Losing yourself completely just because you have a man is definitely wrong honestly. Men these days are not to be trusted, so therefore even if you have a man sis you have to step up your game to another level
@MyLucyBenson
3 жыл бұрын
You didn’t miss a point sis ❤️
@bettykurandow
3 жыл бұрын
Can we have a part two please 🙏
@likefanta2049
3 жыл бұрын
A whole word!
@cieltheeditor7922
Жыл бұрын
So true sadly
@nicoleizuoma8434
3 жыл бұрын
My Nigerian mom walked and immediately said, “I love this lady already o!” 🤣💖
@MyLucyBenson
3 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha ENERGY 💯❤️
@princessuloma5588
3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@marialenamontijo8279
3 жыл бұрын
Can you talk about causally dating and how to avoid getting your feelings hurts? I think dating to see what’s out there is great, but I feel like I set myself to catch feelings when in the end he didn’t want to exclusively date me.
@MyLucyBenson
3 жыл бұрын
Sure thing sis
@louiseradido9413
Жыл бұрын
I honestly feel like because men and women are wired diffently, it's almost impossible for a woman not to catch feelings, but for men it's different. Many times I have seen woman go into a 'casual relationship ' but always end up really broken because in the end they fell in love (madly) but the man maintained the casual vibe.
@theganiiyat
3 жыл бұрын
Emotions are valid but they are not the sole reason why you make life decisions. Word! 💯💯💯❤️
@thoughtswithjacinta
3 жыл бұрын
Don't lose yourself while being in a relationship. Great tips.🤗
@MyLucyBenson
3 жыл бұрын
That’s right sis ❤️
@Yayaasworld
3 жыл бұрын
“Love is not enough” girlllll you said a mouthful! YES please do , I absolutely love your channel and adore your intellect ✨ #pt2please
@Wanku_C
3 жыл бұрын
Emotions are not the sole reason you should make life decisions 👏🏽
@brownejewel
Жыл бұрын
The calling shortly thing definitely a unsatisfactorily relationship grade
@Toyinokusaga
3 жыл бұрын
Listennnnnnn ! Who told you you can call me out like this?! But honestly, though, this video reminded me of everything I told myself when I left my last relationship & I told myself, I would be intentional about dating. After 2 years of that, I was starting to overlook certain things, but no longer. this video just slapped me back to reality.
@MyLucyBenson
3 жыл бұрын
Lmao girl 😂❤️ im glad it did because we can’t be caught slipping on these streets
@mariaalejandracampos2061
3 жыл бұрын
Love is not enough for keeping a relationship, giiiiiirl that's the life. Please girls the life is much more than only we think love is.
@KaramjitKB
3 жыл бұрын
Decentralize men and Decentralize romantic relationships
@Ms_winhope
3 жыл бұрын
I can't stop repeating This Video,, you have give me a big Energy... Sis I admires You!
@MyLucyBenson
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you sis
@graciousepelle1463
3 жыл бұрын
You dropped gems Lucy We are not doing it because of men or seeking validation Self care is very important ❤️
@Lena-yo1hw
3 жыл бұрын
Part 2 definitelyyyy 🙏🏼🙌🏼
@lauraezekwe
2 жыл бұрын
I honestly used to think I had commitment issues cos I have the mindset of “it doesn’t have to lead to marriage” of course I go for potential life partners but if I try my best and it just doesn’t work out “ we move”. The way you are wise sis.. “moving on feelings is not allowed on this channel” 💕
@darkybirdblue
2 жыл бұрын
I've listening to your videos since yesterday and I'm like this intelligent young woman has to be an ARIES ♈️ 👌🏾 😌 🙌🏾 😍.....I'm like people don't believe in signs but I see so much similar qualities in myself and I'm like only an ARIES can give this aura off.....and I know not everyone will understand what I mean. It's a different confidence that only a true ARIES Queen that found herself can understand.......KEEP THE VIDEOS COMING AND KEEP RISING ✨️ 🙌🏾 💯
@emmypierre393
3 жыл бұрын
Lucy, I love your channel so much, you have helped me level up so much in my journey as a young woman in my early twenties. I respect so much how you keep God in the center of your videos and glorify him. Thank you for all your videos, watching them all!
@OldLadyMapleSeed
8 ай бұрын
Thank you, this video is great!😊 I’m a teenager and don’t want to start dating until I’m at least semi-adult and have a better sense of self, so I want to find lots of advice to meditate on until then while I work on other things. I think it will be much easier to keep myself safe and figure what I want because of women like you. I’m also absolutely blown away by how beautiful you are
@likefanta2049
3 жыл бұрын
Girl you're preaching! This is how I like to date, lol others made me feel like I was mad and "I should go with the flow" kmt
@ee7329
3 жыл бұрын
Preachhh. The way I am snapping my fingers throughout the whole video .. she spoke the truth
@MyLucyBenson
3 жыл бұрын
Hahaha sis ❤️
@Kokindeto
3 жыл бұрын
Loved this. Needed this.... and yes, a part two would be appreciated
@sparklinglizzyvideos2770
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for all your advice....I just had a break up, it was difficult but watching this has impacted my life... I made almost all the mistakes you listed.. thanks so much for this advice...
@theganiiyat
3 жыл бұрын
Interesting video. The mindset part really spoke to me. I'll love a part 2 of this 😊
@PhylliciaMatama
3 жыл бұрын
Precise to the point. Especially the mindset point. Definitely need a part 2 😊 Thank you Queen 🤗
@MyLucyBenson
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching love ❤️
@HannahSterling
3 жыл бұрын
I like NEED to meet you! Giving me mentor, big sister, best friend vibes. I absolutely love your channel and I feel like this would be great as a podcast!
@pancakebears
2 жыл бұрын
i’m not even 20 (i’m 19) but i’m still watching these videos to get myself prepared. love ur videos!!
@ChisomIkeora
Жыл бұрын
Same here 😊
@asiimwegabriella7987
2 жыл бұрын
Just found you but I’m already obsessed ❤️❤️🔥
@winnieboateng5334
3 жыл бұрын
So true Sis with your very good points. I am really having problems with Communication issue.....Well it is what it is. One of the reasons why my Dating Life is very dry and uninterested.
@MyLucyBenson
3 жыл бұрын
Don’t worry babes, it will get better we have all been there❤️
@Nomeh___
3 жыл бұрын
Its how she didn’t miss any point😭😭 i love you so much❤️
@dajareanne9853
3 жыл бұрын
I love her videos so much ❤️❤️❤️please do a part 2 🙌🏽🙌🏽
@NobleCommitment
3 жыл бұрын
Girl, thank you! Shout out from Ethiopia 🇪🇹 🙌
@serwahbonsu242
3 жыл бұрын
You're amazing.......I really love every point...I subscribed before I realised 🤣🤣
@paulinef.gartor1453
2 жыл бұрын
This video is a life-changing moment for me🙌
@Ode04
2 жыл бұрын
Lucy, girl where have you been my whole life. You stated nothing but facts in this video. Love your channel!
@tiananay1233
3 жыл бұрын
The 5th and 6th point goes for me directly when you said that it shoot right in my face Am learning alot
@kwinthebaby
3 жыл бұрын
I need a part 2 Thanks
@noeliajimenez1016
3 жыл бұрын
it’s the putting “answer me PLEASE” on the thumbnail for me 😭
@Ms_winhope
3 жыл бұрын
Sis
@loveeunice3543
2 жыл бұрын
My first time watching your video and I already love you 😍
@kafwembekunda6206
3 жыл бұрын
Yohhh I needed this!!!!! The mindset one it’s like you were speaking to me 😩😩❤️❤️❤️
@MyLucyBenson
3 жыл бұрын
I’m happy 💃🏾
@oluomaonugha387
3 жыл бұрын
PLEAAASE MAKE A PART 2
@nadiankwate9597
3 жыл бұрын
Hmmm a guilty... I do know if am wasting time but seriously I need God, cause On my own I can't, cause I seem to be confused cause we always argue.. Being three years together
@chinyeakafavour7343
2 жыл бұрын
I can't love you less dear Lucy.... I'm certainly gonna upload this full video on my status❤️❤️
@tomi9758
3 жыл бұрын
I have learnt soo much from following your channel 🥰 part 2 please!!
@MyLucyBenson
3 жыл бұрын
I’m so happy 💃🏾❤️
@PierceTheWoodey101
Жыл бұрын
lmaoo I needed this fr 😅
@LivingMinny
3 жыл бұрын
Definitely in for part two.
@oluwatosinjoy970
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this.
@carolmutua9664
3 жыл бұрын
We definitely need a a part twoooo❤️❤️❤️
@lucycharles7316
2 жыл бұрын
Just found this today, I'm obsessed already... Following on Instagram already... Pt2 please 😘😘😘
@Sophiaoribs
3 жыл бұрын
I feel attacked with every point😂😭😭💔 I really appreciate these videos, it has changed my mindset ❤️❤️
@euchariatemitope6772
3 жыл бұрын
Nice vlog! We need a part two pls
@amandacarosella4585
3 жыл бұрын
You nail every point so perfectly! Love you sis already! Part two please 😘
@sandrametta3408
Жыл бұрын
. Lucy you are always on point ...so amazing 💖💖💖💖💖💖
@alerouyebi6466
3 жыл бұрын
Part2 please I swear you’re the best💯your video has helped me today am so glad I watched it thanks a lot🙏
@Angelaaa_x0x0
2 жыл бұрын
found your channel today and i love it!!!💕
@roseyama2690
Жыл бұрын
Sis Lucy I so love love your videos....a part 2 pls🥰
@marieangembuyu2991
3 жыл бұрын
Wooow sis this is just true Waiting for part 2 😘♥️
@thealuway
3 жыл бұрын
This episode is hitting on another level
@andudontstopyo
3 жыл бұрын
Lucy, this is such a great video. You hit all the essential points on the head and told the truth. Young women, old women and all women need to hear this. Thank you and yes I welcome part 2.
@MyLucyBenson
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you love ❤️
@sandracrump
3 жыл бұрын
Lucy Is the Self care and self care queen
@MyLucyBenson
3 жыл бұрын
Ayyyyee❤️
@glorious6793
3 жыл бұрын
Damn!! I just subscribe oo, didn’t even end the video first! Why didn’t I see this earlier?🥺🤨
@Mbembetwins
3 жыл бұрын
Fellow youtubers here you so pretty ❤️😍
@MyLucyBenson
3 жыл бұрын
Hey babes ❤️
@ninanwudi
2 жыл бұрын
New subscriber here. Love your channel sis!! Love this series too🤎
@lctt96
3 жыл бұрын
I feel you like my sister, loving you so much 😘!!
@xbydx10
3 жыл бұрын
Please make a part 2!!
@ndiforebi-aya9006
2 жыл бұрын
It feels like this video was made for me 💔thank you sis 🙏..God bless u.
@NenyenwaOkwara__
2 жыл бұрын
Part 2!!!❤️love you bunch
@I_amFavour
3 жыл бұрын
you keep speaking to me in all ur videos ❤️Thank you Lucy🥰
@preciouskenneth5635
3 жыл бұрын
Please share moreeee sis..I will like to hear more of the advice from you..thanks
@queenamashayla6560
3 жыл бұрын
I needed this sis…❤️😭
@Mangi964
3 жыл бұрын
Part 2 please
@MyLucyBenson
3 жыл бұрын
Coming right up 💃🏾❤️❤️❤️
@vanessabadanki7133
3 жыл бұрын
Part 2 pleaseeee❤️❤️😍 and more sit down videos❤️
@MyLucyBenson
3 жыл бұрын
I am currently on it 💃🏾❤️❤️❤️
@florawairimu8944
3 жыл бұрын
Facts‼️💯
@SylviaUzoh
3 жыл бұрын
Walahi, you might be thinking about them as life partners and all and they’re not even thinking about you like that lol 🥴🙊💔💔
@angelaomoregie1966
3 жыл бұрын
I will like the part 2,pls🙏
@MyLucyBenson
3 жыл бұрын
Yessssssss I’m ready
@samiratuaidooboakon8155
3 жыл бұрын
Your advice is just so so great 🥺
@emmybenson3626
2 жыл бұрын
I love you already gal, your my big sis
@princessemeruwa6067
3 жыл бұрын
I definitely needed this for sure !!!!
@alaberegrace279
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this miss...much love
@obenewaalovelynasantewaa9301
3 жыл бұрын
Indeed this is a great tip😊Tnks Bby 👍💝
@elissasaraya
3 жыл бұрын
we don't want a part 2... we NEED a part 2
@MyLucyBenson
3 жыл бұрын
Hahaha coming right up babe ❤️
@Sophiaoribs
3 жыл бұрын
Part 2💃💃💃
@lesa.n231
3 жыл бұрын
I loved this video. I’ve learnt a lot. Can we have a part2.
@vanessadickson21
2 жыл бұрын
Gosh! You've said it all 😭😭💔
@Pheebs_foodies
3 жыл бұрын
@Lucybenson i found your channel last month and i'm glad i did🤗🤗... I have this guy i like and it's so obvious he loves me but girllll this guy is broke🤦♀️ him being broke isn't even the problem but he is not really doing anything about it which pisses me off plus he asks for money or airtime from me a lot and this guy is multi talented. Also he is not even in school and ion think he has any plan of going(he is 20yrs) Most times he bothers me with his problem😪 Ion know what to do...whether to cut him off or not.
@monicamtei473
3 жыл бұрын
What are you doing with a 20years old baby boy. Please run for your life, plz plz
@stealthaccount573
3 жыл бұрын
its really hard to not do main purpouse your bf when you feel like you're in love
@oliviaakabaya442
3 жыл бұрын
This is powerful, sis just like me.
@sivemadikidikane6687
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing sis, i needed to hear this 😩
@Onlyambriellll
3 жыл бұрын
Love love love this video !
@alettaquetee4948
3 жыл бұрын
Part2 🙏 I love ur channel😍😘
@TheLadyTycoon
2 жыл бұрын
I can relate with the one sided sha🤣🤣🤣 started feeling like am I mad ni?😂
@111earthangel5
3 жыл бұрын
Part 2 queen 🙏🏽😍😍
@chiomaobi6439
2 жыл бұрын
This is 🔥🔥🔥🔥
@Badgirlsheebah
3 жыл бұрын
those men that call women shawty are the most disrespectful and toxic men. A responsible and mature man can not do it.. I hate that name
@MyLucyBenson
3 жыл бұрын
Sissssss NO LIE❤️
@jordanmartin9191
Жыл бұрын
Hi Lucy,how are you?So what do you when you already accepted some things and now you know better and want better...how now?
@nkemgift
3 жыл бұрын
New subscriber and I’m hooked
@MyLucyBenson
3 жыл бұрын
I am happy 💃🏾❤️
@precioushellen3402
2 жыл бұрын
Part 2 plssss🙏🙏🙏 I love you baby 😍
@marybella1980
2 жыл бұрын
Part 2 please 🙋♀️
@jodianm7642
3 жыл бұрын
Preach Sista!!
@meiiilin
2 жыл бұрын
5:47 where was you a year ago !!!!!making them my whole world has always been my downfall 😩 I’ve learnt now though
@eyisisomkene8348
2 жыл бұрын
Say it louder!!!!! Love isn't enough, it's never enough
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