Ash, you've been through something very traumatic in the last few years, but you're still extremely brave, going out there, travelling and looking for love! It's amazing and you should be so proud of yourself! Just hang in there and time heals all wounds. A cliche but it's true! *Hugs*
@WingingItWithAsh
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I trust that cliche to be true.
@judybommer5152
2 жыл бұрын
@@WingingItWithAsh thank you for your coment , it's my life expirience going thrue some dificult times .wishing you all the best . Hope you overcome all verry soon. Warm hugs .
@shawn3333
2 жыл бұрын
@@WingingItWithAsh uk has very bad selfish people Dont know why u want to settle there
@pteppic76
2 жыл бұрын
@@shawn3333 Yes, some people are like that, but not everyone, and it would be hard to find a country that doesn’t have any people like that
@samanthahorridge8104
2 жыл бұрын
@@shawn3333 shame on you to make a comment like this when Ashley is quite distaught. Ashley is well aware like any other country in the world that most people are lovely and caring. I'm sorry if you had a bad experience but please don't put that on this meaningful vlog. I'll send good wishes to you in hopes it moves the fog from your opinion. Best wishes x
@DomingoDeSantaClara
2 жыл бұрын
As someone that's old enough to be your father,I have had similar life experiences...just a lot more. I've been through several relationships that have ended badly but one realisation I had was that I didn't need another "half", I was already complete,I just didn't know it. Twenty years ago I left my girlfriend and moved from NZ to the UK,I've been single ever since and I can honestly say I've never been happier. I won't say I'll never be in another RL,but I don't actively look for love,it may happen,it may not,I don't expend energy thinking about it,rather I spend my time fulfilling myself and my life. Good luck for the future whatever it is.
@rhysmorgan8946
2 жыл бұрын
So gutted you're leaving Wales. 😢 don't forget you've got a lot of friends here now. Hope you're OK?
@WingingItWithAsh
2 жыл бұрын
So many amazing people in the UK. I was so lucky to have the time I had and I didn't take it for granted one day. I'll be ok don't you worry. :)
@rhysmorgan8946
2 жыл бұрын
@@WingingItWithAsh we are always here if you need to vent or offload or anything. As they say, problem shared is a problem halved
@nicholasjones7312
2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!
@femalism1715
2 жыл бұрын
I started following you (on the original channel) years ago so I'm aware of some of the betrayal, the trauma, the confusion, and the gaslighting you experienced. I marveled at your resilience and wondered how you could remain so positive and hopeful under such 'unusual' circumstances. The loss and grief must have been overwhelming but you handled it with such grace. It takes a lot of courage to 'wing it' and to experience and share your little joys and adventures in a public forum. I loved watching the world through your eyes. It added a brand new perspective. So, thank you for that - but perhaps, it is time for you to use all your amazing internal resources/talents/gifts/values/blessings to discover and live your dreams without sacrificing your life. Sorry, if that sounds harsh. I know you are fragile right now but you are not broken. Everything you need is already inside you waiting to blossom. 🫂🫂🫂
@richardhargrave6082
2 жыл бұрын
Its so sad that things have turned out like this. You have a refreshing honesty, don't ever lose that. It will work out in the end, its the ending that's important, not all of the journey. I also say don't have any regrets. I'll still subscribe, most people will, so keep posting and we'll watch it. The UK still loves you, you'll be welcome anytime, once things work out. Good luck
@WingingItWithAsh
2 жыл бұрын
I still love the uk!! Every day there was a blessing to me. To have the chance and opportunity to find a home outside of my own has given me so much more confidence that I can go other places and do the same. Thank you for taking the time to encourage me and write these kind things. I believe what you say is true. Thank you for your honesty.
@welshpete12
2 жыл бұрын
You are going through a very rough patch at the moment . You can and will get through this ! Take life by the scruff of the neck and give it a good shake !! WISH YOU WELL ! ❤
@overwhelmtoempowerment9974
2 жыл бұрын
Bigs hugs Ashley. Glad you've got support in Paris and Better Help. Also don't get discouraged or upset that you're not feeling like your usual bubbly self. You need to grieve the plans that are lost so that you can move on to the next great thing.
@WingingItWithAsh
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you. That’s exactly what I feel like I’ve been dining. Time will heal.
@overwhelmtoempowerment9974
2 жыл бұрын
@@WingingItWithAsh absolutely - hang in there - it will get better for sure!!
@bertomelly4247
2 жыл бұрын
When a door closes another one opens! Keep strong Ash.
@roysimpson9711
2 жыл бұрын
Hi Ash I'm an older man I've been through the Mill in my life too. When you got upset I wanted to give you a hug and say it's going to be ok . There are many cliches to use right now. Please dont get upset . You have just to get things in perspective now . Paris will help but you have your family and life has a way of sorting itself out . I am twice divorced and cant seem to connect . Your first experience was very unique . We all felt your pain . Believe me when I say happiness is round the corner.
@Andy_U
2 жыл бұрын
@Winging It With Ash - What he said. Stay safe. All the best to you.
@sidneyh11
2 жыл бұрын
Roy you are so lovely xxx
@WingingItWithAsh
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Roy. I'm sorry for your heartbreak as well. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with me. I respect and trust you know what you're talking about. Thanks for taking the time. Really. It means a lot.
@roysimpson9711
2 жыл бұрын
@@WingingItWithAsh Its scary sometimes but you have an opportunity now to travel again maybe I have no experience of that and you have tons. Maybe the job with an airline could be where your future is .Try and get excited about what's ahead now .I wish you well young lady
@proud_atheist5759
2 жыл бұрын
Agree with Roy...Except I have been divorced three times and have had a few other partners. And I have travelled to 40 countries, every state in the US and every province in Canada. Cheer up and big hugs!!!
@mosless1
2 жыл бұрын
❤️ it takes an inordinate amount of courage to show your true feelings to the world. One of the most important things I have learned is that you must see yourself already doing what you want to do. Then all you have to do is take action in that direction. BE the change you want to see. You’re a gorgeous human being (both spiritually and in appearance) and you know you CAN do what you set your heart on. Courage and conviction will make the universe move things for you.
@WingingItWithAsh
2 жыл бұрын
AMAZING! Your comment speaks directly to my heart. Thank you. Courage and Conviction are two things I want to live out each and everyday. I want to create and inspire change with everything inside me. Really thank you for saying these things.
@rosemoorcroft6842
2 жыл бұрын
UK viewer here, found you because I was watching Wales videos, stayed because of you. Will stay no matter the content. Wishing you all the luck in the world 🌎 ❤
@WingingItWithAsh
2 жыл бұрын
Rose your comment brings tears to my eyes. One of my fears was once I left the UK my channel would die because I was no longer making UK content. You give me hope that some will stay and cheer me on no matter what's around the corner. THANK YOU!!
@ThatRomyKate
2 жыл бұрын
@@WingingItWithAsh I’ll definitely still subscribe wherever you are! We might have come for the travel videos but you’re such a lovely person I’m sure many of us will stick around no matter wherever you end up ❤️
@tatjanabarat3399
2 жыл бұрын
My life is also a mess for last six months. I feel alone, without direction, no joy at all. Sending you love.
@harrypike5140
2 жыл бұрын
I think "feeling lost" is totally normal and something many experience, even without specific circumstances like breakups etc to facilitate it. Sometimes all it takes it knowing that other people are feeling exactly the same as you and that you're not alone in that! I personally feel quite lost after Covid since working from home more, losing some social contacts and life just not feeling the same as it did previously. Lack of direction can be tough, but it's important to sometimes remember to just take the days as they come and appreciate the small things...we don't all need great ambitions of lofty plans, despite society making us feel like we do. Take care 😊
@johnholroyd7829
2 жыл бұрын
OK....first of all YOU ARE NOT CRAZY. I know what it's like to have the bottom fall out of your world. Stay strong sweetheart. We are all behind you
@WingingItWithAsh
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks John 😊 At times I do feel crazy but it’s good to be told I’m not.
@mazinwonderland3077
2 жыл бұрын
@@WingingItWithAsh No you are not crazy, most of us have been where you are right now. x
@MrDavfit
2 жыл бұрын
she's lovely.. strong, sweet Girl
@jamiel264
2 жыл бұрын
You're going to look back at this moment as this start of a new and awesome direction, just doesn't feel good right now. I have been watching you since 2018, you're wonderful Ash and because of who you are life will turn out beautifully. You're a great person, you will figure it out. I went through a similar situation at age 30 and it felt unfair and I was so lost. Met my husband a year later, booming career, but mainly a life that made me happy, I just needed patience.
@WingingItWithAsh
2 жыл бұрын
Yes!! I’d like all of that please.:) Thank you for the encouraging words Jamie.
@jayinla310
2 жыл бұрын
I hope your move to the UK happens in the future. The four things that most affect your emotional stability are; family/ love life: housing stability: employment/income stability: your physical health. Your are having a problems with three of the four all at once and deaing with it quite well. Pick what is the most important for your survival and deal with that primarily. Handle the others as you can as opportunities present themselves. Also look at more than one avenue to resolve each. You did that with your divorce so be confident you can do it now. I really admire your tenacity, your drive and love of life. It will serve you well here. There are a lot of people that love you in KZitem land and are rooting for you.
@WingingItWithAsh
2 жыл бұрын
You're right!! I do feel loved, cared for, encouraged, and inspired by all of the lovely comments. I am blow away. Its true 3 out of the 4 are unsure. phew that a lot. One step at a time and baby steps like someone else said. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
@normanby100
2 жыл бұрын
Seeing you weep makes me want to put my paternal arms around you, give you a big hug, and tell you things will be alright one day.
@pysgodfish
2 жыл бұрын
Aww Ash…gutted for you. You were in Wales just a few miles from me, and I was hoping to catch up. You take care, look after yourself, and remember Wales will always welcome you back xx
@Em280483
2 жыл бұрын
Keep at it Ash. You’re doing so well. Look how far you’ve come. Ride the wave xx
@WingingItWithAsh
2 жыл бұрын
Oh I’m riding it all right, but it’s more like a boogie board then a surf board. 🤣😂🤣
@Em280483
2 жыл бұрын
@@WingingItWithAsh let’s be honest, boogie boards are more fun & you hurt less if you fall as you don’t have so far to fall xx
@lauramipe2955
2 жыл бұрын
Dear Ash, I am a follower from the previous channel, so I am aware that things haven’t been easy and let’s be honest, there was a lot of confusion and gaslighting that was evident and a red flag for many. But you are here and you are strong! One of the strongest things you did wasn’t move abroad, and I am sorry the relationship didn’t work, but if you were able to do that, and everything you have done in the past years, you are capable of anything!
@ynys_mon6928
2 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry Ashley. I’m sure when you get through this you’ll be stronger. You are also having to cope with this without your family around you, which must make it doubly hard.
@Lixmage
2 жыл бұрын
The job situation in the UK is about as buoyant as I can ever remember in my lifetime. Lots of places are screaming for employees - Manchester Airport being just one example of an employer with vacancies that can support a work visa. I wish you all the luck.
@baciperugina836
2 жыл бұрын
or work for the NHS
@anneliesvh6494
2 жыл бұрын
Sending you a big hug Ashley. Remember, when one door closes, another one opens. Why don't you go home for a while? Be with your family and friends and make a new plan from there? I'm glad you got help. Getting a therapist is a good idea. You'll get there ❤️❤️❤️
@lemonsquash45
2 жыл бұрын
Aww Ash. You come across as an amazing and beautiful person. You have had some incredibly difficult things to deal with in the past few years. I don't have any simple answers but what you are sharing will undoubtedly help others too. I wish all the very best and I hope you can find a way to come back to the UK. I will continue to watch whatever you do as your joy and enthusiasm is infectious and lifts my spirits. Keep doing what you are doing.
@WingingItWithAsh
2 жыл бұрын
Duncan you're awesome! Thank you for your kind and thoughtful words f encouragement. I love that I get the chance to life your spirits!! A privileged for sure.
@katielemos8590
2 жыл бұрын
All of your feelings are 100% valid. You aren’t crazy! I admire your courage and bravery. You will get through this. ❤
@WordsPictures997
2 жыл бұрын
Sending you the biggest hug. You are absolutely allowed to feel your feelings. Thank you for sharing so honestly. You took the words right out of my mouth ... you've been through worse and you've bounced back. It's only a matter of time until you bounce back this time as well. I'm proud of you two for not rushing the relationship to be something it wasn't ready to be. I can imagine that wasn't easy. Wishing you all the best ❤️ P. S: Congratulations on the sponsorship! 😊
@WingingItWithAsh
2 жыл бұрын
Awe so sweet. Thank you. I am confident I’ll bounce back at some point. I was so excited to have a sponsorship that was true to me and where I’m at. Thanks for celebrating that with me.
@PaulWilliams-ko5fu
2 жыл бұрын
Sorry words and pictures I accidentally pressed the thumbs down when trying to press the replies box,while listening to the news and watching the cricket on KZitem. I know, men can't multitask.
@bridgetalves5667
2 жыл бұрын
Stay strong Ash, I love your openness and honesty- it’s very refreshing. I’m so sorry you’ve had to go through this but you will find your happy ending, you’re so positive in spite of everything and that will get you through this. Sending hugs
@ibrahimberyani
Жыл бұрын
Tanekeyoooooooo
@paulnorman6442
2 жыл бұрын
Wales and the UK are definitely worse off now that you've left. It took courage to share your feelings with us and I'm thankful that you did. Good luck Ash, I know it maybe hard to see where you are going but you'll get where you need to be eventually.
@sahinboyraz7750
2 жыл бұрын
I'm currently in the same position. Visa process in the UK separates thousands of families. Just stay strong and it will all work out at the end. I wish you the best !
@dianebaker5243
2 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear this.hopefully things will get better soon for you ❤️
@sofias9520
2 жыл бұрын
Sending love! I can totally relate. You will absolutely get through this. Wishing you all the luck. Honestly, as someone traveling through Europe at the moment, the language program sounds very promising. That's what my husband and I are doing in Spain.
@WingingItWithAsh
2 жыл бұрын
You ARE!! Where? It is what I'm planning to do. I'll take any tips you have!
@sofias9520
2 жыл бұрын
@@WingingItWithAsh We've been traveling since January with our two pups and in August we're moving to Spain. We have to wait till August because of Schengen rules as you know. I finished my bachelor's degree online a couple weeks ago so I'm going to get my diploma validated and try to apply to grad school but the timing is off so really I'll likely have to apply again next year. In the mean time we'll do language programs in Murcia. I speak Spanish but I'm rusty because I grew up in the U.S. so a language program might be best anyway. Do you know which country you'll be in? I'm so excited to see succeed girl!
@kevinmorse8814
6 ай бұрын
Ash your smile and face is built for happiness. Sometimes these things stop for a while. Your coping well . I am from Swansea , love Kevin x😊
@sallybromiley1803
2 жыл бұрын
You’ve been through a lot in a short period of time. Take this time to relax and clear your mind. Don’t make any rush decisions based on emotions your feeling now. There are so many opportunities open to you and just taking some time for you right now will let you be able to think clearly what you want. Big hugs.
@TheFoxUK
2 жыл бұрын
I really hope it works out for you what ever you decide to do ❤️
@WingingItWithAsh
2 жыл бұрын
It will. I just need a new plan and to pivot in a different direction. It the whole life gives you lemons, make lemonade thing. :)
@marythurlow9132
2 жыл бұрын
I really feel for you Ash. I'm so sorry it didn't work out in Wales. I'm sure that many Welsh people like me loved you and wanted you to stay. One thing - some years ago a Japanese lady came to work for my husband and his firm sponsored her to get her residency. It took a long while. We had to help her with some of her application because of the language difficulties, but she started as soon as she was here and she got there in the end. She became a real friend and everybody loved her. Sadly, she had to go home to look after her mother when her dad died, but if it had not been for Covid, she could have kept up her residency if she had visited and spent a certain amount of time each year in the UK. Did you not seek assistance from the local MP? Politicians are not well respected these days, but they can be very helpful on a local level. Wherever you go, whatever you do, you have lots of friends here and we will all be rooting for you. Please come back some day. God bless you and keep you. Take care. XX
@jonsmith8582
2 жыл бұрын
Sending you a huge hug , so so sorry you're going through a rough time , it's the world that's crazy , not you , i hope you can find a happy place , you deserve it after all the stuff you've had to deal with .
@camerachica73
2 жыл бұрын
I definitely think there's a way to get a longer visa for the UK and that's promoting Wales as a destination for US tourism/film-making/business. I thought that watching your Wales based videos, because I think that Wales is just not on the holiday hit list with Americans and it has a lot to offer. Have you been in touch with the Welsh tourism board? Also don't knock your degree - in the UK the obsession with college isn't as big as it is in the US. We also look at life experience, plus you have a public profile, which could also be of advantage.
@julianathejaded7051
2 жыл бұрын
I got a 2 year casual working Visa for the UK (I wasnt sponsored and I didnt have a job before I came.) I hate to say it but it seems the issue here was she didnt do her research and wasnt properly prepared. You cant just come to another country on a 6 month tourist visa with intention to stay these days. In fact im pretty sure you can be deported if you try (because you arent honouring your Visa to just visit, you are actually trying to put roots down) To apply for a 2 year Visa in another country you actually have to do it in your country of origin, you have to send off your passport and pay fees and do forms etc etc. The process takes 7ish months in your home country. So if she wants to do it she will need to return home. I feel sad for her, but I understand how scattered your mind can get while under times of great stress. Bless her x
@pilates21
2 жыл бұрын
Ash, you've done amazingly well moving to Wales and all that involves. How many people would have the guts to go for it like you have? I found your channel while looking for castle videos and have loved watching your enthusiasm, generosity, kindness and intelligence that shines through. You're a smart young lady and you'll find your situation will work out. People like smiley, kind, enthusiastic people like you Ash and you have a head start on those who aren't as blessed as you. Tough times never last but tough people do. You'll be in my thoughts.
@WingingItWithAsh
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Phil! I like that saying you said so much. “Tough times never last but tough people do.” Also thank you for such kind words. It’s encouraging that those qualities do shine through my videos and you see them. I want to be a light abs example in all I do. I put my videos out in hope that others will see that.
@MrChippeh
2 жыл бұрын
I saw the title and my heart sank. I've been following your adventures on and off for a few years now Ash. You have such a great outlook on life and your vlogs are always happy go lucky and cheerful. No matter what type of day its been your updates are just what the doctor ordered! I'm sorry to hear of your recent struggles and I hope this crappy feeling is just a temporary thing. Whatever doesnt break us makes us stronger right? You deserve a bit of good luck and a huge dose of happiness! Keep ya chin up and onwards to your next adventure :)
@Leanndy217
2 жыл бұрын
I appreciate you being so open about your struggles, Ash. I’m sending you a million hugs and hopefully a little magic to help you through this tough time 🪄💜
@MCHwriter-v7e
2 жыл бұрын
I just want to say that I'm rooting for you. I believe it will work out. The universe has your back ❤ Sending love from Portland Oregon.
@charlestaylor9424
2 жыл бұрын
Have a look at Adventures and Naps. Alanna came on a non-spousal visa.
@richardhargrave6082
2 жыл бұрын
Alanna has a great channel, she has a very positive attitude and may be able to help
@alwaysamber1
2 жыл бұрын
I think with Canada being part of the commonwealth it's easier
@charlestaylor9424
2 жыл бұрын
@@alwaysamber1 Apparently it makes no difference.
@lesley585
2 жыл бұрын
She got a job via a temp agency. Eventually the job became permanent. You have to be prepared to do anything and explore all avenues to find employment of some kind.
@jennifercouch3479
2 жыл бұрын
So sorry to hear you are having such a hard time right now. Take this time as a single lady to reflect on what you truly do and do not want in a relationship. And just spend this time focusing entirely in you. Take at LEAST 6 months to focus on you, to heal ALL wounds, maybe even 12 months. I hope you find your direction, and find your smile. I love that you are such a naturally happy, smiling, laughing soul! You'll come back to that, just give it time, it'll be there before you know it. ❤❤
@phoebefilange8832
2 жыл бұрын
This might be one of my favorite videos. Your honesty and emotion add a level of realism that many world travelers miss. Things happen. Crappy things. We all lose our way. Your experiences remind me of my own daughter (a traveler as well) and I (very honestly) do not have any profound words of wisdom or advice. I just hope you know that you are a wonderful person, an inspiration to so many, and worthy of true happiness. Wishing you sunshine, good friends, and easy travels. ♥️
@ShugAveri
2 жыл бұрын
aw Ash stay strong my friend. After the darkest night always comes a brighter day! Things always seem like the worst while we're going thru them but somehow always work out. God bless and keep you! xo
@solongsofa
2 жыл бұрын
Ash. You aren't crazy. You've been through a lot. There are so many people who love you. I know that for you there is a desire to find love, however please try to spend some time developing your own interests, hobbies and passions for a while. This gives you a chance to build an independent life and have a little fun as a free spirit with no man in tow dragging you down! You don't need a boy to have a wonderful and fulfilling life. I promise you! Did I mention we love you? 💚
@BrianAlt
2 жыл бұрын
We're in your corner. It's normal to be upset with everything that is going on with you. But just keep chugging along. And ciao is Italian. 😁
@waynejones1054
2 жыл бұрын
Hi Ash, so sorry you've had to leave Wales. I hope you're able to find a satisfying and fulfilling job and return. Good luck and very best wishes.
@johntoal9449
2 жыл бұрын
Ash, I'm sending you a big hug! ❤️ Sorry things didn't work out. 😞 You've been through a lot, hopefully things will get better!
@derrythorburn7752
2 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry Ash to hear about the problems you have with your visa in the UK. Do stay positive. Your videos are inspiring, I’m thinking of visiting Wales again sometime because of your thoughts about the country! With your job search you should think about your strengths. You obviously have good people skills and are very likeable so you would be effective in any sort of front facing role dealing with people. If you haven't already tried you could perhaps look at the main employment agencies in your chosen field of work in addition to applying for individual roles. Best wishes from London, UK and I will continue enjoying your videos.
@pauladosch7062
2 жыл бұрын
Ash, sorry you’re going through everything and the breakup. Here’s some advice: don’t look for a job in Europe (too hard). I would focus on getting marketable skills and becoming a digital nomad where you can generate income to support yourself.. Study digital marketing, SEO, social media management, or copywriting, whichever uses your prior experiences best. Google has career certificates that seem very practical. Many countries offer freelancer visas like Portugal D7, Germany, etc. Go to the one you most like and build from there. These visas are not hard to get. Good luck to you and please reach out with any questions.
@stevencoadoriginal
2 жыл бұрын
Ash, you are such a happy smiley person and it breaks my heart the absolute horrendous bad luck you’ve had to endure. Here’s hoping things turn around for you soon, and you’re always welcome back to the UK anytime 😀
@tripm8729
2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been following your channel for years (including the previous one). You have inspired me in so many ways but especially to enjoy every moment and simply to be yourself and go after what you want. This is why I keep following you and looking forward to seeing the content you post. You are amazing. Hugs from Chicago!
@WingingItWithAsh
2 жыл бұрын
One of the kindest things a person can say is that you have inspired them. Thank you for saying that.
@Booboonancy
2 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear things didn’t turn out as you wanted but life sure is a trip, with twists and turns. In the 80’s, I naively left Canada to join my “boyfriend” in London, full of hopes. Out of pity, the customs officer even gave me a 1 year work permit ( I hadn’t even thought about that 🥴 ) and it went south from day one. Let’s say the enthusiasm was one-sided. After about a week, I struck out on my own, found a job ( chambermaid ) and stayed the whole year. It was amazing. My heartbreak was intense but still worth it. Do try to enjoy the moment as you are doing things that most people cannot do ( either financially or obligations ). I think it might be easier to get a residency visa in France as well 🤗
@WingingItWithAsh
2 жыл бұрын
Nancy your story is so inspiring. Thank you for sharing. I do plan to stay over here and I know it will really challenge and grow me into a better future version of me. Every day I won't take for granted where I'm at or what Im doing. I do know to even be in this position I'm incredibly blessed. Thank you so much for the encouragement and sharing with me.
@daneshas1468
2 жыл бұрын
Oh Ash! I’m heart goes out to you. It’s so hard navigating life after divorce. I’ve been with you since the first Mexico vlog series and I love how you just keeping getting up when you stumble. You are living life on your own terms. Sending so much love and positivity to you from Tennessee. Hang in there and no, you are not CRAZY! You are healthy You are wealthy You are rich You are that b*tch!!!! (I sing that song when I doubt myself 🥂)
@WingingItWithAsh
2 жыл бұрын
Pahaha AWESOME! Thanks for sticking with me. The good and bad are real and I would never want to portray anything other then the truth. Thank you for your kind words and the positivity. It’s appreciated more then you know.
@NomadicGem
2 жыл бұрын
I'm 3:30 in and had to pause. Just wanted to send you a virtual hug and thank you for using your voice/platform to encourage others to prioritize their mental health. Kind-hearted, positive and genuine people like you always rise to the top. With ♥ from Canada.
@heavenfxeyesforsale
7 ай бұрын
your smile is so bright & uplifting! keep smiling!
@improvesheffield4824
2 жыл бұрын
So sorry that things don’t seem to be working out for you atm. I’m sure things will improve somewhere down the road but I think you’re right in understanding that you need stability in your life right now. I hope you manage to find a job here in the U.K. I work in education and we seem to be desperate for Teaching Assistants in schools in Sheffield (not sure what it’s like in the rest of the country) so maybe that’s an area you can look at. You can work for an agency in an unqualified role for around £9.50 per hour so maybe you could enquire if this could be an option to extend your visa. With your general sunny disposition I think you’d fit brilliantly into a primary school environment and this would certainly give you stability. Anyway, sending you a virtual hug from the county of Yorkshire just a few minutes drive away from the Peak District National Park. Chin up old bean!
@WingingItWithAsh
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the ideas. At the moment with out a sponsorship from a company I’m out of luck. I so appreciate the encouragement.
@donvitocascioferro4040
2 жыл бұрын
Just take a trip to Calais and come to the UK on a refugee boat you'd be welcomed here with open arms and given a house and benefits.
@Atticus75
2 жыл бұрын
🙄
@cathenglish4985
2 жыл бұрын
So sorry Ash. Sending you hugs from Wiltshire. I have no doubt this pain will pass and something amazing is coming your way. Hang in there girl! x
@WingingItWithAsh
2 жыл бұрын
I truly hope so! Thanks for believing in that for me.
@Jay-lk5bl
Жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear things haven’t gone well lately Ash 😞😞 I did wonder where you were as I missed your smiley happy vids. Shame you had to leave Wales, Llantwit Major will miss you! Hope things start to improve soon
@Awake-Aware
2 жыл бұрын
My heart goes out to you Ash. I know for sure that you’ll meet someone new in the near future. Any guy should feel blessed to be with such a genuine, warm hearted, beautiful soul as you. Take care and all the best to you.
@Alabamafwee
Жыл бұрын
Hang on in there ash , glad you seem to be enjoying Barcelona you will find your home somewhere down the line , stay safe and god bless
@nicholasjones7312
2 жыл бұрын
Ash, I’m so sorry for you and that you have left my country 🏴. I am praying for you and that He will help you with your difficulties and that you get the direction you need 🙏🏻
@TitanUK
2 жыл бұрын
Ash, stay strong and things will work out - you are and have been through a very difficult and challenging time. You are a strong resiliant person and I really hope that things work out for you to come back to and stay in the UK. I have been through different types of challenges (I am a wheelchair user), and can see that you have the inner strength to see you through. You will look back one day and see the stepping stones it took to get you to your place of contentment. Sending you love and best wishes.
@mel4333
2 жыл бұрын
Ash, life is a journey that we all go through. I've had ups and downs, real trauma, sadness, happiness, boring times, fascinating times, adventures etc etc. So for you, you are travelling through time, places, experiences, emotions etc all perfectly normal (or not!) You have a lovely personality and a lovely warm smile. Best of all enjoy your travelling! I did at your age.
@WingingItWithAsh
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Elm!
@evaw4576
2 жыл бұрын
Sending you love. It’s ok to be lost, and I appreciate you sharing your current journey with us.
@travelsaddict8952
2 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry, such a bad new, tough moments to deal with..I wish you to overcome this unexpected situation.
@Hedriks
2 жыл бұрын
You are such a beautiful soul Ash. We all love you.
@asdonut
2 жыл бұрын
Very honest and frank I hope you get your letter of sponsorship- you deserve it. Come back to the UK soon.
@pamelakilponen3682
2 жыл бұрын
YOu will bounce back, you are resilient and I see bright things ahead for YOU!
@WingingItWithAsh
2 жыл бұрын
Pamela I will take those words and believe in them. Thank you!
@MagentaOtterTravels
2 жыл бұрын
Bless you! You will feel happy and joyful again. You will have exciting things that you will look forward to again. You are just going through a super difficult, painful crossroads. Hang in there, and try to be patient as your sense of purpose and future plans become clearer to you🙏
@p.pierce91
2 жыл бұрын
You are so strong Ash! I'm a Washingtonian just like you. I watched your old traveling videos and your new page. I'll always be supporting you no matter what videos you put out. Here to watch you and see how you are doing. You have a great spirit and are doing things some people can't. You put yourself out there while some people don't even leave the house. We get inspired by you. Hope you never give up and stay strong!
@WingingItWithAsh
2 жыл бұрын
I will never give up. I do know that much. I have been knocked down but my spirit is not one to be knocked down for long. Thank you for supporting me and cheering me on.
@richardkent4136
2 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear of your pain. I hope Time heals and the therapy will help. Take care, sending a fatherly hug.
@ratowey
2 жыл бұрын
I`m absolutely gutted for you. I was hoping everything was going to work out for you here in Wales. I hope something positive turns up for you soon. Lots of love xxx
@WingingItWithAsh
2 жыл бұрын
Same Richard! Thanks for the encouragement.
@michael-pn9po
2 жыл бұрын
Ash - there is little I can suggest that is practical or helpful for you that you are not already aware of. The only thing I can say is that from my experience of 70 years on this planet you will reflect on this time and find that you are a stronger person because of it. It is good that you have a good friend to "cry" with - respect and cherish them - good friends are hard to come by and easy to lose. Keep positive - keep trying - keep smiling (a smile goes a long way in this world.)
@WaTed1978
2 жыл бұрын
This is so raw, honest and heartfelt. Good luck Ash. Big cwtch from Neath.
@lydiajohnson2084
2 жыл бұрын
You have been through a tremendous amount in your life. We love you as a person and have faith in you.
@WingingItWithAsh
2 жыл бұрын
I for sure have a story to tell. Thank you for caring.
@rachelveryard717
2 жыл бұрын
Its a loss to Wales, your enthusiasm made me smile. I am gutted things did not work for you. You are a beautiful person inside and out. Keep that gorgeous smile and your enthusiasm. I truly hope we get to see you back in Wales one day. Please stay strong sending you a welsh cwtch 🤗 xxxx
@WingingItWithAsh
2 жыл бұрын
I hope so as well Rachel. I left a piece of my heart there for sure.
@rachelveryard717
2 жыл бұрын
@@WingingItWithAsh I wish you so much luck for your future and hopefully the job or a job will come for you xxx😊
@scottkelpie9511
2 жыл бұрын
Always thought you'd be amazing as a shopping channel presenter with your enthusiasm 😄 big love !
@XPLOSIVization
2 жыл бұрын
I hope your heart heals quickly, This is the only video ive seen of yours but something in my heart feels to tell you things will get better, even though it must feel like a chunk of your heart has been taken out, take as much time you need to focus on yourself and self healing, sending love from someone whos heart was once ripped apart
@sigsconyers6551
2 жыл бұрын
Ash, I'm so sorry you are going through tough times. I'm a firm believer of "things happen for a reason" and "When one door closes another one opens." I know it's hard right now but keep your chin up....something bigger and better will come in your future. You are a positive person and if you stay positive, positive things will happen. We are all here for you and not going anywhere! Much love to you!
@send2michael
2 жыл бұрын
Ashley, thanks for being so open and vulnerable in your journey. As another American myself who has been travelling alone for the first time after a breakup (for 7+ months now), I feel ya. I'm currently in Albania. Americans can stay visa-free in Albania for up to a year and it is very affordable, (and outside of Schengen) so that might be something for you to consider. Hopefully you were able to spend a little time with Jodi and Steve again while in the UK to boost your spirits before leaving. I saw them back in October and we had a good time hangin' out in Glasgow. Take care!
@paulsears9102
2 жыл бұрын
Ash, I have been watching your videos for a couple of years now and have always been humbled by how positive you have always come across no matter what life throws at you. I have been through a divorce and a break up so I've been throw all the emotions aswell. People keep telling me things will get better and I'm sure they will and I'm sure they will for you too. Keep positive Ash.
@dwalker6868
Жыл бұрын
Glad this has passed for you. Looking forward to joyful days for you.
@WingingItWithAsh
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@susanseeing9948
2 жыл бұрын
You have some incredible things happen in your life in the past few years, and it is a testament to your strength and resilience that you are still out there trying, on your own, to make your life what you want it to be. Be kind to yourself and keep your ideals intact. Wishing you all the best!!
@CoachAbbey
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for being so honest and sharing your story with us Ash. I remember when I left my amazing life in Toronto Canada for love in Paris which didn't work out... But I eneded up staying learnt the language. 9 years later I'm still here. I promise that you will be fine! Enjoy the journey! I now look back and laugh out loud 🤣
@glyngasson8450
2 жыл бұрын
Ash, I really don't like my country at the moment. We have so many unfilled vacancies but still make it so hard for people to work here. Stay strong, you have brightened my days when I have felt low. ❤️❤️
@EmmaJones925
2 жыл бұрын
Having watched Ash’s videos for a long time, so sad to see her upset
@WingingItWithAsh
2 жыл бұрын
Jason I'll be ok! Thanks for caring and watching my videos.
@marielouise9126
2 жыл бұрын
I’ve just subscribed. I can totally relate and know exactly what you are going through. I split with my husband 18 months ago, we’d been together 21 years. I also lost my Dad 5 years ago and I worked for him. I found myself with no husband and no job, no Dad and I too felt lost. I have battled on and still am. I have no idea what the future holds but I do have a job now and I also have two wonderful sons who have been my inspiration to carry on. I haven’t met anyone else yet but never say never. ❤️
@eddy3093
2 жыл бұрын
You are alive, you have options no matter how difficult or perplexing it will all work out. The main and best thing to remember is you are alive! Sending you massive love, you can weather this storm!
@deannaylor2576
2 жыл бұрын
Feel for you Ash. You are a very positive happy person and with such a lovely personality, I’m so sure things will work out for you. I hope one day you return to the UK, because this country needs more people like you, who enjoy life and make a great impression.👍❤️
@kevinwright6002
2 жыл бұрын
I am being honest here,I have experience with life's tough stuff and I really think that you would benefit massively from throwing yourself into helping other people. You are clearly a lovely person. I have benefited massively from helping others both people and Animals. I have followed your journey since the outbreak of Covid when,sadly,I contracted it and had a tough time being isolated. Good peple deserve good things to happen to them,I hope that i get to witness life giving you what you so clearly deserve. Much love to you x
@WingingItWithAsh
2 жыл бұрын
Kevin I truly hope you will witness that as well. I also love helping people and hope in a way this channel will do that and that Ill get continues opportunities in my daily life. Its such great advice.
@stacie3134
2 жыл бұрын
Girl, you’re grieving, and that’s ok. Please don’t feel like you have to explain or apologize for it. What you’re going through is HARD. Hugs, and please take care of yourself. ❤️
@BlueHToys
2 жыл бұрын
Come to live in Yorkshire, we're very friendly up here and it's far more beautiful up here. I can see that the emotion is real and we're all here for you xx
@WingingItWithAsh
2 жыл бұрын
Yorkshire would be lovely. I hope to visit one day.
@BlueHToys
2 жыл бұрын
@@WingingItWithAsh id love to show you around
@silvanabreur
2 жыл бұрын
Oh sweetie, it's so sad to see you cry and i hope you are soon having your life back on track. Big hugs from Rotterdam, The Netherlands. You are always welcome here for a few days if you want. 😘❤️
@KS-lo7se
2 жыл бұрын
Sweet sweet Ash. I am very glad you made the decision for therapy. I learned something very important when I was thirty after struggling from a minister at a weekend retreat. She had made plans for her life. Made all the steps she thought were necessary to get her to her goals. Part of those steps was a relationship that blossomed to engagement. That did not happen. The most significant point she brought out was the grieving process. I was stunned. No one died what did she mean??? You're grieving the loss of "this idea" a place you think you need to be or a person you need to be, and that's ok. The whole concept of moving through the stages of grief was a game changer for me. I am heading towards 60, I have looked back to that talk she gave and really tried to fully grasp it. Am I always successful? Nope but I keep trying. I think you have to realize you're having anxiety coupled with depression and it's very important to be open to the possibility of medication.
@jonathanbignall1198
2 жыл бұрын
Sorry you're going through such a tough time, you have people who care about you and you're building up the right support network. You'll get through this Ash.
@annabelv.2400
2 жыл бұрын
Ash, I feel you, I know that drifting place you are in, I have been there myself when I left my husband with 2 kids on toe, had no job and did not know what to do with my life. It felt so overwhelming, but step by step, I rebuilt a different own life. It took struggles and some time, but I am happy where I am right now, alone with my kids and living quite well. You will figure it out too. Just aknowledge this time is hard and like a grief period over what you thought would happen but does not, and then I am 100% confident you will reboot and find what is best for you
@indylaura99
2 жыл бұрын
You will grow from this. You will look back on this and believe it or not be thankful. Everything you go through makes you stronger. You are not where you are meant to be. You will find it. You will grow and learn and thrive. You are stronger than you know.
@saphiquefemme
2 жыл бұрын
So many feel lost, I do. You're bringing peace to people who need honest videos like this. Never forget how brilliant & brave you are. Best wishes adventurous Ash!
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