I have been alone many many years. I remember the years I was married rushing around to everyone else's home and never having enough time for our own family. I actually prefer the alone time - I always get invited but turn down he invites because I now can't handle the noise and large groups of people.
@artisharma5422
Жыл бұрын
Ya same here, I get invitations but can’t handle too much noise
@sixtyandme
Жыл бұрын
Are you alone this Christmas? Does this make you feel a bit lonely? Let's have a chat and support each other! You are among friends!
@michelledougherty6238
Жыл бұрын
I work part time at McDonald's and I am going to a work party. I am bringing a dish. My coworkers are young but it is fun being with people with young personalities. Also, I am going to church and I love to sing along in church. I listen to music and it is therapy for my loneliness
@teresa5007
Жыл бұрын
When we’re lonely, it’s important to try to find a community to belong to, somewhere where you’re comfortable and you’re accepted without judgement. When you don’t have a family to love and support you, it can be very hard to find the confidence and strength to go out and contribute in society. Sometimes you can find that community at work with your colleagues or at a church. I wish you good luck going forward! 🌹
@joanie9923
Жыл бұрын
I cherish my solitude! After the last 2 relationships I've had it's wonderful just to be at peace in my own little space where no one can crash in and tell me what I must do ...or worse. Besides, we're never really alone. We all have our angels standing by and they're happy when you talk to them 😊 Merry Christmas everyone!
@teresa5007
Жыл бұрын
I understand you sister! Happy holidays to you. I wish you good health and happiness. ❤️🌹🎄🎉🥂
@kerryjames6312
Жыл бұрын
Amen
@annchee1329
Жыл бұрын
Agree
@kathydvorak3075
Жыл бұрын
I hear you, and agree!
@therange4033
Жыл бұрын
I'll be on my own, just me and my dowg! I bought a lovely (expensive!) dressed turkey crown and all the trimmings! A bottle of champagne, and a tasty pudding. Ziggy and I will share it and we'll have a lovely peaceful, tasty time!
@HisaLight2mypath
Жыл бұрын
Sounds content and lovely
@sundancer7381
Жыл бұрын
Being alone and being healthy is very different from "being alone and feeling physically challenged". If you have your health and aren't in pain, you can make it. It's when you can't walk, etc., or have constant pain that it is different. Thanks for this video. No one else has mentioned it.
@doloresaquines1529
8 ай бұрын
Sundance. I hear you, and understand. Not everyone is in optimum health and strength. Wishing you the best now and always.
@MrSharonrochelle
Жыл бұрын
Just this morning I had cashiers at two different markets that were downcast and with very little more than a smile from me shared the reasons for their gloom. One lost her mom a couple weeks ago and the other cashier is living out of her car. Then I was at a drive thru window and a 72 year old cashier shared that her husband and grown son each passed this year. That was three women within two miles of each other that have no plans except to stay in bed and cover their heads with a blanket on Christmas Day. My family carols shut ins on Christmas Eve in reflection I missed an opportunity to enlarge our choir. Even if such an invitation was turned down, I think it would have helped just to know a stranger cared. I just may retrace my steps and do some inviting. My house is like grand central station all time and I keep thinking how fun an all alone pajama movie day holiday would be. Sometimes we miss seeing how blessed we are or how much we have and could share. Thank you.
@sixtyandme
Жыл бұрын
Life can be so tough Sharon -you have a beautiful compassionate heart ❤️
@roseyc.5846
Жыл бұрын
Sharon Rochelle Merry Christmas, and many blessings. 🙏🏻❤️🎄
@MrSharonrochelle
Жыл бұрын
@@roseyc.5846 and good cheer, plenty and health to you Rosey.
@dianemertesdorf2749
Жыл бұрын
I am alone this year, bad winter storm and travel not advised. I am on the search for new friendships next year. Will just stitch, read, and watch movies.
@LS-um3zq
Жыл бұрын
I used to live in a small town. There was a couple that would host an open house close to Christmas. Everyone was invited. It was a great way to meet all the neighbors.
@brendalevesque6384
Жыл бұрын
Hi Margaret. I’ll be by myself this Christmas. I don’t feel lonely though. I’m seeing my daughter in London tomorrow for a birthday treat and my brother is coming on the 28th for the day. I’ll spend the day cooking my Christmas dinner and eating it, watching television and listening to the radio. A lovely peaceful day. Happy Christmas
@sixtyandme
Жыл бұрын
Sounds lovely!! Happy Christmas 🎄
@jan-christinejohnson5256
Жыл бұрын
Now that I retired earlier this year, I am making holiday and seasonal pins, brooches, coffee mug coasters. Enjoying wearing these happy colors during the holiday season. A dear friend was my first customer a couple of days ago. A 1960s "Colors a la Go-Go by Jan-Christine".
@susananderson9619
Жыл бұрын
Yes, last year ,I drove up from VA to PA and visited my sis, and 2 son's and 2 grandsons. But my car was destroyed by a repair place a couple months ago. So I'm alone, with out my family for the first time in my 64 years. Yes ,I'm depressed, trying to cheer up. I'm alive.
@kathybates1751
Жыл бұрын
O my. This to shall pass. Your car will eventually get repaired and maybe a spring visit. Even if you are with people, sometimes Christmas is a lonely ,depressing time.
@steph4160
Жыл бұрын
I'm not 60, however, I am incredibly grateful to have come across your channel several months back. Thank you. You've helped get me through some challenging days and scenarios. Love & Gratitude ❤
@lfogg5442
Жыл бұрын
When I realized I’d be alone on Christmas last year I sent an invitation to all my women friends inviting them to a Christmas Day brunch at my place. I expected very few would come, assuming they be with family or others. To my surprise and delight almost all of them were available and came. Some brought a friend and we had 22 people here on Christmas Day! i have to say it was one of the best Christmases I've ever had.
@sixtyandme
Жыл бұрын
Great idea!!!
@zanpsimer7685
Жыл бұрын
I planned early for this time of the year. I brought porch plants in and have warm yellow grow lights shining in my main living space during the times I most occupy the room. I got special treats and meals for the holiday. I did some organising earlier this month. I planned special projects for this week so I have a few to choose from based on my mood. I’m not comfortable meeting new people so these few things should help.
@cynthia216
Жыл бұрын
Polar Express and popcorn and very content.That's my evening,but 1st the gym,home,shower then.....me and I love it!!!!!!
@reynaGG8
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for being honest about the sad reality of being alone during the holidays. You are very compassionate and have a lot of helpful ideas in this video on a subject that is sometimes treated with toxic positivity. 🎄✨
@sixtyandme
Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome!
@jillychandler
10 ай бұрын
I will be 67 at this Christmas time, and have been alone every Christmas for at least the last 10 years - although I dis have my Charlie dog with me, who passed 5 years ago now, but now have my black rescue greyhound Madge with me these past 4 years. I could not cope with noise etc as I have become rather a recluse, and due to my sever anxiety, I have not been out into the world since Janauary 2020. I only go out to walk my Madge into nature in West Devon, England, where I live in a rural spot, which I love. It would be lovely to have the company on a nice man (and maybe his dog too) on Christmas Day, but I do not meet folk, so this will not happen! But I do enjoy being on my own most of the time. I would rather that than be with someone who made me miserable! xxx
@HisaLight2mypath
Жыл бұрын
I'm 34 years old and I am lonely I've always been lonely from when I was a child never have really had many long meaningful connections and holiday times are very hard. If I had the money I would jump on a plane at Christmas and birthdays. I don't feel that alone when I'm on a nice holiday somewhere people are often friendly in the hotels and treat tourists nicely
@stacysnider4899
Жыл бұрын
Hey Tea Talk, I feel your pain - so much I’m tearing up. 😢 Listen, sister!!! There are ways for you to meet people in your community - you can join clubs or groups to join people who have shared interests. For example, there is a local chess club my son joined & I joined a group of women who helped me up my lame crocheting skills. Churches are a good place to meet friends - they often have smaller ‘break out’ groups where you can develop deeper friendships. Then of course, there is always ‘Bumble BFF’ but I think it’s much harder to be close to people when you can’t easily meet up in person. However, it still is possible to develop a great friendship just online. Also, I find that volunteering and reaching out to others regularly can be a place to form friendships with people of ‘like mind’ since you connect on a regular basis (like a food pantry.) 💗 Here is some ‘Tough Love’ - Tea Talk: 💗 You are only as alone as you choose to be. This world is full of people who share your same characteristics who you could be friends with. We just have to get out of our comfort zone and be persistent to find them. It took me 20 years to find my 3 BFFs whom I trust with EVERYTHING. I made some missteps, picked some bad friends (one who STOLE from me), and had some horrible break ups that included the ‘ugly cries.’ But I I would do it all in a heart beat since that is what it took to finally find my people. You can do it, Tea Talk! I pray you step out and show yourself what you are made of. 💕
@gildasomia3461
Жыл бұрын
I enjoy escaping into my library books 😊
@shariatukorala7095
Жыл бұрын
I like being on my own with an occasional chat over the wall with my neighbors and one or two neighbors kids, and last but not least looking at my Christmas decorations... And playing with my dog, (now no longer by my side) yes ... And reminiscing about days gone by..when everything was slow, carefree, affordable, peaceful and just beautiful. Nope nothing planned, cause here you cant do anything....but i do love my own little home and i do have stuff to do in my home. You take care too..
@anne-marielandry4465
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for this very thoughtful video Margaret. I’ve been single for a very long time. While my parents were alive I’d fly to spend the holidays with the family but i stopped that after they passed on. Then I’d spend it with friends for the most part or alone. During the pandemic when we had to reduce our numbers I spent the holidays alone, I prepared the traditional foods, my place was decorated, I played Xmas music and replaced in person gatherings with phone calls. Everyone worries so much over this bit it’s really only one to two days then life resumes. This year I’m hosting Xmas Day dinner for my oldest friend and her husband . We have lots of snow here on the West Coast of Canada so it’s feeling very festive. Happy Holidays to you Margaret and all your followers ❤️🎄🇨🇦
@Londonamelia13
Жыл бұрын
Thank you x I am half this age no family or friends left and couldn’t find any videos about being alone at Christmas but it happens to all ages. Just shows she is just a number x
@HisaLight2mypath
Жыл бұрын
Me too I'm 34 years old and don't have many people around me in the holidays loneliness affects all of us it can come at any age
@nenameza2982
Жыл бұрын
Merry Christmas dear ❤I am 81 years old and I am very happy along. I walk I quit I eat what I want. I don’t know what longlines is. I have no grandchildren, only one Son in Hawaii, we visit each other when we want, never in holidays. We are very happy along and never never lonely 💕🙏🙏🌹🌹🌹
@rachellaird434
Жыл бұрын
I am 61 and single. Since my family celebrated Christmas on Thanksgiving Day (it was the only day all of us could get together for the holidays), I’m going to use these days off from work on the set-up of my side hustle. And I’m sure that I’ll spend some time reading, being with friends and working on other hobbies. Loved your video, Margaret. It’s given me more ideas on what to do in my alone time. Merry Christmas, everyone! 😊
@sixtyandme
Жыл бұрын
Wonderful to hear your plan - sounds exciting!!
@martna1
Жыл бұрын
I am almost 71 and my only child, now a 31 year old girl, stopped talking to me a year ago. I had to put my doggy down Sept. 19th, so I am truly alone. NEVER thought I would be treated this way. I am in SW Ohio.
@sixtyandme
Жыл бұрын
Sending you a hug! Take care x
@LM-yb6yr
Жыл бұрын
🙏
@teresa5007
Жыл бұрын
Life can be tough sometimes. Hang in there. Have a lovely Christmas and new year. Try to find pleasure in simple things and happy memories. ❤️🎄🥂
@stacysnider4899
Жыл бұрын
Martna, I’m sorry to hear of the situation with your daughter & the loss of your beloved pet. I pray for your reconciliation and that we all can focus on our love for each other even though we have differences. Take good care. 💕
@martna1
Жыл бұрын
@@stacysnider4899 Thank you. It's been really hard.
@phoebe6853
Жыл бұрын
You have a great international accent. Are you American-Brit or American-Kiwi? I'm not 60, I'm 29, and will be alone this Christmas. Last year I was in the same situation and I tried really hard to find something productive to do on Christmas day. I searched for soup kitchens to work in, etc. This year I just gave up on that. I found no motivation to start asking my friends: if they have plans, can I join them, are there any community events on. Everyone here is so selfish, I really see it as you either have a loving family, or you don't. The loving family camp get a lovely ride, lots of care, business, it's natural. If you don't have family, as you say you have to be creative. I'm filled with a great sense of emptiness. I basically wish for a partner in life, just so I don't have to be alone on Christmas!!!
@sixtyandme
Жыл бұрын
Born in England, raised in Canada, lived in the United States, and now living in Switzerland, global citizen :-)
@dorothywood8498
Жыл бұрын
Honey, at 29 the world is your oyster!!!... find new friends that are caring! Do you have MeetUps in your area...Google it!! There are 100's of Single women Meet-up groups all over (the world!)....they do all kinds of things together...dinner out, movies, hobbies, book clubs sports, art, zumba, yoga...you name it!!...and you can start your own Meet-up! Good luck, have fun!!
@PiperX1X
Жыл бұрын
My God I'm a bloke sat on my own with no heating because I can't afford to put it on and I've not heard from anyone or just a knock on the door to make sure I'm ok because as I'm disabled with copd it's obvious that nobody gives two boots about others. This world has changed as when I grew up you made sure those around you were ok, but this obviously is a thing of the past. I've never felt so alone as I have this Xmas. But merry Xmas anyway
@admindesk2760
Жыл бұрын
Margaret, you bring such comfort, peace and solace to so many. Probably a great many more people than you ever imagined. Thank you for all you do and for leading such a beautiful organization. I really don't want to think of not having Sixty and Me as a part of my KZitem viewing habit. Sending you my very best wishes from Manhattan and Palm Beach, FL.
@admindesk2760
Жыл бұрын
@sixtyandme_ Congrats, Margaret! When sleazy scammers impersonate you, you know you've reached a new level of fame. PS. I'd be happy to "massage" [sic] you, as requested above. haha. goodnight.
@rebekkad.2092
Жыл бұрын
Go to a movie and enjoy some popcorn. That's always a good distraction.
@sixtyandme
Жыл бұрын
Are you planning to see avatar?
@roseyc.5846
Жыл бұрын
Margaret, I could be alone very easily. Instead, I'm dealing with my dysfunctional family..two adult children who aren't on speaking terms with each other and three grandkids. Loneliness is very real for a lot of us; it's my reality all year long. I so wish I had a loving, caring partner and a life of my own. But, I've been single for a very long time. I live right upstairs from my son, his fiancee and their child. I still feel alone, even though they include me most times. I long for something of my own. Christmas here in the States is very commercialized and there's WAY too much pressure to be "happy" with lots of loving family members. It's not warm and simple as when I was growing up. Let's remember that, like New Year's Eve, it's ONE DAY. Love and blessings to all, and, thank you Margaret..our family here is an absolute godsend for us. Rosemarie 💖
@sixtyandme
Жыл бұрын
Very happy you are part of our family Rosey - it’s a pleasure to have you in my life x❤️
@roseyc.5846
Жыл бұрын
🤗❤️🎄
@stacysnider4899
Жыл бұрын
Hey Rosey, I hear you about the commercialization of Christmas! It’s gotten truly insane. As I get older, I’m thinking that focusing on Jesus at Christmas is the best idea EVER. He is the ‘reason for the season’ and even though we live in the materialistic U.S., we can choose to turn away from that and towards the Lord more frequently instead. There is a patch of woods I like to walk in that has a bridge over a rocky stream. I like to stop there and say a prayer - but when it’s too cold I just look out my window and talk to Jesus. Christmas is only one day, but the love of Jesus permeates every day if we draw close to Him. I pray that your 2 kids resolve their differences or at least agree to disagree. We can’t control what they do but we can be persistent in our prayers. Merry Christmas, Rosey. 💕
@WVgrl59
Жыл бұрын
If you don't know anyone in your area see if the area has a senior center where you can meet people.
@teresa5007
Жыл бұрын
Dear Margaret. I wish you and all your viewers a lovely Christmas and a happy and healthy New Year. This time of year can be hard if you’re lonely or socially isolated but being part of a community like this can be a big help. I draw a lot of strength from the Content creators that I follow, including you Margaret. This video was very inspirational. Thank you. ❤️🎄❄️☃️🥂🎉🍝🍷🍰
@sixtyandme
Жыл бұрын
You are very welcome Teresa - Happy Christmas ❤️
@amycoffin826
Жыл бұрын
This was a very encouraging, true, and worthwhile video to watch during the holiday season, esp. if you are alone. Thank you so much!!!
@CindiByTheBook
Жыл бұрын
This may sound bizarre, but for me, it works. When I am alone, I talk to myself. Out loud. Somehow it works. I don't feel alone.
@traceywainwright
Жыл бұрын
Same here
@mademsoisellerhapsody
Жыл бұрын
SAME ❤️
@moumoun7
Жыл бұрын
Same. But I only talk to myself when I'm happy. Otherwise, I can be very quiet...
@vernakg
8 ай бұрын
Since I was recovering from COVID, I was quiet and alone for the holidays. However my sister in CA contacted a cousin nearby who brought me a large gift filled with TP, Kleenex, olives, and cup of soups. All wrapped up in bright orange wrapping paper. My siblings reached out with a video chat. So I was blessed.
@robinshano5282
Жыл бұрын
I appreciate this. Feeling particularly lonely this year. After being with others for years, traditions etc, having to adapt to being alone has been a gut punch. Personally, not being the one to make all the holiday stuff happen (I know my problem) is so hard. I’m working on it!
@GwenMotoGirl
Жыл бұрын
You are a wonderful person, Margaret. Thank you for all that you do to support us at this time in our lives. I’m grateful to be among those who are enjoying this single time in my life. I wasn’t sure that this was possible, but here I am. I’m going to hang out at my home and maybe work on some projects. I was fortunate to see all my daughters and grands during Thanksgiving week. This includes my estranged daughter. My heart is full, even though our relationship is still not mended. I believe for that day, though. I’ll be back at work on Dec 27. Merry Christmas!
@vickybruck1353
Жыл бұрын
My daughter is estranged from me and the rest of our family. So painful...maybe her heart will be softened, soon and she will respond when we keep on reaching out. I pray your daughter does also.
@GwenMotoGirl
Жыл бұрын
@@vickybruck1353 I pray the same for you, Vicky. A family member died, and we all came together for the funeral, and we spent time together. I got to hug her. I asked her to unblock me. I really believe for both of us - you and me - that we will reunite peacefully and very soon.
@kellyb.1257
Жыл бұрын
Its just one day. It will pass.
@purpleviolet207
Жыл бұрын
Well said.👏 That is very true.👍
@elizabethbayless8867
Жыл бұрын
Ummm, alone that one day is indicative of possibly ongoing loneliness. Let’s be careful not to be too flippant.
@kellyb.1257
Жыл бұрын
@@elizabethbayless8867 or you can just lie down and lament for your bad fate...
@Julie-ii9px
Жыл бұрын
@@elizabethbayless8867 totally agree. Also it's not just one day for me it's six weeks of lead up and people and tv boasting about/idealising happy family's. It is a very painful day for a.lot of people.
@jeanjacobs9965
Жыл бұрын
Greetings Margaret! Thank you so much for just being there and being who you are with us. It is so comforting to know that you are there! I really appreciate you. Love and blessings ♥️🙏
@roseyc.5846
Жыл бұрын
She is AMAZING! Such a blessing.
@nydiamontanez8025
Жыл бұрын
My son and his wife go to her family on Xmas so I will spend it by myself watching movies. I will have them over for New Years Eve. I'm okay with this arrangement as long as I get to spend one day together. I don't want us to feel rushed or pressured.
@nydiamontanez8025
Жыл бұрын
@sixtyandme_ Sorry, don't know what that is.
@kerryjames6312
Жыл бұрын
During my darkest times God shines his light
@ohdear2275
9 ай бұрын
This will be my first Christmas utterly alone. I'm going to watch a favorite Jane Austen movie or two and drink hot chocolate with lots of marshmallows in it with my cats 🙂 and enjoy the time off from work.
@oceanpoet1
Жыл бұрын
one town over from me had a potluck at the beach under one of the pavilions. over 100 people showed at thanks giving. its happening again on Christmas. hugs. Sandi from st Pete Florida
@betsymckiniry7361
Жыл бұрын
I grew up in St. Pete, and just last week met up with friends of 60 years there!
@PeachesSkinCare
Жыл бұрын
To those of you alone❤️ Find a neighbor or friend and ask them if they would mind you joining their family this holiday. I have 3 different people who asked me and we felt honored and humbled to be asked. Helping others and being there for others is what Christmas is about. Don’t be afraid to ask and to not want to be alone. Trust me it would make the other person so happy. 🧡 I wish I could have all of you over. Happy Holidays 🙌🏻🍑🧡Lisa
@sixtyandme
Жыл бұрын
Love your beautiful heart! ❤️ Happy Christmas xx
@janna7777
Жыл бұрын
Beautiful idea with such a great Christmas spirit and blessings ❤️💖💗🌹🙂
@PeachesSkinCare
Жыл бұрын
@@sixtyandme 🙌🏻🍑🧡
@PeachesSkinCare
Жыл бұрын
@@janna7777 blessings to you Janna🙌🏻🍑🧡Lisa
@fresh.prince7472
Жыл бұрын
I hardly talk to my neighbours as for family we just drift apart depression is getting worse to
@calmblueocean1177
Жыл бұрын
When you know you will be alone over the holidays, great idea to be creative. Invent your own holiday tradition. Decorate. Plan a nice meal for yourself. Play upbeat christmas tunes. I love ❤️ the idea to invite another person who is alone over for a cup of coffee and chat. That could be a new Christmas tradition. Great advice! Thanks Margaret!
@DP-ez1kt
Жыл бұрын
It's just another day for me.
@jivamom
Жыл бұрын
I so relate to everything you've said. You are so supportive and helpful with all of the issues I have since turning 60 this year. I so appreciate all of your discussions. Gosh, you are so wonderful!
@neomidevaughn9530
Жыл бұрын
Margaret, I wish you a lovely Christmas and a Happy New Year. Looking forward to more of your inspirational chats.
@1962Melody
8 ай бұрын
My neighbors and I got together every Christmas for the last 6 years. It's been fun! Just snacks. All single ladies.
@patriciamacaluso4289
Жыл бұрын
Merry Christmas 🎄🌟Margaret & all sixty and Me sisterhood 🎄🌟 We are never truly alone 🎄🌟 much love to all
@deerhaven3350
Жыл бұрын
Winter is the time of year I get caught up on re-stocking my inventory of knit hats, headbands, dish cloths and painted watercolor notecards to sell at my craft fair booth next August and November. I'm 67 and it's so much fun for me to do that. I did invite my brother, who lives alone, over for Christmas so he'll be here for a couple of days starting Christmas Eve, and I'll do a big roast turkey with all the trimmings for us. Also, I have a BFF who lives nearby and she was here yesterday for the winter solstice. Other hobbies I enjoy are playing my piano and researching genealogy so I've got plenty to keep me busy. I honestly don't get lonely. Perhaps I may seem odd to some, but for me it's all good. Happy Holidays!
@abbiekaric8949
Жыл бұрын
This is a wonderful video. I'm fortunate to not be in this situation at this time, but I realized as I listened to you, these are wonderful suggestions for all year round. I do make it a point to gather my single friends around me during the holidays and I love having them with me.
@Cosette2022
Жыл бұрын
I like to go out and play Bingo. It’s kinda a solo sport. Gives your brain a workout looking for the numbers and patterns ❤ plus you could win 💰
@monalisa233
Жыл бұрын
My kids and grandkids are very busy or too small to spend a lot of time with this year. My brother and a dear friend passed away in Nov and it ended a lot of Holiday plans taking care of many things for that. So I am giving myself a break this year and only doing what I can. Spending some time alone baking with Christmas carols playing in the background. Don't feel like shopping so I'm not. I will be with my boyfriends family on Christmas Eve and then at my daughters Christmas day, but looking forward to just relaxing alone on that Monday we are off work. I'm taking a bit more alone time to just balance myself right now. Sometimes you feel you need to do so much. Not this year! Much Love to you Margret and all our friends here.
@SherylCraig-mh6oh
Жыл бұрын
I am retired and live alone in a small apartment. I love to give presents to my friends but don't have much money to spend. One of my best ideas was making little bouquets of evergreen sprigs, pine or cedar, holly, and ivy, wrapping them in green tissue paper, and tying them with a red ribbon. If you don't have a pine tree or holly bush of your own, the evergreens are easily procured from any grocery store florist and are affordable. You can add a red carnation to each bouquet, if you choose. They make really fragrant, cheerful little gifts that last for weeks in water. People usually tie the red ribbons around the necks of their vases. Be sure to keep one bouquet for yourself to enjoy. If I am well enough, I bake cookies and decorate my little apartment just for myself and whoever stops by. I watch Christmas movies, and listen to Christmas carols and Christmas church services on TV. I light candles and work Christmas-themed jigsaw puzzles. I love Christmas, even when I am alone.
@joancarucci8290
Жыл бұрын
Hello Margaret,,great suggestions,, Holidays are not joyous for everyone. Being along is different for everyone,,personally I plan to watch a great movie or start a new gig saw puzzle,,Life is what we make it,,soooo make it as good as you can.Merry Christmas and Happy New Year and thank you for all the fabulous videos during the year.
@doveandolive1153
Жыл бұрын
When I find myself alone at Christmas, I always enjoy a nice/treat kind of breakfast; this will work for whatever that maybe for you. Weather permitting I will go see an afternoon movie as there is always great movies coming out around Christmas. If weather is not good, then curl up with a good book or catch up on some movies or tv shows. Some years I have volunteered for a couple of hours too. Other years I make a favorite meal for lunch or supper for myself. I think as we get older it is nice if we have friends that we can get together for a couple of hours but also recognize it no longer has to on the specific day.
@robinschrock7328
Жыл бұрын
Thank You for the wonderful support today 💕❤️💃
@d.l.dickson7459
Жыл бұрын
Yes Margaret what you say has such worth. Part of the loneliness can exist even when there are people around you because you think of what was and you are not of use as you once were. I feel this can be dismissed by being grateful for what you have and not for what you used to have. So many have so little that reaching out to help others can help you as well as those you donate to. Those sparkling outfits or sleek pants that no longer fit or that you have nowhere to wear give to women's groups to bring hope to them. So if you are alone, wear. eat, or drink something that makes you happy. Put out your best cup, glass, and plate light candles and listen to a song that brings you joy. Be grateful that you are in a safe warm place and have the freedom to make your own choices. Toast to yourself and a better world in 2023 forwardneighborhood groups, etc, but due to covid, the flu and RSV I cannot put myself out here. I am looking forward to traveling and having new experiences this year. All the best from the cold northeast.
@hipoint40cal39
Жыл бұрын
Christmas was wonderful back in the 1970s as a child....now it's just hell.
@mademsoisellerhapsody
Жыл бұрын
Ideas for holiday DVDs movies to watch: Moonstruck, The Detectorists Season 1-3, PNB Nutcracker Ballet (Stowell), or Coppelia (a ballet comedy) Merry Christmas to the Sixty and Me community 🎁❤️
@jillychandler
10 ай бұрын
My Mother always had a jigsaw on the go at Christmas time, and I too have one I have just started! I bought it from Kate at The Last Homely House on You tube, and it is a picture of her beautiful hand made stained glass window in her kitchen - it is really tricky! Only 500 pieces, but they are bigger than usual, and well made, I recommend it to anyone. xxx
@RoseTheOver70MakeupArtist
Жыл бұрын
Oh Margaret that was some realism that we all need to realize at our age. If you are alone yourself please remember that you have all of us mature women following you listening to your words of advice, helping us, making groups for us, it's the most amazing thing I think I've ever seen, most of us never even think of these ways to help one anothe,r not only at Christmas but many a day! God bless you I'm sure I speak for everyone on your channel that we all love you we realize how much you help us and MayGod bless you, and have a Merry Merry Christmas our dear friend! 🎄🌹❤️😇
@sixtyandme
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Rose ❤️
@sallyclay1974
Жыл бұрын
Ive adjusted to being alone. U cant complain. Every time,I think about having a relationship, I get cold feet because, I realize, it's work, to get to know someone.
@Iamrichiej
Жыл бұрын
it excites me to see people testimonies knowing they are willing to try something new to achieve their desires, all that is required is to put all into actions. I’m very much opened to starting a growth friendship. I wish you and yours an Happy New Year.
@cassandramiguel1163
Жыл бұрын
I'm home alone right now during Xmas and I'm in my most peaceful state.🙃 Just watching funny videos, documentary's, christian movies, etc. I know that my other option is being with my family which will end up costing me more in the end. Being with them will only result in someone trying to fight someone, the cops called, or just criticizing one another's bodies. I pity them bc that's what they deserve. So yes I'm alone during Christmas but with PEACE. 🥰
@evaclaudialeiner1255
Жыл бұрын
Thank you !I wish you a good christmas und a happy New year!
@stacysnider4899
Жыл бұрын
Thanks, Eva. Merry Christmas!
@kellyb.1257
Жыл бұрын
I plan to watch films, have a good meal and wine, relax, sleep.After the holidays I will be busy again so I must profit. I am also going to meet a new neighbour and offer her Christmas cookies that I baked.😊 This is the good side. On the other hand, I am cleaning and reorganising my drawers as my house got burglarized by gipsies who stole dear to me expensive items and made a mess and threw everything out in piles and broke things and opened with a knife my new mattress, so all this contributes to my sadness and loneliness but the days pass so fast! Be careful all! Put alarms in your houses!
@sixtyandme
Жыл бұрын
Sending you love ❤️
@kellyb.1257
Жыл бұрын
@@sixtyandme 🥰
@sunshine-bs2jx
Жыл бұрын
So sorry to hear this x
@doloresaquines1529
8 ай бұрын
Asife from wishing you a very peaceful and pleasant Christmas, Margaret, I commend you most heartily for your patience!
@TheCynthiaRice
Жыл бұрын
Since my husband passed I have had my holidays alone.
@stacysnider4899
Жыл бұрын
We are never truly alone because God never goes anywhere - He is always here. 💗
@sharonyoung3738
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your message. I,m 78 yes old and on my own for first time in many years. Your comments were reassuring to me that I am not alone. Thanks
@purpleviolet207
Жыл бұрын
🌲Margaret, I am wishing you love and blessings for Christmas and the new year!❤
@carolynnewyork6919
Жыл бұрын
Happy Xmas, you look stunning.
@user-gh9ow5lg3z
Жыл бұрын
Hello Margaret, You are so lovely and special! I enjoy your videos so much! I have been a widow for 21 yrs and I live alone. I am rarely lonely. I moved to Nevada two plus years ago because my children and grandchildren moved here and I had no choice. Moving from the east coast, where I lived for 70 yrs to Nevada has been extremely difficult for me. I have made a few wonderful friends and we exercise and enjoy some activities together. I have never been lonely. I actually enjoy living alone especially after so many years. I am good at entertaining myself. Even though my family lives within 10 minutes from me, I do get somber and sad this time of year since my parents passed. I was blessed with wonderful parents. They made the holidays so special. My mom decorated our house ,baked cookies and special dinners and my dad got the tree and we all decorated it together. Even when I was very young, I recognized how special my world was! I realize that I am very fortunate to have had all those great experiences, but, it is bitter sweet. My children have made their own traditions and I can understand that, but, I just can't get used to those ideas. I feel lonely at this time because what I knew is long over and I miss those warm feelings of comfort that my parents made a tradition. I know that I am blessed to have my family so close and I adore my grandchildren and they are still young enough to think that their " Grammy " is tops. I will enjoy the holidays and feel blessed to have family close and good health and special friends. Merry Christmas, Margaret and I wish you a joyous and happy holiday celebration. Linda from Las Vegas, Nevada PS: Love your necklace! xo
@stacysnider4899
Жыл бұрын
Hi Linda, My Dad retired in Nevada - I hear you. What caught my attention about your post is the new traditions your kids are making & how you can’t get used to them. I have 3 adult kids and their opinions and ways of doing things are SO far from mine (for example, my son is a Vegan and has a soy ‘Tofurkey’ for holidays! 🤢) My heart goes out to you because it seems like these things might have perhaps gotten in the way of your time together. 2 of my kids ideas of how life should run are so extreme that I just can’t relate and they know it! But I told them I love them no matter what (like I am sure you do) and try not to let that interfere with what really matters. What really matters is not our differences of opinion but the deep love we share that will stand the test of time. It’s wonderful that you had these beautiful traditions growing up. We try to lead our children in the best way we know how but they have their own minds and I realized at some point that I had to let a lot of stuff go or it would drive me bonkers. For me, the best I can do is let go what I can’t control and try to show them love in the best way that I can. You already have a good head start because you are such a great Grandmother. I pray you stay close to them - maybe you can start a new tradition of being the one family that is the brightest ray of love around, in spite of this crazy world we live in! Just sharing your warmth and love is more than enough because most of that other stuff is immaterial. The only thing that truly matters is having God’s light shine through us. Merry Christmas. 💕
@monsoongirlnyc
Жыл бұрын
Gorgeous necklace. Happy Christmas!
@jacci444
Жыл бұрын
Love your comment of being brave!!
@deRose03
Жыл бұрын
I'm alone this Christmas like at all holidays. A friend invited me to her house where her family will be celebrating today, but I know it's a charity invitation because they know I have no family, so I didn't go. It's not enjoyable when it's done out of charity. I would only love it if there would be mutual enjoyment from each other's company for all. Today I'm watching Christmas movies and eating delicious foods. I'm fortunate to have enough heat at home when it's so freezing outside. It's starting to get cheery and cozy. I hope all those who are alone this Christmas will cheer up and do something fun at home, turn on Christmas carols on KZitem and make a cup of hot chocolate. Sending you all love.
@rsg6207
Жыл бұрын
You should be grateful to have a friend who wants you to share her Christmas. Wouldn't you do this for her in the same situation? Extending an invitation to a friend is certainly not "charity" in the sense you mean. Sometimes we need to reframe a situation like this one.
@deRose03
Жыл бұрын
@@rsg6207 She has done this several times before and I visited with gratitude, but I could see and feel that they all would rather spend time as a family without me there. You weren't there, you didn't feel what I felt and you can't know this better than I. Every situation can't be the same - it's unique to the one who experiences it.
@Iamrichiej
Жыл бұрын
@@deRose03 I can relate to what you just said and trust me I know what it means when you said charity. Well, I don’t blame myself a window trying to stay close to family. I’m very much opened to starting a growth friendship. I wish you and yours an Happy New Year.
@marystackpole118
Жыл бұрын
Thank you SINCERELY!!! Helps me tremendously!!♥️♥️♥️
@ohdear2275
9 ай бұрын
I love your ideas, dear Margaret. And I have a thing for doors and gates and take pictures of interesting ones.
@RealinNYC
Жыл бұрын
ALL are excellent ideas.
@GlendaGray-xi9uz
Жыл бұрын
I love " Painting with a Twist" it's really fun with great Art Instruction. Thanks for the great content!!
@dianaflegal4495
Жыл бұрын
Happy holidays- enjoy that train journey
@Iamrichiej
Жыл бұрын
Happy New Year to you 🤗
@daynaechols3939
Жыл бұрын
Every Christmas for the past 10 years never included. Never invited. I tried to set up a Cousins Brunch for this Christmas eve and they canceled last minute. My family stopped coming together and we tried to bring everyone together this year. I set it up. And they claim the weather was too bad yet they are Christmas shopping. So yeah I tried to host something. Still alone. F christmas
@sixtyandme
Жыл бұрын
Sending you hugs ❤️
@dorothywood8498
Жыл бұрын
Forget family...find friends or make new friends...who become your new family!!...Christmas is just 1 day...that's the good news! Good luck to you!
@estellacoggins715
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your life with us. Merry Christmas to you.
@dorothywood8498
Жыл бұрын
I promised myself last Christmas that I would finally fix this "lonely holiday" syndrome! I've been single for several years and decided to meet someone on a dating app!...well, it's Aug and I'm still procrastinating!! I'm going to jump in this week, fill in the online application, pay...and get my hair & nails done!!!!😊....will report back!!
@doloresaquines1529
8 ай бұрын
Dorothy. Just be very very careful. That's all. Wishing you a pleasant festive season.
@denisel780
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. 💗 Wishing you a very Merry Christmas Margaret 🎄and happy travels through the winter months too!
@kerryjames6312
Жыл бұрын
I am 54 am learning don't let your adult children move back into home or them and their grandchildren to stay for few days learnt that hard way
@Iamrichiej
Жыл бұрын
I can relate to what you just said and trust me I know what it means when you said the hard way. Well, I don’t blame myself a window trying to stay close to family. I’m very much opened to starting a growth friendship. I wish you and yours an Happy New Year.
@barbaradover7073
Ай бұрын
Margaret, thanks for your words of wisdom! Your talks are so uplifting! What is the name of the game you play with your grandson where you ask questions to open dialogue? It sounds fun! Thanks!
@sixtyandme
Ай бұрын
Hey Barbara. I really can’t remember the exact title but if you go to Amazon and type in something like family questions to start a conversation, you’ll find all kinds of options. I hope you find something you love.
@kellyt2018
Жыл бұрын
Holidays this time of year are easily emotional and should stay perceived as magical. Like it is not best to try to settle a difference with someone , you haven’t seen since last July. I find, that once children grown. Even with children of their want to experience Christmas at their own house/home.
@connietriboulet4783
Жыл бұрын
Today is Christmas Eve,our mailman was taking a much needed break in our apartment building, I gave him a coffee card he just beamed, more than any family member getting a gift! I have gone on one big walk, looking at lights,I haVen't done Christmas cards since covid, but dud 100 cards for people in oyd apartment building.senior apartment. I have meet up with my son before the holidays because of children, having shared custody. I eat what I want for Christmas eve and day.Dropped off a few things for others.Put out decorations on our give away table. I have a dog so he gets special treats. But have a special coffee time, had special breakfast one year in a restaurant.There are alot of single adults who do breakfast by them selfs. CHECK the paper for holiday deals.Zoo lights in Seattle. Just go with the flow...
@Iamrichiej
Жыл бұрын
I can relate to what you just said. Well, I don’t blame myself a widow trying to stay close to family. I’m very much opened to starting a growth friendship. I wish you and yours an Happy New Year.
@jklynb
Жыл бұрын
I’ve never in my life been this lonely and bored at Christmas. The weather is terrible here, family is either afraid of germs or just don’t want to come over. I’ve done nothing but sleep since we got off of work. I’m happy for the peace of God but this is really different from what I’m used to.
@justsayin397
Жыл бұрын
Thank you Margaret you are a very wise, kind and caring person. ❤️
@barbararowan8738
Жыл бұрын
Thank you. A great video
@tessapiotrowskikristensen8058
Жыл бұрын
Excellent ideas! Thank you.
@Iamrichiej
Жыл бұрын
What will be your actions? Would you love to share some insights?
@kellyb.1257
Жыл бұрын
Couldn't be lonelier!
@sheilacarter4741
Жыл бұрын
I'm right there with you!!
@sixtyandme
Жыл бұрын
Sending a hug to you - x
@vickybruck1353
Жыл бұрын
Hang in there, Girl!
@kellyb.1257
Жыл бұрын
@@sixtyandme Thank you!🥰
@moumoun7
Жыл бұрын
sending you a virtual hug. we're all connected.
@beaulieuc8910
9 ай бұрын
i am solo over xmas and I will be doing some diamond painting and decoupage, i can't wait uk
@sixtyandme
9 ай бұрын
I am solo too - sending my love 🎄
@galeway1697
8 ай бұрын
Merry Christmas!
@jacci444
Жыл бұрын
Your fantastic. Love the idea of an open house with people in my community. I’m going to try this…if anything I’ve given it a go!!
@mademsoisellerhapsody
Жыл бұрын
Also for figure skating fans, Russia broadcasts their Russian national figure skating 2023 from December 20-25th ( yes, Christmas Day!) on KZitem. ⛸⛸
@stacysnider4899
Жыл бұрын
My friend son won National Junior skating championships & was eventually lined up for the Olympics. She always got him Russian coaches & said they were the BEST!! 👍
@jeankarcher2460
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. I needed your ideas and encouragement. Happy holidays from New Mexico.
@barbchrisman5066
Жыл бұрын
You look fantastic! Happy new year! Thanks for your encouraging videos!
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