Hi Charlotte, I've been a Labor & Delivery nurse since 2010, and I agree with you; they should have checked your cervix before encouraging the epidural. Your instincts were right. Your feelings are 100% valid. You are so strong, and you did amazing!
@alinaceci
10 ай бұрын
Awe you have every right to feel upset. It is so hard when you are in the middle of labor and exhausted to advocate for yourself. I remember my first labor and it was so overwhelming… it's very natural at this stage to feel happy and frustrated. She is precious and healthy, and that is everything. Enjoy this short newborn stage, it is an amazing time! ❤
@garastevanovic777
9 ай бұрын
Oh, I’m so glad everything turned out well-I was beginning to worry! Well done Charlotte, the baby is beautiful! I wish you all the best of luck and happiness and a very merry Christmas ❤❤❤
@chrisgilderoy1747
9 ай бұрын
Congratulations,such a beautiful precious daughter.Happy Christmas to you all ❤️
@elenarichards9692
9 ай бұрын
Aww she is so beautiful Congratulations ❤
@Bellz89
10 ай бұрын
Your feelings are so valid and you don’t need to ‘get over it’. What I’m learning is women need birthing partners that can advocate them because even though you know what your body is feeling, it’s so hard to articulate when you’re in active labour. Thank you for sharing your experience, I’m sure it will help so many women!
@joannemainella70
9 ай бұрын
Charlotte, thank you for sharing your birth story. You stand in your truth with vulnerability and honesty. You have helped others with your honesty. Each birth story is amazing. Mine was a C-section ,2 days after moving into our new home, while my mom was dying of breast cancer. My amazing son will graduate from law school in May. Life and death, the cycle continues. It's hard to be here, and welcome new babies into this up and down world; yet it's what we are here for. Your baby is just gorgeous, as are you. You will thrive as a new mama with your dreamy babe! Carry on with love!
@tw7625
10 ай бұрын
Oh my guess was Rose! She’s absolutely beautiful 😍 I think the feelings you’re experiencing about the birth are perfectly normal and probably a lot more common than you realise. My oldest is 9 and I still have those feelings about my labour and birth that you’re talking about. I think it’s stemmed in the feeling of not being listened to, not having control over the situation and feeling like you should have “spoken up” but that’s much easier said than done. Especially when it’s your first and you’re trying to speak up to professionals. But I’m glad you’re both here and healthy 💓💓
@iamkerenlouise
10 ай бұрын
She's an angel; thank you for sharing her with us. Major congratulations!
@marieleemcgill5011
10 ай бұрын
I am crying listening to you , my two kids were years ago, I am a grandma now, but I remember my first one , they two had to induce me. So I am crying listening to to. She is beautiful and so are you. I to this day say my son just did not want to come out. How lucky to have you Mom, my mother passed when I was 16. I had the most beautiful, wonderful pleasure of being with my daughter and her babies, Her two sons were born.❤️❤️
@SusanMitchell-ud2pd
10 ай бұрын
Oh Charlotte what a wonderful video . Your emotion crossed over the ether & was so touching . Can empathise with your feelings about labour . Lottie has certainly stolen your heart & such a cutie . Lovely to see Rafi snuggling up too. You’re looking a picture of happiness. Love & best wishes to you all . ❤
@NinaClegg
10 ай бұрын
Your birth story is so emotional, my 1st delivery didn't go as I planned but holding your beautiful girl Lottie will erase all the memories. She is here with you both, healthy, happy and gorgeous. Congratulations. X
@lindagrey5728
10 ай бұрын
OMG Charlotte you poor girl. Giving birth is such an emotional thing even when it goes to plan. As a first time Mum you didn't know what to expect or how it would feel. I have been waiting for this video so thank you. Your wee girl is so gorgeous. So happy for you and Lou. You look fantastic.❤
@stellasavage9981
10 ай бұрын
Congrats on ur new arrival she is gorg enjoy x
@aliceinwonderland.2080
10 ай бұрын
Many congratulations to you, Charlotte and Lou, on the birth of your gorgeous baby daughter Lottie Rose. She’s adorable and I wish all of you much joy, happiness and good health for the future. The best Christmas gift anyone could wish for! ❤️🥰👶🏻🎄🐾
@gkr7019
9 ай бұрын
Your baby Rose is absolutely gorgeous and beautiful. Congratulations Charlotte
@nataliasamborska6101
10 ай бұрын
She's so beautiful and perfect... Congrats... Welcome to parenthood 🙏❤️
@madelinebell84
9 ай бұрын
Oh you poor darling!! It breaks my heart how often I hear of women having a birth experience that was negative (often traumatic) due to excessive medical interventions. They often create a cascade effect, that whole "one thing leads to another" chain of events. I've had both traumatic and peaceful experiences and the difference was definitely caregivers that did/didn't treat birth as a natural event and having someone who was able to vocally advocate for my wishes when I wasn't able. You have every right to feel upset and definitely don't have to just "get over it." Your feelings are natural and 100% valid. That being said, I'm so thankful that you and Lottie are doing well and that you have the most precious little Christmas gift ever! She's absolutely perfect.
@raylew311
9 ай бұрын
Congratulations on your little Lottie❤. Honestly, the best part of this video was seeing you put her care before anything else. The "interruptions" made it even sweeter😂
@modelmouth
9 ай бұрын
Always ❤
@CT-uy2mm
9 ай бұрын
Don't beat yourself up! Every birth is completely different. Having the 'ideal' birth with candles and music doesn't always happen. As long as you and the baby got through it all healthily that's all that counts. I wet through exactly the same, 14daysoverdue, induction, fontuse didn't work and my baby had to be dragged out with forceps! I bet she will be a chilled little human. Well done you!
@molliecampsie
9 ай бұрын
Crying along with you! So so so so pleased for you and your partner Charlotte. Well done you did it!!!! xxxxx
@modelmouth
9 ай бұрын
Thank you Darling 🥰❤️😘
@Gdre123
9 ай бұрын
Congratulations Charlotte your little girl is beautiful. My baby was late and when he was born he was 10lb 15oz and the umbilical cord was wrapped around my baby's neck which cut off his oxygen when he came out so there was a lot of panic. Not only was he overdue but now he wasn't breathing. I am telling you all this because you should never put off an induction if they think the baby is overdue. His afterbirth was in pieces so we were very lucky to have our precious 6' 4" handsome son in our lives and I thank god. I have 3 children and loved bringing them up at home. We didn't have much income but we were happy. When Dad came home from work after tea it was a silly time with the kids which they loved. I have some beautiful videos of all this and it always makes us smile. I used to get upset when the kids went back to school in the holidays when most mums couldn't wait for the holidays to end. Having a baby is the most wonderful thing that can happen to a happily married couple and I wouldn't have missed it for the world. Looking forward to seeing little Rose grow up. ❤🧑🤝🧑👶🐕
@susanstokes2794
10 ай бұрын
Aww she is adorable 🥰 Loved the fact you paused to feed her 💗
@Babywearingbairns
10 ай бұрын
I feel all your frustration. You are totally justified to feel the way you do and do not blame yourself it’s near on impossible to advocate for yourself when you’re about to birth a baby!! Yes it’s important she’s out safe and healthy but you matter just as much mama! I’ve just had my second baby 6 weeks ago and it’s such a big thing to go through, my first was an induction too and it’s a lot to go through! Take all the time you need to process, I’m in Scotland so not sure if it’s different but most hospitals you can request a birth debrief which might help process x
@kelyanjohrend6182
9 ай бұрын
Thanks Charlotte for telling us your birth story, as you would do in front of a friend….❤ When your little baby girl was born I thought to myself, hope they will call her… Rose! Welcome little Lottie, you have one of the sweetest mum (and grandma) in the world!😻. Big kisses from the south of France to the whole community and happy holiday season! 🎄
@rebeccatiplady9256
10 ай бұрын
Oh Charlotte I wish I could give you a massive hug. I have a very similar story from birthing my eight month old boy, he was twelve days overdue and if parts of my labour had been treated differently/info we had during labour was thought about a little harder, we probably wouldn’t have gone from a tranquil birth pool at home to an emergency delivery in theatre with baby in distress. It’s so hard when you have an idea in mind of your preferences that ends so far from that. I believe most hospitals offer a debrief post birth, I did this eight weeks after and found it really cathartic - perhaps something to think about for yourself. Look after yourself. Sending so much love to your little family x
@wendykozyra839
9 ай бұрын
Congratulations Charlotte and Lou! Lottie Rose is adorable! The joy and love you feel is coming through the screen! ❤
@LB-ul5ue
10 ай бұрын
She is so beautiful ❤ Congratulations to you and Lou!
@jmk1962
10 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story with us and for introducing us to little Lottie. She looks so like Lou. 😊 I wish midwives/doctors would listen to us mums, we know instinctively when to push even if it doesn't fit in with their schedule. You'll have learnt from this and will know better next time but don't beat yourself up, she's here and you're both healthy, that's all that matters. Enjoy.
@suzanablank5809
10 ай бұрын
Oh, Charlotte, you experienced poor maternal care in that hospital so common these days, sadly. Understaffed, overwhelmed and trying to cut costs, overlooking mental and physical health of mother and baby. Seems in Uk there is tendency to leave it to nature way to late. In other countries they give induction 7th overdue day and they have less cesareans and less mortality in complications. And they keep mothers unawares of loads at time of discharge. But most importantly she is here and healthy, and you are too. Enjoy being a mum. She is chilled cs you were and are too.
@dlady4
9 ай бұрын
@@suzanablank5809 I'm in the US and I had my induction seven days after my original due date. The doctor didn't want to risk the baby's wellbeing and postpone to later. The oxytocin drip was so painful I begged for an epidural almost immediately. This delayed the labor process considerably and also slowed my son's heart rate. It was a nightmare. It literally took me 8 hours to go from 0 dilation to about 5.5-6cm and then 15 min to go from 6 to fully dilated. I also felt an incredible urge to push poop out and the nurse dismissed my concern saying she had just checked me not too long ago and that I couldn't have gotten full dilation in such a short span of time. But I kept nagging and complaining and threatened to push anyways. At that point, I figured they were getting annoyed with my attitude and decided to check just to indulge me. Lo and behold I was fully dilated and when they asked me to do a practice push they saw the baby's head crowning and these were her exact words: "please hold it, I don't want to have to deliver your baby". All hell broke loose from then on and I literally had to make a massive effort to hold the baby in until the doctor arrived. When he finally arrived, it literally took only 3 pushes to get the baby out.
@RosemaryOltarzewski
9 ай бұрын
Congratulations, Lottie she's here safe and sound. Well done. Thank you for sharing ❤ love from Rosie O from Devon England 🏴 😊
@katherinebaer6798
10 ай бұрын
Lottie is absolutely adorable! She also looks very aware and bright! What a precious gift! ❤️
@gemmagibb4925
8 ай бұрын
Oh Charlotte, this story has given me goosebumps and I felt the utmost empathy for your situation but you listened to the healthcare providers - and in a situation like this that’s all you could do. You’ve been so blessed with a healthy baby. Congratulations to your entire family 👨👩👧🎀💖
@leahleiker428
6 ай бұрын
Congrats!! She is absolutely adorable, and I love how smitten you are with her!! Children are such a precious gift from God, and motherhood absolutely becomes you!! Being a mom is the best!
@HeroTalesProductions
9 ай бұрын
Congratulations Charlotte and Lou and of course Lottie. There are definitely similarities to our stories. I was overdue, but was in labor for over 48 hours. I did not want an epidural either, but realized if I didn’t I would not be able to push. There is nothing like childbirth and motherhood . I absolutely agree with you. Lottie is beautiful.
@jo4vt
10 ай бұрын
Oh Charlotte, you just never know what could have happened, so how it happened was the way it should have happened because it led to a healthy mom and baby. I was going to say she looks so much like her dad, but she also looks so much like you! The perfect mix of mom and dad. Thank you for sharing her with us!
@debsmccreadie9702
9 ай бұрын
Delighted you are both alright. I was scanning all the forums for news of your birth and when I couldn't see anything my heart sank. To see you and Lottie together has taken a huge load off my shoulders. Well done Charlotte...sending a big hug to you and yours ...and wishing you a beautful Christmas xx
@rach5516
9 ай бұрын
Charlotte, I don’t know how I missed this! Congratulations, she is absolutely beautiful ❤. Enjoy every moment xxx
@bernadetteshort5120
9 ай бұрын
Congratulations, she is so beautiful. Having a baby is the most overwhelming experience, both wonderful and terrifying. Its a massive change to your life but day by day it all becomes your new normal. You will be a fantastic mum
@WellnessWavelengths2024
9 ай бұрын
Bless you for being such an amazing mother right from the get go - and look how precious, she’s so bright eyed and photogenic OMG absolutely perfect! You angels!
@emmakehler2667
9 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing ❤️. You have every right to feel upset. It wasn’t your job to be vocal in that moment, it was their job to examine you when you gave clear a description of the feeling. I’ve never heard of someone not being examined prior to an epidural as some friends I know have been denied an epidural due to how dialated they were. Anyways, please do not hold onto any guilt. I’m so glad she’s here safely and I wish you the best postpartum experience to heal from this birth trauma. I too had similar birth trauma and even 2 years on, it still frustrates me but talking about it and processing it has truly helped ❤️
@mimvlog3236
9 ай бұрын
There is nothing worse than feeling like you weren't being listened to or heard...I completely relate to your frustration. With my first, it was somewhat similar but kind of opposite! I thought that I needed to push, they allowed it, but then later learned that it was too soon for me to be pushing (same kind of scenario- the overnight staff, the people were changing shifts, etc ) but no one did a proper exam on me, and when the doctor finally arrived for delivery, he said I should not have been pushing and using all of my energy they way they allowed me to. I feel like in the end, I had a healthy baby boy but I was also completely destroyed in the process- practically hallucinating with the pain and depletion of all of my resources. Lottie is GORGEOUS like her Mama and Dad! Congratulations Charlotte!!!
@vanessaszemenyei2239
9 ай бұрын
Oh my goodness, I started to cry as soon as you did Charlotte. You poor thing. You were right and they should have examined you, but it was your first birth so you were unsure. I'm so sorry for you. Definitely a learning experience and you now know to be your own advocate. Always, always trust your gut...anything to do with your baby going forward- always trust your instincts! ❤❤
@melissaj2207
10 ай бұрын
You did a WONDERFUL JOB birthing your baby!! You DID speak up!!!! I was also trying everything natural, Bradley method… to bag broke and NOT in labor, So difficult! I did have pitocin and it was incredibly painful. You did your BEST!!! And you can hold on to that and your dear new baby daughter! And you both look beautiful 😊
@marisoldiaz6237
10 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤ she is so beautiful!! God bless her and protect her always 😊 you look amazing and so happy- welcome to motherhood!! Happy holidays to you and your family!
@JillLewis-q5y
9 ай бұрын
I’ve just watched your lovely vlog about your birth story. First of all, congratulations on your beautiful baby girl, she’s such a beautiful little poppet 🩷 Your emotions are so understandable, and your body was telling you one very powerful thing during labour, without the midwife confirming things. Your heart was set on being in as much control as possible, and it didn’t go to plan. However, your story will help so many others, and you can concentrate now on enjoying little Lottie xxx
@dianecyment1715
10 ай бұрын
You put a huge smile on my face. Lottie is absolutely adorable, just like her mum. Your mother looks so happy in the photo. Enjoy these precious moments. Being a mom is one of the most rewarding things of my life. I am now a grandmother of four amazing kids. I was fortunate enough to be in the room when my oldest daughter gave birth to her son who is now 4 years old. Giving birth is unpredictable. Thanks for sharing your story.
@suedumoulin3591
10 ай бұрын
Congratulations on the birth of beautiful Lottie! What a sweetheart she is! You are just glowing as a new mum and I'm so happy for you and Lou.
@karenscookingkorner
9 ай бұрын
Oh my gosh!!!!! ❤❤❤❤ congratulations!!! Just beautiful!!’
@maximeelise5947
9 ай бұрын
Congratulations! She is truly beautiful! Had tears in my eyes listening, I think your frustration is just your mother instinct! You knew your own child and your body!
@Hague_dean
8 ай бұрын
Aw bless you just sending you lots and lots of love. Try to let the feelings go. She is beautiful and healthy and perfect xxx
@staceyross4477
9 ай бұрын
Thank you! That was just beautiful! You are so genuine Charlotte! Little Lottie is so precious! Congratulations to Lou and Raffie as well ❤
@thegirlatnumber43
10 ай бұрын
Congratulations on your beautiful baby! I'm currently 28 weeks with my first and it's so great to hear all sorts of different birth stories. I think it's so common for women not to have the birth they expected and I'm so sorry you're one of them. But the most important thing now is that she's healthy and happy ❤
@cindybarraco5815
9 ай бұрын
So Glad u posted this Video… I’d been wondering if u had the baby yet …. She’s Beautiful & Precious, enjoy every minute of this stage 🥰
@ericas8741
9 ай бұрын
Congratulations Charlotte!!!! So Happy for you!!!!
@Everycloudgold
10 ай бұрын
I just wanted to say I had a very similar labour and it took a long time to process what happened. It was traumatic! There are so many factors that come in to play, you did an incredible job giving birth ❤
@gen6249
10 ай бұрын
Aw Charlotte what a lovely video. Sending you all the love. It’s funny how births never seem to go as planned. I had such an easy pregnancy with my son 14 years ago now but the birth was another matter! My contractions completely stopped and I had to push him out I then had a postpartum haemorrhage and lost 4. Pints of blood and ended up having two blood transfusions. It was probably the most traumatic thing I’ve experienced and not what I was expecting at all as a 21 year old mum. I have to say I should probably have got some therapy for it because every Christmas (he was born on Christmas Eve) I get quite low and I think it’s the unresolved trauma. So just to say you getting upset is very valid and natural to be upset. It doesn’t sound like they handled it particularly well but I know they’re under enormous pressure and do a fantastic job. Just go easy on yourself because a trauma is a trauma and you will need time to heal xx sending you and Lottie and all your fam much love 💕 I have missed your videos as you bring such joy and happiness with them xx happy Christmas xx
@retiredinbudapest4579
10 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story and your beautiful little Lottie. She is adorable! You did everything correctly, the midwife should have listened to you and examined you regardless of fear of infection. You tried to tell her but she didn’t listen. Lottie is a little angel. ❤😊 Congratulations to you and your family and hope all of you have a very Merry 1st Christmas with your baby girl. ❤️🎄🥰
@sandiland0000
9 ай бұрын
Awww sweet blessings! Lottie is one of my favorite names ❣️ you look amazing… such a pretty mommy. God bless 😊
@ginkodragon
10 ай бұрын
Congratulations! What a beautiful baby! You dont have to apologize for not sending out a video right away! A new child is a lot of work! You need that time with your new joy!
@sevimcetin8372
9 ай бұрын
Congratulations.You have a beautiful daughter.Wish you a happy new year.❤❤❤❤❤
@gillu3
10 ай бұрын
Aww she’s gorgeous! I can confirm that your story is very similar to mine- my daughter is now 36 but it was so traumatic I could do it again. My midwife was nothing short of cruel and that made it even worse. Inductions are so brutal on your body too. I hope you eventually manage to process what happened to you, but don’t minimise the impact this has had on you which I did and never really came to terms with it. All my best wishes x
@angelakimov384
9 ай бұрын
Bless your heart, I'm a mom of five, all natural and unmedicated, so from my experience, I 100% agree with your assumptions. You're such a trooper. And baby is so beautiful.
@shirleymckee4868
9 ай бұрын
She’s absolutely beautiful and I’m so happy everyone is happy and healthy❤
@susannebyrne7488
10 ай бұрын
So happy to see baby Lottie she’s gorgeous. Many congratulations to you both.x
@Charlierose214
10 ай бұрын
Congratulations Charlotte on precious baby girl! 🥺🥺🥺Welcome to the world baby angel, wishing you all the greatest adventures & magical moments!
@UsernamesForDummies
9 ай бұрын
Winning the lottery with Lottie. Congratulations! How wonderful. I’m so happy for you all.
@yasminesarah724
9 ай бұрын
I’m so glad you’re all safe and well ☺️ you’re well within your right to be upset and grieve the birth that you didn’t get and to question decisions. I’m a student midwife and my hospital offers a birth reflection service which people find really helpful to come to terms with what happened and why, maybe look into it if it’s something that appeals to you❤ sending all my love x
@nancycronin601
10 ай бұрын
Gorgeous little Lottie. Congratulations to all. Your Mom looked so happy holding her. Thanks for sharing and Merry Christmas. 🎄🎅🎄
@michelleheffner632
9 ай бұрын
Congratulations, she's beautiful!
@queenpk5003
9 ай бұрын
Charlotte, I am so sorry you had that not so great experience during labor and birth. Your baby girl is so cute and precious. I think she looks so much like her dad. You are going to be a great mom. I know your entire family is excited.
@anatolia613
9 ай бұрын
Your daughter is precious and I'm so sorry about your experience, you have every right to be upset, they absolutely misjudged the situation.
@paigerinaldi1050
9 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experience. I cried with you ❤️ I also experienced labour trauma and I’m starting to feel better about the experience 10 weeks on. You are an incredible, powerful woman! Mums are warriors 🩷
@rosestathis2910
9 ай бұрын
Congratulations on your beautiful little girl!
@EE-hi4re
6 ай бұрын
Congratulations! She's adorable
@theresacian2477
9 ай бұрын
Congrats...she is GORGEOUS like her mum
@carriedavis9675
8 ай бұрын
Congratulations on your bundle of joy!!👶🏻
@dianesills5723
10 ай бұрын
Aww, so cute😊. What a lovely vlog introducing your beautiful little girl. Enjoy every moment. ❤x
@laurenjane6432
10 ай бұрын
I absolutely love motherhood too, it’s been the best thing I’ve ever done. Pregnant with number 2 now and can’t wait to do it all again ❤
@JoR00ke
10 ай бұрын
She's an absolute sweetheart, you must be so proud xx
@kipperpingsman943
9 ай бұрын
Absolutely delighted for you. Thanks so much for sharing.
@ellenrogers4846
9 ай бұрын
Beautiful story! And beautiful Lottie!
@judiec6597
9 ай бұрын
Congrats! She’s perfect!Your joy of motherhood is apparent…. No pun intended😮
@lesleygovan2606
10 ай бұрын
The biggest congratulations. She is absolutely perfect 😍
@tinabailey4083
9 ай бұрын
Precious❤️ Such a special little girl. Congratulations and enjoy every single moment🥰💕❤️
@jennifermiles6138
10 ай бұрын
What a beautiful video Charlotte, thank you for sharing your birth story and introducing your beautiful baby girl Lottie who is utterly adorable. I was crying listening and watching because it reminded me of my own beautiful baby girl being born almost 39 years. Sadly she passed almost 4 years ago, but I know that she is always with me in my heart and I so loved being allowed to share in your joy. Congratulations beautiful little family. xx
@modelmouth
9 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry for your loss ❤
@autumnmass11
9 ай бұрын
Congratulations on your beautiful bundle of joy. She is so beautiful like her mom!
@tmccartney4509
9 ай бұрын
Congratulations! She is beautiful! They grow up fast so cherish every moment.
@sandrawoodmansee5969
9 ай бұрын
Congratulations to mother and father! Beautiful baby! Wish you the very best.❤
@syrewilson6529
10 ай бұрын
Bless you, you’ve had a time of it. I also had a really bad labour and ended up with an emergency caesarean. I felt I wasn’t listened to and have lost confidence for having baby no2. I sympathise. Labour is hard mama!! Well done, she’s absolutely gorgeous. Have been looking forward to this vid! Take care xx
@laurabrown5697
9 ай бұрын
Aw I can see what a proud mummy you are and how much you are in love with her. Xxx 💗💗💗💗 Lovely video 🥰
@renateabi2662
9 ай бұрын
Awww a sweet mummy indeed. Congratulations again Model. Happy new year to you and yours
@shoshanabloom8669
10 ай бұрын
Hanks so much for,sharing with us. I am so,sorry you did not have the positive birth you expected but look at this darling Lottie and how pretty she is. It was all worth it. Enjoy. 👶👶👶🥰🥰🥰💕💕💕
@michellejasper759
10 ай бұрын
Awww she’s absolutely adorable and beautiful! She’s arrived into a very much loving family. Congratulations 🩷🩷🩷xxx
@letyswanson2376
10 ай бұрын
Charlotte you have every right to feel the way you feel. It’s your story and your feelings. I teared up with you , because I felt your frustration and sadness. You are so adorable with her and real. You did win the lottery, you actually won your Lottie - ry. Congratulations on your beautiful baby. Enjoy every minute, time goes too fast. Blessings. ❤️
@martharaczkowska
9 ай бұрын
Little lottie is beautiful and you look so well ,and she’s worth every little bit of pain best Christmas present ever good luck with your lovely little family xx
@lynnehewitt920
10 ай бұрын
You are right and should have been listened too. You have every right to be upset. Keep talking about it to help come to terms with it.
@katefawbert1116
9 ай бұрын
Congratulation to you Charlotte Thank you so much for sharing your story. The maternity unit, and the staff involved, should know how you experienced their care, to review and improve. Send them a link to you video. She is gorgeous!
@cindyperez1066
9 ай бұрын
Oh my goodness! She is adorable Charlotte. Thank you for sharing. I think she like her daddy’ 😮
@JoanneLass
9 ай бұрын
Aw Charlotte! The emotions are still so raw for such a long time. You did amazing and you are obviously a great Mum. I had a similar scenario with my first where I was stopping my body pushing because they didn’t believe I was ready. I didn’t realise until after and it made it so much harder when they did actually want me to push. My contractions had stopped and I was just pushing for the hell of it and ended up with a 2nd degree tear. When it came to my second I warned them I’m going with my body this time…and they were like yep you’ve done this before you go with your body! I wish they listened more to first time mothers, we know our bodies! Regardless if we’ve done it before or not. You enjoy all the cuddles, soak it all up. My biggest advice is you know your baby better than anyone else and trust your gut xx
@andreapeaty8745
9 ай бұрын
Beautiful video, so pleased everything turned out well, i did get concerned when we didn't hear anything for awhile. Love the name Lottie Rose too. Looking forward to seeing her progression, keep the updates coming xx
@ClaudetteHanglan
9 ай бұрын
Bless you. I am feeling upset for you. Congratulations to you and Lou on your beautiful baby girl ❤
@caramullaney2043
10 ай бұрын
Charlotte you are just glowing with happiness and pride ❤ and so you should be as she is just perfect. It brings back lots of lovely memories from when my two were that little which feels like such a long time ago now. Motherhood really suits you.x 💕
@michelleflynn8785
10 ай бұрын
So cute I knew you’d be a good mom, because your mom is a good mom. I’m sure you will be close with your daughter for life like you and your mom. How exciting!
@kyracl7318
9 ай бұрын
Bless you! Thank you for sharing xxx
@lisalynn1881
10 ай бұрын
Congratulations Charlotte, she is a little piece of heaven. Loved the look on your Mom's face, beautiful. Wishing you all the most magical Christmas 🎄 xxxxx
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