. Both of you have God given wisdom and were chosen to be together so you can help others to have more solid marriages. May God keep blessing you both with love and wisdom.🙏❤🙏
@destinyidentitywithdrannac6114
5 ай бұрын
This conversation was SO REFRESHING and Valuable. I am not married but there are members of my family who would love to know how to befriend your spouse and what it takes, prior to marriage to keep the faith. LOVED IT!
@NapFroCentrics
5 ай бұрын
I rarely comment, but wow, this was phenomenal. Thank you so much for being so vulnerable!
@tonimallard896
5 ай бұрын
Thank You for doing this on You Tube where we can see your faces and feel like we are there having a conversation in your home. Love your family.
@dsteph2789
5 ай бұрын
I think it was amazing for you two to honestly share your personal struggles while dating, from what was modeled in your home, impacts of friendships, becoming friends and struggling with celibacy and triumphing.
@Emelineauguste167
5 ай бұрын
One of the reason why I think dating is a waste of time is because it’s not only romanticized, but I’ve met a lot of people who have dated for years and have yet fought about the reality of life and then comes to the wedding, and they realize that this is not the person that they Thought they were with for the last couple of years. And he is right. People are so worried about wealth being able to provide that they kind of overlook about whether or not they’re going to have a partner that’s going to take them to such wealth and take them to a place where they can provide take them to a place where they can be heard, and Feel as though there are not going through life alone . One of the things that I hate is when guys say they are waiting to be financially stable… I mean, if money was what kept relationship stable the Kardashian would be a much more powerful family than they believe themselves to be
@tammyspeakliferadioministr2332
5 ай бұрын
I love your transparency! This podcast will help a lot of couples. Keep going. Thank God-you put in the work. ❤❤
@TheColeLife
5 ай бұрын
Thanks for listening! 🙏🏾 I believe it too 🥹
@roseom2878
5 ай бұрын
This was awesome guys! Can't wait for another episode😄😄 And thanks for not holding back and being transparent ❤🙏🏾✨✨
@Emelineauguste167
5 ай бұрын
Brian, to answer your question about whether or not people are having these conversation I think one thing that I’ve learned not even with other people but with my parents is that you can’t have a serious conversation about something that you do not know anything about nor have been exposed to. For example, the love that my mom saw growing up was very manipulative. Therefore, when we are having those hard conversations about love, respect, intimacy, husband, wife, her explanations and definitions, always refers back to what she has seen and what she has experienced. Hard conversations are easy to have however, expectations are very hard to understand. And in our society today, it’s very hard to find someone who has the same expectations as you because everybody has a definition for respect, for love for what a relationship should look like for what role a husband should be. Lexi has it right on… they don’t know the questions to ask. And from what I’ve witnessed in my own community, a lot of people who comes from stable families often have a hard time answering those questions because most of the time they want to emulate the kind of relationship, they saw their parents having growing up, not realizing the kind of hardship that they put in in order to maintain that relationship. So when you ask them about those questions, I find that most often they will just give you the positive that they seen and not the negative hardship behind-the-scenes. And then sometimes as an Overthinker and coming from families that weren’t that stable you often find yourself crossing expectations off of your list because you realize that if you don’t change yourself or put on that sale sign you end up alone. And loneliness is a very scary feeling, especially after the pandemic.
@RomaRoach-Thomas
5 ай бұрын
Thanks for being so deep, mature, knowledgeable, transparent, educational, funny, outspoken, and realistic. Good Luck.
@Shallewa
5 ай бұрын
AMAZING!!!! I think that you guys took as much time as needed for you both. I think that time should depend on the 2 people coming together💜💜💜💜💜
@paigequeenb8257
5 ай бұрын
Ten years strong married. We met and he told me date one he would marry me lol I called him a weirdo. A year later, he proposed in with family and friends. Was it easy? Nope! We definitely have learned and grown together and we were told not to do it but we truly knew. We did experience alot together really early illness, financial stressor, death of parents, going through college, buying our first home in our first year. We say after those first couple years of crazy and we made it through stronger, we can do anything together. I believe everyone is different but I agree it can be easier or even more difficult.
@HealthyHairJourney
5 ай бұрын
There are no hard rules. I met my hubby and we got married exactly one year later. Been married 18 years and we are sooooooo happy.
@christinaw.4626
5 ай бұрын
As a 48 yr old divorcee I found this conversation to be very frank and enjoyable. Connection and lifestyle/vision compatibility is huge; which from this episode appears y'all have. Many continued blessings on your marriage and family 🙏🏾❤
@Jt2REAL1
5 ай бұрын
Not gonna lie your Dad did something really awesome for Brian in that season.
@Jt2REAL1
5 ай бұрын
20:55 being 29 and single also not having had a real relationship let me tell you Brian , there’s 👏🏾so👏🏾 much 👏🏾I 👏🏾don’t 👏🏾know 👏🏾
@Jt2REAL1
5 ай бұрын
39:33 Y’all did this how I believe is ideal insert that “it must be nice” audio lol! 😂
@evelynprice3976
5 ай бұрын
My Lord, WHY is it that there was no one 😫 around to guide me in my life about love and marriage and the deep thoughts that you young people have I have been married 5 times, 3 children with only my first husband only one living now, I'm 73years old and watching you young people wisdom, maybe I should have just been a nun,but I am thankful to God that I have 1 daughter, 1 granddaughter, 1 grandson, and 1 great granddaughter, so God did bless me with love from my marriages, I am sharing this to all the young people I know, love you guys from day one, and there is truly a reason for all things, Kiss Aza,and Elijah for me. 😊😊❤❤
@gaynorkelly9413
5 ай бұрын
Amen and amen sister!
@MrsShanaMarie
5 ай бұрын
I think there has to be a balance with the timing of getting married. Someone can wait too long and someone can wait to little. There are still certain situations that you will not encounter until you’re married (basing this on couples who wait to have babies until marriage, wait to live together etc..): having a baby and sharing/handeling bills together, habits that someone might not see on a daily basis unless you live together, how you run your household. Yes you can discuss the concepts but there are things that you really do not find out until you are married. I think what’s important is doing the individual work so that there is a maturity that someone brings when getting married. ❤
@persephonehall9995
5 ай бұрын
I like hearing your perspective with your daughter and what you will expect her to look for in a potential mate. I haven’t finished watching, but I hope you will also talk about how you will teach your son to treat people he’s interested in dating, as well.
@TheColeLife
5 ай бұрын
Thank you! And we didn’t mention how I would teach my son but yes absolutely!! I’ll be taking him through rigorous training on how to treat women 😂
@FeelinMe11
5 ай бұрын
This was sooo good, I am sooo excited for this series!!!
@auralitedivine
5 ай бұрын
Absolutely amazing conversation!!! Thank you two very much!!! You all are sooooo very cuuuuute together and such an inspiration!!! I totally think doing the deep hard work before marriage is mandatory if you're striving toward a lasting marital union☮💟💕🥰 I think y'all did great!!!
@janefreeman7157
5 ай бұрын
Brian! I don't think you realize that some people don't think as deep as you? I'm so proud of you two!!!!
@esprit217
4 ай бұрын
First of all, I'm SOOOOOO glad y'all are going back to the conversational content. However, the TIMES were very different when those 52 yrs. married folk were dating. Back then, being married was the goal from adolescence. There was no self-discovery, self-awareness etc. Women didn't do careers the same way (if they had careers at all). Nowadays, people have so many more personal goals & aspirations etc. There are way more women today that choose not to be married or have children, when that would've been almost unheard of. NOTE: Lots of "faith-based" folks want to go back to those times (whether women want to or not) in 2024 America. THOUGHTS on that??
@BB4Life23
5 ай бұрын
I met my husband in August of 03 and we married in January 31 2004 and we were married for 18 years until his death in Aug 2021 !!!!!! And he was 14 years older than me and my husband was one of the BEST man in the world!!!! I know that God was in me meeting him and marrying him…. God knew that I needed this man in my life and I will forever be Grateful to Him for that… so I believe that time put in does not matter if it is from the Lord…… this is not to say that we didn’t have problems but God was in it ALL!!!!!! We became friends in our marriage…and my husband was EVERYTHING if you knew him you were Blessed!!! Marriage is what you make of it we some times work harder on our jobs than in our marriage. I LOVED being married be😢I LOVE LOVE….. BE BLESSED!!!!!!
@TayCherise
5 ай бұрын
I ABSOLUTELY agree with, I need to see you in all seasons of your emotions !!! How are you mad, how to you handle stress, etc. it’s so important.
@dianagittens5899
5 ай бұрын
Amazingly good. I had no doubt that it would be great. I can’t wait for the next episode ❤❤
@valeriehall2145
5 ай бұрын
I agree with Brian. How you handle disappointment is very important
@ladygg6
5 ай бұрын
Great job.....and can't wait to hear more. Bravo!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@kuldoxy5637
4 ай бұрын
Oh mine! This was so educational.👏🏿 Have u guys ever thought about being a marriage counselor or writing a book about how to have a successful marriage cos u guys may not be perfect, but you are SO REAL about the reality of marriage. I love ur awareness on these things and how u practice them. God bless u guys and may He continue to bless ur marriage and family in Jesus name, amen.🙏🏿
@DAVIDANDEBORAH
5 ай бұрын
this is beautiful! Amazing story. We love all the Kingdom Couples God is raising up!!!
@shirleyhardnett6067
5 ай бұрын
Beautiful lovely couple. I love watching your video.congratulations to the both of you
@skating43
5 ай бұрын
This was such an interesting section. Totally agree that you have to get to know the other side of your partner before stepping into the twilight zone. Your friend who said, "I love you too much to divorce you, did something that some people want to but won't act on it because of fear of hurting the other person.
@teddynkwabi4502
5 ай бұрын
Whoo! That was fun, I enjoyed listening to you guys, as always😊 I agree with you 95%. When it comes to dating, I think it's more about the quality of time rather than the quantity of time spent together. Because you can date for 5 years and still not even get to 10 years in marriage and vice versa (I've seen it happen). I also agree that you need to see your partner in different seasons to gauge how he/she will react; but how long will that be? As you said Brian, what if some people are just happy or just tough? That it would take a major life altering event to really see who or what they become (which may not occur in a few months btw). Plus someone can also fake it for a few months🤷. Hence, for me it's quality (being intentional with the time spent together) over quantity of time spent together. That being said, a year or two in Courtship would suffice for me. Plus I also think people don't really have these "difficult conversations" while dating, especially kids these days (teens and the ones in their early twenties) they don't even know the right questions to ask. They're rather focused on silly things like going out on dates, sex, having 'fun' and whatever it is that kids these days do, LOL! In other news, in my culture elders especially parents are treated with the utmost respect. So ofcourse you'd never say "Hi, Hey What's up, Nah you good" or any of that stuff.😅 That's why it's important to learn about different cultures.
@rosalynjohnson2295
5 ай бұрын
I agree with Brian. It is important to see all sides of your partner.
@alvidean22
5 ай бұрын
This is my first time tuning into this KZitem channel. A very mature and open conversation is going on. It feels honest, and surprisingly it kept my attention. Please continue to keep it real.
@TheColeLife
5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much! That is absolutely what we are aiming to do.
@brownetime08
5 ай бұрын
No matter how much you know, nothing can replace experience. 💯 And that builds over time. But I caution putting the emphasis on the timeline. Instead, focus on process. Because when you're deep in it, the process will affirm the value of being intentional with the time you have together. And going deep never fails to show us the importance of patience and character development. 🙌🏽
@TheColeLife
5 ай бұрын
Definitely agree! It’s not about how much time. It’s how in depth do you know this person and mature enough to be ready for the next step
@gloriajohnson1122
3 күн бұрын
I love you guys!! This was so good😊
@dorothymatthews6690
5 ай бұрын
I married my first husband in 9 months of meeting him. We were married 10 years. . He cheated and had a baby with another women. I divorced him and was married to my second husband for 9 years and we divorced because he was a closet gambler. My advice to singles is ask God if you should marry that person or if you should forgive that person. God knows all! Hopes this helps someone. This was so good!!! I pray this couple have marriage until death due they part. Love them! I loved this conversation! Please do more like this!
@ElizaBeth-ve6nz
5 ай бұрын
Listen, having listened to both of you. I would definitely agree that the hard work is needed ahead of the wedding so that one's marriage can have a fighting chance.
@lashondavanhook3029
5 ай бұрын
I love y’all !! You blessed me because you are so real and you’re willing to share intimate details of your life to help others. I pray that God richly blesses you, your family and the people you will touch!! Love 💕
@deborahduster9357
5 ай бұрын
Wow! Good stuff!! Great discussion. I sent this video to my unmarried young adult children. I’ve been married for over 30 years and shared some very valid similar personal stories with our children and to hear your situation let me just say you’re both very mature and way ahead of even my age group on how to REALLY have a successful relationship/ marriage that is truly fulfilling across the board the way God intended. True honesty, happiness, commitment bc you love each other not bc of the children or being in people bondage staying bc you are with your person. Just beautiful ❤
@michellepegues4011
5 ай бұрын
I LOVED it! The Cole's are 🔥
@backtothebasics1598
5 ай бұрын
I don't think nothing is wrong with what you're dad did to Brian. I think it's proper n showing respect to an adult especially your dad. This actually brought me back to a time when I was little n one day my mom called me n I answered back " huh" my grandmother corrected me and said don't say " huh" say ma'am or yes ma'am. It's just the little correction n I never stop saying this I even say it to ppl I don't know n they find that to be well respected. U don't know until someone correct you. ❤
@mstrong3328
5 ай бұрын
Great conversation! I think a lot of people are scared to go deep and deal with themselves. People have to deal with their trauma and bad past relationships before marrying. I know females that I have counseled, and they have a false belief system that was created during childhood that keeps them from being wife material. I'm sure it goes for guys as well.
@TheBadgerFamily
5 ай бұрын
Loved this first episode!! You guys have a talent for these deep conversations! It seems crazy now, but my husband and I dated for 8 YEARS before he proposed lol!! Loved hearing more about your story
@krysformayor8217
5 ай бұрын
*THIS WAS WONDERFUL* ❤️
@LGJiG
5 ай бұрын
I love this approach to dating and I think it would be more natural for older people to date like this. I would like to get married one day and I definitely love to have the deep convos. I will definitely try to encourage my children to date like this when it’s their time.
@lynetteprice360
5 ай бұрын
Y’all had me at HELLO! Outstanding
@adefunkeemeagwali573
5 ай бұрын
Yes I totally agree with Brian on knowing the person you intends to marry at their worst moment It is very important to see the real person
@creolation
5 ай бұрын
I missed these conversations. Thank you for sharing.
@selinaBARMAR2565
5 ай бұрын
Brian and Lexi I loved this. Love your transparency. I agree that getting to know each other long enough to see each other have a truly bad season is wise. I believe both should pursue to share the situation and work through it together. I also do believe that The Holy Spirit divinely bring men and women together to be married and it's more than just the romance. However, I still believe it's good to get to know each other more before saying "I do" but there are some instances in which both know they should tie the knot when they are ready even if it's just a few months. I think these are more rarer cases but I believe it does happen and does well.
@sylviagray4206
5 ай бұрын
Me and my husband dated for 18 years before we married. We will now be married for 23 years on July 30th. So we have been together for a total of 41 years! People will change through out the course of a marriage , because life be lifting , so there will be a time when we have to love that person wherever they are in the journey of life
@christinestephens37
5 ай бұрын
It's great to see a channel where real life is shared. The ups and downs. Hearing the stories of overcoming all things the right way in God's eyes.
@TheGreta2400
5 ай бұрын
Y'all this was sooo good. Looking forward to more. I agree that it not always about how long you date before marriage but being intentional with the time & having important conversations. I personally know people who dated 7- 8 years than married just 1 or 2 years. Then people date 9 mths to a year but have been married 18 yrs. You have to be intentional & put in the pre-work to be sure you know who you're marrying flaws-n-all and you share the same goals & commitment for your marriage not just your life. Just my thoughts.
@DiamondArie-ug8ty
5 ай бұрын
Brian - You're not alone in your way of thinking. My husband & I were best friends before we even considered dating and even as best friends we both agreed that we needed to see someone at their worst before making a commitment.
@angeladz
5 ай бұрын
You guys definitely touched on some good stuff. Also, I think that if you are considering marrying someone, you have to see them in a tough place or going through something to get an idea of what you're walking into and what you can handle or are called to, meaning God has already graced you to handle it with that person. I believe that if God has called two people to be together, He will give each of you what you need to handle what He brings or allows to come your way. I also think that you have to go into marriage knowing that there will be work to put in, no matter what. I'm not married yet but I got the same mindset as Lexi where I'm not trying to mess that up or walk into it lightly, but also trying not to overthink it because I walk with God and He's got me if I listen to him. The amount of work you guys put into it just shows how much you cared. I don't think it was overdone and it looks like it's paying off! Today, it looks like there might not be enough work or intention being put in because some believe that you can get out of it with divorce. You gotta put into it what you want. But I also don't think some people intended to reach for divorce at all til it came to it.
@sheiladeck5655
5 ай бұрын
Marriage is a serious choice! You need to be sure, and he needs to be sure and willing to stick it out. True live is worth it especially if you have God as the foundation. Build on that foundation....! We've been married for 11 yrs after dating for 3 months! Love is real!!!
@tatyanafavors8725
5 ай бұрын
14:52 - i completely agree Brian !! 😂 I want to see my husband sad , mad , angry, happy , and depressed all before we marry so then I will have a complete understanding who you are as a person …
@darleofgodintheruachelohim7552
5 ай бұрын
I realize that it is important to know “your” truth in loving someone. One must have an understanding of what they can honestly handle. Managing emotions and feelings for another person must be done with a true understanding of knowing how you manage yourself in life. If you can handle yourself (Fruit of the Spirit, particularly temperance: self control) then in dating you will manage the real issues of discerning just who your potential partner is. You will share from the authenticity and genuine sense of who you are with that person and you must expect the same from that person. It’s more about being real honest with yourself. Real people find Real Love for the rest of their lives because there is no room for pretending. Love is not social it is intimate. It is bare bones naked and not ashamed. You have to be willing to dig out your essential self and require the other to do the same. And when the person you are dating is willing to share “their” real with you, you will discover whether you want to marry that one or not. Often when we are discovering ourselves we do it together. Discover the person and grow in your sense of self right from the beginning. Long before you have to leave someone standing at the altar.
@deborahblackshear3325
5 ай бұрын
❤😅.I like what Brian said about maturity. This is good.
@sharonroach7694
5 ай бұрын
All of this is real talk. A Powerful and truthful conversation.
@Taniapgage
5 ай бұрын
Loved every minute of this ❤ can’t wait for the next episode
@SHEBREEZY914
5 ай бұрын
This was soooooo good 👏🏽👏🏽
@velmabrookes8567
5 ай бұрын
Congratulations guys! ❤❤
@therelentlesslyempowered
5 ай бұрын
What an intelligent conversation about marriage and relationships. I knew I couldn’t be the only one! Subscribed! Looking forward to new content 🎉
@TheColeLife
5 ай бұрын
Thank you! More coming every week.
@ciahofficial5728
5 ай бұрын
Thank You soo much guyss🙏🏾❤️
@AnitaBush-zy9cb
5 ай бұрын
Great podcast. I agree with waiting to get to know one another before getting married. My husband and I dated for 5 yrs. We've been married 20 years now and going strong.
@lindaallen1947
5 ай бұрын
You guys are a really cute couple! Praying you remain faithful to each other!
@karen5912
5 ай бұрын
This was great. The time went by easily informative.
@tonyaharris6593
5 ай бұрын
This is my first time watching ya'll. You guys are amazing. Thank you for sharing the growth. Congratulations on real love❤️
@weareideasglobal
5 ай бұрын
How old were you all? "Nah. You good." is wild to say to someone's parent. LOL! But it makes a bit more sense when you are young. EDIT: 18 is so young. That can take time.
@KEOSHAANEILIA
5 ай бұрын
Oh damn. Brian messed up.
@TheColeLife
5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 I definitely was wild for that! I was 18 years old 🤦🏻♂️
@angelacox4875
5 ай бұрын
Many black men are not chivalrous. In my opinion, it's not a white or black thing, but more to do about how you are raised.
@Emelineauguste167
5 ай бұрын
I got chills my mom would have a fit. The thing is she probably wouldn’t have said it as forward as her dad said which I really respect from her dad but my mom would probably wait until he leaves and then tell me that he’s not the one. 😂
@careanmayne5722
5 ай бұрын
Being single rn & watching this idk if is a wise idea seeing that meeting the person God wants for me probably wont be anytime soon. God bless you❤
@itssimplyteekay
5 ай бұрын
I really enjoyed this podcast, the transparency, growth and from a Godly perspective. Can't wait for more episodes!
@TheColeLife
5 ай бұрын
More to come!
@christellen3077
5 ай бұрын
I saw yall on Instagram, but didn't follow bc I wanted sth faith based. Here we go. So enlightening. Glory to God. I am following your yt channel 🎉❤ Blessings
@angelstephens4060
5 ай бұрын
The camera quality is sooo good😍
@christianblack4060
5 ай бұрын
I think you should see the person you are dating in the best of times and in the worst of times. If they hide from you at your worst, then that is a huge red flag. However, I do understand that ppl express their emotions differently.
@vanessasmith3628
4 ай бұрын
I think there are a few great couples on utube and you guys are one of the funnest couples on utube.
@josettebyrd7459
5 ай бұрын
Totally agree 100 %. I was saying the same thing Brian right when you did? Seeing that person at their low in order to know if they can handle it Thank you both for being yourselves. Love your Pod cast cant wait till the next one . The RAW as they say. She saw something that you two didn't see as it went on.
@ShineYourLightAlways
5 ай бұрын
Absolutely love this!!!!! 🔥🔥🔥 Learned so much!!! I also love deep faith filled purposeful conversations, so I’m super excited about this podcast 🤗🤗🙏🏽🫶🏽 May the Lord continue to order yalls steps!! 💗💗
@wandawallace2019
5 ай бұрын
This is truly amazing! I really missed your conversations. That’s when I became a subscriber . I think your bedroom was located in the basement. This was phenomenal and I can’t wait till the next episode/podcast. I simply love intellectual spiritual conversations that’s rich with wisdom.
@TheColeLife
5 ай бұрын
Yes! We’re SO excited to bring those conversations back in this format!
@sweetpotatoee
5 ай бұрын
hello, the Cole life team😀. …. I’m glad that you guys have started the podcast which is really good and I think it will give everyone that follows your channel a deeper insight on your relationship and relationships in general. From my personal perspective as it relates to God in the institution of marriage. I hear people a lot say that marriage is difficult, but I don’t necessarily feel that way. I feel when we’re equally yoked in the way God intended man and woman to be that it’s not the marriage that’s difficult. It’s the challenges that the couple might face in life whether individually or together that can be difficult. Those situation in life can be challenging or difficult for someone when they’re single. Jesus never said that we would not have trials and tribulations in life so I say that it’s not marriage that’s difficult. It’s the challenges that we might face that can be difficult, but if we’re equally yoked the marriageperspective is fine. It’s the challenges that we might face in life that are difficult. But again that’s just my perspective as a woman that been married for several years prior to my husband transitioning.
@antonaecoleman470
5 ай бұрын
This was actually really informative, thank you! Very comforting 💐💐💐
@leenyy627
5 ай бұрын
I love this I’m 20 and this is a different perspective from what I’ve seen, and I’m looking at things a bit differently.
@lkadams1
5 ай бұрын
So excited the sit downs are back
@cw03801
5 ай бұрын
I love you two not only as a couple, but as individuals 😊. Thanks.
@rawdevelopment8412
5 ай бұрын
God meticulously made each and everyone of us “DIFFERENTLY”. Even our paths and callings are different. Everything is not the same not even our fingerprints. God didn’t intend for our lives and stories to all be the same. “DIFFERENT” doesn’t mean difficult! Especially when it’s by the leading of the Holy Ghost! Thank You God for not creating us to be robots. The object of it all is to put our TRUST in God in every situation! Amen Loved the podcast! 🌸🍃🌼🍃🌺🍃
@elstoddart270
5 ай бұрын
Excellent session. Thanks for for being so open with your experiences and growth. You are on point. Refreshing to see this in a young couple. Your commitment and love for one another, your family, spiritual commitment, and your intentional actions to improve your relationship is clearly visible. God bless you on your journey.
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