Tu siab dhau lawm os lawv aw.. txoj kev laus cas nim khiav tsis dhau 😢
@7stars2love
Жыл бұрын
Thank you to the sister who share this story. Cov laus uas tuaj nyob tsev laus tom nej ces tub ki yeej tsis hlub tsis yuav lawm es thiaj tuaj, it doesn't surprise me that no kids visiting them. Kuj muaj ib feem cov laus mas tub ki hlub2 lawv los lawv phem2222 tshaj plaws kiag li thiab os ntuj es.
@lengvang1462
Жыл бұрын
Yog kawg Hais txog txoj kev laus ces Yeej tu tu Siab kawg koj tham li ko xwb ces Kuv twb los los kua muag li Os tus muam Nancy
@nadiak4455
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing!!
@lovelyasian938
Жыл бұрын
So sad ❤yes, it’s true and I feel so sorry for the elderly. Thank you for sharing your story and experiences ❤ we need more stories like this.
@PhoHmooAmerica
Жыл бұрын
I will always love my mom and dad. I can always find me another wife but no one can replace my mom and dad.
@amandaxiong9436
Жыл бұрын
Ebbb mloog zaj neej neeg no ces ntshe lwm hnub yuav yog yus li os. Cas tu siab ua luaj li. Tsis xav nyob kom laus laus li nawb
@Ibhnub.Ibyam.Tshiab
Жыл бұрын
Kuv yog thawj tug los mloog koj os hais tau tu siab dhau os thov Vajtswv txhob cia Kuv nyob txog thaum laus laus os
@maivue6428
Жыл бұрын
Zoo lus heev os
@junevang352
Жыл бұрын
😭 Niam Tais Nancy... koj puas kam kuv sau ib zaj tuaj teb zaj no os? Ua cas nej cov es muaj niam muaj txiv zoo txawj2 hlub nej ces nej nim nrog tus vivncaus no hlub2 cov niam cov txiv no tsis tag os. Hos peb cov niag uas luag cem hais tias tsis xws li ntiaj teb tej menyuam no los niam nrog tus viv ncaus no quaj2 vim hais tias yus ntshaw kom yus muaj niam muaj txiv nco thiab hlub yus li no thiab na. Nyias muaj nyias ib txoj kev tu siab li thiab os.
@samvue9219
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😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
@shouavang1696
Жыл бұрын
Kuv los mloog zaj no tu siab heev kuv yog ib tug niam tsev tseem nyob khov kho niaj hnub no tab Kuv twb muaj2 hnub nyoog lawm tu kuv siab kawg kuv lub kua muag yeej poob si laws xwb
@korxiong2440
Жыл бұрын
Niam tais Nancy aw ua tsaug rau tus uas muab tuaj rau koj piav os yeej muaj tseeb kuv ces 65 year xwb xav kom mus ua ntej thiaj tau kev hlub tos laus mam tuag tsis tau kev hlub tau kev ntxub
@touayang1051
Жыл бұрын
Tu siab kawg li os laus zus ces tej me nyuam tsis nco qab yus zuj zus lawm.
@sombunman5551
Жыл бұрын
Ua tsaug tus xa cov lus zoo no tuaj pub ib tsoom hmoob hlub , Thiab cov niag ntxub ntxub lej laus mloog
@solomoua5520
Жыл бұрын
We all need to be love when we are old and have our kids visiting or around us 🙏😢
@pajlugtswb5341
Жыл бұрын
Ntuj aw! Tsis xav laus os hmoob aw. Kuv tus txij nkawm mus thaum nws tseem hluas hluas es nim no tshuav kuv es kuv ntshai ntshai yav laus kawg li os me hmoob aw
@yeemoua1682
Жыл бұрын
Niam Tais Nancy aw Kuv mloog koj Zaj Nov es Kuv tseem noj mov ces ua rau Kuv quaj2 es Kuv noj tsi tau mov li lawm os cas yuav tu siab ua luaj li twb yog li no es kuv Niam nkawv yug tau peb 11 leeg tabsi tsi muaj txoj moolawv xiam tag lawm Kuv yog ib tug ntxhais Los Kuv Niam thiab Kuv txiv nkawv nrog Kuv nyob es kuv txiv twb txiam tau 6 xyoo lawm tabsi Kuv niam tseem nrog Kuv nyob li nawb es peb yuav tau ua siab zov lawv kom txog thaum tsi muaj lawv lawm peb thiaj tau koob moov os peb tsi yog zov dlawb nov tswv tseem them nyiaj ntau tshaj peb mus ua haujlwm es peb yuav tsum xav hais tias yog yus tu yus niam yus txiv thiaj li tsi npam2 peb cov hluas vim thaum peb laus peb twb xav kom peb cov me nyuam tu peb thiab os ua tsaug ntau2 rau koj zaj nov ua ib txoj kev kawm kom peb thiaj Txawj hlub peb niam peb txiv
@samvue9219
Жыл бұрын
Sister Nancy I saw it to it's called dying alone it's Young and Old.
So sad i'm getting old too but i know that is very difficult for some children to love the parents so if i know God then i will not be afraid to die so kavliam os thaum yus los es los licas thaum yus rov mus ces yeej yiav rov li ntawd xwb tsis tisiab rau leejtwg li os sister Nancy aw!!!!!!
@mailor715
Жыл бұрын
😢😢😢😂😂😂😢😢😢
@maixiong3375
Жыл бұрын
I thought of how sad it would be for my in-laws to be in the nursing home! So no matter bad all the siblings was to us. Me and my husband we stick it through together to take care of my in-laws until they both passed away. That’s when we both went back to working and started our career in our late 30’s. We have no regrets because we did our best taking care of my in-laws! My little family is has no regrets from spending all those time taking care of my in-laws because it creates great happy memories for my kids to have grandparents in the house!!!
@mosvaj1385
Жыл бұрын
Wow! Ntshe kuv yuav sign daim ntawd ntawd for sure os. Yog kuv yuav tuag ces txhob cawm kuv os
@annemarietho7241
Жыл бұрын
Hnov tej no tas mas tu siab siab ua ntej lauj peb os😢
@phouathao9741
Жыл бұрын
So sad,,,I make sure I sign that paper before I die ..rip...😢😢😢
@selenakhang3826
Жыл бұрын
Nancy aw koj zaj no mas hais tau tu siab dlau lawm es tsi mloog ntxiv lawm nawb
@chaovu4278
Жыл бұрын
Niam tais nancy txawm yog zoo li es meskas tiaj tsis yus menyuam mas
@nhialee1550
Жыл бұрын
I have been through with my mom. My brothers n sister didn't help with my mom so I felt for all the moms out there. She has gone to heaven for 16yrs. I thought of her often. Keep asking God for a good health life besides being rich. Sending hugs for all the moms out there still. Keep up the good works all nurses who have a heart for the elders.
@mayalee2400
Жыл бұрын
Ntuj os laws aw,, lub neej yav thaum laus laus lawm no mas tu tu saib kawg li os lawv aw..yug los ua neeg na...just so sad about life when old age...no one can't escape from it...
@hmoobxwb1
Жыл бұрын
Niam tais ci nplas, ua lu kuv nrhiav tau tej nkauj koj tso me ntsis thaum pin os?
@ncouazooxwbya1552
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing the sad story when we are getting aging year but our time in life was given and determined by God alone, we can not take short cut so in speaking for those live to the golden years most endurance the suffering here on Earth until our last breath. If something that we can rush than would be better to get ahead stand inline. I had put in request for God, ask him not to let me suffering, take me home when His time for me is finished. May God blessing everyone of us abundantly and enjoy every moment!❤️
@agneslykaso6249
Жыл бұрын
Txawj mus ces mus thaum ua tseem tau mi ntxis xwb mog cov niam tais aw 😭😭😭😭
@lor6760
Жыл бұрын
Wake up people we're here as a visitor. Heaven is our permanent home. God will wipe away our tears. Jesus christ the savior.
@microbiologist50
Жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤
@nancyyang5175
Жыл бұрын
You're welcome 😊
@sengyang6780
Жыл бұрын
Hais rau peb cov laus sawv daws txhob tu siab nyias muaj nyias thib hos me nyuam thib tseem yuav los nawb. Laus lawm ces tso txhua yam mus tsis txhob nco ub nco no yuav tau muab lub ntiaj teb no tso pov tseg ua ntej yus tuag ho. Thaum kawg kiag ces yeej yuav tau nyob ib leeg li no xwb.
@CuaUSAChannel
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Tutu siab li os. Cas Txoj me kev laus es txhua Tus Nim dhia tsis dhau li os😭😭😭😭
@diaxiong3361
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Txhob xav xwb xav ces txaus2 ntshai li os txoj niag kev laus os lawv aw
@maisvwj6763
11 ай бұрын
I used to work in a nursing home it made me so sad for the elders. I don't want to live too long and be a burden to my kids and loved ones. 😢😭
@angelxtasy
Жыл бұрын
First I’d like to thank you Sister whoever you are for your elderly service to our old parents. I as a grand daughter watched as my great grandma and grandma pass before my eyes. I feel their pain very much. My great grandma lived to 100 and she suffered greatly, even living with my uncle and they loved her to the last moment. I can still see her suffering no matter what. Our flesh and blood is only of service to us when young. When we are old and cannot help ourselves, we will suffer greatly each one of Us. My grandma on the other hand while alive, has always prayed to God to take her home early as soon as she cannot help herself anymore. She got exactly what she wished for and though I miss her, I am happy to let her go then to make her stay and suffer more. I too also wish to leave early as well. When I cannot help myself anymore, i pray lord just take me home. Less suffering for me, and better for my children. May the good lord watch over all of us. Wish you well sister.
@samvue9219
Жыл бұрын
Yeah hmong are like that 😮😮😮😮
@nancyyang5175
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Ms. Samvue9219 for always support me. I read every comment in here you are always support me on every story. God bless you.
@mosvaj1385
Жыл бұрын
Kuv niam ces nim ncaim peb Mus lawm es yog ib qho Tu siab tshaj mob siab tshaj tabsis nws kuj tseem mus tau hoob nab thiab kuv txiv kuj hlub nws heev es take care ua kuv niam noj tu nraum kuv niam tabsis she still able to use toilet so I’m glad she didn’t have that problems mag Mus nyob tsev laus but my dad is the one stay behind and I hope he doesn’t have to go thru that situation go to rest home. I hope my brothers won’t do that to him.
@msmaix808
Жыл бұрын
I was telling my brother this the other day. Leave when you are still capable. Once you are old, and disabled. It's so sad!
@atlasanyaandamazingplaces8597
Жыл бұрын
Nancy aw kuv mas thov kom txhob nyob laus2 xwb 😢 Nancy aw txoj kev no ces yog peb nyob laus2 ces ntshe peb feem coob yuav tau taug xwb 😢
@ky3079
Жыл бұрын
This is good to hear from a caregiver prospective so people can stop saying that it is just the old parents complaining about their kids. Thank you Nancy for telling these kind of stories.
@wisteria4550
Жыл бұрын
It’s too sad. I hope I don’t get to live long to the point I can’t care for myself. I loved my mother, I constantly called her until she told me not to worry too much and call her so often. Please, love your parents as you expected your children to love you.
@baothao1728
Жыл бұрын
Kuv kuj yog ib tus ua hauj lwm tom tsev laus thiab kuv yeej pom li koj pom ko kawg os es peb ua neeg nyob nyias nim muaj nyias txoj hmoo ua neeg nyob tiag22 li os lawv. Nej txhob ntshai mus nyob tsev laus mog. Nyob rau tom tsuas yog nco22 tej menyuam Tub, ntxhais xwb tsis txom nyem npaum nyob rau tom vaj tom tsev nrog tej menyuam nawb. Menyuam tseem cia koj da quav da zis ib hnub or 2,3 xuaj moos hos nyob Nursing home lawv cia tsis tau koj da quav da zis vim Nai saib xyuas cov neeg tu koj ntawd nawb yog tsis tau paub es ntshai los txhob ntshai nawb cov laus mus nyob li ces yeej tu siab heev mas vim peb yog hmoob tsis tau ua dua li luag lwm haiv neeg os lawv aw!
@shouavang6211
Жыл бұрын
Hais Tau tu Siab kawg
@yerxiong5831
Жыл бұрын
Kuv ces ntshe yog ib tug ntawm koj hais no ntag os Nancy aw tam sim no yus tseem ua tau noj tseem pab tau lawv zoc menyuam los thaum lawv need yus mas lawv mam hu kom yus mus ua haujlwm rau lawv xwb yog lawv tsis need yus ces lawv yeej tsis hi yus tias puas nyob zoo li os muab cav ces yeej tu2s Siab tshaj lo os
@elisely5353
Жыл бұрын
Peb hmoob yug menyuam coob 2 kawg cia siab thaum laus cov menyuam yuav hlub tabsis thaum laus zoo li no xwb tsis tsim nyog li os 🥲 yog hais tias yug tsis tau 1 tug no mas tsis pom qab tu siab thiab 😢
@youthenglishclass-yervang1081
Жыл бұрын
Zoo heev os
@hl6615
Жыл бұрын
Nancy aw! Mloog kj piav txog the check list ua rau kv kuav muag poob os.
@user-vb9xw7rt3k
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experience and thoughts! It’s sad to said that we couldn’t take care of our parents . They deserved so much more and love. I have seen and been there my mom was in the nursing home for 5 years. And during the covid19 lockdown, I couldn’t visit her for 7 months and us sisters and her grandkids would go up to her window then called and talked to her. She was surprised and happy tears 🥲 and we dropped off food for her only at the front desk during covid time.
@thestoryofmylife6979
Жыл бұрын
Very sad, I don’t wanna live til 120 yrs old. I don’t want burden my kids. 😢
@phaxiong95
Жыл бұрын
Peb ua neeg nyob pheej hmoo
@yerxiong5831
Жыл бұрын
An muab xav crs tu tu siab kawg lo os xav tuag ua ntej thaum yus tseem ua taus noj xwb os lawv aw
@beelee1928
Жыл бұрын
Most mom's have a favor child. Is that 1 care or visit her most often then others
@mollylor3443
Жыл бұрын
Nancy kuv mas twb tu kuv niam pog Tau 5 years ces txaus 2 kuv Li lawm kuv tsis kam nyob laus 2 koj tu ib tug laus mas ntsuab kawg koj ua hauj lwm mas tsaug zog ib nrab 2 nyiaj kawg tsav tsheb mas tsaug zog thiag mas koj nqa qhuav nqa Zis
@keith23615
Жыл бұрын
koj muab lub npe tso rau hauv no puas tau? ,koj lub drink kod naj.🙏 zaj neej neeg no ua rau kuv los los kua muag kawg li thiab os lawv aw….
@junevang352
Жыл бұрын
😢 It's so unfortunate for the kids who just wants to be love by their parents while their parents neglect their love and care... well that is until they can no longer fend for theirselves then they make the kids responsible for them. That's when nursing homes become the only option... Lucky foe thosw of you who have loving, caring, and supportive parents, but unfortunately for some of us we dont receive that same treatment. That doesnt make us bad kids... trust me, some of us love our parents more than how they can love us theirselves as parents, yet we dont receive love!
@ahthao1664
Жыл бұрын
Ntuj aw… ua cas kuv xav tuag ua ntej kuv mus nyob tsev laus xwb. Tsis xav mus ua hauj lwm li lawm os.
@agneslykaso6249
Жыл бұрын
Ntuj aw kuv niam kuv txiv es niam mus thaum 60 xyoo es kuv yuav nco kuv niam kuv txiv ua luaj tus mi viv ncau aw 😭😭😭😭😭
@youavu1433
Жыл бұрын
It is a very lonely place.
@kayang3898
Жыл бұрын
Everyone deserves love and care but you only offer one side of the story, the end stage story. Do you know their life story of what brought them to that place? Cov koj hais tias "vwm vwm" nas. Tus laus los txom nyem. Cov family tu los yeej txom nyem ib yam vim feem coob yeej tsis paub tu thiab tsis nkag siab tus mob. Tsis tim ib tus twg. Kev mob kev laus leejtwg los yeej yuav raug. Txhob cem cov family vim yus tsuas pom ib tog xwb. Txog txij luag tu tsis taus, txawm lawv phem tsis kam tu, tsis txawj tu, tsis muaj sijhawm tu, tsis khe.. li cas los xij. Luag tu tsis taus lawm luag twb tseem muab coj mus tso rau tsev laus tu es tsis muab ev coj mu nrauj zoo pov tseg nrau hav zoov li luag hais dabneeg txheej thauv. Don't punish anyone side. There's plenty of happy elderly folks at home and plenty of unhappy ones at home as well.
@suevue4045
Жыл бұрын
No, I want to go when it’s my turn and not wanting to stay until I’m 120 yrs old. It’s hard and sad when u live that long and nobody wants to take care of you.
@mosvaj1385
Жыл бұрын
Ntuj aw!!😭koj cov lus, daim pictures uas niam los yog txiv nyob tsev laus es tej minyuam tsis hu tsis tuaj saib es niam los yog txiv nim quaj2 los mi tub minyuam Tus teb li cas los muaj. I put myself in that pictures and it’s so real. That is so sad. But Kuv xav nug es ho puas muaj tseeb thiab? Muaj 1 co laus mas ntshai2 tsis xav tuaj nyob tsev laus vim lawv ntshai hais tias tuaj nyob es cov neeg tu lawv mas siab2 phem hlob lawv ris tsho, hloov lawv pawm mas ua phem2 rau lawv hos tseem cem lawv , ntaus lawv es lawv thiaj tsis xav mus nyob tsev laus tabsis Kuv ntseeg tias tej zaum hmoob yuav tsis ua li tabsis lwm haiv neeg no mas kuv xav tias tsis muaj ntau los yuav muaj me es ua koj puas pom thiab puas ntseeg tias muaj li thiab ?
@lalalalalalalala4264
Жыл бұрын
There's two sides to a story, this caregiver may feel like the children may not love the parents. But we don't know the relationship between children and parents. My Mother-In-Law is such mean and narcissistic person that no one can reason with her. It's all about her, even when she's sick she doesn't want her kids to know because they think we'll take her home and savings. WE told her she can donate every penny and the home to whomever she wants. We feel sick being around her, just calling her on the phone we have to prepare ourselves mentally to call her. My husband did everything he could to please her as a child and adult, it's to the point now where it's unbearable.
@maivang8072
Жыл бұрын
Koj tus kheej koj ho xwb li cas rau koj ma
@myprecious6751
Жыл бұрын
It is called a DNR (Do not resuscitate)
@mailor1380
Жыл бұрын
It understandable. I work in Healthcare and senior living for years. Not just the hmong people are like this. Other people are like this too. Very sad and lonely. I experience alot of elderly like this. Whoever sit alone and have no friend. I go sit with them.
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