Arranged marriage is not to be confused with forced marriage. Arranged marriage could literally be a friend hooking u up it does not have to be through ur parents. Anyway good advice! Hope this helped people out there!
@ummesalmabibi2428
5 жыл бұрын
Such an interesting video I enjoyed every minute of it- thank you for addressing this topic in depth and not just the superficial things of a marriage! Amena your words are extremely powerful and you carry yourself with the confidence that I pray young women should embody and aspire to! Keep up the good work xx
@connerjairo7492
3 жыл бұрын
i realize I am kinda randomly asking but does anybody know a good website to stream new series online ?
@jeremiahjase6041
3 жыл бұрын
@Conner Jairo Flixportal :)
@connerjairo7492
3 жыл бұрын
@Jeremiah Jase Thanks, signed up and it seems like they got a lot of movies there :) I really appreciate it!
@jeremiahjase6041
3 жыл бұрын
@Conner Jairo no problem :D
@alitzzy
5 жыл бұрын
Oh, you guys, I teared up. This was such a wonderful video and I absolutely love these little discussions that you have from time to time. You took me on a trip through so many emotions I didn't expect to have... Strongly reacted to a couple of points. The non-muslim follower of some years now... Thank you for choosing that one. It resonated so much with my own thoughts. I have you to thank for shifting my views on Islam and helping me become a better person. Started watching your channel around your first pregnancy. I was still in high school and curious about so many things. At the time, I was an Atheist, trying to surround myself with people with similar views. It's only that we get such skewed information on other religions that it is so hard to make informed decisions. Which is why going from my Islam = terrorism and oppression to understanding your views a little bit better happened solely through those few videos you had speaking about your own views on life. I am beyond grateful for showing me this side of the community. As for your parenting ideals... that brought tears to my eyes. Knowing that we are responsible for our own and our children's future at such a level is one thing. You putting them into words is another. You are such a lovely people and I truly wish I would one day get to meet you, if only to thank you in person for all these things. Keep up the good work and yes, definitely would enjoy a part 2. There's only so much content I can keep up with, so I choose these talking kinds when I see them. Statistics wise. Much love from Romania! 🥰
@zarahahmed4174
5 жыл бұрын
I'm under 18 but I think this is a great video which has given me some great things to think about and I can relate to many things you have said. As well as learning things for the future. Thank you!
@CaptainZedK
5 жыл бұрын
Brilliant video. Osaama is hilarious, you guys are such a wonderful couple. Loved the close ups and the special effects.
@ayshasunaina7092
5 жыл бұрын
WE WANT PART 2!!!!!! :D You guys are such amazing role models. I know I'll come back to this video :)
@eminaroses7005
5 жыл бұрын
Yes to part II and III and IV! This should be a series!
@mbibeau3568
5 жыл бұрын
Your views on soulmates 🥺 how beautiful. And as for what you expressed about men with marriage, I couldn’t agree more. I have yet to understand why some men say they’re ready for marriage, yet when it comes to taking care of the children they’re off with their friends having tea and chatting till 1, 2am while the wife is at home alone... 🤦🏼♀️ y’all are a beautiful couple allahuma barek, your children have a beautiful example in front of them ❤️
@HH-hv9rg
5 жыл бұрын
This was such an informative and well explained video, so many important issues touched upon!! I loved the separate answer part so each perspective was understood. DEFFO NEED PART 2!! 💞❤ Hope the family is doing well
@Ferrero123
5 жыл бұрын
You are such a sweet couple. I feel like your house such a peaceful place
@liv9351
4 жыл бұрын
'marriage is a safe space' Hmm, not heard that before - very well put.
@Alhamdulilah400
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Amena and Osaama for this video. This will help alot of unmarried people especially with the idea that marriage is perfect and there will be no problems. Thank you! ❤️
@summaiyarobi4915
5 жыл бұрын
Far from it 😂😂😂😂
@pie927
5 жыл бұрын
A million dollar marriage advice. You word these issues very clearly. Would be happy to show this to children as they get married.
@azizafazal1904
5 жыл бұрын
The sweetest, funny and lovely couple that I have come across. God bless you both 😍
@javairia45
5 жыл бұрын
I think one thing that needs to be clarified and that a lot of non-Muslims (and Muslims tbf) get confused about, is the difference between an 'arranged marriage' and an 'Islamic marriage'. I know Osama did touch on the difference briefly but an 'arranged marriage' is when there a few suitors in line for either a man or a woman and both he/she get to decide on whether they want to pursue a potential suitor. In terms of an Islamic marriage, a man or woman can find a potential suitor in an appropriate environment but for a man to pursue a woman, they must go through the girl's male guardian whereas for a woman, she may ask for a family member or friend to help get in contact with the suitor. Both methods are not mutually exclusive (consent is key) and are not too far from those used in a Western society. A 'forced marriage' is an entirely different concept and one that is forbidden within Islam (the marriage is not considered valid). I am not a person of knowledge but I am just trying to reciprocate what I have learnt through my studies as a Muslim, to the best of my abilities. I hope this helps.
@Maryam8910
5 жыл бұрын
Whoa. Absolutely loved the in-depth questions that people asked and your awesome responses! I snapped my fingers so many times when Amena spoke, lol! Really appreciate the video! It definitely reinforced the idea of a healthy relationship and that you can truly find someone who understands you. Unfortunately, I’m not used to seeing that in the marriages within my family, but definitely noticed more healthy relationships during college when I babysat more and spent more time with families of friends. It’s so interesting to see the different relationship dynamics that each household has. Anyways, thank you for taking the time to create this content! May Allah always bless and protect you guys!
@MendhiSensations
5 жыл бұрын
I thoroughly enjoyed hearing your thoughts on these questions 👏🏼 such good advice for those getting married. I’ve been married for 8 years now alhamdulillah.
@cathallen5315
5 жыл бұрын
What an amazing vlog. I will definitely take on board your advice. Yous two really are soulmates Beautiful to see. 💖💖💖
@IramAlam94
5 жыл бұрын
Brilliant video!!! Enjoyed it so much👍 The edits of Osama were hilarious👍😄 Would definitely love a part 2 🤗
@nabilakara5863
5 жыл бұрын
Such a needed video I would say. Everything you talked about needs to be made aware to our generation and shouldn't be something to be ashamed off. I'm glad that you guys spoke about the topics that make many Asian girls (mostly) and boys very 'insecure'. This definitely needs a part 2, perhaps on Marriage - Love Marriages vs Arrange Marriages in Asian culture and a little depth on the Islamic side as well please.
@essbee5882
5 жыл бұрын
Didn't think I could love you both more than I already do. You guys are so real xx
@hudaalamam4178
5 жыл бұрын
yes yes please, we want more of that. the part where you explained how you deal with conflict did help me a lot in a current issue I am dealing with. thank you very much from the deepest part of my heart :). i really wish for part two of this. May Allah bless you both
@valf156115
5 жыл бұрын
Salam amena I suggest you do a video on developing emotional intelligence as a married couple. Since it’s something you both went through, and it applied to so many Muslim couples who get married so young, i think it would be a SUPER useful video
@sumayah8823
5 жыл бұрын
Part 2 is needed. Very interesting insight from the both of you
@aali1134
5 жыл бұрын
Great video! Questions, well addressed!
@munnesa1
4 жыл бұрын
Hey Amena! long time subscriber here, I honestly want to thank you for all your virtual support. You have been a big sister to me when I needed someone to give me advice. I remember when I decided to wear the hijab, I ordered 10 hijab and hoojab from your old old collection with the pink flower/black hoojab that I still have. Additionally, I admire you and your hubbzie and how you guys interact with your children. I am so happy to see your channel grow! I am so happy to see you evolving and everything you post brings a smile to my face. a total boss woman! - Love your virtual younger sister from another mister.
@fk7833
5 жыл бұрын
Some very good points raised here. Amena please could you make a video on your journey of emotional intelligence and self development♥️
@MusulynMassaquoi
5 жыл бұрын
F K OOMG RIGHT !! I'm here for it🌈✨‼️‼️‼️
@alo2a1019
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for such a great video! I’m currently going through a divorce, he was a narcissist. I hope I can find my true soulmate and reach a happy place inshallah.
@ummayyub1944
5 жыл бұрын
Alaa D. Allah in His Mercy has freed you from oppression. Have trust in Him and He will give you what you truly deserve Insha’Allah.
@alo2a1019
5 жыл бұрын
Umm Ayyub Elhamdulilah for everything! You are so sweet, Ameen inshAllahh!
@nafeesaaziz7010
5 жыл бұрын
Thankyou... I bulled my eyes out!! Some points touched.... Thankyou soooo much
@N4sr33nx
5 жыл бұрын
WOW, totally relate with everything said and felt. Just amazing work, well done xxx
@youtubeuser6932
5 жыл бұрын
The most beautiful couple 💞
@ssz.x
5 жыл бұрын
Really beneficial loved this video you both are such an ideal couple stay blessed & happy always ❤️
@MrsSparkler
5 жыл бұрын
Really loved this video and all the responses. It's really nice to hear both perspective too!
@fatimahgulzar1847
5 жыл бұрын
Really enjoyed this and learnt a lot from you as always! I think you should do a video about how you both ensure you work together to be on the same page regarding boundaries for the kids. Who makes the rules? Who gets the last word in. Who is more authoritative out of you both. Did parenting come naturally to you both or does educating yourself help with how to handle kids and their emotions ?
@djihaddrari9625
5 жыл бұрын
Loved it! So interesting and educational. X
@Lolita99
5 жыл бұрын
You look wonderful congrats on your partnership with bumble ❤
@somiasaddique6413
3 жыл бұрын
Ma Shaa Allah lovely couple and Amena your a deep person.... bless you x
@mahamalik7484
5 жыл бұрын
There are no words that can express how I feel about this video...you two give such good advice and it makes me relieved that some things you mentioned in the video isn’t just happening to me. But at the same time it makes me sad and even more depressed because I don’t really have people with the mindsets of you two... I have some questions... How is a child supposed to react when their parents bring them in between their arguments? Or when they blame each other for ruining the lives of their children due to the arguments? Should the child remain quiet? If the child takes the side of the person who is right and is getting beat on just for taking the other person’s side... what should they do?
@pearl3761
4 жыл бұрын
Loved this! Thank you for your generosity in sharing
@TheCoralOrange
5 жыл бұрын
Amena you speak so well M'A
@thalblankson4002
5 жыл бұрын
Marriage Q and A love this vlog. Thank you for sharing. Such a good mariage. No such things as a perfect marriage we all fight but at the end we love each other.
@nosheen07
5 жыл бұрын
Yes, I fully agree with the sexual chemistry and pleasing each other between husband and wife. It's a huge part of a marriage in Islam.
@g2yasmineouldtoumi395
5 жыл бұрын
Best marriage Q&A ever
@BamblingsofNaffy
5 жыл бұрын
So much love and respect for you both in making this
@eeshah64
5 жыл бұрын
But what if someone doesnt feel that their spouse is their soul mate?
@Starssobrightk
5 жыл бұрын
Brill video do lots more like these about emotions and how to address them
@laurashefkiu6851
5 жыл бұрын
Looooove this Video ❤️ Thank you ❤️
@noorianaseri2329
5 жыл бұрын
Great video, plz do more videos like this!!
@Lolidelasb
5 жыл бұрын
Amazing video, thank you so much for your advices Ameena and Osaama; May Allah protects your beautiful souls, May you be blessed with more amazing years together ! Lots of love from France
@Husheana
5 жыл бұрын
Masha Allah you are both blessed to have each other ❤️
@messakhan1641
5 жыл бұрын
Part 2 please ❤
@ameliadodson5296
5 жыл бұрын
I don't have kids but me and hubby help take care in a way of his mom. And his brothers seem to think that she live with us that really don't see or call her much. the last time we had the house to ourselves was last march.
@nabiakhan9738
5 жыл бұрын
What about long distance marriages??
@AsiyaFathi
5 жыл бұрын
amena ur makeup.... is life realli realli like the base its luks so neat n clean....In sha Allah getting close to becoming like u one day hopefully ....bcz u inspire me a lottttttttt....alwayss a pleasure to watch u ....lov lov lov loved the video.....:):0
@amnazahid2577
5 жыл бұрын
MashaAllah. 💗 you both should write a book on this topic together. Seriously!
@jouwayriyaable
5 жыл бұрын
Salam Amena, you say that it's ok not to be married after 30 but you are happily married ma cha Allah. Regardless of the cultural pressure, it may be stressful not to find the right one, not knowing if we are too picky ..or if we are right to wait a bit more because we don't feel connected to someone..
@iramluvsonedirection
5 жыл бұрын
I feel the people who say it's ok not be married after 30 are the ones who got married really young and say it with confidence lol
@thalblankson4002
5 жыл бұрын
I am 20 and I feel I am very mature but still young to get married. I hope to find someone at around 26 or 27. Getting married early is too young for me and later I don't want to be an old mother raisng teens when they hit this age.
@clairejordan6506
4 жыл бұрын
Just saying, your dungarees are on point!!
@allia_91
5 жыл бұрын
Loved this video ❤️
@suhelychowdhury8949
5 жыл бұрын
A lot of man think it's only the woman's responsibility to look after children
@asrakhursheed4734
5 жыл бұрын
Amazing video.
@sharminchoudhury4241
5 жыл бұрын
Pleaseee make a part 2 hehee
@_zenni.h886
5 жыл бұрын
What shade lipstick is that amena
@lamyafaizal2242
5 жыл бұрын
Loved it
@janinevasiliou6665
5 жыл бұрын
I felt like i was watching a tony Robinson relationship course some good points about making eachother number 1 in the relationship not getting the kids involved in disagreements and yes love the one about reflecting on a disagreement before coming bk together to discuss it. Def no name calling. I'm def trying to work on making more time for date nites and self care hard with 4 young children bt def worth it. Thanks for the advice. #relationshipgoals
@miminexoxo2243
5 жыл бұрын
Hey 👋 new subscriber PS : you’re gorgeous ❤️❤️
@MrsSparkler
5 жыл бұрын
Wow you look gorgeous 😍😍😍
@nm0896
5 жыл бұрын
I do believe in soul mates as you explained and am adamant that, with trust in God, I’ll meet mine. However, who is the soul mate of those who have gone through life and never met theirs? I’m thinking of those many south Asian women that have stayed married to horrible manipulative men their whole lives and have never experienced true romantic love (my mother being one of them).
@valf156115
5 жыл бұрын
nm m I’m so sorry for your mom subhanallah wishing her the best ameen
@mooey87
4 жыл бұрын
Paise de do 🤣🤣 The friends thing you’re referring to is “he’s her lobster” 🦞 lol
@dadiali6781
5 жыл бұрын
النبي صلي اللة علية وسلم قال خيركم خيركم لة اهلة وانا خيركم لة اهلي
@sweetchilli559
5 жыл бұрын
Wow that was deep 👌.. Loved it guys. You make the best couple Xxxx
@londongirl6711
4 жыл бұрын
Marriage is easy when ur husband is whipped. Most of us dont have that luxury
@romysahsworld3605
5 жыл бұрын
Good talk you guys Amena and Osama!! 👉👉
@beyza1919
5 жыл бұрын
You look gorgeous 😍
@luzramirez3599
3 жыл бұрын
💗💗💗
@yasreenangel2123
5 жыл бұрын
Very lucky husband n wife .wow amazing
@tahirasaddiq4754
5 жыл бұрын
ماشاء لله لأ قوة إلا بالله العلي العظيم
@shube9477
5 жыл бұрын
Amena’s voice seems more clearer and louder than osama’s I keep having to adjust the volume lol😭
@thalblankson4002
5 жыл бұрын
Alsalamu Alakuim. Love you sister 💜
@jamal21ma
5 жыл бұрын
A/A[eykum W W, mashallah,tabarakallah,loved the video,questions well answered...!
@suhelychowdhury8949
5 жыл бұрын
Very nice video.Alhamdulillah. Really realistic.
@IramAlam94
5 жыл бұрын
7th! Yay! It’s finally here
@rinatauseef1880
4 жыл бұрын
well freedom speech so we got our own opinions to say if our partner is a cheat or bored of us etc
@sinaminaful
5 жыл бұрын
How did we get on stinky shoes? 🙄
@youtubeuser6932
5 жыл бұрын
Hi Emena how can I contact you?
@theawkwardnat
5 жыл бұрын
It is funny that you say the Asian culture is around 30 for woman to be "expired." My cousins and I would agree but we're Arabs and they make so many jabs at the female cousins and myself but not the boys. It's mindboggling.
@ishiieee786
5 жыл бұрын
I've just joined Bumble to see if I can find a 'match' so far no luck - what a coincidence though..
@iopaq2095
5 жыл бұрын
The best way is the sunnah not a dating website, May Allah grant you a good husband, sister.
@qaiseryousaf3682
5 жыл бұрын
Asalamwalekum. Amena you are looking a bit different. Can't put my finger on it have you lost weight??
@shazia_83
5 жыл бұрын
❤
@amna8166
5 жыл бұрын
I wish I had an older sister like Amena. Thank you to you both for your advice ❤
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