As a woman with no children (and my run is now too late), thank you for being so open and honest with that question.
@DaylesAddiction
8 ай бұрын
You’re welcome, I found Sophie’s video helpful too, normalizing a common choice or situation and how we are all navigating it helps us feel less alone.
@drr7027
8 ай бұрын
Absolutely 👏🏼. Normalising being childfree or childless-not-by-choice is incredibly important. We are a sizeable minority and we need to have these conversations. I’m similar. Didn’t want them, then I did when I met my husband, then it didn’t happen. I’m now 49 so that ship has long sailed and I love my life.
@kristinpenta
8 ай бұрын
Yes! Thank you! @@DaylesAddiction
@MariaRodriguez-om1yi
8 ай бұрын
I find it so strange that people actually ask why somebody chooses not to have kids to meet like asking somebody why they choose not to have a pet or why they choose not to live any warm climate I mean it’s just so odd as if we’re supposed to all have children and all want children, that’s not the case at all
@DaylesAddiction
8 ай бұрын
I’m not an asker but I think it is reassuring if you’re thinking about doing something different to your friends or social groups it’s nice to know if or how others decided.
@luxuryandlifeinthemiddle
8 ай бұрын
Always love hearing your perspective on different topics and learning more about you!💜
@DaylesAddiction
8 ай бұрын
Thank you Lisa, it’s not everyone’s story, but it’s mine so I am going to own it 😊
@SofiaSeesBeauty
8 ай бұрын
Your issue of being in meetings all day and not having time to actually think and work is the story of my life 😂 all the work gets done at like 11pm. You aren’t alone!
@DaylesAddiction
8 ай бұрын
I’m working on it! It’s a little suffocating at times!
@Bignose599
8 ай бұрын
I'm glad you mentioned Lydia Elise Millen I have to agree something not right with her changed so much and not in a good way. Yes love josie
@DaylesAddiction
8 ай бұрын
It’s just very fictional now rather than authentic
@AutumnBeckman
8 ай бұрын
I learned a few new things about you in this one, which is always fun. It's refreshing to hear you talk so candidly (as compared to many other luxury KZitemrs) about how circumstances and CHOICES get people to where they are. How long were you in that very remote position? In addition to you not having reliable postal services there, it sounds like it was a time when the internet wasn't yet a thing or at least not the very accessible thing it is now. If it had been, I wonder how much shopping you would have done. When you talked about how you react when you find yourself feeling unhappy in a situation and how you can be less compassionate toward yourself because you recognize that you've made choices to get where you are and can make other choices to change things...OMG yes! I feel the same way. I'm really hard on myself and I struggle with balancing a personal life (like spending time with Paul) with work because if I'm awake, I'm focused on working and what I can do to push forward. Sophie's video about their decision not to have children was great. Your response is great, too. I love that you're not afraid to say that you saw motherhood as a trap. For me it was as simple as I just never wanted them. All the reasons didn't even matter because I wouldn't have wanted them whether or not those reasons existed. Great thing to run away from! It took me a long time and I'm still not completely away from it but I'm so much farther along than I used to be and so much happier now that so much distance is between us. Time for thinking. Yes on that, too! That's one of the things there was never time for in teaching and how are you supposed to come up with brilliant lessons if you aren't provided adequate time to create them? That's one of the luxuries I'm enjoying now as I'm not working for anyone else. Lots of time for thinking and creating, which I'm finding is what I most enjoy. Oh, I need the penguin bag! But first I need a Thom Browne dachshund bag.
@DaylesAddiction
8 ай бұрын
Thanks for such a great comment, we have a lot in common! I was remote from 19-32 - so a long time!
@JoleeSO
8 ай бұрын
Autumn, thank you for sharing! I love you more now that I already did! The adventures at the Biltmore have been very enjoyable for me because I adore your dry sense of humor!
@JoleeSO
8 ай бұрын
@AutumnBeckman
@AutumnBeckman
8 ай бұрын
@@JoleeSO Thank you, Jolee!
@adasollystyling
8 ай бұрын
You can never have too many designer bags.❤
@DaylesAddiction
8 ай бұрын
The inconvenient truth 🤣
@kristenclarkin7662
8 ай бұрын
I went to Japan back in March and April this year and it would totally be up your and Mr. Addiction’s alley with great food, street vendors, historic sites and of course, shopping!
@DaylesAddiction
8 ай бұрын
How cold was it then?
@kristenclarkin7662
8 ай бұрын
@@DaylesAddiction Actually quite nice and mild. It rained a number of my days in Tokyo which made it humid but like in the teens and low 20s the whole two weeks. I wore jeans and tshirts the whole time with a cardi or thin blazer when needed.
@littleblackbabycat
8 ай бұрын
Noone needs to justify or apologise for not having children ❤ like you I was not gaggin to have them and then when I tried, it never happened. My life has been and still is amazing🎉 im happy, fulfilled and creating an incredjourney. ❤❤❤❤
@DaylesAddiction
8 ай бұрын
And that’s the way it should be!
@kathleenewing3673
5 ай бұрын
Fellow bag lover with no kids and really never had the desire to either.
@YourRav
8 ай бұрын
I appreciate the honestly especially with what it takes to live the life you have.
@DaylesAddiction
8 ай бұрын
Thank you, not a popular position.
@hot4style36
8 ай бұрын
Thank you for being honest!
@DaylesAddiction
8 ай бұрын
😊
@jacquelinemoss1911
8 ай бұрын
Well I’m glad it’s not just me who feels that way about LEM’s channel, I can’t wrap my head around what’s happened there 🤨
@DaylesAddiction
8 ай бұрын
It’s like outlander…. Going back in time
@jacquelinemoss1911
8 ай бұрын
@@DaylesAddiction 😆😆😆
@StyledByGwenny
8 ай бұрын
"Most love is super-inconvenient, so you already know they're the right one" PREACH! 🙌🏼 After two weeks in Bozeman, Montana (yup, we went to Yellowstone!) for work training, I knew I was in trouble. 🦁😳
@DaylesAddiction
8 ай бұрын
How romantic!!!
@samanthaleigh805
8 ай бұрын
Dayle, would you consider adopting a dog? There are so many sweet pups at the shelter ❤
@DaylesAddiction
8 ай бұрын
I have in the past, we are pretty specific about what we want at this stage of our lives.
@sams3015
8 ай бұрын
I had a hectic day Dayle…you’ve no idea how much I need this
@DaylesAddiction
8 ай бұрын
I hope it helped you to chill 💕
@ItsOnlyWarPaint
8 ай бұрын
It’s lovely that Alfie is pottering around your garden, as it seems that you enjoy being out in that area of your home 🐾 💕
@DaylesAddiction
8 ай бұрын
It really is, I have a wine and a chat with him after work!
@elizas5320
8 ай бұрын
Dayle--Thank you for your channel. I learn so much (I look much better in bright colors vs. mute), I see such fun, beautiful, and unique luxury items, and I hear the opinions of a wonderful, thoughtful and delightful woman. I so appreciate all the time, energy, and heart you put into all your videos. 🥰💜🙏
@DaylesAddiction
8 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, what a lovely comment to wake up to this morning 🥰
@livingluxwithmeredith
8 ай бұрын
I always enjoy a Q&A. Yeah, nah to the Loewe bags!
@DaylesAddiction
8 ай бұрын
They are hilarious but a little too teddy like
@stellahulott210
8 ай бұрын
What a fab Q&A, thanks for your openness, you are such a lovely lady ❤❤❤
@DaylesAddiction
8 ай бұрын
Thank you Stella 🥰
@Shulott
8 ай бұрын
🥰@@DaylesAddiction
@pegasus100
8 ай бұрын
Hi Dayle! Love your channel! Love this Q&A! You’re gracious, authentic, intelligent, gorgeous, stylish (I’m running out of adjectives), lol. You’re relatable. Pls continue doing you on YT & IG. Love & hugs frm Singapore. 💖🤗
@DaylesAddiction
8 ай бұрын
Thank you so much that’s so lovely of you babe 💕
@ameliarosescloset
5 ай бұрын
Now i'm crying!
@DaylesAddiction
5 ай бұрын
😢🥺 I try not to think about it- I’ll be on YT ban that month 😩🤣
@altacostura3512
8 ай бұрын
Your husband did good, it's a very cute LV bag! And perfect for an informal lunch out...
@DaylesAddiction
8 ай бұрын
He did very well!
@LuxPurselove
8 ай бұрын
Loved this and getting to know you a little better. You answered the child question with such grace and openness. I know so many women who it wasn’t the right choice for. Lovely places to visit in the USA! I want to go to Montana and Yellowstone as well. I’ve been to the others you mentioned. ❤
@DaylesAddiction
8 ай бұрын
Thank you 🥰 I think it’s a good one to keep saying until it feels so natural it’s no longer painful! I wish Taylor Sheridan would hurry up with the last eps!
@ameliarosescloset
5 ай бұрын
I've just got to 32:52, absolutely we will, I miss your face!
@DaylesAddiction
5 ай бұрын
🥹🥹 the worst fomo
@belindalw
8 ай бұрын
That’s so interesting that you don’t really watch Lydia anymore! I feel exactly the same. She has just changed so much, so not what I want to watch anymore.
@DaylesAddiction
8 ай бұрын
I’m all for evolution but she’s way out of my world view now.
@belindalw
8 ай бұрын
Exactly!
@JoleeSO
8 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for clarifying how you got to where you are with your luxury collection. I have gained so much respect for you in answering that frankly. I don't usually comment on your videos but this comment compelled me to share my simple opinion. Thank you for doing this video and thank you for reading this word vomit from me.
@DaylesAddiction
8 ай бұрын
Thank you, I think it’s important to be pragmatic about these things.
@cap4life1
8 ай бұрын
Thank you for being so transparent. Your collection is beautiful btw!! ❤❤
@DaylesAddiction
8 ай бұрын
Thank you for being so lovely!
@annehebert7359
8 ай бұрын
I always bring a tote and a smaller handbag to work: The tote to hold all the work essentials including my lunch, iPad, and sometimes shoes; the handbag for my card holder, phone, and little bits. If I have to run an errand or I go out for lunch, I don’t have to bring the large tote. I’m not a card holder in my pocket kind of girl, I mean, I have all these cute bags and I want to use them! 😊 Whenever anyone asks how I pay for these bags, I ask them how much they pay for childcare every month, and are their kids in hockey? 😂
@DaylesAddiction
8 ай бұрын
Bahahaha Anne this made me nod and laugh!
@eileenr9932
8 ай бұрын
A few d and ms in that q and a, answered honestly and thoughtfully. Love hearing you chat on all things life and fun 😊
@DaylesAddiction
8 ай бұрын
Thank you lovely! You always ask great questions!
@mfes14
8 ай бұрын
Yes I agree Lydia’s nowhere near as good as she used to be but yes I still love Josie and Charlie and in the frow …. Thankyou for being so honest I loved it 💕💕
@DaylesAddiction
8 ай бұрын
It like they are a modern version of Outlander!
@bitsnbags
8 ай бұрын
I like Husk too, recently bought a dress from them 😊
@DaylesAddiction
8 ай бұрын
They have some nice pieces 😊
@tinatinita11
7 ай бұрын
I am late to this party, but if you visit California, do not underestimate Southern California, i volunteer to give tips
@DaylesAddiction
7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!
@JenniGower-eb9dx
8 ай бұрын
A fantastic Q&A thank you lovely Dayle. You are the most beautiful woman inside and out. You keep being you because you are perfect and I am sure Mr Addiction would agree. I must say I went off Lydia Millen quite a while ago. I might sound mean but I feel she is 'a want to be' Princess Kate, who is a beautiful lady. Sorry. Much love. Jenni. XX💜💕💚
@DaylesAddiction
8 ай бұрын
Thank you Jenni - you are always so sweet, I’m very flawed like everyone else! Sometimes you just have to be real and say what you actually think.
@littleblackbabycat
8 ай бұрын
Noone asks why peoplechoose to ave kids???!! Ridiculous people asky why we don't 😂
@DaylesAddiction
8 ай бұрын
Never thought about that way 🤣
@Se12endipity
8 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story
@rhondafrazier8205
8 ай бұрын
I love your lab grown emerald! May I ask where you bought it? Love your channel.❤️
@DaylesAddiction
8 ай бұрын
It’s MsBLUE lovely, I wore it last night too, I love it! Details in description box 😊
@Rose-qr4xn
8 ай бұрын
My understanding is that we give gifts to others at Christmas out of gratitude and remembrance for the gift that our Heavenly Father gave to us. He gave us Jesus …. He’s the reason for the season!!! 🎉
@DaylesAddiction
8 ай бұрын
Thanks lovely, I’m sure many subscribe to these reasons. Neither I or many of my friends or family are at all religious hence my challenges with it over recent years and the commercialisation and pressure rather than joy associated with it. Hence birthdays are more meaningful to me. Happy Christmas 🎄
@bitsnbags
8 ай бұрын
Your new Jimmys are amazing! 🥰
@DaylesAddiction
8 ай бұрын
Thanks Tan I’m smitten 🤩
@catherinepicicci5859
8 ай бұрын
My daughter is engaged to be married and she has never wanted to be a parent. Neither does her fiancé. I get it! You don’t know what you’re going to get. My hope is in my son 😆
@DaylesAddiction
8 ай бұрын
I hope you get your grandbabies too
@Seemstobereal
8 ай бұрын
Beautiful emerald ring..nice video
@DaylesAddiction
8 ай бұрын
Thank you
@lv_lover3393
8 ай бұрын
Great q&a I can relate to so much of this ❤
@DaylesAddiction
8 ай бұрын
That’s very reassuring thank you 💕
@jeanettenfreeland1408
8 ай бұрын
I am in Ottawa, Ontario
@5Heliotrope
8 ай бұрын
Task accomplished!! 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
@matthewwhittington-jk9ep
8 ай бұрын
Q&a for Saturday.
@hollygrace6814
8 ай бұрын
i am skinny and its got nothing to do with thin, but incompetent and un-intimidating - absolutely hahahaha. I have gone on 2 dates this year, trying for a third before the year ends but not betting on it hahahahhaah
@DaylesAddiction
8 ай бұрын
So no correlation? 🤣🤣 You have the opposite problem- misjudged boss lady!!
@kaylheecarroll3186
8 ай бұрын
Great q and a video 💜😊
@DaylesAddiction
8 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed 💕
@kaylheecarroll3186
8 ай бұрын
@@DaylesAddiction thanks 😊
@jeanettenfreeland1408
8 ай бұрын
Do you have an Oraton bag
@DaylesAddiction
8 ай бұрын
No I don’t tend to buy contemporary bags anymore lovely. They are a great Australian company
@lindathompson5099
8 ай бұрын
Great Q&A! Hope you find a fur baby!
@DaylesAddiction
8 ай бұрын
Thanks we have!!
@lindathompson5099
8 ай бұрын
@@DaylesAddiction yeah! We did to! So great to have them❤️
@DaylesAddiction
8 ай бұрын
@@lindathompson5099 oh congratulations!!
@lindathompson5099
8 ай бұрын
Sookie is a white and black Pomeranian ❤️
@Wildunfiltered
8 ай бұрын
Fab! x
@5Heliotrope
8 ай бұрын
(...that Loewe penguin looks like it's thinking "yeah, just shut up... I know I look like crap... I hate that design myself")
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