I was literally just reflecting on all of the things that you have said for a while and also watched Kevin Samuels with my boyfriend (we really enjoyed his shows together )and it’s also causing a transition in me as well, I just turned 29 in May but also want to be married and secure now that I’m getting older because of the “programming” I’ve dealt with focusing on education, I have a bachelors but I have changed so much with my boyfriend when it comes to being more feminine, so glad I found your video! my boyfriend and I talk about marriage and I’m becoming more comfortable with that and being a mom but a part of me still wants to accomplish certain things I feel I should have before committing to marriage or children…for anyone else that has already accomplished these things reading in the comments , what is your advice on balancing yourself and personal needs (not losing yourself) along with marriage and children
@TanieyaJeff
2 жыл бұрын
Rooting for you! It’s definitely a huge transition that i’m currently working through 💕
@heatherpowers8918
2 жыл бұрын
We are literally identical in every way. I was raised by a single mom ,education driven career minded. Marriage was never the for front in my mind. Now here I am same as you engaged turning 29 in May, and I had / have every fear you have. It’s nice to know I’m not alone lol. But seriously even down to the fear of pregnancy young and into mid 20s is something I’m having to we wire in my mind.(We grown now lol) I had to really loosen my strongholds on certain things and just let him be the provider and take care of me. Me and my love have had to talk it out as well.I love that your speaking on this. Thank you for sharing. I love your content and you guys relationship. It’s real and refreshing. Hoping that everything is a smooth transition, because it really a great spot to be in!
@TanieyaJeff
2 жыл бұрын
Omg! Are we twins? Lol but it’s refreshing seeing that there’s someone out there who is going through the same transition as me. We will definitely get through this change, it’s been a huge mind shift for me and i’m sure you know what I mean lol but i’m getting better as time goes along and I wish you all the best!! 😊
@TreyMoeandKeisha
2 жыл бұрын
I love your voice tone... strong voice ass
@TanieyaJeff
2 жыл бұрын
lol wow, love your channel though!
@catrina1279
2 жыл бұрын
Hey Tanieya I have been watching your channel for a very long time. I really respect and love yourself and Jeff! You guys are a perfect couple, so with that being said do it have those babies because it’s great being a mother along with being married. Take that leap and enjoy everything that comes with being a mother it’s a beautiful thing….Catrina
@TanieyaJeff
2 жыл бұрын
Hi Catrina! Thanks so much for your support and kind words! I really appreciate it and you’re so right! I was scared for such a long time and now i’m starting to see the beauty in marriage and motherhood 😊
@catrina1279
2 жыл бұрын
You’re so welcome! Trust me I would never give you the wrong advice because I’ve been with my husband for 28 years married 22 with 3 young adults. So don’t feel as though you’ve waited a little late because of your biological clock is ticking, its the perfect timing. I say that because you’ll have much more patience with your babies. Congrats on the road to happy wife happy life to you and Jeff!
@RHS28
Жыл бұрын
Girl I wish we were friends in real life! You seem so cool & so chill, and we have so many similarities it's not even funny! I'm 26, been in a long term relationship of almost 10yrs & ppl are still asking us when we're having kids😅 I knew I wanted to be married because my parents were married since I could remember, but it wasn't really a happy one... They are separated now, and I'm trying to learn marriage in a whole new way. I got married Nov of 2015 and it's felt like such a long journey. Both the highs & the lows. We just became home owners last year... Like girl all of that! I'm still a bit hesitant about the kids until we build our finances & a stronger relationship. I too struggle with finding my feminity at times... Seeing my mom being the bread winner for so many years, really threw me off in my role as a woman & how I'm supposed to act. I came over here from the leg waxing at home video, but I'm so glad I found you. You're singing my song, and we can embark upon this journey together. Yes to breaking generational curses, thats literally one of my main goals in life! ✨
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