That legit startled me and I had to pause the video for a moment to process that hahahaha.
@sampahpribadi
6 ай бұрын
then he fart 💀💀💀
@imwastingmytimeonthis677
5 ай бұрын
charlie’s gassy like that
@Akanisen049
5 ай бұрын
I laughed so hard that was great 🤣🤣🤣
@Adam-gh3bi
5 ай бұрын
Bro was like Rick Sanchez
@g1sunstreaker584
6 ай бұрын
CRIED laughing at the abrupt "oh, I'm farting"
@monsieurnugai
6 ай бұрын
What point of the video was that?
@phillipnguyen8138
6 ай бұрын
@@monsieurnugaijust the video lil bro
@nathanielcamacho438
6 ай бұрын
@@monsieurnugai8:20ish
@downbadjimmy6318
6 ай бұрын
@@monsieurnugailike 8:30
@Xaraeus
6 ай бұрын
@@monsieurnugai8:17
@toontales2479
3 ай бұрын
She was right abt one thing. That guy has something special to him. He’s genuinely the king of communication and someone we should all look upto in that realm.
@UnisusMC
3 ай бұрын
He was sweet and understanding but he def shouldve stopped talking to her after the first night
@roguedy
2 күн бұрын
It’s not even that he was a god at communication, he just has basic communication skills that everyone SHOULD have and is also just a very nice guy in a world that’s over saturated with media covering awful people.
@orania8033
5 ай бұрын
Person with BPD here. Even though she says she's in therapy the way she's acting is a untreated form of bpd. I'm 30 now and have been in courses, groups, intensive treatment and therapy for the disorder since I was 21/22, helps that I'm a nerd that loves learning and doing homeworklol, anyway I actually find it hard to be around certain others with bpd now since getting help. We have what we call 'filters' and you do a test to find out what the most prominent filters are. Mine were self hatred and abandonment filter. Where my friend marked up the most with the entitlement filter. This girl seems like she would probably be abandonment and entitlement filter (theres others too but here just a couple examples). The entitlement filter is one of the hardest to deal with in my eyes. Because they constantly feel like the world owes them everything and they act like they are so hard done by (which obviously having this disorder is hard but they do it to a extreme), like the word 'no' is a hate crime. The child like tantrums ect. It drives me nuts. Again as having bpd myself I understand the struggle of dealing with it but that doesn't mean it's not totally unbearable lol. I've really progressed with my abandonment filter, especially since i was litterally abandoned by a partner while i was fighting for my life in hospital and I didn't even flinch, yay growth! Haha but the self hatred is the one i still struggle with. I'm now in a place where I probably could have a partner as I've learnt to communicate and manage my feelings but you have to be self aware enough to realise when you're not. Which takes us back to that entitlement filter "oh someone should just deal with my constant bullshit all the time and still love me, i deserve it!". Um no, you have to compromise and do better for yourself so you can do better in your relationships.
@MoonshineH
4 ай бұрын
I don’t have BPD (that I know of anyway), but I used to have hella abandonment issues - perhaps because my family abandoned me. I would get extremely attached to new people and cry and scream because I thought they decided to ghost me.
@ViPeR1
4 ай бұрын
Im honestly so happy for you, keep it up❤️
@kevingriffith677
4 ай бұрын
Being 'in therapy' doesn't necessarily mean you are actually treating your disorder. You may be in therapy out of peer pressure or feeling obligated to without actually being interested in treatment of any kind.
@alanluscombe8a553
4 ай бұрын
I hate when people say oh I’m in therapy. Like just showing up to a building or getting on a zoom call instantly cures them or that it makes their insane behavior ok
@weirdthoughts5420
4 ай бұрын
Right. As someone with it too, I realized a long time ago I was the problem and I just wanted to be better for the people I loved and for myself. A disorder is not an excuse for terrible behavior. Like at first I saw myself in the messages because I like giving lots of affection to my favorite person but then I saw the rest and it was just downhill. It makes me sad because people start thinking everyone with bpd is like this, like you said, this is untreated. Anyways I'm proud of you, it's not easy, but I hope you're also getting out there and feeling better. Every day is a struggle but you're doing amazing 🤍
@Samboy64
6 ай бұрын
The burp at 0:38 and the farts at 8:17 reminded me that I have the sense of humor of a child
@bonez596
6 ай бұрын
me too omg
@Melisande777
6 ай бұрын
It wasn't until he started farting... I'm dead. 💀
@ODDiSEE_
6 ай бұрын
The fact that he announces the fart. He stopped everything to let us know.
@NxterYT
6 ай бұрын
I’m crying laughing rn bro
@RsBanez
6 ай бұрын
Charlie really is that unhinged uncle who was no filter
@Nantosuelta
6 ай бұрын
Mental illness is actually terrifying. My uncle went out with a girl in his twenties. They went out on two dates and then he didn't call her for two or three days because he was very busy with work. Forth night, he woke up to her standing over his bed, sobbing, and holding a kitchen knife. Somehow he was able to talk her down and ended up driving her back to her mothers house who apologized to him and said she was mentally ill. He said that he really liked her and that she seemed completely normal on their two dates. 100% true story. Very scary stuff
@roserkk
6 ай бұрын
what the fuck
@brandonlamb9067
6 ай бұрын
So she made her way into his house without him hearing her break the lock? Maybe a window that was open? She’s scary
@Nantosuelta
6 ай бұрын
@@brandonlamb9067 He said it was the window. Truly terrifying
@pomvigpugu
6 ай бұрын
Thats one crazzzzy bisssh
@tast3myrainb0ws50
6 ай бұрын
Omg that’s terrifying
@shookest
2 ай бұрын
This poor dude is so sweet and just wanted to get to know her first
@austinlincoln3414
2 ай бұрын
Funny username. Does it mean “shook” as in you’re shook, like you’re the shookest? 😂
@JoshuaCave-xc5mz
Ай бұрын
idk
@Mr_Valentin.
2 күн бұрын
@@austinlincoln3414Shookest gurl
@Carolina57685
5 ай бұрын
it's really refreshing to see someone online be this sympathetic towards people with BPD whenever i see it mentioned it's quickly followed by others saying that people with BPD are horrible manipulative monsters, so it was really good to see Charlie talk about it with kindness towards the disorder, while still making it VERY CLEAR that this woman is in no way ready for any kind of romantic relationship
@user-xg6sx5ev9u
4 ай бұрын
You would be laughing at charlie's video if it was a man doing it calling him incel so stop
@Carolina57685
4 ай бұрын
@user-xg6sx5ev9u why would I, someone with bpd, laugh at a man with bpd being insulted for having bpd? Go strawman someone else
@kayleynoel5104
4 ай бұрын
Yeah, it really sucks that people have so much hate towards others with mental illness. I have had to deal with that all my life. I agree that it was good to see a KZitemr address the disorder with a high level of class and taking both sides. Not many people do that. If you ever notice in TV shows or movies, characters that have BPD are almost always the villain. We've definitely got the short-end of the stick.
@kevingriffith677
4 ай бұрын
....Or perhaps you just choose to see the negative responses and ignore the positive ones? Because I've never seen a mental health situation where the majority of people weren't sympathetic.
@Carolina57685
4 ай бұрын
@kevingriffith677 Yeah, I am somehow telepathically capable of only ever clicking videos or posts that contain shitty comments! Professor Xavier will for sure give me a call soon to invite me to his school for super cool people. There's a whole subreddit dedicated to people who are very vitriolic towards anyone with BPD. Any time someone with BPD is portrayed in media, they're always hurting someone else in some way. So many people online make shitty comments about others BPD, calling anyone with th disorder a bad toxic person. I literally said "whenever I see it mentioned". I'm literally talking about my personal experience. It was only last week that I saw people defending people with BPD on Twitter after a user made a horrible thread about it. I'm not focusing only on the bad comments. It is very rare for me to see many sympathy for people with BPD. I'm talking about my personal experience.
@annaelisavettavonnedozza9607
6 ай бұрын
“Im an empath” Bullet dodged. Bullet the size of a train
@PumpyGT
5 ай бұрын
A bullet train
@Fireclaw5588
5 ай бұрын
@@PumpyGTReally good movie btw
@trickyvic6501
5 ай бұрын
@@Fireclaw5588Hopefully that dude finds a nice girl to watch bullet train with.
@Fireclaw5588
5 ай бұрын
@@trickyvic6501 yeah
@Ilivedbih
5 ай бұрын
Those who say it never are lol
@kornklone
6 ай бұрын
“I am an empath” -The worst fucking person you will ever meet
@JohanLiebertki
6 ай бұрын
Hahaga
@zacharysherry2910
5 ай бұрын
😂 lol. Word.
@oliver-04
5 ай бұрын
so true
@billbombshiggy9254
5 ай бұрын
Fecking everyone is an empath and can pick up on feelings and how people are feeling without them saying a word. It's not some special thing. Everyone can do it. Women who claim this just want excuses for bad behavior.
@savory2290
5 ай бұрын
@@billbombshiggy9254 nah there's plenty of people who legitimately can't pick up on others' emotions, even if we exclude neurodivergent peeps like certain types of autistics. besides, there's like three(?) types of empathy, so even if the vast majority of humans are empaths - different people process the same interaction uniquely, which leads to the same trait manifesting differently in different people
@John_McDonnell_76
4 ай бұрын
He dodged his own murder.
@swiftgaming1164
3 ай бұрын
“Hold up I’m farting… that’s what I think of that”🤣🤣🤣
@DtLS
6 ай бұрын
Being too busy to text in the morning made this guy dodge a bullet.
@CanTERRA
6 ай бұрын
Honestly should treat his boss to the dinner instead now ahahahah
@anakinlowground5515
6 ай бұрын
I mean, I was getting red flags from the beginning
@iaminsfiredbytrustfration8502
6 ай бұрын
@@CanTERRAif his boss is a woman
@CanTERRA
6 ай бұрын
@@iaminsfiredbytrustfration8502 or bro dinner
@ariici
6 ай бұрын
@@iaminsfiredbytrustfration8502 or if his boss is a man. Both work
@larrybyrd6596
5 ай бұрын
"you'll never meet someone like me again" Thank GOD
@Spiralredd
4 ай бұрын
I dated someone like that and it was like having a puppy who could text you
@stitches768
4 ай бұрын
@@Spiralredd accurate, but a puppy wouldn't be rude to you....well not intentionally at least
@iiCounted-op5jx
4 ай бұрын
LOL
@kayleynoel5104
4 ай бұрын
Yeah cause only 3 million people get diagnosed with this every year. Good luck and I'm one of them.
@TheAngeyMovieCritic
3 ай бұрын
My ex in a nutshell, I was blind
@crispan8556
2 ай бұрын
As someone who is recovering from BPD, my heart ached when reading this girl's text messages. I thought to leave this comment here, to try and educate people a little about BPD. What you see in this message exchange, is something called 'Idealization and Devaluation', also known as 'splitting', which is one of the worst symptoms of BPD. That means that one simple gesture can make us idealize people, and one simple gesture can make us completely devalue them. It has nothing to do with the other person- it's all in our head. We have no grey emotions. It's either extreme love, or extreme hate. This girl describes it as 'empath', but it's actually agony. We tend to create scenarios and stories in our heads, based on minor things a person might do. And when the other person doesn't meet the expectation we made in our story, this swiftly changes to devaluation and rage. A lot of the time, when we go through splitting or 'the borderline rage', we experience dissociation, which means we are completely out of control or awareness. Then we calm down and remember how ridiculous we've been, feel extreme shame and it often leads to self h@rm. This disorder cannot be treated with medicines. It needs extensive therapy, with someone who is trained in DBT and has lots of patience. It's completely treatable, and with the right help, a person can end up no longer meeting the criteria for a diagnosis. I have been in therapy for 4 years, and can safely say I have healed. The best way to deal with someone like that, is to remind them that their emotions are disproportionate to the situation. The first step is self awareness, and to be able to step out of your emotions and see them like a third person.
@MXK_BS
21 күн бұрын
That’s crazy
@corrosionchannel
16 күн бұрын
Glad you healed well! Its crazy how little some people understand about things like this, and just start getting really annoyed without taking their situation into account. We need to get this comment to the top.
@Dolphinboi
9 күн бұрын
@@corrosionchannelhaving bipolar disorder isn’t an excuse to treat people badly. If someone wants to get annoyed it’s reasonable
@applekitty4832
9 күн бұрын
@@Dolphinboi 1. bipolar disorder is completely different than bpd 2. no one said otherwise. the comment was about pwBPD actively seeking treatment and getting better, not excusing any behavior that harms anyone.
@loganleatherman7647
5 күн бұрын
“remind them that their emotions are disproportionate to the situation“ Every time I’ve tried to do this they just blow up even more and tell me that I’m not respecting their feelings. I’m not saying you’re wrong, but this has never worked for me when I do this politely
@cherry_grove
5 ай бұрын
Complete opposite of an empath LMAO
@rrtttfthxg2143
3 ай бұрын
When someone say’s that they’re something there compensating for something, normal people don’t need to label themselves or need to, actions speak louder then words
@Tea_laBlue
2 ай бұрын
I was thinking this as well 😂😂
@Tea_laBlue
2 ай бұрын
@@rrtttfthxg2143that may be the case sometimes. But sometimes people can tell something is off in themselves, and naming the demon can lead to understand it better
@Chesslover69420
6 ай бұрын
The minute she got angry over a good morning text, would've been the last text I ever sent to her, because that's just a great indicator of future problems.
@mayadere
6 ай бұрын
I was thinking the same thing. Even if this dude had sent her the good morning text to her liking, I can imagine something similar would’ve happened anyway down the line. Probably really soon after this situation too.
@thegreatynot5049
6 ай бұрын
Yeah and bpd isnt an excuse, she is literally acting like a "nice guy incel" despite what charlie says.
@andrewodinson3726
6 ай бұрын
I was already getting red flags with the "sixth sense" and "knew each other in a past life".
@TiddyMelk-gl9bu
6 ай бұрын
Good to know most of us are in agreement on that part...
@baldygrey2779
6 ай бұрын
The real red flag was the day before, that was the indication of a delayed fuse. Somone who goes all-in like that for a couple hours of texting is not normal. Not normal is fine by itself, but here you're risking obsessive and volatile.
@themaninyellow964
6 ай бұрын
Bro didn't dodge the bullet, he matrixed the whole fucking magazine.
I have a friend that suffers from BPD. She's in recovery with me. She's significantly younger than me and i consider her like a baby sis now. She's one of the most beautiful girls I've ever seen in my life, AND has a sweet soul. Yesterday her bf said something to her that made her absolutely fly off the handle. Like lose it to the point that i was scared. Anyway i got her bf to go his own way and i accompanied her to her bus stop and waited with her to make sure she got on safely. After she calmed down, she looked at me and tears started streaming down her face. I felt f**king terrible. I said what's wrong BB? She looked me dead in the eyes and said " i just feel so alone. I don't wanna end up alone". It took everything in me not to f**king break down. I felt that pain so deeply. People with BPD have SEVERE abandonment issues and it breaks my heart. This scenario kind of reminds me of this tbh. I hope this girlie finds some peace. And super kudos to the guy for taking it like a champ
@cordona.sasha0216
4 ай бұрын
honestly one of the most heartfelt comments on dis
@sm-fh3wv
4 ай бұрын
@@cordona.sasha0216 💜
@MXK_BS
21 күн бұрын
Wow😓 just absolutely wow. One of the most emotionally filled comments I’ve read.
@applekitty4832
9 күн бұрын
thank you so much for being a friend to her. your close and extremely meaningful friendship will mean a lot in both of your recovery. best of luck!!
@DrHeavenly
6 күн бұрын
out of curiosity, is your friend an adult? like above the age of 20, or out of college?
@sacrilegiousboi978
5 ай бұрын
A lot of people who have very strong emotions/feelings confuse it with being high in empathy or being an “empath”. Yes, many people who are emotional/sensitive are also high in empathy, but they are COMPLETELY different things. This woman here completely lacked any kind of empathy even though she clearly had feelings in spades.
@spookykiwi70
4 ай бұрын
I’m very confused to why she calls herself an empath and that’s what causes her heightened emotions and not her personality disorder.
@rrtttfthxg2143
3 ай бұрын
Uhh no when someone says that, they can’t control their anger
@sacrilegiousboi978
3 ай бұрын
@@spookykiwi70 I believe some people genuinely are empaths. But this woman clearly has emotions so extreme that make her act and think so irrationally that it tips over from just being very sensitive into a personality disorder. Just highly sensitive people/empaths wouldn’t behave like she does
@twilyte9557
3 ай бұрын
Yeah bpd makes you feel things super intensely, but doesn't necessarily help you read others feelings. Maybe indirectly
@sacrilegiousboi978
3 ай бұрын
@@twilyte9557 beyond a certain point, reading another’s emotional state and being able to put yourself in that persons shoes is impossible if you are too busy being overwhelmed by your own emotions. it can also make you misinterpret social and emotional cues. I have experience with a few BPD ex gf’s and the woman in this video was exactly like them
@lynnimaybe
6 ай бұрын
I struggle with BPD and I promise it's not always like this. Mental illness is never an excuse to treat people like hell. That "I'm an empath" is so bs too, this guy genuinely seems nice and I hope he finds a nice healthy relationship that treats him well.
@theveimox4945
6 ай бұрын
Yeah she isnt an empath, she just experiences very intense emotions lol
@toseltreps1101
6 ай бұрын
it is like this very often though. the consenus also is that BPD isn't really curable (yet manageable through therapy) due to the need for radical restructuring of the foundations of the respective individual's personality, which people with BPD are naturally (and understandably so) fearful of, as well as the extremely long time required for such changes, possibly surpassing their remaining lifetime.
@puffles5535
6 ай бұрын
@@theveimox4945she legit sounded like a scammer to me. Even though I’m sure it’s the bpd talking. I hope she gets the help she needs.
@jaqsre
6 ай бұрын
@@toseltreps1101BPD and therapy are a good match. don’t try to make people feel like they can’t control their emotions.
@Ahov
6 ай бұрын
@@toseltreps1101 Meditation would be a great start.
@weebabyvee948
6 ай бұрын
“Hi 🤮 been thinking about you lately “
@jarjar-lterwhite9371
6 ай бұрын
0:39
@VikingTheG
6 ай бұрын
Who asked ? My content is better anyways broski
@qualjusmagalgus4764
6 ай бұрын
@EmperorFPSno fucking way you people are real
@Dabinursleep
6 ай бұрын
@@qualjusmagalgus4764I can’t believe it either😐
@Slezeball
6 ай бұрын
Ik this has nothing too with the vid…but is my music fire
@Ilikecatsalot1
3 ай бұрын
Thank you for being so understanding of people with bpd! We get demonised a lot and we dont all act like this. I was so happy to hear you being understanding and supportive
@DrDolan2000
2 ай бұрын
I hope this guy does find the person he deserves. And that she gets all the therapy she needs
@Flyingdinosaur69
6 ай бұрын
You can't just spring your mental health onto a stranger like that. This guy deserves an award for patience and understanding cos that's next level
thats what BPD does..... tho.... its part of the deal ... thats why its so hard for us to keep relationships
@Neochet
6 ай бұрын
@@xlifexwithxlithiumx If you're aware you're like this, aware it's wrong and horrible, and still have the attitude of "that's just what it is" then you are a horrible person and should be avoided at all costs, absolutely NO ONE with a severe mental illness that affects other people so negatively should have that attitude towards it, and they certainly shouldn't be seeking relationships with other people when they know how vile of a person they are, it's purely selfishness and makes that person an objectively bad person at that stage regardless of the mental illness. It's not "hard for you to keep relationships" you are the reason the relationships go badly. You shouldn't be accepted as you are, you can and should work tirelessly to not be that person. BPD is treatable, there is no excuse to be harmful to others
@antares8943
6 ай бұрын
@@xlifexwithxlithiumxIf your using a mental illness for bad behavior youve recognized then relationships at the time aren't something you should seek out
@Munisk52
6 ай бұрын
@@xlifexwithxlithiumxyou're aware of the problem. You've identified it. You cant keep using it as an excuse. Be upfront about your mental health, nobody deserves to step on a mine like that
@cheeks_of_the_boreal_valley
6 ай бұрын
I had a 'fight or flight' response as soon as i saw the words 'spiritual energy', 'soulmate' and 'therapy' in one screenshot
@kiwo579
6 ай бұрын
is emotional intelligence really just as much of a pseudoscience as spiritual energy to you? seek therapy.
@crowdemon_archives
6 ай бұрын
@@kiwo579that by themselves are fine. Problem is you have to see who's saying it lol
@PippetWhippet
6 ай бұрын
@@kiwo579You didn’t manage to get “soulmate” in there.
@jakelloydganoy6919
6 ай бұрын
@kiwo579 it seems like you've misunderstood his/her comment. He's/she's not saying EI is the same spectrum as spiritual concepts. He's/she's saying that if you have an internal problem and need therapy to fix it might as well not get yourself into a relationship cuz wheter you admit it or not we often tend to reflect those problems and emotional conflicts we have with ourselves to others specially our partner.
@jakelloydganoy6919
6 ай бұрын
And as someone who's at a stable emotional state I don't wanna be at the direct line of fire from that person's barrage of toxic remarks
@theshnorbix6603
Ай бұрын
as someone who has BPD, i knew she had it in the first minutes in the video. she obviously has it pretty severely too. i had it really bad a few years back except unlike her i direct any anger or negative feelings toward myself instead of others, i did get help and have changed myself for the better but BPD isn’t something that can completely go away and it makes my life tough, i really struggle even to complete basic tasks sometimes. it’s really sad to see how badly it effects others, it makes her and other people like this sound outright evil, she obviously needs alot of help and should avoid relationships, from how she is talking it doesn’t actually sound like she’s getting any help at all tbh. so hopefully she went on to get some actual help :/ it also makes me sad that there’s a stigma around bpd that we are all horrible people, most of us truly just love very hard and look for any reciprocation. anyway thanks to anyone that reads this just please remember this behaviour doesn’t represent everyone with bpd and anyone that does act like this needs some serious help.
@CreamSodaFR
3 ай бұрын
8:17 had me CRYING 😭
@OnlyJustCrazy
5 ай бұрын
Any type of trauma or mental illness isn’t your fault, but it IS your responsibility. Especially if it starts causing hurt toward others who are completely innocent. Hope she got help.
@vampziiiee
5 ай бұрын
This. Such a good comment.
@jokabox93
5 ай бұрын
she already is in therapy form her texts... so I guess she needs a lot more help but what else could help her if therapy isnt working to a degree where she isnt a threat to herself and her surroundings. its really sad, but man, that guy is in danger i feel like.
@OnlyJustCrazy
5 ай бұрын
@@jokabox93 could be she needs to change therapists too. Sometimes that’s the situation when therapy isn’t working as intended. Hopefully there are people in her life that can make her aware that whatever she’s doing isn’t working and a change needs to happen to improve her quality of life and those she interacts with
@JamesGriffinSpiteHouse
5 ай бұрын
Yep. This is a mental illness so it’s more difficult to cope with than a lot of problems, but this woman is clearly a person who needs to work on herself more before trying to commit to a relationship.
@RozettaVyper
5 ай бұрын
Just because she's in therapy doesn't mean she's actually listening to the therapist. She has this victim mentality which is nothing a therapist can do. Therapists can only give you tools and ideas to help you. They cannot force your hand or implant a willpower chip. You have to help yourself FIRST. Take it from someone who took therapy for depression.@@jokabox93
@maxevocal
6 ай бұрын
Every self-proclaimed empath i've ever met was either narcissistic, or raised by narcissist parents
@Josh-py9rq
6 ай бұрын
LOL exactly I can't stand that word too it's just this word people use now to try and sound sophisticated it's like folks we will know if you are capable of empathy if you are a decent person lol we don't need to see on your tinder profile or whatever other crap site there is these days EMPATH
Which is why I don’t say “empath”. I tell people that I’m very observant of people’s feelings and emotional needs because I’ve spent my life trying to regulate my mother’s emotions to avoid mental and physical harm. Yes I was raised by a narcissist (my mother).
@deanmiller5770
4 ай бұрын
Bro didn't dodge a bullet, he dodged a whole ass nuke.
@pacifistonly
3 ай бұрын
i'm glad people appreciate wholesome guys like that though
@Max_Ivanov_Pro
6 ай бұрын
The burp at 0:38 is the ultimate power move, no girl can resist that charm.
@EmperorFPS not you again, get out of here you little person 👍
@MattMitchxm
6 ай бұрын
alr i won't
@bulkvanderhuge9006
6 ай бұрын
THe minute she got angry over a Good Morning text, would've been the last text I ever sent to her, because that's just a great indicator of future problems.
Honestly the whole “you’re perfect for me” rant at the beginning was the red flag that should have caused him to cut her off right then and there. Anyone who thinks that someone they’ve barely talked to is their soulmate or whatever is obviously not right in the head.
@Josh-py9rq
6 ай бұрын
@@hobojoe9717 I have dealt with ladies like this when I had a tinder profile they come on wayyyy over the top it seems kind of cool at first then they just completely flip if you aren't playing 4d chess texting exactly when they want I just become Casper the now not friendly ghost and disappear they can send all the messages they want shit is crazy!
@hoodieddespair
6 ай бұрын
@@hobojoe9717 I wish you could talk to 14-18 year old me... 🤦🏾♂️ Boy, ain't that a lesson.
@josho.9530
6 ай бұрын
I would've been out at message #2.
@janiecyr6477
15 күн бұрын
" I'm an empath" I would quicker believe someone that claims they're a Terminator infiltration unit that has 15 awakened devil fruits, 12 bankais, complete mastery over every forbidden and kekkei genka in existence and can remote operate a fleet of Gundams from across the multiverse than believe they're an "empath."
@toxicwar
5 ай бұрын
Thank you SO much for showing this video on how to handle a situation like this. Like this really helps a lot in understanding what's acceptable social behavior. i hope you make more videos of this. thank you.
@mialeaver435
6 ай бұрын
The pause to say “oh I’m farting” then the silence only disrupted by the farts was a much appreciated break from these texts😂
I changed it to these texts instead of this crazy lady because I hadn’t yet got the the point when we find out she has bpd. Having a personality disorder doesn’t make you crazy and I thought she was just one of the nice girls. Now that I watched the whole video I felt bad and decided to change my comment to prevent potentially upsetting someone with bpd. Sorry about that ❤
@TacticalMoron
6 ай бұрын
Lmaooo😭
@Mazoonie
6 ай бұрын
Oh I'm farting had me dead imao💀
@user-nz6bk7lf8u
6 ай бұрын
@@Vuuduu I took a dump in your channel.
@YoBoyMerciless
6 ай бұрын
0:38 I like to imagine the first text actually had a burp and Charlie was just imitating it. Laughed hard thinking about it too
@dylanvienet7923
6 ай бұрын
As an Australian that burp sounded like a koala, which is why I found it so funny
@gothdawg
6 ай бұрын
lmao i just posted a comment saying that too
@AmbassadorKat
6 ай бұрын
I thought maybe it did too because I was just listening to the video in the background, I came over and rewound a few seconds to check the actual text lol
@ember-brandt
6 ай бұрын
That made me _WHEEZE_ so loud
@chrisclancy6756
6 ай бұрын
He also farted later in the vid. Charlie has been very gassy lately. Probably gearing up for that new Taco Bell menu
@Tabth3778
4 ай бұрын
"Hi. *ÆÆÆ* I've been thinking about you all evening"
@CDW_Highlights
5 ай бұрын
8:16 "opp, I'm farting" *Fart* *Fart* 😂😂
@bonkjuice
6 ай бұрын
crazy that she dropped the “i’m an empath” line when she clearly is incapable of putting herself in his shoes and understanding that her behavior towards him was cruel and weird
@SharpieElectricity
6 ай бұрын
It’s always the “I’m an empath” girlies who are the most toxic, self absorbed people you’ll ever meet.
@gibier1724
6 ай бұрын
The thing with BPD is that you're so emotionally "weak" that you end up to only be able to see your version of the story. It's shitty but that's what BPD does
@disrespecc9678
6 ай бұрын
@@gibier1724if that’s what it revolves around, should I get checked for it…
@gibier1724
6 ай бұрын
@pecc9678 There's other thing around BPD but that's a huge part of it. Ik I'm in this shitty disorder but like every disorder each person has a deferent (reaction?) to it. Still BDP is mostly related to unstable emotion related to emotion and bad Self-perception which end up that the BPD person is only able to see/fell his/her emotion at the time.
@disrespecc9678
6 ай бұрын
@@gibier1724 my friend has BPD and I’m trying to understand
@allysonpowell
6 ай бұрын
as someone with BPD, I really appreciate the kind words and understanding Charlie. I see a lot of my past self in this person, I hope she realizes it's not okay whatsoever to treat someone this way, even if you have a disorder. The guy was a very nice and patient person, didn't even insult her back.
@BeefyFlaps
6 ай бұрын
why do people with this disorder think they need to date? genuine question
I'm glad someone else felt the same way. I'm still in the same state as her, and that's why I stay away from relationships.
@RaineSophiaLewis
6 ай бұрын
I fully agree! I have BPD and used to be like this until I learnt skills to deal with my intense emotions. The guy was lovely and very respectful.
@ClurTaylor
6 ай бұрын
Yeah I love how compassionate he is and how nice the guy is talking to her. She needs a lot of therapy and I really hope she manages to get better. I was misdiagnosed with BPD (I actually have autism and ADHD and it’s super common for women with both to be misdiagnosed) and I met a lot of people with it. I saw how much they struggled with dating and it honestly sucks. Props to this guy for being so respectful even when letting her know they weren’t right for each other.
@bonnie4372
4 ай бұрын
I have bpd and it is SO easy to fall into this distructive and hurtful spiraling behavior. Mental illness is tricky, but it's unfair to push it onto other people. It takes SO much work to be able to stabilize yourself when you're spiraling like this without taking it out on others.
@girth_goblin
Ай бұрын
Do you feel empathy? I have aspd, so I’m curious about other cluster b disorders
@bonnie4372
Ай бұрын
@@girth_goblin Yes! It's like a two-sided coin where I can either spiral over someone's slight shift in mood or build stronger relationships with them by noticing the little things
@theshnorbix6603
Ай бұрын
me too bonnie we are in it together 🙏🏻
@youssefatoui
8 күн бұрын
well i hope you're living a good life , stay strong
@kevinjenkins233
3 ай бұрын
I know no one will believe me but I truly have been in this guy’s position before, it’s extremely off putting for someone you barely know to come out with saying they’re in love with you, just for them to realize they were rushing then blaming YOU for it.
@andrewlombardi709
6 ай бұрын
The art of being/communicating softly is so undervalued in the modern day because of the misinterpretation of "soft" meaning "weak" or "simple"
Dude I knew she was gonna go to the empath bullshit
@opiniononion
6 ай бұрын
As soon as a girl says she's an "empath" run for the hills
@lingonberryjam320
6 ай бұрын
Iron maiden?
@arsena5209
6 ай бұрын
why limit it to one gender? anyone who says that unironically is someone you need to step away from, not just women lol I'd be more scared of a man saying that to me than any woman could ever make me
@Neelo5000
6 ай бұрын
@@lingonberryjam320 Run for your life
@kayaskao
6 ай бұрын
@@Neelo5000....Soldier blue in the barren wastes
@SilverDwarven
6 ай бұрын
@danrovis5171 hunting and killing's the game...
@mckennacarson536
5 ай бұрын
I had a best friend with BPD. It was a nightmare. She saw a psychologist sort of regularly, but refused to actually work on herself consistently enough to see changes. I became her emotional punching bag daily, and it just became too much. When I tried to defend myself for being a normal human being and not actively trying to sabotage her, I was the bad guy. I always got the responses “You think I want to be this way? No!” and nothing would be resolved or changed. She was allowed to treat me however she wanted because of her BPD. I was supposed to endure it. Any boundaries I set, she disrespected them. It finally came to a head when I stood my ground and I pointed out all the hypocrisy in our relationship. Apparently that made me the toxic one and she bailed. Nothing like being emotionally abused and being told it was my fault lol
@t.c.4321
3 ай бұрын
What do you expect, you let her treat you like a doormat. And you probably were only friends because you fancied her and was trying to get something from it.
@mckennacarson536
3 ай бұрын
@@t.c.4321 Well initially she wasn’t like that, but she was almost sexually assaulted and it basically opened the floodgates to all her mental health problems. Anxiety and BPD were the biggest ones that I was aware of. She used to be normal. When she started acting out, her friends started leaving, and I didn’t want to be like them because I knew who she truly was and thought she could get better. I was meeting with a counselor to help with handling situations. That helped me, but my friend despised all the advice because she wasn’t controlling me like she wanted to. So it resulted in nasty confrontations that I tried to let roll off my back, but there’s only so much a person can take. I wouldn’t say I was trying to get something from her, but rather I was trying to be the bigger person and it just hurt too much. She got a power trip from hurting me and it took me a few years to move past that whole experience. Maybe I let her treat me like a doormat in the beginning because I thought I was actually hurting her, but I learned it was only par for the course and that it’s okay to let her throw a tantrum while I take a step back with a set boundary.
Same here. Also wtf is up with all these bots, god damn
@beckylietzow
6 ай бұрын
8:14 „He‘s already won your heart over by just existing it seems like, since you- oh, I’m farting“ *fart noises* fucking SENT me
@GrizzlyGanstaGamer69
6 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@yvngxshady
6 ай бұрын
Same 😭
@nexuspalkia
6 ай бұрын
ughhh😫😫 I'm farting! 💨💨
@Yesna
6 ай бұрын
Did you land yet? Wonder if you can make it back home
@Jump-Man
5 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 why is he all of sudden just acting like this this guy lmaooo
@theredpanda4725
3 күн бұрын
The sympathy and understanding toward BPD in this video is extremely caring for many who have so much trouble regulating emotions like that. I really appreciate the attention you give to the awareness of her mental health, even when she was going through a negative explosion. BPD is famously one of the most misunderstood mental illnesses out there.
@PickleAddict23
2 ай бұрын
Dated a girl w this disorder and it can be so exhausting dealing w someone who is utterly selfish and mentally unwell.
@cemetery_ash
29 күн бұрын
thats extremely disrespectful. you can hate on a girl for being a bitch and being abusive, but making it seem like the disorder makes her a bad person is icky. many ppl with this disorder are great people, they just need help and sometimes dont know how to get it. have some empathy. not for your ex, but for others❤im sorry u had a bad experience though
@rfurlongfire
28 күн бұрын
@@cemetery_ash hes not saying that ALL people that are mentally ill are bad. Hes saying that its exhausting dealing with someone who is selfish and has a mental illness.
@ThaDoggo
21 күн бұрын
@@cemetery_ashicky lmfao anyone who uses that term lacks any form of intelligence
@magix8009
6 ай бұрын
I feel so bad for him, he seems like such a great guy and he had to have an experience like that. I hope he finds someone who deserves and appreciates him
@kiirosoleil
6 ай бұрын
I mean... the block button exists
@magix8009
6 ай бұрын
@@kiirosoleil what does that have to do with my comment
@LilyBiby-dp9bi
6 ай бұрын
@@kiirosoleilnever stopped an obsessive stalker, especially an obsessive stalker with mental illness.
@arthur0023
6 ай бұрын
@@kiirosoleil don't know about that guy, but I would not engage after the first mood change, but to each their own I guess
@bigbangrafa8435
6 ай бұрын
He didn't dodge a bullet, he dodged an ICBM.
@celeste6803
6 ай бұрын
“Love is not a lie, you were” is actually such a good line
@aeoligarlic4024
6 ай бұрын
Don't let taylor swift sees this
@lynxarcade2020
6 ай бұрын
Lol @@aeoligarlic4024
@cruginator
6 ай бұрын
@@aeoligarlic4024 I chortled at this
@TheJunkShot
6 ай бұрын
Is it??
@DefinitelyNotFort
6 ай бұрын
@@TheJunkShotfrom her, no, but this is a pretty deep line in the correct context
@justinb1212
3 ай бұрын
I love how at 8:15 it seems like you got sneak attacked by that fart and just kept your stride. lmao
@paracosm76
4 ай бұрын
8:40 "she then also explains she goes to therapy for her borderline personality disorder" I WAS LITERALLY THINKING SHE MUST HAVE BPD, WITH THE WAY SHE WENT FROM MADLY IN LOVE FOR NO REASON TO HATEFUL AND DEPRESSIVE OUT OF NOWHERE
@georgemcfadden680
6 ай бұрын
8:16 caught me so off guard when charlie just lets the fart speak for itself 😂
@alesturon502
6 ай бұрын
I know right? immidiately rush down to the comments xD
@MUSICBYCICERO
6 ай бұрын
0:39 😂
@auraclesong7208
6 ай бұрын
I love creators who are happy just belching and/or farting on stream ;D
@ccelite3782
6 ай бұрын
💀 he announced that crap
@user-uo2lh3fj1i
6 ай бұрын
😂
@nickangelo4190
6 ай бұрын
“Oh, I’m farting” *pfft *pfft. 8:17 This is somehow some of the funniest shit I have ever witnessed.
Blud burps after a "hi" and proceeds to double fart after reading some cringe messages
@coinwater8511
6 ай бұрын
I'm not even normally into fart jokes but that absolutely broke me. I haven't legit laughed out loud like that in a good while 😂
@Miss_Akashiya
3 ай бұрын
As someone with BPD myself I appreciate so so much how charly approaches it. simply acknowledging the struggle, saying he has sympathy for it and that he wishes the best for the people is enoguh for me because a lot people just love seeing BPD persons as nothing but monsters literally. a lot stigma is out there too about it sadly made me very happy the way he talks about this
@KiarashTaherkhani
2 ай бұрын
I technically have(had) BPD too according to what mental health professionals would say, but after 3 years of absolute hell and seeing myself as a victim of outer circumstances and making it worse for myself, I lost everything and I had to build from the ground up again - only this time with the perspective of personal responsibility after doing basically years of research into psychology and philosophy. It's definitely curable as I have experience with it first-hand, you just need to stop seeing yourself as someone with no control over your life.
@Miss_Akashiya
22 күн бұрын
@@KiarashTaherkhani you actually summed it up well. It's hard to sum up a disorder like bpd and that's not all to it. But it's basically what I did. It was the main problem what you describe here. I thought of myself always as the helpless victim. because I was for a very long time as a young child. It was hell but I was too young to change anything. But growing older I kept thinking I am a helpless victim. That I can't help myself out of it because I got used to it. I didn't know different. Had zero confidence. I was living in hell but I stayed there instead of fixing it. My past led me there I think. I've ruined relationships because I made my partner the hero to save me. Expecting way too much bc if that. It ruined 2 relationships. I tried therapists but most of them were very misinformed about bpd themselves sadly. But I researched a lot and worked on my mindset and how I handle things. And now I am so so much better it's a difference like day and night. I fully agree that it's curable. About 15-20 ish years ago psychologists even said bpd is uncurable. I am glad that this view has changed. I am so glad I don't have to live with this anymore. It changed so much in my life. Even tho in my case it was crucial for my healing to leave home cause I kept getting traumatized and treated awfully,. That really wasn't a good environment to fix my bpd. But now I live in my own apartment happily and even am able to have relationships again 🌻
@radchum
6 ай бұрын
I have BPD and im not gonna lie, a lot of my old conversations used to go like this ALOT. Lost a ton of friendships and relationships because of it. Ive been able to go to therapy and establish healthy friendships now. BPD Shouldn't be an excuse for her, especially that she's proven to have access to therapy. All in all I feel for the guy and the girl, hoping she can get better and hoping this doesnt effect the guy too much.
@drewdj45
6 ай бұрын
Well BPD isn't something that switches like a light switch, it takes weeks for the mind to change with BPD. That girl is just a narcissist who views herself above others, she literally wants this stranger to stop his life and make her his main priority... if that ain't narcissistic idk what is lol
@radchum
6 ай бұрын
@@drewdj45Wrong. Mania can be very prevalent in BPD. Its different for everyone.
@drewdj45
6 ай бұрын
@@radchum no not wrong, I’ve studied psychology for the past 4 years of my life. Not tryna be a know it but I literally go to school to study this type of stuff
@jeffersoncalderon3804
6 ай бұрын
@@drewdj45neither of you are wrong , not every persons mind works the same
@radchum
6 ай бұрын
@@drewdj45Then you would know that BPD causes a broad range of reactions and labeling it as a singular type is disingenuous
@lliminalshark
6 ай бұрын
as a person who struggles with bpd, its not okay for her to use it as an excuse for her behavior. that makes all of us who are trying to heal and be better look bad and its why alot of people demonize people who have bpd.
@boootyass
6 ай бұрын
i feel like it can very well be an excuse for some behaviors but NOT justification, i think theres a big difference between those two statements. like for example "oh, i was mad at you so i kicked you" the excuse there would be being mad but it doesnt justify the action in the slightest
@eternalfarts
6 ай бұрын
@@boootyassi think “explanation” is a better word for it. excuse literally means to justify. so i would say her bpd doesn’t excuse her actions, but can explain them
@shunoaki4332
6 ай бұрын
True, feel that.
@shunoaki4332
6 ай бұрын
I mean yeah, depends on how you explain it, to make it not an excuse imo.
@ispoox
6 ай бұрын
Exactly. Also got bpd. It’s super important to take responsibility and communicate when you’re struggling. I’ve really only been in 1 longterm relationship, and she never really understood what I was going through really, but she’s definitely not too blame. We had a lot of dark things going on in her personal life and while I’ve also been through it, I have bpd and a poor control over my emotions. When things got intense or dark or if she was taking out her grief on me I would feel attacked and use and say horrible things against her. We were on and off for years but broke it off probably for good last year. She has done and said pretty shitty things to me as well, definetly broke my heart. But it’s not the bpd, it’s who I was. And that’s really hard to accept. It’s important to understand what bpd actually does to you and to fully understand what kind of person you were. I felt that I was weak and powerless before and needed to take what cheap shot I could so that maybe that person could feel as hurt as I do. I super hard and I don’t have a definite answer, but for ones own growth it’s important to take responsibility for your actions, not using mental illness as a crutch, and establish a healthy outlook on your own self value.
@darkschweppes
5 ай бұрын
ok as a borderline i didn’t expect that very understanding part about what it’s like to have it thanks charlie you really brightened my day
@fizzie2301
21 күн бұрын
I know I’m getting to this late but I’ve had a similar situation to this happen recently and it’s terrifying. A girl I was talking to was intensely affectionate and sweet, but one day she completely switched up and ghosted me not long after. We had already gone on a couple of dates and I’m still scratching my head about it all
@Jsawyer191
6 ай бұрын
As a psych major and daughter of someone who has BPD, I could immediately tell that she struggles with it as well. They tend to lash out on people that they care for most and have intense emotions around what they feel is rejection. It sucks for everyone involved
@Aashka_The_Mystic
6 ай бұрын
Including love bombing and thinking they have a closer relationship than they really do, especially right after meeting people
She doesn't have "BPD"; she's just clingy. Stop making up disorders for everything.
@alejandrorivas4585
6 ай бұрын
@@furious_melons674Borderline is bpd. Bipolar has been renamed to manic depressive syndrome
@shadowofdread7018
6 ай бұрын
As someone with a psychology degree and experience with people with BPD, BPD does NOT make a person commit actions that harm others. There are still symptoms like abandonment issues, mood swings, impulsive attachment, and things of the like, but it does not inherently cause you to hurt others. That is still their choice to do. While I deeply sympathize with people who struggle with this mental illness, they cannot blame their mental issues when they go out of their way to hurt people for little to no reason EDIT: I want to clarify what I mean really quick so people aren’t confused. I do not believe people with BPD have full control over their emotions. Nor do I believe it’s impossible for them to have a seemingly uncontrollable impulsive reaction that can cause harm in the moment to the self or someone else. I saying going out of your way to cause someone harm then blaming it on BPD is not okay and it’s their choices at that point. For context, the girl being upset over not getting a good morning text and being moody about it? Yeah that’s textbook BPD behavior and while not okay, understandable given the circumstance. Her harassing him for god-knows-how-long after he dipped out? Her choice and not strictly because of BPD. That’s what I meant to say but could’ve worded it more clearly. Thank you to those who wanted clarification (and providing clarification with their own experiences) and not immediately thinking I’m just hating on people with BPD
@dumbassdude8372
6 ай бұрын
Everyone has been using mental health issues to get out of shits. Like serial killers wont take accountability for their crimes because they "was bullied and depressed"
@protojayplays6169
6 ай бұрын
My BPD for the last 23 years has done nothing but make me hurt myself physically and emotionally. I couldn't ever see myself being this mad at someone for 0 reason. When there's reason oh all bets are off. I also have psychosis that's getting progressively worse now Ive passed my late twenties and entering my early 30s. I want to be gone more than anything but I won't harm another human being.
@squeeze8178
6 ай бұрын
can confirm as a person with borderline. we’re far more likely to be hurt than to do the hurting - and people will use our disorder against us to say WE’RE the abusers. shit sucks
@dieyoung
6 ай бұрын
This is so wrong it's unbelievable. My cousin has had to be baker acted because of his clinically diagnosed BPD when he held his whole family up at gunpoint.
@amysaur7430
6 ай бұрын
I also have bpd and appreciate your sentiment, it sucks but I have to take accountability for my actions
@lazy7395
3 ай бұрын
"ooh wait I'm farting" "I even let my ass talk" 🤣🤣
@jackos_1
16 күн бұрын
8:17 me when I'm on the phone with any of my friends
@alexguerrero7703
6 ай бұрын
Putting those farts in there while I had earphones in is diabolical
@gamezuree
6 ай бұрын
those farts were hot
@rubub8455
6 ай бұрын
they made me edge
@wizardthecat9808
6 ай бұрын
I dated a girl with BPD years ago. NGL I felt bad for her but she was so toxic and painful to be around. She flipped from super sweet to extremely toxic in a second. When I tried to break up with her she threatened to kill herself unless we stayed together. As much as I feel for people suffering from this condition, I couldn’t do that again. As soon as she mentioned BPD a romantic relationship would be off the table for me.
@cfothough
6 ай бұрын
That is SUPER common unfortunately. At the end of the day, it's a manipulation tactic :/
@YukaAkemi
6 ай бұрын
Similar experience with an ex partner who suffered from BPD, just such extreme emotions and toxicity, and the suicide/harm baiting :(( it scared me
@sirlike5915
6 ай бұрын
how did you break up tho? i mean, what did you do when she threatened to kill herself? im curious cause i feel i may have a very similar situation soon
@reenakemp9132
6 ай бұрын
@sirlike5915 unfortunately, you have to not care. More than likely they are saying that to manipulate you into staying and they don't actually mean it. Don't fall for it. The ONLY thing you can do when you decide to leave, is stay firm in that decision and dont let her manipulative tactics work. If she pulls the I will kill myself, turn it on her. Say you have a moral obligation to call cops and get her help. Then step away and call them. If she is saying those things, then she needs help anyways.
@Vinthateshandles
6 ай бұрын
@@sirlike5915My ex would threaten suicide anytime I tried to leave. It's a manipulation tactic. You can offer them, like, helpful sites or offer to help them find a therapist but you still NEED to leave them. If someone tries to force you to stay with them by threatening ANYTHING then it'd manipulation.
@HackedByFPSwho asked? my pfp is way better than yours
@johannaappleforest7482
6 ай бұрын
I also have BPD, and I was quickly able to tell she probably had it. We fall in love easily, connect and become attached too easily, expect things to happen, etc. It’s a pretty rough disorder to have. I still cry over small situations like that as my brain tries to tell me xyz person doesn’t love me because they didn’t text ‘good morning’ or something. I will cry. But do I say anything about it? No. Because it’s not normal. It ruins friendships, and it’s toxic. So I suck it up and cry it out. It was hard to learn how to do that, as in the past the only way to make the pain stop was to say how I felt. Now I’m getting better at telling myself that things aren’t true, and if I need to cry it out I do. I hate being so sensitive. I hate it.
@marcin8865
6 ай бұрын
Was your BPD diagnosed?
@johannaappleforest7482
6 ай бұрын
@@marcin8865 I was officially diagnosed with it last month. I may be put on mood stabilizers to help. I hope I can get on them soon
@nolansrich
6 ай бұрын
womp womp
@noisnecsa995
6 ай бұрын
@@nolansrich rude
@FlightRiskWizard
6 ай бұрын
I appreciate your self awareness and for informing us about the topic! Wishing you the best of luck with your BPD, it is no joke.
@soupofdoom4542
Ай бұрын
start of the video: 0:00 burp: 0:38 fart: 8:17 end of the video: 12:47
@BrainInJar
4 ай бұрын
I have never heard of a self-described empath being a good person.
@hazyrays994
6 ай бұрын
anyone confessing their love to you after a couple hours of knowing them is just not a good sign
that's what I'm saying, I was like, "no wayy this is gonna end well" and what do you know 💀
@TacticalMoron
6 ай бұрын
Mhm word
@volvo09
6 ай бұрын
Exactly, that's not off to a good start. You know NOTHING about the other person. That's how you end up with a guaranteed mess of a relationship, you don't know anything about the other person's life and are fitting them into your life based on looks alone.
@user-zs6fr9we4w
6 ай бұрын
@@Vuuduu Since yuh like fi ramp black magic ow bout mi lef fun likkle hex inna yuh computa fi yuh tuh find
@zelorig8887
6 ай бұрын
11:20 "you'll never meet someone like me again" Got a feeling that's what he's hoping for the most.
i always find it funny when people say that during a breakup. Like, good? I wouldn't want to be with someone who is like you, because it clearly isn't working out
@zWolfrost
6 ай бұрын
"thank god"
@watchyof
6 ай бұрын
Dating someone with BPD must be tough.
@naejimba
6 ай бұрын
lol he didn't even meet her, just exchanged a few texts. XD
@thecandybarbandit
4 ай бұрын
This felt like a Hallmark Christmas movie in reverse
@diyma3462
5 ай бұрын
Hasn't even been 40 seconds and I'm already laughing, lol. "Hi *Burp*
@Normalisstillnatural
6 ай бұрын
As someone who has BPD and diagnosed narcissism disorder I can say it is a constant war to not become someone daily who can hurt those around me just by having my mind trick me into being someone I work extremely hard to control. Listening to this conversation shows me how many people cannot just control that erratic behavior side of themselves. I’m glad I have the mental fortitude to conduct myself better and be aware if I am overreacting in a situation.
@crowdemon_archives
6 ай бұрын
Self-awareness is pretty crucial for stuff like this I think. And of course, the fortitude and will to behave appropriately lol😅
@chadrickbasedman6686
6 ай бұрын
honestly good on you, i have bpd so this post really hit close to home for me. i hope she can get the help she needs
@_VolcanicAsh_
6 ай бұрын
Dude mad respect. Having self awareness is a blessing when dealing with mental health. Acknowledging that your mind is playing tricks and fighting to be that better person is honestly super admirable.
@unicekeepgoing7184
6 ай бұрын
Coming from a teen who’s struggling with OCD, it’s really admirable that you work hard to keep your mental illness at bay and it actually inspires me to not give up when my mind gets too negative 🤍
@Normalisstillnatural
6 ай бұрын
Thank you I am glad I can encourage you with my words and help facilitate improvements for the betterment of yourself.
@bloodvwedding
6 ай бұрын
8:11 "oh..im farting" i love how he announces and gives a warning before he farts
@try_force8794
6 ай бұрын
he actually said it while farting, that slippery rascal
@ev1627
6 ай бұрын
It just showed up without asking nothing Charlie could’ve done better there. In fact, that fart was being a little more rude than the crazy obsessed lady in the video really.
@mindspace3193
6 ай бұрын
@@try_force8794slippery rascal is fkn hilarious 😂
@bloodvwedding
6 ай бұрын
@@ev1627 i think those were misfires before the big one
@NotaCat-bz4pb
4 ай бұрын
"oop I'm farting" thats gotta be the hardest I've laughed at a fart 🤣🤣
@OuTcsTPoocifer
22 күн бұрын
“I rest my case I’ll let my asshole do the talking” lmao
@kaleighblack13
6 ай бұрын
as someone who has it; BPD does not inherently make you act like a terrible person. BPD can give you abandonment issues, insecurity, impulsiveness, attaching to others quick, oversharing problems- all of which it seems like this girl struggles with, but it does not MAKE you act like this. i have sympathy with her for struggling with such a horrible mental illness but not for how others react when she acts this way. she’s responsible for her own actions, not this man or anybody else. he didn’t have to be this patient with her and i wouldn’t blame him if he wasn’t but what a kind soul for doing so anyways.
You just need the right man in your life. That's what's missing.
@FeenieVonKarma
6 ай бұрын
@@RobbieStacks90 oh my god. thanks, I needed a good laugh
@andyg4929
6 ай бұрын
“Your mental illness may not be your fault but it is your responsibility”
@1mp0st3r6
6 ай бұрын
the burp at 0:38 and then the fart at 8:17 lmaoo. this is true love indeed
@wizardsweiner
6 ай бұрын
The time stamps we needed, thank u stranger
@1mp0st3r6
6 ай бұрын
You're welcome mate@@wizardsweiner
@tyrannous259
6 ай бұрын
The burp was unexpected the fart was beautiful
@omaegaa
6 ай бұрын
absolutely rancid.
@Brazierguy
6 ай бұрын
@@wizardsweinerthank you for your Reddit gold kind stranger
@AvA-ss7so
6 күн бұрын
The Love At First Text situation is Crazy
@sp1derface646
3 ай бұрын
as someone who has bpd and is doing reasonably well, the truth is if you are struggling to manage your bpd this bad, it’s not a good idea to pursue a relationship. you will hurt yourself. you will hurt the other person. it’s great that she’s in therapy, but it seems to me like she might’ve taken the fact she’s in therapy at all as an “yep! i’m getting help so i’m good!” and an all-clear to get in relationships she’s not ready for.
@remington8617
6 ай бұрын
as someone with BPD, she is not a fucking "empath," she has a disorder that amplifies her emotions to a painful and dysfunctional extent. I really hate it when people try and romanticize the disorder and frame it as something good when in reality it's nothing but a curse that needs to be worked around. she was clearly in so much pain by the end but i really hope she develops a better sense of self awareness or she will be alone for the rest of her life.
@mechwarrior13
6 ай бұрын
Ikr, its not like they lack cognitive abilities and intelligence. Cant blame EVERYTHING on BPD
@haridaspalleeri6765
6 ай бұрын
yeah this romanticization of mental health issues need to stop
@wheelockwarlock
6 ай бұрын
I agree with you to an extent. I think that people unhealthily romanticizing mental health disorders is a very unhealthy and dangerous thing. But I think it's a little too harsh to say that BPD is "nothing but a curse." I was diagnosed when I was around 17, and was in a toxic relationship. One of the ways that I learned to cope over the years is to accept the bad and the good of the hand I was dealt. Having more emotions than most, in my opinion, is one of my best and worst qualities for different reasons. I think there is always a bright side to look at and I hope you're doing well, from someone who understands the struggle. We all deserve patience and kindness ❤
@stevenm11920
6 ай бұрын
I agree with one of the other commenters on this, your take is definitely a bad one. Obviously romanticizing mental health is bad but your way of saying “cursed” is like not only a horrible thing to say to other people, but yourself. Victimizing oneself will never make anything better
@wargex
6 ай бұрын
I'll agree that empath isn't correct. But I can certainly get where she would come to that conclusion. Considering both BPD feel emotions stronger than neurotypical people, along with studies showing that people with BPD are hyper aware of expression changes, for instance a neurotypical person can detect an expression at 70% while the same expression can be detected by a person with BPD at 30%. I think with those together it's pretty easy to come to that conclusion even if it's incorrect. You can learn more from HealthyGamerGG's BPD 101 video.
@xdkristof
6 ай бұрын
"Hi! :3" *fucking dies at **0:38* "I've been thinking about you all evening
I’m glad someone pointed this out, but why tf is all the replies bots???
@PenguinXD4
6 ай бұрын
Welcome to youtube blud.
@Kuruums2
6 ай бұрын
@@PenguinXD4sybau “blud”
@acegauthier2365
4 ай бұрын
Honestly, this video made me feel a lot better. I dated a guy with BPD and I thought for a while that I was a bad person for leaving him, that I shouldn’t have left because of an outburst but I tried to be as gentle as possible and made sure that he wasn’t going to hurt himself and contacted his friend so that he had someone to talk to. He had used everything personal I had told him against me and then said that I “should have recognized that it was a BPD outburst” even though 1) he had never had an outburst like that in front of me and 2) he was literally tearing me down piece by piece and I was not in the state of mind to recognize that it was anything other than my partner yelling at me. Luckily I didn’t yell back, but I did break up with him the next day. Don’t know if this was for the best, but he got a new bf like a week later so maybe I dodged a bullet
@HaleyHomie
4 ай бұрын
The irony of calling yourself an empath at the same time catching 0 social cues
@cordona.sasha0216
4 ай бұрын
That common with bpd cus i'm the same way and then i find out later
@chaotic.taco14
6 ай бұрын
0:38 bro just let that slip out and acted like nothing happened afterwards
@marcin8865
6 ай бұрын
It's sweet to have honest people around
@olcaybilici9819
6 ай бұрын
scrolled too far for this
@booty_mcscooty
6 ай бұрын
charlie emits gas out of both ends in this video. such a chill dude..
@chaotic.taco14
6 ай бұрын
@@booty_mcscooty this man has absolutely NO BOUNDARIES he shall do WHATEVER simply because NO ONE CAN STOP HIM it runs deeper than you think
@jasmine6050
6 ай бұрын
😂
@maybe0rdinary
6 ай бұрын
The sheer amount of people who would go head over heels (in a healthy distanced sense) for the texts he's sent, I just. Man, he was so honest and treaded this situation so reasonably, I cannot believe it was somehow misconstrued even a little bit. I hope that guy knows he's an absolute gem, and I wish him the best
@zacharytokisaki6698
6 ай бұрын
Facts
@DjSunexx
6 ай бұрын
I feel like the whole commentary video as well as this comment is balm for the sould for a lot of guys nowadays...
@gooodmorning4526
6 ай бұрын
Yeah he seems really sweet and like he has good communication skills.
@RobbieStacks90
6 ай бұрын
I sensed a lot of fear coming from his texts because he doesn't have many options. He was still holding out hope that he could salvage the situation while most normal guys would have either ignored her or told her to stop texting them. He's a weak weasel, as they say.
@callumanderson6373
6 ай бұрын
@@RobbieStacks90k
@ReubenBBX
3 ай бұрын
8:15 " oh im farting" yep you sure are
@zoearsenault902
2 ай бұрын
Just want to take a minute to say thanks for how nice you were about the BPD, were not all to her level and I'm thankful some of you understand that. With the right therapy and medication, it is very manageable. Poor girl needs a lot of extra sessions 😅
@alvarez92504
6 ай бұрын
Charlie really dropped the ball not sending a "good morning" text to that apex legends guy after 3 consecutive games.
Fr. Would've been a nice rebound after the recent break up
@dazenguile4215
6 ай бұрын
seriously what more do you need than matching with someone 3 times in one night in a random queue? i’m a straight dude and so much serendipity in the room would’ve have me questioning! 😂
@unholylykoi
6 ай бұрын
i have BPD and i used to sound a LOT like this its actually embarrassing to me to see this and have to remember how i was before. I'm glad that she's in therapy for this right now, i hope that she has some self awareness eventually and shows this to her therapist so that they can work through it together. I feel so bad for the people who had to deal with me when i was like this. i did go back and apologize to them after i had help.
@Spiralredd
4 ай бұрын
The sad part is I am kind of like this too. I met a girl who was like me and was able to follow my energy.
@cia1542
4 ай бұрын
@@Spiralreddur just enabling each others dependency though , u should both work on it
@Spiralredd
4 ай бұрын
@@cia1542 we'd rather embrace it. There's nothing wrong with being crazy about each other. I'd rather her be crazy for me than not care
@jasper1957
4 ай бұрын
@@Spiralreddas someone with bpd and hpd who has figured shit out you're going about it the wrong way seek help and outsource. ive done the same thing and had the same thought trust me!
@Spiralredd
4 ай бұрын
@@jasper1957 well that's you. We're getting married and it's working for me and her
@Drummr88
2 ай бұрын
'Empaths' are similar to 'strong' women: Those that say they are, aren't. And those who truly are, don't need to go around announcing it.
@_juju_jojo_
2 ай бұрын
I busted laughing at that bruh It’s even funnier cuz most “empaths” and “strong women” have a mental illness💀
@Drummr88
2 ай бұрын
@@_juju_jojo_ For real! 😂
@quesochecko
4 ай бұрын
You know you dodged a bullet when they say “You lost the best person you’ll ever meet”
@lordinbred-of6cx
3 күн бұрын
"dont contact me again." *proceeds to spam him for hours*
@masongroff8068
6 ай бұрын
I was with a girl with BPD. The flips from her being super sweet to a demon, in an instant, were incomprehensible to me. Edit: I met this girl in a psych ward as I also had this and many other disorders… I never understood how one could conduct themself as she did. 2 years later she still harasses and threatens me.
@geoffdb8118
6 ай бұрын
Or a scammer that wants to harvest bro's organs
@Brush421
6 ай бұрын
My mom has it
@SomethinglDK
6 ай бұрын
Surprise, that's what BPD is.
@rat-gang-
6 ай бұрын
as someone with bpd - it's pretty incomprehensible to us too, lol. in saying that, even to me this is insane. this is just someone with bpd with zero regulation in how they deal with their own disorder. these texts say a lot about the fact that while this person has been diagnosed, they have either not gotten the treatment they need, or are very early in their journey to working through it, or (unlikely but possibly) are actively avoiding treatment for it as it gives them an easy 'out' for any bad behaviour.
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