Hey everyone,
Something I've been seeing a lot lately in various forums is "My spouse is leaving me and the kiddo. I don't think I can handle their special needs either" kind of sad stories.
Hubster and I have been married for 9 years this month and when I reflect on the past 6 (V-Man's age)- I have wanted to leave too.
It wasn't always because of the autism but more because I felt my husband deserved a better partner. One that could keep her shit together and manage time and chores better while he worked.
One that didn't threaten divorce every time she had a rotten day with the kid(s).
One that he could rely on to give 100%.
Once I've learned that I can't leave because of my wild curiosity and also because I've learned a marriage and parenting take 100% from each parent- it got better.
Now that I'm in school doing something I love (and learning a lot on the way!) and have no homework (thus far)- I have the gym. I go there to empty my brain, fill it with energy and positivity and prep myself for whatever may come ahead.
But I can really only speak for me.
I wish you strength, curiosity and patience to deal with whatever may come your way.
BIMU
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