@@Carlitothegreathave to be Nigerian not to paint your nails now.... wow
@javionriley8739
22 күн бұрын
He’s an African immigrant!! That’s expected
@alishadtm
Ай бұрын
In the hypersensitive time we are in, I want to commend the bravery in discussing this topic as well as the subtopics that arose throughout the episode. One of the key words when researching the definitions of manliness and masculinity, is qualities. What are the qualities associated with the two? As it relates to manliness, the MAN determines what standard their masculinity will be measured against, as it's distinctive to the person exhibiting the qualities. That man should undoubtedly and without interference, be able to not only exhibit his masculinity, but also to rear and steer their child(ren) in the manner they deem acceptable without it being viewed as toxic. Believing that a man should be manly and a boy should be taught to be manly as opposed to effeminate is not phobic nor toxic, it's sinply the measuring tool you've chosen to use for your household according to your beliefs. This is also why two parent households are important (think gender roles that are not limited to chores, but in rearing), but that's a topic for another day. The last example about the mother correcting the posture of the daughter as not being ladylike was gold. Great episode.
@NiceAndNeatThePodcast
Ай бұрын
Thank you 🥃🥃🥃
@randyvixamar3072
Ай бұрын
Duke was on it this episode. Think it is the conversation that needs to be had more among men. Can’t let the world dictate your values as a man. Great episode. 💯
@accordingtobrittt
Ай бұрын
Duke saying no with no explanation 🤣🤣- proud of yall consistency!
@J.Ariyah
Ай бұрын
Funny thing is, I’m the one who would normally say I miss the way men used to confidently approach women. That masculine energy is just sexy & has dwindled substantially over the years. So a young man who had to be at least 10 years younger approached me the other day kicking game. Considering the climate of masculinity these days, I was actually proud of his effort, but had to politely turn him down. I hope more men encourage and affirm the ones coming up to be acquainted with the strength, truth, beauty, and power of masculinity. Women need it & so does the future of our society. This episode is so needed and spot on. Great work fellas 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@Rj_brookss
Ай бұрын
Being a Black 26 year old man constantly growing this was very needed and appreciated
@stephanierogers49
8 күн бұрын
This was honestly refreshing to hear. Please don’t change
@J.Ariyah
Ай бұрын
Here for all of this 🙌🏾. An important convo I’m glad is being had publicly. As a woman from Nigeria, I see Duke is definitely standing on business 😂
@AmberlyN1
Ай бұрын
Love this 1. standing on standards and values. 2 being masculinity and a leader I truly respect it!! Love to hear how Omar and Jalon raising their sons that everything that the world portray is not always right ❤
@chelsean3399
Ай бұрын
I'm with Omar on this; I would love to see this conversation with a woman involved. Fingers crossed for a part two.
@angeldaniellle
Ай бұрын
Yall KILLED it on this one. Absolutely nailed it. Loved the truth that came out in this episode. The amount of wisdom and discernment you three have is incredible 👏🏾
@stewartalana
Ай бұрын
I stumbled upon Richard Reeves over the past month and have been deeply invested in this conversation. It’s ssoooo deep. We need more positive male figures in our everyday life. I think this conversation is so important because I want to date emotionally secure, strong, masculine men and that shouldn’t be a bad thing. This conversation can only be had amongst men, so I love that y’all are talking about this.
@arafa456
7 күн бұрын
Conversations that need to be had 👏🏾 thoroughly enjoyed this
@shazj1842
Ай бұрын
The feminine is a part of men too, running away from it is to deny the full range of men's feelings and that's damaging to men's mental health, the real challenge is to embrace it. Running scared from any aspect of yourself is weakness, accepting with your full chest all parts of yourself makes you whole and a better man for you and therefore everyone whose lives you impact. Many men want to be seen as 'Alphas' but true Alphas do what they want & aren't worried about what others will think & some high profile men are expressing themselves, nail polish & skirts can't diminish their accomplishments . FYI a conversation on femininity, men's distain for it and the link with misogyny is worth tackling for male relationships with female partners, daughters, colleagues etc.
@Cherrelle916
Ай бұрын
Great conversation. Not only is masculine are characteristics of a man, but it is also an energy. Masculine and feminine energy is within all males and females. Saying "less masculine" because a man is nurturing and demonstrating love to his child can be a little dangerous as "less masculine" has a negative connotation to it and may persuade men to not want to demonstrate nurturing his child among his friends and family. These energies are universal. On the other hand, I understand there are cultural differences in how men navigate in their manhood. I have a Mexican male friend who exchange kisses on the cheeks. And his father is very masculine men. It was actually beautiful to see. A family man is always masculine having his wife and children under his leadership and guidance and they respect him.
@stacycakes11
27 күн бұрын
Much needed conversation. Whats understood doesn’t need explained but these days, it does. The fundamental structure of life begins with the male and female, Jalon nailed it
@Jess2b_fit
25 күн бұрын
You all have gained so many subscribers from being willing to have this open, honest and very necessary conversation 🙌
@virtuousqt
Ай бұрын
This was so well done!! I knew, given Duke's family of origin, and Jalon's Christian values that this was going to be a conversation founded on values and boundaries. If anyone is mad, they are being judgemental. I would encourage those siblings to keep the same energy they have for the LGBTQ+ community. Not your business and its ok if you don't agree. What made this conversation valuable for ME and made ME desire marriage again, after my ex cheated with transgender prostitutes, was the leadership and healthy confidence in the boundaries and convictions that are on display in this episode. This new generation is definitely forceful and literally changing the way we engage with oneanother at work and at home. People have gone as far as shaming black women for not PREFERRING bi-sexual men. People are going after elders' jobs for misgendering them. That's violence and a reapplication of systemic oppression. We haven't even properly addressed race relations in the public and private sector. Shout out to Jalon for naming his value of raising a strong, intelligent black man. The opposite of intentionality is distraction. "Soft life" is meant to attract men like you all. I want my man to love me enough to protect me, our household and our legacy of unconditional love, strength and clarity in our tribal identity from the REAL enemy of our forward progress. God bless you all for your courage and authenticity. Cheers to 100K!!!🎉🥃🥃🥃
@aarontheeog
Ай бұрын
Bring y’all ladies back for part 2 of that conversation.
@Demetrikb1
Ай бұрын
I really commend you all for this conversation.. Telling the people what they need to hear instead of pandering.. Truth is lost in todays society, which I also is contributed to the fluidity agenda and masculinity attack mentioned in the video.. love the videos guys! Actually inspired me to bring that same level of values to my own channel instead of conforming for audience!
@javionriley8739
22 күн бұрын
If there’s a fluidity agenda and a attack on masculinity, you would not be in existence right now people like you are upset that the definitions rapidly changing no different than how the concept of race is changing
@deborahpaku5956
24 күн бұрын
Coming from an African household, I 100% agree with this whole video! Well said you guys
@joshuajones817
Ай бұрын
I love this conversation. I've been saying some people are trying to take away what it truly means to be a man.
@sejiroagosa
23 күн бұрын
The Closing Of This Topic With Jalon’s Example Of “That’s Not Lady Like” And Duke Saying “Masculinity Is Powerful” Said It All! That Is Thin Line Of This Topic In A Nutshell. This Was A Great Topic And Dialogue. As A Man With A 6 Month Old Son It’s Quite Simple To Me, My Job As My Son’s Father Is To Raise & TRAIN Him To Be The Best MAN That I Can Position Him Be And If I’m Being Honest, As His Father That’s Primarily Through My Vision And Lens Of What A Man Is And Should Be, Not Society…And To Achieve That, A Lot Of That Comes With Making Decision That May Make Other Uncomfortable Because The Foundation Of Our Children Is Formed Very Early In Their Life When They Are Most Innocent. Which Means We As Men Are Imposing Our Energy On Our Sons And That May Come Off As Too Much. But That’s Ok, No Formula Is Perfect…But It’s Damn Sure Impactful And Impressionable. Where Adults Don’t Give Children Enough Credit Is How Smart And Comprehensive Their Minds Are, Kids Know What’s Up And The More Of Leash You Give The More They Will Take. I Think As Long As Us Men Raise Our Sons With Love, Compassion, And A Space To Have Open Dialogue As They Get Older And Their Thought Process Develops, The Rest Essentially Is What It Is…Powerful!
@twonrichpo1126
25 күн бұрын
Excellent point by Duke at 49 minutes... a 13 or 15 year old boy growing up now has to be intentional about being masculine because their are sooo many examples of "other" forms of manhood to see so much online etc. That's a great point. Great conversation all around fellas.
@mmartin8341
Ай бұрын
Much respect to y’all for this episode!! Thank you for standing up as men and as leaders. 🥃
@coachchauntea5222
Ай бұрын
The masculinity conversation is so important. Gender fluidity is one of the worst things to happen to our culture, and like Duke said about nail painting, where does it end? Masculinity literally protects our family constructs. and moves the lineage forward. Jalon is standing on business raising his son the way he wants in his household! That's how we grew up. My father didn't care how other people raised their children, he said "As for me and my house..." Thank you fellas for always coming through with amazing episodes!
@FAITHANDSLIME
Ай бұрын
Great convo fellas. It'd be dope to have you all’s women on here for a pt. 2
@arc2511
28 күн бұрын
More examples of masculinity like you all is what is needed vs what outs more prominent and abundant in society
@arc2511
28 күн бұрын
Meanwhile…. Why don’t y’all have 100K yet?? Overdue ❤
@KeyshasCorner
Ай бұрын
This was a really good conversation and I feel like you guys touched on a lot of good aspects. And you articulated your points in a very thoughtful and precise manner. Keep up the good work and keep coming with you hard to talk about but necessary conversations .
@natashal7288
Ай бұрын
I always love their conversations!
@JamilaEmile
9 күн бұрын
I think Princella The Queen Maker would be an amazing guest to bring on your show. It’d be a very interesting conversation regarding femininity & masculinity. Just a suggestion!
@WhenSaraiSpeaksUListen
Ай бұрын
This is a much needed convo and I’m glad YOU guys are using your healthy platform to speak on it. I truly do feel that there is a focus to erase black masculinity, because like you all stated. Removing black masculinity, erases the black heterosexual family. I would totally love to see a part 2 of this because this is such an in depth convo that another episode could help! An hr didn’t feel long enough lmao. Shoutout to almost getting to 100k!!! I’ve been here since 30k!! I’m happy for you all!
@AnyeshaV
29 күн бұрын
I appreciate this conversation, It is so valid.
@camrynhawthorne9596
Ай бұрын
Glad yall updated that thumbnail caption lol
@Beautifullyme6616
Ай бұрын
I want to hear more from Omar he’s very wise
@lolas134
Ай бұрын
Wow wow wow guys!! This the 1 comin from a single mother of 2 black boys💪🏽🔥
@pinkkim2008
Ай бұрын
Nahhhhh yall made some really good points and perspectives. This needs to go viral!
@Ibelieveinmyself100
Ай бұрын
I concur!
@kellyzaimah7292
Ай бұрын
I absolutely love everything about this conversation
@beu2543
Ай бұрын
I think it truly comes down to the severe lack of positive male influences in young men’s lives. You have single mother homes, and the men that are in the homes now, come from single ( mother) homes and have never intentionally done the work to learn the “skill” of masculinity therefore cannot teach their children. It is a vicious cycle. I have witnessed it within my own household growing up and the effects of it now as an adult. Side note: all of you come from two parent households.
@shekinahnoelle
Ай бұрын
100k coming soon!!
@NiceAndNeatThePodcast
Ай бұрын
Hope you shared this one! 🥃🥃🥃
@thuynguyen1640
Ай бұрын
Would love to see a continuation of this conversation with a woman point of view on masculinity!
@Ibelieveinmyself100
Ай бұрын
This was a great conversation!🎉
@tierrasardine562
Ай бұрын
Now this ❤yessiiirrr! 100%
@Jay88895
Ай бұрын
Much needed convo. Thanks guys!
@Carlitothegreat
Ай бұрын
Duke is aggressively Nigerian.
@heyerikan
Ай бұрын
PEAK Nigerian haha. As a Nigerian, it's kinda refreshing
@AntoinitaViolette
Ай бұрын
Good conversation. Needed. Let the Holy Bible be your guide. Be Kings. Stay there.
@AnnaM4117
Ай бұрын
I just hate that we have to have these conversations. It’s exactly why we have an identity crisis in America. Children need boundaries. Children need guidance. Children must be taught who they are and who they are not. This confusion and giving kids more freedom than their developing minds can handle is another reason why homeschooling is growing in popularity. No one wants their kids around misguided or ill mannered kids. These are the kids who become school shooters because they haven’t been taught to regulate their emotions, have a healthy self-esteem, and to protect others at their own risk (not kill unarmed peers). Our next generation needs assertive and proactive parents. My son won’t be wearing nail polish and it’s baffling that some people would ask why not. Respectfully, our kids can’t play together.
@joshuapk1994
29 күн бұрын
If you blend the differences, you kill the attraction.
@jenellpotts7991
Ай бұрын
Duke’s first response, the flat out “NO”, had me hollerin 😅. I respect it all and I’m not made at it. Y’all are not just talking about masculinity, you’re also talking about the very specific experience of being a Black man and raising Black men. I think it would be interesting to hear yall go deeper on the element that masculinity holds in relationships and when that starts to get into the territory of being controlling. The delivery of “Nah, don’t wear that”…. I understand the reasoning, but the delivery feels controlling
@prettyrickib
Ай бұрын
this episode was toooo good !!! great convo
@TamarraMotta-o3w
Ай бұрын
I think masculinity is so attractive ❤
@instrinsiclove
Ай бұрын
The last 10-15minutes is so 🔥🔥
@Consciousrosee
Ай бұрын
The only thing I disagree with was appearance. I think kids should know upfront that their appearance matters no matter the age. Especially if talking about grooming him to be a man. Because the men I know has always been groomed to look their best since kids.
@Consciousrosee
Ай бұрын
Granted it may not be down to the tea like women and little girls but I think they should be groomed and nice looking as well. ESP if the father is that way. He’s mimicking you. You’re little mini me
@kelyceallen2693
Ай бұрын
The title reads like a One Piece episode
@soleneptune9498
Ай бұрын
I genuinely hope yall sons turn out exactly like you want them because such rigidity is how families get broken. Cause I’m just genuinely wondering if you disown them if they don’t
@Ibelieveinmyself100
Ай бұрын
If the man is rigid and the woman is flexible, then that’s a family with a strong dynamic. That’s why Jalon mentioned how being rigid is needed to raise a boy child. The child needs to see both dynamic from mommy and daddy 🎉
@idarethetruthfromeverybody.
Ай бұрын
Coming from a man that has had to raise kids. He is speaking in rigidity on a time-condensed platform, whereas when he’s dealing with his son, as he mentioned, it is a daily process. Where a podcast is typically 2 hours, a day with your son may be the same amount of time. But now couple that day with, like your first commenter said, a mother, and then multiply that day by 6,570 (18 calendar years). (If you were only going to raise your kid 18 years of their lives and you only did for 2 hours per day)
@cyrellroberson9698
22 күн бұрын
Right. This is why my father and I are no longer close.
@jubelooyeniran9021
Ай бұрын
I would love to see another episode on a similar topic but with Jason Wilson as a guest.
@taylordandy2516
Ай бұрын
We all uphold masculinity & femininity. Know when and when not to listen and DO..!
@taylordandy2516
Ай бұрын
There’s thing boy AND girls do but to bring awareness is EVERYTHING!! Definitely from a women point of view.
@taylordandy2516
Ай бұрын
And to a dagree, your will to generationally allow your kids be poisoned than telling them all different outcomes as a men and women in the home?!
@taylordandy2516
Ай бұрын
Holding your baby is feminine. NOT MASCULINE.
@briankeeferbriankeefer3316
Ай бұрын
Your all sons and daughters are going to have such a sanctuary about them as they navigate the world. No matter what they will be loved, be accountable, and have grace…be fun to see your sons eventually on the podcast lol
@bway__
Ай бұрын
Very great, must needed convo. I think people need to start living life from the natural laws of life and nature instead of from the beliefs of society. Life will always resort back to nature….society will always resort back to the minds and opinions of people…and people are not consistent.
@iam_Gavinb
27 күн бұрын
I love how this was clipped for IG, because Duke wouldve been in hot water. Saying Men who paint their Nails arent Men or theyre not doing Man sht is wild
@lloydmo9409
Ай бұрын
lol D Wade watching this somewhere in private and he’s shedding a couple of tears. All jks aside this was another great ep as always fellas. Thanks for always enriching my mind and spirit.
@inyotoarts6491
Ай бұрын
Good job guys
@brandigilmore607
Ай бұрын
I’m with Duke. No. Next question.
@dlarry457
Ай бұрын
Omar tip toed this episode a little wanting to be politically correct.
@Ahmir-ep7vs
Ай бұрын
51:57 WE NEED THAT EP LIKE O SAID WITH A WOMAN ON THIS TOPIC💯💪🏾🥂🤝🏾
@sedariesaaliyah6174
21 күн бұрын
The only thing I’d say was missing from this conversation, specifically the portion about transgender children and the control a parent can have, is the child’s mental health. Instead of questions about the influence of brand deals on Jalon’s decision as a public figure, I’d be interested to hear a hypothetical along the lines of (GOD FORBID) a suicide attempt on his HYPOTHETICAL son’s part because he is unable to live the way he believes is right for him. I’m just curious if that would change anything in the conversation because that is the reality for many many young transgender people unable to live the lives they feel they should be living. Love and respect these three as great black men always though.
@DHarma1923
Ай бұрын
I feel like femininity and masculinity are equal, opposite reactions to each other. A wormhole if you will. I don’t think you can be feminine without being masculine. No man wants a woman who just sits there looking pretty without also having an element of “go getter” in her. And no girl (who wants a real relationship) wants a man who is strong and hard ALL of the time. Every girl wants a man who’s a little rough around the edges but soft and/or emotional with her. In my opinion, a man who can’t integrate his feminine energy turns me off because he starts acting a little gay unknowingly. (EXAMPLE: Shannon Sharp “allegedly” leaking his own s*x audio to prove to men that he isn’t gay, ends up being homoerotic by nature) or acting like a groupie around other successful men to gain their approval, treating their girlfriends bad because they don’t appreciate her femininity, etc. True masculinity can’t exist without feminity and vise versa
@soniagodlieb1896
Ай бұрын
LOVE YOU GUYS. GOD BLESS 👊
@raemae1378
Ай бұрын
I agree that some men are becoming more docile because they are afraid to come across as "too masculine." It has caused an issue with dating becuse i find that some men come across as passive or defer to me when I actually welcome them leading. I feel that they should trust that I am grown/woman enough to say if i dont like something. I find myself having to find subtle and cute ways for some men to know that I welcome their leadership and masculinity, like letting them pick out the drink for us if they know really good wine or are familiar with the place. I find more men want to be more masculine but are afraid to offend, which is nice but at the same time frustrating.
@javionriley8739
22 күн бұрын
It’s not about that you welcome them leading ! most women in our 90s millennial/gen-Z generation black or white have an issue when men approach them in clubs, etc. therefore y’all can approach us (men) because we’re not trying to catch charges and go to jail via “ sexual harassment”
@BrainInUse
Ай бұрын
Sincere post/question family... If a male child is taught it's wrong to play with dolls, do you think that disposition could impact that male child's view of what a man is or isn't supposed to do with his children? I observed a family dynamic where the male was raised that way and refused to change his children's diaper.
@Me-px7js
28 күн бұрын
No
@BrainInUse
20 күн бұрын
@@Me-px7js Say more (please)... If a male child is taught it's wrong or punished for playing with dolls, where do you see the paradigm shift or messaging to shift the messaging he received as a child? (Sincere curiosity.)
@Me-px7js
20 күн бұрын
@@BrainInUse my brothers were raised that way, my husband and his friends as well as my nephews and I can honestly say, the larger percentage of them are “all in, hands on” dads who do it all. In fact, I was obsessed with playing with dolls and still collect them but my husband is softer with the children. Me and the women in most of the relationships I know of are more of the disciplinarians, the ones quicker to say no, etc. I’m not sure why we are seeing this shift in guys being more active in this way but we are. More single fathers combing hair, cooking, cleaning and most of these men didn’t grow up playing with dolls. Even when I think of coworkers, friend’s husband, etc. What’s been your experience ?
@BrainInUse
19 күн бұрын
@@Me-px7js 'Preciate the dialogue sincerely! 🙏 My experience has been mixed; soooo many variables at play with gender roles and generational messaging... My Dad is def from the older generation "dos and don'ts of gender roles" and in both of his marriages was a provider AND the more nurturing parent (combing hair, cooking, cleaning, going on field trips, active at his kid's schools...). I've also witnessed first hand what I believe are impacts from hard messaging and punishment that wasn't counter balanced where young men who became fathers early either refused some functions (changing diapers, feeding) or were extremely uncomfortable with their babies when they were young (doll ages - 6 months or younger).
@Me-px7js
19 күн бұрын
@@BrainInUse same! My daughter ( in her 20’s) said she’s getting her son a baby doll to encourage him to learn empathy. I would totally respect her decision. I too appreciate the dialogue. 😊
@jaywalker4701
Ай бұрын
There were some points in which they stood on truth, and called a spade a spade. There were other points in which they dodged in order to not deal with business type consequences.... But in essence.... The issue stems from the fact that in the past some men didn't have a TRUE understanding of what Masculinity is. Their lack of a FULL understanding led them to have few moments of moving wrong and abusing certain things or people. These small moments of abuse led to trauma, which is now showing up in today's time by trying to implement "fluidity". But no one speaks on how the past men applied masculinity with true understanding, which lead to great things. Today people are trying to get rid of masculinity all together, instead of simply correcting the small areas of misunderstanding of the theme of masculinity. This agenda has led to feminine-males, because you have women now saying "where is the men", "I miss when men use to...." ECT.....
@javionriley8739
22 күн бұрын
The only people talking about where are the men are old head, women who are Gen X/boomers ! The only people babbling about masculinity are old heads! heads, their irrelevant Each generation defines masculinity, femininity, race, etc. differently from the old generation that’s taken place now ! For example, old heads wore baggy clothes /bald heads) While us 90s millennials/Gen Z wear skinny jeans/hoop-earrings/ faux locs-dreadlocs-etc. )
@keys8885
Ай бұрын
Good bit of edits in this must’ve got too real in some parts
@beuncamalone
Ай бұрын
🔥
@melvinjamison9491
Ай бұрын
I believe much of the representation of what masculinity means for each individual is deprived from their religion and social circles as they were "raised". I don't think that it means you hate women at all. I think it is more of a strong disliking of seeing men with women tendencies because those actions don't agree with the religion you were taught or your social circles you grew up in. And yes I do believe that Parents are just a bigger piece of the pie of your social circle in life. And with that being said they are going to be the larger portion that you consume growing up socially. So to me also, what we call raising is just another word for "influencing". I enjoyed this thoughtful conversation, there's many views that can be had on the subject.
@4everL0ve
Ай бұрын
The harm I see in allowing a CHILD to determine their gender is that it sets the tone for a child molester to make the argument that that same CHILD is mature enough to decide that they want to sleep with a 40-year-old man. Where do we draw the line?
@sanblake9557
15 күн бұрын
Also some stuff can just be for women.
@taniseedwards8551
Ай бұрын
I thought hypermasculinity vs. toxic masculinity was an interesting point. Would you guys argue that there is a thin line between hypermasculinity and control ? (Based off dukes point on provision?)
@taniseedwards8551
Ай бұрын
Also, if the child/wife feels they are being controlled by the provider would that then lead to the fluidity we are now seeing in today’s society?? (I hope you guys see this, I feel like it would be good to dive deeper into this) ❤
@twonrichpo1126
25 күн бұрын
🎤🎤👏🏼
@wickmaani116
Ай бұрын
The ancient israelites, men and women wore earrings and nose rings in scripture
@loriell1996
Ай бұрын
Keyword "ancient" lol
@you-ishcoaching
Ай бұрын
Yall should bring me on as a guest to enhance, expand and challenge the conversation. As a masc presenting black lesbian woman, raising a young black son, I found this conversation information yet had some gaps and some misrepresentation of words/terms. Let’s make it happen
@Benjamina.Button
Ай бұрын
Hey, I have a question. I hope it doesn't offend you but I'm genuinely curious. Considering you identify as a woman where do you fit in the conversation of the "attack on men and masculinity"? I'm asking only because by your statement you only check one box. I feel like you have a significantly different experience as a masculine woman vs a masculine man.
@databace
Ай бұрын
Round 2 this one, because y'all didn't say things that needed to be said.
@EJohnD-ou9ss
Ай бұрын
This topic and probably most topics are just too heavy for this panel without professional guidance. Superficial barbershop talk like this moves the culture nowhere at best and backwards in specific cases. They elevate the low energy in the culture that needs to be transformed.
@javionriley8739
22 күн бұрын
You said it perfectly, but they did better than expected. The only dude with low vibrational energy is the third world African boy (duke) which is expected Over all the 2 black American men did a great job
@RyanHitchens
12 күн бұрын
I had mad respect for y’all up until this point. This is a basic ass understanding and application of principles around masculinity, gender, and sexuality. My heart breaks for the kid who doesn’t fit into your mold or program and who is taught shame and fear from the fathers and male figures appointed to protect and lead them. Not having it isn’t an excuse for not giving it. I wish more adults would understand what happens to a kid made into a mold that just doesn’t fit. I pray you or your children don’t experience that kind of trauma that honestly can never be undone. Also, the whole made up story about Dewayne Wade is WILD to me!!! That man loves his daughter unconditionally and unapologetically. But you all had to create an alternative narrative that just is gross, suggesting his acceptance and love for his kid is bought and paid for, very very wild and inappropriate and disrespectful to both him and Zaya. It’s limited and flawed and causes harm to more people than you could imagine. ALSO the episode you had with the queer men…bravo on that performance. This conversation negates everything I thought that episode stood for. I watched this the day it came out and it took me this long and reading these comments to just say how utterly gross and repugnant this episode is.
@breadwinner8585
Ай бұрын
Yall failed tremendously in certain parts of this conversation.
@LaKae444
Ай бұрын
Ya'll came to stir sh-t up 🥄 I respect personal conviction and standards though 😏
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