To summarize the video.. let him know you can and will walk away if he doesn't change his ways.
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
YES! Also the part about how to do that...
@johnmiller-jf3ez
5 жыл бұрын
Yes,but more subtle.
@nobody46820
5 жыл бұрын
So deliver an ultimatum to manipulate/control him. Got it.
@mizibelle
5 жыл бұрын
@@EvenStarLoveAnanda : I'm confused, How is it ''manipulation'' to let it be known in a mature & feminine way that you are not available at the ready for a wishy washy flaky Male who can't see that your time is valuable, why should one tolerate such? Its called having standards, maintaining your value and not being desperate. It should be the same vice versa too. Its actually one of the most important attitudes to have in dating/relationships, the will to be able to walk away if your boundaries are being crossed and needs not met!
@stephanijeopdevelt5600
5 жыл бұрын
VIXIN I was about to answer the same way. Well spoken! 👏🏼
@love7loyalty-MHA
4 жыл бұрын
I had to come back on here to let you ladies (Helena Hart) know I've taken your advice by allowing my man a lil time and space. He went away to care for his son who had surgery and he reached out to me while gone all on his own saying he misses me and giving me the update of his son surgery. I didn't reach out at all. You ladies were so right. A lil space and time works EVERYTIME. 💫💫
@radlyn7234
5 жыл бұрын
And they say Woman are complicated ... I think it’s Men who are so complicated , we do so much to make relationship work. Thank you for these advice 💕💕💕
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
Rad Lyn you’re so welcome. Interestingly I also encourage doing less, simply receiving and speak from you body. If you watch this video again from that perspective you’ll see it’s actually less doing and more being in touch with lovable wonderful YOU. 🌸
@radlyn7234
5 жыл бұрын
Adrienne Everheart's Love Academy you are probably right.... before watching your videos I never heard about feminine energy not even our mothers told us about it... it’s life changing for me.
@brookebenton8192
4 жыл бұрын
A guy has to be attracted to you in the first place. You can be as unavailable as you want but if a guy is not really into you, no amount of holding back will work.
@stormchylde3999
4 жыл бұрын
True, but some men will be attracted to you, but just not want a committed relationship, or be ready for one perhaps. Others will be just trying to use you as their back up plan. So they're attracted to you somewhat, just not in the right way. This will help you weed those guys out.
@finna5970
4 жыл бұрын
Thats really true
@annamarie3288
4 жыл бұрын
I think this goes without saying 😒
@susanabaci2800
4 жыл бұрын
What about “we should catch up soon”? That’s not good either is it?
@MsDcyr
4 жыл бұрын
Brooke Benton perfect then we don’t waist time and move on, win win for everyone
@splitraven7060
2 жыл бұрын
You’re right Adrienne!! I’ve noticed my guy chasing me if I pull away. He loves me so much. I’ve learned and used so much from your channel and used it on him. He responds. He’s soft in his heart, he’s protective, he wants to make sure my daughter and I are always happy even if he’s at work. He wants to know how much fun we are having. He’s become more passionate in the bedroom; I’ve noticed. I feel so fortunate for him and I tell him.
@amandadasilva675
5 жыл бұрын
“The more you are available. The less you are valued .” The point is, be busy. Be very busy all the time . 😊
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
Amanda DaSilva 🤣sort of. Only if it’s authentic. You want to simply have your own life and not laser focused on the man.
@amandadasilva675
5 жыл бұрын
Adrienne Everheart's Love Academy exactly If your always showing that you are available. There is no cord to chase You’ve already set the cord and chased it before you can even let him .
@LoverofSunflowernBees
5 жыл бұрын
I guess fake it if your really not busy huh
@LoverofSunflowernBees
5 жыл бұрын
Adrienne Everheart's Love Academy I’m laser focused and now I feel like I can change how I am with him too late for that now, also I have no friends that I do anything with but craft classes and I don’t have family to spend time with my daughter is living a life where she is working and spending time with her man having a life with him. Seems we will never do anything together again and so laser focusing isn’t a bad thing for me he is the only person in my life other then when I’m gone taking these craft classes or I’m out taking my son places or I’m shopping or getting things I need and he is at work then too I’m not working at this time so I don’t see how laser focused could be such a bad thing to be doing in my life ..
@amandadasilva675
5 жыл бұрын
Happydaysrcoming you have to make friends. These craft classes can have individuals you can make associates or even friends in a way. Being laser focused on a guy is a bad thing bc it gives the man opportunity to hurt you. You have all this time on your hands , you always want to be around him. It can cause him to grow uninterested & tired of you. Even if he was already thinking of you two being in a mutual relationship he would prolly feel like you would want to be around each other all the time & that would make you clingy . Guys like to have their free time and space . Guys like to chase . Guys like a challenge. So if your always available there’s nothing to really chase if your ALWAYS THERE. Giving him the opportunity to initiate when you see each other is giving him space to show his true self on whether he’s really interested. It will all show in his effort & persistence.
@TheSandrafabian
5 жыл бұрын
I don't do 24 hours. If I don't hear from him by Wednesday, I make plans... Waiting til the day before, is still holding my life for a man. My time is precious!
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
you go girl! XOXO!
@TheSandrafabian
5 жыл бұрын
@Laura Croft, Not even. I usually make plans with my family and friends, or find something productive to do. Whatever it is I'm doing, I make sure it's about me and not about men. This guy kept asking me on a date at the last minute and I always declined. He wanted to do things his way and his way only. He was a narcissist, so I didn't bother. I told him not to text again.
@TheSandrafabian
5 жыл бұрын
@@BLURRRULB That's exactly how I do it.
@PlatinumPlatz
5 жыл бұрын
Yes Wednesday is my last day for any weekend plans too!
@Dxrkzvn-
5 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@mariacapra2271
5 жыл бұрын
I let him go, bc he never text for days, he's reply was I told you I don't tex, really after several dates. I block him from email and online dating. Lol.
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
Maria Capra this is a good method actually. In “500 Ways” I have the script: I’m looking for a regular dating relationship and I feel we just aren’t on the same page.” Good job honey! 🥰 Thank you for sharing.
@nubiansands1162
4 жыл бұрын
You go gurl!!!
@2hotcoko
4 жыл бұрын
That’s all I get are Text’rs these days. There’s this one guy who has been text’g me for almost 3 years. I am looking for more real voice-to-voice conversation, and in person conversation. So, I just stopped text’g too much. I reply. But I refuse to keep the convo going on for too long.
@diannaantes5262
5 жыл бұрын
I became too available..Time for a Major Reconstruction of Myself
@SuperLuckao
5 жыл бұрын
me too. damnit lol
@LoverofSunflowernBees
5 жыл бұрын
Every man is different
@srtajordan3524
4 жыл бұрын
Both of us!
@jedmont5358
4 жыл бұрын
it's just that we give too much because most of the time our logic becomes clouded when we like someone so much.
@chattimac2476
4 жыл бұрын
Time for blood donation so we all are not too available. People are dying out there from covid19, war, and starvation ^^ Speaking of starvation i am so hungry Need to find me some food ^^
@love7loyalty-MHA
4 жыл бұрын
This is true about the car. I just was quiet , looking out the window.. he reached over and grabbed my hand and asked "what's on your mind "
@AdrienneEverheart
4 жыл бұрын
Learn more tips like this in, “500 Ways,” ebook and 2 day class bit.ly/500waysbook
@swim610
5 жыл бұрын
This is wonderful advice just to express feminine energy and be true to yourself and set boundaries. Thank you.
@joda1432
5 жыл бұрын
Be ready to let go of crumps even if he is what you want. Act busy even ifyou are not.
@patricewhite175
4 жыл бұрын
Lol. Wow. I do this naturally. I don't respond to tantrums or emotional outbursts. Explains why he always comes to find me. Lol
@jesseriddlecameron6261
4 жыл бұрын
Same haha
@teshamiller6001
5 жыл бұрын
I tried asking for hugs. Kept getting pregnant.💁
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
LOL!
@poojabatti3712
5 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 I’m married with a 2 year old and hoping desperately to get pregnant again.. You’re lucky
@alkalinelifestyle638
5 жыл бұрын
Too funny 🤣😂
@osoniye4209
5 жыл бұрын
Hahaha. 😘
@gladisseollia5614
5 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@MoonFoxASMR
4 жыл бұрын
Low key disappointed you didn't say the bend and snap for the body language trick.
@AdrienneEverheart
4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@am6874
3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@kimt4512
3 жыл бұрын
Awesome advice. Don't ever wait around for a guy or put him on a pedestal
@AdrienneEverheart
3 жыл бұрын
Keep up the awesome work!
@bodnarova05
5 жыл бұрын
Is this a joke question ? Hmmm don’t date a man who’s perfectly healthy and capable and isn’t working. Work on yourself . Develop self love . Raise your standards .
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
That all sounds really great. Thank you for commenting. XO
@Teal_Moon
5 жыл бұрын
“That’s when I expire and turn into a pumpkin” 🤣 lol! great tips thank you again Adrienne!
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
Thank YOU Sammy for watching and commenting, much love! XO
@Aileensjournal
4 жыл бұрын
I did all of these IT really work well . Good luck ladies.
@AdrienneEverheart
4 жыл бұрын
Thrilled about your results. Keep on learning here bit.ly/500waysbook
@lynnedavis4819
5 жыл бұрын
I say if plans are for Friday if he doesnt respond to nail down a time by Wed I am doing my own thing
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
Lynna, smart girl, that's the way to do it. Thanks for watching my videos, xoxo!
@femininedivin3
5 жыл бұрын
This is one of the rules in The Rules book. Wonder if you've read it
@sylnrg
5 жыл бұрын
Adrienne, you are by far the best!! I can already feel the changes in my relationship with everybody. Thank you so much for your help!
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy my videos are helping you! xoxo!
@Picklecommentcafe
5 жыл бұрын
Another brilliant video thank you Adrienne. I’ve tried the turning away experiment twice whilst sat next to my husband and both times he’s stroked my leg then grabbed my hand to hold,!It’s so sweet holding hands on the couch ❤️ xxx
@jacqw4695
Жыл бұрын
You're the best Adrienne! Thank you for the golden bits of magic dust you sprinkle!
@maykelsgamez4706
5 жыл бұрын
Don’t forget the ice cream when you watching this video lmao 😂
@jendemp72
5 жыл бұрын
That's funny about the car thing. I found that out by accident. I was driving and he was complaining about my driving and I was going to do my normal answer back. Well I was trying to get into my feelings and was staring out my window while doing it at a red light well before I could answer him. He apologized to me. It happened another time and same thing. This explains why!! Finding a way to respond from my feminine and not my masculine and both time before I could respond he responded so sweetly and apologized. It was the best feeling. Now I will be doing this on purpose! Thank you
@liliadowns2158
5 жыл бұрын
Hi Adrienne I am single woman ,and I am learning so so much from you. Thank you so much ❤❤ Love aal your doing to help us !! Much love Lilia
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
Yes! Yes! Yes! When you take you’re time and not knee jerk reaction the masculine man often steps forward. ❤️❤️ Good work honey! Thank you so much for sharing.
@alfienykabutler5919
5 жыл бұрын
I was turned away from hubby in church and he immediately put his arm around me.
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
Good work, and keep on learning! 💌Get "500 Ways to Talk to a Man" + 2-Day Classes: EverheartCoaching.com/talk
@MissyTC-86
5 жыл бұрын
These tips are good, but I don’t know if they fit the category of make him obsess about you. A lot of your tips are if you’re already with the guy and in a relationship. How about some more tips on how to get into the relationship in the first place? Thank you
@BlessedVivi
5 жыл бұрын
Yea that's what I was thinking
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
Happy to help! I have many programs for this to help you. It’s a process and not a one and done video unfortunately. I also have many videos about things to say if you desire entering a relationship with a man. bit.ly/femmtools
@Zelicious11
4 жыл бұрын
Even if your not busy, sometimes let the phone ring to voicemail and don’t respond to text so quick. Say sorry I was busy w (insert lie here)! I am so happy to have found this channel! ✨❣️✨
@AdrienneEverheart
4 жыл бұрын
Good advice! Xoxo!
@charlottaberg5080
5 жыл бұрын
This is so good and it really makes me think about how my ex husband used to act. It took me years and years to figure out how to handle his everyday small outbreaks; for a long time, I used to get a bit upset and try to find a way to fix things and make him happy again ... It didn't work very well.
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
Charlotta Berg I so understand. The drama triangle is a wonderful tool to learn and use.
@lynnedavis4819
5 жыл бұрын
oh so true. And yes they know, that they let you down. Laziness on their part. I have no pateints for men like this
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
You will attract a quality man that you deserve, sounds like you're on the way! If you want more tips and want to go deeper, I recommend this: bit.ly/datingunzipped
@TheKianaRoe
5 жыл бұрын
I swear this really helped in my relationship my god. I’ve .... I swear I need all the ladies advice I can about my relationship omg..
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
So glad to hear that YunniTv, much love! XO
@simplymarilyn5295
5 жыл бұрын
It's great being a woman! Thank-you, Adrienne for sharing your knowledge w us💕
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
Marilyn, thank you so much for commenting. XO!
@mercedezmorgan9135
5 жыл бұрын
Beautiful! It took me awhile to finally understand how important this information is. Everything I want to happen for me is under the umbrella of feminine energy. It works! Thanks!
@stephanieburgess74
5 жыл бұрын
Haaaa “now if you are trapped in a car with a man”. Lol. You’re adorable!
@katiej9767
4 жыл бұрын
When I’m feminine he’s addicted
@AdrienneEverheart
4 жыл бұрын
💕💕💕
@carrielegg5480
5 жыл бұрын
This is amazing help! This makes a lot of sense. I am able to feel my feelings and challenged setting the boundaries. I am doing pretty well with it so far. I am super excited learning all this information!
@keshakellogg5995
4 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh, your tip on what to do when he gets in a mood and you're stuck in the car is fantastic!!! Thank you for all of this!
@floridadivorce
4 жыл бұрын
Finally! Someone said it! Men have it harder than we do because it’s ok if we get emotional but they are expected to keep it all together. It does not excuse them when they are idiots but from childhood they are told “stop crying, boys don’t cry” and they start associating feelings and emotions as a “girl” thing. Thank you!
@hjane2309
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your lovely live stream. I watched today, its all very great advice. My boyfriend of a few years is hard to figure out especially with his masculine energy. When they're angry they really need to be given space. And done in a way where you (the gf or wife) have your own peace and go do your own thing. This is very powerful in calming men down. Xox much love 💕
@milenastanojevic7032
4 жыл бұрын
And how do you act when is time to reconnect after they've been given their space? Who approaches first and what is a good communication strategy to surpass the silence? Thank you🤗♥️
@TiffanyA837
3 жыл бұрын
can't believe this information is FREE! Thank you lord
@North11thStreet
3 жыл бұрын
Right!!
@AdrienneEverheart
3 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful! Keep up the good work! Go deeper with bit.ly/500waysbook and PLEASE Subscribe :-) bit.ly/everheartYT
@AdrienneEverheart
3 жыл бұрын
PLEASE Subscribe :-) bit.ly/everheartYT
@carmenmich
5 жыл бұрын
Great video!!!! No more taking crumbs.
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
Yout got it Carmen! Thanks for watching, keep learning and practicing these tools. XO
@TheDaniMilan
5 жыл бұрын
See this is why i get confused. I feel like it should be genuine and if they are your SOUL Mate (the one God has for you) it should come naturally. You two will know and will both act in fear or go full throttle. I honestly wish I could just be my Passionate Scorpio Self and not have to play these damn games. It just seems like you’re not showing who you truly are which in turn could have you heartbroken because they’ll leave you once they figure out it was all a facade - i get you have to teach one another how to love you but shouldn’t the one for you just be..natural?
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
Yes be natural, this work is more about not allowing the monkey brain or impulses to DRIVE you or the relationship. We are all products of experiences and genetics. When you tap into your body, GAME OVER as you are pausing to observe the inner self and are honest, warm (takes human practice) and heart unzipped. Humans as they are can be downright barbaric and cruel, this work requires reflection and yes some work. Natural is not 'reflex' - consider this. Keep on learning...💖My Proven "Get Him Back" Program: goo.gl/XLTZkp
@leesonsitty2112
4 жыл бұрын
Yes GIRL!❤️ Keep praying to God to bring you the one He will compliment your life! TRUST in GOD! He who is meant for you will find YOU! All these videos are helpful, BUT if that’s not the person from God, it won’t BE!
@NijaSym
5 жыл бұрын
These tips are gold! Thank you 💕
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
I am so happy to help and please keep learning with my ebook Guidebook, "500 Ways" bit.ly/500waysbook
@love7loyalty-MHA
4 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@edensangora6825
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for what you’re doing Adrienne! It’s changing my relationship. I’m realizing that even though I can’t change the energies of my guy, controlling my own intentions and energy can change my marriage regardless. It really is amazing and thank YOU!!!
@samiyap1
5 жыл бұрын
Adrienne you are such a blessing. You have such a beautiful spirit and I appreciate your help in my relationship. Continue being great love you. 😍😍
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
SAMIYA PURVIS thank you so much for commenting. Sending you much love! ❤️
@mssummerrose1
4 жыл бұрын
I have a good question: when I sometimes turn my body away from him (which I do from time to time) and he comes right after me trying to pull me in again (which he does every time I do that), should I kind of see that as real interest or rather just as possessiveness... thank you
@AdrienneEverheart
4 жыл бұрын
Hugs to you! 💕 That body language is a form of leaning back. This shows that he is pursuing you. Learn more here. bit.ly/femmtools
@lightsparkyl
5 жыл бұрын
Your advice is so helpful. I appreciate and admire you sharing such important info to the world. Many blessings back atcha!! ♥️💫♥️
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the kind words. xoxo!
@amandaedwards1137
5 жыл бұрын
I love you advise but u draw your you videoed out way to long it takes you forever to get to the point and i get do frustrated that I can't watch them to the end im not trying to be mean I'm just telling you what I think but great advice
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
Ah... your inner boy speaks! He wants it easy and fast. I wish it could be: here's the pill, now swallow, but there's just no easy way to say it. BE PATIENT with yourself and the process. Feminine energy is not linear like masculine thought and energy.
@TheSandrafabian
5 жыл бұрын
She doesn't take forever. It's not her fault that you're impatient. You need to be patient. Patience is a wonderful and feminine quality hard to find in a woman. Anything of quality, requires patience. There's no need to make such comment. It's not classy nor feminine to complain. If you don't like Adrienne's style, don't say anything. It's her style that maked her who she is.
@tinaleeth2707
5 жыл бұрын
Yeah it's our Male energy wanting it right now. But I believe it's part of the message of being softer
@keshakellogg5995
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for recommending that you don't let him continue to berate you for a past mistake. I've stayed in this apologetic state where it feels like he wants me to pay penance for years. Thank you. 🌷
@shayleenwebb4021
5 жыл бұрын
I seriously think this was my favorite video so far!!! Thank you so much!!!
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
shayleen webb you are so welcome. Xoxo! 🥰
@MsDripCoffee
4 жыл бұрын
There are so many good reasons for not accepting last minute plans. What happens is ppl end up making their friends not priority and who likes to get the invite to be a plan b when a date falls through? No one.. it creates an "accept whatever" vibe that brings other people down as well.
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
READY to Get Him Back?: bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack Be sure to join my online Coaching Community: diamondgirl.me/group
@lauramjaime
5 жыл бұрын
Adrienne Everheart's Love Academy I loved your video! Thank you so much for sharing ❤️ what can a woman do when the man you love is very friendly , and that seems to “open doors “ for other women. His attention is mostly on the people around him socially, and less on his partner by his side . Help! Any insights would be appreciated 🙏❤️
@Diamond_InTheRuff
5 жыл бұрын
@@lauramjaime i wanna kno the answer too!?
@iamnaestylez
4 жыл бұрын
I bought the ebook however I never received it
@AdrienneEverheart
4 жыл бұрын
Laura Jaime when he does this for others, comment, “you are just too sweet, feels so good.” Be sure you’re being warm and receptive even if it’s not for you. I believe you can turn that ship around.
@AdrienneEverheart
4 жыл бұрын
LYNDON LYNX OFFICIAL oh no! Check spam. Also email HELP@ Everheartcoaching.com
@amandaedwards1137
5 жыл бұрын
I like ur comment lol yea I'm impatient but I think that's the Aries in me lol but the shifting ur body away and looking out the window thing ingenious he was being very hateful an i tried it oh honey it worked he just kept on I was so aggregated at him and i was really trying to change my energy but it worked an thanks for the tips
@victoriaabsalom7362
5 жыл бұрын
lol I am an aries and i do get you.
@elizabethf8078
5 жыл бұрын
aggregated?? Do you mean agitated?
@a.h.2667
5 жыл бұрын
I love the tip about getting a specific day and time from a guy for a date. He doesn't have to know every detail of your busy schedule. It could include washing your hair or taking your dog to the park. It helps to keep a little mystery.
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
A.S. Holmes you are right on. Less is MORE. Get “500 Ways” and please keep on learning and practicing. This all takes much repetition to get reacquainted with your inner girl. 🥰
@a.h.2667
5 жыл бұрын
@@AdrienneEverheart I purchased your book a few weeks ago and I really like it.
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy it is helping! XOXO!
@Abby-qt3sg
5 жыл бұрын
Wow you are so sweet I learn a lot.
@ainaatinuke3685
5 жыл бұрын
You just got a new subscriber 😍
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Aina! XOXO
@annabellanillas677
5 жыл бұрын
Hi I am listening from New Zealand
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
Hello New Zealand! (My husband is a big fan of Split Enz.) Thank you for listening/watching. XOXO!
@SJH-el2of
4 жыл бұрын
I love your videos! You really inspire me to get into my feminine energy. Just hearing you talk helps me slow down my breathing and thinking. Wish I would have found you sooner! Thank you for sharing your knowledge! ♥️
@AdrienneEverheart
4 жыл бұрын
Happy to help! xoxo!
@lyndabensaada9685
4 жыл бұрын
مم
@neuroticgypsy
5 жыл бұрын
This is just too much work. A woman should be able to be herself and both people vent etc. and a man love her and vice versa. If a man is complaining about you clearly you aren’t compatible. This is passive aggressive and controlling on your part. Period.
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
Hi! It may be too much work for some, and for others it all may come very naturally. But there's a large group of women in-between those two that need some instruction and help in getting the relationship they want. Relationships are, by nature, quite complicated. Thanks for watching and replying, I appreciate all viewpoints! XOXO!
@TheSandrafabian
5 жыл бұрын
I don't think it's controlling. It's simply learning how to deal with situations in the relationship to be happy and understand our men. Many women throw away relationships because they don't know how to deal situations within the relationship instead of taking the time to analyze where they go wrong but you're entitled to your opinion.
@neuroticgypsy
5 жыл бұрын
This perpetuates a myth that we women need to change or adapt to a man. If a man and woman cannot get along it is a matter of compatibility not a matter of “ understanding our men”. Men are not to be generalized. They are human beings and are more than capable of being in relationships with women that they are compatible with. As a woman or man for that matter, it is not necessary to behave in premeditated or cavalier ways if you are compatible. We are all unique and there is a lid for every pot. Men should not be generalized and neither should women. If your relationship isn’t working and you tried to make it work in an honest and non manipulative way, perhaps you shouldn’t be together marriage or no marriage.
@TheAshMcG
5 жыл бұрын
Newsflash....all relationships are work or they are not worth having. You reap what you sow.
@egnalynngwe12
5 жыл бұрын
You have great content dear.thank you so much
@jinyiduan2546
2 жыл бұрын
It’s so brilliant and at some point it just gets so hilarious 🤣 can’t stop laughing when you acting on those real life examples. Such a wise and smart lady omg
@AdrienneEverheart
2 жыл бұрын
Happy to help!
@catalva2187
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🤩 for sharing your wealth of knowledge! I am so glad you showed up in my feed randomly about a week ago.. Now your abundantly showing up cause Ive watched and liked so many of your fabulous videos. My day steadily improves with each video I scroll across. Whether I have the time to watch it or save it to watch later. I will make plans in my head to make sure I have the time later to watch. So thank you for all that you do and I am a fan for life ❤
@AdrienneEverheart
4 жыл бұрын
Hugs to you, honey! 💕 I’m so glad you found me! I am honored to be a part of your life!
@secretshaman189
3 жыл бұрын
Good advice, I love your feminine energy. Yes, repetition, repetition, repetition is necessary, and viewing other coaches with a similar message, expressed in a different way are very helpful.
@susanhorton9492
5 жыл бұрын
what if I am financially successful than the man, how can I make it work.I don't want to not fulfill my potential because of his ego feeling threatened?
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
Of course you make your millions! He simply needs to provide something(s) and that's for him to figure out.
@ЕлизаветаСачук-ь8х
3 жыл бұрын
I'm so grateful for your tips! This is exactly what I've been looking for this evening podcast. Your voice makes things sound simple and easily understandable🙏🏼
@AdrienneEverheart
3 жыл бұрын
Awesome. Much love! 💋💋💋
@melindahernandz7942
4 жыл бұрын
what if you dont live together and hes moody? sometimes i dont hear from him for days. its so frustrating
@AdrienneEverheart
4 жыл бұрын
Are you in a committed relationship? If not, are you quantum dating? Stay leaning back. When he does reach out stay warm and open. bit.ly/femmtools
@amlin.eshita
5 жыл бұрын
hi adrienne, i like your words, but can you do more videos on the topic of how to get a guy who is friend zoning you, but may be he just doesn't realise it yet that he likes you! if that makes sense? that would really help.
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
Amlin Eshita that’s a great topic. Yet Do you have a specific question? Ultimately if a man sees you as a friend the best thing you can do is telling him how wonderful it feels to do things together and then ultimately ask him if he’s curious if there’s more for you two?
@amlin.eshita
5 жыл бұрын
@@AdrienneEverheart Hi Adrienne Thanks for your reply, what if he said he wants to be friends after i told him how i feel? and he also said that nothing is going to happen now, but he doesn't know if its never gonna happen ever or not.
@lizrivera389
5 жыл бұрын
What do you do when a man is feeling down because of something in his life. Mine told me that was happening and he asked me to check on him when he gets like that. I don't want to start creating the energy that I am his caretaker. I want to stay in my feminine energy but also help him feel supported. What should I do or not do?
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
Liz Rivera in “500 Ways“ ebook I share this script: I feel so helpless will you please let me know if there’s anything I can do? You can find that e-book at www.everheartcoaching.com/ebook In it you will find more scripts and also see where I teach you how to speak from your body❤️🥰💋Much love and thank you for commenting.
@74bluebird74
5 жыл бұрын
You're the best Adrienne. I learn so much from you. Thank you. :)
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
Thank YOU Katherine, much love, XOXO!
@valeriedonahoe5264
5 жыл бұрын
Yeah my husband and my boyfriend have mood swings worse than women!
@courtneymullins3621
5 жыл бұрын
Lol
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@conceicaonolast9834
5 жыл бұрын
Wow husband and boyfriend... you are busy with 2...lol
@gabriellerosewood7850
5 жыл бұрын
Ew u cheat. Gross.
@bubblybubbles4023
5 жыл бұрын
@@conceicaonolast9834 when i saw husband AND boyfriend, I was wondering if I read it right. Lol😊
@francinegray9383
5 жыл бұрын
OMG . LADIES: I had a long marriage to a man who was naturally intense and sometimes volatile, who had trouble handling his excess tension - usually over work.. My mother was with us for a while to help care for our son, so she unfortunately saw some of this. Her advice, given quietly and away from his earshot, was exactly like yours during those episodes. Did I listen? Of course not! His behavior threw me off balance so much that I couldn't hear anything Mom said. It took years for me to learn this. ( I actually thought we were the only couple dealing with this stuff and I was busy being embarrassed! ) Yes, it works when you detach and it also works when accept his help with issues not concerning him -- usually the guy's relieved that your issue is not about him. Everything in this video is so on point.
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
Oh honey. I hear you. So often wise women up in their years share their wisdom with our modern (masculine) minds. Bless her heart and you too! You’re learning all the secrets now 🥰
@francinegray9383
5 жыл бұрын
@@AdrienneEverheart Thank you. Mom took advice from her usually reserved mother-in-law as a young bride, then her much older sister-in-law! Now I'm the older one and still learning, 'cause ya never know!
@Mrs.T305
4 жыл бұрын
Are there any videos for persons who are in the early dating stages where you're trying to get to know the guy? I feel like a lot of these videos are for ppl who are already in relationships. I cant relate to any of the content as I haven't gotten this far in the relationship.
@AdrienneEverheart
4 жыл бұрын
This can work for you no matter what stage of a relationship you are in. bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack
@teresamacey7039
4 жыл бұрын
How do I compete with a dead wife when they were married 48 years?
@AdrienneEverheart
4 жыл бұрын
You don't! Honor her with him, but you're a new love in his life. No competition. Respect, yes, but this is NOW, both of you in the present moment together and looking forward. XOXO
@repentbebaptized1421
4 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha
@anneliz2878
4 жыл бұрын
Adrienne, I like your outfits. Would you share with us the brands you buy? This white blouse is very pretty too. Thanks a lot.
@kyrareneeLOA
4 жыл бұрын
Adrienne I so appreciate you.🌹 Who here has not been trapped in a car with someone that is moody? 14:12 Many times for me! My ex got Hanger, and would Pick me up moody and hungry and expect me to pick the perfect place now! And If I just tried to think of good places under tremendous pressure. Augh! Just turn away and look out the window and act like nothing is wrong. Let them fit it. Thank you.
@marciashirley726
5 жыл бұрын
I'm new and am loving this knowledge is powder thanks a lot, I'm from Ny
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
Marcia Shirley welcome!
@mimib1583
5 жыл бұрын
drag and drop
@kathiecoker3736
3 жыл бұрын
I’m working my way through your video library. Such gold nuggets here. Thank you♥️
@tatianaskhirtladze9510
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for you wonderfully introspective videos! You are like a sunshine, girl!
@wy5935
4 жыл бұрын
Hi Adriienne, how does making up excuses about a leg cramp work when we are supposed to be a stating our boundaries? It’s not fix-it mode if we just say that we don’t feel safe around aggressive outbursts like that. I think it would be more beneficial to just communicate our feelings about it. Right?
@AdrienneEverheart
4 жыл бұрын
I wish I understood your question better...?
@wy5935
4 жыл бұрын
Adrienne Everheart's Love Academy You mention when he’s having an anger outburst, to just make up an excuse and leave the room. But you also talk about us setting boundaries and communicating feelings. As such, wouldn’t it be more beneficial in the long-term to communicate to him that his outbursts make you feel scared? Thanks.
@reginamarie9535
5 жыл бұрын
What if its long distance? How do you do the turn away look out window then?
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
No more communicating with them. LDRs don't allow regular dating to get commitment. They allow the man convenience. Hugs to you.
@brenguille
5 жыл бұрын
I just love him so much that's why I always look for him 😭 he used to like me very much, and said he loved me but doesn't show it anymore so I look for him, why now I feel like I sabotage everything and somehow it's my fault? That's what make me feel sad
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
I am sensing your energy is now wrapped all over him and you have lost your beautiful self. Find her again and the man will return (if you still want him.)
@jolieo78jonas
5 жыл бұрын
@@AdrienneEverheart I 100% agree with you.. I heard this for so long and did not believe it... but then I had no choice but to let the love of my life go, I began taking care of myself, spring clean my space including clutters, clean inside your shower as well. Lol. Then start cooking your own meals, drink lots of water moist your skin do facemasks on a mirror next to you while watching tv or videos like this... sister let me tell you.. doing all of that youd automatically be thinking about yourself and how much better you're feeling and looking.. you moved on with your life basically.. THEN BOOM HE COMES BACK TO YOU... so what are you going to do now!??! 💞
@sydneyharrell2720
5 жыл бұрын
I hope you see this Adrienne! This is a big problem that many women raised in the Southern Bible belt face unfortunately. Those of us considered "ladies" are told to be absolutely submissive, endlessly giving, sacrifice everything for your man. We are reminded constantly of the "Proverbs 31 woman" and expected to model her, and she helps her husband and provides for her husband and family. We're told that separation is the devil and that we must fight hard for our Godly marriage which essentially means chase him and force him to work it out (in a positive, ladylike way of course 🙄) with lots of "I forgive you!" and "I won't give up on you!" and "Let's work this out together!" and "Tell me what you want and need!" I got my dream man back, everything you said worked wonderfully, and at first he chased me and was doing anything he could to keep me interested. Once we committed, I listened to all of this about how to be a good christian wife and mother and now he is no longer pursuing, is getting angry, is being a lil disrespectful and inconsiderate and I am so devastated! Is this advice all wrong? These leaders say that if we just be submissive, Godly wives that God will honor our relationships and men will think we're more precious than rubies and respect us but I'm worried I've screwed up 😬
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
I don't get into religious advice or commenting on religious upbringing, as you're detailing, and I have many good reasons for that. ;) I do think in some ways this kind of advice has steered many women into being too submissive and losing grip on their individuality, their strength, their talent and their powerful feminine energy. I'm just glad that some of my advice helped you. Go with what you feel in YOUR heart, which may or may not be contrary to some things you've been taught. In your heart, you will know what's right and what works for YOU. XO
@aqua9299
4 жыл бұрын
What if he didn't even call back or even remember about it at all?
@AdrienneEverheart
4 жыл бұрын
Hugs to you! 💕 You just stay busy living your full and juicy life and try not to worry about it. Pull your energy off the man and give him the space to come to you! bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack
@alaiaadam5767
4 жыл бұрын
🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟 06:46 on Warmth and Boundary “what day and time u r thinking? “ 11:54 ignore his mood swings, go out, do something else... 12:35 kinda notice it kinda acknowledge it and make and EXCUSE and leave 13:40 Turn ur back towards him slowly
@valauriereed5394
4 жыл бұрын
Do you tell a man you have plans to go away for the weekend, far in advance? Or just respond on the weekend, that you are out of town. Just dating
@AdrienneEverheart
4 жыл бұрын
Hugs to you! 💕 You are just dating, so you owe the man nothing. You need not tell him your plans in advance unless he asks specifically.
@PennyLane-kc1tv
4 жыл бұрын
You are a life saver this is what I needed thank you
@ErH222
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you beautiful❤💕❤
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
Thanks Erica for watching, XO!
@kriitiarora2867
4 жыл бұрын
Please please please do a video on how to dress up to attract men. I have a general style where i wear skin showing dresses because im genuinely comfortable in them, specially the upper body. It suits my lean body type. Does it drive men away? Please answer.
@miriamw4864
3 жыл бұрын
I dress modestly and you’d be surprised how much that attracts guys. Remember to leave something for the imagination.
@KWk-dg9uc
4 жыл бұрын
By listening to the video I see my mistakes with the guy he broke up with me. I was as masculine as he was.. :( I feel so sad that I ruined the relationship.. 😭
@AdrienneEverheart
4 жыл бұрын
You can always turn things around. Use him as a positive lesson in your life and see he is leading you to a new level of speaking and being. Be sure to check out my ABC’s program. Much love to you.
@tropicaoptica
5 жыл бұрын
The car thing... my guy would ask me whats wrong in an irritated tone. I'm wasn't allowed to ever be anything but happy with him, and turned away body language would communicate I'm not happy with him and then he will get down on me and get my emotions going while he stay cool as a cucumber and accuse me of being irrational when initially it was him with the mood who knows what it was about but the turning away would have for sure back fired. .
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear about these communication problems. If you want to try going deeper and figure it out using all the tools that I can offer, you might like to look here: bit.ly/500waysbook Good luck and much love! XOXO
@heathergrey7893
2 жыл бұрын
I hate myself for ever thinking about this person again. I am so stupid. I just want my old life back. This has been so bad that I really don’t want any relationship at all. It doesn’t work for me and that is okay. I am not cut out for this crap.
@mishkasalazar5346
3 жыл бұрын
hi ladies. im kind of new here and ive just been watching AE's youtube videos for around a couple of months now. and i guess the concept that the man "doesn't hear logic" is a little shocking to me. ive talked to my man that way whenever problems come up because i always expected him to understand logic since their supposed to be the logical/masculine energy. haha but yes, every single time im left alone, problem unresolved, and just sad. so im having to unlearn this right now. this is all new to me and it feels kind of difficult to process.
@daniellebeauty93
5 жыл бұрын
I love Adrienne and her advice cause it really does work.. I was with my man outside leaning against the hood of a van and started shifting away from him every so often I would start heading towards the back of the van and a few minutes after he would come closer each time. I believe I was only able to get to about the passenger side door and he stood up and said “I’m not going to chase you around this van all night get your a** over her ! “ 😂😂😂 In my mind I was like “Thank you Adrienne!” As I of course ran into his OPEN arms. 💛💛
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
AWH! That is so funny!!! Thank you for sharing!
@prettymamita
4 жыл бұрын
U have so many fans from all over because your advice is universal 🙏🏼 and for all ages too. All women have to deal with this stuff
@AdrienneEverheart
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. The energies are universal! 🥰
@wendyface6473
5 жыл бұрын
Power struggle. When I don't reach out, he doesn't either.
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
Wendy Face then it becomes a face off and he who speaks first loses. Don’t lose.
@femininedivin3
5 жыл бұрын
Its the guy's place to pursue. Otherwise it's a waste of time
@michellebaker6877
4 жыл бұрын
I'll say it, do you really want a relationship that's a series of power struggles? I was engaged to a covert narcissist and your comment stirred up some serious anxiety in me. Never again, sister friend. Never again.
@ladyllf48
5 жыл бұрын
I did that turn away stuff, all he did was turn away too.
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
Lil - it may be that he's not right for you, not the kind of man you deserve! Good luck, and thanks for watching. XOXO
@ellamcroberts5065
5 жыл бұрын
Hi Ella Mac, I really enjoyed the advice and will try the turn away motion...the listening one really works and let him fix it! That is key to his provider instincts. I just read “the Queens code”, it was an amazing book. This advice can improve us and them so much! It improves our connection! So stop frog farming, and let him become your King!
@eveyantha3142
5 жыл бұрын
Eve Ontario I watched this video a while ago and you gave me the clues I needed to get that high quality, loving man, I desired.
@AdrienneEverheart
5 жыл бұрын
Terrific Eve, you are so amazing! Please keep in touch. xoxo
@NM-gy6tx
5 жыл бұрын
Its lovely advice but I wish you could have said hello to everyone before you began or told everyone about links and tools, classes etc before you start the video. The stopping and starting is incredibly tedious. Sorry. Great otherwise!! x
@FeminineMotherhood
4 жыл бұрын
We had a date indoors onMonday, it was lovely, I kept some space between us at a few moments, and noticed that he leaned in EVERY SINGLE TIME to pull me to him.
@AdrienneEverheart
4 жыл бұрын
Of course he did 🥰✅ You are learning all the secrets now. Keep up the good work.
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