MY OH MY !!! Everything Mariella mentioned to describe a narcissist and I mean EVERYTHING is precisely my ex husband. I actually got goosebumps and tears in my eyes listening to her !!! I saw my whole married life unfolding in this interview 😢 The saddest part in this nightmare I lived day in day out was that anyone outside our front door thought he was a most wonderful person and I was the villain for not appreciating what I had . I wasted the best years of my life with this individual and even though we have been separated for many years he still torments me by spreading rumours and untruths tarnishing my good name and playing the victim !! Plus a million other hurtful things of course . Its truly a living nightmare 😭You have to go through it to understand how damaging it is to an innocent victim !
@theinterviewer_thesheword
5 ай бұрын
So glad that you managed to escape that situation… wishing you a life long of healing ❤
@BenjaminCristina
7 ай бұрын
This should be a PSA at school and instead of the evening news on TV.
@theinterviewer_thesheword
5 ай бұрын
Agreed ❤
@LUV733
7 ай бұрын
I relate to every word in this discussion, having lived through a long relationship with my ex- therapist & endured putdowns & diminishment each time i try to challenge his behaviour. I left a few years ago, but the trauma bond is not broken, and it's a painful struggle to find inner peace & belief in myself. I feel paralysed a lot of the time. Not what I ever expected from who I believed was a delightful kind person. I have found that many counsellors do not really understand narcissistic behaviour unless they've had their own lived experience of it. I'm in my 60s now & feeling very low about my life since this relationship. A wonderful beginning but a devastating end, because I disagreed with him on issues & called him on his reactive rage & disrespect. Knowledge isn't sufficient to heal deeply & I'm now traumatised by the collective gaslighting from our governments 😢
@theinterviewer_thesheword
5 ай бұрын
Wishing you a full recovery and a life full of healing ❤
@BelieveNUToo
7 ай бұрын
This is exactly my live-in care receiver that I am taking care of. He used to be my friend of 25+ years and now he’s old washed up 78-year-old, and his narcissism has blown into the extreme. Thank you for your guidance! It is truly helping me to be awareof this issue
@OrdinarilyUnordinaryF
7 ай бұрын
Ms Dimech needs to train and educate the court experts used in separation and custody cases. So maybe then less people would loose their children to narcissistic partner, like I did.
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