You have to step away from toxic people... even if they are family. I have had to go through that road as well and it is so so hard. But you just have to get out of that circle and create a new healthy one that can offer support.
@ArispeLand
4 жыл бұрын
@Tracy yes it is 😢
@TubbsOfLove
4 жыл бұрын
It is so hard. I feel stuck somewhere between needing the space to grow and thrive and also being the bad guy because I’m the one that stepped away. Adulting is too much, my babies need to stay babies forever for me.
@ArispeLand
4 жыл бұрын
@@TubbsOfLove I can so relate. I've been called recently by one family member saying I'm the reason another family member is so bad off.... because my kids wont see them. But when someone calls mex my husband, and my kids horrible names multiple times and spreads lies then they are the ones who are choosing to cut US off in my opinion. You got this momma. If there is one I know about you it is that you will do anything for your babies. And keeping toxic people away from them is something they will always be thankful for.❤
@ArispeLand
4 жыл бұрын
Hearing your story makes me realize what a strong overcomer you are ! For you to be giving your children the wonderful childhood you are after the hard one you had just goes to show how strong God can work through someone when they allow it.❤
@TubbsOfLove
4 жыл бұрын
And now I’m gonna cry, but probably because I always cry. Thank you for saying that. My life goal is to have happy kids who never feel the way I did/do.
@ArispeLand
4 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you were able to get so much out. I hope it made you feel a little better.
@TubbsOfLove
4 жыл бұрын
Yes, although, I meant to just say I’m dealing with some personal stuff and I’d be back when things are better and I have several videos scheduled so maybe there won’t be a huge gap in things... but instead I spewed everything.
@ArispeLand
4 жыл бұрын
I've experienced Christmas miracles many times. I will be praying that this year a Christmas miracle comes to you.💚❤
@TubbsOfLove
4 жыл бұрын
I’m sure something will happen. It has to.
@ArispeLand
4 жыл бұрын
It's so hard but so important to be vulnerable and share real raw life. That way we can feel more "normal" when we go through it ourselves. Or can better understand someone who is.
@TubbsOfLove
4 жыл бұрын
This is true. I deleted and re uploaded this several times. Then I scheduled it for next week, then made it public because I knew I’d decide to trash it before then. I have been back and forth on what to do.
@stefanieo1799
4 жыл бұрын
You're brave hon ❤. Hope things are looking up *hugs*
@TubbsOfLove
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you. They are! I’m working on a update.
@snlovesjn
4 жыл бұрын
Praying for u
@TubbsOfLove
4 жыл бұрын
Thank You.
@ArispeLand
4 жыл бұрын
*hugs*
@ArispeLand
4 жыл бұрын
Babies are a gift from God and being a mom to 1 or 10 is the hardest most demanding job in the world !
@ArispeLand
4 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry . I am praying for you ! I understand anxiety and depression. It's easy for people for brush it off like it's not real when they dont have to deal with it. If you ever need/want to get out of the house just give me a text and we can meet up.❤
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