Ego and pride will kill something meant to be beautiful.
@delanocooley6364
Жыл бұрын
💯
@JazzyBlessed1
Жыл бұрын
Facts cuz sometimes we walk away ijs
@ceeceeivory8654
Жыл бұрын
She may take you back, but she is going to be a different woman after doing her in.
@chrisparker6249
Жыл бұрын
@@ceeceeivory8654 Amen, definitely. And you may not have full access to her heart like once before.
@delanocooley6364
Жыл бұрын
@@ceeceeivory8654 mos def
@deebrown7160
Жыл бұрын
Then men complain THERE'S NO GOOD WOMEN OUT HERE.
@CeeSparks
Жыл бұрын
Right
@danyelleterry2138
Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@JJJRodriguez
Жыл бұрын
Yes then wana hop on the passport bros stuff. Insane.
@MissVoiceOfReason
Жыл бұрын
@@JJJRodriguez bingo! Go read my comment. 😂😂😂😂
@crystalsagesynergy
Жыл бұрын
They project on women
@bringpeacetoall5505
Жыл бұрын
Placeholder. It's called being a placeholder.
@maggiebrown1919
Жыл бұрын
Yep … smh 😢
@amazinggrace313
Жыл бұрын
Why date if you know you’re still a little boy? Selfishness has no end
@reginadavis1028
Жыл бұрын
The answers are in your question: little boys being selfish! Smfh
@Lilmommabear4
Жыл бұрын
Exactly!!
@amazinggrace313
Жыл бұрын
@@reginadavis1028 it makes sense to me but not to them? Imagine being a little boy or a loser and think you’re entitled to sex and attention from a woman? It’s laughable
@reginadavis1028
Жыл бұрын
@@amazinggrace313 extremely but unfortunately THEY don't see it because of their level of maturity! It's sickening really.
@amazinggrace313
Жыл бұрын
@@reginadavis1028 you’re right. I’ve noticed men tend to want women to just simply want them for the same nothing ass reason they want u. They want you to be as animalistically attracted to them as they are you with no expectations except for the sex they want that they want you to want. It’s retarded really. I told this man I know if he wants sex for just the expectation of sex that he should turn gay and date men.
@ms.norwood4685
Жыл бұрын
The karma is her being gone when you get ready. As well as one of those women you tried being a headache.
@QueenUglyDuckling
Жыл бұрын
Headache.. ..yep. The one woman who ISNT THE HEADACHE... yet, dudes be after the ones who ARE / WILL BE A HEADACHE! And for what? Dude probably ISNT THE ONLY DUDE she being is being a headache to. Then again 🤔❓ It's been said we treat badly the ones who treat us correctly. The ones who possess vanity, arrogance? Treat a person like crap ❓ Those be the ones we stay being a glutton for punishment for.
@JJJRodriguez
Жыл бұрын
💯
@ksmith5899
Жыл бұрын
There’s a Lotta Mimi me never our or us or how she feels he can keep that bs😅
@ksmith5899
Жыл бұрын
Does she get to test drive?
@tiffanyjohnson1890
Жыл бұрын
She need to stay gone, did he mention love or respect, sound like he saying he going back to the woman that can be used and abused mentally because she dumb enough to take him back after being thrown away by him.
@cherrylynn7173
Жыл бұрын
Just let her go and let her find someone who will appreciate the great woman she is. Stringing her along and wasting her time will just make her resent you in the end. Then you lose her anyway. 🤦🏾♀️ it’s a lose lose on both ends
@ScorpioKay1027
Жыл бұрын
Their ego doesn't even allow them to consider her leaving an option. That's why they don't straighten up or treat her better.
@YoutubeTeasipper7856
Жыл бұрын
They don't care about our feelings and that what create the so called .permission women. To me a modern women is one who don't give a fk. Sadly some of them feel like it better to act like men but to me that is confusion.
@RiriLove88
Жыл бұрын
That’s what happened to me. The ex strung me along for so long that I ended up resenting him. Sometimes the thought of him disgusts me. Then I had to take all this time to recover from the damages he caused in the process. As women we can’t waste time especially because of our biological clock so it’s pretty wicked to put a woman through this. You’re taking years of her life that she could be spending with someone who actually wants to build with her. I’m convinced men put good women through this because they know her love is what they need but there aren’t ready for it but they also don’t want to see her give her love to anyone else so they damage her so it makes it hard for her to…
@angellenamay
Жыл бұрын
@@RiriLove88 💯 yep it’s evil. Like a spoiled selfish child who has a toy he doesn’t use but doesn’t want anyone else to have it either. These narcissistic dudes out here are puppets for demons. They are abusive and want to stop good women from realizing their value. They are jealous because they are not capable of real love
@angelamoore4438
Жыл бұрын
REMEMBER!!! THE GRASS is not green on the other side, it's only green when u WATER IT!!!
@belissimahoney69
Жыл бұрын
Relationships these days got too many elements and secret codes and bs to decipher. It’s just not worth the stress or mental anguish. And I’m in a relationship…ladies it’s ok to b single
@Babysista
Жыл бұрын
Facts!
@myownswagg1
Жыл бұрын
Mann THIS THE ONE RIGHT HERE!!
@dawnreed6830
Жыл бұрын
You literally have to stay on your p’s and q’s about everything because what are your intentions. It’s exhausting!
@joeblack4153
Жыл бұрын
That's Right Being Single Is Not A DEATH ☠️💀 TRAP . Sooner Or Later Will Find Someone. Never Give Up.
@vickieadams6648
Жыл бұрын
Agreed 💯
@CoaCoa551
Жыл бұрын
Made her an option due to pride & ego Put her on the shelf due to pride & ego, & then lost that very woman due to pride & ego. Should always put Soul before silly Ego. 💯
@ladyt_speaks_truths3923
Жыл бұрын
Exactly 💯
@shaundramiller6448
Жыл бұрын
Please young ladies, don't endure such mess,if I could go back in time I would have limited the connection,learn lessons,moved on sooner. Know your worth,keep your moral standards no matter what (take time ,get to know a person, keep yourself).🙏🙏🙏 If he doesn't show you he care,show you he's honest by his actions,show you he takes care of himself,show you he's consistently responsible, shows his obedience to God,let him leave,matter of fact open the door and make him exit immediately and lock the door and melt the keys.🙏🙏🙏
@90mrsjackson
Жыл бұрын
Well said
@cbcbmail1125
Жыл бұрын
BAYBAYYYY. Give any man you choose to entertain 3-4 weeks MAX!!! Anything that does not align with what you want and need. Get the ENTIRE F^€K OUT‼️⚠️🛑⛔️☣️
@warrior4christ902
Жыл бұрын
Amen, sista!!! 👏🏽👏🏽
@restingismyhustle
Жыл бұрын
It's the melt the key for me 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@lalani888blue
Жыл бұрын
It's amazing how so many people seem to have no relationship with God...Most men I've known don't even talk about God...and if I do? They basically roll their eyes or laugh at me. Hmmmn🤔
@iriswilson7387
Жыл бұрын
FINALLY, someone is addressing and ADMITTING IT❗️
@nikishamitchell9155
Жыл бұрын
Because most men will lie and deny this. We know when they dragging us along and we hope for change. Sometimes by the time they pull it together we can't find that love we once had.
@C2Different
Жыл бұрын
He is definitely in the 5% of the Evolved Men❤
@niknik1002
Жыл бұрын
Ok...more are needed
@ektasharma3520
Жыл бұрын
He is telling his personal story
@bernitacenteno1326
Жыл бұрын
GOD IS OUR CREATOR. WE MUST FOLLOW HIM.
@carmay3600
Жыл бұрын
That is what they used to call the “back pocket girl”. Keeping a good woman in your back pocket until you finish playing around.
@vanderumd11
Жыл бұрын
@@izealliaeldridge1901 sure.. we hope you go ahead and find a guy. But the reality is most males don't have that monogamy in them until we are older
@danielle1959
Жыл бұрын
@@vanderumd11 by that time that woman is fat with glassy eyes in her feelings
@vanderumd11
Жыл бұрын
@@danielle1959 which is why women should date older and get the best option they can and settle down
@shalalala868
Жыл бұрын
@@izealliaeldridge1901say it louder for the people in the back 🗣️🗣️
@km2530
Жыл бұрын
I’ma cut a hole in that pocket and bounce!!! Ain’t no man worth that ish!
@thepandemicprofessor7017
Жыл бұрын
They know the woman is dope but don't straighten up right away.
@ayoungmanofintrest6763
Жыл бұрын
well that goes to show...1woman don't like being corrected...(fact)...2...men could flex...but in the end we know what it best for us...
@carmay3600
Жыл бұрын
a young man of intrest What does a woman being corrected have to do with what he said?
@nayjavu
Жыл бұрын
Because maybe she aint that dope. That's always a possibility
@gracec1665
Жыл бұрын
Because, the men know they don't deserve a woman as good as you. So they move on to the weaker woman.
@queenof2kings299
Жыл бұрын
My ex's had this convo with me years after I left them. He's telling the truth.
@shaundramiller6448
Жыл бұрын
Dude told me he knows that I "thought the world of him" Man I got tired and stood my behind up and cleaned myself up and walked away. #HimComingBackIsntAnOption #OverADecadeOfDraggingKilledThePossibilityOfUs
@titcakes
Жыл бұрын
I was dragged for 7 years it still hurts and it ended 3 years ago
@tekewinfield7739
Жыл бұрын
Mine was 18 years and now trying to let it go
@danyelleterry2138
Жыл бұрын
Stay strong my sister! I'm glad you got out.
@tekewinfield7739
Жыл бұрын
@@danyelleterry2138 thanks qween
@YB-bd5sd
Жыл бұрын
We only get one life, of course it hurt. Please move forward and live your best life. Travel, go to comedy shows, concert, museums, date if you choose, enjoy family and friends, volunteer, take classes, work, exercise, stay busy. We can never get the time back we invest in men or women we love, but knowing you did your best by them is all you can do, you can't relive it or change it. Don't waste another moment living in the past, your losing out when you can't move on. If we still dwell in the past this way, counseling can be helpful. I wish you the best.
@tekewinfield7739
Жыл бұрын
@@YB-bd5sd thanks love
@redwine-6333
Жыл бұрын
The insight that you guys provide women is amazing. Some of these scenarios will have the woman second guessing themselves when truly it is in cases like these a man going through an identity crisis within himself. We appreciate you helping us understand. Seems so simple but you are doing the lords work in your own way
@courtnmoopsmama
Жыл бұрын
I wholeheartedly agree with this message! Watching these shorts from them has empowered me so much 😢
@PhasesofShe
Жыл бұрын
well said sis 🖤
@ladyt_speaks_truths3923
Жыл бұрын
Totally agree
@jasmines2260
Жыл бұрын
Don't put me through something that you wouldn't go through. It's not hard.
@lalani888blue
Жыл бұрын
Always a clear message that that person has a double standard. Definitely not worthy of you.
@ronblackwell4439
Жыл бұрын
I like how he hold men accountable even though he know that relationships are crazy
@dragonfly4494
Жыл бұрын
How is he holding men accountable? Only beta men listen to him to try and pick up some Mr Nice Guy techniques that aren't going to work most on the time. Real men just pop in here to get entertainment from the comments.
@HoodChicTheeSoloWorldTraveler
Жыл бұрын
@@dragonfly4494 so you’re one of the Betas that pop in to just read the comments from time to time ??💅🏽
@dragonfly4494
Жыл бұрын
@@HoodChicTheeSoloWorldTraveler No sweetheart,not a beta at all.
@lexaneli
Жыл бұрын
Yes! A lot of people don't like to be held accountable or called out for their crap.
@lexaneli
Жыл бұрын
@@dragonfly4494 speak for yourself. If it doesn't apply to you no need to defend your gender. There are 7+ billion people on this planet and shitty people exist in both genders, but many do not like to be held accountable for their worthless ways regardless of status or gender. People get very defensive. As a line in a song "who the cap fit let them wear it"
@QueenUglyDuckling
Жыл бұрын
Truth...spoken from the mouth of a member of the male species. To any members of the female species...take heed to what is being said here. DO NOT PERMIT ANY MALE TO "DRAG YOU ALONG" !! Do NOT PERMIT this to happen ...all in the name of you being ALL IN YOUR EMOTIONS over that guy. Do not ...DO NOT permit any male to EXPLOIT how you feel about him‼️‼️ Calling yourself: "waiting him out" in order for HIM to "test drive options." "waiting him out" in order for him to "exorcist" his demons, dragons, etc. (Ex: promiscuity) Wasting DECADES of your life..wasting DECADES OF your physical attributes & beauty...on a male....wasting....waiting on HIM to be "Ready" for ...you. Sisterchick, refuse to do that. Refuse to BE that.
@kathierobinson506
Жыл бұрын
Say that Queen 👑 Sisterhood United 🙏🏾
@QueenUglyDuckling
Жыл бұрын
@@kathierobinson506 exactly. Then we wonder why...when we see fellow women become bitter...miserable...bitch/bicker/beef with other females....become "dragons" towards those upright members of the male species....all because of CHOICES she made where males are considered. Now, don't get me wrong. Are there members of the male species who behave like Trix the Rabbit? Most definitely. Outright LIE to your face. Outright DECEIVE you to your face. Outright OVER exaggerate. Outright UNDER exaggerate (what I label convenient omittance). Those be the type that...until/unless they "slip up," you won't find out about that guy and his intentions (or lack of) until AFTER THE FACT ‼️ I guess what I am referring to w/my initial response comment is this~~there are those males...in which they do not disguise their rat bastardness. Their graffiti was already on the wall. Despite that? We females will attempt to INTERPRET the graffiti how WE WISH TO Interpret it. We want to change/shape/mold that male into the fantasy we want to make him to be...to "fit in" the fantasy. 💯% INCORRECT !!!! Women species has to cease and DECIST doing that❗ Why? ! Again...that "graffiti" was already on the wall~~females (and males too when it comes to some of us) have to view the graffiti and TAKE THE "ART" for what it f'ng is!!! Real talk! Stop trying to change it. Unless one is a "glutton for punishment" (as my "2nd mother" has always said to me growing up) ...unless you wish to become bitter...bitchy....miserable? See folks for WHO & WHAT they are❗ Assess accordingly. Decide (for yourself) accordingly. Make moves... ACCORDINGLY ❗‼️ 😉💯😘💯😉💯🤜🤝🤜🤛✊👊
@QueenUglyDuckling
Жыл бұрын
@@kathierobinson506 Also, KR...another thing. Here is the wisdom~~when the male members talk? What do I do? I STFU? Why? "CLASS IS IN SESSION" whenever one of them speak! I listen. I take notes. I audio record (do universities/colleges permit audio recording during lessons? Lol 😅...I'm not certain). I do all of that. I may NOT like what is being said by them Imany not like HOW...THE MANNER in which it is being said by 1 of them.. However ....at the end of the day, if it is truth ..THEIR TRUTH ..spoken out of THEIR MOUTHS? AT THE end of the day...how as we female species GOING TO BE ANGRY ABOUT THAT 🤔?? HOW WE BEING OR BECOMING BITTER like that in regards to that 🤔❓ We stay claiming we want the truth, right ❓ When we get the truth, we wanna become all fire 🔥 breathing dragon 🐉. Why? For what ?
@kathierobinson506
Жыл бұрын
@@QueenUglyDuckling school us Sis 👑. women say keep it 💯, but are you willing to receive the truth, that's why our men are dealing with mental issues, this social society grooming them to be tuff not to express their thoughts*calling them simps when they share their caring nature, I live in what they call the so call **hood** but I never heard a man call another man a "simp" I only heard this on social media ticktok etc..when will we unite for a better new day. I don't understand if females are bitter or mad at a man for keeping it "real" this type of female have issues rooted in their spirit that need to be addressed 🙏🏾 it's good to hear their are women like you with an uplifting spirit 🙏🏾 Peace & Blessings 🌹 Queen 👑
@km-lw2uc
Жыл бұрын
Aka ride or die
@kendal4452
Жыл бұрын
I loved him so much. Would have given him the world if I could. But I can't stay with the guy who hurt me. Who stomped on my heart.. He can't love me to hurt me like he did. I rather be with another who never hurt me, that is the guy who truly loved me because he never hurt me.
@kam.kam.
Жыл бұрын
I completely understand this.
@angellenamay
Жыл бұрын
He probably isn’t capable of true love, just manipulation
@ctgal9698
Жыл бұрын
This is why Ashanti, Cassie, JuJu after several years of being strung along finally all came to their senses realizing that they were just options in their relationships and were all smart not to have kids by those men
@rogro5101
Жыл бұрын
a dope woman knows how to keep balance and perspective In check. if a man disrespects his woman publicly then he is causing others to disrespect his woman and a DOPE woman refuses to be an easy target for foolishness.
@QponHoney
Жыл бұрын
Amen! My ex husband definitely did that. Loved the thought of marriage and family but definitely didn't do what it take to maintain a wife and family.
@senseofpeace6442
Жыл бұрын
Same
@therealkoolaidandkale
Жыл бұрын
Yeah. A lot of them want wives but don't wanna be husbands. Glad you survived and made it out. Cheers to better days ahead. 🥂
@QponHoney
Жыл бұрын
@@therealkoolaidandkale ...thank you!
@lifeisbeautiful9455
Жыл бұрын
My mothers life didn’t end well 29 years ago. So young by a narcissistic abuser. But god has kept me and I know the signs and this is why I’m single. Glad you got out. So many men like the idea of marriage but will not do what’s required.
@MsFrevrysPoetry
Жыл бұрын
Sad, a lot of men and women love the idea of marriage not the actual marriage process. They convince themselves that it is going to be a bed full roses all the time. Forgetting that roses comes with thorns. It's sad! Once it gets tough they run to get a divorce or the mistreat their partner.
@jess_is
Жыл бұрын
I wish men would leave women alone that they're not ready for.
@Rasheens-Story
Жыл бұрын
Yeah when sense this I walk away waiting for a man will make you bitter and cold towards him it’s better when we just find someone else that’s already past that boyish phase and settle down with them rather than wait for a man to act right it will scar you mentally
@christydixon1484
Жыл бұрын
I'm the living proof
@toriyt2714
Жыл бұрын
Yes it truly makes you have disdain for him
@lalani888blue
Жыл бұрын
Waiting ..is NOT YOUR JOB. Whenever you find yourself constantly trying to figure out what's wrong with this person? You are commiting to a JOB that isn't your responsibility. It's not my responsibility to constantly trying to figure out BS. I'm not getting paid to be someone's therapist. It's a waste of your precious life. A grown man can talk. It's not my job to keep waiting for answer's. He's already showing me who he is. Definitely not someone I want.
@sunnyflower1979
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for admitting this. You are setting the stage for open, raw, vulnerable conversations.
@patriciamcneal757
Жыл бұрын
Yes Sir...He said to me I know what we have isn't ideal and you want more but because of the situation I'm in I can't give you what you deserve...But I don't want to let go, I know you're a good woman and I'm being selfish because I don't want no other man to have you...Guess who I didn't take into the New Year with me...Damn Right!!
@lifeisbeautiful9455
Жыл бұрын
This guy that I didn’t know was married said that to me almost 13 years ago.. but we never dated, but he wanted to have me in his back pocket just in case things didn’t work out… click, block. The words that came out of my mouth. Unbelievable and thought I was gonna be stupid and wait. I’m like this is what you say to a woman that you haven’t seen in 10 years that you seen in passing… Who does that? I said I don’t date married men but you in my got damn face married, trying to see what I have going on, that was the first and last time he saw me. Unbelievable!
@interstellar_teller
Жыл бұрын
That's EXACTLY what happened to all 3 of my exes and one guy I almost dated but he chose someone else over me. I was hurt every time but had the sense to walk away and heal my wounds. By time they came back around with their shoulda, coulda, woulda's my door was closed.
@onebree4u
Жыл бұрын
It hurts bad. Felt like I was going to die. It's a loss and a tragic story for the kids
@lynnwhite546
Жыл бұрын
It's true, it will be too late when they see they messed up in a major way.
@musizlovva1570
Жыл бұрын
And they always seem to do this.
@melanier7309
Жыл бұрын
My ex is on his second marriage! Thank God I woke up and walked away.
@shandagibbs2192
Жыл бұрын
I realized I had to stop rewarding bad treatment. I have learned to walk away from things that don’t serve my highest good.
@AmynChe
Жыл бұрын
I LOVE this guy!!! He has so much insight to not be old!! Talking like he does you would think he was 45yo or more. I know men in their 50s that’ll likely die without having this type of wisdom and clarity on women.
@D.I.V.A.Journey3758
Жыл бұрын
As a woman, I appreciate this message. Thank you brotha❤️
@denfolo5224
Жыл бұрын
I can never be this selfish. I turned down 2 great men because I knew I couldn't see a future with them. That was linked to my anxiety.
@shayemoore
Жыл бұрын
I did the same because I couldn't see a future with them. I wasn't going to string them along and waste their time or mine.
@lemeciasmith9115
Жыл бұрын
Yes! Your pride will cause you to loose out on your for sure blessing.
@allisonchavous
Жыл бұрын
Say you’re a fool without saying you’re a fool
@tatianadaniel3569
Жыл бұрын
And that's the real tea😌
@danyelleterry2138
Жыл бұрын
Yes, sad but true. I'm taking notes.
@sbhm1108
Жыл бұрын
That last line hit hard
@candacesmith5572
Жыл бұрын
Love yourself and know your value you might be alone. But at least you have your peace
@luhkiaunni216
Жыл бұрын
Right. Keep that same energy, for if you ever need someone to be there for you at a nursing home or better, respectfully.
@latashahumphrey769
Жыл бұрын
I believe God will send me the man of my dreams
@gbeeandsons5501
Жыл бұрын
Amen.
@latashahumphrey769
Жыл бұрын
I do believe he will.
@latashahumphrey769
Жыл бұрын
I have been through a lot I didn't allow anyone to break me. I'm winning in more ways than one. I just don't say anything cause I got people waiting to c me fail. Well that same hole they thought they dug for me. They actually dug it for themselves cause they gone fall in it. Just when you think u winning that's when God will tap you on ur shoulder and say. You didn't think I forgot you did you. Cause it's coming it won't take ten years either
@latashahumphrey769
Жыл бұрын
I have learned so much now I can't continue to b a place holder for individuals everytime I help someone make it through the next level in they life I get kicked down for it. I am a fully grown woman and I put people in front of me and all to get talked about, I never thought I would c the day where I would get down graded. Disrespected I finally have got tired of it. I closed the door finally the other day. I'm able to c things a lot clear now I could never extend my hand or every have a conversation. Im better than that now. There is no reason for us to speak, talk, text, b friends none of that. I go in a totally different direction.
@latashahumphrey769
Жыл бұрын
It took me to c other women were benefiting off of me sharing my resources he going to make sure they straight and they good and I'm looking like a fool so it was just time for me to walk away and never look back and I have done that.
@dawnevans3730
Жыл бұрын
My husband, that I am separated from, is still running around in his 60's! But he is a narcissist and that's what they do!
@carlashelton7682
Жыл бұрын
Speak my brother. Time out for the BS. Keep it real, cause she might not be there when you return or Not willing to give you another chance.💯👎
@vanderumd11
Жыл бұрын
The data just shows how picky many women are so in reality, it's likely she doesn't find many men attractive.
@scratchingthesurface5589
Жыл бұрын
The sad part is the woman who stays and let's you go back and forth. I'm not that woman
@shalalala868
Жыл бұрын
That part. Make a decision or I’ll make one for you.
@jeaninewhitner9658
Жыл бұрын
Your not a man when your abusing a beautiful Queen. No excuse for abuse.
@editsforfun1238
Жыл бұрын
Ooooh wee! You better preach Miss Jeanine!! 👏🏽 👏🏽 I’d like your comment a thousand times if I could!! God bless you Ma! 🙏🏿 ♥️
@healthymindcounselingwelln5411
Жыл бұрын
It's abusive and causes a lot of psychological and physical symptomology from this type of abuse.
@godsgrace2187
Жыл бұрын
And as a Queen never allow a man to drag u along. Walk away in love & peace 🙏🏾✌🏽💯 Never allow anyone to fable you.
@TakyahLove
Жыл бұрын
I love how honest you are with this truth for women. But yeah that’s why I don’t allow men to dangle me baby lol 😂
@crystalinez831
Жыл бұрын
Sad reality. Stayed for damn near 14 years thinking it was going to manifest into something great. And the worst thing was making a family with this individual only to drag the child into the mess once I wisened up and left still recuperating while he still constantly tries to rub in my face what he’s doing in his current relationship hoping I’ll get mad. I’m glad he’s somebody else’s headache but pissed at the amount of years I’ve wasted with the wrong nigga.
@JoyJoy-th6fp
Жыл бұрын
This is true but it’s not right or fair. Ladies, viciously protect your peace!
@karenlane5436
Жыл бұрын
Life waits for no one!!!
@andreajones6840
Жыл бұрын
And a lot of times women don't take them back so that's the issue as well. Sometimes they realize they have a good woman too late and she's over it
@diannemarchese4808
Жыл бұрын
I just left a man who told me I was his peace and he could see us growing old together. He decided he wanted to test drive another woman so I told him that behavior didn’t work for me, and I hung up the phone and blocked him. I have no regrets.
@1stklassnsession214
Жыл бұрын
Mouth full when he said the damage that is done to the woman in the process of all that. As women we have to love ourselves first and more than enough especially while they (men) are trying to figure it out. We are all growing and healing. It’s a learning process and it’s not for the weak. ❤
@michellehernandez2840
Жыл бұрын
It's like men either don't realize or don't care that women are HUMAN to with EGO, PRIDE, and OPTIONS too. If a woman did that to a man, she's called the devil. When men do it, it's the norm.
@PowerfulLA
Жыл бұрын
Yesss!! I held my dude down in 2022 around Christmas ghost me,New Year ghost me,my birthday jan.3rd ghost me!! I'm 49 got my own everything, he's 44 and loves his ego. He has his own but afraid to be with me because I'm not the wear makeup, lashes or all this damn hair. Naturally a woman with no filter but his friends tell me I'm the best woman he has ever had. I cook,fuck,clean one kid 15 and don't club trying to start 3 businesses on my own. I convinced him to buy a dump truck so he can have his own and I'm going to school for the freight broker class for him and he didn't want a woman. So I'm taking the class for myself and all ready have guys who wants me to handle their freight loads. So he was a blessing God gave me to open my own eyes!! I'M DOPE ASS F#U@K!!😍💖💖💖
@dawnssunrises6050
Жыл бұрын
Yes‼️ You‼️ Are‼️🏆😇
@TT-nu4qk
Жыл бұрын
All I got is friendship for a man that's not ready and consistent i made mine eat friendship left once i couldn't hold on to his hoe self
@PowerfulLA
Жыл бұрын
@@TT-nu4qk I know when u right!! Girl I been moved on and witb someone else better!! I don't mind being alone. 😁😁❤❤
@TT-nu4qk
Жыл бұрын
@@PowerfulLA I am happy alone idk why unhealed not ready men love to come and try me. I keep slaying they ass.
@natashasdiary3120
Жыл бұрын
It's the damage they do along the way. Smh. We constantly have to reheal ourselves just for another jerk to come along and break us again. On a lighter note, I got the classes I desire, applied for my internship, and start work soon 😅
@kathierobinson506
Жыл бұрын
Speak Brother 🙏🏾 Thank You for Uplifting Sisters🙏🏾 with the truth ✨ women need honesty 💯
@treeeasywayne9383
Жыл бұрын
Yep, doing the damage is bad. Some of the smart women with good things going on in her life, eventually won't want to come back, be careful.
@dnakiso
Жыл бұрын
So true n it's about time u bring it out to these men that are losing themselves on self-indulgent.
@she-she1947
Жыл бұрын
I just was telling the person I married this last night. he don't want me he not ready but don't want no one else to have me. emotionally I'm gone I'm still here in the physical. I told him when the physical is gone then we are gone forever. there will be no 3 times a charm. Fuck that!!!!! excuse the language 😳
@2_blAck
Жыл бұрын
I was raised to accept being alone since I was 4🤷🏽♀️ So I can take people or leave them. I actually enjoy being alone😂😂😂
@lifeisbeautiful9455
Жыл бұрын
For real 😂 it’s a want not a need.
@EntertainerJacks
Жыл бұрын
I have a lot of respect for you. Thank you for raising the frequency and pushing this message. Thank you for taking accountability for a very high percentage that don't! What a great example!! Thank you!!
@hazelbhuka9695
Жыл бұрын
This guys videos are making me question a lot right now
@thegodweardotcom6252
Жыл бұрын
Men want to complain that there are no good woman... THIS!!!!!! they choose to abuse us but then we change who we were in the process because he chose to be selfish. We are not obligated to sit around through neglect and abuse which causes trauma that can be irreversible but at no fault of our own...not our fault that he lied and was selfish dragging us along
@MermaidGarden
Жыл бұрын
By time a man learns that it’s to late. The audacity!!! WOMEN DESERVE BETTER!
@Love32377
Жыл бұрын
If you play; you pay; the price being you lose a real one for all the “entertaining ones”
@jayc5756
Жыл бұрын
Mann I hear ya. Me, I don't take anything or anyone for granted...so I can't do that. But it is what it is. To each their own though. As long as yall know the risk.
@terranesha5784
Жыл бұрын
That's when you have control of your OWN life and not be dragged to begin with. Let him have the streets if he loves it so much. When they see enough of our backs they'll get it together. And protect your womb at all costs!!
@yolandabartee7363
Жыл бұрын
I commend this gentleman for being transparent.
@rasaanshakur9491
Жыл бұрын
From my observations it’s clearly insecurity regarding finances rather than the ego of letting the “life” go.
@reneebrown4610
Жыл бұрын
I have to agree with this.
@girlblanime6302
Жыл бұрын
the women that got away was "the place holder" keep that in mind ladies!!!
@tyheildes6210
Жыл бұрын
You can’t have your cake and eat it too though. She will be GONE when you ready
@shalalala868
Жыл бұрын
It’s very prideful to think she should and would wait around after you’re done playing her and playing the field.
@WillbeSingin
Жыл бұрын
Right... While he's holding out, playing for his accolades, from women who couldn't dare to compare, she's learning he can't be trusted, and ain't with giving her legacy to.
@Carolina-dq4ce
Жыл бұрын
This is why I date 4-5 men at the time. You are not wasting my time!
@jaywannacooper9112
11 ай бұрын
😊🎉
@donnatalks
Жыл бұрын
This is so mature and definitely let's dope ass women understand that no it's not you yes it is him.
@Redbonesheepofthefamily
Жыл бұрын
Yes it’s sad because I allowed the father of out now 2 grown children to drag me for 22 years and I have been single now almost 2 years and I’m just trying to love myself and heal and interact with people again in person because I for todaydon’t like being around people anymore I have serious major trust issues!
@editsforfun1238
Жыл бұрын
Baby, I’m so sorry to hear that. I’m so sorry for all the pain and sadness you’ve endured. Seek ye first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness, then everything else will be added to you. I just want to take a moment to remind you that you are valued and more valuable than rubies! God knit you together on your Mother’s womb and loved you before He laid the foundation of the Earth! Reflect on that for a while. You know, Miss Teona, I could search this whole planet and not find another You!! You are wanted, needed and loved beyond measure! Take as much time as you need to find your strength in the Lord Jesus, I assure you Ma, He has a plan and a purpose for your life! Wait for Him to send you the right man. I assure you, He will! From one woman to another, I just want to remind you of how incredibly valuable you are. I love you Miss Teona, in Jesus name. May God keep you, and bless you and your family! 🙏🏿 ♥️
@NoName-nj4mw
Жыл бұрын
It's called "pocketing." He keeps you in his back pocket while he keeps his options open to make sure he can't get better than you. Please love yourself too much to allow a dude to do this to you.
@kenishabrockington8149
Жыл бұрын
this is the same with women too! That’s why I say relationships are timing!!
@user-gr6fv3pp1q
Жыл бұрын
Feeling myself a bit - 😂😂😂 a freaking lot!! Boys be living for that
@napfreedom2153
Жыл бұрын
Wow!! I've been dragged before, my true first love. I had to leave him after a couple years. Just sent me a hello in messenger. That's what a good woman means when she says, "your gonna miss me when I'm gone."
@avig8334
Жыл бұрын
Straight facts . I’ve experienced this , however I didn’t allow this behavior to exist for long . Because I left . If he still wants to play the field great. However, not with me ; his behavior impact me from a mental health and physical health perspective. Once my trust is broken, it’s never bonded.
@alldayHK
Жыл бұрын
“nah he just needs to realize-“ HE DOES.
@girlblanime6302
Жыл бұрын
this is why everytime an ex a man disrispect me, I make sure to glow up ,not for him to miss me but,to become the women him and men like him will NVER HAVE access to ,not out ot revenge but in oder to attract the right person.
@melissatrowell3720
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for being honest and transparent it's refreshing blessings
@hellothere8347
Жыл бұрын
This what my ex keep trying to do to me. I’m literally getting to the point where I just don’t even want to be bothered by him. Like I realized even he was telling me “I love you sm” I didn’t even say it back to him. I’m tired of him
@catherinemcatee7275
Жыл бұрын
Facts . This was said with grace . 💯
@respectedtherightway6695
Жыл бұрын
This man has sense
@samirajamerson6876
Жыл бұрын
He's so Real . I Thank You For the knowledge
@danyelleterry2138
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for telling the truth!! Much Respect to you.
@loniwatson8110
Жыл бұрын
How am I supposed to take this? Many ways this can be examined. Oh Lord, if he only knew where my mind goes. One day you'll get it.
@KayKay-fc5sg
Жыл бұрын
Very true and for this very reason I’m getting ready to exit stage left. Wish I would have left soon!
@SkittlesNC1
Жыл бұрын
This is why I stay single. I'm not wasting any more of my time.
@mothergoose4055
Жыл бұрын
Men who do this DO know the damage it causes. They Do Not care. They don't care about your feelings, mental health or wasted time. All they care about is getting their own needs met. It's incredibly selfish and shows a lack of empathy.
@taurusgoddess4447
Жыл бұрын
Yall don't realize the karma. Wasting a woman's time. Trying to delay her destiny WITH SOMEONE ELSE. TRYING TO Play GOD for your selfish ways will always backfire.
@shalalala868
Жыл бұрын
Girl!! You’d better PREACH!! Delaying destinies and wasting time!! They will have to give an account before God 💯💯
@lovelylife56
Жыл бұрын
Dope ass Women will leave and never be draged any where......
@shalalala868
Жыл бұрын
Period! Been this way this grade school, too! If you can’t make up your mind, I’ll make it up for you and the answer is: “I’m out” ✌🏾✌🏾
@lovelylife56
Жыл бұрын
@@shalalala868 Facts💯
@jaywannacooper9112
11 ай бұрын
@@lovelylife56, The message for the people in Da back🙂🎉
@dancehallqueenie777
Жыл бұрын
I love your words. You are like a breathe of fresh air.
@cardinalsandrosestarot4724
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your knowledge with us. You guys sure keep our heads spinning most of the time. Love ❤️ and light ✨️
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