Also, stay single for a while, find yourself again don’t jump into another guy, it will ONLY be another band-aide, BELIEVE me! Lol Give yourself time and LOVE yourself, you have a good heart it will be ok xoxo❤️
@JessicaArevalofit
6 жыл бұрын
I am and I see that so clear no its why I truly allowed myself to heal and still doing so. Surrounding myself with family and friends has really opened my eyes.
@allisonthomas8099
6 жыл бұрын
@@JessicaArevalofit hi jessica , i miss you and gerratt , i really taught you all would of made it together
@Animallover-vd9he
6 жыл бұрын
Hi Jessica, in showing your relationship , you shared your trust in your viewers. You did not Practice poor judgement. We have all had unsuccessful relationships. Hopefully your viewers will honor that trust. You are sharp. The relationship wasn’t a fail. It was a life learning/sharing experience. We got to see how having an accident in your life does not put your life on hold. Garret showed us that. You showed us that finding love may have physical challenges, but they can be worked through. It was all beautiful. Together or individually your lives will continue to be beautiful. Thank you for sharing.
@JessicaArevalofit
6 жыл бұрын
Thank you, your comment touched me.
@jessicaevans2564
6 жыл бұрын
Yes your comment was so reasonable, wise and kind.
@marky147
6 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that you and Garrett didn't work out, that makes me sad. Wish you both all the best going forward, and hope you have a great 2018, Jessica.
@camillecarpenter3907
6 жыл бұрын
Growing apart from someone you care deeply about is so difficult. I'm sending positive thoughts your way during this time and I'm glad you're doing well!
@taylorcraig6754
6 жыл бұрын
Love you Jess. I hope you continue to share your life with us, everything happens for a reason and your time with Garrett wasn’t wasted. There’s a reason why he was in your life and in your vlogs so don’t let anyone make you feel bad about it. Also I remember going through so much hurt before I found my now husband, we have been together five years and no one has ever loved me like he has. You will find that. I would go through 1000 heart aches for a love like I have now. Never settle, I know you won’t
@mariannew5541
6 жыл бұрын
With or without Garrett you're one fab individual inside and out. Love following you and I have to say anyone that puts their life on social media is brave. I read some of the mean comments and it's crazy how hurtful ppl can be. Rooting for you and wish you the best!! You will learn from all this and become an even better version of you ❤❤❤❤❤ lots of love from Canada ❤❤❤❤❤
@stevenj6387
6 жыл бұрын
You are a very smart woman to take the time to process your relationship and to focus on yourself. A lot of women do the opposite and move on too quickly to full in that void.
@chrisohara109
6 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry about you and Garrett! I'm a partially disabled guy and your story was so inspiring. You gave me hope that there are beautiful woman of character that truly embody the definition of love and can see past the outside disability to the beauty of the heart. Although the relationship between the two of you is what brought me to your page, your willingness to be so open and vulnerable with your feelings and insecurities is what helps to motivate me to do the same. Thank you so much for all that you share and please know how truly, truly inspiring you are! I'm praying for you that He would bless you and heal your broken heart.
@raniaqueen8132
6 жыл бұрын
That’s so sad I loved you both together! And I can imagine how heart broken this is sorry to hear about this news I was hoping it will never come to this! I can relate
@amrithakoshy
6 жыл бұрын
Mike Jones n
@hellotinashe
6 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear about your broken heart :(. You really don't owe us an explanation but I'm also happy you chose to share one. Sending you so much love from Toronto xoxo
@pickles1314
6 жыл бұрын
Ugh. I can hear the emotion in your voice and it made me tear up. You’re great, with a man or without a man. You matter and you make a huge difference in people’s lives so screw the haters, just keep being you.
@MindSidemusic
6 жыл бұрын
you’re a beautiful independent and strong woman. I admire you! I know it’s hard. But as your viewers. We support and love you! I send you lots of 💕 and a big hug! Thank you for opening up with us. Love you jess
@marikasanchez9405
6 жыл бұрын
I respect you so much for taking the time out. If anyone doesn't understand that you need some privacy, then they have issues! I'm glad you're doing better. You only deserve the best! I look forward to see this next chapter!
@Liz-fv6jh
6 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry for what you’ve been going through. You are correct, the only people that can know or speak of your relationship is you and him. Focus on self love and keep surrounding yourself with your loved ones. Being newly single has always been a fun time for me. No drama no arguments, just loving life. Hope this is a new exciting journey for you! Keep your head up beautiful!
@lidia3450
6 жыл бұрын
This is why I no longer think any guy is the one. I got crushed hardcore once and it showed me even after 9 years...the impossible shit you thought u never had to worry about.... is now the door to never trust somethings that feels genuine or good..... next guy finished off what was left of my hope..... and now i cant even look at anyone like they're not a hidden monster. So broken that its the first time i dont feel anything except to be alone.
@shaanbae6096
6 жыл бұрын
Bella.Italiana.Fitness sucks pal
@Sara-rr1lu
5 жыл бұрын
I can relate 😭 When you know things are deteriorating or that a person is changing, it’s one thing, but to be blindsided when things seem fine, that sticks with you and makes it soo hard to trust when you think things are going well...
@babygoose8716
5 жыл бұрын
This is so sad. I’m so sorry. I hope you’re doing well ❤️
@theblackschaos
6 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry! Heartbreak is the worse! And it’s even harder when you want to try and work on things and the other person just has a different plan. Your so strong and so many people including myself look up to you and I know the next chapter will be amazing for you! ❤️🙏🏼
@AlainaNicole
6 жыл бұрын
You’re so strong! Glad you took some time to yourself ❤️
@youngkobe2373
6 жыл бұрын
Alaina Nicole you're*
@dianalizalamsen9160
6 жыл бұрын
jessica, i'm so sorry to hear you went through this! hoping you're healing and i'm happy to hear you're healing and around people who you love and support you!
@skylerroberts5574
6 жыл бұрын
People can be so cruel on SM 😓 heartbreak cuts deep 👎🏼 I’m sorry you’re having to go through this Jess.. stay strong we love you!
@lauraannettecoaching
6 жыл бұрын
Hang in there girlie, and remember everything happens for a reason. You are a different person with more knowledge and experience now. You gave of yourself in a relationship in a way that you never had and that’s beautiful. So happy you’re focusing on yourself and hopefully your connection with God. Lots of love! Thanks for sharing!
@mikesjunk00
6 жыл бұрын
Stay strong Jessica.. We learn from every relationship.. Thank you for having the courage to let yourself be judged on social media. We all learn from that too.
@CB-br9jc
6 жыл бұрын
A breakup comes with lots of pain and I’m glad that you have people who have been supportive. I always say that’s when you learn who your true friends are. God bless you and may he guide your path; give you strength & comfort so that your little heart heals. The right person will come into your life...sometimes when you least expect it. I’ve watched many of your videos and see how humble and positive you are. Take this time to focus on yourself. Keep your head up, you’re a queen!❤️🙏🏼
@misskingi952
6 жыл бұрын
I'm even sad about the break up too!😔 you both are fantastic individuals. I wish you nothing but happiness Jess! You deserve it... Xx
@natashak3387
6 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry to hear this! I am so behind because of my poor health and chemotherapy. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. I loved you two together, but things happen for a reason. God has a plan for everyone. So happy to know that you have a great support system. Love and hugs to you from Florida!
@phillygyrl34
6 жыл бұрын
We are here for you boo! We are in support of you living your best life.
@juliebalderas1738
6 жыл бұрын
So happy you’re back!! I wish you the best!! Break ups suck but it’s nothing you can’t handle. All you can do is thank God for the experience and know you’re coming out a stronger woman.❤️
@Karina.Bertelli
6 жыл бұрын
JESS!! Miss you so much! So glad you are back... I knew that you would tell us your side of things when you were ready. Sharing your raw/emotional side of your life on social media and it's hard for sure... You've got this!
@JessicaArevalofit
6 жыл бұрын
Thank you love!
@Karina.Bertelli
6 жыл бұрын
Anytime! You inspire me more than you know!
@meganjane3234
6 жыл бұрын
You are a strong woman Jess. You are a power house. You have survived all of your hardest days and I hope you are excited for your future. Sending lots of love your way! Thank you for the update.
@julieannemichelle
6 жыл бұрын
I had a very bad break up in the past 6 months. I was with this guy for over 20 years!!!! So Jessica I understand. Sometimes we don't know if we should say I'm so sorry or congratulations. Garrett seemed like such a nice guy but it's only how I saw him with edited vlogs. I wish you love and happiness and Garrett too.🌺
@fionawynder626
6 жыл бұрын
Jesss!!! My heart goes out to you. I know you are strong and will come out of this even stronger once the pain subsides. We’re all here for you girl. Take care of yourself. Thanks for sharing.
@zeballos5757
6 жыл бұрын
Oh well, at least you can eat what you want without being judged. This whole thing was crystal clear to me as soon as you said you were moving in. No probs, that’s what life’s about. Finding out if you’ve made the right decision or not. Sometimes you make an everlasting good decision and other times you don’t, but how else you supposed to know. Showing your relationship on You Tube is not necessarily the worst thing. You were happy and you wanted to show what was good and important in your life. Break ups suck and they hurt, but once you get over it, life is great again. It’s like having the flu, it feels like crap, but once it’s over you feel fantastic! Lol.
@kaylaparker6425
6 жыл бұрын
So glad to see you back! You have had so much growth in the last couple years you are such a beautiful person inside and out! We love you!!!
@rey9325
6 жыл бұрын
I love you Jess! I saw the last break up on IG and remember i was just glad you were safe! So happy that's not the case here. With GG tho I could see that you weren't happy anymore.. the way he looked at you sometimes was judgemental. Once when he was reading "his needs her needs" (or something like that) and a couple other times. Not saying anything bad about him at all! Relationships are hard. I'm glad you're back in NorCal. LA pretty much blows. Happy to see you're heart is healing. I'll pray for ya! We love ya chica!
@melanienorman8981
6 жыл бұрын
Jess you are amazing! You are the strongest woman I know.. you’ve inspired me and motivate me more than you will ever know... I’ve lost over 70 lbs with you pushing me and encouraging me.. God has so many amazing things for you!!! I truly do love you and I pray for you everyday!!
@joannaprevost426
6 жыл бұрын
This is so sad Jess , but it's not meant to be . I could see the sadness in both of your eyes at times . I wish you well and all the happiness in the world your are a special human being and you have such a caring soul . You deserve a wonderful life ! ❤️
@michelleridgley
6 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry Jessica! Time truly heals all wounds. Take all the time you need. Honor yourself and continue to surround yourself with all those that love you.
@angelc.gutierrez4437
6 жыл бұрын
Take time to be Single this time. Thats important
@samanthanormington9324
6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, and I'm sorry to hear the news. BUT... So glad to have you back in Northern California again! Welcome back! I started following you before you moved to Southern California, and was bummed when you moved. It's fun to have a local to support!!
@jodierenee77
6 жыл бұрын
Can't lie. I'm sad about the break up all the way over here in Indiana.😭 You both seem to be wonderful humans and I wish you the best! You both did good things together and I'm sure that'll continue even though you are apart. 💕I pray for healing of your heart.💕
@karenblanco991
6 жыл бұрын
I have gone through a couple breakups since I started following you years ago so I really appreciate your honesty and I am thankful for people like you who are mature enough to talk about it and understand sometimes people we love are not people to be in love with. I am never going to stop supporting you, Jess! You are amazing.
@cristinaisshiki3298
6 жыл бұрын
Sorry it didn't work out but be sure better things will come your way. I just couldn't see the genuine feeling from him...
@NorCalTravelBug
6 жыл бұрын
HUGE HUGS!!!!! Welcome back to NorCal!!! You bring me the greatest joy in fitness and learning how to take care of myself. Love you so much! Sending more support, love, and light!!!!!!! xoxo
@Cococonutt
6 жыл бұрын
Sometimes it is wiser to see something for what it truly is and not what you would like reality to be.
@emilybroussard8151
6 жыл бұрын
Bless you for even having the guts to post something so personal and vulnerable. I, for one, am terrible at saying “oh my heart was broken.” I will live in denial which is awful. But you have so many followers that are here for you!!! 💕💕💕
@JasmyneInJuly1111
6 жыл бұрын
New beginnings Jess!! We love you babe and we are still rocking with you no matter what 😘♥️
@mayrarosas3849
6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, Jess. Breakups are never easy, let alone in front of the public eye. Take it day by day. You’ve got a whole squad cheering you on in this next chapter of your life! Much love ❤️
@VitaminV29
6 жыл бұрын
No wayyy I’m really sad you guys broke up. You are a wonderful hard working beautiful person don’t ever think different:)
@crystalrichardson1627
6 жыл бұрын
Jessica, thank you for addressing this when YOU felt like you were ready! I feel like sometimes the viewers forget that you are a real person just living life like all the rest of us. I glad you took the time that you did. Self Love is real man!! You have to love yourself before you can really love yourself. I learned that about a year ago after my last break up. I just remember feeling stripped after the break up so I literally had to build myself back up and learn myself. I'm so glad that you are on this Self Love journey! It's empowering! It really makes me smile while you're discussing it bc self reflection is important and it shows that you're ready to really grow (not saying that you haven't). I do want to add that men have the same self issues that men do. I was able to identify with you when you mentioned that you jump into relationship bc you feel like you have to be with someone. I have an ex that was the same way. Men have these same issues. I am interested and hope that you share the books that you've ordered and will be reading to help with this journey. :-) As always, thanks for sharing.
@reagan6743
6 жыл бұрын
So much respect for you and the way you handled this!
@rosasmg1990
6 жыл бұрын
So sorry to hear this. Keep your head up. You still have a lot of people that look up to you. Thanks for being real, that's why I love following your journey. New life with great things coming your way!!
@Noahbglil11
6 жыл бұрын
You seem really at peace, always great to take a step back and ground yourself. Good luck on the next chapter, excited to watch ❤️
@JessicaArevalofit
6 жыл бұрын
I am, never been happier to be back home. Thank you love!
@Suz562
6 жыл бұрын
You're so real, vulnerable and authentic in this video. I'm praying for you to heal from the heartbreak and I wish you love, happiness and joy. God bless you Jessica. I support you in your journey. Much love
@TheNatesanity
6 жыл бұрын
IM really glad youre back, we can all beat monty hall together. i support you jess!!!
@carolinacammilleri
6 жыл бұрын
So sorry to hear that, Jess. It's never fun to end a relationship when you still feel like there's hope. I've been there. But, relationships help us grow into even better individuals. Take the time to focus on yourself, family and goals. Soak in the peace up in Northern Cal. You will bounce back in no time. Luv you and thank you for sharing your life with us. The good, the bad and the ugly. As usual, you keep it 100.
@raniaqueen8132
6 жыл бұрын
Your amazing and we love you 😘 people will always have something to say and thanks for letting us know and of course you needed time for yourself we understand! We missed you
@valrice817
6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing! Your mental well being is first. U did the right thing to step away from social media until u felt that you were able to share. Thanks for being gracious and I hope u find your soulmate!
@Miabella_pink
6 жыл бұрын
Finally we get an answer. I completely understand the not wanting to share everything.
@Esteban_LoveCoversMe
6 жыл бұрын
Much respect. You're as cool as a cucumber. Can see the love that you have for the people in your life. So much class.
@star_monet8958
6 жыл бұрын
Breakups are never easy, but are not impossible to get over. That’s the whole beauty about dating, it give us an opportunity for self growth, self love and awareness during times of disappointment/difficulties in the relationship. Stay Strong. Remain Positive. And Be Happy.
@chelieflor313
6 жыл бұрын
Awww Jessica you owe no one no explanation of all your life! I am so sorry yall have seperated! Learn to love yourself again and take all the time you need! Everything happens for a reason and your a strong and very amazing person who can conquer and overcome anything that has been put in your path. Love you! Stay awesome and be blessed!
@KimberlyDurrMusic
6 жыл бұрын
TO ALL THE HATERS #NOT TODAY SATAN. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 WE AIN'T HAVING IT. BYE TYRONE, BY FELICIA AND PEACHES🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@kilewandowski1762
6 жыл бұрын
Aw Jess I'm so sorry. I love you so much and you're on your path. You're so strong and I know this next part of your life will be full of amazing personal growth
@mstoastier.8622
6 жыл бұрын
Trust in God Jess..this wasn't meant to last forever but that's okay, you loved and were loved..what God has in store for you next you can't even imagine! Just know it's going to be amazing!!!💜
@suzieburnette1677
6 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry Jessica, you're a strong, intelligent girl!! We all are here for you!! Heartbreak is so hard on the body and mind. I pray you find healing and in given time find your Knight in shining armor!! Stay strong sweet girl!!💕
@inezmartinez6277
6 жыл бұрын
As soon as I started the video it said 2017 I was like I’ve seen all her videos how did I miss this one 😒 lol but it’s new! I’m so excited/happy ur back 💕 I’m all about taking time for urself & the people that love u for u are the ones that understand it & are still around to watch u evolve. Positive vibes & hugs 🌹
@JessicaArevalofit
6 жыл бұрын
OMG! lol Thank you love!!!
@daniellefierro52
6 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear about the break up but glad you took the time you needed to heal. You are amazing and I'm so happy to see you back!
@noneyabusinezz6671
6 жыл бұрын
I’m Sorry, Jessica 💕💕💕 I’ve been married twice. Once 7 years. Once 2. I have a boyfriend now but there’s no way I’m getting married again. I like being on my own.
@tatianahenriquez4091
6 жыл бұрын
so proud of you for allowing yourself to deal & process the way you want to, you never owe any explanation or much of anything else to anyone but yourself. we love you !
@bsims7725
6 жыл бұрын
Girl it’s all about you and Charlie girl in 2018. You’re great with them but also great without them. I came for you and no one else.
@WhatsSyldoing
6 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry to hear that. You both are great warm hearted people. Thanks for sharing. I missed u. Nice to see u back. I’m glad to see you smiling
@rosaramahi1651
6 жыл бұрын
We missed you! I’m so glad you took the time that you needed. Breakups are always hard but time definitely helps. Loved seeing your travel vlogs! Can’t wait to see what else you accomplish ❤️💕
@JessicaSanchez-wz2fj
6 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry to hear this Jess. Garrett seemed like a great person, but you are also a wonderful soul. Be strong and you will get through this. The right person will come. God Bless
@jamqueen80
6 жыл бұрын
So sorry to hear that you guys broke up. I loved you both together😢 I wish you all the best hon.
@claireladner6156
6 жыл бұрын
I respect this so much and it’s such a great thing you bring awareness to it’s easy on social media to show good things and not when there are hard times! You’ve always been such a woman of poise and grace and you will ALWAYS be my role model.❤️
@JessieDeschane
6 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry to hear this, Jess, but I'm glad you have your family and friends!
@ivory-paulpayne7712
6 жыл бұрын
I’ve been there many times and it is always painful, but when you realize that “family” is always there, life takes on such a new and wonderful perspective.
@anonymousj3581
6 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry to hear you went through this and understand how private you want your business to be. Honestly, you are so much better off I didn’t like him at ALL! He was so rude, un loving and had a bad attitude and it showed on your channel. Don’t fret Jessica! You’ll be just fine!!😘
@monzyj
6 жыл бұрын
Break ups are so hard. Praying for you and wishing you much success and happiness!!! You are right where you’re suppose to be ❤️ love you girl!
@arelidurrani
6 жыл бұрын
Stay strong , stay positive, I'm sorry to hear the bad news but I know you can get through this! 😘
@Phoenix-369
6 жыл бұрын
Count your blessings... you were in tune... you weren't trying to sugarcoat the issues within the relationship, and everything surfaced before marriage or children. I love how introspective you are... others mask their emotions. Find healing day by day and KNOW that God is molding the One for you as He is you... ❤❤❤
@laurenguerra4589
6 жыл бұрын
Jess! Don't listen to them haters in the comments! I have been a follower of yours since you were sponsored by HER supplements. I'm always a fan! Love you Jess!
@EileenRushlow
6 жыл бұрын
I'm here for you Jess! love your experiences you let us in on. Life happens and thats all you can hope for. Supporting you in whatever you want to do!
@dearestmissrosie4278
6 жыл бұрын
You are right...your relationships do not define you. You are so loved (with or without a man!). Everything you have, you built for yourself. Don't ever forget what a gift you are to this world! You are a strong woman and an incredible inspiration. Thank you for being such a beautiful example of realness and honesty. Thank you for inspiring so many people including myself each and every day! You are a huge reason that I started my fitness journey and I know there are many others who feel the same. Continue to be yourself, whatever that means and DO YOU GIRL! Xo
@JessicaArevalofit
6 жыл бұрын
You made me tear up thank you so much! XO
@dearestmissrosie4278
6 жыл бұрын
Jessica Arevalo Xoxo
@marlenebodden975
6 жыл бұрын
Awwww. You will heal from this. The beauty of love is that you will love again. Turn that last page of this chapter in your life. You are an amazing person. Keep your head up.
@raniaqueen8132
6 жыл бұрын
Jessica we miss you on KZitem
@mireya762002
6 жыл бұрын
Heartbreaks sure have a way of knocking the breath right out of you don’t they.. I’m truly sorry to hear about the breakup 😢. But glad you are doing better and really glad you are back. Hang in there lady ❤️
@katieloveland5128
6 жыл бұрын
I am glad you are happy and it's nice to see you blogging again. What will you do about your LA studio space?
@JessicaArevalofit
6 жыл бұрын
I'll address that in the next vlog!:)
@ThatsDezzie
6 жыл бұрын
Awww jessica , I’m honestly sad to hear this news but you know what ! Your a bad ass girl , and you know you’ll get through this ! And I truly love you !!!! I’ve been watching you forever now . And I 100 percent support you all the way! Bless you 💕💕💕
@isartvideos
6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing this private matter with your KZitem family
@monikaescalante3987
6 жыл бұрын
You take all the time to do all the necessary healing you need. You were definitely missed. I would watch your videos during my lunch break at work or at 5am on the stair master but you are the best person to take care of your feelings. I feel that mental health and self love are soooooo important in reaching your highest self / highest potential/ the best version of you. So, love yourself, be kind to yourself, and appreciate everything you’ve done for you. Love you, girl. Keep kicking ass, one day at a time ❌⭕️❌⭕️
@margaritam7993
6 жыл бұрын
Very classy done. All the best to you, Jessica.
@aliciam5167
6 жыл бұрын
Jessica, I’m so sorry to hear about your breakup , I’m glad your surrounded by friends and family that’s got to help a lot. Your in my prayers girl, Love you Lots!😘
@naamanhorn3454
6 жыл бұрын
What? Oh no! Heal your heart girl !
@andreacruz663
6 жыл бұрын
You are still healing and that’s okay. Thanks for sharing your story. You inspire me so much.❤️
@burimduka1705
6 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry to hear the bad news. I’m going thru break up myself.
@marinamorales707
6 жыл бұрын
I went through a horrible heartbreak, but then I ended up finding the love of my life. I'm glad you took time to heal and move on and I know it'll still be a struggle for a while. It really was a day-by-day process... we all love you and support you! And hope nothing but the best for you girl
@MeaganLaCubana
6 жыл бұрын
Love you Jess! Some things just don’t work
@melissazavala7134
6 жыл бұрын
Glad to hear your healing from the breakup. Honestly, you seem so free. Can tell you are truely at peace and happier in your current space of being back home with family and old friends. Xoxo❤
@paulasharpe5966
6 жыл бұрын
SO sorry jess. Hope u are ok. I have been following u for a few years and have seen u evolve and grow. Since previous breakups I have seen how much stronger u are and what an amazing independent woman u have become. Breakups are awful but u seem strong and happy. Keep doing what u are doing xxxx
@MZFiVETW000H
6 жыл бұрын
Really enjoyed watching you both! But only God knows what he has in store for us. I wish you both happiness! Stay strong girl! ❤️
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