Thank you, Heidi, for discussing this in a lovely way! I too was born as biologically male, and have lived in that social role. But I have always been aware of a different, special, feminine spirit within me. I try to connect with her, secretly, as often as I can. Watching your videos helps strengthen my desire and my confidence. I may never reach the level of outward expression that I constantly desire, but I am growing in my enthusiasm to proclaim, “I LOVE being a girl!” I get the feeling that we are sisters in so many ways, and you love making the same proclamation, too! Thanks for showing other girls the joys we long for! You are a very special lady! May I offer you an affectionate hug? Stephie
@heidiphox100
3 ай бұрын
Thanks Stephie
@courtneyndtrans4425
3 ай бұрын
It’s a difficult and confusing topic. I’ve been on hrt 3 years now and haven’t transitioned. I like to think I can slip back and forth between the two sides. Do what makes you feel comfortable and happy, and live your best life.
@telescope497
3 ай бұрын
As a straight, married heterosexual crossdresser, I too wonder about the why, what and how of crossdressing. The whole concept is huge and multifaceted. But I do know one thing, I do not want to be a woman, but I do enjoy dressing as one from time to time. I expect others will feel differently - that's cool. Great video Miss Heidi. Have fun...
@heidiphox100
3 ай бұрын
Sometimes I will backpack for a few days; but I don’t want to be a hermit. Sometimes I will sing karaoke; but I don’t want to be a rockstar. Sometimes I will create interesting sculptures; but I don’t want to be an artist. Etc
@SandalsandHeels
3 ай бұрын
Likewise I'm a straight male who just likes seeing women who have nice legs and feet. But rarely see many these days. So I have to create my own images and wear nice shoes and sandals myself. I admire you crossdressers who brighten my days.
@sheilalynn3615
3 ай бұрын
Heidi, while listening to you struggle with the xy, he, she, boy, girl, I had such a big smile that my cheeks were hurting. Because we all knew what you were trying to convey about gender roles. This being PRIDE month puts a spotlight on individuals who are considered by the majority as societally nonconforming. This is a subject that can easily get deep in the weeds. Last night at Sephora a customer said (thank you for what you do.) I think she was referring to the pushing gender norms in a positive way, (I try). Heidi, I admire you for your positive gender bending topics, and, well of course, for your shoe and boot collection. Thanks from all of us who enjoy your posts. Oh, am I a celebrity now, lol. Peace Sheila
@Prence
3 ай бұрын
I’m a trans woman and I looked like Heidi, I would transition completely. She’s so amazingly beautiful. I’m so jealous of just how beautiful she is. ❤️🫂👧
@trentgentry3929
3 ай бұрын
Lol RIGHT!!!! Actually Heidi would be the word for the new gender of those born beautiful.....but I think she's the only one.....like a unicorn....😊
@Prence
3 ай бұрын
@@trentgentry3929 she is a unicorn.
@louiebluecoat7891
3 ай бұрын
There is a book called Two Spirit Acts on Amazon, that might be a good place to start. I love your look! This month is LBGTQ and Native American Heritage Month, so very appropriate subject! Have a great weekend Heidi! ❤️☺️
@davidholmes2361
20 күн бұрын
This might be out of place when you were being serious but, you look good in that white dress
@auggies
3 ай бұрын
I just enjoy the appearance in feminine form.
@LaraMuir
2 ай бұрын
Thanks for starting this discussion! I've come to realize a bit too late in life that I should have been a woman. So I'm settling to be the best CD I can. Hopefully this next generation will accept more gender rolls openly, and people will be able to live their best authentic lives going forward. I want that dress btw!💋
@anderson1060
3 ай бұрын
You may want to check out Savannah Hauk's new book, "Gender 101: An A-Z Handbook & Exploration." While it doesn't deal with other cultures, it may be of some interest. She has a reading in Episode 178 of The Fox and the Phoenix podcast. I think the questions of "Is she a boy?" or "Is he a girl?" are the children's way of expressing that they recognize a mixture of masculine and feminine characteristics. The use of the opposite pronoun from normal (it's not "Is she a girl?") is their way of expressing their confusion when seeing someone who on first glance may appear as a woman but on closer inspection are unsure if they are (or perhaps were born as) a male. It's likely their first such encounter and they don't have the vocabulary or concepts for a more sophisticated question.
@heidiphox100
3 ай бұрын
I think it's more than a mixture of male and female characteristics that the children were expressing. I think the expression reflected one sex presenting in the cultural signals that are familiar to the other sex.
@suzietg57
3 ай бұрын
A very interesting (and complex) analysis here, Heidi. Top marks on your thought provoking presentation, too! For me, I just love the feel of different styles and materials, my fave being chifon and satin. I also like the 'naughtyness' of wearing clothes that society in the main dictates that I should not wear - the rebel in me! I know I cannot 'pass' but, I just go out anyway for the challenge it presents! All the best to both you and Nikky, Suzie.
@heidiphox100
3 ай бұрын
Well said! I don’t know if I have ever talked about the “rebellious” aspect of crossdressing
@AudreyAhmay
3 ай бұрын
The force is strong in this one……
@heidiphox100
3 ай бұрын
I try to be gentle
@gravengladomain6297
3 ай бұрын
I just live by if you don't want to be judged then don't judge other people. Live and let live. I'm 57 and when I was growing up in the 70/80's it was very clear boy/girl. I wasn't as openminded back in the day but I have evolved and now just accept people at face value. If you are cool and like to hang listen to good music and chill you are my tribe. Heidi I think it would be fun hanging with you and your friends and that is all we should really be concerned with.
@deangammey374
3 ай бұрын
Fascinating video. I always thought that feminism was looked upon as a weakness....a submissive role in our society. Men were ridiculed for sacrificing their power in order to adopt these mannerisms and appearance. Women were seen as powerful when exerting masculine behaviors or wearing typically male clothing. The genius of women is they fought thru the condemnation and ridiculed and supported each other to gain the right to dress and act as they wish. Most people dont give their appearance or behavior a second thought. Men have not achieved this because they are not as courageous or socially bonded to other men. Upcoming generations are seeming to change this and one day Heidi you will be just a pretty and intelligent, fun loving and caring person.....not a boy being a girl
@YAMISOOLD2009
3 ай бұрын
All the smart people already answered with all the smart answers. I appreciate reading the responses and I appreciate you for posing the question Heidi. I have embraced the term gender fluid since it covers all the bases of the many facets of me. I suspect society will never be united on this issue of gender and gender expression. But as long as we don't let our right to express our gender the way we want get taken away it doesn't matter if there are disagreements over terms. Thanks Heidi!
@jon106
3 ай бұрын
This is one of the best explanations I have heard about the difference between genetic sex and gender expression. I sincerely mean that. It is direct, to the point. Currently, due to so much “noise” (politics, various agendas) about this topic, it is no surprise that, while adults should know better, it is children who, being less affected by the “noise”, can look at this in a simpler, straightforward way. Also, shout out to Sheila. I’ve seen her comments on your channel and others. She does make good comments.
@victoriaroberts7837
3 ай бұрын
Great outfit! You look great!!
@heidiphox100
3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!
@moei735
3 ай бұрын
Heidi firstly you look so amazing ❤ I got so lost about what you talking about 😆
@jfolz134
3 ай бұрын
Hi Heidi, And I thought you were going to do a sci-fi skit. Interesting to see how difficult it was for you to navigate through this topic, but it's true it's hard talk about all the variables within our world and how people perceive them. But that you are taking on the subject and opening minds to it all is incredible. You bring us strength and confidence while reaching out to others for understanding. A very well put together perspective and thank you for sharing these thoughtful thoughts. 💋💋Jewel PS Now make a video where you are on a forbidden planet with a robot warning "Danger Ms Heidi Danger, throw in a few laser fights and become a crossdressing version of Princess Leia.
@heidiphox100
3 ай бұрын
LOL. That would be a good idea. Those skit type videos are so hard. The Charlies Angels one took me 6 months.
@pamelalennon9694
3 ай бұрын
There is a difference between sex and gender. Sex is biologically determined by genital, gonadal and chromosonal factors. Gender is a sociological construct that is influenced by social change. Sex relates to male/female. Gender relates to expected roles and behaviour in society that are viewed as masculine and feminine. A classic example that is used to set out the difference between sex and gender is the following. A woman gives birth to a baby because her sex is female. For a long time, in Western (and other societies), the mother (rather than the father) was regarded as primarily responsible for bringing up the children, looking after the home etc. That was a gender role. However, economic and other changes in society have sometimes seen mothers work and fathers stay at home and look after the house and kids etc. Such men were frequently mocked because they were seen as abdicating the gender role that men were supposed to occupy. There is no sex related reason why men can't cook, clean and look after children. Similarly, now there are women working in many occupations that were once considered men-only areas. Equally, there is no sex related rationale as to why men cannot wear dresses or skirts but society frown on it because such clothes are still considered "women's clothes". At the same time, society has now fully accepted women wearing trousers, even at work, even though when I was graduating from college all the girls were annoyed to be told they would have to wear dresses/skirts to work. And bringing it all back to me, I am undeniably male and not female (however much I would want it to be otherwise). However, in terms of how I prefer to dress, act etc I want to be feminine rather than masculine. That's my gender choice. Extremists on both sides of the debate tend to be badly informed, provocative and rude. Good manners go a long way in getting people onside to recognise the rich diversity of human life. And finally thank you, Heidi, for such an interesting and thoughtful video.
@deeblack9393
3 ай бұрын
So you are reducing the definition of woman to mean that her only value is breeding stock. But there are women who can't get pregnant or give birth by your logic they would not be women. Also how do you define a trans man that gets pregnant and gives birth?
@heidiphox100
3 ай бұрын
I think you both exemplify what I was trying to convey that there are not good well-accepted terms for the nonbinary people. And that biology and how one fits into society are not always congruent with expectations
@mikefarmboy4608
3 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing your videos Heidi. Very helpful and informative. Have a wonderful weekend beautiful lady
@heidiphox100
3 ай бұрын
Thank you! You too!
@astrorad2000
3 ай бұрын
In the movie, "Little Big Man", the topic of the male Indian that adopts the female role is briefly touched upon. Dustin Hoffman plays the lead role in that film.
@heidiphox100
3 ай бұрын
You are the second person to recommend that movie. I’ll have to check it out
@rickkojetin5139
3 ай бұрын
It is a very good movie!
@sheilalynn3615
3 ай бұрын
Heidi, listening to you explain xy, he, she, boy, girl made me smile so much it hurt my cheeks. We all knew where you were going. This subject can go quite quickly into the weeds, good job girl. This is PRIDE month, and it shines a light on gender expression. Last night in Sephora I had a nice lady approach me and say, (thank you for what you do). I think she meant, thank you for presenting gender diversity in a positive light, (I try). Heidi, I would also like to thank you for what you do, to enlighten, educate, and entertain us each week. I admire you for the continued effort you make, and also of course, for your shoe and boot collection, omg. lol. Thanks again from all of us, also, does this make me a celebrity, peace Sheila.
@heidiphox100
3 ай бұрын
You da best Sheila
@bobbennett7195
3 ай бұрын
The world is a big stage, and we all have a part to play in it. no matter if it's a male or female. or both. Be the star you are and have fun with it.
@hpscan
3 ай бұрын
LOVE your video Heidi! You are always so straightforward with what you want to convey in your message. In one of your replies to a comment it really hit me that that is EXACTLY the way I feel about my crossdressing. You said you like to hike but you are not a hermit. You like to sing karaoke but you are not a rockstar (well you actually are in a way to us gurls anyway) Sometimes I will create interesting sculptures; but I don’t want to be an artist. Etc. That reply for me anyway is EXACTLY the way I feel! I wish my girlfriend would understand it
@heidiphox100
3 ай бұрын
I wish I had more examples like that to illustrate how we feel
@njlauren
3 ай бұрын
This is complicated, especially since for most people everything aligns with sex and gender. I am going to try and give some definitions to try and clarify things as I understand them (and this is just based on long time thinking/experiencing this). There are a lot of misconceptions around all this too. Sex is what you are born with. I will note that XX and XY are what 99.99% of people are, but there are other genetic types (xxy, xyx, etc). That in turn generally determines things like your genitals, secondary sex characteristics (breasts, body hair, bone density, etc). There are other exceptions, there are people who fully develop as women, they develop the genitals, secondary characteristics, id as women..yet they are XY. They have a syndrome where the body is insensitive to androgens (there is a term for this I don't recall). Gender identity is how you feel yourself to be. For most people, the two align enough that there is no glaring discrepency, they are fine being a man or woman (some people argue that gender identity is a continuum and crossdressers are people who fall in the middle somewhere, roughly akin to being bisexual as a rough analogy. Some people are truly in the middle, others fall more towards being gay or straight with sexuality, with gender identity most see themselves as male or female, some are in the middle). I am pretty certain that gender identity is biological, based in the brain. Without writing a paper (since I am not qualified), in utero fetuses get 'washes' of hormones the mom generates, that happen at specific times and in a certain mix of hormones. It is why a fetus, which all are created female, diverge after a couple of months. There is evidence from some limited experiments and studies that if the hormone wash is timed differently or interrupted, it can affect the gender identity of the offspring. They did experiments with pregnant mice and other mammals, and the saw genetically male mice take on the role of female mice. There also have been some limited studies of the brains of trans woman that show brain structures that would normally be found in a genetic woman. One thing I am sure of is that unlike the anti trans types, I don't think you become trans because your father was an SOB (talking trans woman) or because your father was weak or whatever (same people said the same thing about being gay..). Most trans people, and even CD's, tend to discover early something is different with themselves, I think it is brain biology, likely around hormones. Gender Expression/Gender roles are for the most part cultural and social. This is not gender identity, this is how society and culture dictates how men/women dress, etc (and obviously, there are local cultures; Menonite Women will dress differently than Tik Tok Influencers). I say for the most part because some research is showing interesting things with gender roles. For example, parents working with researchers trying to be gender neutral with their kids, none of the pink and blue, no dressing the female baby in pink dresses, etc. When it comes to toys, having dolls and trucks and the like around, not typing the toys. What they found was that boys still tended to go for the trucks for the most part, and girls to play with the dolls. Obviously there are some boys who loved to play with dolls, and girls with trucks. They actually have studied cultures isolated from modern society, and they find there that some gender roles/expression is the same, where there is no outside influence. Gender expression and gender identity and bio sex are three different things in other words. Note that gender expression varies, even among trans women. A butch bio women who wears mens clothing likely still id's as a woman. There are trans women who wouldn't be caught wearing a dress, makeup and heels (I know more than a few personally), they id as women but think all that stuff is icky. It is why I get furious when I hear anti trans types saying trans women are men with a fetish running around in heels and hose (mind you, there are some well known trans types that I question myself). Gender identity is not a construct, any more than bio sex is, yet the constant refrain is 'it is a construct'. People don't tell themselves they are a boy or a girl or a man or a woman, they feel it. Part of the problem is the detractors don't really listen to the story of trans people, and for example they don't listen what taking female hormones does for someone who is trans. When people say "if we lived in a world where men and women dressed the same, we wouldn't have trans people" it is so ludicrous. Sure, trans woman when they are exploring who they are tend to overdo it, going extreme femme, with the heels and hose and whatnot. But guess what, have they ever looked at young women and the phases they go through?Have they ever been on Tik Tok? You can't reduce gender identity to gender expression, it isn't that simple (not that gender expression is simple). There was an episode of Star Trek TNG that had a planet where people had a society that was gender neutral, there were no differentiations between men and women, yet when given the chance it comes through. If you think of sex, gender identity and gender expression as three different things that are influenced by or related to the other it kind of falls into place. In native cultures in the US the people you mention are called two spirits, they are often seen as being shamans from what I know (in many ways, some of the native cultures when it came to gender/gender roles/the role of women were way advanced compared to the Europeans who settled here with the extreme misogyny of their culture). There are gender divergent types found in other cultures too, India has them for one. The one thing I am sure of is the black and white/men and woman world of gender and gender identity was always complex but was kept compressed by fears and threats and especially by religion with their black and white notions of the world.
@heidiphox100
3 ай бұрын
That was well written and much more clearly explained what I was trying to express
@pamelalennon9694
3 ай бұрын
May I salute you on an informed, thoughtful and very interesting consideration of a complex subject. You certainly made me think -thank you.
@njlauren
3 ай бұрын
I hope it didn't come out like a dissertation. Took me a long time to get a handle on it,lot of thought. You two gals are gonna give me an ego; then again I'll look in the mirror and that will end it, or I'll just find my cat and my ego will disappear.
@markarnold8160
3 ай бұрын
I cannot transition until my parents are dead. It would break their hearts......
@YAMISOOLD2009
3 ай бұрын
I remember in the Liberace movie with Michael Douglas and Matt Damon that Liberace really didn't embrace his sexuality until after his mom died. I think a lot of people don't start living as their true selves until mom and dad have passed. We don't want to disappoint or be judged by them. I get what you are saying.
@ronaldsmith4375
3 ай бұрын
Hi Heidi loving the outfit looking amazing and dare i say Bridal or is that just me dreaming ❤❤
@heidiphox100
3 ай бұрын
Both!😁
@CloeWebb
3 ай бұрын
The English language is not built well for abstract thinking. Take the 8 types of the word "LOVE" as an example. I do consider sex and gender as separate and distinct, but intrinsically linked. For those of us who aren't aligned male-man, female-woman there's no reason to think they aren't linked, just that they are far from statistically in a majority (this is not a comment on NB nor other identities). I just think that there are varying degrees of how significant that link is to self. To thine own self be true. 😇
@angelbravo6871
3 ай бұрын
Omg you’re so beautiful ❤❤❤❤❤
@johntowers5767
3 ай бұрын
What amazing blog thank you
@michaelgutman4910
3 ай бұрын
You're legally blonde, I think HPF! ♥️
@heidiphox100
3 ай бұрын
Haha
@michaelgutman4910
3 ай бұрын
@@heidiphox100 😘
@LoosleyLouise
3 ай бұрын
Some interesting points there 🎉
@jamesryan7662
3 ай бұрын
Things are decided by people who don't have the situation/quandary. We who embrace the feminine or other genders know what is in our spirit and we live it out to the acceptance or the chagrin of others. It is a strong desire because we give up so much to crossdress. I like the two spirit approach because it seems realistic. I believe it is in our spirit more than our emotions or body.
@heidiphox100
3 ай бұрын
Thats true. It's difficult for some people to understand, yet I believe everyone has something unique that they deal with. If only people would be more conscious of the saying "Dont judge me because my (quirks) are different than yours"
@amandaill
3 ай бұрын
I think it all comes down to human’s obsession with categorization and labels. That simply doesn’t work for something that is truly a “spectrum”, whether that is gender or sexuality or anything else with shades of grey rather than black and white lines. Even those who recognize more than two genders want to bucket people into some sort of category - it’s just that they have more categories than “male” and “female.” Categorizing certainly makes things easier to understand, so I get it from that perspective, but it doesn’t account for the fact that each of us is unique. So they are at best broad generalizations. But at their worst they are forcing us to conform to some norm that doesn’t fit our true self, which can create all sorts of issues with our own happiness and self-acceptance.
@heidiphox100
3 ай бұрын
Good points. Those labels and generalizations can be helpful shortcuts into understanding someone but should never replace getting to know them personally
@kkayenikki6687
3 ай бұрын
I think what kids perceive comes from their parents and enviroment. I studied during my mental health days about the critical thinking of children whose innocence will provoke may, I say (an unfiltered) statement. They can be like sponges whereas by listening to them you will fundamentally get parenting play back. By this, you heard play back of what was said around this kid. And by the way. That is about the best tan, I have ever seen on you.
@heidiphox100
3 ай бұрын
Thanks for the insight. I’ve been spending a lot of time outside. And more since
@kkayenikki6687
3 ай бұрын
@@heidiphox100 I don't know where to find your email. I would love to have it because, I would really love to trade chats more private
@caroljohnson4848
3 ай бұрын
People will say what they think before they think it through,no body is killed the world goes on and unfortunately a lot of anti feelings stay with some people so they turn on certain people who they think are causing problems when in reality it is themselves,I think that you are a very good ambassador for the people you represent and I love that dress it is perfect for you,I am going to see if there is one in my shopping mall,love Carol💟🇬🇧
@heidiphox100
3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much
@crossplay749
3 ай бұрын
It's always a trip blasting into Heidi space!🌠 :))) I emailed you a couple links, KZitem keeps deleting them
@heidiphox100
3 ай бұрын
I will check it out
@marcoperugini153
3 ай бұрын
Wow Heidi,,that white dress on you🔥❤️
@heidiphox100
3 ай бұрын
Oh thank you!
@marcoperugini153
3 ай бұрын
@@heidiphox100 Your very welcome❤️
@lorenakademar5267
3 ай бұрын
It's not an easy topic, especially if you are breaking the "rules" of a catholic or patriarchal society or a radical conservative society
@heidiphox100
3 ай бұрын
Right. Most rules are originally created based on a need but at some point it is appropriate to reassess the need and therefore the rules
@aaronstreight3033
3 ай бұрын
Hi Heidi. 🙂 Actualy there are African tribes that respect and honor two people magi. They are looked at like spiritual beings. Look it up. Also, being just a trensvestite. I would never think that you were a guy. You look that good. 🙂
@heidiphox100
3 ай бұрын
I know there lots of differences among different cultures. That's why I think a book exploring all of the different ones would be interesting.
@jimbates2061
3 ай бұрын
That went over my head. It's complicated and I can't keep it straight. You might be wrong about one thing. Maybe the children are just confused. If it is difficult for adults, you might be expecting too much from the children.
@heidiphox100
3 ай бұрын
That could be true. I might be projecting my theories on them. I do think that a persons personality doesn’t always align with their genetic sex.
@jimbates2061
3 ай бұрын
@@heidiphox100 I completely agree. And that's a simple way to say it. Keep presenting yourself.
@Narrowgaugefilms
3 ай бұрын
I believe that gender roles were absolutely critical in ancient society, and become more and more so the further you look back. It was essential that there were large, strong people who could go out and take down the bison or drive back the invading enemy. Naturally, since men are larger and stronger (-and let's face it, naturally more aggressive.), their masculinity was pretty much essential to the survival of society. Women were still essential to raise children to replace all the people who inevitably died young because of the lives they lead. Maybe at the end of the day it's fair to say that the ultimate masculine role was the support and defense of the feminine one. The world is different now: a woman can fly a bomber or drive a tank and the meat is under cellophane at the Piggly Wiggly, and we live to ripe old ages by and large and have enough people (-at least!). We absolutely still need good Moms and Dads, and soldiers and caretakers, but we are not as rigidly locked into gender roles as we once were. If a guy wants to be a girl for an evening (or weekend) here and there it doesn't mean (other people's) men on horseback with spears and fur hats are going to come over the hill and pillage us tomorrow night! People with fighter jets and helicopters will push some buttons and send them on their way! Even if the guy above needs to wipe off some makeup and put on pants first, it doesn't mean he can't push his button just as well as the guy with the tattoo and the knife-fight scar! -still the same, it's hard for us to let go of this ancient idea, that unless "men are men", all and always, our very survival is at stake. Maybe even if if we still need a few bad-asses, if doesn't mean we all need to be, all the time!
@heidiphox100
3 ай бұрын
Are you saying I have a bad ass😜. It’s a complicated issue. Even sexuality and gender roles are different elements. Apart from genetic sex.
@Narrowgaugefilms
3 ай бұрын
A bad-ass and a bad ass are very different! (It's all in the hyphen!) We need bad-asses: they put out fires and parachute into war zones and get shot at. On 9/11, they were the ones running TOWARDS the towers. -but even THEY need a break! (We all do! -and that's why we do "what we do" too!)
@whollyknight9300
3 ай бұрын
There are CD/trans persons whose interests don't fit in with what most others would usually expect. One of which is a well known mtf transgender, Kimberly Moore, (who I believe Heidi knows as I have seen photos of them together) who is a retired USMC officer with combat experience and whose interests and hobbies, by their own admission, even after transition are what most would consider typically masculine. I always found it interesting to hear her speak of being deployed in combat zones and playing rugby among other things. Unfortunately, over the past couple years she appears to have dropped out of the public arena.
@samirmoretti6810
3 ай бұрын
Beautiful legs and elegance
@robertgoldstein8113
3 ай бұрын
Walter L. L. Williams Spirit and the Flesh: Sexual Diversity in American Indian Culture
@heidiphox100
3 ай бұрын
Thanks. Amazon has it
@stevenbuchanan3854
3 ай бұрын
Hey Gorgeous ❤
@DS-jg1ww
3 ай бұрын
Hello Heidi. Firstly there was a movie in the 70’s with Dustin Hoffman called little big man that had a segment that explained the trans situation in Native American culture. It was totally acceptable. As far as the kids commenting I think you may be overthinking it. They were commenting on something that they had never seen before. I don’t believe they were being critical but that would be where their parents would make it a teachable moment. Positive or unfortunately negative. Always enjoy your videos. Keep it up!♥️
@heidiphox100
3 ай бұрын
The one I encountered didn’t seem to be reacting negatively but more analytical than critical
@DS-jg1ww
3 ай бұрын
Innocent comment then.. I’ll take innocent every time.🙏
@crossdresserbianca
3 ай бұрын
Perfeição 🖤🥰🤩❤
@DS-jg1ww
3 ай бұрын
Heidi, May I ask a question of your male side? I will call him Steve. Tell me about your excersize routine. Your Abs are great and I wonder how difficult it is to maintain them. It would be helpful if I knew how old you are but if that is too personal I will back off. Always a fan. Cindilynnparker
@heidiphox100
3 ай бұрын
I am pretty active. Average 18000 steps a day according to my Fitbit. I go line dancing 2-3 times a week; hiking, running etc regularly. I think my age is probably easily determined by many of my pop culture references
@DS-jg1ww
3 ай бұрын
@@heidiphox100 Now that is funny. I am clueless when it comes to pop culture. No issue . I will assume you are 50. You look good as far as I can see and I am very impressed with how you maintain you waist. Always an issue for us gurls. Anywho I always appreciate your videos.. Thanks again.
@felixelgato9816
3 ай бұрын
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@Sophie1Lynne
3 ай бұрын
There is no gender "binary." Gender is a continuum- a tapestry if you will. Even the genetics aren't that easy- there are over 20 different possible combinations. As for books about Gender in other cultures... how academic do you want it? I can recommend several. (I study this topic for my PhD.) LMK if interested
@rikki1954
3 ай бұрын
In English law the Tories conflated sex and gender. There is currently political sniping over whether it's possible for women to have a penis. (Thank goodness we're having a general election soon!) To my mind (these views are personal and still being refined) anyone can present as they wish, and their biological sex is the business of no one else - with two exceptions. 1) If they are in a romantic / sexual relationship they shouldn't deceive their partner(s) 2) If transgenderism is used as a way of comitting a sexual offence then the person should lose the right to self declare.
@heidiphox100
3 ай бұрын
Oh that’s right! I should have consulted you before. Academic is fine. Not looking for a 1000 page book though. And I know more mainstream books are easier to find
@marinao730
3 ай бұрын
Hmm. Maybe you should try wearing a brunette wig when doing deep thinking. 😁 I thought about it the same way when you mentioned it before. That you group was not getting mocked, but rather was trying to be understood.
@onlineadmirer5993
3 ай бұрын
If society did not put the limits it does on how one can dress, do you think you would dress as Heidi more than your male self?
@heidiphox100
3 ай бұрын
That’s a good question and hard to answer. Too many hypotheticals
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