For awhile i had a rule of no spending money within two days of getting paid. Helped me break the habit of overspending because i felt like i had so much money or was celebrating getting paid.
@SimplyBeautiful516
Жыл бұрын
I know I’m commenting a lot here but I just agree with so much of what you’re saying. The “ No-buy “ trend definitely does NOT change anything long-term in the majority of cases. And it’s true that it does nothing to address the underlying issues causing over consumption.
@katemiller7874
7 ай бұрын
That’s not true. When you do a no buy it conditions you not to buy and frankly you get used to it. It becomes a way of life
@SimplyBeautiful516
7 ай бұрын
@@katemiller7874 I apologize, I spoke from my own personal experiences and with my friend’s experience. But I appreciate your honest response. It didn’t change us long term because just like going back to other unhealthy eating habits , we gradually went back to old spending habits over the following few years after a an entire of year of not spending. I shouldn’t have said this as a blanket statement. I have had to work really hard on the underlying issues this past year to really make lasting changes. Just going cold turkey didn’t address those concerns.
@maddie8415
2 ай бұрын
The problem with the "no-buy" is that it's rooted in all-or-nothing thinking, which isn't sustainable or practical in the long term. People need to learn how to shop more consciously and reasonably, using moderation. I think that a low-buy with specific guidelines that suit your own situation and keeping a spending log are great ways to deal with compulsive shopping. Also, keeping a close eye on your bank account, credit cards, etc. to see how much you're really spending in real time. I think a lot of people avoid facing reality and that's the biggest obstacle.
@SimplyBeautiful516
Жыл бұрын
I actually put even smaller items on my wishlist because that’s where most of my impulse purchases come from, things less than $20 but that resulted in hundreds every month of inconsequential items.
@JolenEE148
11 ай бұрын
This was a great video. Lots of good points I have not heard from others. However, I will say I disagree that low buy and no buys are pointless. I started doing them months ago and it was finally a way for me to stop impulse buying. I'd have a huge list and then end of the month I'd go review and most times I wouldn't want anything anymore. It was an eye opener to me.
@RealMissJayven
Ай бұрын
I personally needed this reminder. I also find it refreshing that you’re striking a balance between sharing information about items we might also like while taking responsibility for the impact that can have by reminding us of the nuances of your job. Thanks!
@leastidyworld4365
Жыл бұрын
I’ve been doing a low buy and it’s done me a whole lotta good. I would definitely recommend it. It makes me think deep if I really need something in my life.
@nikkkki.talbot
Жыл бұрын
This video is absolutely incredible! I’ve been feeling this way the last couple of years and couldn’t figure out how to consume less. Thank you so much for making this love love love.
@KellysLife1
Жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@chandnishah2094
Жыл бұрын
I am a silent watcher of your videos since 2015, I really loved your genuine content since that time, but I really deeply respect you after watching this video ❤. As a content creator you thought about all the viewers and put us ahead. Loved it so much. 😊
@emmahunt92
Жыл бұрын
This video is great. Even when you may think you’re making a smart purchase, sometimes it can turn to be unnecessary. I find that really eye opening and a reminder that we almost neeever need what we convince ourselves we do.
@colleenstrayer2917
Жыл бұрын
Agree w/everything you’re saying. But also want you to do a video of best Amazon sweaters/tops/sweatshirts😂😂😂😂.
@weldinggirl
9 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@MargaretQ
Жыл бұрын
At first I wanted to do a no buy for Lent. I realize I use spending as a basically daily pick me up but I think what I really need to do is give up impulsive spending - “see it want it buy it spending” - it usually doesn’t feel good and leads to clutter and less thoughtful additions to my life. I love your idea of buy next - esp when I feel I’m always seeing products I’m curious about. Thanks for some unique tips on mindful spending.
@tatianaeng4766
Жыл бұрын
omg it's like you knew! was literally watching videos yesterday about how to control emotional spending 😬 loved the tips you shared, and i really appreciate that they're realistic and feasible. i can definitely relate to buying things and then bringing them home and realizing i don't have the space for them 😳
@_silke_v5437
9 ай бұрын
I was looking for a video about ‘buying or spending less’ and you’re video came up. And I can’t believe it but I used to watch you’re video’s when you lived in Japan many years ago. Over the last few years I thought about it but couldn’t find you anymore, didn’t remember you’re name. But I’m happy you popped up on my screen. Definitely will watch this video and I’ll also check out you’re vlog channel again. I’m curious how you’re life is right now and I hope hope I still like you’re video’s so,I can follow you again!! Happy I finally found you again.
@ronnie-lynn
Жыл бұрын
Around this time last year until now I have been non stop shopping. I had never struggled with this before in my life. I had gained so much weight not a single thing I owned fit. I had to wear a Pj top out. Then I started ordering things to try and get basics to re build a wardrobe. I have spiralled. It’s out of hand, completely out of control. I need to get a grip honestly. It like switched something in my brain and became irrational and impulsive. Scares the crap out of me…. 😮💨
@KellysLife1
Жыл бұрын
The first step is identifying that you have a problem! Girl I completely understand what you are saying and it makes sense. You probably felt out of control in general and shopping became your copping mechanism. Try some of these tips, I hope they help. If they dont, dont be afraid to get professional help! You got this girl!!!
@BarnabyJuless
7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for making this video! I have been struggling with my personal style for years and sometimes I still do struggle a bit. I feel like I am a maximamalist when I see someone else wearing something I instantly go down this rabbit hole of "what if that is my style?" ,"how would that look on me?" And "should I just toss out my entire wardrobe to fit that "aesthetic ". I'm struggling still to become a minimalist and appreciate what I have because I am also trying to save to better my life after years of just procrastinating about it. I'm doing it. I'm forcing myself to. What you said " Will that item fix the problem you are struggling with?" Speaks such volumes to me. It's my go to now when I feel tempted or swayed to change out my wardrobe. Thank you. Subscribed! ❤
@madeleinbronner3943
Жыл бұрын
Great video. Just subscribed!!! I agree with everything. The no buy? Does not work!!!!! Budget is the key!
@SimplyBeautiful516
Жыл бұрын
I’m so impressed by your advice in this video!!
@darlenes2679
Жыл бұрын
Great video! I feel it's so easy to fall into a trap of buying what everyone else has so your tips are helpful. I will always (mostly) read reviews on a product before I buy it especially the sponsored products that some KZitemrs present. Thank you!
@liz9657
Жыл бұрын
I agree with you - no-buy seems extreme. For a specific category, maybe? I know people do it, but it feels so restrictive.
@lauradixon5270
Жыл бұрын
I love the wishlist idea combined with coupons and sales! I need to do this.
@haleysturdivant8564
Жыл бұрын
I really need to hear the words “pain point”. Thank you!
@user-ym7ou5rd7y
Жыл бұрын
This is so helpful. I see ONE post on reddit raving about something and ill buy it. Why?? What relationship does this stranger have to me?
@kimberlyelizondo3383
Жыл бұрын
Wow Kelly!!!!! Loved this video!!!!! My gosh it’s like you know me!!!! 😂 I definitely have an impulse shopping addiction! The skincare and clothes!!!!! My closest, my husband’s closet, my son’s closet…..my dresser, chest of drawers…….all busting at the seams!! I definitely don’t have any more room! And the skincare……trying to keep myself from buying new brands before my current are empty! I appreciate your content always! Love your style and personality! Thank you for this! Really want to try setting the budget!
@SimplyBeautiful516
Жыл бұрын
Identifying the pain points was a game changer for me. I was initially just solving low level issues or even non-issues and wondering why it didn’t help me. Taking the time to evaluate my areas of actual problems continues to be what moves me towards a better solution and life.
@katelyntheel6823
Жыл бұрын
I have too much financial anxiety to have a shopping addiction lol. I’m also a minimalist. I don’t like having a lot of stuff. I use up what I have before I buy something new.
@KellysLife1
Жыл бұрын
Thats awesome!!
@user-zx4cp6kz4b
11 ай бұрын
This is right up my alley kind of content. Thanks for posting.
@yaakovhassoun8965
Жыл бұрын
I think some of the stuff is similar to what I'm going through, but I like really expensive stuff so I usually can't just 'go to amazon' and drop $8,000 on a watch. I'll usually need to save up for it first for a few months. so I have a shopping addiction but it's not impulse buying.
@Fit_unicorn2
3 ай бұрын
I need to get a handle on my small purchases, I have a problem of buying food at work (I work at a grocery store) that I don’t need.
@LLearner1121
8 ай бұрын
Wow...I love these new mindsets you recommended.. subscribed!
@rijd2304
Жыл бұрын
There's actually a book on amz called "30 Days to Stop Being a Shopaholic" by Daniels. It was cute.
@OT2017
Жыл бұрын
I enjoyed your video! Especially the comment about a no spend month. What's the point if you're going to go back to shopping later. I have seen people take a month off from doing other things and never understood the purpose.
@lindseybray9839
Жыл бұрын
I just use those smaller scrunchies to catch water if it drips down my arms! That’s basically what they are, just more absorbable.
@hstrelich7073
Жыл бұрын
This was the best video ever!!! I love all your advice and ideas great video!!❤❤❤❤
@gen6249
Жыл бұрын
This was truly helpful and realistic given that no buys are extreme, thank you 🙏
@jessicagibbs6255
Жыл бұрын
Seriously great advice! Love this so much.
@mrsjade30
10 ай бұрын
Hi Kelly! I’m here because I’m trying to save save save and I love to shop shop shop 😂 but I’m cash stuffing with my budget binders etc and most days I’m struggling! 🫣 I’m back into debt because of my luxury shopping. Ugh lesson learned. I’m definitely not buying random crap because it’s just sitting there now in my closet! And I’m not happy. Thanks for speaking on this topic.
@paulineozga243
Жыл бұрын
I needed this!!! Love this content from you
@Asfgxff
15 күн бұрын
“I use these items every day!” All items are brand new.
@user-mr8rt6yo7k
10 ай бұрын
I think some influencers try to encourage you to buy. My weaknesses are makeup and body products. What do you think about influencers doing that?
@tomikamurry659
Жыл бұрын
Really great video kels!
@Kaitaritz2013
Жыл бұрын
Looove these tips!!
@KellysLife1
Жыл бұрын
Glad you like them!
@goodwillguntingpondue
Жыл бұрын
"Return it if it doesn't work" does NOT work if you live outside of the US! This does not apply to most of the world.
@ladykadiijha
Жыл бұрын
Great video
@carissabartelli641
Жыл бұрын
Great tips! ❤
@KellysLife1
Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much!
@rijd2304
Жыл бұрын
Mindfulness was a help for me. "30 Days to Stop Being a Shopaholic" by Harper Daniels helped me calm down the habit a lot.
@evanhizon8112
Жыл бұрын
Can this also apply to hobbies like model trains?
@carleecomm
Жыл бұрын
Definitely not applicable to model trains. All model train purchasing impulses should be indulged, always.
@wplants9793
8 ай бұрын
😅 of course
@STQ_Josh
Жыл бұрын
Hi, Kelly, sorry if I bothered you. I have sent you an email asking for collaboration in the name of Josh. Please let me know if you have received it or if you are interested. Thanks a lot!
@Rivkah_of_the_Remnant
8 ай бұрын
Has anyone ever told you that you resemble Gittemary Johanson (sp?) here on KZitem? You could be sisters! lol
@KellysLife1
8 ай бұрын
No! Im going to check her out :)
@Rivkah_of_the_Remnant
8 ай бұрын
@@KellysLife1 let me know what you think
@Rivkah_of_the_Remnant
8 ай бұрын
@@KellysLife1 do you see the resemblance?
@nancydee6106
Жыл бұрын
I hope some people find help from this, but I did not. This sounds like I buy a lot of stuff and that’s OK because it was good… But for me, I’m really trying to stop buying things. Whether I like them or not.
@elizabethmcnamara6548
3 ай бұрын
That's the thing they make us buy a bunch of stuff then they make us declutter with minimalism aesthetic then they bring a maxamalism aesthetic into fashion. I bet in a few years time extreme minimalism will be a thing again. (The only people making money is them by making us buy lots of stuff to bin it then buy it all again!!) I have had enough!!! I'm keeping my stuff. Leave me alone!! I like what I like. But the words "old fashioned" "cluttered" "Tacky or cheap" etc.... I have had enough of the mean girl attitude when it comes to home organisation or fashion. I don't care if I look like a "tramp" in their eyes. At least I am debt free. So who is richer me or you? At least the tat I have is all mine!!!
@kathryn583
3 ай бұрын
This is useless
@sendhelp6537
4 ай бұрын
I absolutely disagree with influencers advocating returns. Those returns go right into landfills and it's just not sustainable. If a product is faulty that's different but returning something just because you aren't 100% happy is crazy. Buyers remorse is common & advising ur audience to "just return it" is highly irresponsible. You probably say you care about the environment...
@bleeploughly6311
3 ай бұрын
It depends, I work at kohls and returns just go back out on the floor. If it’s defective it’s just marked down.
@RERTOxCRAFT
13 күн бұрын
98% of stuff returned to my work gets resold
@lottie1144
7 күн бұрын
Just return it. If it’s in the stores already, there is a 100% chance at some point those items will end up in a land fill.
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