My husband just would'nt change...the abuse was too much...not even the birth of our daughter made him change...i couldn't take more and expose my daughter...
@rhondatoney8050
3 жыл бұрын
I understand. I told my husband chose meth or me. He chose meth and I put him out. He is now living with an ex girlfriend.
@wakingrose1956
3 жыл бұрын
My brother is addicted to meth. I'm so angry at him!! My nephew held a gun to his own head wanting to commit suicide. Then his son had to do CPR on his own dad and still it wasn't enough for him to get sober. God help me not to hate him but I'm starting to
@jewelzb1402
3 жыл бұрын
It’s difficult when you rely on a spouses income and you are disabled, but do not receive any income for that disability. Its also difficult to get them out when they refuse to leave as if you haven’t any say in your own life and they can just make all decisions because they have that income that you do not have. It makes you feel hopeless. Its hard to take the fact they they chose drugs over everything else, even their own children, they have no fear of the possibility of losing their entire family, they will abandon loved ones to continue using drugs…Its overwhelming, sad and tragic.
@jewelzb1402
3 жыл бұрын
@@wakingrose1956 even the feeling of hate is forced upon those who have to endure any sort of relationship with an addict. Don’t beat yourself up over it as its really difficult not to experience feelings of hatred toward a drug addict. I carry the same feelings and mine are extremely intense. 🙏🏻
@Aziz0938
Жыл бұрын
Drugs
@kylewatson6890
Жыл бұрын
While making it to 30 is my main motivation for wanting to quit, I would genuinely like to have a family one day. Not having kids though until I quit for good and work on myself. If I'm going to be a parent I want to be the best.
@asatoa
6 жыл бұрын
What I'm going thru... Thank you for this video.
@MariaFernandaGiraldo
6 жыл бұрын
EshaaB AL-ANON meetings really helped me
@asatoa
6 жыл бұрын
Since I last posted this I have made some major changes. I left my husband behind and moved on. It was the hardest but the best decision I have made for myself. No more abuse of his lies, temper, and his withdrawals. I'm done and so are our children. I am a lot happier now. Just wished he could've changed for our family. Now he has nothing.
@sharongeorge4860
3 жыл бұрын
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@dylanfitch2997
4 жыл бұрын
Women love guys who do irresponsible things and can't take care of themselves. I'm not sure why
@amaliathatgirl9248
3 жыл бұрын
Not all woman are this way but I can tell you from experience that my partner wasn’t an addict when I met him and now his a Percocet/meth addict, a lot of men are good when they first meet you but after some time their true colors come out and when women are in love they don’t walk away easily, that’s why so many stay in abusive relationships too but men will leave I don’t know why
@andreal.tribble2042
2 жыл бұрын
@@amaliathatgirl9248 well said. My kids Dad began using behind my back when I was pregnant with our oldest. Everyone but me KNEW and nobody said a word,not even his Mom. He was an alcoholic and hid slot of his behaviors by working long hours,staying out,often all night,and heavily drinking beer and whiskey anytime he was near me or our house.He finally broke down and told me he was shooting up,daily on our way to our babies 6 week check up. He KNEW I'd take our son and leave him.But I didn't. I stayed and tried to get him help. Instead I got 2 years of insanity often being held at knife point as human shield against demons only HE could see.A month after our twins were born,on Christmas, He once again flipped out high and nearly murdered all 3 of his babies and I stabbing the crib,walls,floor,and ceiling HUNDREDS of times in his attempt to kill the demons that were everywhere,in his mind & in his reality. He was the only DEMON in that house. God got us through that night,My faith in God was the only reason my children are alive today.He stabbed me 7 times before eventually calling 911 on himself from neighbors house. He told the operator "they're all trying to kill me"!! By the grace of God,we made it out of that snow filled horror. He died nearly two years ago from a drug overdose. He died alone,face down in the floor and that same son,had to find him like that,after 20 plus yrs of his habit ruining literally everything our 3 kids loved,needed,and had.DO NOT BELIEVE THEY WILL STOP. THEY ALMOST ALWAYS GO RIGHT BACK TO USING.
@marimarsilva4629
2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes they hide it well and by the time you get the see the real him you care 😢
@multicadddesignstudio5082
6 жыл бұрын
These kinds of woman are rare to find these days. 👍
@kayneashby9346
5 жыл бұрын
Very kind to help your wife or husband out of addiction
@dylanfitch2997
3 жыл бұрын
No they're not lol. The criteria is to have 9 kids with different mom's, polysubstance abuse, and at least one felony
@brittany7573
3 жыл бұрын
I still see pain in her face.
@PS-xb9hc
2 жыл бұрын
Well, she shouldn't have to put up with that. She probably did it for the kids. It's a painful situation, hopefully the guy did his part.
@SamtheHumble
3 жыл бұрын
My story but it's my wife and methadone.. Please pray for us
@PRINCESSTEMPLO
4 жыл бұрын
I'm a good girl but sad to say 💔 😢 I went through this. I realized I don't deserve him
@lorainebejar2837
4 жыл бұрын
Just a question are you the one using meth or the guy? Because this person that I am talking to is also using meth and she thinks I don't deserve her😔
@PRINCESSTEMPLO
4 жыл бұрын
Not me. My boyfriend
@lionheart5329
3 жыл бұрын
I’m going through this but I’m a man and she’s the one using
@BFBMTb
2 жыл бұрын
@@lionheart5329 any updates? Are you guys still together? Ive been going through this for the last few years. She's finally in sober living for the last 2 months
@BFBMTb
2 жыл бұрын
Hey kamusta na? So iniwan mo ba yung bf mo Dahil sa drugs?
@lillyvgutierrez9685
4 жыл бұрын
Thx, u for ur story, my husband now homeless 4.5 hours away different state he's Las Vegas homeless, sleep in empty building anys 1 bathroom a shed motel. My husband needs stability, he's going to jail for 90 day probation he owes he has Warrent, praying when caught he will have finish the 90 days
@littlemisstwiggy4529
3 жыл бұрын
I hope your husband desired to change and is now sober. God bless you. My husband left us for drugs 7 months ago & is now also cheating. He’s not the same man. I’m so hurt & angry. He’s choosing all of that over me and our son
@gloriaortiz9235
5 жыл бұрын
My story also
@joshuatharp491
2 жыл бұрын
I wish you a sober happy future
@qjbaker
2 жыл бұрын
Please help me 😥
@Waiting4Him111
2 жыл бұрын
I know you made this comment two months ago, but are you o.k. now?
@debrabenavidez3382
Жыл бұрын
🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
@jessicacross2655
Жыл бұрын
:( I'm here
@asiamonae6716
Жыл бұрын
I miss my husband. I had to leave due to cocaine addiction.
@sueryan8320
Жыл бұрын
I had to Let go too. ITS not the same person anymore😕
@sueryan8320
Жыл бұрын
Good for you for being strong. I know its not easy. ❤️
@InGodITrust3
Жыл бұрын
I'm in a spiritual battle fighting for my marriage to be restored & his addiction to be healed. I regret asking for a divorce. I wish I would have prayed it out then. I'm believing in this miracle.
@MsMegancarter
Жыл бұрын
You need to take care of yourself first, and then him. That’s the only way. ❤ I hope you are ok.
@InGodITrust3
Жыл бұрын
@MsMegancarter thank you sweetie. I'm ok, I'm learning to set boundaries while standing.
@MsMegancarter
Жыл бұрын
@@InGodITrust3 that’s good. I’m currently back in touch with an addicted ex and trying to help him. But within three days of the stress I got a really bad neck spasm. And it was a wake up call. I must take care of myself first and of coarse be there for him but not the extent of it affecting my health like this. So just a reminder - you first 💕
@InGodITrust3
Жыл бұрын
@MsMegancarter I can completely relate to that. When I get caught up in his addiction I always end up getting sick. It's hard I know.
@deniseflores4523
2 жыл бұрын
You are blessed as my husband's meth addiction took his life
@Guideposts
2 жыл бұрын
We are so sad to hear that, Denise! 💙
@ThomasEdwards-j6r
7 ай бұрын
My. Wife. Died. From a meth overdose. I didn't know she was using. I feel alot of guilt because I could not help her I miss so much
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