"the church should be more of a hospital than a court room" i love that analogy and you are absolutely right! you both continue to live your life and continue to build your relationship with Christ! I support your beautiful union.
@nathanandcherelle
4 жыл бұрын
I totally agree it's like this in the uk
@DaijaeMonae
4 жыл бұрын
Candyce Mingleton I agree as well. The church would honestly be able to do more good amongst people with that type of approach.
@christinap9620
3 жыл бұрын
@@nathanandcherelle Really?? i didn't know that.
@missjesstalks2222
4 жыл бұрын
Personally, i don’t believe anyone’s maliciously judging you guys. I think everyone (from the comments I’ve seen) has a genuine concern for you guys and doesn’t want you guys to slip up and do everything that is according to the way God wants things to be done. Because He (God) calls for order in everything He ordains, and if this marriage is ordained then you both wouldn’t have had to move in together. Also, we have to stop reading the Bible with “common sense” but actually live out what His commandments are for us and to actually read what it’s saying and seeing if we’re in alignment with the Word and what He says. The 6th and 9th commandments state not to fornicate. I pray you both take heed of what God is leading y’all to do and that everything you both do is acceptable in His sight. Much love 💕
@MsStannear
4 жыл бұрын
I say pray about it and ask God for a clear answer on this, I truly believe you’re leading your viewers astray in this aspect. In the book of Genesis it says “Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.” Genesis 2:24 NKJV To physically move in and live together with your boyfriend or girlfriend is outside of God's design, and that is what makes it an error. God designed here in Genesis 2 that a man will leave his parents and be joined to “his wife” as “one flesh”. Living with your boyfriend or girlfriend makes it appears as if you two are “one flesh”. How so? Because both people have left your separateness to live and be together as a couple “as “one”. A couple living together is a component reserved only for God's design in marriage. Also you said you prefer people to not judge you and that they actually have no right to judge, however the word says that we are to judge with righteous judgment John 7-24. ““Judge not, that you be not judged. For with what judgment you judge, you will be judged; and with the measure you use, it will be measured back to you.” Matthew 7:1-2 NKJV Here it’s saying that I will be judged in the same manner that I judged you. We are warned against making judgments in a hypocritical manner. We are to judge ourselves first before making judgments about others.
@arianacherry8394
4 жыл бұрын
Miss.Stannear how do you know they haven’t prayed about it and gotten an answer from God? Did you counsel with God before interpreting his word and making this comment?
@missjesstalks2222
4 жыл бұрын
Miss. Stannear, i couldn’t agree more!
@emmanuelniiayihammon
4 жыл бұрын
@@arianacherry8394 Its about having the biblical foundation and understanding. The bible is black and white, it has no grays , we should make decisions based on biblical grounds, not on what we feel is OK? or what CAN WORK?..
@OrdinaryVizionary
4 жыл бұрын
@@emmanuelniiayihammon this is not correct. The bible does exclude some topics and there are grey areas. We need to stick to our own convictions and realize others may differ. If the act is not a sin, than we can pray and warn but you shouldn't pass judgment.
@danielleg2616
4 жыл бұрын
The Bible don't advocate waiting years for marriage/wedding. living together 3yrs, these two been doing "sexual things". He's seen it all already that's why he did not marry her sooner and they enjoyed convenience of living together like a married couple. C'mon sense. they know the Bible don't always say things direct but it implies no sex or fornication or living together for obvious reasons. And if so they should marry which I'm happy they are doing eventually but it doesn't take years of living together to wait for marriage/wedding.
@creativetips97
3 жыл бұрын
Avoiding the appearance of sin means it should not look like you’re sinning even if you’re not. Example: if a couple are living together under the same roof people will automatically think you’re having sex. That’s a normal thought 💭.
@TotallyTates
4 жыл бұрын
“Leave his father and mother” Genesis 2:24, refers to being married. It clearly says in the following sentence, same verse, “and shall cleave to his WIFE.” Not “girlfriend” nor “fiancé.” That’s very specific. Living together unmarried can/will definitely have a lot of temptation regardless. Do you all sleep in the same bed/see each other naked, too? Like that’s literally what married couples do. Separate rooms is probably easier, but still no. Yes, everyone has their own journey, but we still have to strive to do the right things. If you guys aren’t having sex, seeing each other naked, or sleeping together, then congrats to you. Hopefully the wedding is sooner than later. I pray that God sees fit for this situation, especially if you two do.
@Iamkellydesiree
4 жыл бұрын
Why get married if your already living together as if you are married. The only thing your not doing is having sex, but a marriage is more than just sex. Y’all have already came together and started businesses and living life as a married couple. Did y’all pray and seek God before y’all made the decision to move in together because of not that’s the first thing that you did wrong. As a child of. God we should first pray and wait for God to give the okay. Though we don’t always do that. Okay so yes Dre and Bre you guys have a unique situations that works for them no one is denying that fact, but trying to justify and explain the right in it is an entire separate thing. I feel like in these types of situations the two people should just simply say this is what we are doing and that’s it. Not trying to bring God and the Bible in it and continue to give a ton of examples and explanations. The bottom line is for the majority two people can’t live together and keep it pure let’s just keep it real and 100 so if you are a child of God wether it spells it out or not in the word of God you should not live together before marriage because it is in the family of sin and gives place to the devil. Now again if your gonna choose that way for yourself and your partner okay but please don’t try an justify it or make it right in the eyes of God. In saying that I love you both and I pray that God continues to bless you both Dre stated that we don’t Gove God enough credit. I can say did you, because I’m sure if you and Bre chose not to live together he still would have honored y’all in marriage and the finances and businesses would still have flourished and come together. So all in all we just have to be mindful and careful about what we are trying to make right to fit the mold of our choices and decisions .
@walkingwithlisa
4 жыл бұрын
Kelly Desiree love the ending part!
@missjesstalks2222
4 жыл бұрын
Lisa Evans same!
@dominiquethomas5436
4 жыл бұрын
👍👏👏👏
@toniatalks
4 жыл бұрын
Yess
@victoriaa.r.6409
4 жыл бұрын
I don’t think it’s wise or should be encouraged especially in this society, but just because most people don’t have the willpower to do something doesn’t mean they can’t 😭 and they have done this and to this day are still pure. God first looks at the heart, not their situation, and everyone’s heart and struggles are different. I don’t know their relationship with Him but I do know the Holy Spirit convicts us of wrong , and probably would’ve by now, but your point was really good as well!
@nicky1936
4 жыл бұрын
I luv u guys! However on this topic I’ll be praying for you for more clarity from God. I’m afraid this will lead so many astray. Listen to Allen Parr vidéo on this “should couples live together before marriage”. God bless ✌🏾
@OrdinaryVizionary
4 жыл бұрын
Everyone should stick to the convictions that are between them and God. Again, this a topic that is open to discussion and everyone has to do what is placed in their heart.
@danielleg2616
4 жыл бұрын
The Bible don't advocate waiting years for marriage/wedding. living together 3yrs, these two been doing "sexual things". He's seen it all already that's why he did not marry her sooner and they enjoyed convenience of living together like a married couple. they know the Bible don't always say things direct but it implies no sex or fornication or living together for obvious reasons. And if so they should marry which I'm happy they are doing eventually but it doesn't take years of living together to wait for marriage/wedding.
@0hSoBlessed
4 жыл бұрын
The heart can lead ppl astray. We should seek God's will and see if his holy spirit is ok with the decision we want to make.
@Official_kgold
3 жыл бұрын
@@danielleg2616 if they are living together and not having sex what problem is there? I see none
@antwonettefelder9429
3 жыл бұрын
What???
@ninawiththenina5546
4 жыл бұрын
She gave the example of if you’re a man and see your woman naked and that gets you tempted then you shouldn’t see her naked .. Maybe it’s just a bad example but what man is gonna see the woman he loves fully undressed and not get lustful thoughts?? This makes no sense, why torture yourself even more.
@Amencore
4 жыл бұрын
You guys are already living as if you are married. You 2 are not 1 yet & you living together isn’t necessarily in alignment with the Scripture. And also, Jesus performing a miracle on the Sabbath was actually.. lawful.. not common sense.
@Official_kgold
3 жыл бұрын
A dating relationship is practice for marriage my guy if they live together and they are strong in this area and not succumbing to the temptation of sin then let them rock out🤷🏽♂️ if God finds it wrong then he’ll convict either one of them, I can’t even fathom these arguments rn lol
@Monichante
4 жыл бұрын
I knew that this was coming especially after the comments from the last video. I appreciate y’all explaining but you don’t have to. Keep doing you and glorifying God and continue to give HIM praise and walk into your calling and purpose HE has for your life. If people don’t like what you are doing and don’t support you then they can stop watching. At the end of the day , the only person you have to answer to is God. I love this channel, keep doing what your doing and keep pushing.
@Monichante
4 жыл бұрын
Grace Grace no I’m not God but I’ll ask God to to bless you and your family. Stay safe and be blessed during this time.
@PHATGrace
4 жыл бұрын
You’re ok with wearing a ring to signify you’re engaged or taken but once you’re married you don’t want to wear a ring? That’s what y’all consider common sense I see why y’all made the decision to move in together before marriage.
@FOTWC
4 жыл бұрын
Can y’all make a video about the sexual temptation y’all face while living together and how y’all overcome it
@missjesstalks2222
4 жыл бұрын
SRFK SNIPEZ I’m curious as well, it’d bring more clarity too!
@risadaley655
4 жыл бұрын
Yea 😊
@MsAmarie90
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah. That would be the challenge for me. I can't see myself living with someone for that long that I'm actually sexually attracted to.
@erynd.9911
4 жыл бұрын
Your hair looks amazing Bre!! Bomb!! Love the waves sis!! ❤️😍
@mamagirl5859
3 жыл бұрын
I see what your saying but the sabbath part isn’t the best thing to reference. The sabbath is in the 10 commandments and is the only part in the whole 10 that says to remember. Jesus himself kept the sabbath so if the sabbath can be thrown out of the 10 commandments then everything else in the 10 commandments like murder and stealing are also up in the air. If you want to live together and your not having sex then that’s fine but if I am having sex and I don’t see anything wrong it’s still a sin, it can’t be left to my interpretation. Wrong is wrong no matter how you twist it.
@amandamasuku2351
3 жыл бұрын
Honestly this will start making sense once y’all are officially married
@DaijaeMonae
4 жыл бұрын
Y’all are doing a great job! Most times people love to throw their own personal feelings/opinions and skepticism onto things instead of seeing the bigger picture. What works for y’all, works for y’all. And it’s your walk with God-no one else’s.
@emmanuelniiayihammon
4 жыл бұрын
Hey Queen, beautiful name btw just to respond to your message. because it works for them, it doesnt mean its WISE. Many things are possible, Many things are ok, but it doesn't mean its WISE and LAWFUL... As Christians, we should use wisdom. So with this particular matter, it's important to be very careful with what we consider personal feelings/opinions. and bible based facts
@JusDiff
3 жыл бұрын
@@emmanuelniiayihammon Amen.
@joyh.729
4 жыл бұрын
Numerous secular studies point to the fact that living together bf marriage decreases the chance that the couple will actually marry.
@emmanuelniiayihammon
4 жыл бұрын
Hey guys, i love what you both are doing and what you guys stand for I Don't think temptation and being strong got anything to do with making this O.K. It's about what the bible defines about a husband and wife and when they may cleave together LAWFULLY. Its when we water things down that it makes it OK to do this kinda thing, I would advise you guys to pray and seek deeper revelation and understanding with this matter, or at least consider doing that for future videos. God really wants to use you both for our generation but the message needs to be pure and accurate and cultivating to the viewer. I can give a long list of the PROS which outweighs the CONS. not saying you guys are wrong but the bible is very clear on this particular matter. what you guys are doing, is not wrong, but it doesn't make it O.K From the top of my head : If Jesus chose to get married, I know for a fact that he wouldn't consciously make the choice to move in with his fiancee, bare in mind, he was perfect and knew it all. BUT IT JUST WOULDNT BE WISE. And that the message for you both, Yes its possible, Yes its ok, Yes you can make it work, Yes, you both have amazing self-control, BUT THAT DOESNT MEAN ITS A WISE DECISION!!!! Despite you guys having the right heart and intentions, I would be very very careful sharing the nature of this message. your basically telling your viewers, YES it's POSSIBLE TO LIVE WITH YOUR FUTURE SPOUSE BEFORE MARRIAGE...... but sorry, despite you guys sharing all those scriptures, it doesn't make the choice you both made biblically sound. MAY THE ALL-KNOWING GOD CONTINUE TO INCREASE THE WISDOM AND ADD TO THE KNOWLEDGE YOU GUYS ALREADY HAVE. keep making videos, glory to glory, faith to faith I LOVE YOU BOTH DEARLY AND RESPECT THE JOURNEY YOU ARE BOTH ON.
@ogochukwuchukwuemeka146
4 жыл бұрын
👍🏾
@t.k.lovely3920
4 жыл бұрын
Hey guys! Thanks for sharing your story. I was just wondering if you guys both knew that you were the "one" for each other and decided to move in together, then why didn't you guys just go to the courthouse and get your marriage license, and then just do the wedding ceremony at a later date? That way you technically could have already been married and then just did the ceremony at a more convenient time. And I understand that you guys may not be doing the "act" of fornication, but Jesus did say that if you look with lust then you've committed sin.....and I would find it hard to believe that two individuals who are in love with each other, extremely attracted to one another, and living in such close quarters with one another, haven't been lusting for each other at some points during your stay together. Our main objective as Christians should be to be conformed to the image and likeness of Christ. Jesus said that we cannot be His disciples if we don't take up our cross, die to our flesh, and truly follow Him. And if we are true disciples, then we would want to lead those who we are influencing toward the ways of the Master.....not toward the ways of drunkenness or any other type of sinful endeavor. The grace of God empowers us to overcome sin, it does not give us a license to engage in whatever types of behaviors that we desire. My hope is that we would all mature in our walks with God, and grow to love Him more than we love any fleshly desires or ways that are separating us from Him whether we realize it or not. The Lamb who was slain, and gave us everything, is worth us giving Him everything in return and is worthy of our complete devotion.
@DaijaeMonae
4 жыл бұрын
T.K. Lovely they moved in together before they even got engaged. They’ve also explained in previous videos how moving in together instead of living separately worked better for them seeing as they have a business together, as well it also helped Bre financially during the time.
@t.k.lovely3920
4 жыл бұрын
@@DaijaeMonae Well then why not go to the courthouse and get the license once they decided they wanted to get married to one another? And should we seek to honor what we want to do, even if it does save us money, more than we honor the ways of the Lord?
@DaijaeMonae
4 жыл бұрын
T.K. Lovely you’re right, they could’ve went and got a license but marriage is more than just getting a license; it’s a covenant. Back in biblical times they didn’t even have licenses). I’m sure they want to wait for the actual ceremony, and reciting of the vows, etc. And I’m not sure how they are dishonoring God if they aren’t committing a sin by living together. They are waiting for marriage before engaging in sex. They have boundaries set in place to protect themselves and each other from lustfulness/temptations.
@t.k.lovely3920
4 жыл бұрын
@@DaijaeMonae That marriage covenant entails the two becoming one.....in more ways than one. If they're already engaging in "covenantal duties" with one another (excluding sex) by living together and establishing a life together, like married people do, then it shouldn't have been a hard task to go get a license. And it's good to have boundaries in place in a situation like that, but living in such close quarters with someone who you find extremely attractive is only going to magnify and create more avenues for temptation, both physically and mentally. And the Bible does speak of drunkenness being a sin, and something that we should not engage in. But again, my hope is that we would mature in our love for God, and desire to honor His ways more than we honor our own.
@t.k.lovely3920
4 жыл бұрын
@Elizabeth Owusu Mensah I wasn't condemning anyone, I was just simply offering insight as it pertains to what the Bible teaches and the principles that Jesus clearly laid out for us as His disciples. We can either die to our flesh and follow His way, or we can continue to live according to what we want and desire.....the choice is up to us.
@juniorkalambay1
4 жыл бұрын
Every one who kept himself knows that the secret is to take Zero Risk, in other words, avoiding all circumstances that can lead to temptation. The day you think you can manage is how you fail.
@OnlyQueenE
4 жыл бұрын
Preach!!!
@hisglo1810
2 жыл бұрын
Whew, this is the one
@chantelllovett4159
3 жыл бұрын
I’m not trying to judge but I grew up in church too but 1 Corinthians 6:19 says flee fornication i’m not saying you guys are fornicating but be careful putting yourselves in situations that could lead you into sin i’m saying this from experience I had been abstinent/celibate for 6 years and I recently met a new boyfriend (ex now) and I slipped and fell into fornication The Lord forgives but i’m careful putting myself into scenarios that could lead me into sin again. For example , Laying in bed with him, close cuddling, etc. Just use wisdom.
@wisdomwayne
4 жыл бұрын
You need to flee the very appearance of evil. It is not a good testimony for bible believing Christians to cohabit without being married. You are aiming to present a very weak excuse, and deceiving yourselves by saying you are waiting for marriage. The world will assume that you are living in a sinful arrangement. This is not a rude or judgemental comment. Just plain speaking.
@faithm3414
4 жыл бұрын
Your verse is out of context but i get what you mean. Miracles Jesus did is not work on sabbath it is part of demonsting the power of God and worshipping God, that doesn’t link with your situation but I respect what you were trying to say.
@arozzell81
3 жыл бұрын
Wow! The church needs to be more of a hospital than a courtroom! That’s huge. Love this video, your channel and the realness of your relationship and your faith.
@MeesLolu
2 жыл бұрын
You guys do know it is possible to not live together and still be deep in sexual sins. At the end of the day, everyone knows their triggers. If you don’t wanna live together before marriage, then do it but let’s quit judging this couple. They made their choice and it worked for them. Why do you you people still struggle to accept that they indeed did stay away from having sex while living together?
@Lela1350
4 жыл бұрын
I think people look at this situation as a literal guide. This is a unique circumstance that works for yall as a couple. You set boundaries with God as your focus. Living together while you wait is not for everybody! I know for sure I could not but that's just me. Keep putting out positive content and promoting what you are promoting. Its appreciated and changing lives💜
@PHATGrace
4 жыл бұрын
Lela1350 Where is that in the Bible exactly?
@nbetween2worlds22
4 жыл бұрын
This is an amazing video! I could not live with my man of God becuz at some point I will be tempted by the anointed "D" Lol. I love y'alls boundaries and will power. Yall gave me lots to think about. Hope yall are doing amazing in this quarantine season. Stay safe and healthy!!
@chantelllovett4159
3 жыл бұрын
Exactly I would be tempted too. It’s just the truth. We’re just being honest
@MWMS1000
4 жыл бұрын
What does your Pastor think about this and are you going through marriage counseling?
@psalmistabigail
4 жыл бұрын
They have to!
@PHATGrace
4 жыл бұрын
They’re members of Pastor Mike Todd’s church.
@OnlyQueenE
4 жыл бұрын
@@PHATGrace wow. it makes sense now. Smh...why they think their living situation is ok. Yikes.
@nickyt7408
3 жыл бұрын
@@OnlyQueenE no it don’t. Pastor Todd ain’t co-signing the living together before marriage thing
@Karricmay
2 жыл бұрын
The church should be a hospital and at hospitals sometimes they tell us things we don’t want to hear or that will require us to change our entire lifestyles. So just want to encourage you guys to not look so much at the church or what “church folk” are saying and seek the heart of God and His purpose for us as His children here on this earth. God bless you and your union!
@jillianhurst4626
3 жыл бұрын
That Romans 5 vs 14 is such an eye opener. Thank you for talking about it. I cried while reading it. Ive been driving myself mad trying to figure out what i need to do to be perfect but this chapter says the Lord doesn’t need me to be perfect according to the standards of the world. But if i truly believe that what I am doing is right and is meant to glorify God then I shouldn’t let anyone judge me. It specifically talks about how you should NEVER be a stumbling block in someone’s life. They are obviously trying to figure it out, lets encourage them to keep praying. If God wants to speak to them then he would. Who are we to judge each other? Of course you have a verse to oppose everything they say but just remember that we don’t know everything. This generation is guided by the holy spirit.
@amarishumphrey125
4 жыл бұрын
I loved this video!! When I was younger I was totally against living together. But as I got older and heard other perspectives, I stopped judging ppl who lived with their boyfriend/girlfriend. I've realized that everyone's journey is different and who am I to judge. Dont let any of the negative comments get to you. As long as you continue to love God and each other everything will be fine. Much love 😊
@PHATGrace
4 жыл бұрын
Amaris Humphrey You can’t love GOD and Satan.
@worththewar
4 жыл бұрын
A good one! I think most people who throw shade are steeped in fear. I think judging rightly is a good thing biblically but in such a forum like this it’s not helpful! If I was asked about living with someone .. I’d certainly give a verse about fleeing from sexual temptation .. but who am I to judge your temptation. I will offer this.. never blame God for what God’s people do♥️
@danielleg2616
4 жыл бұрын
The Bible don't advocate waiting years for marriage/wedding. living together 3yrs, these two been doing "sexual things". He's seen it all already that's why he did not marry her sooner and they enjoyed convenience of living together like a married couple. Marriage is more than intercourse on a wedding night. they know the Bible don't always say things direct but it implies no sex or fornication or living together for obvious reasons. They should admit they are not doing this God's way and living together based on their own rationale and circumstance. But at least they will marry. All it takes is the holy Spirit to reveal your future spouse, to have your life in order with God first, and a courtship to get to know who the person is & their intentions, and premarital counseling on where you should be spiritually financially emotionally and understand each other's roles and intentions. Ladies if u do it like them make sure that man don't drag out years living like a married couple without the action and honor of making you his wife before God
@OrdinaryVizionary
4 жыл бұрын
"Who are you to pass judgment on the servant of another? It is before his own master that he stands or falls. And he will be upheld, for the Lord is able to make him stand. The one who observes the day, observes it in honor of the Lord. The one who eats, eats in honor of the Lord, since he gives thanks to God, while the one who abstains, abstains in honor of the Lord and gives thanks to God. For none of us lives to himself, and none of us dies to himself." Romans 14:4, 6-7 ESV
@alexisseals2238
Жыл бұрын
Where do you get your hair? Let me rewind. First off your stunning women... very beautiful couple in general. Thank you for your videos im going through alot in my 3 yr on off relationship. Im a single mom so my son is watching me and learning from me. Videos like yours help me gain outside perspective and mental support even without meeting ither of you... again, thank youu! That looks ljke your natural hair but if its not please give me a life line cause SIS YOUUU BOMBBBBBB!!!! LOL. All styles look kill on youu but this one is like "straight outa a pantene comercial" Lol.
@risadaley655
4 жыл бұрын
Well I don't think you two are going to hell for simply living together before marriage, but the Bible clearly stated that you should wait until marriage to leave your parents house to become one? Right ! Well i think people should let the holy spirit guide them ! To be on the safe side i would listen to the Bible, if you feel you can move in together before marriage, then do you! But me personally I'm not moving in together before marriage.
@arielmorris5924
4 жыл бұрын
At the end of the day, to each their own. I completely agree with what was said, not everyone needs to share my opinion and that’s okay but all of you negative commenters must hold some type of bitterness in your heart to say such hurtful things and I think you should deal with that and stop telling everyone else how to live their lives. Only God can judge us.
@PHATGrace
4 жыл бұрын
Ariel Morris You should actually read the Bible and pray more. You’d find out that your last sentence isn’t true.
@arielmorris5924
4 жыл бұрын
Grace Grace “There is only one Lawgiver and Judge, the one who is able to save and destroy. But you--who are you to judge your neighbor?” James 4:12 (NIV)
@PHATGrace
4 жыл бұрын
Ariel Morris 1 Corinthians 5
@mirrielleachu3231
2 жыл бұрын
The bible encourages us to correct our brothers in love. That means if u are walking the part of sin. Ur christian brother has the biblical right to correct you. You want to understand christianity without reading your bible daily. Correcting some one is not judging.
@tulimubonanamulemo5077
4 жыл бұрын
Also what about 1 Corinthians 5:12 regarding the "Christians should not judge" comment? Personally, on this topic I'm like it's yall's life so live it and whatever you do is between you and God but as a side note, I keep hearing people throwing around the "Christians should not judge phrase" so I just wonder what you two think about that verse in regards to that phrase.
@y7l424
27 күн бұрын
Me and my future husband live together and are also waiting but it has been an absolute struggle!!! We are able to wait a few mos at a time then we fall into temptation…we are trying to figure out how we can stay obedient to The Lord at this point
@rwallace0110
2 жыл бұрын
This is so great. Thanks for sharing. I’m actually waiting for marriage myself. If your able to do it why not. If you & your partner has self control that’s Amazing. Congrats to ya!!
@naturallynatalie3981
4 жыл бұрын
You guys are a beautiful couple, when are you actually getting married ?
@psalmistabigail
4 жыл бұрын
In May
@TrenaB21
4 жыл бұрын
This crazy to hear people are being nasty to about your journey! Your journey is so inspiring and I thank you for sharing! People are so crazy with social media nowadays and it's sad that you have to address this topic period!!!
@harrietafia_
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video, definitely an encouragement ! Keep going and know that God sees your heart and He knows you Jeremiah 29v11
@genxconner5618
4 жыл бұрын
Love this and you guys! Can’t wait for the wedding :)
@nathanandcherelle
4 жыл бұрын
You guys a Christian couple also?
@genxconner5618
4 жыл бұрын
Yes!!
@mmulemolokoane6187
4 жыл бұрын
Guuurrrlllll meee tooo …. omg omg omg … they need to youtube live the ceremony
@davia1013able
4 жыл бұрын
It’s evident, ALOT of Christians only hear the word of God when they attend church and not actually open the Bible and read it themselves! It’s important as Christians we feed our spirit being with the word of God daily! The whole message Paul preach through out the New Testament says NOTHING YOU DO MAKES YOU RIGHTEOUS! Only through Jesus we have been made Righteous and have been redeemed. If you choose to live by the law then you must follow all of it or you will be considered sinning! The whole point of being a Christian is accepting Jesus lived a blameless life, died for your sins and rose up again and is seated in Heaven interceding on your behalf and you accept Him as your Lord and Savior! And to know that the only way to God our creator is through Jesus! We no longer follow the law, the only command we must follow as Jesus said is to Love our God with all our heart, soul and strength and to love our neighbors as we love ourselves! Love covers a multitude of sin! When you become a Christian you must turn away from your worldly desires, resist temptation and be lead by the Spirit of God and live in the Spirit! If you are living in the Spirit you will produce its fruits which are LOVE, joy, Peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, faithfulness, and self control! you will not be walking around criticizing and judging of others! Yes you can correct people but in love! and pray for them when you see they are not in the will of God. Lastly, being a Christian is having a relationship with God. YOU ARE NOT THE HOLY SPIRIT! Only the Holy Spirit can convict people of their sins! What is a sin for you is not a sin for everyone! Read the full book of Romans! Especially chapter 14! Remember we are humans, But all our our weaknesses have been made strong in the Lord! Let the Lord lead, guide, and protect His sheep in His perfect timing and perfect way! Please stop being a sin police/Pharisee!
@davia1013able
4 жыл бұрын
And I said all of that to say, each person Christian walk is different! Don’t judge people, especially if you’re going off of how you feel! It’s not about how you feel, but How God feels which is all aligned by His word and also personal convictions by the Holy Spirit! If someone is living outside the will of God, He will convict them! Living together is not a sin according to the Word of God, but if the Holy Spirit convicts you personally and say not to live together then the path of living together before marriage is not for you because God knows which route for your union is best! Clearly this is not their conviction and they are waiting on God, walking with God so they are not committing a sin in the act of living together. And If you want to get technical, they are only roommates. No where in the Bible it says a woman and a man can’t be roommates or even friends of same sex. So please, do us all of favor and open that good book and feed your spirit with more of God’s word than being on their KZitem channel judging.
@PHATGrace
4 жыл бұрын
davia1013able Read 1 Corinthians 5
@joyhengari6396
3 жыл бұрын
This is such an interesting and “woke” conversation 🌼 Props to both of you for shining light on this ✨
@jessefoster2832
Жыл бұрын
FOR GOD SO LOVED THE WORLD THAT HE GAVE HIS ONLY BEGOTTEN SON THAT WHOSOEVER SHALL BELIEVETH UNTO HIM SHALL NOT PERISH BUT HAVE EVERLASTING - JOHN 3:16
@bethwoods6005
4 жыл бұрын
Using those examples of sin does quite work, because both Paul and David repented for their sin. I’m not saying it’s a sin for you to be living together, but if it is I agree you shouldn’t have this platform because you wouldn’t be repenting. Like I said I don’t know if it’s a sin for you to live together. But I do want to understand, do you share a bed? And if you do, do you think you’re just training yourself for a sexless marriage? If you don’t really struggle with temptation which it sounds like you don’t, you’ve basically trained yourselves to enjoy a sexless marriage.
@DevaneeLaTrice
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for being transparent!!! Love you guys 🤍!
@jmorg044
2 жыл бұрын
You shouldn’t be living together before marriage is that’s simple ….. no excuse …. Ijs ….. you guys want to live together their really is NO JUSTIFYING …… you can bend the word to meet what u wana do .
@CB-oq5yc
2 жыл бұрын
and they weren’t having sex at this time before marriage… fornication is sex before marriage that’s the sin. being basically a “roommate” is not. Only God and then knows what they did and didn’t do
@wiser0185
4 жыл бұрын
I am Convince y'all are totally Lost and I hope God bring Revelation to U all life's and Souls.
@juanpaez9138
4 жыл бұрын
Tammy Jan yo you really ugly asl 😂😂
@kiatayana
4 жыл бұрын
Was this comment spirit led ? Us believers (I’m saying us) we need to do better with righteous correcting - being led by Holy Spirit NOT our flesh. If this comment was accurate, stating it in this manner would not have came across receptive.
@latina1700
4 жыл бұрын
Well you ain’t lying Tammy. For others on here. People really need to stop trying to be so politically correct. What the Jesus tell peter when Peter said Jesus should not die? Jesus turned and said to Peter, "Get behind me, Satan! You are a stumbling block to me; you do not have in mind the concerns of God, but merely human concerns.“. Would that had been well received if it was one of us? Is he not Holy Spirit led now because he says that, I mean some of y’all gotta open your eyes Jesus was hella offensive with some of the stuff he was saying and it wasn’t to offend the person it was to nip the issue in the behind and call it a day. Man the church has fallen away really on a terrible slide. Not only that “ the we shouldn’t judge” completely contradicts “ it is our duty to judge those in the church not outside” that verse had nothing to do with condemnation it had everything to do with let’s sharpen one another so we can get back up, let me help you. But now people in the church don’t even know how to be spirit led enough to help, they criticize and condemn. And then the one who is in need of help is so prideful they won’t receive it even if God sent it. I mean this is just disturbing the thousands of people who wana look like the world. Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it.But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it. This is what that looks like right now.
@wiser0185
4 жыл бұрын
@@latina1700 Look I would say this and never move from it " it's wrong to have sex before marriage, it's wrong to live/shack up together before marriage" when u are a Christian, they are Principles in the bible how WE should live our life's as Christians and I don't care what nobody say on her video sayin "it's right, nothing ain't wrong with what them are doin" Cause alot of ppl in the world are blind to God's word and open to the Flesh works/ word. When u have to correct ppl of their behavior the 1st thing ppl say "U JUDGING and CONDEMNING" finding excuses when them want to do as they PLEASE.
@latina1700
4 жыл бұрын
Tammy Jan I agree.
@bethwoods6005
4 жыл бұрын
Are you guys even sexually attracted to one another? If you never get tempted?
@Vanessa_Elaine
4 жыл бұрын
I’ve been waiting on this video bc I need answers
@missjesstalks2222
4 жыл бұрын
Primp NPropa girl same 😂
@beneanifa2610
4 жыл бұрын
For reall sis!😅
@sandersmarie0
3 жыл бұрын
You should call your supporters “worthy waiters” lol.. Great video!
@dedemandy-
4 жыл бұрын
This is great guys. The church is really annoying. I grew up in the church with parents who are pastors and my bf did not grow up in the church but ppl of the church would judge that and say we're unequally yoked meanwhile we're growing spiritually together and there are ppl at church living double lives...I Choose to just focus on Jesus and my relationship.
@MaryMary-gn3in
3 жыл бұрын
Love, Love, 💕💕💕 your channel 💯✅. You are a smart , beautiful young couple. I see you doing great things in your future. Just peeped hour nothing but tears for me. Glad to able catch some good stuff you talked about. Blessings to a wonderful man wife, Amen.
@psalmistabigail
4 жыл бұрын
As long as they control themselves and trust God to take them through this phase then they are fine. I wouldn't judge! They are perfectly fine. They have it all planned. They have counseling sessions like any other Christian couple would. God's Got them! At the end of the day, it's between them and God. Where were you when God probably told them it's fine to live together?? Just sayin Practically they best friends living together and waiting for marriage to tie everything together. 💕💕💕💕
@ryanmse30
4 жыл бұрын
Brother Dre, living together with sex is not considered sexual sin in the bible. This is a man made theology that arose from the Constantinian influence. Fornication, sexual immorality, and impurity have examples in the bible, and none of which are upon hetero couples who live together. Fornication is not when couples sleep together, Fornication is rape/incest/prostitution/same sex/adultery. There are no couple in the bible that were punished or chastized for making love. Premarital sex is a modern day concept, it is not a biblical concept. When 2 become one, they are no longer twain, they are married. Sex is marriage.
@tulimubonanamulemo5077
4 жыл бұрын
Do you think Genesis 2:24 applies here?
@CLGLifestyle
3 жыл бұрын
It is so important to trust in your unique relationship with the LORD. This brings back to my remembrance of the story of the prophet, who was ordered by the Spirit of God, in 1 Kings chapter 13, to not eat or go back the way he came. He was met by another prophet on his way back, who told him He had ANOTHER word from the angel of the Lord, saying to bring him home to eat. "So the prophet said to him, "Come home with me and eat." The man of God said, "I cannot turn back and go with you, nor can I eat bread or drink water with you in this place. I have been told by the word of the LORD: `You must not eat bread or drink water there or return by the way you came. '" "But the old prophet answered, “I am a prophet, too, just as you are. And an angel gave me this command from the LORD: ‘Bring him home with you so he can have something to eat and drink.’” But the old man was lying to him." "and the man of God started off again. But as he was traveling along, a lion came out and killed him. His body lay there on the road, with the donkey and the lion standing beside it."... He ended up listening and obeying the "old prophet" and ended up losing his life. Your video was a revelation in more ways than one. There is so much to write, but I will keep it simple- if I have not already. Our relationship with the LORD individually is all that matters-especially with the Holy Spirit leading. This can go back to Adam and Eve in the Garden. Adam's reverence for the LORD should have overpowered Eve's influence- even as his wife. It was still an individual decision to be made at the end of the day. "It takes two". An individual and the Holy Spirit. You guys love the LORD and have a reverence for Him that permits this "freedom" without conviction. It actually speaks of a level of maturity that should be celebrated and respected. That is what we received- FREEDOM- again-in Christ-to make decisions that we believe to be the best, and to know that if we have errored, our relationship with God is so strong and CONFIDENT- we know His love for us will convict at any time. Point blank period. There is nothing to hide or pretend to be in the presence of God. But as you said in other words, the "church" has mastered this and hates when they're exposed as "unfruitful" with their "works and faith"... God spoke to me through you for what is to come. Thanks for your voice. The language you spoke resonated, affirmed and blessed me. Points: God-centered. Set expectations... Stay busy... This is truly the year of unprecedented favor...2021 The LORD"S blessings upon you... Corwin
@ajamathis5392
4 жыл бұрын
Im not religious at all but I definitely think you should live with eachother before you get married. Living with someone is a huge part of a marriage and you need to know how your relationship changes when u live together.
@teelhya8205
3 жыл бұрын
True totally agree with people at thd Church judging others 🙄🙄🙄
@OrdinaryVizionary
4 жыл бұрын
Everyone in the comments feeling the need to judge please remember Romans 14. We are not God, these people are doing what they belief is right in the eyes of God. Who are we to judge? It is not a sin to live together and they have their own convictions. If they believe they are upholding God's standards , than all you need to do is pray. Just because your convictions dont allow you to live with someone doesn't mean everyone else is bound to that. Live in peace with everyone. You dont know their hearts. Great Vid. God Bless 🙏🏽
@PHATGrace
4 жыл бұрын
The Bible clearly states that we will know people by the fruits of their heart. We may never know their hearts as intimately as the one who fashioned them does. But he gave us all discernment for discerning the intent of a person through their words and actions which flow from the heart.
@OrdinaryVizionary
4 жыл бұрын
@@PHATGrace Are you in relationship with these people? What are you judging? You can't make a claim to know their fruit by just what they put on KZitem. That's my point. It does more harm then good.
@PHATGrace
4 жыл бұрын
Jeremiah Chandler Ditto.
@OrdinaryVizionary
4 жыл бұрын
@@PHATGrace I'm not the one making false judgments about people I don't know?
@chantelllovett4159
3 жыл бұрын
The Bible says to rightfully judge. You can exhort your brother in to repentance and righteousness it’s not judging. It’s correcting them
@mirrielleachu3231
2 жыл бұрын
Dont u know David was punished for killing another man and taking his wife. Go and read ur bible again and hear what the prophet said to David
@kmarie8206
4 жыл бұрын
So if living together is a marriage then what is the point of getting married? I’m confused lol. I don’t mean this in rude way, I’m only trying to understand. I want a marriage but my partner does not want marriage. He doesn’t see that a couple actually needs to get married to be a wife or a husband- to him it’s just a piece of paper. Completely different than I see. So I’m confused now if it sounds as if you don’t need to actually get married to have a marriage...?
@pollitasauce602
4 жыл бұрын
Get married lady to another Christian man. God will bless a marriage and honor a covenant made before him and others as witnesses to your union. God is not the author of confusion.
@tauriandeveaux4457
2 жыл бұрын
Personally it's none of my business what you do but all sin can not be equal otherwise we would be facing the same spiritual consequences for all actions. Engaging in premarital relations is no way the same equivalency as killing somebody's child. So common sense just tells us that they can't be the case. Also if it was then there would be no such thing as being under condemnation because we would all be into condemnation at all times since we all sin.
@shaneka2183
4 жыл бұрын
God Bless you both and your union 🙏🏽
@sharonnyamvula4618
4 жыл бұрын
Love you guys! I think that people should just listen to God more than they listen to what religion says. When you spend time with God, He WILL tell you or point out things that He doesn't feel comfortable with.
@psalmistabigail
4 жыл бұрын
Words of Wisdom - Dre.. the church should be a hospital and not courtroom for you to pass judgements on me💕💕
@bigkj2.027
2 жыл бұрын
Loving the content
@shemachris8681
3 жыл бұрын
I love you guys!!!
@jazzy47827
2 жыл бұрын
Great Advice
@brovaahood
2 жыл бұрын
Can’t find the word “Christianity” no where in the Bible.
@tobilobaoluwawole4781
4 жыл бұрын
I don’t want a wedding ring too💗
@nathanandcherelle
4 жыл бұрын
Your right bro there are a lot of churches that judge people
@PHATGrace
4 жыл бұрын
NATHAN AND CHERELLE Read 1 Corinthians 5 then maybe you’ll understand why they are commanded to do such! Stop following your own flesh and claiming it to be the Spirit of God.
@awsomemike11
4 жыл бұрын
Any buddy waiting in Hawaii? Would love to meet you!
@lucettedoram7735
4 жыл бұрын
thanks for sharing your experiences
@melaniek.breatherelaxmedit2271
Жыл бұрын
So off putting when people use religion to explain things.
@valshonegerald5666
3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful couple ❤️
@teddymugambi
4 жыл бұрын
❤
@indiyiadean7488
4 жыл бұрын
I love you guys. You all forever have my support I’m a young girl and this means so much to me for y’all to make videos like this
@mariahpowell
2 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙌🏼🙌🏼
@ericbravo8339
3 жыл бұрын
No one is perfect
@torriehill9157
Жыл бұрын
You should not have sinners, in church stray you away from attending the church. No one is perfect and that is the whole point of the church, for us, BORN SINNERS to attend and repent. Some of these points aren't Biblical. You all are trying to justify a spiritual conviction.
@whitneyallman8365
4 жыл бұрын
You are right not to be judgmental. Just pray for others.
@PHATGrace
4 жыл бұрын
Whitney Allman Read 1 Corinthians 5
@deannabthecpa
4 жыл бұрын
I 100% agree!!!!! It’s crazy how Jesus came 2020 years ago and ppl are still living/act like Pharisees
@ryanmse30
4 жыл бұрын
And you don't need a marriage license to really be married. It's just a piece of paper. Actually the Govnmt stole the right to marriage from God and now charge to license it. The marriage license may also be considered adultery, as it puts the govnmt in between them both in a 3some.
@Wensciacasimir
4 жыл бұрын
Heyyy 🥰🥰🥰
@mybeloveth825
2 жыл бұрын
But are you sold out for Christ though ? Cause the holyspirit would lead you not to shack up before you get married. And honestly you would be unequally yoked.. so with out Christ in the middle of your marriage at the forefront . ! Trust me when those trials come can you stand through the Storm??! ✌🏾
@gabbythorne1473
4 жыл бұрын
YALL BETTER PREACH!
@jyleel8
4 жыл бұрын
I thank you for you guys opened, people forget that the spirit of God is in control, if you have anchored yourself in Him and you are built up in Him move forward in Him you guys . And it’s the law vs The spirit not law vs common sense 🤣. Everyone is strong in different areas . A lot of People are weak in that area and it’s incomprehensible to them How God IS YOUR STRENGTH!!!! Not just reading it but living it takes Holy Spirit strength, Faith, and love and respect for one and other and people will get upset because truth be told they don’t have the 😡*^# to stand for something, and they lack understanding of the God and His spirit and His word. God loves fearless people who Trust Him to keep them in every way shape and form, I commend y’all. And it’s not church people you guys..... it’s a spirit of religion..... we have to understand and speak that because the enemy loves to see us at each other throats🤦🏽♀️, but HE HATES THE LIGHT SHINING ON HIM, SO LETS EXSPOSE HIS DIRTY BEHIND😡HE IS WEAK, He is lost, HE IS DEFEATED!!!! And I thank y’all for your testimony and truth.
@PHATGrace
4 жыл бұрын
Fay How does Satan hate the light shining on Him when He personally knows the creator of light? He himself is described in the Bible as an Angel of Light.
@jyleel8
4 жыл бұрын
He was an Angel of light BEFORE HIS FALL MY LOVE, now he is the prince of Darkness!!!! he no longer likes the light.... who is Jesus Christ.... your welcome!!!! And if you are referring to the scripture where it says He transforms himself into an angel of light, it refers to His deception because he can’t actually be a light of any kind.
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